How Religious Narcissists Gaslight You

[@keithwittman4741]

I'm am now teaching my children about narcissistic personality disorder and the warning signs.

[@Carolinekatongo]

Same here teaching my boy and helping him to b controlling his rage.

[@yuu_miran]

How old are your children? Ive been wondering recently what age is perfect for them to understand the complexity of this phenomenon🤔

[@RADHIKAAAAA-n2q]

Dr.Ramani🎉

[@khodormattar4293]

Good. Very good. As have I 👍

[@angelinaabarca9701]

​@@yuu_miranI'm a grandma, and may i suggest everything that everything a narcissist is, don't be, and make sure to really think who you're children are around them growing up,their morals same as yours,if they are a blessing. We are all living in a world of lovers of oneself, and they are going to deal with SOO MUCH with narcissist people, where they like KNOW THAT AIN'T RIGHT, BECAUSE WHEN YOUR CHILD, AND EVEN YOURSELF,TURNED 18 TO LOOK BACK AT LIFE, WE DON'T REMEMBER EVERY SINGLE DAY (not me) but we all have LOTS OF MEMORIES, PARENTS PLEASE TEACH YOUR CHILDREN ALL THE RIGHT AND WRONGS, show them which way to go, this world is not stopping at this kind of meanest, and those tablets in little one's faces, children aren't going to know even how to communicate with each other so heck with feelings you know, Myself included we ALL NEED TO GET THE FEAR IN GOD IN US, MAY YOU FIND YOUR ANSWERS IN YOUR ANCESTORS, LIKE YOUR OWN GRANDMA'S OR LIKE A GRANDMA.WHATS THEIR ADVICE,? TAKE CARE

[@joyphillips1821]

Bible says to guard your heart. This applies to the narcissist.

[@Freethnkr]

Amen!

[@earthelucidator]

Amen. The only God. And sometimes he does want us to suffer so we wake up and escape living evil.

[@earthelucidator]

​@@Freethnkr 🙌

[@sicibell]

The Bible is the absolute unadulterated spoken Word of God. Amen and amen! ❤️🙏🏼✝️

[@helz13]

Amen!! 🙌🏼

[@sarahodom7091]

Narcissists thinking you were created to serve them - oh I've experienced that. Talk about a God complex, and them thinking they are God. Amazing. My last narcissist hid his true feelings about Christianity for awhile, and was very deceptive. When those came to light, I was/am perplexed. What's it to him if I go to church? Why on earth would he care? Oh, maybe it's because he was trying to isolate me to control me better - and my first priority should be him not God. His new target for supply, he's acting all supportive of her going to church. He told her he was proud of me for going to the Eastern Orthodox church in town. I was so puzzled. He didn't like it, but I was just thinking he found that less offensive than going to the Catholic Latin Mass, which I couldn't understand why. Duh, he's doing the same thing to ensnare her, pretending he's fine with Christianity until he can ensnare her and make her choose between him or God. He was nuts to think I'd chose him over God. He tried. I walked. It was the final straw. Then he was baffled that I never came over again after making me watch a movie totally mocking my religious beliefs and insisting I find it as funny as he did. Good grief, I'm not giving up my religion for him or choosing him over God. He's truly baffled by that. Amazing. Many narcs do think you exist to serve them, like they are God. Truly astounding, but I've seen it in my family too.

[@sandrasandra2724]

The narcissists think that they are gods and they want to convince you in that: that everything they do and say is good and true! In fact, they are not religious: they just want to take the place of God in your life!

[@brianharkai0680]

Well, that's why she called me a demon and said I was evil

[@salliegallegos918]

Great insight! They contradict the first 3 commandments because they think they and their ilk are gods.

[@meredithyoung9200]

TRUE! The craziest thing is when they go to church all the time. It's so strange that they would not want to see you happy and free in God.

[@Steph-sb3ge]

That last sentence is everything. And by making them God you disobey and distance from God

[@taracannonllc]

Yes!!

[@maryw4609]

❤God would not want you to experience abuse really true thank you really rang a bell fir me 😊😊😊❤❤❤thanks

[@dsyv1110]

It's been 3 months I am out of narcissistic abuse after 6 years of suffering. Thank you🙏 god for saving me. Still not able to believe this happened to me.

[@DebraMooney-y3n]

Thank you, I needed to hear that.

[@teresarudolph1256]

This goes for narcissist parents too, only more so. Narcissist parents who are religious love to remind their children of the commandment, "Honor thy father and thy mother," and act as though that gives them unlimited rights over their children. I remember when I stood up to my mother, when she was telling me something bad (and untrue) about myself, and I told her, calmly and respectfully, that she was wrong, she would say, "You need to confess that to the priest at your next confession." She would tell me that I was in violation of that commandment any time I contradicted her about anything.

[@marysullivan1815]

Yes so many wasted years with a miserable monster who will never change

[@KatarinaDelogu-hi4fc]

Exactly..jezebel spirit 🚩🚩🚩🆘️👹👽👿👺🤮🤮🤮🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍💔💔💔😭😭😭🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@tanyadeanne164]

The Eternal desires for a husband and a wife to serve one another, He never intended for it to be a one-sided selfish narcissistic taker physical, emotional black hole.

[@Manpreetkaur-fy7oo]

Every word is true thx ji

[@vickydittfield9822]

Thank you. I’m not sure how much more I can take.😢

[@AllThingsKngdm]

The narc likes to say things like you have to forgive me it says so in the Bible 😡

[@babylonisfallen5142]

Exactly!

[@sicibell]

The Bible also says to having nothing to do with abusive people according to 2 Timothy 3. That’s that lying twisting serpent Leviathan they have on them taking scripture out of context. Forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciliation nor to treat me as you please! ❤️✝️🙏🏼

[@krisrelampagos4238]

My ex narc studied theology and graduated as a pastor, very religious and humble and nice outside but totally different inside the house. So no one believe. Everybody thinks im crazy. Still healing after 7 years

[@ekdaufin1485]

Zactly! My mother said those exact words. My father was worse.

[@angeladavis8604]

Yes, Danish. That is exactly what they say. Following them puts you in the position of idolatry.

[@Ocean1688]

Thank you for all your posts!!!!! ❤

[@Mel-ou2jg]

The Pastorette (woman pastor) told me to treat my husband with mental issues as I would if he were in a wheelchair! Because she was a narc. herself that made sense to her. ..but misery for me and the kids. Every 4 to 6 months I would have to drive him to the locked ward at the VA. 8 ys later I left him and took the kids. He made death threats to me. But here is how I finally left...His va as well as mental health dr both told me in the same words, "Just because he's disabled still does not give him the right to abuse you, there are millions of disabled people who don't abuse!" So I left. The Cult too. Also, bad advice #2 A Cult is when you give uncriticle submission to a person. Things like, "Don't go to the police". Great.❤

[@ksramyah6714]

Spot-on! Well explained

[@tulsatosca]

My dad would tell me and my brothers off about God. My dad was an atheist. When me and my brothers believed in God and Jesus, we had our own mines and beliefs. My dad would tear us down.

[@naomireid8833]

God created me a free moral agent. Abusers try to do what God never does; force me to give up my freedom of choice, my agency, my independent thought and actions and how i view the world. They think they should own/direct my thoughts and actions. Im so out of there....gone with the wind and never looking back. I am a free moral agent. Nothing less.

[@aimeejoy1317]

I seen how he'd curse and lie then wear his cross around his neck. Ha ha ha. Run, ruuuuunnnnn

[@beautypablotamarini7315]

THANK YOU I WAS ABUSED (PHISICALY ETC) AS YOU SAID HERE WHAT A CREEP!!!!!!!!!!

[@antoinettej2495]

This is absolutely the mindset or outright excuse for the consistent abusive behavior. I agree that common sense is wisdom too-and that is divine.

[@seekerofgrace2058]

True true true, worst part of being abused by n-ex was long lasting damage to my once open trusting vibrant relationship with God , I entered relationship believing he was saved & had a personal relationship w Jesus ( he lied?) but the harder we tried the worse he got, using the bible & religious community to alienate me further and increase the abuse blame & condemnation. Pure evil.

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

True. Love is love, freedom, creation, life, abundance and peace.

[@Tazazak]

Same for when he or she tells you “God is telling me/guiding me/prompting me to do this.” It’s almost impossible to argue with or question “god” and that’s why they do it. They use “god” as a weapon against you. But if it’s something that is actively hurting you, God would not want that to happen. God would not be guiding someone to do something that is harmful or abusive towards you.

[@PrettyMamaPatchwork]

God warns they will come in sheeps clothing but are ravenous wolves inside. We know they are in the world, but many have also slipped into the congregation.

[@yuu_miran]

If you are amidst narcissists you cant even be a decent human being let alone a focused Christian(which is very important to me) maybe they are a necessary challenge to learn important lessons but I believe not for a lifetime of suffering…

[@Risingaboveashes]

No offense but the Christian religion is teaching people to be these toxic controlling people.

[@merithmoon2501]

True facts 💯

[@TheKalusko]

This is one of the sickest moves from a narcissist, because messing with God in order to achieve their way is just wrong. It shows how delusional they are, thinking that they can fool even God.

[@sicibell]

They can’t outrun God, He’s God their address! ❤️

[@RandomShadow1]

It’s all fun and games until the narcissist figures it out. Then what?

[@Lyrielonwind]

That's why being with a narcissist takes you away from God. In a sense, being hooked to a narcissist is like idolatry. Not that is your fault since you have been scammed but it won't ever get you closer to God, even if that narcissist is your own mother.

[@wisemanadvices9541]

When you have narcissist relationship in your life. Remember ☝ not to serve.. But to move out from that relationship becomes your Dharma.

[@hemaJhagroe]

So true Danish 👍 and still they are so much people staying in the toxic circles

[@hopeausbyn1734]

Jezebel Spirit.

[@sicibell]

That’s right! Amen and amen! ❤

[@Carolinekatongo]

I like this nad this is a gud fact. Thanks Darnish. Pipo must know this.Narcissists choose or select what to use to use as scripture and making u believe things r ok by them pretending to b Godly while they make u away from God.

[@helz13]

My ex made me sick when he tried to emotionally manipulate me with God. I said to him "God was there all those nights you left me by myself"

[@NancylunVaiphei]

Very true

[@margaretcraigva]

My family makes that argument - that God put me with them so I have no choice but to stick around forever, no matter how they treat me. The evil has no bounds.

[@mm89472]

Thank you so much for sharing. Many blessings ❤

[@PinkGomo]

“The Bible says honor your mother and father” … oh I heard that all of the time growing up.

[@LadyGoddessSephiroth]

All of my parents' enablers pulled that crap on me. I told them, "I'm honoring them by staying away from them." Reactive abuse is real, and I know me. If I had to take care of them now bc they're old I wouldn't. I'd do unto them as they did unto me, and I wouldn't lose a wink of sleep over it. So it's best for everyone if I remain NC. That's how I honor them, and more importantly, how I honor myself.

[@yvonnes7412]

Yes, God doesn’t require anyone to remain under oppression. (Personally, I believe in God… also that God will help us escape from oppression if we make an effort)

[@Musikisbellatastic]

You're right. I know.

[@keithstewart7514]

My MoMster has Sadistically CATHOLIC tendancies

[@sicibell]

To worship them is idolatry and they are the religious Pharisees during Jesus’ ministry. Satan was the first narcissist and he is their father! Don’t drink the devil’s Kool-Aide and having nothing to do with such people, as written in 2 Timothy 3. ❤️🙏🏼✝️

[@hggtg]

AMEN LORD 🙏

[@AnglephileSwedenGerman]

Brilliant analysis, would love to hear thoughts on addiction n on using Carl Jungs methods

[@lindafolks]

Amen!!!🙏🏻❤️🕊🌟🎶💯

[@heatherwhatever7714]

My spiritual understanding was where he couldn’t move me. I’d say you’ll have to speak to God about that (meaning some _____ action he had taken.) By now he has.

[@karenlynch8348]

This is my mother! She used the Bible to condemn people. Gods love ❤️ & acceptance is to set you free

[@yamairad1]

I married because I'm not a Christian and neither is he. At the end he started talking about godly wives and being a good wife. By that point nothing worked anymore. I just wanted to escape.

[@tralalala305]

If you start listen yours intuition and when you stop watch tv or listen muzik whit wards when you start meditate listen bilinural beat solfego or silva method when you start awaking the come super nova and ... its the amazing experiance to save you from evil i have this experiance and its somthink hard to understand its big protection and teach you see the reality and tell you wgat to do to survive

[@Kizzy-t9i]

Never‼️🔥🌪️⚡️

[@rohanchoudhury8043]

What about experiencing narcissists since birth from narcissistic parents ?? No one listens to children wen your own father says negatively about you ...

[@hazelrivers7642]

So true

[@bgmiaccountseller1033]

Jesus Christ loves you bro ❤️😊

[@earthelucidator]

Only 1 God. Sorry. And sometimes he does want u to suffer so u wake up and escape living evil.

[@maiakai5459]

❤❤❤

[@jyotiyangadmotghare1843]

A big yes.Yes now when I can not leave him God has shown me what type of a man he is .God shown me your vedios and I knew why he acts in this way.Yes he says you are a woman and stay at my feet.Though I was working as an professor in the college he always wants me to serve him and work like an servant.Also he controls my money. If I say I do not have money now as I was always spending money and running th house and he was for his whole life deposited a huge amount of money and buying only the things such as cars and Ac and fridge etc for if something happens he can take those things and leave .But not spending money on food like things when one gets consumed do not remain and can not search its reminents.God has now emotionally detached me from him now

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

You know what Danish and that thing was the x narcan used to be in my life he gas like me he mistreated me he disrespect me he floats around with a lot of woman's he was messing with a woman that says church that we was going with and he gets like me act like I was nobody and I know this guy for decades since I was 10 years old so at the end of the day God removed me out of that church but I would like to go back to church but I haven't gone with the exmark for 2 years and I haven't gone to church already for almost 2 years so you know what I would like to go back to church for the exmark I just hope for the best for him or whoever supplied that he's with thank you Danish

[@ruthslater6364]

I have a narcissist father in law he's the exact person you describe!@ He can't stop talking about the Bible. He talks in parables. He drives you crazy. I had to tell him. If you want to speak to me talk like a real person in sentences STOP TALKING BIBLE PROVERBS. .

[@maggiejose5436]

I can understand I won't go with him mj

[@karenzilverberg4699]

100%

[@KL-zg7lu]

I'd rather be atheist

[@lostlikeme8779]

❤

[@Coree5911]

Sir i wana talk to you

[@Readersclub542]

To phir god me nikah hi kyu karaya. Jab sab unko pata tha

[@SriyansQuandaliusJefferyson]

🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡