He Ghosted You And Returned. This Next Thing Is Crucial If You Want Him To Chase You And Lose Power

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Elliot Scott

Elliot Scott

Күн бұрын

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@2611Lover
@2611Lover Жыл бұрын
He will leave you again, he's not interested and emotionally unstable/available. Keep it moving Ladies and gentlemen
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын
Some men get lost in work bc of focus.
@Theinsomniac826
@Theinsomniac826 3 жыл бұрын
Elliot: I agree with you. Never let him back in. If it were me, I would block him as soon as he reappears. Clowns belong in the circus and not in bed next to you.
@Sugarlips321
@Sugarlips321 Жыл бұрын
Forget blocking I delete them completely out of my contacts
@xoxo-vp7ww
@xoxo-vp7ww Жыл бұрын
@Sugarlips123: deleting doesn’t stop him from having access that’s why blocking is necessary.
@Alieortwo
@Alieortwo Жыл бұрын
​@@xoxo-vp7ww Nah it is better that he sees he is not blocked but you dont care about the clown anymore. That hurts his ego. 😂😂😂
@indianiecworld
@indianiecworld Жыл бұрын
ha ha i blocked once a guy who ghosted me and tried to come back after three months and chat as if nothing even happened. We were only linked on FB, guess what, he found me on instagram somehow and tried to continue his little chat there. it felt like a whack-a mole game. Clowns will be clowns.
@Theinsomniac826
@Theinsomniac826 Жыл бұрын
@@indianiecworld The new girl he ghosted you for probably dumped him. He sounds like a loser.
@rolotomassi5139
@rolotomassi5139 2 жыл бұрын
Ignore the heck out of him and watch what happens. It bruises his ego. Now he's curious, but stop and think for a minute. Do you really want a man you have to ignore to get his attention ?
@irinaivanovic9792
@irinaivanovic9792 Жыл бұрын
THIS.
@StephNichelle
@StephNichelle 9 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@mariejones7136
@mariejones7136 3 ай бұрын
that is what I did..I dissed a guy for a few days who ghosted but for about two weeks..he got very upset but I dont care cause I dont want to be in relationship with him anyway.Its a casual friendship..we dont even have sex yet..lol
@KamieVlogs
@KamieVlogs Жыл бұрын
“I personally wouldn’t give him the time of day but you won’t listen” 😂😂😂 I clicked subscribe right then!
@evija1159
@evija1159 Жыл бұрын
And people don't get why women now chose to be single.
@777-h6n
@777-h6n 5 ай бұрын
😂
@theoneschroeder8552
@theoneschroeder8552 10 ай бұрын
The best feeling is when they come back and you reject them😂
@_Diaryofwealth
@_Diaryofwealth 8 ай бұрын
Yuuup
@mana-uv7cz
@mana-uv7cz 6 ай бұрын
I wish it felt good but honestly I am just sad it didn’t work out.
@777-h6n
@777-h6n 5 ай бұрын
😂
@StudentLife-bn8gb
@StudentLife-bn8gb 4 ай бұрын
Me 2 days it felt good to reject him when he texted bt after 3days I went back. I kept thinking about him❤❤❤❤still attached to him😢😢😢😢😢nd after talking everything seemed like nothing happened
@mana-uv7cz
@mana-uv7cz 4 ай бұрын
@@StudentLife-bn8gb it gets better with time
@mariagates473
@mariagates473 3 жыл бұрын
If someone ghost you and cones around ...do not take them back under any circumstances. ever!!
@clarasmith5717
@clarasmith5717 Жыл бұрын
Take him out and make him pay for an expensive dinner then never call him again, he deserves that 😂😂😂❤ too true!
@user_abcxyzz
@user_abcxyzz 11 ай бұрын
Not worth my time. I'll have them uber eats me a filet minion and lobster dinner, and THEN ghost them
@indianiecworld
@indianiecworld Жыл бұрын
Ghosters who come back with no remorse or even apology only deserve to be blocked. I block everyone who tries to come back after disappearing, and tries to win me over with "good morning" or "hi"
@user-yv1fh3fc8y
@user-yv1fh3fc8y 2 жыл бұрын
If they return, you were never ghosted; you are being played 😏
@sherlylim4390
@sherlylim4390 4 ай бұрын
😵‍💫
@glitcharcing
@glitcharcing 7 күн бұрын
facts lol as someone who does this
@mickijolliff7286
@mickijolliff7286 2 жыл бұрын
I want to add - don’t get attached too quickly and do not go to bed with a guy who hasn’t made a commitment to you after proving he at least cares deeply for you. There are too many guys out there who think they are entitled to sex because too many women have poor standards and boundaries.
@ericabelcher8760
@ericabelcher8760 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@recovermylife2976
@recovermylife2976 Жыл бұрын
I needed that message a long time ago I jump into bed quickly because they lie and say they love me instead of going on dates
@Alieortwo
@Alieortwo Жыл бұрын
Doesnt matter. They can wait a long long time and still f..k u up. All games these days.
@lovelock1994
@lovelock1994 Жыл бұрын
​@@AlieortwoYESSS!!! They put on such a front
@user_abcxyzz
@user_abcxyzz 11 ай бұрын
​@@recovermylife2976 listen to the actions, not the words
@POOCHIESCLOSET
@POOCHIESCLOSET 2 жыл бұрын
Being ghosted is a gift from the Universe. A guy ghosted me in 2016. After not hearing from him for a couple months he reappeared. I'm hard on ghosters, I did not answer his calls or texts. He continued reaching out to me a couple times a year from 2016 - 2020 and I still never replied. In May 2020 a couple days after his 50th birthday he ate a bullet. He was dealing with some heavy shit and I literally dodged a bullet by going "no contact" for life with ole boy. Never ever accept someone back into your life after they walk away from you. Most times they ghost you because they know they are not worthy of you. Let them be right!
@cutiepiea3687
@cutiepiea3687 Жыл бұрын
Yup he came back and said that !
@lisellesloan3191
@lisellesloan3191 3 жыл бұрын
I let a ghoster finagle his way back into my life--and guess what? He ghosted me again! Once a ghost, always a ghost--no man of substance then, no man of substance now! I hated to say it, but many men who are good-looking with a good job, and musically talented, say, think the real rules of courtesy don't apply to them, cause too many women will drool over them no matter what! Not me, though, and not you, if you're smart!
@MiaCarter7
@MiaCarter7 Жыл бұрын
Non good looking women are the same way
@Temporary3334
@Temporary3334 9 ай бұрын
Also applies to men with nothing but good looks…
@calawamleh
@calawamleh 3 жыл бұрын
I've been hanging on for years. Finally had enough. Haven't answered him in 2 months and it's driving him crazy. I'm officially done and mad as hell that I wasted so many years of my life on this loser. I will never put myself in that situation again.
@calawamleh
@calawamleh 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, But I am not interested in finding my soulmate. I am quite happy being single. I am happy you found yours :) Good luck and God bless.
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@ashrpblond
@ashrpblond 3 жыл бұрын
@@queenpatrick205 wtf are you on elliotts channel advertising for someone else he should ban you for life for this shit
@skyfall1481
@skyfall1481 3 жыл бұрын
From the jump, if they are making life difficult or not excited to meet you etc...they’re out. It’s a sign of things to come. Find another one.
@j-tenn226
@j-tenn226 3 жыл бұрын
I need to screenshot your words.
@skyfall1481
@skyfall1481 3 жыл бұрын
@@j-tenn226 play their game and play it hard. Don’t be afraid to walk away or lose them. Understand there are so many dudes out there, you don’t need to be messing around with a time waster.
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Whatzapp
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 3 жыл бұрын
Block delete self respect is key for me! He might do it again!
@YoUrLoVe902
@YoUrLoVe902 3 жыл бұрын
“But your not gonna listen anyway” Elliot is so right. 😂
@annas9720
@annas9720 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo he already knows our bs
@thepearlswirl
@thepearlswirl 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 🤣
@SofeeYAH
@SofeeYAH 2 жыл бұрын
LMAAO i love how he calls us out 🤣🤣
@nuwoman1828
@nuwoman1828 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@pappico
@pappico Жыл бұрын
When he said that line I actually felt that 😂
@Idontgothatway
@Idontgothatway Жыл бұрын
I love rejecting ghosters
@peaceofmindofpeace1650
@peaceofmindofpeace1650 6 ай бұрын
Turning bad experiences into a satisfying healing hobby 😂
@cathyzhang2769
@cathyzhang2769 4 ай бұрын
Me too.
@sonjaeriksson618
@sonjaeriksson618 Жыл бұрын
You just described a narcissist. That’s what they do. It’s better to have no contact there’s no negotiating with them . Better to not go back you will have a lifetime of misery if you do . They only care about themselves and they will never change they blame everyone else for their problems , one of the red flags of a toxic relationship.
@cyn865
@cyn865 3 жыл бұрын
This type of term is called paperclipping which means they are not interested in you and just return to let you know they still exist .
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back 💬
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp 💬
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7 💬
@allywolf9182
@allywolf9182 3 жыл бұрын
@Isabella James hey troll everybody will report you so go elsewhere
@shutit4024
@shutit4024 3 жыл бұрын
@@allywolf9182 just reported these stupid trolls
@DhahabuAO
@DhahabuAO 3 жыл бұрын
When a guy leaves I make sure I bury him meaning I make it difficult for him to come back, so that when he thinks of circling back to me he will have to think twice and put in the work to win me over again. Burying him maybe ruthless but it's a great test of his interest if he can work through the barrier you put to get back with you.
@Free2B3
@Free2B3 2 жыл бұрын
Some ppl love the thrill of the chase😓
@irinaivanovic9792
@irinaivanovic9792 Жыл бұрын
@@Free2B3Yep. Men do this all the time. That’s why I gave up dating for good.
@alescattiluxuries
@alescattiluxuries 3 жыл бұрын
Never take a ghoster back he will ghost again. I just delete and block now no time for this bs!
@unknownboo8738
@unknownboo8738 2 жыл бұрын
okay I made this mistake of being ghosted, he returned after 4 weeks, he came with so many excuses and said he was in a dark place. again all excuses as it takes a second to text back and fill me in. especially when they were active on every other social media’s every day. if you’re thinking to go back to someone who has ghosted you then do not, you will believe they want you and you will think it’ll make you stronger but I regret thinking this and giving in. I’m in the same place if not worst, they are so abusive and nasty and I can’t even get into a disagreement without being shut down and being said horrible things. if someone ghosts you no matter long the bond leave. don’t you dare give in.
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Жыл бұрын
I think maybe with ghosters, just be distant acquaintances. They said they want to be friends, ok just be friends, NOTHING MORE. Because, granted, Maybe you might like something about them as a person, and maybe you can be an acquaintance with them, but don’t build that interest in one or two small things about a person as if you like them for an entire relationship. They’re now a ghoster, that’s an identity. They’ve shown they’re capable of really bad treatment. Ghosters are abusers. Sure you can be distant friends with an abusive person as long as you set boundaries that they don’t abuse you, but don’t ever look to a ghoster for a relationship. Even if they promise the world, they are a narcissist. Know how much of an acquaintance you can even be with a narcissist. Don’t ever be in a relationship with a ghoster.
@jjc2323
@jjc2323 2 жыл бұрын
Listen to this man - do NOT let any man disrespect you or play games. Set your boundaries and standards. Honestly I’m old - and been Fd over many times - don’t even give him the time of day. I would only do this if he was sincere and actually tried.
@fiorellas5064
@fiorellas5064 2 жыл бұрын
How you know he is sincere?
@avgwhitegurl6646
@avgwhitegurl6646 3 жыл бұрын
Sept. 26th will be one year I haven't seen my ex. He tried really, really hard, but I just couldn't see him, even though I agreed many times. May 6th was the last time we spoke. It seems like a lifetime ago. I cried myself to sleep even when he was begging to see me. It was rough, but my life is so much better now and I respect myself. Don't let anyone mistreat you. You can get better! I do have to admit that another guy's actions showed me how much crap I was accepting. Date more than one guy and you won't be in this type of situation.
@DominiqueSpeaks
@DominiqueSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
“I know you’re not going to listen.” Lol Yes, this time I’m listening my guy…. I’m depleted.
@sandyg173
@sandyg173 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss. After 8 months he messages how's my life going. I knew it was him so I replied. Who is this? Don't have your number saved. Which he replies it's him. Left the loser on read like he did me. Feels good although I know he doesn't care , it does help.
@missylib5
@missylib5 5 ай бұрын
Same thing here, Me and this Man talk for months We have so much in common everything was good We was planning our future together than out of nowhere He left Me cold and dry for another Woman its hurts Me to the core and after 8 months now He texting Me saying Sorry blah blah! I will never text Him back and will ignore him until He gets tired texting Me and goes away!
@cheryls832
@cheryls832 2 жыл бұрын
This is great advice! So true. I cannot tell you how many people have accused me of being mean for having standards. Ghosting is so gutless. Pathetic that some people cannot even end a relationship.
@queenofcorporate596
@queenofcorporate596 2 жыл бұрын
Lol listen…. Big facts. Certain things are beyond repair. When you level up after being ghosted he not even coming back to the same woman. That energy ain’t the same. Lol he coming back to a ghostbuster! You hip to his games.
@coolcat3452
@coolcat3452 Жыл бұрын
You are on point; a guy ghosted me for 6 month & suddenly texted & tried to smooth his way back in hoping to pick up from where he left demanding for that benefit he was getting before ghosting me! I blocked him!!😂😂😂😂
@sxylala74
@sxylala74 3 жыл бұрын
Low quality men = zero response
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp💬
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7💬
@sxylala74
@sxylala74 3 жыл бұрын
@MOUTH LUMPYYYYYYYY NUT irony of what?? If a woman ghosts you & then comes back, why the hell would you respond?? This goes BOTH WAYS.
@User15072
@User15072 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!! I’m dealing with a ghoster for over a year, and I’m sick of him. This vid was sooo usefull. Thank you!!
@RG-hf4et
@RG-hf4et 2 жыл бұрын
Over a year?!!!! Stop it already, girl!!!
@angelinasamson6996
@angelinasamson6996 2 жыл бұрын
A year is a long time , it’s only been 10 days of bread comes for me , he does reply to but his messages are different, no emojis It’s just come to me , he’s not for me . Strong attraction for a month and then nothing
@kimt8162
@kimt8162 2 жыл бұрын
He's right; we had a coach's son who comes and goes. He flirts with so many girls. My daughter caught his attention and here we go. He spent a lot of time on her and she started to think he had a crush on her. I told her, he's not acting like a guy who "LIKES" you. His attention span is like ADHD. If he likes you, YOU ARE THE FOCUS like tunnel vision. That's not this one. He just wants to be popular.
@mimi12341234567
@mimi12341234567 7 ай бұрын
Tunnel vision, that I will need to remember
@datingdiaries1681
@datingdiaries1681 Жыл бұрын
You really have to be strong to not succumb to all of this stuff. I pray all women will one day value and take themselves seriously
@priscillaplatania
@priscillaplatania 2 жыл бұрын
If he send you a text that “he misses you don’t even reply to that shit” 😩😩🤣🤣🤣 omg you’re SO funny dude!! Amazing advice though, so good 🤍
@kayla6681
@kayla6681 Жыл бұрын
When they ghost you, come back as if nothing happened then seek revenge because you don’t let them back in and choose to walk away. That really hurts. It’s cruel.
@theoneschroeder8552
@theoneschroeder8552 10 ай бұрын
Manipulation!
@21copyCat
@21copyCat 2 жыл бұрын
how about friend zone the shit out of him when he comes back
@latoyawilson6513
@latoyawilson6513 2 жыл бұрын
This guy I was talking for weeks just ghosted 👻 me I gave him the boot 🥾 my self worth and value means much more and I deserve better. Once you leave I close the door and there’s no return..Next ✌🏿
@jewelk4986
@jewelk4986 2 жыл бұрын
I had similar happened to me, talked for weeks, and all of a sudden just disappeared. I felt like I'm just another option. And I had a feeling that he might be a player. We got to trust our intuition!
@latoyawilson6513
@latoyawilson6513 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you ladies went through the ghosting phase things will get better love yourself ❤️ I’m getting used to it as of now
@indigodande4345
@indigodande4345 2 жыл бұрын
@AliSand same
@Ella-g3t
@Ella-g3t 4 ай бұрын
Guys are jerks- you are so pretty! His loss, I think some men do this because they intentionally want to knock a woman's confidence, especially if she is beautiful, strong and confident. Don't let them take your power!
@carolynmaden4518
@carolynmaden4518 2 жыл бұрын
Love that! I have seriously listened to dozens of these types of vids over a 14 day period of being ghosted. This one resonates, he got back in touch and I told him its not for me 🙌🏼🙌🏼 just wish I'd got the free meal first 😂😂 thank you
@taniathewise8
@taniathewise8 Ай бұрын
I finally apply this stuff and your approach with no bs is so helpful filtering the wrong men🙏
@cristiancortes9
@cristiancortes9 Жыл бұрын
Yeah very smart of you women to keep investing in a guy that clearly is not really interested in you...they keep there and most end up left..ghosted..played over and over again...just walk away and try another man...this insane..you ladies have such a power to get a new one...why the hell you waiste your time, body, patience, will?
@sibi2824
@sibi2824 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't say it better darling 👏👏👌
@thespiritfont2023
@thespiritfont2023 3 жыл бұрын
Your camera went off because it’s Mercury Retrograde. Look it up He came back on Friday.... I haven’t replied. He will never touch this magic again. Thank You Elliot
@that_zulu_girl1908
@that_zulu_girl1908 6 ай бұрын
We do not engage the dead, let the ghosters RIP! Sorrows, sorrows and prayers. Grieve, heal and move on.
@carlynyc
@carlynyc 4 ай бұрын
We do not engage with the dead 😂😂😂😂
@pappico
@pappico Жыл бұрын
This video is EXACTLY what I needed. You were so on point in the middle part about how women would let the guy back in immediately and demand an explanation and yadda yadda, spot on because that's what I was thinking of what to do if he ever comes back. I've watched a couple of videos on this topic and so far you're the only one who's provided a rational advice. You were also spot on at the beginning saying that there are some women who would be stubborn enough to let the guy back in their lives instead of just cutting them off completely.
@Avoid_Low_Frequency
@Avoid_Low_Frequency 17 күн бұрын
It sounds easy enough! I am 1 month in on the ghosting act. I made a promise to myself not to reach out, not to behave in a desperate manner. I am doing well.
@Anjel99-i8o
@Anjel99-i8o 4 ай бұрын
When someone ghosts you, respect the dead and move on.
@itsmikkaa
@itsmikkaa Жыл бұрын
Damn! I love how you said "I want a relationship. I don't want to work up into one". LOL
@ifallthingsmatter
@ifallthingsmatter 5 ай бұрын
This advice is GOLD.
@wheresmycoffeeineededit3639
@wheresmycoffeeineededit3639 9 ай бұрын
You're like the big bro we all needed! Thank you!
@gabbymontoya2085
@gabbymontoya2085 Жыл бұрын
Thank you.. I asked for relationship he said yes.. then he changed his mind .. so watch out they continue with games
@vibeladiesnight
@vibeladiesnight 2 жыл бұрын
Very true!.... we "train" people on how to treat us!...
@kelliritter8688
@kelliritter8688 3 жыл бұрын
I love you Elliot every time I have an issue I find a video directed at the exact problem im having!!
@juliealo0602
@juliealo0602 Жыл бұрын
The best relationship coach ever! You should have millions of followers! I’m binge watching your videos. I’ve learned a lot from all of your advices! Great job! Keep up the great work Elliot!🙌🏻🙏🏻👍🏻❤️
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating Жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@fireeye33
@fireeye33 3 жыл бұрын
Same applies if you're the one walking away and ghost him for being non committal. Make him work if he wants to come back.
@jana0013
@jana0013 3 жыл бұрын
I did that 3 months ago. He disrespected me and I did’t say anything. Just Left him on seen and never spoke to him again. Now he’s all over my social media, but I’m not letting him back in. Rip
@fireeye33
@fireeye33 3 жыл бұрын
@@jana0013 good for you. Tons of other men who deserve you more.
@citizn-xh7rv
@citizn-xh7rv 3 жыл бұрын
@@jana0013 Good for you because I let a guy like that back in my life and he's acting exactly the same as from the past. He's still stalling making the relationship happen just with different excuses this time. I mean, in his defense I'm in a low place in my life now currently but if he was super genuine he'd be making up for the past.
@jana0013
@jana0013 3 жыл бұрын
@@citizn-xh7rv agree! It’s not worthed
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@OrchidRose83
@OrchidRose83 2 жыл бұрын
I think you should just block a guy after he ghosts you. That's what I do. They shouldn't be allowed back in your life.
@amberfoster7422
@amberfoster7422 3 жыл бұрын
Look at my boy, done popped his collar
@darlinah8090
@darlinah8090 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks Elliot .. Will implement this
@katm7465
@katm7465 Жыл бұрын
I wish i listened to this! I actually did confront him lnao and got an apology. But then I should have ignored him
@JustSavwill
@JustSavwill Жыл бұрын
Look, men know what they want. All you gotta do is look through their following on their socials.
@AyaanGadgets
@AyaanGadgets 3 ай бұрын
Ladies and gentlemen, if you ever get ghosted, respect the dead and move on😇
@bonniebender9268
@bonniebender9268 3 жыл бұрын
Elliot, thank you for being a wise little brother, sharing insight into the male mind. I so appreciate your empowering words and advice! I’m 55 but your content is (unfortunately) still relevant for me 😄 God bless ya.
@reynaGG8
@reynaGG8 3 жыл бұрын
Agree. Me too!
@laughingshaman1
@laughingshaman1 Жыл бұрын
That door should be closed forever. If they contact you on line or by phone-no response. If he shows up at your door call the police, but no response from you directly.
@waveafterwave0723
@waveafterwave0723 3 ай бұрын
What would you do when it’s been a 1 year ongoing thing with someone who legitimately has communication issues from autism? And they just go ghost for days and then comes back ?
@954dreamer1
@954dreamer1 Жыл бұрын
At this point if a guy doesn’t talk to me on day 6, he gets blocked. Unless he’s putting money into my IVF fund or rent I don’t have time to wonder and give benefit of the doubt. I assume I’m not his dream girl or he’s not ready in his life for a long term relationship.
@954dreamer1
@954dreamer1 Жыл бұрын
@LaserActiveGuy okay that’s your fault. Bc you can’t buy a woman. That’s men’s problem. In the beginning when a woman is interested and open to you, you barely make any effort. Then she gets fed up and feeling taken for granted and decided to move on, and then all of the sudden you try to buy the woman. That’s why that happened to you
@954dreamer1
@954dreamer1 Жыл бұрын
Also don’t date until you have you’re stuff together. I noticed your wrote “HER” house. You basically seem to have been taking advantage/mooching off her stability. I’m so happy for her to have her place back to herself and the back rent you owed her is paid. May the lord continue to protect her!
@954dreamer1
@954dreamer1 Жыл бұрын
@LaserActiveGuy if that’s try that means you were probably using this woman bc of her looks not bc you liked her. Men know if a woman likes him and wants to be spoiled vs a woman who doesn’t like him but wants money. You did it to yourself by continuing with a beautiful woman who didn’t even like you
@CatsAreNiceMeow
@CatsAreNiceMeow 2 жыл бұрын
You always take the time to give multiple examples. Thank you for being so helpful!
@va2phx
@va2phx 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not in this situation, I just enjoy hearing him speak
@nadiayofav8
@nadiayofav8 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@genesisallen-lockhart1528
@genesisallen-lockhart1528 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I tried no contact for 5 days and gave in. I've been the one to ALWAYS initiate contact. Since he's gone I've been calling him and texting him first. I'm done! I really needed this video to be in my face.
@coolcatsandthe70schick71
@coolcatsandthe70schick71 2 жыл бұрын
That's why he's gone. Men hate women with masculine energy who initiate. Never initiate if you want him to care about you. Men even respect prostitutes more because prostitutes don't approach men - men contact them online and drive all the interactions. Women who chase get zero respect
@kherr1986
@kherr1986 Ай бұрын
I was dating someone causally , but we had history we used to like each other when we were young. He ghosted and he tried hard to get back into my life lol he apologized and promised me he wouldn’t do that again. Well guess what ? He ghosted me, and basically he used me.
@FaithfulandTrue777
@FaithfulandTrue777 27 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing and helping others. A testament to your kindness and his lack of integrity. Heal and glow up for the right guy who will cherish you
@GoatedSpeaks
@GoatedSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
When someone goes to you, most of the time it means that they have other people they are dealing with or they are not interested in a commitment with you. If they are truly not interested they are not going to come back around, but if they do come back around then it means that they do have some interest. You just really have to do things differently the second time around. Don’t make yourself so available, don’t fall so quickly for this person again, hold them accountable to their actions and definitely don’t be that girl that begs them to change. If he wants to change for you he will, if he is ready for you then he will do whatever it takes to be with you.
@mmc4214
@mmc4214 3 жыл бұрын
It's exhausting...relationships are suppose to be fun and easy not hard and exhausting. I'm so done with people like that...
@MyMuse1111
@MyMuse1111 2 жыл бұрын
mine told me he yanks hank a lot and cant get it up when needed . Romancing at first short trips picnic.. he cant handle stress well.
@betsyroberts9704
@betsyroberts9704 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyMuse1111 Unfortunately, like everything else, relationships are WORK.
@k8nduke
@k8nduke Жыл бұрын
I do think you're right! We all have wounds and some people open some up, more often than not by accident. Early on especially, it's up to us to decide if the person meant to hurt us or has issues they are working on. Ghosting is never ok, but miscommunication is also to blame sometimes; especially with instant texting nowadays. Thank you for your input ❤
@cathybaldry7822
@cathybaldry7822 3 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing. Just what I needed to hear thank you
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@amelittaberretta9109
@amelittaberretta9109 4 ай бұрын
Once a ghosted always a ghost er. It is the ultimate oh humiliation and disrespect and humiliation..
@jadegreen1554
@jadegreen1554 Жыл бұрын
He’s a ghoster now, treat him as such. Make him make himself relevant again.
@cdavis2120
@cdavis2120 3 жыл бұрын
I went through this recently and it's heartbreaking! Elliot Scott is SO SPOT ON and FUNNY!!! He's a HEALER in his own way because he gives some solid advice and tells it like it is! Laura Davis
@melc_91
@melc_91 3 жыл бұрын
Nope..i don't take them back ghosting is disrespectful...that goes for friends too etc...im not allowing it. Informative video tho
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back 💬
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7 💬
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7 💬
@wildewildestrawberries
@wildewildestrawberries 3 жыл бұрын
The best dating coach. Have to catch up on videos.
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@Mandyinyourface
@Mandyinyourface 3 жыл бұрын
When I said I wanted a relationship to a guy like that last time, he called me "overcomitted" and I was like "fuck it".
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 3 жыл бұрын
He's a great gaslighter lol. I didn't know a normal relationship was put of the ordinary lol. I'm sorry to hear that happened
@mindhealsbody-soul
@mindhealsbody-soul 3 жыл бұрын
Bravo Elliot! Sad this is what we have to weed out to get to the a decent one. You are great, btw! Makes me laugh- because it’s so true!
@ashleyelizabeth4176
@ashleyelizabeth4176 3 жыл бұрын
Wow 😳 I’m actually watching a current video that’s not three years old.
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@mookymook90
@mookymook90 2 жыл бұрын
I like the disclosure in the bottom of the description also have to much respect for Elliot thank u .
@ticklemetricia8306
@ticklemetricia8306 Жыл бұрын
I was talking to guy for only a week and then he ghosted me before we were gonna meet. He then messaged me 3 days later and says its because he had the flu.And Now hasn’t messaged me in a day. So Im done with him. I ussually wouldn’t had messaged him back but I felt a connection with him
@shantavalentine9537
@shantavalentine9537 Жыл бұрын
Amen my ghoster returned a week later with insignificant texts smh 🤦‍♀️ byee
@suailaznobia383
@suailaznobia383 2 ай бұрын
He disappeared for a few days after sending me a text about breaking up, I told him I respected his decision at first. He changed his mind and said he still loves me. I then decided to see where he is coming from cause I still love him. He sent and audio explaining why he made his decision and I answered the audio explaining what had happen. He ghosted me again for almost a month and today he texted me simply saying : love. I don’t want a relationship with him anymore however I need to know if we are truly over or not cause I still love him. What do I even say?
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 21 күн бұрын
🤣🤣
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 21 күн бұрын
Please block him.
@suailaznobia383
@suailaznobia383 14 күн бұрын
@ done
@taurahelms3068
@taurahelms3068 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on. Your honesty is refreshing.
@rasiordia7265
@rasiordia7265 4 күн бұрын
No wash rinse repeat ❤
@joannedomingo2398
@joannedomingo2398 Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Thank you ❤
@FionaAWolfe01
@FionaAWolfe01 3 жыл бұрын
He ghosted you? Move on. He's not worth your time. Your last text should be have a nice life.
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Whatzapp
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@FionaAWolfe01
@FionaAWolfe01 3 жыл бұрын
@@cathymorgan4435 no. I don't want him back. He likes to cheat.
@indaypigadongsocialwithjen8108
@indaypigadongsocialwithjen8108 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Elliot it helps me a lot to understand. You are the best 👌 love you
@heddy2326
@heddy2326 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I needed, this is the best video ever. When he comes back, crickets 😂😂
@samiraminah
@samiraminah 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah ...make him Pay and then get rid of him!!
@mariejones7136
@mariejones7136 3 ай бұрын
this guy Im seeing ghosted for 2 weeks..then he comes back....I dont care cause I dont want to be in a committed relationship now....I asked him and he said he was busy...HA!! Now we are back to seeing each other again...What I think is that they find another woman and then the woman disses them and they come back where its comfortable .etc.etc.we have not had sex and he doesnt even make a move..he is not gay or married..He is just unstable emotionally.. I told this guy just let me know if you dont want to see me again or call and say your still alive and we will not date anymore..
@Kevti1127
@Kevti1127 Жыл бұрын
I love you and your advice. All I can say
@doulalina
@doulalina 3 жыл бұрын
He ghosted you then returned? The correct response is 👻👻
@channa1955
@channa1955 3 жыл бұрын
Lookin good these days Elliot
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@denisejaydub
@denisejaydub 3 жыл бұрын
Loving your background and camera gear, looking great 😍
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
hello are you planning to get your ex back in a cheaper and better way why don't you try Dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@queenpatrick205
@queenpatrick205 3 жыл бұрын
whatzapp
@SJ4Youtube
@SJ4Youtube 3 жыл бұрын
Elliott...drops mic 🎤 🔥
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Hello are you planning to get your ex back why don’t you try dr oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
Whatzapp
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
+1 3 0 2 4 8 1 9 2 5 7
@SJ4Youtube
@SJ4Youtube 3 жыл бұрын
🙄 no spam
@cathymorgan4435
@cathymorgan4435 3 жыл бұрын
@@SJ4KZbin dr oba is not a scammer
@annadianne8749
@annadianne8749 Жыл бұрын
Your words hurt me a lot because those are reality or real talk. Felt like a stab. 😭😭😭 i am goin to leave him by tuesday or Wednesday. Because he does not want to commit.
@brookebenton8192
@brookebenton8192 3 жыл бұрын
Best advice I've ever heard!
@zaniyahhundley8591
@zaniyahhundley8591 3 жыл бұрын
Let me tell you something baby! He ghosted me and never returned.!!! 🥺
@ElliotScottDating
@ElliotScottDating 3 жыл бұрын
lucky you lol
@zaniyahhundley8591
@zaniyahhundley8591 3 жыл бұрын
@@ElliotScottDating haha I’m starting to see that, love your channel Scott! You give the rawest advice thank you!!!
@bkris2968
@bkris2968 3 жыл бұрын
oh its so unsatisfying when they come back you aren't missing anything.
@zaniyahhundley8591
@zaniyahhundley8591 3 жыл бұрын
@@bkris2968 he never came back to want a relationship trust me I’m in the clear thank God
@marleyisms
@marleyisms Жыл бұрын
"I personally wouldn't give him the time of day, but I know you're not going to listen" lol, you sure know most women.
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