How to attract a woman without saying anything isn't about saying nothing, but about the delicate balance of how much to reveal and when! Videos noted: Balance alpha masculinity with vulnerability: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmquY5qJqrV-o8U Texting, Online Communication : bit.ly/LDRtextingonline Friend Zone: bit.ly/FriendZonePlaylist Damaged Women: bit.ly/DamagedWomenplaylist Where to Touch Her: bit.ly/TouchHer WakeUP2Luv: members.wingmam.com/get-women/ Donations & AJs memoir: wingmam.com/donate-memoir/
@larryrubin51504 жыл бұрын
A huge bulge in the pants ...a huge bulging wallet
@larryrubin51504 жыл бұрын
A huge bulge in the pants ...a huge bulging wallet
@JollyMcStanson4 жыл бұрын
Human psychology is beautiful. It's very interesting how it all works.
@renman1034 жыл бұрын
@Redpill Mgtow whenever that happens to me, I always counter by mentioning my wife and mistresses were fighting over me the other night
@lindsey6074 жыл бұрын
Very good points you bring up in this vid sweetie. Keep on keepin on.
@tomstout78753 жыл бұрын
"If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you" Great saying and so true!
@adegbenroagoro51803 жыл бұрын
That's why I've never liked the common practice In the Western world of a man getting down on one knee when asking a lady to marry him
@tmklunk3 жыл бұрын
Lived it
@adrianred2363 жыл бұрын
Treat her like a princess..............and she'll treat you like a peasant.
@hackmedia77553 жыл бұрын
@@adegbenroagoro5180 if you need the government to tell someone to love you, you have other mental problems
@fightfiendmiggs74732 жыл бұрын
@@adrianred236 Also, you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan.👏🏽
@kylefng3 жыл бұрын
Truth! If you show a woman your vulnerable points, she will use them down the road against you.
@michaelsmusic35323 жыл бұрын
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie
@kylefng3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsmusic3532 sure. Just don’t get the government involved with a marriage contract. Give it 3 years, her cute little laugh will sound like a laughing hyena
@williamcooke60564 ай бұрын
@@kylefng Hahaa!
@williamcooke60564 ай бұрын
@michaelsmusic3532 You seem like a walking contradiction. Help! She WILL be my wife :), How do I tell her I'm so much older? Michael and Emalie So, is Emalie your dog, or are you actually dating her, because if you have never dated her, but sign her name next to yours like you are a couple, that's weird. I'm going with not ever have dated her, since she has no idea how old you are, and you have no idea how to tell her. I'd let her bring that up, by the way. And if you aren't dating, and intimate, saying she WILL be my wife, despite the smiling emoji at the end, is stalker-like. Sounds like you don't know her very well, and you have confidence issues and not a lot of experience with women in general. You need to work all this out because it will show up if and when you ask her out. Another possibility is that you have a casual s3xual relationship with her. But how do I know since you left out so many details and flop around between sounding desparate for advice and sure that she will marry you. Until you give those details, it is likely you won't be getting any help in winning her over, especially from a woman like Wingman, since you sound both desparate and creepy. So man up and give me the full story.
@TvrTysonАй бұрын
@@kylefng truth
@steveolive99913 жыл бұрын
1. Is she right for you (observing). 2. Stay centered, grounded and masculine. 3. Stay in the present (don't focus on the future or past). 4. Text only for info, not conversation. 5. Turn off "read text". 6. Don't text while at work. 7. Don't giver her TMI. 8. Leave them wanting more. 9. Playful teasing (flirting) keeps you from just being friends. 10. Don't talk about your past (your exes). 11. Never trash talk anyone, including your ex. 12. Take 100 percent responsibility for your actions (shows your good character). 13. Don't put her on a pedestal....if you do, she will look down on you.
@stanleybuchan46103 жыл бұрын
I think she just said all that.
@steveolive99913 жыл бұрын
@@stanleybuchan4610 Yes, she did. I just typed it for someone who lacks the time to view the entire video.
Watching married with children Peggy says to al “ what are you thinking?”..al says “ if I wanted you to know what I’m thinking I’d be talking “😂
@xmo5523 жыл бұрын
I'm using that!
@JeffreyGillespie3 жыл бұрын
It's not a mistake that this show was one of the most successful in the history of television 😂
@GeorgeEnke3 ай бұрын
Peg was hot..😂
@abraxastulammo99402 ай бұрын
Good old
@leibmoshe4 жыл бұрын
Gentlemen, any woman who allows 300 tinder dates to run through her on the first date but deprives you to "test your worth" isn't worth your time..steer clear
@albertgaspar6274 жыл бұрын
and yet, she focuses on her looks since she's learned what she can "Get", and we are the fools who keep chasing her fine ass.
@michaelsmusic35323 жыл бұрын
@Sam Maloney Thanks for the advice !
@gerritstell62483 жыл бұрын
@@albertgaspar627 Who’s chasing?
@jaybeebee92883 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsmusic3532 You should not tolerate any woman older than that - not at your age.
@michaelsmusic35323 жыл бұрын
@@jaybeebee9288 I'm not understanding what you mean by I shouldn't tolerate any women older than that ? Could you elaborte please ? Thanks :)
@DonStemple4 жыл бұрын
You can't emphasize enough that phones, especially texting, are basically just for logistical purposes. Set the date and nothing more. I say this repeatedly to guys who ask for my advise. Leave a little mystery, fellas, don't give it all away. Then you'll have something to talk about on your date. Great video, love your "do" 💯
@edwhatshisname35624 жыл бұрын
Don't be "needy", "dependant", or "insecure"... (they're in quotes for a reason) Right, got it, so just to be on the safe side, always keep her at arms length, don't develop an attachment to her, and always be ready to drop her like a bad habit. Sounds like fun.
@GodsMan5004 жыл бұрын
The problem is that we’re in a no-win situation. Your point is well-taken but it’s the only way we can get a foothold.
@coldhardtruth3334 жыл бұрын
Well she’s not your mum ..
@maisetas4 жыл бұрын
i agree. what kind of relationship is that if you dont make attachments?
@MJBrabantNZL4 жыл бұрын
@@coldhardtruth333 I just wish she'd stop trying to replace Daddy.
@DarshD3 жыл бұрын
Among the best advises!
@kooljay21524 жыл бұрын
"If you put her on a pedestal she will look down on you." that's a very deep quote❤👍
@mreverybody11504 жыл бұрын
It's a variation of ''treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan''
@rymanshroomzorz3 жыл бұрын
Also another way of putting it is "if you value her, she won't value you." It's funny really, it's not difficult to just appreciate someone putting you on a pedestal or at the least consider it a compliment. Instead of losing respect for someone just because they are emotionally invested in you. It's not moralistic to lose respect for someone just because they treat you well...
@MrT132 жыл бұрын
She can join me up here. Nothing wrong with that. But if we both have to fight about it, I’m staying right here. She can get the fk off my pedestal… long way down too. But I stay on top.
@HughJarse19683 жыл бұрын
Cor, this all sounds like a lot of effort to me. Think I’ll just enjoy my hobbies and have a fantastic life on my own 🌞🙏
@robtam75294 жыл бұрын
Most certainly. As soon as you let your guard down, she wants a divorce. Don’t ever let them know you completely. They love mystery more than truth.
@drinkthekoolaidkids4 жыл бұрын
That's the damm truth .
@jimmyjimanambo50143 жыл бұрын
Powerful
@michiganusapontiac72063 жыл бұрын
That's the truth
@martinreintal60693 жыл бұрын
It's sad, that we have to play these games (called techniques) but I truly understand why. 😞
@michiganusapontiac72063 жыл бұрын
@@martinreintal6069 you are right thumbs up from me
@richardpellis4 жыл бұрын
"The minute a woman has you figured out, your done."
@SkidCudi4 жыл бұрын
Dealing with modern women can be terrifying
@drinkthekoolaidkids4 жыл бұрын
@@SkidCudi then dont deal with them , do your own thing .....
@victoriaisaza534 жыл бұрын
She need to do at least 70% of pursuing. The man is the prize
@iJuanGutierrez4 жыл бұрын
@@drinkthekoolaidkids facts
@321reh4 жыл бұрын
Best Comment This Week!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!
@jaymcd85774 жыл бұрын
The whole women giving it up to Chad and Brad but making the Nice guy wait for it, pisses me and every other guy off out there to no end!
@Shanedog764 жыл бұрын
I think that's all about them giving them money!
@jaymcd85774 жыл бұрын
@@Shanedog76 mm..gee I'm trying to think of another definition for that...it's on the tip of my tongue
@Observer82AB3 жыл бұрын
They're not the right woman for you.
@SUPER-hx1bs3 жыл бұрын
What's stopping you to be Chad, you don't have to be a nice guy.
@flowerofash44393 жыл бұрын
You don't have to be a nice guy, especially for women. The only thing that deserve your nice side is yourself, heads up
@saintgianni4 жыл бұрын
Rule #13: You are the PRIZE! If you put her on a pedestal, she will look down on you.
@thetruthisoutthere85984 жыл бұрын
But if you put her on a pedestal you can see up her dress!
@iJuanGutierrez4 жыл бұрын
@@thetruthisoutthere8598 🤣 nice one.
@somebodysomewhere59934 жыл бұрын
I believe this one.
@saintgianni3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsmusic3532 watch Kevin Samuels and Donovan Sharpe. Get red pilled, man. Work on yourself constantly. You’re gonna get really heartbroken if you believe that your soon to be wife isn’t attracted to young, in shape men. Make yourself the prize constantly. Work out, increase your income/earning, learn new things constantly. Men who other women want and other men want to be never get cheated on and even if they do, they have options.
@stanspb7633 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsmusic3532 You don't know whether she accepts your age difference? If not you really do not know her and are probably just infatuated. Age is not measured in absolute age but in the current position of each of you are on your personal evolutionary development. An immature 45 year old man is likely too young for a woman, 28, who is well developed emotionally, as one possible example. Why do you want to be with her....do you have and want kids, are you capable of being a partner in raising children. Does she have children and if so how close are you to them, do they look up to you? Do you have much debt, can you live as a couple or family on a single income, do you have 6 months of living expenses in savings or in convertible assets? Are you stable enough to be her rock, without significant debt or obligations that would undermine her security such as child support or alimony payments? Are you more stable and secure than men she might know closer to her age? Are your sources of income or assets, on a growth path? What does she want as a family structure, for example, are your to be the substitute dad for kids she has or real dad for kids she wants to have. If the latter, she knows she have very little time to create the warm secure nest required for creating children before she reaches the higher risk age for giving birth to healthy kids. These are questions that you should not the answers to well before deciding if you and she are a suitable match. As an example, I will describe my current situation which is similar but with the roles reversed to yours: I am older and she is not much older than your potential partner. I have known this woman since she was 19 and were activities partners and close friends for a long time, before during, and after her failed marriage. With 2 kids who think I am the only consistent adult male in their lives, when they performed in school plays or academic contests I was the male who attended and rooted them on.. The oldest is 16 and the younger is 10, She has a career, a very accomplished stage, film and currently the female lead in a national TV hit series police drama, 36years old and passes as mid-twenties. As friends, I have been a helper and her emotional and sometimes financial fixer to solve problems, and recently she has made it clear she sees me as boyfriend material and a possible marriage, most are younger than she is. I have a very active social life and hundreds of friends, mostly women, and I am twice her age I have very pleasant relations with many women. So I am examining my own feelings and whether all the questions above and the change in lifestyle are what I really want. I know her weaknesses(terrible with money) but also know her extremely admirable qualities, am I up to being a stepdad? Can I provide the security and support she needs. She needs to be on an allowance where household expenses are completely separate from her discretionary spending. I already took her credit cards and replaced them with debit cards. We both own our own homes without debt and my businesses have not had any income this last year so lived on savings during the pandemic. When she was younger I would not have considered it, she was impatient with people who served her for example waitstaff in restaurants. She has matured and has changed significantly in many ways where I am proud to be with her in any situation since she is really warm and empathetic now and loved by the crew on her movie sets or TV series. People can change and she has in a very appealing way.. She has had difficult challenges and instead of being broken by them, she grew. The 36 yo version is a lot more attractive in traits than her 24-year-old version. I hope my steady influence had some positive impact on her as the only rock she had to hold onto. This internal dialog I am describing is what you should be doing and talk with your girl about her goals and plan to reach them and where you would fit in your life's range of adaptability. IS she a feminist who believes in unequal rights and the inherent disposable nature of males? If so, do not even consider it.
@pinosantilli82974 жыл бұрын
There really are no wrong choices. No matter how good a gal or guy is in the beginning people change thru time and anything can happen.
@bill77784 жыл бұрын
I learned a long time ago.... There are 2 rules to life. Rule #1 Don't tell anyone everything you know. Rule #2 See rule #1
@beanzbeanz4 жыл бұрын
Emotional unavailability, silent aloofness, disinterest in her passions and mild abuse make women stick to me like glue.
@drinkthekoolaidkids4 жыл бұрын
No sht , that is for real !
@MJBrabantNZL4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations. You're now De Facto Dad. *RUN.*
@donaldmcdonald76604 жыл бұрын
For real lol
@albertgaspar6274 жыл бұрын
that WILL attract a certain type of woman. Women who want mystery, are in fact playing games. Women who grew up with a Dad emotionally or physically absent? will use sexiness to win love from other men. women who follow the "treat them mean, keep them keen" pattern? not a lot of self respect. they may say they have some, but a dude who puts them in their place turns them on because they know they were being immature and bratty. again, not much self respect.
@Shanedog764 жыл бұрын
why I have never understood why Women like treating badly???
@comali22124 жыл бұрын
1- Show up with a beautiful woman and watch other women how perplexed they become. 2- Never ever compliment a woman. Resist that urge and you'll become like a magnet.
@ezgrowth93 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head, brother! And by extension: Do not ever, I mean EVER, seem desperate! Act like she isn't the only one! Plus up your money, your grooming, hygiene, style, confidence and humour! Bonus tip: Don't pay attention to her and make her jealous!
@chicoassmaster42933 жыл бұрын
@@ezgrowth9 Look: if they like you for whatever reasons you can violate all that advice & it will matter 0. There are no rules other than does she like you or not. Can never make a woman like you no matter what you do.
@nicronomici46583 жыл бұрын
Why no compliments?
@AlternicityBlogspot3 жыл бұрын
@@michaelsmusic3532 Don't tell her ffs!
@tysonbaker45563 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree rarely complimenting is good, because if you just said she was beautiful straight away well if she was then your only talking to her because of her looks that’s shallow.
@RIVALContentJammerz4 жыл бұрын
Don't try to impress her with my knowledge of war atrocities, got it.👌
@YourWingmam4 жыл бұрын
Sprinkle it in sparingly! ;) #mystery
@stephengraham11534 жыл бұрын
Well if you were special forces and had just returned from a conflict zone with first hand knowledge you might...
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
💀💀💀
@virgilgann1074 жыл бұрын
So what do you impress her with?
@RIVALContentJammerz4 жыл бұрын
@@stephengraham1153 Dork.
@SpinDoctor914 жыл бұрын
Be yourself and be confident. Don't try to hard to be noticed and do your own thing and be in your element. People will always take notice.
@szymonwozniak82423 жыл бұрын
Amen
@daveruth49547 күн бұрын
That's terrible advise she an take anyone she wants
@SpinDoctor916 күн бұрын
@daveruth4954 It's always good advice. Why change yourself for someone? Just be you your person will come
@mitcherny69654 жыл бұрын
How to attract a woman without saying a word: Touch your eyebrows with your tongue.
@josephcusumano28854 жыл бұрын
😜😅
@coachhbosoccer4 жыл бұрын
Wth 🤣🤣🤣
@raulgarza26124 жыл бұрын
YUP! Works EVERY TIME!!!
@TheCoachRC4 жыл бұрын
The best way to show a woman the inner freak in you.
@vibeslowly23 жыл бұрын
😂
@Franklin-dk1fr Жыл бұрын
I don't really want to be alone but I have come to believe it's my best option. So I always try to be happy about the great things that come with being single.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@HughButler-lb6zs5 ай бұрын
Well said.
@redwow4 жыл бұрын
A used car salesman once told me that there is an ass for every seat.
@drinkthekoolaidkids4 жыл бұрын
You can learn some real jedi mind tricks from a used car salesman or really any good salesman.
@0ned3 жыл бұрын
@@drinkthekoolaidkids yeah like bend your knees a little to bring your eye contact to their eye level so you're on the same level haha and a million more
@PFLEONARDI09063 жыл бұрын
AKA: meat for the seat or ass behind the glass
@chicoassmaster42933 жыл бұрын
@@PFLEONARDI0906 Ahaaaaaaa! hahaha!
@michaelsmusic35323 жыл бұрын
HELP ??? ------->>>> I NEED ADVICE !!! I'm 54 in love with a 30 year old woman ... She WILL be my wife :) Do you think that she will accept our 24 year age difference ? HOW do I tell her that I'm so much older ??? Thank you for any opinions ! ~ Michael & Emalie
@beezomaticful Жыл бұрын
Revealing what's deep to an individual male can often times be used as a weapon when things go south.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@beezomaticful Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam I never thought in a hundred years that the creator of the channel would reply to my comment! I'm honored.....
@llman034 жыл бұрын
This was one of the best relationship videos I have seen on KZbin. She is spot on.👏🏿
@jerrykitich33182 жыл бұрын
My previous trumpet teacher used to say that - always leave them wanting more. I think that's a mantra all entertainers live by.
@alibertylover4 жыл бұрын
My dog is my main source of companionship & she requires none of this...
@counsela92404 жыл бұрын
Lol
@riverriver_27473 жыл бұрын
My dog doesn't try to change me every minute of my life.
@myfirstcrappyvideobilly3 жыл бұрын
Dogs are the best.
@lloydkline15183 жыл бұрын
I ❤pets too, my dogs ❤ hangout with me
@andyfin9903 жыл бұрын
You lock your wife and dog out in the rain for half hour, see who's the most happy to see you when you open the door .🐕🦺🐩
@scorp22714 жыл бұрын
I am doing almost everything you said not to do. This video is the first one that has told me something that I'm actually doing wrong. Everything else I've seen (from multiple presenters) is generally things that I already know about women, but these points are really new to me. Thank you
@artofverity87912 жыл бұрын
How are you getting on?
@malikmumtazz63333 жыл бұрын
And the most popular way to attract every female or male you must to have prosperous personality, fine manners and positive behavior.
@Nabruj75 ай бұрын
1-Looks, 2- Money. 3- Everything else is created from 2. 4-Sweet talker. The scum men who are women hunters possess these traits and ruin woman with their bed post notches. It’s sick and evil and happens everyday.
@davidmiskell30513 жыл бұрын
great advice. a person has to be confident, assertive and comfortable with who they are in order to be the kind of person that will attract the same. you are spot on with everything you say.
@rhuiden40863 жыл бұрын
As Bruce Lee said, "The art of fighting without fighting"
@MrSaemichlaus4 жыл бұрын
Why are mysterious characters attractive? Because we fill in the gaps with our best hopes.
@KubuśpuchatekTVN2 жыл бұрын
And that's a straight way to disappointment.
@kythrathesuntamer97154 жыл бұрын
I dont think I COULD actually ever finish revealing everything inside me vulnerability wise which is part of the magic. theres so much inside there that its pretty much endless.
@FFE-js2zp4 жыл бұрын
The key to attracting women is understanding how shallow and meaningless their attraction is. Most pretty girls sleep with hundreds, if not thousands of men while they have their looks, which isn't very long. Its just your turn.
@andrewsanchez23353 жыл бұрын
Its not your girlfriend its just your turn
@KNakanishi2 жыл бұрын
1. Is she right for you (observing). 2. Stay centered, grounded and masculine. 3. Stay in the present (don't focus on the future or past). 4. Text only for info, not conversation. - 100% 5. Turn off "read text". - This is why I still have an android 6. Don't text while at work. - A 35 year-old woman who I matched with on a dating site when I was 24 did this, and when I didn't respond to she flipped out. This is genuinely the best way to uncover red flags earlier on. 7. Don't giver her TMI. 8. Leave them wanting more. 9. Playful teasing (flirting) keeps you from just being friends. 10. Don't talk about your past (your exes). 11. Never trash talk anyone, including your ex. - 100%. We're all inherently flawed. 12. Take 100 percent responsibility for your actions (shows your good character). - This is a red flag for ANYBODY (including co-workers btw). 13. Don't put her on a pedestal - If she's trying to put herself on a pedestal, red flag!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@mamaducissemaci9294 ай бұрын
@@KNakanishi great!
@Mr1jdub24 жыл бұрын
Hi Anna, I wrote a comment of a situation I had in a store awhile ago when I approached a much younger woman. I didn't mention what happened before I approached her. I was standing in a aisle looking at items when I noticed this younger woman in the corner of my eye. It looked like she was standing there awhile before she walked pass me. I noticed she had a smile on her face when she walked by. That's what made me approach her. Now you know. Thanks again for what you do. James
@henrylouis53283 жыл бұрын
Just ignore em, it drives them crazy
@Babarflower3 жыл бұрын
Correct😝😝
@aliaswizard69633 жыл бұрын
Fax
@aliaswizard69633 жыл бұрын
@@geoepi321975 it works for a quote on quote hot guys only I pull it off all the time without trying but it does work but I think it works better when you generally seriously don't care whether you get the girl or not and even more if she is beautiful and gorgeous because she feels like you should be chasing her it's a formula everything has to be in place
@aliaswizard69633 жыл бұрын
@@geoepi321975 I see you are using metaphors so what are you trying to say in layman's terms I think I follow you but could you explain?
@Icureditwithmybrain3 жыл бұрын
Be awesome in their presence while ignoring them.
@xiezz15383 жыл бұрын
This being mysterious stuff works, I just avoid the fact that I'm married and pretty much got the checklist covered.
@Tom-db9yv4 жыл бұрын
Answer: be tall and be hot. There, I saved you guys 14 minutes.. You're welcome, have a nice day.
@nonexistenceisbliss95284 жыл бұрын
Blackpilled and based! 👌🏻 💯
@josephcusumano28854 жыл бұрын
😅
@josephcusumano28854 жыл бұрын
😭
@virgilgann1074 жыл бұрын
Also have money!
@coldhardtruth3334 жыл бұрын
Not at all ...
@Martin-ej6tc5 ай бұрын
Whew. Taking responsibility is so difficult. Thanks for the vid! Mathew McConaughey is a standard for this. He never badmouths any of his exs. Always talks them up.
@lochinvar004654 жыл бұрын
I remember learning about dating back in 5th grade. And the one flaming question I had never got answered. Being as it became clear that it was a lot of work for a guy (and expensive) what I wanted to know was "How long do I have to keep that up".
@lythsian3 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying overly attentive instead of needy and desperate. I'm tired of the belittling.
@Newgrist4 жыл бұрын
Good content. It presupposes, however, strong character, which is in short supply today, both among women and men.
@PhDarien3 жыл бұрын
The title says it all. Say nothing and women are curious why and that alone will attract her to engage in conversation. Happens all the time and I don’t do it intentionally.
@krashkrash49414 жыл бұрын
A lot of women quit trying after they think they have the man. She should do the same as dating. The man is the prize.
@Mr1jdub24 жыл бұрын
Hi Anna, very helpful videos. I had a encounter in a store with a women a while ago who was much younger than myself. I approached her and struck up a conversation which is something I have trouble with. It was going well up until my brain told me that she probably had somewhere to go and I was keeping her from doing that. I told her that it was nice talking to her and she said the same. A matter of fact she said how much she enjoyed talking to me more than once. Never had that happen before. I'm afraid my ADD kicked in. It does that from time to time. I've been regretting it ever since. She was someone I could see myself being with. Thank you for your videos! James
@alexhilton-johnson59783 жыл бұрын
Good stuff in this video. I've been analysing my own dating strengths and weaknesses for some time, but I have learnt some useful tips here. Also... Wingmam is gorgeous, both in mind and body.
@brantgoneau96033 жыл бұрын
Hey Anna very interesting. i have tried to be real..casual and straight up..that's for over 40 years through a marriage and many dates and several relationships afterwards.. compatibility stems from honesty and attitude with a base of knowing Real love which is a beautiful thing that two people must desire equally.. if you want something else stay single hermits live longer than a miserable partner..my search has Not ended but the mountain is Much easier to climb thanks to your excellent advice and straight up Wingmam posts! Still smiling with less incline in Wisconsin)
@akirathearchibald79584 жыл бұрын
Me a single introvert: now this looks like a job for me
@Josh467314 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣 if you don't get out and get comfortable going out you will never go out. Stop being scared. They sense insecurity!
@thomaspohl58454 жыл бұрын
@@Josh46731 Easier said than done. I had to intentionally institute a self improvement program to be more outgoing. Took 15 years before people told me they couldn't tell i wasn't outgoing.
@edwhatshisname35624 жыл бұрын
@@Josh46731 They also have a bad tendency to see things that aren't there.
@Natejay19884 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing lol
@anony50213 жыл бұрын
Lol. Just meditate. KZbin: sahajayoga meditation for spiritual growth. Free
@TheWaterman20114 жыл бұрын
Wow I just found Anna Jorgensen , feel like I'm on the discovery channel...
@michaelclay84713 жыл бұрын
That's happened to me all my life I unintentionally attract women they mistake my body language and the look in my eyes as flirting when I'm just getting engaged to the conversation
@BucketWheat4 жыл бұрын
I HATE Texting! So I ALWAYS use it as little as possible, and only for "Must Reach" brief messages. Never for long conversations.
@davidthomspson97714 жыл бұрын
Yes i made the wrong choice with my ex.But i got a wonderful daughter.
@keepitraww4 жыл бұрын
Same as me brother I’m so happy I got my boy
@mrjaybennett804 жыл бұрын
me too.
@johnpick83364 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being here Ms. Ana !
@Buddycoop13 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is whenever I try this stuff it back fires. When I am clueless and have my guard down then women are there. Boils down to being yourself as long as your not awkward.
@cosmopolitanbay95083 жыл бұрын
Boils down to if whatever you do forks for you. If your get the desired outcomes, keep doing it.
@VaronPlateando2 жыл бұрын
... 'awkwardness' is an external label, primarily. free yourself from caring for such, instead of refering to own frame | mental point of origin.
@earlsreid41304 жыл бұрын
I normally am attracted to longer hair on women, but after looking over several of your videos, you are very appealing with the short hair also. Must be both beauty and personality that makes it for you. I'm an introvert so I can post that here without fear of rejection. Oh, love the very informative videos, spot on.
@dubongros31084 жыл бұрын
The text part is a big one . I'm surprised it's the first time I hear this ! Totally agree that one ought to refrain from texting while at work . We used to live without texting
@zaved20123 жыл бұрын
Hi Anna-you are an amazing women- I have 3 questions- hope you read my questions - first question - dating guidance that you gave(which is very appreciable) - is it only for US context- do you think thought process of men and women varies from country to country when it comes to relationship? question number 2-the advice that you give is it only white man and women relationship? question number 3 - should a non Caucasian man make an approach Caucasian women - how much of a uphill battle do you think it is - should they even try(I know race, culture doesn't matter but those are bs- coz we live in a real world ) ? Have a good day.
@KpxUrz57454 жыл бұрын
I'm picturing an 89 year old man bent over his walker, never married, muttering to himself "I am the Prize... I am the Prize"...
@ObamaSaidHeLikesMe4 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo stfu
@TheCoachRC4 жыл бұрын
Haahahaha!!! Yeah, picture that with a Kodak.
@ReasonAboveEverything4 жыл бұрын
Maybe he was but at 89 nobody is a prize.
@mreverybody11504 жыл бұрын
He won't need a walker if he lives a healthy life....and if he does that then he will be the prize.
@ReasonAboveEverything4 жыл бұрын
@@mreverybody1150 He will be healthier but nobody is a prize at that point and quit frankly I don't think people over 70 even care about dating and fucking.
@FRO4203 жыл бұрын
I like your catch phrases “pace don’t Chase”, leave them wanting more” and the respect bit. Thanks Tim
@liamcage72084 жыл бұрын
I dated a woman who absolutely hated her ex-husband. Being divorced myself I never spoke poorly about my ex-wife. I see no value in that and as the mother of my children she deserves respect. So the new GF trashed talked her Ex all the time and felt I must still have a thing for my Ex because I never did that. Sometimes you can't win.
@toddbellows52824 жыл бұрын
She'll be trashing you when you become her newest ex.
@liamcage72084 жыл бұрын
@@toddbellows5282 Yes in fact that is what happened. ...as if I cared.
@jtrealfunny2 ай бұрын
In relationships, especially romantic ones, I feel like the most important communication is through your actions. If I don't like something I'm pulling back a little, not criticizing, certainly not arguing, just changing my behavior in response to something I didn't like. I want partners who want to be with me, and so if they want to be with me and see that what they are doing isn't working they have a chance to change and we have a chance to grow in our relationship.
@thorsprovoni25254 жыл бұрын
What do you mean looks aren't everything? Are you suggesting that all my wind-sprints up the slope of Mount Olympus have been for naught?
@Asporez4 жыл бұрын
Dude you didn't actually work those out you were just forged like that by Zeus who took the form of your moms husband to forge you like that.
@sammylane214 жыл бұрын
You mean you didn't just mount on your Pegasus and fly over... *pfft* ding dong.
@Asporez4 жыл бұрын
@@sammylane21 Thats Bellerophon... also not the same era.
@renman1034 жыл бұрын
yeah right , women are more attracted to a sense of humour than appearance , so the 3 stooges got laid more than Brad pitt???
@Asporez4 жыл бұрын
@@renman103 I mean, thats entirely possible, the howard brothers both got married a couple times and divorced because of cheating and that was in the 40s-50s so a man needed to cheat A LOT for the wife initiated divorce to hold any chance of being valid. Brothels were not considered cheating by law either.
@michaelnovish16204 жыл бұрын
Most important be honest and yourself. Show what a good person you are and enjoy your time together. Life is too short. Wingmam you are a voice of reason in this crazy world.
@robertvahle17554 жыл бұрын
Men having mystery...this is why criminal types don't talk about their past, so women find these bad boys mysterious. Then when she gets abused in the relationship, she will claim, "I didn't know he was violent."
@MaKi-e3h2 ай бұрын
Exactly this. All these "masculine" behaviors are actually something that criminals and a-holes do. Then girls wonder why everyone they meet is a-hole or criminal. This is who you get attracted to. Emotionally unavailable narcissists who think they went school equivalent of Harvard (school of life) to get where they are, when they've done nothing but drink and treat women like s***. Hey maybe these are not the signs you want to be looking for in a man. Close minded, doesn't respect you, can't talk about past, constantly thinks too highly of himself, acts flirty all the time because he does that with everyone. OH man, what a catch!
@godseed22142 ай бұрын
Not sure if you realize how attractive your knowledge is beyond your fabulous looks. My goodness.
@josesegura20904 жыл бұрын
When I need company I just drive my Lamborghini around the mall a few times! Works every time!
@kingsolomon25714 жыл бұрын
😆👍🏿
@rickyv77574 жыл бұрын
Lol, sounds right.
@84Terminator3 жыл бұрын
Then they’ll company your Lambo, not you.
@josesegura20903 жыл бұрын
@@84Terminator Not complaining! Best investment I'd ever made!
@simply11believelane473 жыл бұрын
Lolll
@russ99214 жыл бұрын
Superb video - your best yet, Anna, with bags of good advice, especially putting ‘is she right for me?’ in place of ‘am I good enough for her?’)
@andykyriakides21444 жыл бұрын
To attract women , first you need the physical attractiveness , then a humble and polite personality , and just be yourself .
@justdone12512 жыл бұрын
A van? Maybe a Honda ? Speaks sensible?
@gabrielguzman60182 жыл бұрын
Even then no
@gabrielguzman60182 жыл бұрын
@@justdone1251 pretty much you have a to be a jock
@GordianKnotProject4 жыл бұрын
I have a question. I have a plan to move about 1,000 miles from where I live now in a couple years. I'm working hard towards this goal, and it's really non-negotiable. How long should I wait to tell a woman about this plan to balance not talking about the future with not leading her on?
@FightingRimbaud4 жыл бұрын
Basically this can be excellently summed up by Mike Dimone’s speach to Mark Ratner in Fast Times at Ridgemont High. 😂
@josephcusumano28854 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@drinkthekoolaidkids4 жыл бұрын
I was think the exact same thing ....... it's a numbers game .
@bovaz22873 жыл бұрын
or like Dwayne Johnson giving Sean relationship advise in The Mysterious Island.
@louiskucinski50164 жыл бұрын
i am new listener to this channel . I love this lady and i think she speaks with much wisdom and very solid in her ways of helping us understand woman. Just Fantastic!
@TrephineArtist4 жыл бұрын
Great advice, some of these I haven't adhered to in the past but will try to remember in future! Thank you :)
@popcornsutton68493 жыл бұрын
watched one video and I'm hooked. Newly subscribed. Thanks for all the important info from a woman's perspective. I'm a lover, not a hater.
@loklie32264 жыл бұрын
How do you keep the mystery up for the next 30 years. Eventually she's going to figure out you stock shelves at walmart...
@johnhanson47954 жыл бұрын
in the old days it never mattered
@KDJWTV4 жыл бұрын
They can get women to . It's easy to get women working at Wal-Mart I had sex offers all the time working there if I was single it would have been fun. But I had a wife and kid. Walmart vworkers can get all the sex they want.
@jimmieparker80934 жыл бұрын
@@KDJWTV u must be 12......that comment didnt even sound right....u sure ur not trolling....lol
@mreverybody11504 жыл бұрын
The trick is to make stocking shelves at Walmart sound really interesting...
@ajrockinshockin28933 жыл бұрын
@@dustbin5044 you must live in Alaska.
@skaruts3 жыл бұрын
Is saying _"it's your loss"_ a bad idea, if she expresses unwillingness to date, or to keep dating?
@aarhusnord4 жыл бұрын
Seeing this in Denmark (maybe where your ancestors came from, Mrs Jørgensen ?) - what interests me : are these pieces of advice cross-cultural ? And how do you get close to females, when all your hobbies and job circles are mainly inhabited with males ?
@marcogreis4 жыл бұрын
The only woman I´d like to attract without saying anything is you Anna. Oh your voice, your heart everything about you makes me have the best thoughts a man could have.
@mrparlanejxtra4 жыл бұрын
Hey, that is myyy move. "always leave them wanting more" I have the copyright on that.
@Observer82AB3 жыл бұрын
The Polish sex manual. In. Out. Repeat if necessary.
@jackwalker18224 жыл бұрын
Good advice. I just keep talking and revealing information until they leave me. I need to just say little about a little. The problem is that hate small talk. It doesn't allow two new people to get to know each other better. Don't know where a happy medium might be. They say they want to get to know you but if you allow them to they then dump you. I'm insane because I keep making that same mistake.
@Roman-fb9mq3 жыл бұрын
How to attract a woman without saying anything: be attractive
@lloydkline15183 жыл бұрын
Woman ❤great looking guys however it just short term relationship, ,,, stud
@purplegoblin80643 жыл бұрын
Look at her say hi then holler at the fat chick
@PeterJames1433 жыл бұрын
That is the cleverest youtuber background ever. It's cheap and quick, you can just fold it out in one minute and fold it away when you're done. Obviously not the most beautiful background ever but it's such a smart idea way better than just showing the room you're in. Smart idea.
@58hicks3 жыл бұрын
I gave up on trying to attract a woman! Every time I try to talk to one they just keep walking and don't even look at you! They are the most heartless mean people.
@martincarroll54053 жыл бұрын
Have you tried talking to them while they're sitting?
@TheRapMachine13 жыл бұрын
@@martincarroll5405 thanks for that laugh bruh
@58hicks3 жыл бұрын
@@martincarroll5405 no
@millionairesurfer3 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice. 10/10
@njineermike3 жыл бұрын
How to attract gorgeous without saying a word: Be a billionaire.
@gregorydixon2773 жыл бұрын
And be over 6', and super fit, and 150 other thing she requires of a man
@russellmiles28613 жыл бұрын
@@gregorydixon277 I disagree: Squiggles is right. That is all that is required. I’m over 6 feet, and quite fit. I was in the army in my youth; I cycle everywhere. Why I work hard I have never been wealthy. For most of my various partners my wealth or lack thereof was a stated reason for ending the relationship.
@jaythenihilist46893 жыл бұрын
@@russellmiles2861 So basically what you're saying is that women are attracted enough to hook up with you, but they don't want commitment from you? If so, then I would call that a good problem lol.
@russellmiles28613 жыл бұрын
@@jaythenihilist4689 I'll try to see things that way: but you think by know I may have learnt how to hang on to them. I am looking for advice
@gregorydixon2773 жыл бұрын
@Jack Mikeson you've got that right
@jamesbsnow913 жыл бұрын
I had just found you on KZbin and I must tell you that you are very good at what you do please keep up the good work just needed to get that off my chest
@yossiallen33162 жыл бұрын
This is extremely useful information. Thanks again for the lesson.
@YourWingmam2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@saulurraca92943 жыл бұрын
You’re one of the only people I have heard on relationships and women that are 100% on point my mother always taught me a woman’s like a cat if she catches the mouse and nose the mouse can’t get away then she gets bored with the mouse as long as the mouse is running she’s excited thank you I want to have my kids watch this well my male voice
@jwdyss Жыл бұрын
women are like cats. That's why so many have cats. They understand each other. Once a woman gets bored with a guy, it's over...... she says "next please! " and moves on. It's all a game to them. They want what you have and once they get it, they're gone. The fall out comes if you've married them and had children and accumulated property. That's when you're not only dumped but sent to the poor farm as well. Women should be looked at as "drive-thrus". Get what you want and move on because if you don't move on, they'll do the same to you.
@AlphaMaleMidwesterner4 жыл бұрын
To all Guy’s; How to make her sincerely regret losing you; when there’s no turning back.
@jonbassett93913 жыл бұрын
I find that women love wit, humor, and just plain suave!
@twt37163 жыл бұрын
Never say anything to a woman. Ever. I've been married 23 years and my wife thinks I'm a mute. Never said a word to her. Except "I do"
@xmo5523 жыл бұрын
Do you sir promise to provide for her... I do.
@billylangley14623 жыл бұрын
I believe in telling it like it is regardless of the consequences the truth is the truth. If a woman can't respect that then she isnt for me. I like watching these although im fine the way I am. I like to try to learn new things so I can look back ans say....oh I see now lol
@mwanzafitalphamotivation25414 жыл бұрын
IF ALL YOU DO IS COMPLAIN, YOU’LL STAY THE SAME‼️ shoutout to steph 💪🏽
@YourWingmam4 жыл бұрын
True story! Hey, Steph! :)
@mwanzafitalphamotivation25414 жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam hey Wingmam
@justinroberts76713 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much your really great and I just subscribed to your channel.This video was just what I needed to hear.❤️
@steveratkaj69944 жыл бұрын
I'm recently widowed, and find all this dating advice really interesting but way too complicated. As men we are told to have hobbies and interests, which I think most men naturally have. Men who have interests tend to drop many of them when in a relationship due to the women in their life. Conversely, most women I have come across in my life had no real interests or passions they pursued. I found and still find that a major turnoff. I was very fortunate as my wife let me still pursue my hobbies and interests and actually encouraged me to do so. She did that because she was confident in me and herself. A rare women indeed.
@DocJaeBass4 жыл бұрын
Steve, I"m not a widower, but older so probably in a similar situation. If I can be so bold as to offer an opinion. When you start dating a women, don't give up a single hobby. Keep all of your male friends and make time to spend time with the guys. It will keep you and your relationship healthy.
@CaliforniaArchitect4 жыл бұрын
I'm wodowed too. I lost my wife at a relatively young age by surprise; aggressive breast cancer. I think that most of the advice in the Wingmam TV is pretty good. Much of what she is saying is to have your life in order such as with your career and hobies. From that, confidence and general satisfaction with life follows. Women notice this and are attracted to it like metal to a magnet. The problem for me is that I just don't find women attractive anymore. Their physical features yes! But their attitude is an outright turn off. So, I'd rather remain single (MGTOW). But I've noticed how women try to strike a conversation with me or to put themselves in my view to get me to notice them. I might flirt, let them validate themselves to me, but at the end of the day, I'm just not interested in them. I friendzone them.
@Blox1174 жыл бұрын
very true, women dont do anything significant or that requires risk taking. they also make you carry on the conversation while saying very little
@FranklySpeaking734 жыл бұрын
If you give up on your hobbies, that is on you. Tell her “NO” and if she doesn’t like it, she can leave. Don’t be forced to choose. Let them choose you or goodbye. Be the man in the relationship!!
@TheBlackSheepDiaries4 жыл бұрын
Steve, man it looks like you found a winner. I married once, she had no interest, was a major problem. Didn't work out. I've given up chasing the ladies now, I have too many hobbies and interest to keep busy, and I don't feel like bending my natural behavior to try to impress anyone. Sorry for your loss sir. Invite you to check my channel here, may find some things to like. Stay strong.
@michaelhaney33882 жыл бұрын
I actually did this 5 years ago. It works now and then.
@YourWingmam2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@shadowfilm79803 жыл бұрын
Stay single. Don’t get married. Be happier. Easier too. 👍
@The-You-Doober Жыл бұрын
And richer!
@extra222love Жыл бұрын
That’s a kind of avoiding driving cars, just coz they might make accidents 🤔
@The-You-Doober Жыл бұрын
@@extra222love Women are like cars. Don't pay a brand new price for a 300,000 mile used and abused car.
@extra222love Жыл бұрын
@@The-You-Doober I’ll definitely go with that 👌🏼
@dmitryostrovsky57634 сағат бұрын
Great video. Very interesting. You're definitely the expert. Dima
@estevanchavez88794 жыл бұрын
I had an unrelated request could you do a video on keeping the chase alive?when together and how to keep working on things when you are comfortable together?
@YourWingmam4 жыл бұрын
Great topic! Thanks for the suggestion! :))
@earlibee4 жыл бұрын
i second it
@brenden97554 жыл бұрын
3rd it
@2321brendan4 жыл бұрын
@@brenden9755 Make that 4th
@trutocore4 жыл бұрын
Must say out of all the “wing” videos, your’s has been the most wise, and genuine. Once the relationship is established she should treat you like your the prize and I should treat her like she’s the prize-balanced/healthy/biblical! Good video 👍🏾
@wingslenses18003 жыл бұрын
Hi Anna, You made a lot of sense in this video.. Thanks I feel better George