How to adult after college // The advice that no one tells you about adulthood

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@IrenaWong
@IrenaWong 3 жыл бұрын
getting paid and being financially independent (before I got laid off due to covid) really feels so much better than college. Even though I have 40-45hrs/wk carved out for a job I didn't necessarily enjoy, it was nice to clock out and just focus on hobbies & relationships when the work day is over. No all-nighters, no weekend last-minute cramming sessions.
@postnubilaphoebus96
@postnubilaphoebus96 3 жыл бұрын
Also, for some folks the workload will be different. Had to work 50 to 60 hour weeks in the last two months of this year. And nobody gives a damn if you get sick. Gotta hand in those assignments on time. I'm soo much looking forward to working!
@esa2236
@esa2236 3 жыл бұрын
you don’t get that much more opportunities with a degree. A degree makes you specialized in something specific.
@IrenaWong
@IrenaWong 3 жыл бұрын
@@esa2236 I think that depends on the type of degree and the field you're trying to break into!
@esa2236
@esa2236 3 жыл бұрын
@@IrenaWong Yes this is a computer science channel
@IrenaWong
@IrenaWong 3 жыл бұрын
@@esa2236 fair enough but the video didn't specifically say how to adult after college CS career 🤷
@rhkilis
@rhkilis 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sure many (all?) of us agree that taking control of who designs your post-college life is the most valuable lesson one can learn as a young adult. Unfortunately, many adults go through life not being able to control their own lives and then experience an existential crisis when they retire because they can no longer rely on work as their identity. Adulting isn't a transition of a college identity to a work identity. Your college experience does not define your identity, just as your work does not define your identity. You define your own identity and have the power to design your life.
@startingover7217
@startingover7217 3 жыл бұрын
I wish my college life was fun.
@theencryptedpartition4633
@theencryptedpartition4633 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Covid for probably ruining my college life
@lottekrens668
@lottekrens668 2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone saying that life after college is the best part of life instead of it's depressing and hard. I cant wait to design my own life. Great video and great tips.
@garymichalles8383
@garymichalles8383 Жыл бұрын
Only works if you're a software engineer making a shit ton of money. It's pretty hard for the rest of the populace
@BarnoSulaiman
@BarnoSulaiman 3 жыл бұрын
Being in college in Japan is so much better than being full time employee. You can get scholarship and not worry about expances when you're an international student. And curriculum is so much easier compared to colleges in US.
@stevensong8784
@stevensong8784 3 жыл бұрын
Once I graduated I spent whole year hunting jobs. I couldn't find anything professional or suitable, fell into depression, moved back home. Then, I did coding bootcamp, where I had epiphany I must work in tech as it gives job security and in time I'll find passion for it. Now I'm pursuing my bachelor's in CS and I never looked back. P.S. After college making friends got easier, especially compared to high school.
@recarsion
@recarsion 3 жыл бұрын
It's very easy to get rose tinted glasses, I certainly do, but then I force myself to remember all the parts of college I didn't like (which was the majority of it), and all of a sudden I'm much more satisfied with where I'm at. I don't like working 40 hours a week, but now I'm self sufficient, I could afford to move in with my girlfriend, I get to have my own space, do things the way I want, organize my own home, plus all of a sudden I can buy nice things and still save plenty at the end of the month. Sure, post college life has its ups and downs but it feels really empowering. And then I remember adults lecturing us kids about how difficult this all is and how this is what growing up means... hell naw, adulting is the easy part of being an adult, the real shit comes when that disillusionment hits, that lack of purpose or meaning, and when you start asking the big questions and trying to find good enough answers.
@KaroCodes
@KaroCodes 3 жыл бұрын
My worst and most often recurring nightmares are about going back to Uni - and I loved my time there! It's just life after uni is so much better ❤️
@hugo-zi6gm
@hugo-zi6gm 3 жыл бұрын
College sucks. Even before COVID I wasn't having a good time. I can't see myself majoring in something else and I like what I'm learning but I never feel happy about it all. I just want it to end already, I'm hopeful that life after college will be better
@Suzuniyukai
@Suzuniyukai 3 жыл бұрын
You can make your life after college better but there's no guarantee! Having a decent paying job with a work life balance will allow you to fill your life with things you enjoy though so thats a positive!
@NovaAquarius
@NovaAquarius 3 жыл бұрын
@@Suzuniyukai your words are so true. I am also trying to do so
@sauravlahiry6951
@sauravlahiry6951 3 жыл бұрын
hi Mayuko, this is Saurav Lahiry, from Pune, India. I have just joined newly. First of all, I congratulate you, for setting up your KZbin channel. Shockingly, our Japanese brothers and sisters, are almost absent from the KZbin scene. Sis, I have many friends, living in Japan, and u will be astonished to know, that they told me, that even in a big city like Tokyo, young guys and girls can't speak English. Please stay absolutely safe and give my respects to ur beloved parents.
@chelinemagsano6185
@chelinemagsano6185 3 жыл бұрын
The key point here is: you’re in control of your own life.
@willli3052
@willli3052 3 жыл бұрын
When I started college I used to look forward to the summers where we had no classes. Now, as I'm nearing graduation, I've started to appreciate college life more. I'm definitely nervous about adulting in the future, but this video made me feel a lot better!
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, there needs to be a course in college or really high school called “Adulting 101” 😂
@adamgiusti8085
@adamgiusti8085 3 жыл бұрын
A second one in college called “Adulting 202”
@Aligatorxx3
@Aligatorxx3 3 жыл бұрын
Luckily our uni has this employability course to help lol but there should definitely be a "how to transition to an adult" course lmao 😂😅
@stevensong8784
@stevensong8784 3 жыл бұрын
it'll be a great elective.
@zamanEhsani
@zamanEhsani 3 жыл бұрын
why i think, your meant sex 101!! :-)
@ProactiveIfeatu
@ProactiveIfeatu 3 жыл бұрын
I think colleges'/high schools' biggest fear of making such a course as "Adulting 101" or even "Personal Finance 101", would be the fear of dropouts or loss of interest in school from their students. Unless it was given in my final semester of school, I would feel so eager to want to implement what I learned from such a course that I might actually consider dropping out. If I knew what about a 401k, ROTH IRA, and how to achieve financial independence was earlier I would feel like being in school was taking away from me going out and actually trying to achieve such things. Or, if they taught you how to create lifelong relationships with people or about the process of moving out of home to your first apartment or buying your first home; then going to class for me would feel like such tedious task. It's like saying, "Hey, here are all these great tools for success after school BUT you can really hit the ground running with these things AFTER you finish school." I would definitely feel a lack of interest in taking classes and wish to just get started with my "real adult life" or post-school life. I am not saying that creating such a course is a bad idea but the fact that its never been done on a wide-scale makes me think of reasons like this. Of course these are just my thoughts, how does everyone else feel about this topic?
@donavanaziaka2722
@donavanaziaka2722 3 жыл бұрын
School and college are like tutorials before real life. After college, you are on your own and you have to figure out how to go through life.
@ericktellez7632
@ericktellez7632 3 жыл бұрын
Now that I am turned 27 this year, ive learn that you are “an adult” when you take care of your needs independently. As long as you can pay for your rent, food and other expenses you can then do wtv it is that you want. Ive met everything, from fresh out of college kids doing amazing, renting and focusing on their careers, to some guys who only really care about their hobbies like videogames, anime and twitch to some people who are really making some serious mistakes (drugs and spending a lot on drinking and going out) but at the end of the day most of them pay for all of that with their paycheck and/or live alone, so its really no ones business what they do, at that point, when not even their parents or someone else have a say on your affairs you are just another adult.
@josealvaradotorre6870
@josealvaradotorre6870 3 жыл бұрын
Imo college is easy to romanticize bc of the highs, but I am much more at peace now. The structure of work lets me exercise in the morning and learn/work on hobbies in the evening. I don't have to work late nights so much anymore. The social life is definitely harder, but if you put in the effort, it can be just as good as in the past.
@yourfriendintech
@yourfriendintech 3 жыл бұрын
It is so empowering that we can design our own life, but also kinda scary 😨! Thanks for the reminder that we don't have to have it all figured out
@FinancialAnalysisTJ
@FinancialAnalysisTJ 3 жыл бұрын
I completely agree. This is the best part of life. The only thing is that you are the author of your own curriculum. Never stop learning, it’ll keep you young. I crossed 30 a couple of months ago. So you young whipper snappers should heed these words haha
@xnycker
@xnycker 3 жыл бұрын
watching your videos really makes me seeing the the world from a different perspective. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed for the amount of tasks and bugs to be fixed and sometimes it's quite hard to leave work when you have not finished.I strugggle to 'disconnect' my mind from work specially when working remotely. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. Cheers!
@dani.barahona
@dani.barahona 3 жыл бұрын
Old people: College is gonna be the best period of your youth! :D Covid: *laughs microscopically*
@Aligatorxx3
@Aligatorxx3 3 жыл бұрын
Literally a year and a half our degrees was just being at home watching lectures. What a fulfilling experience, not 😂
@ivanwen8335
@ivanwen8335 3 жыл бұрын
Have a friend who started grad school in Spring 2020, his master's degree is now one semester away from becoming an online degree.
@BME-dj1ox
@BME-dj1ox 3 жыл бұрын
Omg that's so real. I've just been in campus for a year. I would say I was like 80-90% productive then. Now I'm slightly less productive cuz of staying at home all the time. Even the profs seem to be less serious than they usually were. It feels like things are slightly out of track.
@budleysulterton7931
@budleysulterton7931 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who went back to college after having a career I say don't worry kids. College is way harder than a career (assuming you care about your GPA)
@mojojojo1211
@mojojojo1211 3 жыл бұрын
Have been an adult for an year now, so needed this still!
@robertorodas-herndon2314
@robertorodas-herndon2314 3 жыл бұрын
Mayuko, I get a sense from your latest videos that you have entered a period of existential reflection. I would like to thank you because your videos are not only informative and help guide on this journey called 'life', but show the level of generosity you have for sharing this content with us :)
@brentrmc123
@brentrmc123 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video. I’m few years post graduation and perspective was much needed!
@rosellegabuya7726
@rosellegabuya7726 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to see your content again, mayuko 😊 Even if I already finished college 2 years ago, I still find this very helpful. Thank you for sharing your journey with us 🥰
@Aligatorxx3
@Aligatorxx3 3 жыл бұрын
Struggling to graduate due to numerous deferred assessments (for health reasons). Just want to be done with uni, pray for me 😭
@stevensong8784
@stevensong8784 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏻
@euphoric3464
@euphoric3464 3 жыл бұрын
Same here bro!
@Aligatorxx3
@Aligatorxx3 3 жыл бұрын
@@euphoric3464 No way! Good luck to us both 🙏👊
@francomendoza5527
@francomendoza5527 3 жыл бұрын
Some videos on youtube come at the most perfect times. This is one of those videos. Thank you so much for these words!
@miliismyname5464
@miliismyname5464 3 жыл бұрын
Always enjoy your ideas and opinions. You are a big sister to all of us!
@chinyedanielson
@chinyedanielson 3 жыл бұрын
Really needed this video because i've been lost in thought about adulting and the future, as i'll be graduating next year 😅
@tanzy1174
@tanzy1174 3 жыл бұрын
I just graduated and started my first job. I’m really in a good position but I’ve been feeling really confused about what I want out of life now that there’s all this freedom. Really hit home with this video and made me feel better about my lostness!!
@lindsaylexii5283
@lindsaylexii5283 3 жыл бұрын
REALLLLLY loved this video, Mayuko! Thank you so much! Definitely taking notes. :)
@nathenpaul4324
@nathenpaul4324 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mayuko, as someone who is entering his senior year of college and has a lot of anxiety about adult life this helped me out a lot
@saurabhkumar358
@saurabhkumar358 2 жыл бұрын
This is something I could relate to, so much! Things were so good more or less and was predictable in many sense with all the support around me. But things became so much difficult and I learnt so many lessons by myself the hard way. I now feel so blessed that I got to learn so much about myself and things around life in general after college, which made me so much stronger and confident, than ever before. I wish the best to everyone and want to tell everyone and anyone who is struggling and kinda feel stuck and frustrated, that things will definitely get better. Just stuck around, take care of your health (both physical and mental), take pragmatic decisions and use your emotional intelligence wisely. Cheers! :)
@Sanfoo
@Sanfoo 3 жыл бұрын
This video was awesome and I know is going to help me so much. I just graduated this spring and just got hired at my first real tech job. So many of my concerns about being an “adult” were addressed :) THANK YOU for this!!
@slivka_1
@slivka_1 Жыл бұрын
I had a gap year after high school and I think that definitely helps to learn to be alone, and as you said have nothing planned whatsoever and dealing with the emptiness of the days
@DmanX54
@DmanX54 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making a video from my suggestion! I found this so helpful! Its scary adulting and sometimes I feel lost.
@yu.niverse
@yu.niverse 3 жыл бұрын
Adulting is lonely as heck compared to college. If you don't have an SO as a straight dude before you move out to the Valley, you're gonna be out of luck, or forced to look way beyond your usual circles and risk incompatibility instead. On the flipside, if you're in tech and into men, as long as you take care of yourself and want to date you'll never need to search for opportunities! :')
@lotuswolf1518
@lotuswolf1518 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr , men in tech are kinda nice and always available , they would love to date someone from tech
@rnteatime9677
@rnteatime9677 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. ;; It brings comfort to know that it's okay to feel what I'm feeling right now. I just finished my degree and got this huge empty and "what's next?" feeling that idk what to do ;; Thank you for your insights and tips.
@loican861
@loican861 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos. You opened my eyes on many things. It's like big sis advice, thank you
@znohm5376
@znohm5376 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, I think a lot of people needed to hear this.
@jayaguilar6717
@jayaguilar6717 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your vlogs mayuko :< it really helped me like a lot and it also lessens the anxiety that i am feelin today.
@SagePhantom
@SagePhantom 3 жыл бұрын
finally a new video. i was waiting for this moment for too long
@LuisgiXD
@LuisgiXD 3 жыл бұрын
I feel really privileged to be actually working before finishing college because I actually know what I want to do, however now that im just a semester from graduating it feels really uncertain where my life is going to be.
@lindacooper5542
@lindacooper5542 Жыл бұрын
This was so sweet and reassuring thanks 🙏🏽
@jieying4370
@jieying4370 3 жыл бұрын
Graduating from college in September and this is so useful, thank you for sharing these adulting tips! Will be interested in easy recipes video!
@consumer338
@consumer338 3 жыл бұрын
I love this perspective. College is just like life - it goes the way you want it to and design it to be. Of course, there are caveats, but we have a lot more agency than we give ourselves credit for!
@DarthAndylus
@DarthAndylus 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice lol! I just graduated and it can definitely be stressful especially since I graduated a year early so everything just seems to be coming even faster lol! But it is also pretty exciting even if things aren't how I imagined lol.
@martinmj94
@martinmj94 3 жыл бұрын
Big fan of the different personalities comin in hot with the uni oneliners 😂
@danielduong6605
@danielduong6605 3 жыл бұрын
I really like this perspective. It will really help me adult better when I graduate next Spring
@sin7wu
@sin7wu 3 жыл бұрын
I went to college after going into the military. Got a lot of money saved up, bought a condo after I got out, went to college for Electrical and computer engineering while balancing work/school/ and just life. It was really rough but doing that helped me with not having any student debt. She’s right, check yourself and make sure you’re taking care of you. College life for me was just like going to another job but paying to go to that job lol.
@BlueTurtle23
@BlueTurtle23 3 жыл бұрын
Recently graduated high school. I can’t wait to start this fall at Tufts university!
@gtang31
@gtang31 3 жыл бұрын
do you have a video where you talk about the stress of having to deliver project deadlines, being oncall, fixing bugs, restoring services, standups, etc.? Interested on your POV on how to manage that sort of work style
@__bunnyyypeachhh
@__bunnyyypeachhh 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyouu for these advice💕
@CableMaharaj
@CableMaharaj 3 жыл бұрын
Hey btw mayuko, your a legend 💫
@homerodaniel_007
@homerodaniel_007 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting experience Mayuko San . Thanks for sharing
@Ratchet2022
@Ratchet2022 2 жыл бұрын
Very very good video Mayuko. Thank you very much. I’m an app administrator. My current goals are exercise & gym and learning Japanese. I have quite a few goals that I can’t fully focus on one at a time. I think it’s okay and even good to jump around so you don’t get too bored in one, but maybe I’ll have to cut some things. It’s up to me how I want to carve out my life! 😄
@Bluepaccao
@Bluepaccao 2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@alee3246
@alee3246 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta be honest, Id be super interested in a Mayuko cooking vid/blog
@allen1617
@allen1617 3 жыл бұрын
大学生です。春から大学院に進学することが決まっていますが、大学院卒業後、自分が何をしたいのか分かっていません。学校以外を知らない自分にとって、大学の外がどんな世界なのか想像がつかないのです。でも、まゆこさんの動画のおかげで、外の世界に少しは希望を持てた気がします。とても救われました:) This saved me a lot. I feel so much better now and have a little hope for my post college life! Thank you, Mayuko❣️
@andrethomas9678
@andrethomas9678 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yea needed this one. thanks
@igballer
@igballer 3 жыл бұрын
needed this video
@zamanEhsani
@zamanEhsani 3 жыл бұрын
i loved the part that you say that live is not to be done b y ourselves alone. so, LET"S not do our live alone!
@luissolanodev
@luissolanodev 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha what were those mayuko personalities at 1:36? 🤣Very funny to watch her acting
@EarthGainX
@EarthGainX 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had more of an idea what I wanted to do with my life after university. But honestly, finding yourself and making friends, growing as a person and doing what you can to change your life if you're not happy with it, those things are invaluable. Something I heard recently, "You are the architect of your own life." No one else can do it for you, so you have to get up and change things for yourself.
@agentm83
@agentm83 3 жыл бұрын
I saw the Sennheiser headphones there, good call!
@jonathanparlett1172
@jonathanparlett1172 3 жыл бұрын
I wish there was a video like this for post military. The I don't know what to do with my life feeling is real strong there.
@thaktskim82
@thaktskim82 2 жыл бұрын
한국인입니다. 우연히 보게됐는데 영어 문장, 발음 공부하기 너무 좋네요. 물론 내용도 좋구요 ^^
@mohitchauhan5229
@mohitchauhan5229 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@besknighter
@besknighter 3 жыл бұрын
I was literally venting to my father about this 1h ago. I know all this stuff that you said, I don't feel lost. I feel stuck, however. Watching this video reassured my that I'm on the right path. I just need to find where the ropes are so I can cut my binds to any anchors. Turning up the engine to 11 won't do nothing if I still have anchors holding me. I just have no clue where these anchors are. I thought it was college but nope. I graduated 1month ago and I still feel as stuck as Evergreen was.
@adnanazmee
@adnanazmee 3 жыл бұрын
"The really crazy part ....." we need this version of mayuko more 😂 😂 😂
@basilvargas
@basilvargas 3 жыл бұрын
I stumbled upon this channel while looking for a keyboard 😂 Hope life has been treating you well Mayuko! Agreed, adulting is a lot more fun lol From an old friend, Basil
@g-wm6392
@g-wm6392 2 жыл бұрын
leaving one for the algo, thank you for the content
@surajjanampally7023
@surajjanampally7023 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this video when I started my first job.. now 5 years later .. I feel like this video is showing me all the mistakes that I have made....
@KellyLira
@KellyLira 3 жыл бұрын
this video is aka "mayuko's declassified adulting survival guide"
@HaloTheGamers
@HaloTheGamers 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have a social life but that might be down to working on my career atm. And enjoying my sleeping a little too much hahaha
@Californiansurfer
@Californiansurfer 2 жыл бұрын
It’s funny, I worked after high school which I was Toyota Auto mechanic and in 1989 , I was 29 and I attended JC college majored in Psychology, social science , and Electronics 1995 they had no computer courses it was part of electronics We had networking, computer repair and DOS. I couldn’t afford cal state Long Beach to major in psychology. I had the credits but just couldnt afford it. I was able to afford Electronics and electrical engineering. Today, I am security tech and love reading psychology and philosophy. Downey California
@TheAwesomeness490
@TheAwesomeness490 3 жыл бұрын
This video has been really interesting, because at the very least it showed me how non-representative the American (maybe Californian?) university experience is of broader university experience, both in North America and the rest of the world. A lot of these problems are things I have personally never seen anyone deal with (like having cliques in university, not knowing how to cook, etc.). Very insightful in that regard at least, to know how university social dynamics operate in the U.S.. I've been thinking about going there for grad school, so this is actually kind of valuable and entirely unexpected all at the same time lol
@banggo808
@banggo808 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Mayuko . It’s almost as if this video was targeted for me! Keep it coming
@abdou9383
@abdou9383 3 жыл бұрын
At least your giving me hope
@neewi_
@neewi_ 3 жыл бұрын
Thx Mayuko :D
@Durronko
@Durronko 3 жыл бұрын
I just graduated and decided that i dont want to work full time for now, so i dont. I was lucky and got job where I can basically work as much as I want to (with limits obvs) when I want to. My final year and thesis fucked up my mental health quite badly, so this work style is quite liberating and refreshing. It feels like, for the first time in nearly 25 years, I'm finally in control of my life lol
@Gargoloso
@Gargoloso 3 жыл бұрын
I suppose this only applies if you start this journey in a nice work environment, with a decent salary and if you are not directly responsible for other people, like kids or old parents. Not every one is so lucky. In any case, nice video, gave me a lot to think about.
@datalyfe5386
@datalyfe5386 3 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with this title
@segunadewola
@segunadewola 3 жыл бұрын
She sounds like Kat from 2 Broke Girls. Amazing!
3 жыл бұрын
college is fun *extroverts* and *good looking people* Adulting is better *said no-one in human history*
@krayshellinc2015
@krayshellinc2015 3 жыл бұрын
My college life done today 😊
@ahmadichsanbaihaqi
@ahmadichsanbaihaqi 3 жыл бұрын
For me, life after college is start by questioning urself with "who am I?", "What I wanna do?", "What I wanna be?". And yes, the scary things is u don't know which one will work out. Does ur academic background "enough" for ur post college life? I personally have Chemistry Science background. I used to working in a paint industry. But now, I'm a programmer. It's really a big gamble for me try to shifting career. But, I'm glad I did it back then. note: I didn't mean to say being a chemist is not a good choice. But, YOLO and exploring new things might be good and might be not good for you. That is the gamble that I took.
@joanaaikotakiguchi4825
@joanaaikotakiguchi4825 3 жыл бұрын
me watching this when i've just started my 1st college semester 🙈🙈
@romeoangasa2239
@romeoangasa2239 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like you can you can use this advice at any point in life not only after campus life.
@esa2236
@esa2236 3 жыл бұрын
I took this advice and decided to start working at Target
@karennataliaromero3997
@karennataliaromero3997 3 жыл бұрын
Mayuko: İ hope that you read this İ loved the video but I think it's kinda different for us who don't live in a developed country. You said that one can choose the place where one lives in, but that is nearly impossible here, and also the job in which one have to work. Here, if youre lucky, you get into a call center listening to the shouts of people you don't care about. So, what advices would you think might be useful to adulting in this context ? Thank you
@darshandev1754
@darshandev1754 2 жыл бұрын
yeah you put me in the drivers seat again thanks
@75STARFISH
@75STARFISH 3 жыл бұрын
I missed college. I miss getting drunk and dancing. I just want to sit around and play video games after work. I'm tired
@jj1bdx
@jj1bdx 3 жыл бұрын
I was a loner during my university days of BE and ME so my university/college life was not so fun, and one of the hardest things I had to cope with was that I had to immediately start working for a company with virtually no help from other people. University and college did suck, but a new-grad junior software engineer life even sucked more. I had to wait for 27-or-so years later after graduating with ME to realize that I could do whatever I wanted to do, provided with careful planning of not going bankrupt.
@jj1bdx
@jj1bdx 3 жыл бұрын
Also, good eating and cooking capability are a MUST for an adult. I wish I could learn cooking before 20.
@hellomayuko
@hellomayuko 3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, it's a difficult thing to realize and feel ready to take on, this whole adulting thing.
@scooooter
@scooooter 3 жыл бұрын
haven't watched the vid yet but glad to see the title as I am about to graduate from a rather unentertaining college called Zoom (for the second half)
@Scottstimo
@Scottstimo 3 жыл бұрын
Where can I buy that sweet shirt?
@Live-hh6li
@Live-hh6li 3 жыл бұрын
Even though I can cook But I don't feel like cooking when I'm alone.
@KellyLira
@KellyLira 3 жыл бұрын
100% agree that college is fun but adulting is better!
@nimalkamal1254
@nimalkamal1254 3 жыл бұрын
Hey do you have a podcast? If so what's the name
@tsarm___
@tsarm___ 3 жыл бұрын
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