How to Attract Masculine Men

[@verginiasophia9620]

step 1: embracing femininity step 2: embracing beauty step 3: be wholesome step 4: be friendly step 5: make connections

[@Sanguen666]

This is not that hard... yet 90% of women will struggle with this throught whole their lives... society is in a late decline

[@EnoI539]

@@Sanguen666 yep the sad TRUTH.

[@Battlefield1918]

Amazingly not many women can or want to do that, somehow, it's too hard for them???

[@rosaliemiller9175]

When I was 15, I prayed and asked Jesus for His choice in.a Husband. A few weeks later I med my husband at lunch in High School. Three years later we married. We have been married for 43 years now. It really is a very good match. I appreciate your channel.

[@angelbarajas9180]

God is so good ✨

[@laylabug39]

What's the secret to a long fulfilling marriage?

[@sashenkadumerve3017]

I want this I will keep praying

[@LiverpoolEngland2.0]

Beautiful answered prayer! I been waiting 28 years to date, Jesus only knows why he is making me wait, i do agree i have become a better man then i was 10 years ago, I don't know how much of a sin it is, but I ask God a lot- Why didn't Marry Mrs.Midwest, i really like someone like her, she has a beautiful character, i just turned 41, and I keep praying for someone like Midwest that would be willing to move with me where i have my home in Mexico. God Bless You Rosalie Miller :)

[@eveeeeeee6326]

Hallelujah

[@eexvi]

"Find a man who likes your special recipe of beauty" - Caitlyn, 2019 Love u so much!!!

[@wethu12337]

Love this!💕

[@MissAfricanAmerican99]

"I'm not saying that just because you dress nice and clean your apartment that a masculine man is just going to sprout out of your living room floor ready to marry you..." Wow, Mrs. Midwest. You're really out here just attacking me personally, huh? 😂😂😂

[@user-yo6it1is1d]

oh i felt personally attackted too! :D

[@ajohonly3721]

Hahahahaha 🤣 y’all are killing me

[@moongem4489]

@@ScentitarFragrance It's very hard to do this when someone is shy/scared of talking to guys.

[@DickinsonLivingInDickinsonNort]

@@moongem4489 Men like women who don't talk.

[@taquito.trasgo]

I mean if you wear your prettiest dress and water the carpet three times a day it's bound to happen one day...right?

[@oldfashiondolls]

I like how you said the concept of a masculine man is finding someone you can respect. My husband is not a cowboy or military man. He is not the stereotypical masculine man. He is a computer science engineer (read major NERD), but he is a confident, kind and responsible man. I respect him, and am attracted to his particular type of masculinity. Nice video. Thank you for filming it

[@muta_othernames]

Beautiful

[@blackscreen4033]

I think nerds are quite masculine if they're really focused on their career and interests, only downside some of them might still be childish sometimes but I'm sure they'll be more mature over time

[@synergyzer07]

I was thinking precisely about that: I was about to ask what we men who don’t precisely fit into her definition of a masculine man, but are absolutely heterosexual. Perhaps we found women who act like she illustrates in the “how to bless your husband, the “masculine man” inside of us can be unleashed... there aren’t many husband-blessing-women available...

[@blackscreen4033]

That's true, women are pressured to behave in a masculine way, I wouldn't suggest thought to wait for a woman to do something and then to react to that. It would be more manly to behave in a manly way, take initiative and then a woman can respond to that, or maybe find out that she actually likes a masculine man more. I don't think it's worthy to wait for feminine women first and behave in a masculine way then. It's femininity who is receptive, don't be afraid to initiate more deep down women do appreciate that way more than men who "wait" at least I perceive it as passive

[@blackscreen4033]

A man who waits for something would only confirm me that I am the one who needs to wear the pants with him and use my masculine side because he's being receptive to what I am doing, I'm the one initiating and so on. You're a man, you do your thing, if she is open to you great, if she is masculine and competitive you go find another girl who makes you feel more manly if you're into that , just "I'll wait for women to do something" is not masculine

[@Whitney322]

Don’t change your boundaries to suit them. “If they don’t like it, then they can excuse themselves from the race”. Amen sister!!! 🙏🏾💕

[@sewnergy7443]

You guys, listen to this woman! Taking her advice has changed my life for the better, including attracting a truly masculine man. I can not thank her enough for opening my eyes to falling into my femininity.

[@laluta9]

Yayyy go you!

[@tessasense2584]

What if you're in your late 20's, can you still find love?

[@imecifer1145]

@@tessasense2584 ofcc the age doesn't matter ☺️

[@sewnergy7443]

@@tessasense2584 Yes, of course!! I am 34, and I am going through a divorce. If there is hope for me, there is definitely hope for you! ;-)

[@pollymat991]

@@sewnergy7443 how did you fall into your Femininity?

[@margyrowland]

Another word for “friendly” is “approachable”, or better still “gracious”. Other people will know you won’t ridicule them for approaching you. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@marie-bellemarcha8819]

This is super important because a man's biggest fear is being humiliated which goes hand in hand with rejection. If you seem approachable and not intimidating, a guy will be more willing to get know you.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

Totally agree, Caitlin. Masculine and feminine energies are "complimentary" but also are a polarity of one another, which means they require the other energy to exist. Masculine men can nurture their own feminine polarity (yes, they have this, just like you have your own masculine polarity within you) within themselves by your femininity.

[@marianrising5557]

Yes! This!

[@danicajvv]

Beautifully articulated, Ryan. You didn't by any chance study Deconstruction in Philosophy? Your view is something Derrida would agree with :) Differences are inter-dependent - they constitute each other's meaning :)

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

@@danicajvv I did not haha! I was a Psych major 🙇My grandmother was a matchmaker (responsible for 5 marriages) and I definitely have it in my blood. I *love* talking about these types of things 🙂

[@Catherine_Kate]

*”complementary”*

[@ryancarmody7335]

@@marianrising5557 I'm glad you agree :)

[@hankbellows]

As a masculine man, husband and father I totally approve of this message.

[@piotrprs572]

I'm a man... and I must admit u are so right in so many things. :-) Strong man don't need 'strong' women.. they need femine women.

[@racheljane_]

These were such great tips! I have been married for 8 years, but I still enjoyed this, and encourage ladies looking to take these to heart. My husband is a masculine man and I am a feminine woman. We fostered a connection through church and reading scripture together. On our first coffee hang out we found a commonality/inside joke of both liking soggy shreddies (cereal), so the next time we hung out we went to the grocery store and bought shreddies, and then went back and ate soggy cereal together. It was so funny. After about 3 months of friendship we decided to plan a date, and on our first actual date we began our “official” relationship. We were married within a year! 🥰

[@melaniel7263]

Rachel Jane What a beautiful story! All the very best for you both ♥️

[@thymeandtenderness]

The biggest piece of advice my mother ever gave me as a young woman was to never be OVERLY flirtatious, try not to chase a guy but rather let a guy show interest in you. And... to try and seek out “the secret person of the heart.” 1Peter 5:4. What attracted me most to my husband was 1. We had the same faith. 2. How industrious he was. And 3. How he treated others, especially his mother. ❤️ when someone asks me for advice when they’re dating/courting I always tell them to pay attention to how their love interest treats the women in their life because that will show you how he will treat you. A good man is a good, strong, yet kind leader but treats the women in his life with dignity and respect.

[@NM0047]

A girl once attracted me, by just listening to whatever I knew of history, wars, politics and religions. Over a period of time I felt compelled to get attracted to her, she was like chubby and not my type, but she won me over by respecting my ideas, thoughts, etc. I guess it works!. :)

[@nawa9228]

it almost feels like ...a taboo thing to tak about and feel in my gen (im 23) but ive always been attracted to being a homemaker and mother!! this makes me feel unashamed of having that ambition, its something im always afraid to share w my friends . love this

[@vanessaroper3028]

We need more of your type to raise stable families.

[@HD-Australia]

When I was a full-time stay at home mum, this was the best part of my adult life.

[@dulcimer16]

As a man, it’s great to hear that you have those desires. I would suggest finding new friends that feel the same way you do.

[@tiaranache9775]

I’m 23 too. But I was proud to tell people that’s what I wanted. No need to feel embarrassed. You’re that one that has to live your life, not them.

[@negracaribena]

Omg same!!! I’m 22 and people my age don’t take it well. I believe that women should have the choice to stay home or work without being judged. Both are important and valid ambitions

[@ET-ed1oo]

I got overtaken by a bad stomach bug while on the beach, he saw I was vulnerable and suffering. He offered to bring me home and followed up the next day with medication and chocolates :) 3 years together now!

[@judyheller8814]

Two stories. A group of men were surrounding my 14 year old car and were fascinated that I took such good care of it. I cook my own food and bring it with me to work. My male coworkers come up to me and ask about my food that I make.

[@Discordia5]

Haha, they probably all like you!

[@foreverone546]

Awh thats cute lol Thanks for sharing

[@hiekfbisnl2772]

Cute! Sounds like cultivating femininity is working!

[@jiliciar.1423]

Aww. 😃

[@osse1n]

Attraction is about polarities and thus masculine man are attracted to feminine women. Following Mrs advices will get you there.

[@aprilhelm518]

"Attraction is about polarities and thus masculine man are attracted to feminine women." -- Yes, and: "Following Mrs advices will get you there." -- No. That's your opinion. In the first place, people have to be themselves. There's no reason a woman could ever teach another woman to be *her* best self. -_-' If a person taught women to accept themselves, that would be one thing, but a) that's not what's happening here (as far as I can see), and b) that's nigh impossible for any individual woman to accomplish for all women.

[@asmartplan]

Basket of Dependables Yikes! Good luck out there in the world🤞🏼

[@burgermister7580]

Tom girl and wimpy boy opposites attract lol

[@aprilhelm518]

@@burgermister7580 Believe it or not, there is more than one type of woman in the whole universe. Who in their right mind would think one woman is THE role model for all of them? You're insane. Who tf do you think she is? Jesus?

[@aprilhelm518]

@@burgermister7580 People can have multiple role models as well. I don't see why anyone has to pick Mrs. Midwest as one of them just because she says she's feminine and her channel is guided by her own moral compass.

[@Mrs.Washburn]

Don’t apologize for going on too long. I could have listened all day. We need more women like you, sis. ✨👏🏽

[@evashepherd7820]

“Beauty rest” is so real! I cannot think about looking beautiful or feeling beautiful if I’m mentally or physically tired!

[@royalblood7143]

If you want to attract quality men you FIRST NEED to be quality yourself... And you won't ever be quality by wishing to find love on Tinder, being lazy, or saying that men should do all the work for you and so on.

[@Rn-rf1jl]

That's true, I want a strong man because I'm a strong woman. I'm not masculine, but I know how to manage my feelings and I've been through a lot, that's why I want a partner who is strong.

[@Rn-rf1jl]

I don't associate being strong with being masculine, women are strong because we give birth and we raise children, is not an easy job, I look up to my aunts and my mother, I realise how strong they are.

[@unclecharles]

I found your channel because of someone’s hate video on you. Your message to women is extremely valuable in our current times. Keep it up, and don’t let the haters get you down.

[@queenofscrolls7585]

Same! Here learning now

[@isabellopes890]

I can’t understand, how someone can heate her?

[@tiffanygrl5151]

I love my masculine husband! So thankful for great masculine men. Don’t give up ladies, they are out there and are dying for a feminine woman to be with. I met my husband at a very unfeminine place, a bar haha. It was before I truly embraced the entirety of femininity. Luckily my husband saw my potential and pursued me. I was a very good cook and wanted to impress him early on, so I made him dinner. You should have seen how grateful he was. His masculinity inspired me to want to become more feminine. ❤️ Now we are newly married and have a baby on the way, I will also be fulfilling my dream of being a home maker and stay at home mama at the end of the year. It’s all possible ladies.

[@MariamAli-wg6gk]

This gives me hope! I wish you all the best! ❤️

[@smallcountrylady718]

Love this story! Congrats

[@subscribee9792]

@@MariamAli-wg6gk I'm so glad it gives you hope! All of us need it when we think that we can settle for any less than a great man. If we truly deserve one, we shouldn't be impatient or lose faith in finding that person. There is someone for everyone, and there is certainly masculine men for a divine feminine woman. Don't stop searching!

[@waltervillacorta32]

As a masculine man , I would say this is 100% legit

[@BigYoutubacom]

A masculine man can't sit through this bullshit 😅🤣

[@kipweit9634]

I highly doubt you are a masculine man.

[@jiliciar.1423]

@@kipweit9634 I genuinely want to know why do you say so?

[@onuryldz4592]

@@jiliciar.1423 Masculine men is not a stereotype, even so they tend to be not "claiming" that they are masculine because they don't need to. I've met dozens of them, sure they make assumptions on other men that how should they treat women or provide for their family etc. but none of them stated that they are masculine. So I second his opinion

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

Masculine men are the absolute best, I'm so thankful for them. ❤

[@marianosman9382]

Hi Caitlyn! Could you do a video on the difference between "masculine" and "macho" men?

[@minaharker6641]

Oh! That will be so helpfull.

[@darilsandoval7452]

I think macho is the opposite of masculinity.

[@madisonj5136]

Marian Osman macho is insecure and masculinity is a secure confident man

[@julijakeit]

i might help cause i spot the difference right away - masculine man is about achieving goals, consistency and responsibility, macho men boast about (mostly imaginary) or exaggerating the existing achievements, especially when it comes to women, they love the chase not the goal and they care a lot about what others think about them, so if you're not passing the expectations of a macho man AND his friends, you will be deleted from his mind.

[@willowtreebytheriver]

Black Knight Fool haha....you’re quite the troll

[@MetalSlimeDrummer]

I've now watched a few of this womans' videos, and i have to say she is spot on in so many ways when it comes to how to build your best woman self for a masculine, or 'high quality', man. I stole the phrase 'high quality man' from a male empowerment channel i enjoy Alexander Grace (which is how i found this channel), but it is true that there is nothing wrong with wanting to be a feminine, in her case Christian, woman - and although it seems current society and media is trying to bring men and women to an equal footing in femininity/masculinity you should embrace your femininity. On one of her videos, where she talks about lost weight, it is clear in one of her pictures she was actually fairly average looking at that time, but her inner personality is obviously gorgeous and by working on her visible self and maintaining her inner beauty she's accomplishing her 'best self'. Her husband is a lucky man to have someone like that, and any woman watching this channel can do the same thing for their current or prospective lucky man in their life. I fully support this womans' ideologies, just wanted to express that, as a man.

[@yorikotruss7561]

My now husband noticed me the first week of college because of my knee length hair. At the time that he noticed me, I will admit I was being a little wild (We were having a "cheerleading" competition so it involved a lot of crazy dancing). However, my hair is what caught his eye. We ended up in the same class and he was sitting behind me. The one day I dropped my pen and he picked it up for me. And that is where our friendship began and eventually we got married! We have been married now for two years and I am blessed beyond all measure with by my amazing husband. :)

[@24emerald]

@Yoriko Truss ... you make a good point! I'm a guy and a girl's hair is a big deal for me too... Long hair = feminine beauty

[@oliviajohnson1926]

I watched this video to learn how to be more loving to my fiancé. It’s actually been helping to improve my connections with classy women who I have befriended. I’m sure my fiancé has noticed something different, but he’s very busy most of time, so we’ll see if he says anything. I met my fiancé at a Masquerade-themed Christmas party when we were 17 years old. I had heard stories about him from mutual friends and wanted to meet him. I just walked up to him in my woodland elf costume, smiled at him and said “Enrique, hi!” We shook hands. “He said “Hi, I’m sorry. I don’t remember your name.” I said “Oh, we haven’t met before. I’ve been waiting to meet you after hearing so many stories from mutual friends.” He asked what stories I have hear and we continued to get along charmingly for the following six years. He is a very masculine man with a touch of compassion for healing the sick. I’m a feminine woman with a mind for problem solving. We fit very well together.

[@bros4654]

Wow, what a nice approach. Way to give the green light!

[@tj4shaa]

I love masculine men ❤️ so thankful for them

[@entropyfun]

"What are you watching dude?" "A video called - How to Attract Masculine Men" "Why?" "Idk."

[@mergerogue4291]

Hahahahahahahh

[@ellacarter9863]

Haha!!

[@michaeldenny6851]

Because we're hoping to gain insight into how to steal her husband's wife.

[@lacioftheland5627]

@@michaeldenny6851 word!!!

[@evelynnormanviolin]

😂

[@marywebb9127]

I am glad I have a masculine husband ❤️ They are out there ladies. I met my husband in college. I was a student and he worked in the computer lab.

[@izzyb6504]

Mary Webb Ugh goals!! Happy for you 💘💘

[@marywebb9127]

My man is compassionate, humble, and full of heart. He can laugh at himself and cares about other people's happiness. He is also brave and has strong morals. I consider the ability to support and make good decisions together along with the ability he has to communicate with others is just one of many other attributes that make him a manly man. It fine for a woman to work if she wants to or has to. It does not make her less feminine. My husband knew I wanted to stay home with the children when they came before we got married. He would be fine if I wanted to work.

[@Sara-qm8te]

Brenna feminine doesnt mean you cant work. It doesnt exclude oneanother.

[@marywebb9127]

@ethereal angel You will find him just be patient.

[@songbird377]

Wonderful advice yet again! 💝 Also one thing I wish I knew in past dating situations I is that when you’re around a guy who you think could be a potential partner it should feel natural when you two interact and never one sided that one person is putting in more energy than the other, or that you’re pursuing him more than he’s pursing you, you should never chase a man because if you’re the right fit for each other it will fall into place and feel effortless and beautiful, never forced.

[@Valscorn01]

No idea how as a man I found your channel, but this is honestly some good advice. Be a confident woman you, and the rest is easy sailing. That’s all we really want.

[@Rn-rf1jl]

Sometimes I see videos of men, what kind of woman they want and I try to learn. Is important to understand the opposite sex

[@MsSmileyBabe]

I've learned and grown a lot since I discovered you. I'm so grateful for you. Thank you so much for everything you share with us.

[@MrsMidwest]

MsSmileyBabe thank you for letting me know! It is my highest goal to help women. And in turn, all of you have helped my life as well! You are all a blessing to me 😍🥰

[@sofiabravo1994]

When I was younger like in high school i used to think that in order to attract masculine men you had to dress trashy like the popular girls during that time because they got all the alphas I thought were muscle athletic guys if I were to dress modestly and feminine that they would look the other way I mean no matter what I did I never attracted the kind of guys I wanted because physically I looked like a child. I was pretty vulnerable and dainty character wise but they weren’t attracted to that most guys treated me like an innocent little girl.😂 I’m married now but definitely made me remember those days

[@24emerald]

It's definitely a balancing act. Watch this episode a few more times because it's full of the right stuff. High school is hard. (For both sides) No doubt about it! Glad you got through it.

[@sofiabravo1994]

Brenna I think modern mainstream fashion exposes too much and attracts men that want the body but not the woman. Back in high school the sun kissed tan girls wearing short daisy dukes got the hot guys...the flip in culture created boys being brought up just to get sex and learn to see what kind of girls put out and the ones that don’t so the feminine modest ones would be considered prude and old fashioned something to steer away from also girls that are modest even wearing no makeup are considered less appealing it’s a harsh reality especially with the youth nowadays. Girls that try really hard in their sensuality get the guys. While pure at heart get played or completely ignored. The same boys grow older and complain that women are trashy and treat them like garbage or they can’t find a wholesome family oriented woman because they were too busy ignoring them in high school.

[@charlottecomeau1266]

I had that phase a while ago, and turns out it's actually how I acted. I acted in a trashy fashion because i thought they'd like that (for some reason) and that was reflected by the way i dressed. And it really wasn't cute. I think i could pull it off now, but I'd rather stick to my petticoat and sweaters haha

[@charlottecomeau1266]

@@brenna5118 i like modern fashion a lot, that's not what i mean by trashy. Even crop tops arent trashy unless you wear them to like... church or a funeral. There's nothing wrong with not wearing vintage, most people don't, its just what i enjoy. I dressed in an overly revealing way (especially for a 14 year old, my parents didnt let me wear everything i wanted to) and my goal was to look as "sexual" as possible. That's whats trashy imo.

[@sofiabravo1994]

Brenna did you read anything I said? Goodness showing less is more. Try dressing modest as an experiment no cleavage or tight jeans Try high waisted a line skirt passed the knees a cute blouse with buttons Light makeup a ribbon in hair you can curl or put it up. Once at school and once in public during weekend and see how you’re perceived and most importantly how it makes you feel!

[@zeldadanielle]

I love hoe you specifically said that femininity doesn't mean you can't like camping, hiking, or working with your hands. I work in a factory, but love hiking, gardening, and camping in my free time. I still try to consider myself a feminine woman even though I wear pants most of the time!

[@rosehathaway9129]

I clicked on this video expecting for you to be completely indoctrinated, but you're actually not. Don't listen to the youtubers saying that you're insane. They just disagree with you, but you're clearly courteous, intelligent and compassionate. You have genuinely thought about what your ambitions are and are simply following them, while advising other like-minded people how to do the same. My aspirations are vastly different to yours, but know that yours are still valid. Best of luck

[@blah2064]

I saw Jaclyn Glenn’s video about you and as much as I like Jaclyn, I don’t agree with her criticism of you. However, thanks to her video I found your channel!! Can’t wait to watch all your videos. You are very well spoken and I wish I found your videos a long time ago. Keep up the good work!

[@donne32701]

Could you please tag me in that video?

[@Prymbra]

As an 18 year old girl I really love Your videos. I see You as such a big role model 💗

[@nola2142]

Kinkykitten same here!

[@mamachicken4602]

I hope you will take her advice instead of that of aggressive man-bashing women on college campuses.

[@kmart3453]

Mama Chicken stop attacking people. It’s not ladylike

[@karna5998]

@@mamachicken4602 Yeah, only yes men will put up with those women, other men will focus on better women

[@kanishyavillegas5462]

I love watching your videos in the morning as I make breakfast. You are an example of what a wholesome woman looks like. Also, I love the headband!!

[@tiffani1269]

Don't apologize about the video being too long. It was perfect! Wish you would do more on this topic!

[@point-bl4nk]

piece of advice: if you're constantly being approached by "less than manly" men, if they believe they have a chance with you, chances are you're doing it wrong. your "value" might be a little bit low.

[@melaniel7263]

kiIl-chan Thanks for this tip!

[@laurenelise98]

Thank you!

[@TikalKeria]

Some men just approach anyone, to be fair lol.

[@MariamAli-wg6gk]

S Bradley I’ve done that for the past 10 years and still get mostly approaches by weird men who just want to fool around.

[@ginalienn1112]

Not necessarily. Some men approach all types of women.

[@justynafletcher841]

I'm married to a wonderful masculine alpha whom I just adore! It was literally love at first sight for us, started dating 2 days after meeting, engaged a month later and married 4 months after that. We were working out in the Teton National Park and I was doing a job I loved. I was in the best shape of my life, I was confident in myself and my husband says this was the biggest thing that made me stand out so much.

[@gigilc8961]

I really wanna be a homemaker but no one around me understands what a homemaker is .. they all want me to have a career.. i don’t wanna work or study more ... i really wish having a man in my life who I can live my dream life with him 😞

[@sabias3932]

IKRAM Beauty you should at least pursue a 2 year degree or certificate program, it never hurts to continue your education because you can always apply it in your life without necessarily having a job or career. But I hope you are able to make the life you want!

[@kora4185]

IKRAM Beauty I agree with sabia, is always good to have an education regardless (if possible). I’m finishing mine online even though my dream (and aptitude) was always to focus on my family and home integrally like I’m doing now. And don’t forget there’s a lot of people out there that are your opposite on this matter, so you can always find a partner that finds pleasure in working for others while appreciating and valuing you working for your home. If me and my husband had to trade parts we would lose out goddamn minds. The same way there are women out there that can’t stay inside for a second and men that would love to be homehubbys, and couples that would love to share and work part time etc. What’s important is being vocal about your interests with no shame, because someone out there needs someone exactly like you in their lives 💕

[@DBest-pk2tr]

It's wise to develop some job skills in case your future husband doesn't earn a large enough salary, or becomes ill and unable to work. Also it could take longer to find a good husband than you'd like and you will be able to earn money to care for yourself.

[@mot00mt]

IKRAM Beauty you can do a career that involve homemaking like bakery, decoration, hair styler and many more, you will enjoy it and you can support yourself.

[@darilsandoval7452]

Amen! 🙌

[@sarahf8585]

“Oh yea, I love cooking” *LOOK*

[@crystaljohns4163]

😂😂😂Until I saw this comment I thought she said I love cocaine

[@ginalienn1112]

Thank you for the advice about enhancing our natural beauty!

[@riza_k]

Dear Caitlin, I believe a part of femininity is self respect. A feminine woman is someone who respects herself. And I heard a wisdom from What Women Never Hear blog (a wise old man blogs about nature of men) that a man marry a woman whom he respects and a man's love for a woman grows from his respect of her. In summary, respects first then love second. Without respect, he couldn't love her. So I would love you to talk about this topic deeper in next video if you had the chance. Thank you! Love from Malaysia ♥️

[@dorianhinjo3533]

I'm a total tomboy and I do try to have self-possession since I always thought it was mature. But my family has sorta scared me that men only like girly women and not boyish girls, so its nice to know that I can still be myself and still be attractive to men.

[@hisloveiseternal1]

So thankful for masculine men. Families seem to be stronger and last forever ❤️

[@amethyrosemary8296]

You are such a sweetheart, I am really happy that I found your channel! Awesome content, keep it up!

[@annarosemoldenhauer]

Hi Kaitlyn! I’m normally a silent viewer but I just have to let you know how much your videos mean to me. I know you have a big following of college aged girls who are just now learning about what it means to be female. You’re someone that I genuinely look up to. I was wondering if you could do a video on how to grow and mature in a romantic relationship and how to begin to prepare for marriage together. I always love your content!

[@jenniferchristine1943]

You are glowing in this video!!! Any chance you will make a "how we met" kind of video with you and your hubby one day? I always learn a lot hearing from the guys perspective 💛

[@clairet5636]

“Place yourself in the vicinity” omg hahah that is how I got my now husband to fall for me and have him think it was his idea 😂

[@pianoshann]

Hi Caitlin! Could you make a styling-tips kind of video on transitioning from being a young woman to a woman? I’m 25 years old and I sometimes find it difficult to dress like a woman of my age without reveling too much, but being skinny and not curvy, I also tend to dress like a teenager and not always being taken so seriously... I’m sure you could help with that!! You’re very inspiring. Love you my dear sister💕

[@heidih6466]

Hannaa Yes!! As a 21 year old, I am really having a hard time finding ways to dress feminine but still age-appropriate. I don’t want to dress like a 16 year old, but whenever I wear “girly” dresses and skirts I look like I’m still in high school and people don’t take me seriously. The “age-appropriate” styles for my age group aren’t things I really feel comfortable wearing out in public. I’ve tried. I’ve worn them multiple times, and hated the kind of attention I got. But if I look for more modest dresses and skirts, I either look like a 30 year old or I look excessively wider than I am (I have a 28 in waist and 40 in hips so if what I’m wearing only hits my hips without accentuating my waist I look like a Lego block). HELP ME PLEASE ALL I’VE BEEN WEARING LATELY ARE JEANS AND SWEATERS

[@ginalienn1112]

This is a great topic! I’m 23 and currently going through this especially with casual wear.

[@pianoshann]

Thank you for your comment! However I'm afraid it's not about 'guys' problems'. I couldn't be happier in the relationship I'm in now. I think many girls in their mid twenties can relate. A different wardrobe won't solve problems but I believe it can help in certain settings, like getting in shape help!

[@pianoshann]

@@heidih6466 Nice to hear that someone else also feels the same!! Thank you for your message. I have a 24 in waist and 30 in hips. It was cute at 15 but now, at 25, it's another story... I would like to look more adult-like without wearing masculine clothes or really tight clothes...

[@mariabell2005]

All of it is visually. Men are visual creatures. Certain colors, clothing, being their opposite etc can attract masculine men.

[@mariabell2005]

@S Bradley Attracting and sustaining a relationship are two different things. Sustaining deals more with give and take and sharing. Its finding balance where both people win through compromise and caring.

[@charlottecomeau1266]

I mean... they can still see you be kind and wholesome, etc. It depends on the man, and just a visual won't get you very far.

[@mariabell2005]

@@charlottecomeau1266 We're talking attracting a masculine man, and most men start with visuals, after that is about personality and who you are as it compares to them and their interests and yourself. But again, this video is about attraction, not about the relationship yet.

[@MariaChristinaBari]

I think what you’re doing for young women is sooo commendable! Thank You ! 💖 ( P.s. Your dog looks at you with such love & adoration !)

[@atikaryp]

You've opened doors that I never realize I have. Thank you for your beautiful talks in your every video. As you're a Christian, I'll try my best to implement your good advices in my own religion. Have a good day, Caitlin!

[@shaaaairuuu]

Could you make a video on how you can keep creepy dudes away? I was cheated on by my ex boyfriend and he literally told other women that he wants me in the kitchen and other sexy women in bed because I dress conservatively and I could be the submissive conservative 'good' wife that mothers his babies while he bangs other hot women. I definitely dumped him immediately after I found out this matter but I feel like I can no more trust a good masculine man. God knows which one is just pretending and intending to use you in the wrong way.

[@faithwisdom788]

I don't know if keeping the creepy dude away is the right mindset because they're not going to walk around I'm guessing with a sign saying that they're a creepy person. You might have to learn to discern good men vs the not good men. Your ex might be a product of the culture. Correct me if I'm wrong but men might feel like they need to have sex with as many women as they can and by doing so they're more of a man or something because that might be with other men tell them and Society's movies and TV shows.

[@shaaaairuuu]

@@faithwisdom788 how do I even mean to discern between them?? I am grateful for some bad experiences I had because they taught me some lessons but there's gotta be someone giving us the knowledge so that we don't have to go through that shit at least not as much as one would do without any knowledge to begin with right? It becomes so draining and frustrating very quickly.

[@shaaaairuuu]

@@notthatkindofdino funny thing is that he was literally all great and even respected my boundaries and all I just wasn't aware that he was being unfaithful behind my back and was sharing details of our relationship with other women. That's why I said it is so hard to trust these men.

[@shaaaairuuu]

@Ciaran L1998 true, he was never a good masculine man. But I mean that he seemed like one on the outside and in fact everything was going very well in our relationship until one of my friends figured he was being unfaithful through some connections and I eventually found out that it's indeed true he was cheating on me.

[@shaaaairuuu]

@What Not To Do At a Stoplight lol that's not polyamory that's straight up cheating. If someone wants a polyamorous relationship he or she should be talking about it in the first place. Polyamorous relationships are built on trust and consent. That was not my case. I'm strictly monogamous he was just texting other girls and was asking them for nudes to masturbate to behind my back.

[@kaylag9579]

1. You can make two different personalities work. You cant make two different visions and value systems work. 2. That does not mean you won't fight because you will, Your bringing to different people together as one. 3. Look for the fruit on the tree, meaning don't listen or take advice from those who are not on the path or can only offer an opinion but have not experienced it themselves. - I had some amazing mentors in my life over the years and these 3 things have stuck with me and changed my life for the better.

[@charityskidd]

I’m so thankful for your channel! I believe God has me in a season of wholeness and that includes me learning to be the way he created me to be. I picked up a lot of masculine traits due to trauma but through this healing process he’s showing me the beauty of being feminine through your channel! Thank you 🤍

[@Red0660]

This is from a conversation I just had with a feminist regarding leading and following in a relationship. I was trying to explain to her that men like to lead and that leadership is a service not dominance over a woman. I hope it is helpful. "If it helps them figure it out it is men who naturally tend to emerge as the leader and take responsibility. It doesn't matter if you take her by the hand and are forging your way through a crowd, taking care of logistics for a family trip, camping or what have you...a man wants to be responsible in many ways for his wife and children and his leadership is a service. It doesn't mean you go along like a rag doll but rather make your preferences known and let him carry out the plan. Men like it when you show that you trust he is capable and when you follow him it speaks to your confidence in him. A man taking a role of leadership and responsibility can make a woman feel cared for, loved and protected. Submission means you let your husband lead and take responsibility for things. Men want this responsibility. I think a well adjusted woman respects him for it."

[@Red0660]

@@MayContainJoe Yea it doesn't take long in to find out if a woman's mind has been poisoned. Either she respects your leadership as a service to her or she doesn't. Men don't operate in an egalitarian circle jerk and naturally form hierarchies in all male groups. It's how men actually end up building and maintaining everything we see around us and how this message is reaching anyones eyes right now through male built infrastructure. My obligation to her is to be attentive and anticipate or inquire about her needs, welbeing and preferences but I will be the one to lead and execute for us. If a woman doesn't defer to and trust in me to move us into and out of situations both good situations or bad then I don't want the burden. Most red blooded men feel responsible for their wives or even women and children in their company and if that is a problem then I don't want anything to do with her. Women and children are men's responsibility. Though I think men have now withdrawn to now only see their own woman and child in this light. Women's public station and identity is now corrupt and they have reduced themselves more so to sex objects and liabilities to men than ever before. In my opinion women by default no longer have a public station and identity that can be assumed to be one that should be respected by men. They are less so honorable as wives and as mothers than ever before.

[@JanelleGodin]

yes! work on yourself to cultivate an attractive reputation, and when you have an attractive reputation in the long run, then, people come chasing you

[@thefrugalengineers5139]

How do you signal your beauty during a midwest winter? This is my biggest fashion/beauty challenge - how to look and feel attractive when it's zero degrees outside and I'm running errands or walking my kid to school. I just want to bundle up like the Michelin Man!

[@delightfullydotty7130]

The Frugal Engineers a fitted wool coat, knee high boots, skirt just above the knee and lacy tights xx

[@Goat.Cheese]

Pea coats (rather than a fluffy marshmallow-style coat) promote a more feminine, hourglass shape :)

[@thefrugalengineers5139]

@@delightfullydotty7130 Thank you! I have a bright red wool pea coat that I need to start wearing!

[@thefrugalengineers5139]

@@Goat.Cheese Thank you!

[@laurenelise98]

I have a rabbit fur aviator, ankle-length winter coat that isn't wool but comes in at the waist to accentuate a feminine shape. If it works for your height the coat is pretty elegant and waterproof compared to wool. I also wear skirts with thick leggings underneath and a warm sweater on top.

[@mayanabarbosa6385]

I'm glad I found your channel, you're so wise! Sending love from Brazil 💛🇧🇷

[@mablebird]

I was having a tough morning. Your videos always make me feel more secure in myself. Sending love your way

[@brainsinateacup1071]

I find your videos really calming to watch and your personality so sweet.

[@sofiabravo1994]

Brains in a Teacup it’s her take on traditional values and families what you described isn’t it.

[@abigailmendoza2502]

Women, don't ask him a lot of questions!!! All of these tips are wonderful! But let him get to know you and let him listen to you. Being the instigator is in fact masculine because it is the act of pursuing. Just have a fun conversation and he will want more :)

[@arkonem2933]

Uhm no ask him a lot of questions, if you're out on a date you should be getting to know the man aswell. If a woman didn't show interest in me on the date, there would be no second date. Regardless of if the convo was fun or not

[@zippyblessed839]

No i will ask every question Only in your own mind is it masculine

[@melissag8270]

You have such a warm presence, thank you for all your amazing tips I always enjoy your videos ❤️

[@judithdavina]

Thank you for being such a bright inspiration💖You make me feel at home🌻 God bless 😇✨

[@nataliewalker2642]

Thank you so much for this video. It is so nice to be reminded about the basics.And, insight into your great perspective and experiences. You've given me the confidence to admit to myself what I want is a masculine man. I weirdly was in denial about it. I am so excited about visualizing myself with a masculine man!

[@janaswanepoel5889]

Can you make a video about you and your husbands’ love story? xx

[@Demi.d3mi]

I feel like you say what we already know deep down and we just need confirmation 😅😅

[@charlottecomeau1266]

"Think about your specific combination of what you like in a man." NICE HAIR!!!! Thank you for coming to my ted talk.

[@siddabruno6102]

I love that you are stern but you also affirm, “do not worry!” Very balanced, love your videos!

[@CynthiaL]

Love that headband Caitlin! 🌸

[@mgu1N1n1]

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

[@vivandefuncti8991]

Thank you so much for helping me along my feminine journey. For the longest time I was trying to compete with men and be a 'strong independent woman', yet was unhappy, felt out of place, and was never noticed by men. But by embracing my femininity and taking on a nurturing role I suddenly found not only do I attract more friends and quality men, but also feel much more at peace with myself. I very much appreciate your videos guiding me and assuring me that the path I am taking is the right one for me.

[@trygvij1604]

Great video! I strongly agree with the dressing down statement. Women who try to attract by sexual appearance are an instant turn off for me. I love women who are cute but confident.

[@linda.westin]

I look forward to watching this video later, I feel so excited to watch it and I almost waited a little on purpose, to fill up my excitement. It may sound silly but I felt so happy to see this video pop up about a subject I care deeply about. I love masculine men. I love the forward energy in a masculine man. And I know that I will marry a masculine man who cherishes my femininity and expressiveness, for I honor myself and my heart and feelings and boundaries. I value who I am, I know my worth and I love passionately and unconditionally and spread my kindness all over the place. I believe and feel it in every fiber in my happy being that I will have the masculine, loving, loyal man that I know within that I totally deserve in every way! He will be even more amazing than I can even imagine because we will bring out the best in each other and I will respect him for the man he is as he will respect me for the feminine appreciative woman I am. I say Yes to this! ❤️🙏🏼

[@24emerald]

(From a guy) Wow, really good episode! What a breath of fresh air. Sorely needed these days. That's just the truth. Here's the compliment, Well done! A pleasure to view. Congrats...

[@Avalon1316]

Loved the message, as always! Can you do a video on where/how to attract like-minded feminine friends and how to not be intimidated by other women? :)

[@madisonangulo52]

I think a lot of older women are like this....somewhere down the line it changed....i think the way kaitlin does....us women are out there...but thank goodness that we have her...she articulates so much better than i could and can reach a whole new generation!

[@jackjumperfreak]

Amazing to watch this as a man trying to be a REAL man. Im looking forward meeting my feminin counterpart.

[@Desunooto]

I’m way too sensitive for a masculine men. I usually atract them a lot, but I find them too agressive and get scared...

[@confused3523]

Hey I just wanted to say, be with someone who’s good and compassionate, masculinity and these things are important I suppose but superficial qualities of a person fade away with time , I don’t know why I’m saying this I’m asexual but removing myself from the narrative and that Is what I’ve seen work , doesn’t matter If the person you love doesn’t fit in societies standards :)

[@gracehooper1235]

‘You remove your clothing’ 😂😂 I lost it

[@eu8330]

Here in brazil some People preach that men should not be masculine,and television tries to impose that men have to be affeminate,say that woman like effeminate me,some young People believe that and begin tô Change their behavior tô please,masculinity here is in decline this is very sad !.

[@princessbella9717]

I really love your channel. All the way from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@yolandibanard]

Hi fellow SA lady :)

[@princessbella9717]

@@yolandibanard Hi 😊😊😊

[@reneiloesongo4224]

Hey 😊

[@ronandheather3079]

You are such a beautiful soul. I thank god for you. May trillions of women be blessed by your lessons and life. God bless you.

[@weronikas1307]

You look so beautiful in this video and thumbnail!😍wow! Also thank you for this great message! Greetings from Poland

[@rikketakera]

Can you do a video on spotting toxic masculinity vs healthy masculinity in a potential partner?

[@dalewr38]

It's rapey male feminists and guys that have figured out that getting a bunch of tattoos and becoming a caricature of masculinity will get them laid. They're imposters like e-thots half naked acting girly on the internet are cartoon version of femininity. These people are scammers that impersonate masculinity or femininity to get what they want, in mens case it's usually sex and in women it's usually money.

[@kingd-lite3674]

No such thing as “toxic masculinity”, that’s a term (shaming language) created by feminist to put down strong traditional men. Bad men are not “toxically masculine”, they’re just bad men.

[@LuisCarruthers]

Step 1: stop saying toxic masculinity.

[@madisonj5136]

Dang girl you almost to 100k. Jacklyn gave you mega clout

[@jennacollins7301]

hi caitlin, i recently found your channel and love so much of it! i am confused by one of your ending comments though. traditional, biblical marriages are egalitarian. men and women are equal in value, we just have different roles. i consider myself more traditional and conservative. i want to be a stay at home mom when i have children, i’m attracted to masculine men and i want to be pursued. but i also understand that a biblical marriage includes mutual submission and servantship towards your spouse. we are not to be focused on ourselves. i love so much of what you say but i’m concerned that some comments push women to be a lightweight complement to a man without her own personality and passions. any clarity on the egalitarian comment? thanks!

[@franchezkajanebalatbat8758]

I love how you took time to pet your doggo 💖💖💖

[@andreagrace1369]

Can you make a video about your trip to Isrrael? And meeting your husband..

[@katierosealexander8132]

This video came at just the right time :) embracing natural beauty is such great advice x

[@itsjustnadia]

mrs midwest: embrace and show your femininity me awake at 2.30 am yawning and playing candy crush: "damn straight"

[@beepee4164]

Keep doing what you do! Everyone isn’t allowed to give an opinion on you. Keep speaking & living your truth.

[@MeccaShields]

don't be sorry, we love the long videos

[@lifewitholga_]

Your energy was different in this video, I even laughed a few times. Love you! P.s I also enjoyed your written blog.