How Not to Let Ugly Situations Mess You Up | Sadhguru

Responding to a question on the negative influence of growing up with quarreling parents and in an atmosphere that is bereft of love, Sadhguru says that we cannot determine what life throws at us, but what we make out of it is entirely our choice. He also adds that especially if your parents have lived badly, you must ensure that you never ever commit the mistakes that your parents committed.
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[@sonidoesstuff2318]

"You cannot fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow".. something so simple, yet so powerful. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏

[@afghanistannaveen]

Q1

[@MAXLUIZME]

There is no dreams if there's no sleep... go to bed !

[@adityatapi7513]

I ❤️ you

[@reneangulo5550]

😳

[@niamkedaniel3593]

Fact

[@theyogisguide2685]

“When pain, misery, or anger happen, it is time to look within you, not around you.” - Sadhguru

[@terrytan4330]

This is so true. You have a choice in whether to continue becoming ugly or use it as an experience to become wise.

[@mehdisalehani]

I believe so based on experience

[@Niqua10023]

Wow! That's deep. I needed this. Thank you.

[@Ilovedogsonly]

Truee

[@shubhamrohit7287]

How

[@juliestorrie4492]

Sending love from Scotland. Love your sari. I grew up in violence and I was always very shy. At 16 I got pregnant with a 40 year old and took on a step son and 3 step daughters. I have been loyal and committed for 29 years, but since turning 40 I have been coming out my shell realising that shame I’ve carried all my life wasn’t mine, through yoga and self love I have been healing myself and a year ago today.. I walked away from 29 years. I have spent the last year re parenting myself and forgiving abusers. I have constantly been working and living wage to wage but I know that I will be okay and I am grateful I have this chance to change my life 🙏

[@kumarashura6621]

Well you have got it hard from quite tender age..hope now u can be at peace 🙏

[@kayhalsey]

Much love to you and your work that you are accomplishing!!!

[@nainau6204]

god bless you

[@WhiteMetal_]

Wish if i could hug you

[@Indianvideoguy007]

Kindly share the path and journey of healing through yoga meditation. it would immensely benefits many in need of it Jai Guru dev Aum Sairam

[@1endlesssoul]

Life is 10% what happens to us, and 90% how we react to it ✌🏽

[@mrkhan3504]

If you did not react, you are same as a dead person. Its depends on good things happens to you or bad.

[@lover9568]

Mr. Kan Response exists* keep your unpopular opinion into your pocket.

[@mrkhan3504]

@@lover9568 do I care my opinion popular or not ?? Dont mock yourself here. I'm saying things will happens, sometimes you really have to react.

[@user-zu6ts5fb6g]

exactly the opposite, but those 10% makes a key difference

[@rayleensmith8314]

So true !!

[@One-ct3xe]

It's almost frightening how often one of his talks is released at just the right moment in my life. Probably everyone's lives, the whole world is a volatile situation lately I suppose. Much love to you Sadhguru!

[@Manes-Ancestrales]

❣️♥️❤️❣️♥️❤️❣️♥️❤️

[@SombR3ro]

same here!

[@ArshpreetKaur-mm5qd]

I agree.

[@meldais1]

Feel you man on this. I hope things improve for you!!

[@parasagarwal1046]

Same here.. going through my worst phase

[@escapism6529]

I'm so happy I found this man at 20 years old. Changing my life

[@xaviersson5825]

God bless you

[@greennation6523]

You are very lucky. Please make use of all this.

[@truthseeker550]

@@xaviersson5825 🤣🤣🤣 Are you really??

[@xaviersson5825]

@@truthseeker550 😝😝

[@mahapc3489]

Me at 25 years

[@TarunGoyal4ever]

I recently realized that if you don't react to negative situations for 10 minutes, your perspective of looking at it will automatically change and you will react in a much better way... Thank you!

[@jyotidalmia8055]

But how do I stop reacting?

[@luanaricks7366]

so very true, here in America, everyone has an opinion and for some reason feel the need to express it, even when not asked. i feel ppl do this out of loneliness and desire for connection. often times it can lead to conflict because they don't realize its ok to have a difference of opinion, this doesn't mean they can be friends or just quietly accept what the other person is saying as simply a different perspective.

[@AuthorpreneurIITian]

@Tarun Goyal how you control your reactions? Some tips?

[@abhishekghosh4384]

@@AuthorpreneurIITian express them through your breath instead of your actions..

[@fatalexcerpts]

@@abhishekghosh4384 that riles some people up when you sigh though. but i agree this is a great way to let it pass through you.

[@Ilovedogsonly]

I needed this. Been hurt all my life. No support. Toxic family toxic people toxic life. I have no one to hold my hand. I have me. Watching sadhguru has really opened my mind. This is life. Not heaven.

[@dj-ux1jr]

Life is actually heaven, you have good food good music to groove and even beautiful girls all the qualities in which heavens are described ...taking you dont belong to a country which is constantly at war then its a different story ...love

[@yogaveera]

"There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create tomorrow" I'M BLESSED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO

[@JonKonik11]

Yes or no? Isn't it? Hello?

[@yogaveera]

@@JonKonik11 😁✌️

[@fmm177]

Thats it

[@jungleebushcraft]

Words...just words...

[@guptahansini8336]

@@JonKonik11 ¹

[@vajratara1505]

“ Don’t keep on looking at the rear-view mirror for ever “. 🙏

[@issadiawara38]

Lol 😆😆😆😆😆😆mate

[@moeedraja2462]

This guy is the man .....

[@nayanahirwar4194]

" what the world throws at us is not necessarily your choice, but what you make out of it is entirely your choice. "

[@chazmoel369]

My brother told me anxiety is from the future depression is from the past present is a 🎁. Stay present 💞

[@sketchwithsagarg]

That's a zen saying. It's quite famous.

[@beenachand5763]

Past is memory future is imagination and present is experience-. Sadhguru

[@manastalksessions1053]

Some things are more complex than this.

[@rishbahkohli849]

This is exactly the wisdom I wanted to know

[@kabirsingh2459]

👍🏻

[@anishaadhikari6789]

Me tooo

[@anishaadhikari6789]

Sadhguru knows what his followers want.

[@kabirsingh2459]

@@anishaadhikari6789 nahi yr, he knows what is right to live this life to our utmost brilliant experience

[@kabirsingh2459]

@Abdullah Ali Khan I’m glad to hear that brother

[@DivineSignals]

You can't control what people do to you but you can control your response and your action to the situation 💖 Very brilliant, Sadhguru 🙏

[@thefounders]

thank you Sadhguruji 🙏🙏🙏

[@yogaveera]

Today is brother's day... Or Anna's day.... Happy Anna's day to all the Annas🔥

[@Vivek-mq1gf]

😃💐👍

[@kunalkumarjaiswal]

Anna

[@yogaveera]

@@Vivek-mq1gf 😀

[@VidhathShetty]

Happy brothers day Anna 🎉🎉🎊

[@Divyansh_847]

Same to u Anna🙏

[@YogiMystics]

" Life is a process, not a problem. The question is only, have you prepared yourself for the process or not." - Sadhguru 🙏

[@mysticdimension8848]

Love from NEPAL sudhguru..🙏🙏

[@askefantenthefool8050]

It reminds me of Gandalf explaining to Frodo, while they are deep inside a dark cave. Frodo: I wish the ring never came to me, i wish none of this would happen. Gandalf: So do all who live to see such times, but that is not for them to decide. All we have to do, is to decide what we will do with the time that is given us❤️🙏

[@SabeeraHausa]

“What the world throws at us is not our choice but what we choose to do with it is our choice”.

[@rupapreetha]

That’s true we cannot blame the situation ... best thing possible for us ... is to find the good things from the bad that happens to us ... if u sense a problem give your fair share of try and if nothing is working 1. Sit and analyze.. 2. Learn from mistake 3. Then make a plan b... this will keep u diverted for some time 4.divert from ur low energy cos no problem is worth spoiling our life ...5.move on for the better

[@rockingcreation8896]

His words sometimes make me cry..Thank you and love you Sadhguru

[@DeepakRathoreProject]

Thank you Sadhguru 😇🙏

[@achaladka7225]

Shimla hai ghar mera 😅

[@JonKonik11]

Yes or no? Hello?

[@judithrusso6613]

I am so happy I came a cross you Sadhguru thank you so much 🙏🏻😇

[@SwayingWithTheSoul]

Make this one belief, that life happens for you..Universe is always working out for your ultimate good..🙏❣️

[@keithc1]

Not true

[@meg369]

Pretty amazed at how the right video finds you at the right time. This is just what I needed to hear at this moment

[@leratokgang]

Always

[@amit_patel654]

I've realized that there's only 3 things I can control in my life: 1) what I focus on (what I'm looking at) 2) what actions I take 3) how much effort I put in Everything else is out of my hands.

[@christianinfinity8206]

This is really really really important especially in the US, so many kids just blame everything in the past and don’t change. And then they lose faith and belief based on past experiences!!

[@gopalsolanke8703]

Sadguru gives absolute clarity.

[@natalieedwards919]

“There is no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow” I pray for strength to hold onto this wisdom 🙏🏽

[@harshitjain4006]

If u face ugly situation u will also become ugly or choose this as a manure to blossom into a wonderful flower. Choice is ur. There is no ideal situation. Sadhguru❤️🙏🏻

[@ajithbharathvaajlr8364]

Sadhguru .... this is apt for my day thank u so much

[@firstprinciples994]

I and i alone am responsible for everything i feel.😇

[@user-nq2sw6sg8q]

This explanation come at the right time.

[@Jana-zp4to]

I had to hear this this morning. Thank you ⭐🌻

[@81179venky]

Where there r 2 people there is an issue..What a line...🙏

[@1endlesssoul]

Maybe you’ve been assigned this mountain to show others it can be moved 🏔

[@garyhill4212]

Being constantly so frustrated, when I move mountains with less.

[@rayleensmith8314]

💯💯💯

[@parklife101]

Love this

[@lilclipp2423]

I teared up reading that.

[@manjiripandit7165]

No

[@Ujjayanroy]

totally agreed, though it is really hard in certain circumstances...still

[@Anna-sx1gs]

Wonderful words of inspiration for a monday❤️🥰

[@rushikeshhindusthani4086]

Shiv Shiv Mahadev Shambho..😌🙏

[@rdahlinger4509]

That’s such a good point. Recognizing when someone else isn’t living well but I didn’t realize the irony of not being mindful in my own life. Thanks for your video

[@akshaybalod7842]

I was going through harsh situation then sadhguru 👣🛐 come with this video 💛

[@jungleebushcraft]

And now your life is even worse....

[@rajeshwar3317]

You're most influential person in my Life sir

[@Katice634]

Less than 2 minutes in and I see what he’s saying. It’s up to us how we feel and what we do. The choice is ours. Simple but true.

[@sushan1051]

Sadhguru Shambho 🙏❤️

[@traciehall1975]

Thank you, you always put perspective life, I wish I found you as a teenager, but I am over the moon that I found your wisdom now. Love to everyone all over our beautiful world.

[@rohitbhat326]

Tune in the beginning.... Uffff... It's in the end of an another video of Sadhguru (titled- learn to be alone) It's just .... 🙏🙏🙏

[@sagarparmar7116]

if you find some where, react to msg

[@avygeorge4426]

I choose happiness ❤️

[@theadamra5771]

Good be happy! Bless

[@gbubemia]

"The privilege of being a human being is the fact that we have the intelligence to determine what our experience in life should be. Other creatures are in a natural instinctive state of compulsive reaction. ... most humans are also in a compulsive state of reaction." -Sadhguru. That's powerful!!!

[@daniellev5264]

That is so true!!🙏You have the choice, how to react..☯️

[@rahulchoudhury3957]

You have a choice to act, you don't have a choice when you react.

[@jeannethisdale2399]

You cant fix a yesterday but u can create a tomorrow Very powerful thought. Thank you.

[@borneo_07]

Blessed are those who came across this soul!

[@SydMountaineer]

Sadhguru said something that would be a PERFECT response to someone who is arguing with you in bad faith, or is blaming you (playing the blame game which is not effective communication, a waste of time), where they bring up past things YOU did to deflect what they did, when the discussion is about something in the present, they do this to avoid admitting a mistake or taking responsibility for their own actions - A great reply to make them stop and think would be: *"There's no way you can fix a yesterday, but you can create a tomorrow."*

[@BiologyNEET]

Thankyou Sadhguru ji🙏

[@MRJStar-ke8nj]

@Muhammad Nazeem we welcome you brother❤

[@ranisatarupanayak5408]

Mam so glad to see you here

[@jmarieflowers]

Oh Thank you so much !! All this love for free.. Much appreciated 🙏

[@yh-sf5wg]

Im speechless! thank you for your wisdom, presence and existence. My heart is full with love and gratitude

[@lifeisagift2020]

Soo profound... External input is not always equal to internal output under conscious state of mind, trying my best to maintain this balance... Thank you Sadhguru

[@dianac2596]

This video opened my eyes and mind so much! My perspective has change unbelievably. Thank you, Thank you! 🙏❤️

[@odyssey8631]

You know, I’m going through some difficult situation and this is something keeps me away from reacting to the situation and instead thinking and responding to it 🙏🙏

[@deepakjangid3872]

Healing power in his words is unbelievable. You are great Sadhguru Ji! 🙏🏼

[@nilminidaemen]

Thanks guru i am sri lankan buddhist. You are so wise. I like you very much. I watch daily your videos.

[@jayshreekrishna.8280]

This is one of best sessions.

[@aditiverma5280]

What a video this was Sadhguru 🙏🏼 .... SO INSPIRED

[@joanofarcxxi]

Just at the right time. Thank you Sadhguru. Much love from California. Bless you.

[@jlj777]

A very wise man saying wise things as usual !

[@natukohunter]

Omg the wisdom that Sadhguru gave in this talk is far more than what title says. He gave a wonderful insight on how to live a lives. Your perception is totally happened within you, and ONLY YOU can decide whether it's joyful or miserable. Thank you Sadhguru!

[@raunitsingh676]

I dont think we can thank this guy enough for the wisdom he has imparted in us

[@jeanniecampbell1374]

Love his straight honest answers .thanks for posting .

[@aashish616]

Although this applies universally idk how but this was exactly what I needed to be reminded about and sadhguru team posted on the same. Amazing how life finds expression and things just make sense at the right time with the right context to it.🙏🙏

[@sapnapillai9086]

Doing exactly just this...the lady s speech is spot on.Thank you Sadhguru❤️❤️❤️👍💐👍💐🙏

[@formlessavatar5220]

Wow... I needed this, and the world answered. Thank you. Love from Sydney

[@naturallyjoon]

Thankful that I came across this video. Much love for wonderful giving. I try to find my way to listen Sadhguru whenever I get disturb to remind myself that I should be the person who I am. And not what others want I to be.

[@sookshmasarode3325]

love your message sadhguru. Thank you so much.❤😊

[@rohanrajah8839]

Every person reading freud and another xyz, have all become psychologist. They believe that they can bring people to their absolute potential. Life is about making mistakes and learning from every experience. No one has the Bible of life, we are all on our journey. Let's make this our best journey ever. Always a feeling of joy listening to the talks.. In simple and profound manner. Thank you so much.

[@stevenr6874]

Pain is a great teacher.

[@blissfullife5911]

Wonderful Sadhguru. With your grace I am ready to create the next moment and the next moment and the tomorrow the way I need.I am blissed out and grateful for ever. The world needs this bliss and people have to experience the bliss beyond their small framework of their body and mind. Thank you for rubbing in your bliss on to me Sadhguru.

[@imchl]

I love you Sadhguru. I hope more people listen to you and find their alignment. Thanks you for enlightening the world with your light and wisdom 🙏

[@kabirsingh2459]

You are my true Bhagwan , Sadhguru ji

[@energy0271]

My Guru... My-master🙏❤️ Thanks so much for everything 🙏🙏🙏.

[@k.kavisyog6078]

Thankyou mere pyare Sadhguru ji......ashirvad dijiye.....

[@user-nt4nm4fb3u]

Thank you!! ❤🙏Love, peace, joy & Bliss with you all...

[@tanyadebarrosviana5285]

I love listening to your wise words and guidance 🙏

[@debasishghoshsays]

Just what I needed today...thank u sir

[@sailajarama7031]

Love you Sadhguru I will remember this words always

[@rahullou3387]

This hits hard more than you can think. And a very gladful hit, it is. 🙏

[@SombR3ro]

thank you for your wise words and wisdom 🙏🙏🙏

[@ripombanerjee1835]

Thank you ...❤🙏

[@ChrisMaraisLibra]

So much truth in this 🙌🙏 Become strong and make positive choices

[@aishwaryaug9351]

My goodness!!! There is so much of wisdom in your words sir🙏🏻

[@srividhya7765]

True Sadhguru sometimes our own choices we choose are wrong but start blameing our own choices whatever it is. Instead of solution for that we still go deep into blameing!

[@upgradeyourconsciousness747]

You can't fix yesterday, but you can create tomorrow..Very wise and true statement...Thank you wise man.🙏🏽

[@friendzforlyf]

Thank you I needed to hear this 🙏💐

[@anjalisankar4925]

Oh my God....The same happened with me........Truly amazing....Feel like blessed one or the other way.. I was in need of an advice for a question I couldn't ask anybody so far...........I was feeling low deep inside for a concern I couldn't share with anybody so far......But got the answer the same day I was so depressed ......Past is past as you said.......Thank you so much for what you are doing......

[@geetasingh1960]

Sadhguru day starts with you and ends listening to you. Everything echoes whole day and empower me! Also feel your presence every moment and energised like a shield around me!

[@danacothron3749]

What eye opening words of wisdom. These challenging lessons about life that Sadhguru throws our way are gifts from the heart. This positive energy has improved my will being tremendously!! Thank you

[@eminayiden]

Needed this reminder so badly today. Thank you

[@rosered8231]

Thankyou I needed this🙏

[@boozy638]

Bliss your heart❤❤

[@cmcgrew28]

Much love ❤️

[@thunderstorms2883]

"You can't fix your past" I got it 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@risewithlove7125]

I am grateful to have you impacting so many lives at scale. The same scenario was also there with me but thank god I chose to not to become same.