How NOT to Confuse Being Used with Being Loved

[@adamroth719]

You are so right, I can’t believe this is happening. I’m so done with her. I will not take this abuse anymore 😢

[@ritadoran5039]

Evening Dr Rhoberta This is very important men can fool women so easily its a sneaky technique they may use our kindness to gain all the benifits. So you are teaching us be clear of the difference. Thank you sending you love and light

[@JohnBillingsley-z1r]

That's a two way street

[@Tbn48ibp]

I had a widowed I was dating and I felt breadcrumbed. I got his “leftovers” when he was done with vacations with his kids, when he wasn’t busy camping trips with friends, when he wasn’t working. I should have seen the red flags early in our dating …attached to his phone all The time. Not focused on me…well only when it served HIS needs!! Selfish guy. He begs me to go back to him and my sanity is worth more than this

[@pamelameltonhuff583]

I have there hijacks. I finally dint care anymore it hurt for a long time this year 2024 I will be spending my holiday with new friends that I want to give something to and appreciate them also Christmas and Thanksgiving stay away from the hijackers grandkids always giving them something they just take it and walk away these are grown people in their forties no more nothing for them their users finally I don't care I used to cry over it everyday now I don't care I also don't care about staying in my home to leave it to a bunch of users that will just sell it when I pass away I'm going to make the choice to sell my home take the money and live my own life what's left of it their users I finally feel good about letting them go I don't care

[@noface3928]

Rest in Peace Doctor 😢 You saved me from a lifetime of pain

[@ckcares8067]

Yes, u are so precious...U care about those of us who have been deceived...but u are helping us to break that cycle of abuse. I am in the process. It takes time but freedom is beckoning. Thank u. 💟💟

[@Mehmet-rw9bu]

That was really eye opening, thank you so much Dr. It always amazes me how predictable all emotional abusers are. I was able to set a tick on all ten points.

[@chilloften]

Very important topic. I just love that oval stone ring on your left middle finger, so gorgeous. You feel like one of the kindest, softest, of souls out here.

[@cor3944]

It felt like a gambler addiction. But it can happen again. We all are longing for love. Heartbreaking. Thank you for your videos.

[@cathyjennings5580]

They NEVER ASK IF SHE HAS ANY TIME to give to them. Being she is overburdened with NO TIME

[@nicolelauderdale3919]

I felt this too hard

[@shirleyguinyard8183]

My Narcissist Husband wakes up in the morning saying Negative Things to me he never tells me he loves me 💔

[@kellyandaaron2005]

Heartbreaking 😔

[@lynnglass575]

You deserve better you need to know that

[@andrewmass1414]

Unbelievable but true. Always one way street. My dad and my spouse. 😢

[@cathyjennings5580]

Power Status & CONTROL 😮😮😮😮😢.

[@leahv.2537]

All things I've experienced! 😢🤦🏾‍♀️

[@cathyjennings5580]

She is baited. Lured. & hooked by the predator. The hunter. He is hunting for servants. The tenderhearted sweethearts. 😮😮😮😮😮😮 WAKE UP. SEE THE WHOLE PICTURE. BE COME SMARTER.

[@debralondon2402]

Helpful info. Thanks

[@samued]

I am interested in hearing your take on a person who has a failure to launch, who constantly needs to be rescued (often monetary), and guilt trips you with constant stories or situations why they need help.

[@christinerobertson9596]

This is hard to see in your children. My ex used to say, "Gimmee gimmee, my name is Jimmy." "I may not always be right, but I'm darn sure I'm never wrong." And at the end when I wanted to go to counseling, he said, "I ams what I ams, I like what I ams." I had severe pneumonia and he was out at the bar or making chili for his friends.

[@cathyjennings5580]

Dishonors her needs & wishes. They just intend to USE U for their EGO IMPORTANCE. USE HER TIME & ENERGY & HER BODY . & ABANDON HER in her time of NEED. NOT LOVED. USED. NOT LOVING. NOT LOVE. Correct?

[@Winner1-c2u]

I was a Brownie too. Remember the Brownie story. Based my life around that darn story.

[@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih]

+ got another one. They infantilise you. I now Know any Vulnerability we use they Then use To have that Power. So treating us like a child who doesnt get Wisdom from God Is a Danger As we make Them our God. As they Shame & guilt you. + Any tiny thing; a Proper ADULT relationship, would Sort out Grows and festers as No mutuality that you taught me. & with no Empathy Theres no Real Relationship Just dread & fear As if we are back to being that sad overpowered child who was abused. ACON Jude Who is Now a Thriver Thanks to God. Im now out that pit of blindness.

[@brigitte2217]

Much love from Germany. I'm completely destroyed 😢 wish you well 👏

[@debralondon2402]

True. Wow 😢

[@HRPFayetteville]

Yeah, and then when you try to tell him OK? Well, if you're telling me that you didn't say something. Then you're calling me a liar, and I'll be like I'm not calling you a liar. Okay, if I'm telling you that you said something. And you're saying you never said that you're calling me a liar? They don't get it for some reason, the connection is not there.

[@Anonymous-cm9md]

Thanks!

[@KleeKaiPuppies]

Truth✅💯

[@ilariaciavatti9131]

❤

[@debralondon2402]

Amen

[@RENZO1444]

🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

[@PricklePrice]

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