How To "Act" When A Guy Comes Back Around

[@Lisa-th9dg]

Once you start fighting for someone to love you, you’ve already lost the battle. -Mel Robbins

[@lindat1317]

I love this. 🔥

[@rosannamiranda4620]

Lisa True

[@halliehuffman7551]

If you were ABLE to leave, stay gone. We good bruh.

[@Poison_Ivy22]

When a guy comes back after thinking he could do better. Just treat him like a friend or "aqaintances" and keep continuing your life without him included. They always want to come back when they fear they lost you. Not bc they miss you, but bc they miss your attention. But at that point they don't deserve your time anymore. Encourage him to treat his next girl better and wish him luck. They hate that 😂🙃 I did exactly this to a guy who didn't want me and once I agreed to just stay friends like he wished he suddenly started chasing me again telling me he regretted letting me go. I wasn't attracted to him anymore. And he only wanted me once he couldn't have me anymore.

[@Lisa-th9dg]

💯!!!

[@Poison_Ivy22]

@@suziesmith8288 exactly. Which is what I said lol. He wants only your attention.

[@laurelmalinowski1676]

In the words of Beyoncé : he only want me when I’m not there, he better call Becky with the good hair.

[@meganlangreck2488]

The "next girl" is on her own. If women don't wise the Hell up then there is no point to any of this advice. He should just know, automatically, and through the common decency we are all supposed to have, that you should not treat people certain ways or objectify them. He should know this, and women should stop playing along and helping the bar get lower and lower. It's on the ground already.

[@Poison_Ivy22]

@@meganlangreck2488 everybody learns at their own pace. And some never learn unfortunately.

[@brujalinda]

If he pulls away most likely he didn’t like you that much and just move on simple just move on don’t give him the time or day.

[@christinainthecity]

The same thing happened to me... He completely ignored me and walked straight past me without a hello for months... He had a girlfriend in a different country and had spent the entire summer with her.. When he came back home after his visit, he suddenly wanted my attention, kept on texting me, talking to me.. But when I'm gone the first time, I'm gone for good. thank you next!!

[@Theinsomniac826]

You gotta be kidding me. I look at him, laugh and say: Get the fuq outta here! Ladies never accept disrespect .

[@shaylagoogle3097]

Communication and consistency is key!!!! If a guy cant be were you are in life and it feels like its not coming together natural. I let them go! Dont have time for bs,

[@rolotomassi5139]

I had no problem calling out a guy I was seeing. I got tired of him sending me a text, I would reply, he'd read it and leave me on read. Politely I told him I considered it rude and disrespectful and that I didn't want someone in my life who believed that type of behavior was acceptable. It would've hurt, but I was ready to walk away (I didn't tell him that). The text stopped and the phone started ringing from that point on.

[@inside_the_waiting_room]

Why can’t ALL dating coaches keep it as real as you do?!👏🏼👏🏼 You are no BS, legit dating advice. There are no games in dating..I know all this already but I keep listening for reinforcement Lol Elliot you are RAD!!💗❤️

[@Sodopemarie]

Perfect timing 😂

[@jodyh2077]

Yes, here too!

[@nicolejean2294]

Me too! a guy that ghosted me last year re-liked me(bc I deleted the app and made a new profile) in the same dating app where we originally "met"😂

[@zztops3739]

These videos are breaking my heart. He doesn’t care at all. He really never gave a shit.

[@andsoitbegins464]

Then move on. You are worth so much morem

[@jamilajameli5698]

Ladies let him come back just don't be home😁

[@pinnedyfinalstand.4298]

Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

[@pinnedyfinalstand.4298]

massage him on WhatsApp

[@pinnedyfinalstand.4298]

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[@akuasalaam490]

Just don't be home.

[@sarahjaneross2918]

If he comes back as if nothing happened. Don't respond. Blocked. 😂

[@theempress8947]

Hi Elliot evertime I watch yr vids I realize what I did wrong as a young girl in my dating years....woman nowadays r so lucky to have someone like u coaching them.....

[@lisadavis7960]

Love you Elliot!!! This is so perfect to hear right now🖤

[@melissalastname]

You say, "get the hell outta here Felicia!!" and slam the door in his face. At least that's what I'd do if a particular guy came back.

[@Lisa-th9dg]

MeIissa Lastname yess!! 🙌

[@lindat1317]

🤣👍

[@_Diaryofwealth]

😂😂😂😂

[@pr5160]

Perfect timing Elliot!! Thanks!!

[@tonitaquetaparks3304]

I'm not telling him anything if he doesnt have any respect for me. I just leave that is how we look desperate wanting a guy who doesnt want us. Usually from the very beginning how he acts is how you are going to lose him. Sad but true

[@Strwby04girl]

We have amazing dates and he texts sweet... but if I don’t hear from him for one whole day I sort of get concerned... I talk myself down buuuuut...

[@miss_chelseamarie]

Same sis 😣

[@dior.shanaa3711]

I act nonchalant

[@alexandra9985]

Would be "just not to respond" to his text messages, would that be ok?

[@Sarablueunicorn]

Interesting how people see relationships like something temporary. The girl who hooked him on first night probably satisfied his needs pretty well but he didn't like her and dumped her when he had enough, that's why she was "awesome". I can't grasp the sake of being in a relationship with no goal, for the sake of being.

[@rosannamiranda4620]

Tell him you're not interested and block and move on :)

[@melany.muraour]

I think this is the best video you've done ☺️✅

[@vanessaclaire999]

Im happy I found you on this KZbins thing. I watch you for your cynical bubbly personality. Cognitive behavior and such things are fascinating to me. And to honestly hear it from a dudes mouth like that is pretty helpful. Your delivery is on point. Thank you 🌹 🤣🤟

[@lisadavis7960]

Lol.... guy says “I’m fucking done with this ....” 😂 You crack me up sometimes but you’re so on point!!!

[@rebeccajohnson5658]

An ex told me that I was " needy and clingy". Then the ex asked me for his space and time.

[@okaykell]

I wonder if Elliot is my favorite dating coach because he told me that he is or if he just is 😊

[@ElliotScottDating]

I better be 🤣🤣😅

[@Shtisbananas]

I'm such a superfan😆😅... You tha best, Elliot!!😘

[@marhiney_kaye]

Baby, I subscribed cuz u was gonna love me "forevah", but who the hell are these other 142,999 ladies?😂😂😂

[@alondra8680]

Thanks for the advice Elliot! Also, I just joined the university. You’re so smart love youuuu 💕

[@MsGechi77]

Run! 🏃

[@Prisy087]

I really think some ( a lot ) of guys need to grow a pair those day’s. They are becoming more complicated then a woman is . And a woman is really very simple .

[@d.m.schwarzer3729]

It s really not anymore about that he doesn t want to be with me, snd made that clear, what really makes me mad is that he is trying to come back all the time. I mean I told him to F off like 10 times now, and the dude just doesn t get the message. ... That s what pisses me off.

[@andsoitbegins464]

Block him. And move on. Don't play his game.

[@meganlangreck2488]

My God I will take the 'Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind' treatment instead of trying to relate to these mutants. I wish it was real.

[@1ofnoother]

Elliot, were you seeing or talking to other women when you went out with the girl you hooked up with the first night or was she the only one you were talking to/dating at the time?

[@Christian.goth.]

Hii im liking this guy and just found this vid thanks alot😂😂😂

[@warrenjoseph9339]

THANK YOU 🤠👊

[@lilethm.alvarez7330]

Perfect timing.

[@gracielachavez4150]

I went on like 4 dates with a guy but like each time we'd hang out the next day too. And when I asked him about if he saw things going further he never texted me back. Do I only say something if he texts me again? Because I feel like I deserved better than that.

[@Lotusflo90]

If he didn't text back about it then don't say anything and go with your gut if you feel you deserve better than him then most likely you do and move on

[@andsoitbegins464]

You DO deserve better. Move on.

[@samanthalake5011]

Suspicious....what does he want?🤔

[@jenniferbrown8490]

Love your videos Elliot🤗!! My guy started pulling away a few weeks ago. First time I questioned him he said he was busy working. This last time he told me "He misses me but has to get his head right" so I'm not sure what to do. Its been 3days I never responded back after he sent that text

[@jenniferbrown8490]

@Jennifer Franklin-Kirkpatrick Thank you!💜

[@thaliaramirez2522]

@Jennifer Franklin-Kirkpatrick you've totally watched mathews videos right? Cause samee

[@Lotusflo90]

Yes perfect but don't write i understand... because you don't understand why he's ghosting and saying he needs to clear his head

[@arzosubhan205]

Hi elliot..plz help me I don't know what to do ..after 3 months of ignoring me I finally decided to leave him when I told him 2 days ago he told me he have depression he need a break..I don't know what to do in this situation .I just don't have feelings for him anymore..for me a break is breakup ...what is ur advice?

[@Lisa-th9dg]

Give him the time, but don’t focus on him anymore focus on yourself. Don’t wait around for him tho.

[@Kymmieee]

Move on. U wasted enough time 💯

[@arzosubhan205]

Thanks❤

[@claudettecote3553]

Depression is a serious illness. You can be compassionate but still have your own life

[@xxgraveyardxx2362]

Think I need one on one insight to my relationship lol

[@us5freaak]

ILL DEMAND WHATEVER TF I WANT AND WHO GIVES A 💩 IF I LOSE HIM

[@a.n.watson8797]

He hasn’t talk to me, and it’s been 3 months

[@Angiebee.]

This is such a great video

[@anastasijabeograd3903]

YEAH BUT EVERYTIME HE COMES BACK HE ONLY repeat that „we can have a few times sex and this is it“ HE EVEN SAYS TO ME AFTER TWO & AN HALF YEARS THAT HE DOESN‘t want a RP with me. I TRIED EVERYTHING !!! Every tactic everything !!!!! & I‘m really good looking...!!! So I don‘t get it.

[@Lisa-th9dg]

He’s coming and going cause you let him. He gets the goods and what he wants and will leave until he wants it again. Give that guy up, he’s not worth it 💗

[@anastasijabeograd3903]

Lisa YEAH but I want him so bad & I have no choice... he is good without me...

[@Lisa-th9dg]

I totally get it. I’ve been there many times, you get into one guy a lot and feel like you won’t be able to live without them. And yes it’s sometimes really really hard to try and get over them. It takes time and a lot of work on yourself. Yes you are beautiful, but girl, you deserve a WHOLE lot better!!! You will feel better about yourself once you do finally let go of that toxic relationship. At least for now work on yourself, and hopefully that will help you and moving on. 💗💗💗

[@Poison_Ivy22]

He keeps coming back bc he knows he can. He knows when his life is falling apart you'll always be there waiting for his call. He knows this so he's taking advantage of you. He says enough to keep you around but makes it clear he doesn't want a relationship. Believe him! He isn't lying sweetie. He's just using you for sex. You're not his one, but his back up. You need to emotionally break free from this man or he will continue to hurt you. And you are beautiful which is another reason why you don't deserve that! I've known guys like yours. They never change and when they do finally settle with a girl she won't be you. I'm sorry.

[@Lisa-th9dg]

Violet 923 exactly!!

[@manaltaha1195]

Sweet 🧁...

[@beebee32002]

Elliot is the course updated yet? You mentioned you were updating it so I'll wait before I buy

[@angelaward6642]

He ghosts me I’m done. I do r play games. Life is to short to waste it on someone

[@languageandmana9255]

✨🙏

[@sukiboo3016]

He never finishing his shit and always jumped one to another .. like he always do 🤷

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

First

[@kgrimes5670]

Lol @starlike

[@kristie-leecorney7388]

Xx

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

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