Elegant Flirting Tips & Techniques

[@julia9557]

It’s not about getting attention from the most guys. It’s about getting attention from the RIGHT guy.

[@mb-sx2tg]

You said everything.🙏🏽

[@ZhaiiYou]

I don’t know how I missed this 10 months ago !

[@jiliciar.1423]

Yess, I need to keep reminding myself this.

[@sciencegirl2012]

Amen!👏👏🎉

[@cristinap273]

"Not sexualizing yourself may cut down on how many are interested in you but that's a good thing because you're gonna leave behind the men who are interested in you for YOU". 👏👏👏

[@hayaalany9796]

I love this ☝🏻

[@booksboundnoveljourneys1122]

I absolutely love this, and I try to do this, but it’s difficult when men who want over sexualized women are more prevalent than those who want elegant, feminine women.

[@cristinap273]

@@booksboundnoveljourneys1122 Nevermind, those men mostly not align to your values.

[@booksboundnoveljourneys1122]

Cristina P that’s very true. It will be very difficult though.

[@מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס]

As a man, I would say that yes, moving away from surface sexualization

[@amandakate1247]

Do you have a video on politely declining people’s invitation or number? Or dealing with gossip with dignity.

[@dayanaraviera3840]

Amanda Kate This would be a great video to watch.

[@Adnilas]

What a fantastic idea!

[@GraceMarieBarry]

She totally has a video where she talks about gossip, it's one of her ones on behaving like a lady 😃💕

[@paigec5017]

Yess this is so hard for me. One time I was respectful at first and said I have a boyfriend but I felt flattered and would have given him a shot if I was single and then he came back and pushed again!! Okay now I'm mad, you just disrespected my relationship😠

[@arielpillitteri5824]

@@paigec5017 also disrespecting your answer. Whenever guys do that to me (im a lesbian) i just go "youre right, i was wrong, i shouldve said yes, wanna get married?" then they leave me alone. Dont be afraid to do a quick scary comeback, it'll save your evening, trusttt me. If you think that's too mean just remember that he didn't take your politeness the first time, in which case defense is rightfully next, then offense.

[@auburnsunlight]

1. Avoid oversexualizing yourself (your sexuality can be kept a mystery reserved for later, also it filters out all the guys who only like your body and not you), applicable to everyday conversations but also to social media posts (pictures) 2. show softer, vulnerable, elegant, refined sides of yourself 3. avoid talking about exes 4.let him come to you. Even when he‘s shy, he‘s gonna make a move. You might wanna be a tiny bit more „present“, keep that curiosity 5.simply don‘t be rude (I thought that was a given) 6.open up to the guy, don‘t take yourself too seriously, keep it light-hearted 7.“send the invitation“ aka tiny little moments of recognition, a short look across the room, a „knowing look“, a smile, a like under a picture, basically tiny steps 8.don‘t feel the need to lay out your entire existence and inform him about everything about you, let him get to know you, it‘s a beautiful process 9.show your personality, don‘t be ashamed of who you are 10.show you care for the people you love, friends, family and him of course 11. HAVE DIGNITY. (A huge one in my opinion) aka have boundaries, know how far you‘re willing to go/what is in line with your core values & beliefs, a guy isn‘t a good enough reason for you to change. 12. be careful who you choose in any case, take everything into account, chemistry but also values & mutual respect etc. 13.practice. In the appropriate cases, of course. 14.remember that men are also complex, sophisticated human beings, they have a life, passions, families too, they‘re really not that intimidating OR that simple. Try to really genuinely get to know a human when you talk to him/her. Some additional tips from me: get comfortable in your own skin, build confidence in yourself before anything, because if you stumble into the world with unstable self-esteem, you‘re running the risk of attaching that self-worth to anything, be it men, popularity, appearance, or any other variable and equally unstable part of your life. When you have a grounded core, a clear sense of who you are and when you know that your worth is intrinsic because God knew you were worth creating, then the ease we often lack in flirting just naturally falls into place. Another big thing is, know that you don‘t need a man to survive. It is always nice to be in a healthy, rewarding relationship, but when that one guy whom you flirted with wasn‘t really feeling it, that‘s ok. There are billions of other potential matches on earth. And even if none of them are perfect, you are always aware that you are capable, beautiful, strong, intelligent, kind, and everything you ever wanted to be because every single human being has the capacity to be wonderful and self-sufficient. LOVE TO ALL OF YOU❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@toofanibihari7324]

youre the hero we need but dont deserve

[@auburnsunlight]

ToofaniBihari omg you‘re the sweetest thank you so much, however if it happened then God wanted it to, so you do deserve everything beautiful that comes into your life, always remember that when sth great happens❤️

[@dariali1768]

Amira, thank you for your opinion on the topic, I LOVED how you encouraged us singles and reminded on the wholesomeness of being single as much as being with someone! God bless you!

[@auburnsunlight]

Daria Li oh my goodness you just made my day. Thank you so much for your kind words and I wish you the absolute best. ❤️

[@Summerzbreezee]

Thanks for writing this out! Great extra tips!

[@juliehill5113]

To add, many quality men are attracted to a woman with brains/discernment: able to think critically and have valid reasoning skills. Have goals and ambitions! Also, be super playful, but not in a childish and immature way. Be compassionate and generous to those in need. My husband of 10 years LOVES these things about me, and I gotta say, I caught me a good one!

[@ambersummer2685]

That’s where I feel like I lack in. I feel stuck and don’t know what to do in my life despite all my interest and passions and I just don’t think I’m a bright person either. People usually like me as a person but idk romantically….

[@jt_norway9129]

Thats some good qualities :)

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

The part about men being people too hit home. You're totally right, they're somebodies son, brother, father, or whatever the case may be. No need to think of getting to know them as being sooo intimidating. I never thought of it like that. 🤔

[@schnioula]

WeShareTheSameAffliction So simple, yet so true!

[@jk4351]

My boyfriend told me that me saying no to him, and actually following through with it, regardless of his attempts to change my decision is what made him respect me.So if there's something you don't want to do, saying no is your best course of action.If you give in to pressure, you will not enjoy the experience, and he will be thinking he has some power over you.

[@teagansmyth8144]

This is seriously disgusting

[@naavajo]

True, your man should respect you no matter what. Ah, sexism

[@brendalara1210]

Yeah kind of messed up to think that if a woman manged to feel pressured by him have gave in he'd automatically loose respect. So sad. I used to think like that, until o realized how sexist it was...if you actually think about it, you'll see it. Why is it okay for him to keep asking if you say no and your judged if you give in but he isn't?? Nah man....

[@brendalara1210]

Btw my current boyfriend respected me when I said no to something he wanted to do. We're happy together and it's been years. He respects me because I'm a human. Didn't need to prove that.

[@jk4351]

@@cillvea I literally said the exact opposite.Say what you mean and don't dial down if he doesn't like it.English isn't my first language so I might have not got my poin across clearly, but I'm sure some people over here are just reading into it stuff that isn't there.

[@ajsam4881]

“Show that you care, but also show that you’re willing to walk away.” YES!!! 👏🏻👏🏻 👏🏻

[@huggingMonster]

90% of my friends are guys. I kind of become more masculine around therm because I don't want their attention. In the end I found myself mastering saying no and slipping under the radar so I forgot how to interact with men for a romantic relationship purpose. Thank you for reminding me how to be feminine.

[@betmikael28]

Thats one of the reasons why I want only accept invitations of the opposite sex if its a date😊

[@mairadilimiti9877]

You look SOOOO amazing, that red lipstick looks really good on you and that shirt is GORGEOUS!!! Red definitely suits you, you should wear it more often ❤️

[@osse1n]

Flirting - a subtle dance of trying out the person and figuring out whether they understand nuances of attraction and desire

[@valentinasanna4018]

Oh dear, you definitely need to wear red more often! It really lights you up! Thank you for the nice topic 😊 xx

[@brittanysmith3716]

16 seconds in and I had to pause the video to tell you how beautiful you look. Sorry for the superficial comment, but red looks so good on you! ☺️ Still wanting to raid your closet lol. Ok, back to the video.

[@gyiselhernandez6580]

I just did the same! 😂

[@beatricemihic4711]

Ladies, flirting and first dates shouldn't be you proving to a man that you are goid enough for him. But its about finding if he is a right match for you!

[@tanushreechatterjee6936]

GOD THAT BLOUSE IS STUNNING ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mekhala8731]

It suits her so well, damn! ❤️

[@jiliciar.1423]

Ugh, right. 🙂

[@sunfl0w3r98]

I’m dying to know where she got it

[@mohinicbanerjee]

That blouse just made my day!! The color and the satin is just perfect 😍 May I ask where it’s from? Is it thrifted?

[@kaitlynrunion4192]

I'd like to know as well!

[@moarenlajamir2812]

I am pretty sure she sew it herself 🥰😁

[@elarfaouizeineb7560]

me too i want to know

[@ashleydamjanac1835]

I need to know as well, it's the reason why I clicked the video so quick!

[@katherineliriano6164]

it is crazy how much I have changed. 2021 was THE year for me. I am so done with unhealthy dating dynamics. Hence why I'm revisiting and rewatching all these mrs. midwest videos. I am getting to know someone who is so different from my usual type. He doesnt make me feel nervous, it is not thrilling, not dramatic, nothing ever happens that makes me want to discuss with my circle of friends. It is safe, and slow burning, and beautiful and I am so willing to work on myself to make US work if he's also willing and I think that's amazing and beautiful.

[@paulaspeak4338]

The best advice my mother gave me was to make the "right man" chase you. A "good man" wants a woman who is self-confident, knows what she wants in life, has goals and a good personality. What you put out there is what you ultimately get back. If you are sexually suggestive by your dress, if you're loud and boisterous, and drink in excess then that's what you'll attract someone who see you as a "bootie call" and not relationship material that will use and abuse you. Demand respect by your actions and that's what you'll get. Love yourself first and you'll attract the "right man".

[@jennygracefully]

Thank you for making this! I’ve been really nervous of how to flirt with guys in an elegant way and I really find men to be intimidating.

[@shanaeb4814]

Super yes to men being people too!!! I really liked what you said about ‘little moments of impact’ and dignity! Women in modern society are expected to be controlling, loud, and imposing (I am women hear me roar). Those little moments and mystery have far more power, even in none romantic ways! It’s really a lost art. Thanks for this video!

[@lauravanderklippe5631]

“You caught my eye, guy” 😂

[@meredithellen620]

Gonna use that now 😂😂

[@GraceMarieBarry]

🤣

[@lifewitholga_]

Oh my goodness! Haha yessss

[@ailinh911]

wow i can’t believe you _invented_ the color red!🌹

[@sarahaharper]

Caitlin!! We need a Facebook Group for the Feminine Family! Lead the way!

[@megandelli1]

It’s interesting to me to watch this video because I’ve been dating my (now) husband since I was in 8th grade. I have no knowledge of this stuff... But I need to be able to teach this to my daughters so thank you for sharing!! ❤️

[@abigailmills2603]

Wow. How did you keep the relationship from going down hill? I heard that there’s a higher chance for problems in marriage for couples who got together younger. If you mind me asking, how do you keep the love alive in your relationship?

[@megandelli1]

Abigail Mills we’ve had a lot of problems actually. Also because we lived together before marriage. NOT a good idea at all! But love is something that you choose every day. Our biggest problems happened right after the births of both of our children and a lot of it comes down to resentment and a lack of communication. You just have to really say how you feel, even if it hurts and deal with problems before they become big. Even if they do get big, if you have the mindset that you will not get divorced and you are a team, you can work through anything. For us, being in prayer has helped so much. You have to always be ready and willing to forgive and not hold grudges. And don’t neglect your sex life because it is very important in marriage. I don’t know if any of that made sense lol but society teaches us that love is a feeling, but anyone who has been married 20+ years will tell you there were times that they did NOT feel love at all. You CHOOSE to love someone through everything. The Bible tells us that our heart is deceitful above all things and that is so true. Use a sound mind, wisdom, and CHOOSE to love your spouse because you chose them.

[@maritzaperrault4836]

Can you please do a video on how you stay mentally healthy as a homemaker? How do you keep your mind from going into dark areas and if it does happen how do you pull yourself out?

[@paigec5017]

I think Cynthia L did a video on that, I'd love to see one from Caitlyn though, I think it was scares me away from that kind of lifestyle

[@maritzaperrault4836]

Paige C Which one is it?

[@ascendednightingale2456]

I was a homemaker for 3 years, and I’ve suffered from depression my entire life. Having fulfilling hobbies helped a lot. I enjoyed crocheting, knitting, baking, cooking, soap making, learning guitar and ukulele, and painting.

[@arielpillitteri5824]

Every long term relationship Ive had with a dude started with a good ol arm touch.

[@5674Kc]

Caitlin, you hit the nail on the head. I think the key is to know and enjoy yourself, so that you are comfortable and free to enjoy the man you are talking to/ flirting with.

[@addydodd5724]

Your blouse is EVERYTHING!!:D

[@MJBpeace]

My question is how do you keep this up when you are in a longterm relationship? How do you make the masculine man feeling that he still has to win you and your time, you attention, your words, for him to treasure them? Because I feel like since living together/ being together a lot of time...since we already know eachother/ seen eachother in a lot of way - my mystery has gone away, and I feel it in his attention-while I'm the one feeling like I have to "win him".... Can I have some advice, please?

[@ArchiduquesaMA]

MJBpeace this is so true!!!

[@ReinaBRamos]

Focus on yourself more. 11:36

[@pollymat991]

Yep and have time ALONE. Take trips. Be YOU. Have A LIFE. Be someone interesting to YOU :) that made me interested me and apparently that interests others regardless of how long they're with me.

[@pollymat991]

It's ok to be together and individuals 😊

[@Rin-le7cx]

Even you are living together you still need to set boundaries. Like do not open the bathroom door when you poop. Pick your nose in front of him. Smell your feet. Etc. you know where I’m getting at. Let him feel that you are a woman he can’t consume. 😘

[@elizabethsimonds6925]

WOW that color makes everything in your features POP!!! Absolutely stunning!!!!

[@salsabilsaadeldin9173]

I love what you said at the end ,like "they are people too with feeling & it would be fun to get to know them"...often I get surprised when I see men express emotions or tinder side of them self on special occasions...I get that it's their masculine nature but yeah we can overlook their feelings & vulnerability sometimes.

[@melissajones9791]

you look SOO DARN GOOD IN RED CAITLIN!! that's a beautiful shade of red on you!!!

[@LaraCarvalho-pr7jj]

As I come to my 20`s that's important tips, especially in the (Brazilian) culture I live in, all the girls want to show how much their bodies are voluptuous, but not really showing any personality. And because of that I am still pretty lost with elegant flirting, something I really enjoy, with this tips I believe I`ll find my way around all this stuff and attract the kind men that I worship the most. THANKS Caitlin.

[@la_serenaa]

OK I'll officially watch this everytime before I meet my crush, gives off really powerful vibes ~

[@julia9557]

I wish your channel was around years ago when I was a teenager!!!

[@paigec5017]

Just came off watching a reaction to Shallon Lester, gosh you are so refreshing. You are inspire me to have so much warmth and love in my heart and sort of help me refresh that after the world starts to wear it down ❤ thank you for your videos!!

[@Dilemma998]

what is your opinion on shallon?

[@paigec5017]

@@Dilemma998 her message isn't horrible all the time, her advice probably isn't effective for more than a fling because she's not about equality, shes about women being the priority in a relationship. Probably good for women with low self esteem who need a little push. But overall I just find her harshness and I guess her masculine energy very offputting. She calls herself a feminine feminist which I think just means she likes wearing pink and curling her hair 🙄

[@rachaelmancera1964]

Paige C shallon does have a lot of masculine energy.

[@diyachaklader5586]

Shallon is great she's taught me a lot these two women are different it's upto you whether you want to use a combination of advice or if you want to just go for one of them

[@paigec5017]

@@diyachaklader5586 yeah she's definitely worth weeding through although I feel Susan winters does a better job. I just feel so negative and judgmental after watching shallon. So I just can't anymore

[@eviesherman2734]

Oh my gosh that red top is so PRETTY😍😍😍

[@ShaniceMichelle9454]

Omg I really needed this video because my flirting always turns sexual very fast so I just avoid it all together 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@curiouslykristina]

The video we didn’t know we needed, *thank you!*

[@sofiabravo1994]

My “elegant” flirting How I flirted: (on our way home back from our first date) “by the way I’m a virgin...so don’t expect anything” Him: “oh that’s totally fine”. Him in reality: *marry me* Today: he’s my husband ❤️

[@annarocha3254]

A very sweet story. But also a word of warning to other young girls out there. If you are saving yourself for marriage, please be careful about who you tell you are a virgin. Some men will try to take advantage of that.

[@Adnilas]

Also just saying straight up “I’m a virgin” might seem a little forward and vulgar. Not very ladylike. I’d just let him figure it out for himself. I’m glad it worked out for you though!

[@natalies753]

I love your style and clearly he did too :)

[@mekhala8731]

@@natalies753 I agree with this. I've been called a nun, a prude and god knows what else just because I don't want to get physical before marriage! And I live in a country considered conservative. Aren't we supposed to support people's decisions instead of deciding for them? Isn't it a choice? Cultural degradation is a real threat everywhere.

[@mysticc6232]

@@cristinap273 thank you for the link! It was helpful.

[@Theuniverseguru]

Great advice on flirting! I find it’s actually harder to flirt after years of marriage. I had to really get used to flirting with my husband again after years of marriage and raising kids together. Being the invitation is such a key. I have seen women chasing men around. Being loud to get their attention. The room like you mentioned! And I have also seen high Value men finding that comical and not attractive!

[@emilyywiggs]

I have my fiance and our first date was simple Chinese food and a movie. Talk about each other and what we wanted out of life. Getting to know each other was so easy and being respectful to one another made me want to see him again and I guess it worked for him too because he never went home 😂

[@beautygirlsguide]

That RED! So stunning on you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@sdma6005]

THAT TOP 😭🙌🏼💕

[@joieparma]

Never thought I’d say this... but I needed this video right now lol

[@naturalbodyandskincare9965]

Joie Parma Why’d u never think you’d say that

[@lalaland956]

Me too

[@samanthasmoments]

I always get excited when I get notifications for your videos :))

[@MissAllaCinderella]

Thanks for the insightful tips! I’m 32, and just getting into dating after two back to back serious relationships (engagements). Haven’t “dated” since I was 19 and feel like such a fish out of water! 🐠

[@continuousself-improvement1879]

Pro Tip: show up looking like THAT and half of your problems in flirting are solved. Lol

[@realtor.kiersten]

57 seconds in and YES... just YES Mrs. Midwest

[@jt_norway9129]

I was out jogging and i sing usually along to my music and as a cute girl walked by she knew the lyrics and it was a song we had in common haha totally Spontanious she sung out loud to me and we started serenading eachother flirtatiously 💕 ☺️ i felt rly buzzed after with good feels :)

[@fruitsarelife7073]

Aww beautiful ❤

[@dayanaraviera3840]

It’s perfectly fine to have a personality and know how to laugh at things. 💖

[@AnjaTodorovic]

You are so beautiful in this video! The blouse, makeup hair everything!

[@מיכאלמרטיןבנדיקטוס]

She's really wonderful and right, I would agree with what she says, and her advice is good for both men and women.

[@anajapara]

“We don’t need to bedroomize the guy” LOL

[@paigec5017]

I thought she said bedroom-eyes lol

[@Lilfairyxo]

@@paigec5017 She did lol.

[@JS-oo1xk]

That would be bedroom eyes lol

[@thotyashimray9425]

😁lol

[@spanishDoll1]

Bed room eyes?

[@Luxuberrys]

Love love love your personality and mindset. Thanks for creating your channel.

[@nikolmulokandov]

Can you talk about how to handle attractive men when you’re in a relationship? Like if a handsome man smiles at you and says hi. I just avoid eye contact... now he does too. 😬

[@betmikael28]

Not sure if I understand correctly..You mean you have a relationship and it bothers you that you dont have eye contact with another man?

[@revatishinde_]

@Nikki I understand, see what lies underneath that avoiding eye contact with an attractive man? Sometimes there may be 'unworthiness/I am not enough for such a powerful man' false beliefs. Give yourself love and worth in those places, till you heal this. ❤️❤️

[@deannatroy8113]

I'm just friendly to everyone. I have a boyfriend, but if anybody says hi to me, I smile (in a friendship way) and say hi back. That person will know I'm not interested, but will leave still feeling unafraid to smile at other girls, and happy about himself.

[@ellie7701]

Finally feel like I'm wanting to go out into the world as a young woman and start dating, so that intro really spoke to me lol!!

[@thatexcalifornian6124]

The part about not sexualizing yourself is a struggle for me. We live in an over-sexed culture and tbh it was almost a form of rebellion against my mother when I did it. She was too heavy handed on wanting me to wait until marriage. Good intentions are often paved with bad execution, and it can have adverse effects. I acknowledge that I’m a sexual being (not an object), but I find if I go too heavy on innuendos and suggestive joking, I won’t be seen as long term material. So I definitely should save it for a relationship.

[@evelyngonzalez1250]

I love the red blouse and lipstick! 💄

[@pepagv8690]

Oh, dear. It is like you read my mind. I am totally hopeless at any kind of flirting whatsoever. I freeze and get awkward and -yes I know its bad- have a chronic case of RBF. So I need all and any help I can get (from a feminine sister, obviously, do not want to appear trashy) Thank you so much Caitlin ❤️

[@danielad9956]

I really enjoy the moment of the day when I can relax and watch one of your videos ❤️

[@bunny-gf6bi]

Thank you so much for your helpful videos ! Oh i wish you filmed a video about being feminine at school (i'm only 15), it’s so hard to be feminine while there's a lot of masculine girls around :(

[@AndreaVirago]

I just love your style 😍😍😍 and thank you for this video❤

[@ninaradulovic1530]

I really needed this. Thank you so much. Im in this situation right now where i finally liked a guy after 4 year after having a long relationship. Im trying so hard for him to like me back and its not healthy. I think i should just let it go, because he is all i think about (if he texted me, etc.) and its okay if he doesnt like me back. Im working on beeing calm when flirting and on my personality Much love to you ❤️

[@eole7817]

Honestly one of your best, most pragmatic and useful video

[@elisglaze6077]

Could you please do a wardrobe collection? Your pieces are lovely and I would love to know where they are from. :-)

[@plankeyedsaint1140]

Then there are those of us who are too friendly and have no idea 😂 (Married now 😛- you should make a video on flirting with your hubby or long term SO)

[@scarlettie]

I would love a video about how to go about setting physical and just emotional boundaries in relationships or friendships. I struggle with being in a loop of not knowing how to set boundaries and be kind while doing it

[@domicioannioulpiano6845]

We love women like you. Keep being the savior of healthy relations between normal people. I said it all. Bye

[@sweetmagnolias1698]

GIRL. Red is your color!!!! Queen!👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️

[@cs7364]

Between all the intellectual comments, I would really love to compliment the top you are wearing. Love it!

[@shanavalkyria3438]

so want that blouse! very pretty

[@Nidhi-ll3yq]

Caitlyn I love the values and wisdom that you share with us. It has helped me shift my mindset so much. Thank you :)

[@dmsilverthorne2021]

I love your outfit and everything!!! I love your channel❤️ I always come here for a nice feminine pick-me-up!

[@sharonfynn4680]

Hi you are an incredible... Can you please do a tour of your clothes or closet... That will be awesome. How you pack your cupboards.

[@Lirin]

Your top (or dress?) is so pretty!

[@faithwhatley6922]

Now that's what I call a well-timed video! I definitely needed this today. It's funny, sometimes I get scared to even talk to men much less flirt--it's like I forget that they're just people too!

[@bd3966]

Red is your color girlie!!!

[@regnbuetorsk]

that red is KILLER! i had a red taffeta shirt, long time ago. i loved it so much that i've never used it, lol

[@ithink186]

Wonderful topic! Please could you lets us know where did you get your gorgeous red blouse? You look beautiful.

[@admirbarucija2018]

Seeing your video made my whole day!! I hope you have a spectacular weekend!! ❤️

[@aadyasrivastava371]

Thank you so much Caitlyn for all that you do for us. Your videos have been so so helpful for me ♥️ Love you and God bless ♥️

[@KelanJ29534]

You look so ethereal in this outfit. Love your hairstyle 😍❤️

[@lifewitholga_]

God bless you sister! Your videos are always valuable. I appreciate your time and effort into your videos you don't need over- the-top editing but your forethought and effective communication are really what makes this the cream of the crops. 🙏🏼❤😊

[@soohila4225]

I really enjoy your content keep up the good work❤

[@frankschattner7640]

For being so young, she seems to have a good idea about how men and women relate in a healthy way.

[@BabeRuthXX]

You look more beautiful everyday ❤️❤️❤️ I'd love to see a lookbook/outfit/fashion advice from you!!

[@Liv2Pnt]

Something I've been dealing with and healing from is not losing myself in pursuit of someone else. In the past I've had a history of giving up the things that make me...well...me, in order to become what the man (whoever he may be) wanted me to be. (Obviously my choice in men wasn't that great to begin with). 😏 But I'm healing, and learning so much more about myself--my real self--in the process.

[@boudjemaboukhalf8922]

Wow gorgeous in red

[@lydiakessler5402]

One of your best videos by far!

[@Myartfulmind]

I love your videos but on your Instagram it says you post videos every Monday and Thursdays. You seem like you haven't been lately. Not a big deal! I just love your channel and I am always happy to see when you do post. You have such lovely videos and I like to hear about what you have to say about any topic🤗

[@Hey-ms5sg]

I love your content so much !! Lots of love!! God bless you and your family !!

[@missautumn764]

I just love all the videos you put up. It's insane. 😂 Wish I would have gotten this kind of advice earlier in life.. Btw, I LOVE the red blouse! Did you thrift that?! Its gorgeous, it looks like it's from a different time 😍😍

[@elizabethanne8729]

GIIIIRRRRL DAT RED SHIRT!!!

[@madina3813]

agreed on not oversexualizing! i met my fiancé not in very “lady like way” i might say... actually through Tinder 😅 it was summer, i was bored and he came to Russia from Italy for a week, so i thought “why not?”. but then i saw him. and he saw me. and we felt infinite connection as a SOULMATES, not “sex mates”. spent 3 beautiful days wandering around Moscow and getting to know each other. on his last day we indeed spent night together (which was my decision). next morning we said our goodbyes at the airport... 2 months later he moved to Moscow to live with me. 2 years together ❤️ sure, sex is important part of romantic relationships, but it’s not THE MOST important thing when you meet a right man.

[@sophiej5392]

You Look stunning ❤ May God protect you. I agree with everything you have mentioned 💎💎 Much Love ❤❤

[@nataliegrim7357]

I love this video so much! Do you have a video on gracefulness? How to be graceful, both in a physical sense and social sense?

[@morganjohnson2457]

Do you have a video about flirting with your husband once you’re already married? I wanna get better at communicating my mood to my husband if you know what I mean

[@reetaskeeter2100]

Can you make a video on what you learned or the most important things you learned from your strategic communications degree that have helped with youtube?

[@Riimachan]

The top looks so beautiful on you!🌹 Your videos make me feel like a best friend is giving me advice 😋