How to Attract a Man Who Will Accept You for Who You Really Are | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@ivettemancilla7]

I love this video, I was really sad cause I thought I was not enough for having a romantic relationship but after following your advice I found out the great woman I am and all things I have to offer. I don't see myself the same way I did before this video. I am not sad anymore, actually I admire and accept myself the way I am. Thank you so much Mat for sharing this video.

[@asantlarm]

I've learned to live w/an autoimmune disorder so your story about your client developing resilience & compassion is SO relatable❣️

[@conzwuellachristian]

Renal failure actually shaped me into having empathy and sympathy for others. Respect for people's feelings and the ability to uplift, problem solve and resolve others issue. I pour into people's lives daily. I see the good even in death.

[@valeriemcdonald8481]

I have had to move into my mother's home and start everything from scratch (almost) and am starting a new job I am insecure about at age 50. I have 3 beautiful children who are rooting for me and their love is my anchor. I want to lead by exemple. Just working on the steps I need to get back on my feet. Sometimes the end game seems far, but resilience and self compassion is what I am keeping out of this. Still vulnerable, but determined. Grateful for my mother's help. Grateful for my children 's encouragement.

[@chchwoman9960]

Yes, Valerie, I had to move back to my mother's at 50 also. Something I never imagined happening. We don't have the best relationship but still, she cared enough to insist I move in. It wasn't easy for either of us, so I am grateful. Unlike you I was a complete mess about it, you sound much more grounded than I was, but I kept going as best I could. It took me 8 years to move away but I got there and at 61, it doesn't matter any more that I had to do this. It's great that you are surrounded by love, you will be fine ❤

[@valeriemcdonald8481]

@@chchwoman9960 thank you for that! Came in Just when i needed it! I was expecting to move out this July, I Just realised i don't have the means yet to move out. I am feeling uncertain about the future. My temporary stay may be longer then i though. I am dealing wih the dissapointment , and the realisation that i have been standing stil. I can no longer wait till X happens. I have to deal with this situation as it is. Waiting for X or Y to start "living " again. I focus on the next year to come, one day at a time. Thank you for letting me know you have been through this also. Hoping i Will see contentement both for me and my Mother 😊

[@alisonsummers2067]

Best video ever! My bi-polar diagnosis started me on a journey of inner work which has given me a greater understanding of others

[@Mayfloweralways]

I like that this, in a lot of ways, is about what you bring to the table and how does that align with. a man that’s right for you. Not the man that checks certain boxes about money and fitness and looks. The man that’s right for you. Just like we women come in all shapes and sizes and circumstances, and we hope someone will accept us- so do men. If you’re experiencing men who you think only want T and A- “waiter, check please.” I think besides accepting ourselves, the second biggest hinderance is holding on societies ideas about what is attractive. What is sexy. I’ll tell you. My ex was a lesson in that for me. He didn’t provide what I truly needed. I think it goes both ways. We need to define sexy men as the man that doesn’t hesitate to drop everything because you’re sick and you need him. A sexy man is the man who sees you had a hard day and wraps you in his arms. A sexy man has his life together and is ready and willing to bring you into it not expect you to fix it. We need to redefine what sexy really is in who we choose as well.

[@myridean2k4]

As a widow, who had been best friends with my husband for over 30 years, I think having learned what it takes to have a successful relationship, makes me a good partner with experience. I'm only 50 and I've encountered a lot of loss in my life but it makes me appreciate that it's created more freedom to bring something new. I'm willing to move somewhere new as I'm not tied down. I've done a review on how I could be a better partner to someone and their family. I have a lot of love to give. I've gained more empathy, patience and compassion for those who've gone through much difficulty. I'm rebuilding my life as if I'm starting it anew.

[@Ziggimomspal68]

Similar here. Forty years with a wonderful man until he passed away. I’m in my 60s but I’m young at heart & don’t look my age. Working on finding someone who I can spend the rest of my years with.

[@myridean2k4]

@@Ziggimomspal68 I'm so sorry, Carmela. It absolutely sucks when this happens. I wish you the best in luck and love in finding another to bring you the happiness that you dream of.

[@HarryJHunter]

I'm sorry for your loss. Sometimes we ask questions why does the universe take away good people? How have you been able to go through this experience, losing someone you've known for 30 years?

[@myridean2k4]

@@HarryJHunter Answer to the first question: I don't know but I can easily ask, why not? When you're sitting in a room of people for a bereavement support group, you are absolutely humbled. While there you realize that death is non-discriminating and it's hard to get to that place of acceptance. However knowing you're not alone in that deep sense of loss, it softened me to be even more empathetic. My husband told me a couple of weeks before he died as he had been watching his mother's mental health decline as her husband, his father, was slowly "disappearing" with Alzheimer's. He told me if he had to die, he would want it to be quick and by having a brain aneurysm, it pretty much was. It took me a long time to understand that it was his time. So, in addition to attending bereavement support meetings for a couple of years, I read Megan Devine's book "It's Okay to be Not Okay" which helped a great deal as it's written by a pychotherapist who had also lost her husband suddenly at a young age. I also journaled as much as I needed to process the emotions I was feeling and brought on a therapist for a few months to deal with some of the unfinished business of my relationship with him that couldn't be addresed with the bereavement support group. It certainly helped to be meeting and spending time with a lot of other new friends who were also widows / widowers or who are experiencing a profound loss; and finally, my faith. I'm not religious I don't subscribe to any particular dogma but I know from experience that there's "MORE" than our observable reality. So, I would observe publically each month of that death for those first 31 months and out of the woodwork, aquaintances that I knew came forward because they are widows as well. To see them thrive on the Other Side gave me hope that I can manage this as well as other losses I've endured since then. It sucks but only delaying the grieving process just comes back in unexpected ways. There's only one way and that's to go through it. Next month, it'll mark the 5th anniversary of his passing. It's been a long, hard road and if there was anything that could help from moment to moment, day to day, year by year, I tried it. In perspective, those past 5 years have passed so quickly so I can only imagine by focusing on myself and the new life I want to live and what I want to achieve is made all the more pertinent. Life should never be taken for granted. Everyone gets one but to choose to live it is even better. What doesn't kill you, doesn't just make you stronger, it also makes you smarter.

[@jacquelynhoagland3371]

This was a great video. I had never considered how challenges in my life have built my character. Because of what I have experienced, I have more patience and empathy. Aging has brought physical limitations that I am learning to live with. I've stopped allowing them to sideline me. I'm building stamina and the resilience to do what I need to do to build strength and balance. I also have a partner who is so patient, kind, and caring in regards to my limitations. I volunteer with the local police department, and I am stepping up and doing activities and events regardless of my walker. Felt so good to have people actually thank me for my service. Yes! I plan on doing more of the things I used to do.

[@user-ux6wm3jo9b]

This is very insightful, Mat. It's a great mindset to remember to hold, esp when our insecurities kick in for approval.

[@honestmom1958]

I'm a vibrant 66.5 years. Reframing that would be- how I appreciate and enjoy all the experiences I've had and the wisdom I've gained and the learning I'm continuing to do. Thank you for this mind shift, Matt!

[@cute.core.]

I love this perspective and how supportive you are Matt. This is so healing 💕

[@CadiRaven]

I love this! I lost a guy I was dating recently because I'm still friends with my ex-husband. I was worried it would be a red flag to him and that was the case. But I love reframing this! Because the right guy will see that I'm forgiving, caring, warm and accepting, emotionally mature and that I value friendship and good people. Thank you so much for this video! 😊

[@soniarcher]

Fantastic video Matt. That is exactly what I do. Tell your difficult part first so the bad guys … run for the hills QUICK 😂

[@brienneheustess3058]

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[@sarapascual2639]

This has to be my favourite post so far, Mat. Incredible advice, so powerful. Like the women you mention, I always thought I had accepted my autoimmune condition, and yet it is so true that my projection came from seeing it logical that men would be put off by it. Reframing that projection to concentrate on all the values and strengths I've developed because of it will be the game changer, I'm positive! Thank you so much for this!

[@wilmaelmore1533]

What has been my crutch is size seems to matter to men. I am chubby but I am outgoing and bubbly and people say I walk in to a room and it lights up, which they see that but I don’t. I simply enjoy fun and fellowship with others. I laugh easily which I’m told is contagious 😂. I’ve been told by my children’s dad that my laughter is annoying, so I tend to tone it down at times. Probably self-conscious maybe!! Any advice…

[@soniarcher]

Don’t ever change! You are YOU and that’s amazing the way you are. I was even told by my ex that smiling confuses men…. What???? That’s THEIR problem… not MINE. JUST BUILD UP on your self esteem so that these comments cannot affect you. There’s someone out there as Matt says who is going to appreciate your chubbyness your laughter your energy and YOU just YOU. I’ve decided to be who I am, my friends love me the way I am, guys don’t? Their loss, what can I say. Good luck darling!

[@JS-mh1fh]

I had my children's dad's voice in my head regarding things like this for years, until I worked through RMT coaching. Once I stopped letting his voice influence me, I was able to consciously determine who I am and who I wanted to be. You love you first, and know that your kids dad wasn't a match, except to bring you're wonderful kids into the world. But now, as Mat says, you'll draw in the right man by embracing and being fully you!

[@SmittyTra-tra]

You sound amazing just as you are. I would just keep rocking your authentic self. Your ex didn't value you, so of course your laugh is annoying to him!

[@MistMgmt]

Listen to the vid again until you hear him :)

[@sallyforth9323]

Keep laughing! And keep working on your health and fitness for your own sake. The whole of life is better when you’re fit, even getting out of an armchair. As for your party pooping ex husband, to hell with him! He didn’t deserve you! Good luck! ❤🎉😃

[@khmeticlioness2759]

I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes 50 years ago. Living with this condition has taught me to be disciplined, to value my health, to rise above the condition, to advocate for myself with doctors, nurses, hospitals, and insurance companies. I researched and have implemented what I've learned in my life about nutrition, exercise, pharmacology, and meditation. i am an advocate for patient autononmy.

[@shade2009z]

Im 24 and i was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis since 2018 I became such a powerful person and i have so much compassion and empathy towards everyone around me , I don't know why but it made me wiser and patient and guess what I AM the prize 👏🏽💛💛💛

[@nisaloveful]

My loose skin, I worked really hard to lose one hundred pounds , and I'm proud of myself. However, with clothes on no one can see my loose skin. I've done an excellent job covering those parts I don't like about my body. Despite the fact that I dislike certain parts of my body, I want to embrace them. The time has come for me to relinquish the things that are holding me back from attracting my person.

[@mikiwells4572]

Congrats on the weight loss! That's a tremendous accomplishment! U should be proud and celebrate. Don't let anyone take that away from you. God bless.

[@MariamSabaArt]

As a religious/spiritual person, all the things I'm called to do in the world, the ways I express my being, seem controversial in my mainstream faith community. This felt like a huge roadblock. The reframe is: the right man would perceive all I'm doing, my sincerity, and would witness my bravery, faith and trust. Thank you Mat (and team)!

[@NotPCandnotadelusionalenabler]

I must be the exception to the rule. I have never liked, let alone love myself. But, through the love that my Man has smothered me with, I'm at the point where I can tolerate myself. How I view myself has never deterred his desire to be in my life.

[@NotPCandnotadelusionalenabler]

@@GoddessBlessYou(sorry it's so long) because of him, I'm learning what Love actually feels and looks like. I've tried getting professional help. I seem to get worse when "working through" my "issues". I was raised and taught that a woman is only worth the pain from a man's fist. I was also raised and taught that my value is determined on how well I'm able to sexually gratify a man. I prayed HARD for so long for someone like him to come into my life. I stopped praying for him when I realized that he doesn't exist. . . 23+years later (after child bearing prime) he just appeared, like a magician. I have worked through more and learned more and experienced more with him then I ever did in a shrinks office. Sometimes his kindness becomes too much and I fight him, to push him away. . . He's like a bad habit and won't go away. I don't know how he's able to be as strong as he is for me. It's because of him that I'm able to tolerate myself. It's because of him that I'm learning that I have value. It's because of him that my faith in my Creator had become as strong as it has. Thank you for allowing me to share.

[@theodoraefreda92]

Thanks. I need to hear this because I have not really love myself enough. I am reframing.

[@estherlam5190]

My tough, intensive crisis and challenges, both physically and spiritually, six years ago till now - still living under stressful environment that creates different physical body dia-eases.. But I still survive ...proved that I passed them and ready for new life to fulfill all my dreams with real confidence... Who I am

[@loveyourmindalittle]

Timely message❤

[@sabinekappus6366]

Made me think about myself, that I have the strength to continue on the way even if the progress is little and that I have stability in my life. I have confidence in myself and that is important.

[@vickylamb2482]

Thanks I needed to hear this because of some physical challenges in my life . Lord Bless ❤

[@HeatherNBell]

Thank you Mat, I absolutely love this. It has helped so much. I have had zero problems scaring away the wrong guy, but needed the counter perspective to attract the right guy for me and my family. Being Autistic and having autistic kids brings a different set of life skills…so attracting a focussed, driven, kind, compassionate and measured man, has not been the easiest journey. It requires a very different energy to compliment us. 💕🙏

[@theartistjodievans]

I really appreciate this video. I have been scared that I would never find another partner now that I have Epilepsy. I had no idea how to bring it up, when to bring it up… Now I completely get it. Epilepsy actually saved my life and made me a better person. I will have no problem reframing this. Thank you! ❤

[@sweetlady22]

I needed to see this today

[@alisonjacobs8469]

Great advice! Reframing!

[@LivingPurposeful360]

Thank ypu for sharing MATT. Appreciate tgis knowledge and wisdom much!!!

[@laurenhoelle7726]

Dang… this is definitely making my list of Top 5 Favorite Mat Boggs Videos.

[@deliapasqualini970]

The message is beautiful. Changing the point of view on awkward things💖💖💖

[@stephanierumenapf5404]

thank you for sharing this: turning a disadvantage to an advantage....that's big! in dating - and all the live!

[@MeliaColeman]

Wow. This one hit hard, and I really needed to watch it today. I have had many significant life events that I always perceived as a hinderense. I never thought about it like this. Thank you for sharing such a wonderful state of mind!!!

[@michellepost4336]

My goals with becoming more healthy and attractive with weight loss

[@linneasimchah1621]

Do it for yourself though. Don't do it for a man. Motives make a huge difference in the energy your presence gives off.

[@SatumainenOlento]

This was the very best video from you Matt! Brilliant job! Well done! 💗

[@leeleewaters1451]

I have two little boys (6&8 years old) and I see them as a benefit because they can enhance adventure in a willing man who wants to engage in camping, fishing and other outdoor adventures! 🤩

[@sylviemagdeleneswan-utsman2895]

I am twenty-five and have mild cerebral palsy. I could be ashamed of this, but I am not. Therefore, I am attracting a man who will not be ashamed of these, either - and the same is true for any condition that he might have. Our relationship is based on our connection, not on what we have or do not have, or what we can do or cannot do. Thank you Mat for telling stories like this one. This woman was brave enough to let you tell her story. (Or at least, it seems brave to me.) If she feels comfortable sharing that she has a rod in her leg, I am comfortable sharing that I have cerebral palsy - and I do not want anyone else to feel ashamed of what they have, either. These are the kinds of things that make us attractive to the right person.

[@vah5890]

This is really beautiful (and helpful). Thanks, Mat ❤

[@greenentrepreneurs]

High level here, Mat. Thanks so much 🎉

[@SherrysReviewsandResearch]

Your stories always resounds with my life. I almost think my name is in some list and you are indeed talking about me a bit. 😅

[@ulianatkachuk9428]

Wow... Thank you, Mat ❤️🙏❤️

[@annlaughren9060]

Interesting advice

[@brendapenn5193]

Love this we never know where your blessing will come from so important to chat to each other wow this is wonderful to know how each other feels😊😊

[@goworldwide]

Wow, this is huge. Matt, great job.

[@geaniegail931]

You speak such truth! What a wonderful, life-changing concept.

[@brainfood2399]

I’m a young woman with chronic fatigue and I got SO much time to chill 😅 Thank you for this fun exercise, I love your videos!

[@kerrychampagne9255]

Powerful & helpful.

[@dhanashreegadhikar8281]

This made me cry! Thankyou so much for this

[@ersheri]

Great way of changing your thoughts

[@Newlovelygirl1]

Always delivery great content… life changing technique

[@melfrog5982]

I have a very challenging strong willed child that I am trying to raise in a co-parent/parallel parenting way. I keep bringing myself down over this saying men are going to run for hills and not want to have to deal with that in their life. You used a good example in Ur post about the woman n her twins. There will be a man out there that will want to stand up to the challenge n help engrain good behaviour and values into my son with me. Be the grounding and nurturing role model he needs in life.

[@saramoore4172]

That is a tough one, I've gone through so many hardships in my life that I have so much baggage. But I also know it has made me a survivor. I grow stronger every day I'm alive, and I never back down. My biggest crutch though is I may be afraid of commitment. I always say how much I want it, but once I have it I run away. Maybe it's because I have abandonment issues because 99% of everyone from my adolescent years has left me.

[@Marykguise]

This was SO good Mat!! Thank you!!

[@nottambula79]

great tips and video, thank you so much!! 🥰

[@lorrainenoble2572]

You are an amazing man,! I want one of ypu! Thank you for your words and thoughts- you're the best !

[@candacecarter5864]

Amazing advice!!!

[@TotalTruthca]

The courage fight and strength that I have had to learn over the past 12 plus years after being very ill and fighting back to wellness. And also 2 years now of fighting hard to get back to being a single woman as a marriage dissolved. The lessons the pain that I have endured mentally and physically over all this has been so difficult. But I'm still standing stronger and very proud of myself that I made it. Of course God has been on my side and given me much strength and I thank Him for all He has done for me.

[@carilemon4152]

Wow, Mat. This video's message is divinely timed for me to HEAR it. Thank you! I am resilient. I'm patient and steadfastly loyal. I can go through storms, knowing there's another side. I want to attract a partner who is able and committed to doing the same. I've recently been ghosted by my partner of 3 years. I really believed he was my person. What I'm realizing is, this is a pattern of partners I have attracted into my life. When tough stuff happens, they bail. I believe couples can get through challenges and be stronger for it on the other side. That's who I want to attract. The other A-ha from this is that I need to strengthen my relationship with my Higher Self. We will get on the other side of this experience, stronger together. And with this deepened relationship and higher vibration, I believe will attract a partner at that frequency. And I will break this pattern. Your message supports my recent thinking. Thank you again! ❤

[@nevcbear]

Another great message, Mat! Thank you so much for these inspiring videos.

[@Erin-uz2gf]

Yes, beautiful video, thank you Mat! This is something that I am learning to reframe about myself, for sure. I have plenty of flaws, inside and out, but I know that the beautiful things about me far outweigh my flaws. Because of them I have more compassion & that makes it harder to see anyone as flawed because of their imperfections. We all have something we struggle with. A kind heart is what makes someone truly attractive.

[@haibinhnguyen4351]

Wow, I have learned a lot, thank you, Mat!

[@KatieHamsteadTeller]

My divorce. I was abused and gaslit so badly that it has really changed a lot about my life. Also, I was married for 11 years, which was 1/3 of my life at that point, so it's significant

[@lizmatt3314]

Thank you Matt. Such encouragement for me at 53 that when I meet him I will ask him to give me 4 things about himself that makes him stand out from the others? What are the 4 standards I must have to win his heart? My 4 are I'm loving, caring, patient, and equal. My for standards are believing in us trust, honor, respect, sum this all up as please teach me how you want me to teach you!!

[@fozytyw.]

Very useful. Thank You! Great examples. Blessings!

[@denecebeckman3439]

I have Lipedema. It has caused a lot of mental pain and I've been rejected in previous new/early relationships because of. I had one guy ask after we'd dated for a couple of months, "you mean your legs will always be that way?" We broke up shortly thereafter. Trying real hard to find a way to frame Lipedema as a positive, and not have it sabotage me and dating.

[@trinerberg2375]

I have bipolar disorder, and I actually think, I've learned so much about life itself experiencing these very different feelings. I see life and the world as something beautiful and fantastic, my basic attitude towards life and existence is positive, although I from time to time have also suffered a great deal. The man who gets me is a lucky man to get a woman who has reflected on so many different aspects of life. I'm not that young anymore. It has taken me some time to get to this place of being proud of myself and the life I've managed to live in spite of all the challenges. I think it is called resilience in English. So yelling a potential partner about my bipolar disorder will NOT be revealing a fault about me, but just a fact with which comes with a lot of interesting insight.

[@lorianderson8145]

OMGOSH..!! life-changing words. Thank you.

[@angelaschnettler5013]

Just great ... very wise words, thank you. ☺❕

[@miathyra]

I have CPTSD from prolonged child and sexual abuse and am on a lot of meds. I've already done a lot of work on myself but I've been in survival mode my whole life and am EXHAUSTED. I wouldn't want to date me honestly, I'm so broken. I'll need to be on meds and in therapy for the rest of my life. I don't know if anyone would be able to handle that. I am, however, extremely proud of my resilience because I can't believe the amount of suffering I've survived in this lifetime. And I'm still going. So yes, I am damaged, but I am a fucking survivor.

[@AHk7.]

I need a mentor like you

[@abbyalanis00]

Wow. Thank you for sharing. I am Deaf/HH and I used to see my hearing impairment as a derailment. Now I am like if they don’t like me just because I am different, then I am not for them nor they for me. I wanted and needed someone to accept me for me. Even for my quirkiness. 😅

[@haleyloving3575]

Great video

[@beverlieklamert2383]

I currently live with my parents and kid bc I got a divorce. So telling guys I live with them has been hard I do tell them upfront so finding time to see then may be hard but we just need to plan and I could see them. But Matt this video is amazing and will help in the long run. ❤

[@tamarar.8179]

So true!! I had to realize that those traits within me improved greatly after my knee surgeries! I was dating, treating my weak knee as a detriment. The right man saw those strengths in me and now, even puts my physical limitations into consideration when we plan dates/events. One year later, we’re planning our future together. I’m 45. While I was in the dating world for the last four years, your videos really helped me! Thanks, Mat. 🩷

[@helocandeloro3932]

In my case, my age... but it brings me so much wisdom, experience and calm... and my partner would appreciate to be with a mature stunning woman 🥰🥰

[@alexandrakarp390]

Thanks Matt for that very clever insight 🙏 if I think about it, the first thing that comes to my mind is a sexual problem that I have, and that scares me with every new partner. I have finally been diagnosed with a special condition after enduring pain for years during sexual intercourses, and to be honest, that's pretty intimate and delicate to share with every new boyfriend, even though I force myself to speak up about it to raise awareness in men and women around me. But that led me into researching for more knowledge on women's bodies, on sexuality and on being more creative in bed and getting to know myself a lot more, as well as realising that men's desire and sexuality is more complicated than what we think, and need more empathy from women's part. So actually, as you said so well, it'll scare the wrong men off when I'll talk about it, but will attract the right one for me, coz actually that's really empowering to take the control back on your sexuality and to kick out the norms around it, as a woman, and it seems sexy and attractive to me 😅 by the way I'd love to see one of your videos talk about that kind of topic, like "own your sexuality" or something like that 😂 thanks again for your great work and your kindness 🙏😌

[@Anna-Maria79]

❤️

[@rezotydnic]

What do I need to love and accept about myself? What are the aspects of yourself that need your love and acceptance more? How can you reframe that idea so that it's not actually a detriment but it's a benefit?

[@Carorca2]

Amazing ❤❤❤

[@allisonscott1009]

❤❤❤ Yes! Thank you Matt!!

[@camy92]

Mind blown 🤯🙏🏻❤️‍🔥

[@WilliamsLovesToLearn]

Thank you soooo much

[@conzwuellachristian]

Interesting 🤔

[@Sara-mr1hs]

This is genius

[@katarzynaostrowska2653]

Matt! And what about people who are lieing? That guy may lie that he loves her twins. That guy may only pretend to love that situation and then Just leave her. Maybe you can add some video how to know that he is lieing or pretending the Energy? It is hard to know what is the truth even when you have good intention. Some guys Just want a girl for a year till she starts taking about marriage, living together etc.

[@ItinerarySweat]

Mr. Boggs, I truly Thank God for your platform and appreciate your wife as well. Jesus see your platform. God Bless you

[@CeciliaMurilloValdez]

Lovelovelovelovelooooove this!

[@marybillington8235]

What about a disability I have spinabiphida and most to run for the hills when they realize what all it entails.

[@SmittyTra-tra]

So I try to channel my inner Lizzo..I actually really like hiking and other active pursuits! I have joined hiking groups with single men my age and I see them stealing horrified looks at my thunder thighs. I would love to communicate that they could help me get into better shape by being with me, but if they aren't attracted to begin with, then how do I do so? Not sure

[@sheilamcdonald9081]

I'm feeling that when a man sees me in person he's going to think I'm old because of my jowls and sagging skin. But when I have even the slightest smile on my face the jowls kind of fade away. I'll keep a smile on my face and in my heart ❤️ and be happy 😊. Love you ❤️ 😍 😘 💖

[@tlbirdwell1941]

Step 1: Be thin & pretty. Step 2: Nothing else matters.

[@richblessed2195]

But she is right.That is why they rejected her.unlesd she finds just like her.

[@jayshahulama9467]

It’s hard for me to find the right guy that lives same island and same age. I have seizures and special needs. I’m short only 4 feet and I have to live with mom and can’t drive and I’m shy

[@Blinkeebill]

We tell me to self-improve and get better. Why is the message to woman always ‘you’re perfect as you are’, why not look in the mirror? it might be helpful.

[@cecilebuckner9672]

My boyfriend said he prayed for a good woman to come in his life. That is living for (GOD) well I’m that woman but my boyfriend is on drugs and he drinks alcohol a lot and curses a lot and he has guys over that do all the things he does I did move out of his house but i dearly Love this man he says he is willing to do anything for (GOD) but he hasn’t yet what can I do to help him so we can be together

[@tinafernandes6163]

💖💖💖👍

[@marcifrederic9064]

Oh really?! Does this also work for trans women as well? There is a lot of rejection just because of who I am. They can't get past their own internalized homophobia and transphobia.

[@jacquelynhoagland3371]

Wow! It would be very difficult for someone of us to understand your challenges. I can't imagine how difficult it must be to navigate the dating scene for you. I wish you every success in finding the answers you need to help you find happiness. ❤️❤️❤️

[@EddieFivespeed]

he wont be thin or wealthy tho.

[@TA-ln8qs]

For many people, him not being thin is a bonus. 😅

[@lindageiger7970]

How do you know that--?

[@aleksandramulson-matraj-we5sc]

Hey Mat, are U single? 🤔

[@katemiller5990]

He’s not, sorry. He has wife (it’s a beautiful love story) and young kids. Occasionally they are in his videos.

[@aleksandramulson-matraj-we5sc]

@@katemiller5990 🙄 oh no...😅 The only dissent guy in this world😅