How Often Is Intimacy a Right for the Wife? Shaykh Sulaiman al-Ruhaili (حفظه الله)

[@Tazz580]

Excellent. Much needed video. Many women experience neglect of this sort.

[@Azothoth827]

I m so proud that i cant understand small amounts of it.

[@musafirghayrmaeruf1]

Now go and find me videos detailed like this from other religions! Islam is the only religion that speaks about these matters in detail. This is from the proof of islams truth. Noone who made up a religion would go into such detail.

[@bagas_ww]

Jazakallahu khairan wa barakallahu fiikum ya akhi

[@ibrahimismail3338]

جزاكم الله خيرا

[@Ummsalama1234]

Sorry I forgot that the shaykh mentioned the correct opinion which is maintaining chastity.

[@Azothoth827]

it seems like that umar(RA)'s dialect was different ,he said "ma adri" whereas we are taught "la a3rif" in MSA which i think is based upon prophet's dialect(SAW)

[@sportsnewz5608]

Ma Adri is also used in fusha.. Ma in fusha can be to used mean what or as a form of negation. Umar RA and our Prophet Muhammad SAW both spoke the Qureishi Dialect of Maakah and Allah knows best.

[@8noisyddawgs270]

jazakAllah

[@SM_TheTraveller]

What if she doesn’t like to have intercourse ?

[@khanhamid3744]

Then divorce

[@Azothoth827]

most normal women do,either she has some other issues or doesnt likes you.

[@Ummsalama1234]

Can someone explain how this opinion is justice? He has right over her each day because he only has one wife, why would she then have right over him only after every four days? If he would have other wives she shares his rights with other wives. But with one wife it’s not the case.

[@goat2051]

Its because the urge for intimacy is strong in men rather than in women. A woman may be intimate with her husband everyday but (I'm talking about her right of intimacy over him) but it generally is not necessary because they don't have that strong a urge. But then women have hormones both pre and post menstrual cycle that makes them want intimacy and women are often shy to complain when their husbands don't engage with them, therefore it is a right over their husbands.

[@jadedpaladin6685]

Men generally have much more frequent and stronger sexual desire than women. That's how.

[@Ummsalama1234]

@@goat2051 hmm, do you have any proof for this from the Quran and Sunnah and the scholars that she has this lesser right in Islam because of the reason that you mentioned?

[@ahmedaghadi8281]

After every four days ( which is minimum ) is for intimacy. For other things like providing for food, shelter, etc is for every day.

[@wardaomarkhan489]

The right of husband and wife both is to remain chaste. So a husband's right is everyday on his wife and his wife needs his permission for keeping non obligatory fast. So that he keeps himself chaste and doesn't fall into error. Scientifically it is also more difficult for a man to hold his sexual urge compared to woman. A woman has psychological urge, whereas a man has both psychological and physical sexual urge, which is more prominent and obvious than a woman and Allah knows best.