4 Things a Girl Notices When She First Sees You! (SURPRISING!)

[@davidmccombs6187]

Introverts are not unconfident men, they just don't want to talk to everbody, period. People aren't that interesting. And we know the type of people we want in our life.

[@firstnamelastname6717]

👍

[@blackshadexl]

This needs more likes

[@firstnamelastname6717]

@John Smith most people do not understand introverted People, they see them as weird, Strange, ackward, and freaks to name a few. They want us to be just like them and follow their lead and ways. They will never understand us. We are probably more normal than them. Introverted People always have to explain themselves to certain people. That's why we are introverted , because we are not like them. We are a misunderstood People male/female. That's why we rather be independent and alone. Its easier that way. That's why I purposely have only a few or several real friends that i connect with. The more friends, the more trouble. I'm picky and selective of who i want to be around with and what i do and where.

[@pepepez6335]

She specifically stated the difference between being shy and being an introvert

[@GuitarHeroPhenomSux]

I'm introverted but not shy. I just find most "normal" conversations between people to be boring, unless it's about a topic I enjoy. The only topic I feel uncomfortable participating in is sex, which unfortunately for me is apparent to the people engaging in said conversation. It is such a common topic too which I think makes me appear even more anxious. Even if I don't feel nervous having conversations about it, people can apparently see right through me and figure out how inexperienced I am. I've heard rumors of people referring to me as a "virgin" spread around, which is an unappealing title for a male to carry. I am just repressed and a bit insecure. Growing up, I was told that having conversations about sex were deemed inappropriate, and that premarital sex was a sin with severe consequences. I was told to be patient and that "God" would provide a wife for me. Now here I am in my thirties with no experience or confidence while even having a discussion about it, and women avoid me because I'm too old and inexperienced to teach how to perform properly. Hello darkness my old friend...

[@HughJarse1968]

“Women understand women, and they hate each other” Sensei Al Bundy.

[@spiritzweispirit1st638]

Thank You! Geezz! That's Some Very Insightful Awareness! Maybe Our New Advanced Social Awareness of Each Others Actually Equal Spirit States' Progresses Past That Seemingly Continuous Disconnective Rift?! 😶🖖

[@greggy283]

TRUE.....VERY TRUE !!

[@musicman59753398]

@@spiritzweispirit1st638 1) it’s a quote from a tv character. 2) it’s funny 3) I bet you’re a riot at parties

[@deadbeats4894]

Proud member of NO MA'AM for 25+ years.

[@parishmagnificent5206]

So do men

[@ian1patterson]

You know what? I don't give a damn what other people think of me , whether like or dislike as not everyone will like you but I'm always respectful of others and their beliefs regardless of whether I agree or not with them. Every day I try to raise a smile in the face of a stranger just to brighten up their day and mine....I especially like to do this when I'm having a particularly challenging day. Love to all from a man!

[@dvvalant]

For the first 1/3 of his life a guy is trying to attract women. The second 2/3 he tries to avoid them.

[@DB-cb7xb]

Well put, Dave. I couldn't have said it better.

[@ascend3654]

AMEN. First thing they see is the vein in your neck where she will drink your blood.

[@ganymeade5151]

Many women feel the same way. However, I always take the effort to look acceptably groomed when I go out. I never go out unwashed or without a little make up. I never want to look like I don't care about myself, even though I am older.

[@jeffalan6339]

True, so very true. When teen and 20's was almost to desperate. Then I gave up one at work told me let them.come to you. It works I show very little attention then let the attraction grow. She tells me secrets and about her Then she ask about me in time. When all is going well things start to fall a part. I treat her as a person, she then becomes bossy, stops talking or vanishes.

[@zozilla]

Dam boy u smart !!!!! Lol

[@drummonkeystuffuk1875]

If a chick shows interest in you, tell her your broke - the way she reacts will tell you everything you need to know.

[@bobtaylor170]

@Ken D , I could have written this, brother. God be with you.

[@ascend3654]

The first thing she sees is your wallet. They can see through your clothes.

[@arthurwoof2172]

fast way to find out

[@jt8280]

Women love money !! End of story everything else is all B.S. !!

[@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey]

@Ken D Church is better than a club, but even church going women can be hypocrites.

[@ryanwellsdedc]

It’s a huge pet peeve of mine when people think being an introvert is the same as being shy. Thanks for clarifying that.

[@keijimorita1849]

Yeah, I am one and have no issue with public speaking.

[@Increzrdy]

Don't be someone you're not but, be proud of what you are. Not all women are the same and likewise for men.

[@donquihote6023]

Not all women are the same, they all have the option to be!!!

[@SuperPatrick777]

She's right in general .

[@stianfuruseth542]

If you are confident with yourself, and believe your direction in life. Never change this just because of a women!!!

[@trentonsmith6532]

What's crazy they're DEMASCALATING dudes,women follow man that's science that's why they (dudes) don't understand that gym you just dropped.

[@Shanedog76]

thanks I needed to hear that!

[@yankee2666]

Most of the men that women are drawn to are very independent of any real need for a woman. Therein lies the paradox.

[@x-man5056]

I was (still am but much less so) a Shy Extrovert. But particularly shy with women that I was interested in. It took determined effort to get beyond. It still sneaks up on me occasionally, but it is my nature so I have to consciously manage it sometimes. For shy guys I would recommend you purposefully learn to be gregarious with strangers in public places, grocery stores are great for this. Just start with making a comment about weather, food, prices, being crowded, just about anything that might get a comment back. Doing this regularly helped with my confidence but more importantly, it helped make starting a conversation automatic. Now I don't have to "think" of what to say, I just say it, it just comes most of the time. I don't always get a response, or the response I'm hoping for, but the more I did it the better and more natural it became. Now, most of the people who work in stores I frequent know me be name. It is more unusual for me not to smile and say hello or some casual comment, than walk past some without speaking, particularly women that strike me as "potential", but even men and other women just because I recognize that it helps keep that very valuable skill sharp AND...being friendly makes ME feel good. It also helped at work in many ways and I get better service at my usual shopping, the Doctors office, about anywhere I go. Just do it until it becomes natural, then keep doing it. It's not just a women meeting skill, it's a life skill.

[@jonathans2cents258]

I have recently found this channel, and she has some great points, But being 59, I already figured out most of it. But the comments are hilarious. Thank for the good laughs

[@armadillotoe]

Comedy is based on truth.

[@davidjohnpaul333]

I'm here for the comments haha....

[@johnthornton4266]

I think she's hot as hell also. Sexy Auburn hair, full lips, and intelligence

[@lahitman]

im 63 dude and I am learning because I have been newly single and man things have changed but I am following her advice and it works. Have been out with lots of younger women

[@matt355]

Comment junky for life

[@natazer]

If guys had these standards the world would be less populated.

[@ImNotADeeJay]

I don't think that wouldn't be a bad outcome

[@Tinyfurball]

Women need standards, too. Too many sluts and whores.

[@ganymeade5151]

Amazing how many men marry plain and even homely women. Go figure.

[@justinjefferson6884]

@@ganymeade5151 There's a very limited supply of attractive women in the world, and many, many more men who want them. This gives them immense bargaining power, but even discounting that, most men will have to accept unattractive or less attractive women just as a result of mathematics -- there simply aren't enough attractive ones to go around.

[@southwest3671]

Justin Jefferson Don’t dismiss inner beauty though, if it still exists. No matter how beautiful a woman is, the day will come she too will turn into beef jerky. What’s left is what matter then.

[@alecfoster4413]

"I do not avoid women, Mandrake, but I do deny them my essence." - Gen. Jack D. Ripper

[@rioriorio17]

@David Michaels 🧢

[@taraswertelecki3786]

@David Michaels On the flip side women do not seem to know or care I exist, and they leave this old Slav alone.

[@stephenbowyer7269]

@David Michaels Bottle your essence, and cut the bullshit, Jack. Any woman worth having plays at least slightly hard to get, just to judge where you are coming from.

[@charles2241]

🤣🤣😂

[@justinsidervag1643]

Man must have : confidence, be in shape, 6' , secure finances, home , car. What she brings to table : Some one elses kid

[@izzo83656]

lol!

[@delilaa]

A divorce lawyer

[@bradley6386]

Lol

[@logisticstransfer2475]

Ive never had a gf enhance my life ever... They were a liability every time. In one case a devastating liability!

[@terrytorres5026]

Bingo

[@nico3641]

I’m not shy. I don’t have low confidence. I’m an introvert. They are not the same thing. I’m constantly evaluating whether you’re worth spending my energy on.

[@split_jcgg9613]

nico3641 me too nor depressed, anxious, insecure, fearful, society tried to trick me into believing that existing like that is normal. I done watching these kinds of videos. I really liked your comment because I see it your way.

[@Terrapin47-s8y]

Exactly

[@ricksterp4378]

Being an introvert only means you think more before you speak. Extroverts talk before they think it all through.

[@proxboi648]

sound edgy

[@NikolayBlaskov75]

Yep. Women do pick up confidence (and fear) pretty quickly. Even when they have not seen you yet. Just by hearing man’s voice and they already know...

[@hifiman4562]

Yea, she sees my gut. And I'm like, hey, my eyes are up here. 👀

[@InvokeThought22]

Mark Grant true, most women want to make dinner for me, they want to fatten you up to keep you for themselves, lol!

[@InvokeThought22]

Mark Grant that’s after dinner...or before, lol

[@EzeICE]

@Mark Grant yes I would be quite surprised. Lol

[@Jokes_on_D]

Lmao 🤣

[@poolofmud]

😂

[@kenforgueiii4342]

Guy tip --- Don't give a crap about what women think about you. Focus on loving yourself and doing things that make you happy. BE yourself!! If a girl judges you on what you don't have, she's not the right one. Nobody should have to change anything to attract someone else, being true to yourself is most important! The right girl (guy) will show up when it's the right time and it'll be natural, NO GAMES!!!! Taking advice from others about how you should be is just playing a game and being fake. If you want to play games, go back to high school, or, keep hanging out in the bar, clubs or dating apps. Best advice I ever got - don't care about what other people think about you.

[@troytruong8246]

Bad advice. People will judge you at first sight. Always work on yourself economically, socially, and personally.

[@WolfManThoughts]

@@troytruong8246 yep so the conclusion is to practice self-love, irrespective of whether you find a partner or not. Self-love should not stop. never stop loving yourself and exploring your inner truth and what you really are meant to do in this life. Exploring new trends and try to become a better version of yourself every year. This is to all the men out there, because a man is never loved idealistically, a man is loved opportunistically. So if you create an aura around you that is positive and always talk positive about yourself and practice self-love yep.

[@johnholme783]

If you are a positive person with good vibe you will attract people like yourself. I only care about what somebody thinks of me when I respect that person, the rest don’t matter!

[@johnnysmoke612]

I'm older and hope to find a woman that can appreciate my handling of a remote and the kick back lever on my lazy boy. Plus, her appreciation of my ability to channel surf and find just what I like to watch.

[@professorlayabout4878]

Johnny Smoke if your retirement funds are in order I’m sure you’ll find plenty of ladies looking for a financial savior to avoid poverty.

[@YourWingmam]

@johnny sense of humor: check! ;)

[@AllisonMagicElite]

😂

[@randyvanvliet226]

Spoken totally tongue in cheek.... Best post in the thread. Do you ask her for a Sammie and a beer too, from the kitchen?

[@johnnysmoke612]

@@randyvanvliet226 Only if she suffers from codependency. Said with tongue in cheek.

[@David-xf2uh]

Despite all our snarky comments guys, this lady has some useful info. In case nobody said it to you today, thanks Wingmam.

[@mattmiles9779]

Your revolution is over. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir. The bums will always lose. Do you hear me? The bums will always lose!

[@niterockerone]

Chauvinistic pigs wondering why woman dump them ,or friend zone em. If you truly like and admire females ,the worthwhile ones will use their sixth sense to find you.

[@medievalknievel]

@@mattmiles9779 I can get you a toe dude with toenail polish ,... there are ways Dude

[@musicman59753398]

@@medievalknievel hell I can have one by three o’clock this afternoon.

[@milesmiller1468]

Thanks for the worthless advice.

[@anthonyjerome247]

Secondly, we can all take a lesson from her sincerity and authenticity......now that's endearing!!

[@JERRYR708]

Been with my wife for 25 years and we are soul mates. When we met, none of this nonsense ever applied to either of us. When you have good chemistry, everything comes natural. This video makes it look like you have to plan a resume and dress for a job interview that you will have to adhere to a strict set of rules for the rest of your life if you want to keep that job. When we started dating, we dressed casual, we were spontaneous, not always ready or prepared and had a lots of fun. We are great friends that just love being together more than anything else. There is a special someone for everybody in this world and nobody has to be lonely in it.

[@JERRYR708]

@Boj Z I was the opposite of everything mentioned in this video. I was an introvert, had no job, living with grandma. Never was a player chasing after women or asked a woman out, or spent money on a woman. Women on the other hand, chased after me, asked me out on dates and many grabbed my ass and crotch at work and other public places. I have been a victim of many sexual assaults from women.

[@olddutchification]

thank you for your words of wisdom, bro!

[@JERRYR708]

@friendly Jew You mean: "Happy Wife, Happy Life."

[@chrisfleming5109]

This is very true but most people don't ever meet the special one. You were just lucky.

[@jean-pierredevent970]

Back end Seventies beginning Eighties even, that was like that. But with neo-liberalism everything changed, even the music and the parties. Before we had bamba+slow system where you could see who liked you in the bamba. Then you went to her during the slows that followed. In the Eighties they stopped doing that handy system and played a lot of dance music and then suddenly a few slow's came accompanied with a whisper in the mic: "Slow time, sexy time" which made you feel almost dirty. The clothes were before not so important but that changed. Both women and men got a "market value". I think this is still going on. And it makes love hard.

[@mashgasem7347]

Girls notice first -------> 1-Your energy. aura... 2-Physical appearance... 3-How you engage with others(don't shy, interacting with others, don't try hard)... 4-Your eyes (connections)... Thanks

[@YourWingmam]

To clarify physical appearance: *not* how good looking you are by stereotypes :)

[@mashgasem7347]

Anna you are so right. Your clips are so useful so practical indeed. I cannot thank you enough. Thank you very much truly.

[@Pushpul.Pandey.PP007]

Absolutely right..bro

[@jefflovejoy2997]

Actually, an extrovert signals a narcissist, someone who believes they should be the life of the party, the center of all attention. Much more prefer a woman who is the guardian of the party.

[@colinmaxwell4738]

Sounds right mash

[@brianwalker1933]

I love me, myself and l. Always have and always will, that’s what l call, “confidence”. I’m not going out of my way to, “impress women”. If they don’t like me for what or who l am...their loss, not mine. Again, l call that confidence. I could go on and on but l won’t. If you’re smart enough, you’ll realise why. 😊👍👍

[@barrychickini9074]

“Women are like streetcars, just wait and another one will be along momentarily” .... my grandma.

[@thomasevans4092]

It doesn't matter if they come by. It matters if they are willing to make the stop.

[@northernpanda6953]

Took me a few seconds to put two and two together and realize you were qouting your grandma, not refering TO your grandma. 🤣🤣🤣 Think my IQ is dropping

[@jarodorla6949]

@barry chickini very realistic analogy except if I can add like a mechanic whose working on a car till another comes for a fix so too are men who work on their purpose till a damsel in distress comes along.

[@richardchambers3533]

The first thing they notice, obviously is your wallet💲💲💲🤣🤣🤣

[@JeeGee114]

I never ride on public transport.

[@ganymeade5151]

In Latin America and Asia, if you can support her and her extended family, they love you.

[@chamcham123]

Do they shower you with women from the extended family? Is it OK to hook up with them? Is it a financial burden that you are forced to bear with no real benefits?

[@empiresrikesfat]

Love you long time

[@johnki325]

What happens when you run out of money.

[@micuentaparaforosycosas3484]

@@johnki325 you stop beeing loved, simple.

[@johnki325]

@@empiresrikesfat that's like a salesman saying no worries, your new car warranty is for a long time. Exactly how long is a long time.

[@teach-learn4078]

Q. Why do women like a man in uniform? A. They know he's employed.

[@Acetyl53]

It's actually tribalism. Uniform = affiliation with greater group = security and resources.

[@jnagarya519]

@@Acetyl53 It's also competition among women: "I have the bright shiny object/'hero' -- and you don't."

[@tanioraaura1274]

Depends on where and what uniform Morgue, Prison, Gang, Ball player. 😃⬆️ Yeah bab i e

[@tanioraaura1274]

Seeing the pressed uniform i smell starch .

[@arepitagrande8797]

That was a good one ... :-).

[@davidcripps3011]

Being an introvert is not actually a bad thing. It's often a sign of intelligence and awareness of others. I'm most definitely an introvert and love that part of myself. I gain a lot of strength from being comfortable being alone. Many extroverts that I know miss a lot of detail in life and can often be quite insecure

[@serenityinside1]

Agreed. She’s completely off with shyness being negative. Worlds full of “ fake confident loud look at me extroverts “.

[@scotthuffman6089]

I don’t know why I’m watching this I’ve have been married for 47 years.

[@johncartelli]

thats why my friend...lol

[@sachinmali74]

Just because you have ordered your food doesn't mean you cannot look at the menu.

[@johncartelli]

@Property And Malaga or...Just because you tied the knot...doesnt mean you cant cut the rope....(took me 4 times to find the right one)

[@TheVersipelis]

So you’re not divorced... yet. Whatever you do, don’t get down on your luck; usually, that’s all it takes.

[@antoniovdls7188]

I know why, because Anna is SMOKIN' HOT!!... i don't blame you buddy

[@Prizmatic1658]

They first notice your shoes, woman love shoes..

[@ZoolGatekeeper]

First the shoes, then the watch, after that yr teeth(like in a horse), after that yr bank account.. AND then on.. I hope you live a happy life ever after..

[@gavinreid5387]

Nice polished leather shoes, the same colour as the belt.

[@andrewrees8749]

Yes agree with that, I always wear good quality smart shoes.

[@dimitriosdesmos4699]

i have caught many women staring at my crotch in my life , but never at my shoes, what gives ?

[@teach-learn4078]

​@@dimitriosdesmos4699Try doing up your fly before you go out.😂

[@seansiewsarran]

"She can see your aura"... holy shit ..she's neo from the matrix

[@tek9tek766]

What is matrix 🤔???

[@ganymeade5151]

good mood good aura; bad mood bad aura

[@dianalee603]

Made me laugh. That's a great quality.

[@navonmyhand7999]

Or she's someone from HunterxHunter

[@geraldwest8238]

tek 9 tek seriously? Well, The Matrix is a movie from 1999, starring Keanu Reeves, Lawrence Fishburne, Carrie-Ann Moss, et al. It’s all about the choice between a red and or a blue pill.

[@Fromard]

Sounds like a lot of work. How about if confident me just lives his life instead of worrying about "Doing the right things"?

[@YourWingmam]

That's the best way. This is either the icing on the confidence cake or a way for those guys who don't have cake yet. If that makes sense. ;)

[@theknowitall2280]

John Howerton - well said (too much work and what’ll it get you? Some shallow nag that drives you insane)

[@JamesSmith-jq2jc]

Best advice of all. We've all been brainwashed to think and act in ways as to be socially acceptable. As I watch society I've come to realize it's a real mess. There are a lot of fake people all pretending to be this or that. They all want and NEED to be part of the IN CROWD.

[@mike747436]

John Howerton I guess it all depends on what you want...😜

[@sharkwhisperer7326]

@@theknowitall2280 ... or she'll leave because she's not getting the attention or romance she once felt/got. I've seen it first hand.

[@waynewindow3130]

I like that you share your self with us rather than just giving us advice and facts. And I find that very attractive about you

[@SimonCU]

Why is it women have the right to judge men while they get offended when men judge them or they don't want to be judged.

[@mike747436]

SiSiSiUSA It’s not a question of ‘right’. It’s just the way it is...blame evolution😜

[@clownworldcartoons]

@@mike747436 No, he means the difference between women judging men and the other way around. For example, these days if a man states what he likes in a woman he is immediately called sexist.

[@mike747436]

Slapdash Comix Really? So if I tell a woman I like her sense of humour, I’m being sexist?

[@clownworldcartoons]

@@mike747436 That would be a compliment not a stipulation.

[@mike747436]

@@clownworldcartoons ? OK, so if I say I like a woman with a sense of humour, is that sexist?

[@royalwedding777]

1. Aura: I own it no matter where I may be. 2. Physical Appearance/Groom: Always on top of my game even going to the grocery store. However just be yourself. 3. How to Engage: Be pleasant with everyone wear a real smile instead of a fake one. 4. Your Eyes: When in conversation with someone look into their eyes and give them full attention and do not be distracted. Especially when talking to a female (i.e. one of interest). She should be our only focus at any given moment.

[@thegreatbamboozler4837]

My aura smells like bean dip.

[@toml.8210]

I had a date run off before i even met her! She had a friend hiding by the door to see if my car was "good enough" or fancy enough. It wasn't, so she slipped out the back.

[@stevetaylor2955]

What an ass hole! Lucky escape.

[@blackshadexl]

U dodged a missile 😂

[@toml.8210]

@@blackshadexl That's the kind of girl I wouldn't want to date, so it's HER loss.

[@toml.8210]

@@stevetaylor2955 Correct, I think, but a better tern would be a narcissistic bitch?

[@THE-J0K3R.]

That saved your life.

[@Th0ughtZ_]

All I'll say is this: Never ever ever believe women when they say like nice guys.

[@bizbot1655]

Yes. They seem to gravitate toward douchebags and then cry and bitch when they get stung.

[@albertgaspar627]

there's a difference between being nice, and being good. Many "nice" guys are just hanging around hot messes hoping for their turn in line. They get upset when, as BizBot pointed out, the hot mess sleeps with the hot mess guy. surprise, the hot mess doesn't sleep with DBs because she's easy, she does it to not be judged for living a hot mess life. Then there are the real nice guys, who are boring as a church picnic on a hot july day. Be a good guy, who doesn't reveal everything about himself in the first two seconds of meeting (it takes away all the mystery she enjoys, and really, if you're that good why do you have to tell everyone you are?). Don't be the nice guy who is home early and wouldn't dare go dancing in the city because OMG don't people get shot there?

[@christopherrivera1673]

@@albertgaspar627 -- The distinction between "nice" and "good" is useful. But there is also the issue of perspective. Some women mistake "good" for "nice" and vise versa, and not only the "hot mess" but just women who are either misled by other women or just have bad judgement (they might be a good/conscientious person but have poor intrapersonal intelligence, an aspect of emotional intelligence, and/or inexperienced with dating).

[@Th0ughtZ_]

@@albertgaspar627 TL DR. Break your shit up into paragraphs next time. No reply necessary.

[@albertgaspar627]

You are correct, it is perspective. a similar issue is people who confuse "cocky" for "confidence". Typically its a person who doesn't have a lot of confidence, so they don't have something to compare to. Cockiness is when you are trying to convince everyone that you have confidence. Confidence is when you don't see a need to convince people, for the same reason you don't have to show off to people that you breath air. Also, we don't recognize a red flag that looks like one we are waving. Otherwise we would have to admit that red flag we are waving, is a bad thing. The result is we tend to pick friends and lovers who make us feel comfortable about our red flags, by not pointing them out and making us conscious of them in relation to their flag-free style.

[@Unidente02]

Hmm... My experience says most women are shopping for someone who has the financial means to provide them with the material things (yes, things) they desire, those things that money can buy. Attraction may occur on that basis, but it is not guaranteed. If that solvency disappears for some reason, love vaporizes, as if by magic.

[@Unhacker]

Anything that evaporates because of money was not love; It was something else.

[@neal51]

I agree 100%. I've seen more than one of my friends bled dry, either while living together or through a divorce. If they have kids or Grandkids count on buying them what they need with little to nothing in return.

[@kiqueenbees]

My problem is I get too passionate about the subjects in the conversation and most people can't hold their attention after 5 words.

[@PFLEONARDI0906]

Absolutely accurate, if it’s not gossip about a mutual acquaintance, they have no concept of the world except themselves...

[@aaronshimon7683]

'I want you to love me for me. Also, conform to my standards.' #thxbae

[@metalmike570]

In Coming To America the Prince said something like that.

[@lind3237]

The best way to get women’s attention is to act like you don’t need them.

[@jarodorla6949]

@Craig Delaney Yep this is one way of how I treat them ignore them some care some don't cause despite coveting attention they ignore you first

[@sunnyd4734]

Or ignore them altogether. Then they become obnoxious. They can become such leeches vying for attention.

[@P121463S]

A lot of truth in that statement

[@kamilkaniewski6742]

Act?

[@ganymeade5151]

Depends on what kind of woman you want. Many women like to be pursued.

[@earthstewardude]

"I'll get dinner - I just got my stimulus check..."

[@metalmike570]

Better have dinner soon; it's almost over for those free dough checks!

[@im1who84u]

Just one observation here as back in the day when I was in my early twenties, I was a bartender at an upscale bar. If she's still there at last call.... what does that tell you about her? Think hard now. No one else wanted her either and now she's desperate and looking at you like you are on the menu along with anyone else still left that might be inebriated enough to have a romp with her. Think about it, think long and hard. Do you really wanna pull the trigger on this one? Are you really that desperate? Go get some breakfast, call it a night, and go home to your nice safe and quiet home and live to hunt another day. Trust me, you’ll be glad you did.

[@teach-learn4078]

Now you tell me 😅

[@parsizaban1]

When women see you are confident, they assume this confidence comes from having money.

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

parsi zaban or having a big tool to get the job done 🔧

[@YesDaddyTDPop]

Ken D I never said it was first, but it’s definitely part of it

[@dionysus3774]

@@YesDaddyTDPop *Facts*

[@ganymeade5151]

and then they are disappointed to find that most men do not have as much as they want

[@BateVentci]

coz confidence comes with money,unfourtunately with money comes and arogance and there is the moment for self control

[@ZENITHATLAS]

I love that you don't wear make-up. It speaks volumes

[@zq9m3xh8]

She notices whether you brush your teeth, whether you have teeth....

[@plop961]

Lol... gummy bear

[@ganymeade5151]

or if you have bad breath

[@armadillotoe]

@@ganymeade5151 Speaking of bad breath, what about their odors?

[@Booboobear-eo4es]

We know the toothbrush was invented in Tennessee because if it was invented anywhere else, it would have been called a "teethbrush."

[@jonredd650]

My tooth is clean ass whistle!

[@frankorta5158]

They notice your silhouette and frame. Then they ask themselves “ does he have any money”?

[@seaperu1]

so sad but true

[@delilaa]

Checks for pocket bulges

[@jgrab1]

That's about right.

[@SuperBullyone]

ya, is he good looking, does he have money, will her friends be impressed with her catch. will her EX realize he was stupid he was to leave her...

[@fredrickberry7004]

@@SuperBullyone Yep!

[@elforeigner3260]

When a woman looks at me, I tell her I’m married. It works wonders

[@davesaenz3732]

What happens?

[@echandonut]

Woman like married man more.. They like challenges to make them feel good about themselves if they can make you leave your marriage

[@LolaCrazy2221]

When I see a woman the first thing I look for is if there's a ring on her finger!

[@alanconley1139]

Actually there is a lot of truth to that takes a lot of stress & anxiety out of male female interaction. It takes out the sexual tension for both man and women.

[@adriandunn1830]

What a fascinating set of videos you do really interesting I've watched quite a few I do understand and agree with most of your observations and recommendations to us men well done keep up the great work Best wishes from the Uk 🇬🇧

[@ix-Xafra]

This is the second of your vids I've watched after KZbins algorithyms put them in my feed. I don't search for dating advice material - lol. It is really refreshing to hear a modest lady giving genuine advice about romantic attraction with a narcissism free delivery. If I spoke to you for a couple of minutes Wingmam, I'd be attracted.

[@flashguy1339]

another "awesome" set of instruction... luv it! since I've been following your channel I have went from 0 to 100 and my friends have called me anything from "the Casanova" to the "General" to the "Target" (of a woman's affections) ... yes... it works!!!! to anyone who has watched all her videos... it works

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@alexhormann8931]

The more I learn about women the more I avoid them. Now I know what some MGTOWs mean by: "You can either understand women or love them."

[@ganymeade5151]

Understanding can be very difficult.

[@zozilla]

Going thru it rite now !!! Literally lol

[@sharkwhisperer7326]

Here too, society has changed too much in the past 30-40 years, nothing is the same anymore.

[@ingolfleiblle6661]

The more I learn about people the more I love my dogs. Just quoting Friedrich the Great, once King of Prussia.

[@RH-ul2bc]

Women are meant to be understood, they are meant to be appreciated. As are men.

[@ssnoc]

She can sense my aura, but had no idea about the parked car behind her when she plowed into it 🚗

[@MetaphysicalMusician]

Thats different skill set

[@albertgaspar627]

there's an old joke about that....women crash into things because all their adult lives, men have lied to them about how long six inches really is :)

[@ganymeade5151]

LOL

[@thegreatbamboozler4837]

I release an "aura" every morning when I wake up. This morning it made the cat pass out.

[@waydegardner7373]

An introvert like myself would rather have one in depth, insightful and meaningful conversation than dozens comprised of small talk.

[@ianr02]

Shyness is an excellent quality in a male - it usually indicates both sensitivity, concienciousness. lack of aggression and honesty. Females who are in any way turned off by this characteristic and are attracted to confident males frequently make a serious error in choosing the right male.

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly! I did a video on the benefits of shyness: kzbin.info/www/bejne/a4nVoKqvfN91ZpY

[@jarodorla6949]

@peter engles yea women always make errors in selecting insignificant others

[@clownworldcartoons]

@@YourWingmam But surely that conflicts with what you're saying in this video? You are saying that women are immediately repulsed if a man shows a little bit of shyness in the way he stands or looks etc.

[@yyxy.oncesaid]

Error in your opinion.

[@mlfitness67]

I wish we were friends, I like this woman, just her honesty wins me over.

[@21stCenturySpaceOdyssey]

It's all scripted, man. Nothing sincere about it.

[@maromorostar6621]

I started to dont care about anyone or anything around me just thinking about myself. Confidence started to rise, and i got alot of flirting looks even from men. Before nobody would even look at me for two seconds. I noticed the most important are the eyes, how you move your eyes how your eyes glow, the eyes can tell stories, show feelings, can show charm. Its important to learn controlling your eyes. Everything else is just a plus. The eyes are the key TRUST ME!

[@hanssolo4ever]

Being kind and considered matters, I was told once that a girl I met and just started to date liked a lot when I pulled up her zipper in her jacket because it was cold. She had one of her arms in a cast and so I also bent down without asking her and retied her shoes that were coming undone. I did not think twice about it I just wanted her to be ok and she later told me that was one of the things she liked a lot about me.

[@hanssolo4ever]

@Mike Driggs I was never in the friend zone with her or any other woman, sorry if you had that experience, maybe working on your attitude to women will help you?

[@hanssolo4ever]

@Mike Driggs Not my experience.

[@hanssolo4ever]

@Mike Driggs Now you are just projecting your misfortune on others, it does not work on me, time for you to move on.

[@hanssolo4ever]

@Mike Driggs Stick with your own misery.

[@hanssolo4ever]

@Mike Driggs You don't matter, just work on your inabilities to have a relationship with a woman.

[@rorytennes8576]

The first thing they notice is how much you have and how much you are willing to give to her. Or how much she can take from you .

[@mamaducissemaci929]

your energy/vibe, how you look, your space/presence, how you engage with other epople, your eyes.

[@davidheenan7432]

They say a dog is a mans best friend and diamonds are a girls best friend, but they think we are the selfish ones.

[@divineprovidence803]

They don't notice anything about me. I become the invisible man around women! I've stopped caring about what women want and focus on myself.

[@jerryspencer7916]

Thank you so much for sharing this helpful information with men! I am greatly relieved and again reminded that most women do not evaluate a man on a superficial basis. The 4 things you mentioned are the basis for any chance to continue past the first encounter.

[@johnm9840]

Anna you're so cute trying to get thru the "caveat exception".. It's refreshing to see your true persona shine!

[@pudster1960]

I can testify to this. I have known some amazing gorgeous women in my life. I do not have loads of money or peacock dress. As a woman said once that I seem to attract lovely women. even though I was not classically handsome. I think its my energy, I still have the child within.

[@mattmiles9779]

Your revolution is over. Condolences. The bums lost. My advice is to do what your parents did; get a job, sir. The bums will always lose. Do you hear me? The bums will always lose!

[@geckobrah4201]

Decent advice. I have these characteristics in spades, but can confidently say through experience that they do not help if you are not tall and handsome.

[@edtoro4197]

This is a good Channel through her warm eyes you can see that she wants to help. Being true to yourself and guard your heart and be honest with others. The universe will put someone right in front of you that will make twitterpated listening to her Channel we'll help you not to overthink it, and always be the best person you can. Chow

[@MrBadintentionss]

i'm in my 50's, 6'4" and i'm in really good shape. it doesn't matter if they are 18 or 80, but if i'm in my gym singlet it's always the shoulders I catch them looking at.

[@gavinreid5387]

Not your hight?

[@teach-learn4078]

Yeah, dandruff can be nasty, don't worry about it man. 😂

[@charliedallachie3539]

0:24 well it’s over.....rejection is a downward spiral. Hard to get natural confidence without success

[@freak49]

Hard to get confidence when your whole adult life all you've heard is "thanks, but no thanks"

[@donquihote6023]

I love women, most these days have little to offer other than their company and their sex. Neither of these is usually enough for a long term relationship. Women want, money and prestige!

[@ronyboy40]

You can thank Hollywood for that

[@jarodorla6949]

@@ronyboy40 hollywood social media propaganda hypergamy self entitlement feminism, also the law favoring them in legal matters so theres an imbalance in of itself.

[@sunnyd4734]

And yet they refuse to cook for a man but will spend hours watching silly juvenile TV shows.

[@donquihote6023]

@@sunnyd4734 Times passed, they were partners and understood the needs of a home. Cooking meant healthy offspring and a strong man who did his part also to provide for his wife and kids. Both realized there was a great deal needed for a successful family and life. Enter second wave feminism. Cosmo and a plethora of other media sourses convinced women such expectations were only men keeping them enslaved. They became entitled and the business of law gained another revenue stream. Piss on both of them.

[@ganymeade5151]

The media has led people to expect way too much from each other. The privileged lives of very rich yuppies is far different from the tedium and drudgery of most of our lives. Each woman is expected to bring home lots of money, cook up a great dinner, and be a sex queen in bed every night. Bullshit. This is so far from reality for most of us. Most women make 25K a year; a small fraction of any company official. Most women are stressed out and dog tired when they get home. The average income for a family of 4 is around 55K a year. Let's get real. Stop letting the media influence your lives. Women cannot do all of this and still look like a fashion model in a fragrance commercial. Get real.

[@johnholbrook6042]

If I iron my own shirts and make my own sandwich, what is the point of having a woman?

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

And you have two hands to switch off with, sounds like your set...carry on.

[@mickharrison9004]

😂😂😂

[@marksampson48]

You iron your shirts?

[@francoiswilliams]

Why no woemn on the moon? No kitchen on the moon huh...

[@1SpudderR]

John Holbrook...Hmm.....The Iron ...irons my shirts! Perhaps you really need to be on your own with whatever you are putting in your sandwich! Whatever!

[@haiguyse]

Did anyone else think? "I hope no guy ever grabs my cucumber at the grocery store"

[@jfo3000]

Yeah, that statement from her was very strange. Just plain weird.

[@Ard-mhacha-abu]

No one gets between me and the last cucumber! 🥒 😂

[@DJ-hf3qq]

Yeah, I'm not going to start a fight with someone over a cucumber! More shame me, huh?

[@mmestari]

If guy grabs my cucumber I will punch his cabbage.

[@DJ-hf3qq]

@@mmestari anyone who punches my cabbage will get a thwack from my cucumber!

[@pmag3200]

Yeah she looks at a man's aura because that is related to his gold necklaces and Rolex watch reflecting the light back at her

[@Th0ughtZ_]

Hold this W lol.

[@michaelquintana1178]

no it aint…. I already defied this....then u aint got realy aura if its tied to ur rolex an gold..

[@pmag3200]

@@michaelquintana1178 relax...all women want a stable man with stable money...or women would hang out on the street looking for homeless poor guys...not going to happen

[@michaelquintana1178]

@@pmag3200 so u can be stable without flashing ur gold...I already know

[@pmag3200]

@@michaelquintana1178 great to hear player...he he go get them

[@thisisscorpio6024]

I think the aura is definitely the biggie, and it's better revealed when you are not part of a crowd. Sometimes your friends, co-workers, teammates, or frat brothers cloud your aura in social settings. If you are out to find someone, I think the lone wolf approach works best. Leave the pack at home.

[@YourWingmam]

Well said! (Though, don’t always be on the hunt. A man needs his bros, too.)

[@thisisscorpio6024]

@@YourWingmam With other guys around, the women's may judge on appearance, first, instead of aura. I'm still not at a disadvantage here, but the average Joe might be. Gots to look out for Joe. (nods) I'll tell Joe to separate and get a table near the bathroom. He'll eventually see all the women at the bar from that vantage point (points to brain and nods)

[@YourWingmam]

@@thisisscorpio6024 lol... what I mean is that a man shouldn't be so desperate that his every activity revolved around whether or not women will even be there. (But you know that. Thanks for helping Joe, he needs it!)

[@dennisgordon7767]

had this w a girl last night who works at the gym. no one there so she comes to me and i see she is checking out my vibe big time. so i play it up and tease her a bit.. shes eating it up. i was definitely concious she wanted to see my vibe and wanted a fun vibe. but im not always this fun girl, just after working out or success

[@ChrisNavarro100]

At 4:45 you said that guys shouldnt check out other girls when with a girl they're with. Typically this is true, but the last girl I dated, was into girls too and she made me check out other girls. After her, I honestly cant imagine being with a girl that has a problem with that. Its just a huge relief and enjoyable when me and my partner can look at others and talk about what we like about them. I feel the same when she's looking at guys. I like her to look at other guys and tell me what she likes. That way i can work on that aspect and get closer to something that she likes, that i dont currently have. That might be a pair of well fitting jeans, a hairstyle, a cologn, posture, whatever. I lile being open enough with my partner to br able to talk about attractions towards others. Why hide that? Everyone is attracted to people. That doesn't go away just becauss you're together. Trust each other. Be open and honest. My girl will always know that I'm loyal to her and only her, but yes, I will look and I expect her to look too.

[@havefun582]

So in another words women are complicated 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@kungfuhusler]

Like a Rubix Cube

[@truthspeech6782]

Since when haven't women been complicated s lol

[@armadillotoe]

The word you are looking for is psychotic.

[@mreverybody1150]

Yes, as complicated as a drawing of a line.

[@DB-cb7xb]

No. No. No. Be yourself and your own best friend. Everything else will fall in place. Live your life for you.

[@scintillam_dei]

Why not accelerate things falling into place? Seek and ye shall find.

[@aplayboysplaybook]

I'm a up and coming dating coach and I'm enjoying your vids taking notes and will relate some of your talking points to my audience

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Imhotep397]

I still don’t know how so many women end up with so many jerks if this is kind of their innate selection process?

[@WHITELIONNYC]

It ain't that deep. Her videos are usually good. I usually don't agree with 💯 of what she says in every video but this one is such BS I didn't make it past 0:52 Terrible video in my opinion.

[@reyesmunguia4899]

as far as taking up space when I was in the Army , us guys were told not to stand with our hands on our hips.In fact a drill sargeant would ask guys " are you selling pu__y" whenever he would see a soldier with his hands on his hips

[@belgoblax1596]

"Why do you ask? Are you buying, Drill Sergeant?"....

[@alexdao9006]

I'm from Vietnam and I'm really insecure about dating outside of my racial group. Lately, there are a few women that shown interest in me at work. I had no idea how to proceed. This video has helped a ton. Thank you for showing us men how to be proper human beings before being alpha males just to land sex.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@superdoglover5676]

Be like James Bond. He's a great example of an alpha: strong, confident, witty, etc.

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, and cool, collected, charming :)

[@robertmasina4610]

Fact is we men are not all the same and not every man is James Bond like.

[@rerite2]

Let's keep in mind that James Bond is a fictional character.

[@nomeant2bs]

@@YourWingmam Never be like someone else!

[@kunzklingsor9156]

Nice ideas in this channel, rapidly dished out, maturely and without condescension.

[@jarodorla6949]

i totally agree

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching and commenting, Kunz! :)

[@timothyw7663]

Anna, how you start choking while talking about the 'last call' behavior change is hilarious and charming all at once.

[@scottys1423]

"My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents."

[@roodmood1]

Chicken salad, on rye!

[@metalmike570]

you're fired

[@KayNovember26]

Good luck George!

[@rrssmooth6643]

Funny

[@staceygrove5976]

"You seem like a nice person, George, and I'm sure you'll find the right girl for you...."

[@ketchup5344]

All I can say is thank god my right hand takes me for what I am. 😁

[@danielamourose6361]

Yeah, but lately he's told me that he's been getting fed up with you coming home at all hours of the night.

[@ellerskillzis]

I really enjoy your vids. You seemed out of sorts on this one. I'm working on my empathy skill. I hope you're feeling better. 👍

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@BruceWayne-mf6ps]

Me: I'm 6'5, I'm broke asf, I have below-average social skills and crippling anxiety and depression Her: You said 6'5 😍

[@theemperor1015]

Smaller guys lose because, they are either pushovers or too arrogant. Neither of these qualities are likable.

[@independentthinker8930]

I change for no one. It's her job to convince me it's worth it. Being fake right off, good job!

[@independentthinker8930]

The trouble is, therapy, counseling, all this b.s.. Try being MEN and WOMEN and REAL.

[@samwalton4598]

Once you have her attention then she proves her worth to you. That doesn’t necessarily mean you are not being authentic. It is a game after all. It is just making your mind up to play or not to play. It is Ok either way.

[@briand9137]

I was trying to figure out what attracts me to you. I realized you're the doppelganger for a woman who I like and would have asked out were she not a smoker. I like your calm demeanor, your soft hair, and your big, dark eyes.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@terrymeschke3376]

The real first things women notice. 1. How nice of a car you have. 2. How much money you have in your bank account. 3. How big of a house you have. 4. How much of it you are willing to give her.

[@martinsloan9785]

I look for kindness, and it's hard to find.

[@Son-km3rt]

😂 After all that advice all I want to do is enjoy my life to the fullest, with or without romance.

[@williamwilkins3084]

That's exactly what I do. I've learned to adjust to a non-romantic life.

[@sontodosnarcos]

Best thing you can do.

[@edforth3324]

I have been enjoying your channel, You are absoulutly right every time. I wouldnt feel bad about missing 75% of these social gatherings especially when theres booze. It doesnt take long before the conversatios turn to S... When I was younger, there was one single reason to go to the bar or a random party. I could have all the bright lights,loud music,and drinky poos back at the pad. Im just there for the left overs hehe

[@abrookgotrich1564]

Straight forward wingman..it what i like! Thanks..

[@quentin8122]

Shyness isn't about low esteem. Maybe in some cases. I had shyness as well. It was because I didn't feel comfortable speaking may be due to a lack of social skills. Didn't feel comfortable interacting with people because I was unsure of them. I had always been sure of myself.

[@ryanwelch1321]

Thank you @Your Wingmam! I could not understand why women were attracted to me until I started watching your videos. I don't consider myself particularly attractive or successful, furthermore I'm only 5' 7", but I am very confident in my competence and comfortable with who I am. I suspect my military experience, both as an enlisted sergeant and later as an officer, has a lot to do with that. Anyway I have had women who I thought were WAY out of my league throw themselves at me and I was completely shocked, especially since they knew I am happily married. But after watching about 20 or 30 of your videos, and dozens of others, it all makes sense now. I unconsciously or naturally did about 95% of the things you recommend and THAT was why women were attracted, even to someone as unremarkable as me. Now that I know what signals women look for I will consciously insure I don't unintentionally send the wrong signals anymore.

[@JJJennings007]

You are a smart observant woman. Although I thought I've seen it all and experienced it all I still enjoy and learn from you. Keep up the good work!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! :))

[@davidsisky120]

Love your advice ... Thanks so much for sharing your videos ... 😘💋💋

[@myversionofstuff]

I like your style . Good video. Works the other way too. If a girl is rude to people ,such a turn off.

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely! :)

[@markroc]

The unit pandemic broke out, I was going around China giving speeches. The first speech that I gave I remember that day Shook and stuttered the entire PowerPoint presentation! I'm about 250 this speech I know this said I was not only very relaxed and confident but I was also talking with the audience being more interactive and being a real speaker! You are kilometers ahead of me in your speaking skills, and what you have to say! I would love to see you do TED Talks one day! I think they would love you! I would like to believe I'm your number 110 but when you have 2.5 for just one video, hahaha

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@johngrahamwilson1649]

Tip: Before you go into a social event, wait outside for a few minutes and think of the funniest thing you can. Don’t go in until you have grinned to yourself about it. Walk in with the traces of these positive vibes still lingering and your face and gently beam it at a pretty girl. When you are noticed for this you must make a comment (her hair, her outfit etc.) The first thirty seconds will tell you if she is open for it. Take it from there, Mistah! You gotta be your own Donald Trump. (Well, not as bad as that, but you get the picture.) Another idea is to go to the group she is in (women don’t like being hit on straight away as singles). Track ‘em and chat ‘em. Slowly turn your focus towards your intended.

[@dianalee603]

You're a smart guy.