How To Be Elegant: Practical Tips To Become More Poised and Graceful

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I am Jamila Musayeva, an international social etiquette consultant and the author of the books “Etiquette: the least you need to know” and “Afternoon Tea Etiquette.”If you wish to order the books, email [e-mail]
In this video, I share practical tips to become more elegant and poised. I share tips that I have learned along the way and am confident it will help you as well.
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[@andrewrivera389]

“Dress shabbily and they remember the dress dress impeccably and they remember the woman.” - Coco Chanel very informative Jamila.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@andrewrivera389]

@@JamilaMusayeva you're welcome

[@ChiPham-yx6pd]

I love this! Thanks Andrew!

[@andrewrivera389]

@@ChiPham-yx6pd you’re very welcome. I love Coco she’s an inspiration

[@AnnikaOrne]

This is one of those moments when punctuation would be useful.

[@TR-nh7xf]

Well said! "What you say about others, says more about you, than the other person." Hurt people hurt people. Take care of yourself ladies! ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely

[@mina_ophelia5067]

"In a world full of Kardashian, be a Grace Kelly." thank you Jamila, you make me feel better with every video you made.💓

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@nokateno]

Kardashians prob think they are Grace Kelly

[@alefiyavohra3395]

3:55 this sentence a great person told me and ever since I make sure to follow it is " jealousy doesn't affect the person you are jealous of but it destroys you"

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely !

[@yasmenebadereldin]

It’s impossible not to be attracted to elegance! It communicates grace, self-respect, sophistication and that subtle inner power that is just MAGNETIZING. Best part, anyone can learn! And everyone’s style is unique to them. Thank you Jamila 🥰

[@Mari_Beli]

It’s so true!🩵🩵🩵 now we all can learn and knowledge is so accessible to us unlike ever before! I couldn’t learn it in my family or from my mother, but I’m so grateful for all the mentors I had in my life, who taught me about feminine arts and it changed my whole life 💗💗💗

[@TheBlackychan09]

I didn’t think I was that elegant until I recently found out that I was dubbed “the classy friend” of my friend group because of how I dress & carry myself. I’ve even had lady friends say that they wanted to dress & behave like me! I was shocked 😯 yet quite flattered. I still think I’m a work-in-progress but I’m glad that I’ve made some improvements overtime. & I’ve noticed that older men have been drawn to me lately because I practiced what you listed, & a few men around my age view my elegance as being “the cool yet chill.” It’s interesting.

[@lawnerd67]

I understand the shocked feeling! I was introducing my husband to co-workers for the first time and one of them called me the master of introductions. I don’t think I’m that good, I just bring up something they have in common, or remind my husband of something (nice, of course!) I’ve told him about that person.

[@asal5390]

My family didn't care about being elegant while I was growing up, but I have always looked forward to learning it and I found you. Thank you I really needed such a video.❤️

[@didyouseemybag7439]

your family doesn't have to be elegant, they are so perfect on their own

[@robloxvilain]

My family reallu cares

[@JackFate76]

Your family rocks.

[@vaishaligoswami1478]

When it comes to communication, I always get anxious. Please make a video on how to communicate more confidently, especially in a business setting. Your content is extremely helpful 💛

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you. I will note it down ☺️

[@mdillard881]

This would be a wonderful topic. I feel I project too immature / youthful an image. Having a baby face does not help.

[@greenlimabean]

Think of a person you know who holds themself well in social situations. Then say, "What would so and so say right now?." You'll know what to say, do.

[@lawnerd67]

Regarding a signature scent and keeping it private, I’m the exact opposite! I love sharing things I love, including my perfume. I also share recipes with anyone who asks and where I purchased an item of clothing. I feel it’s flattering to be asked. I have trouble understanding people not willing to share anything which isn’t their patented property.

[@BBartistic]

I hope that a lot of young girls will see this video, as it has all the gems in it. The way you speak is important, the way you dress is important, the way you put your makeup on is important, the way you talk, make gestures, smile all are important. This is like a guide for young girls and women in general. We should incorporate as much of these things in our lives. Thank you Jamila, you are a truly inspiration. ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for your kind feedback ☺️

[@scotttimpson7269]

Isn’t a girl young by definition ?

[@user-bd9ch7ju7o]

You look lovely in this white dress ma'am! What you said about not feeding them with what they want, like anger, it really hit me. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm turning 20 in a week and I'd love to learn to be a little more graceful and elegant. ❤️

[@barbifaragoova1705]

I wish you a happy birthday! 😊 Be happy, healthy, classy elegant lady! ☺️🥰❤️

[@donnabella1018]

Thank you so much for the video! I am a soft spoken person and I think it’s one of the elegant characteristics of me. However, my former boss once told me that my gentle personality will prevent me from being successful because I am not aggressive… I left that job soon after and I am much happier now and still soft spoken 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I am happy to hear that!

[@danyf.1442]

Agreed with everything! And by the way, in my opinion you did look elegant in those more sporty outfits because they just matched with the environment and vibe. On top of the way you carry yourself, being dressed according to the time, place and occasion is elegance to me.

[@erinchim9497]

Hi Jamila, I’m not sure if you are reading this but I am extremely grateful for this channel. I’m a first generation college bound student and have been seeking many prestigious career and academic opportunities; I’ve realized people in different socio-economic status interact much differently (more articulate and elegantly). I’m slowly learning how to adapt to this new stimulated environment. I couldn’t have done it without this channel. You have also inspired me to study International Relations too! Best wishes, Erin R. Chim

[@BunnyMomx8]

Best wishes to you Erin during your studies and career search. You have clearly come to a good place to learn some wonderful skills.

[@JackFate76]

Just be careful to stay human. These rich, sophisticated etiquette nerds come across like dead robots to many people.

[@MrsAmy24.7]

I always said people in general think being elegant is being perfect and looking a certain way, but I know people that are elegant and don't do any of those things, they are just always calm even when things go wrong and they're mad.

[@prajakta_bhosale]

When everyone is talking about outer elegant, it's great to learn about mindset and inner elegance

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻

[@cherrileah9259]

Jamila, I am a first-gen college student and I have been accepted into a very important internship this summer. I am a very timid and shy individual who tries to hide and is not very good at speaking. I have watched so many of your videos and have practiced thinking and acting more elegantly when I speak to others and attend events. You have helped me a lot so far, thank you!

[@chrissiec2123]

0:38- "And, if you're an old viewer, welcome back! I am delighted to see you here." Thanks, I'm glad to be here again! I've been watching you since your earlier days when you had a fraction of the subscribers you do now. 😁

[@thevagabondsageinthewoods]

Thank you for drawing all of these helpful tips together. I live a country lifestyle and am often digging in dirt or handling animals, but I still like to project a particular image. I found a way to wear my hair everyday that is simple but can be dressed up with colored bands. I finally bought gel overlay for my nails. Now if I can slow my speech, I will finally be able to project the overall image I want. Thank you very much!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome 🤗

[@lyna2743]

It was my dream to become elegant woman. I love to look elegant. I love my positive and elegant character. I don't swear. I am very calm and reasonable. I act elegant. I know how to behave elegant. I'm so happy that I was able to become elegant woman I always wanted to be. Very good video and good advices❤. I wish you happy day.

[@mansoor3159]

Thank you so so so so much Jamila for giving tips on how to become more poised and graceful because it is very very important for us and I really really love your videos so so so so much ✨♥️🥺

[@madfrolick3172]

I’m so excited to finish this. I’m a first time mother and my goodness I barely feel human sometimes. This video came at a perfect time for my sanity!

[@swatisaini6447]

congratulations. motherhood can be quite challenging don't be too hard on yourself. Elegance will come easily once your health improves👍

[@flowerofforest]

Congrats! Wishing you and your little one all the very best! This is 10 months ago so i hope you feel much better about yourself now🥰

[@yassi8814]

I already know that my mom would want me to master every single thing in this video 💯😂

[@yearningsea]

I'm grateful for this video you've prepared for us, Jamila. Etiquette is something my parents unfortunately couldn't teach to me. I've always wanted to build a great self image and self concept and your channel is showing me the path to becoming the charming, elegant and confident higher self. I appreciate your lessons a lot. Thankyou.

[@elegancaesthetic]

So true!!!

[@altercatdraw6921]

I am watching one video of your channel per day, while I am taking notes. I really enjoy it! I hope I can get one of your books someday. Thank You, Jamila 💚

[@decemberclouds]

I completely agree about serving your self in nice dishes and cups. If you have visitors, it makes a nice impression too!

[@shreyashibanerjee3913]

I'm learning so much from your videos Jamila 🥳.THANK YOU SO MUCH

[@monar1295]

I value all the information you are giving. Everything about you is precious! Thank you so much for taking the time to educate and help us!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@sraushad278]

Hello Ms. Musayeva, I've been learning a lot about etiquette from your videos. I've always wanted to be elegant and put together, despite being busy with my family and medical career. I am expecting a baby soon and would be truly grateful if you could create a video on elegance as a (new) parent. I am also inspired by Kate Middleton, Duchess of Cambridge and the grace with with she manages her young children. All the best with everything you do.

[@dieu-ly_____]

Hi Mrs. Musayeva 🥰 I loved your video. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and experience with us. This is exactly what I was looking for. I am starting a new chapter in my life, so lots of changes are happening. I’m making some time during the weekend to do planning. I find it incredible that you uploaded your video during this time. I am excited to incorporate your tips into my vision board! I really liked that you reminded us at the beginning that everything starts with our minds/thoughts, so the inside, and then progressed to talk about the outside, and finally finished with reinforcing that it’s all about self-respect, how much value we give to ourselves 🌹💎👑 Thank you once again, and I wish you all the best! ✨😊💐

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are very welcome 🤗

[@alildiary7889]

Hi Jamila, I’m so grateful to discover your channel. I’m feeling very inspired now to practice working on my elegance this year. When I was growing up, I wasn’t taught this, my closed ones didn’t care about it and at school we didn’t learn much besides saying “thankyou” and “please”. I am 23 years old and have realised how unelegant I am in certain areas of myself and I’m definitely going to be self reflecting and working on it. Thank you so much ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@PAS7715]

You and your language are the true definition of elegance!♥️🥺😇

[@nehazende1359]

Seeing notifications of your videos is different kind of happiness💜 Thank you for the lessons! ☺

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Aww ☺️

[@ajjudge7983]

Jamila you are inspirational! Thank you so much for encouraging us to be the best we can be. With all my appreciation and admiration!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@mdillard881]

Thanks Jamila. I appreciate what you said about maintaining emotions in public.

[@alefiyavohra3395]

Wow, when you said "when there is a silence when there is a pause" it actually made me crave for more and made my attention more towards you that what is next you are going to say after that pause. Really good point

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks ☺️

[@amyethridge1798]

Such a wonderful video, thank you. I was so encouraged by each of thirst tips, especially those addressing what’s going on inside of my heart and mind! So important. ☺️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome 🤗

[@rrana7716]

Such an amazing video with all the concepts, ideas and knowledge that leads to being elegant 🤍 Thank you very much jamila 🙏🏻✨

[@peggyw4143]

Hi Jami, it’s so soothing listening to you speaking. I’m able to focus on my work while listening to you at the background. Thanks for the videos☺️

[@giorgiagatti2621]

Thank you Jamila, I did love this video. Very accurate and not trivial at all. I really appreciate your work and the passion that shines through

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@Carmen0777]

Thank you, Jamila. I appreciate all you do, thank you for taking the time to make a video and explain to us how to be elegant. You are such a blessing to us. I wish you the very best. Sending Peace and Blessings, Carmen

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you, Carmen 🙏🏻

[@Carmen0777]

@@JamilaMusayeva you’re welcome ♥️♥️♥️

[@Monnbyy929]

I love her voice, so calming💖

[@trudy-annclarke3617]

This is such a refreshing and informative video. I truly and greatly appreciate you. Thank you. May God continue to bless you in all your endeavors.

[@liviatoo1239]

Most videos about elegance I've found were very superficial and based on old rules that don't mean anything to people nowadays. This is the first video about elegance that is actually about self care and being a good person, not making others uncomfortable and avoiding self destructive behaviors. Thank you, Jamila. Your etiquette and elegance videos are always my favorite!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻

[@jolafitzsimmons8751]

Yes the aura and the energy is the key ✨

[@thesnowqueen8900]

Watching your videos gives me so much peace and inspiration! Thank you, Jamila Musayeva so much!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome 🤗

[@lisatiptoes]

Such a wonderful video. There were a few points that I needed a reminder on. In these times keeping your composure is a must. People can not feed off of what you do not give them. It really works. Thank you.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you !

[@barbifaragoova1705]

This was incredible great! I’m so thankful, very helpful and amazing video, just like always ❤️☺️

[@niketarb]

Wow! Mostly I am following a lot of things mentioned in this video on a daily basis. I also took notes of things that I need to improve in myself. Thank you so much Jamila, for putting out such detailed content. Your videos are so therapeutic. Thank you soo soo much!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You very welcome, Niketa ❤️

[@samathareddy8833]

Thanks a lot 😊 I was always asking for this video and finally it's here 😍

[@birdsetfreenyc5740]

Love this video!!! Yes please do show us how you do your everyday makeup and signature hairstyle. Can you please start a podcast!!?? Love your content and your voice is so calming and sweet. Thank you!❤️

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Such great advice. Such a lovely demonstration of the spirit behind grace and elegance.🌸

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@ariawhite1943]

Ahh! Jamila I’ve missed you so much , since I was on internet detox so good to see your new video love the idea & tips ❤️

[@chendaforest]

This is one of the best videos you have done Jamila., which nicely summarises your teachings. Thank you.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you very much ☺️

[@nadeishiko1462]

Great tips! I have a lot of room for improvement, but I hold deportment and cleanliness/being tidy in high regard, and my friends often gently tease me about being the "fancy" one in the group because of this. Even little things go a long way!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely ☺️

[@carryg580]

I think another big thing is always showing true gratitude. Not only saying thank you, but making eye contact when you say it. Return the favor. Write a thank you card or send a text message later (if it was for something more casual). Mention something small later on, for example; if they made you a great apple pie, say how you always think of them when you have apple pie or buy them a nice pie dish as a gift. Anything thoughtful!

[@oliviaknight1123]

You are just so lovely! 🥰 my big take away top is the "bag drawer" and cleaning the contents and lining each day/evening. This is such a great idea, I really like this tip. Thank you so much for sharing your ideas, I really appreciate this and the efforts you afford to us with your knowledge. ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊

[@aidaju9789]

Jamila, thank you so much. I appreciate this video you made for us. 🥰♥️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you

[@alymic2010]

Jamila,thank you for all this information! Very usuful! And you,as always a pleasure for our eyes and ears ☺️ Much love 💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks!

[@komalgupta8528]

Ma'am you are just a perfect human being, I really admire you so much And I never miss your videos.💖💞

[@ellaritter]

always a delight to watch your videos, jamila! they are always most informative and useful! just wanted to show my appreciation :)

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@alishamorrison2385]

Thank you. I look forward to hearing more like this. I truly appreciate and enjoy your videos.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks 😊

[@thecapone45]

I know your content is likely aimed at women but I’m a guy here tuning in and I really like your videos! I try watching men’s videos on elegance and etiquette but something about them just doesn’t appeal to me. You’re warmer and more soft spoken. I like that and it’s why I enjoy listening to your videos.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I appreciate that! 🙏🏻

[@hellofariha1]

Dear Jamila You are such a pleasant person to listen to Elegance in your voice, look, gestures, and perspective Yet another beautiful and educational video thank you. I like that your “tips” are so considerate and not pushy.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you very much! 🙏🏻

[@lisalisa6397]

Thank you very much Jamila. :) This was definitely your most informative and best video so far.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@June-om9vq]

Jamila I'd like to thank you for this amazing content, I like the details you give that some people don't mention, besides the way you talk about it left me speechless :) My attitudes changed since I started watching your videos, not perfectly but trying hard to do so Keep it up!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! I am happy to hear that ☺️

[@yehuditdavid2814]

You are a great source of inspiration and a truly beautiful woman, both inside and out. Thank you for all your videos!

[@petrieberries]

Thank you, Jamila! I appreciate your videos so much💕

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks 😊

[@raqueldeoliveira4313]

I loved the tips about how to treat ourselves when we are alone. We tend to save the best of us to other people and forget to treat ourselves well. Thank you!

[@renee8498]

Love this comment and insight!

[@raqueldeoliveira4313]

@@renee8498 thank you 😊

[@nowa1277]

You are amazing! Thank you for your lessons and teachings. I always appreciate it ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome 🙏🏻

[@rididdy]

Very grateful for your wonderful advice, which all starts with a healthy mindset and sense of self. I use so many of these tips and it helps me feel better about myself in personal and professional contexts. All the best!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@huskysc7415]

This is a complete view of what elegance is. Thank you for sharing.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@Aylana_glow_up]

Thank you so much for your devotion ❤

[@aasthalovesudit]

Beautifully put together, loved every moment of the video.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@whatwouldpicarddomakeitso9607]

Thank you so very much for sharing . I do not have the words to convey how much I appreciate this video . I am a new subscriber by I think a couple of days and I have learnt so much and have already implemented some of your excellent advice .I have for the first time in 30 years started to wear dresses in the last week and I realised that I need to walk and especially sit differently …through that I found your videos . Today I was in a health club with a nice restaurant that maybe caters to more elegant people than I’m use to . I implemented some things I have learnt from you , but I didn’t do it for them , I did it for me . I have had a lot of losses over the last 7 years including my ex ending our 15 year relationship and unfortunately it left me feeling un confident in my femininity and then we went into lockdown and instead of glowing up I believe they call it , I spiralled down due to heart break and loneliness and depression .I have got help and decided to join a health club two weeks ago especially to swim and use the sauna and steam room and I am now feeling more myself but wanted to take it a step further hence the dresses but then finding I need to learn how to sit again , so when I found you and you have not just helped me in how to sit you are helping me have something to focus on that makes ME feel good and that is to be more feminine than I am already . Thank you so very much ,I feel truly privileged to of found your channel.best wishes to you and yours ,Tracey ,Uk. 🇬🇧💛🤍

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you ♥️

[@vedikashroff]

Your videos are itself elegant ❤ to the point and all topics covered. Love watching you. Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad you like them!

[@arushigarg6203]

Hey Jamila, the way you serve the content is Amazing. I love watching your videos.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@brittanyjackson6432]

Thank you Jamila, and I like your nightly bag cleaning routine with the drawer and cleaning the inside. I think that's a great idea!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊

[@theladieslounge01]

This is why i love you, you always upload the right video at the right time ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 😊 I always listen to my viewers’ suggestions

[@D1ana2009]

The emotions part of this really helped my mental state. I've become more calm and collected. I'm brushing up on a lot of these videos since within the next year I'm joining a company that deals a lot with investors. So feeling confidant in myself when handling everything will not only help me but the company itself.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy to hear that!

[@sushmitapal8797]

Hello Jamila, I am Sushmita here. Today I have gone through your 1 video on how to prepare a lunch table for guest. After that now I am your new Subscriber💚 I have gone through more that 3 videos today and have learned a lot in a single day. Thank you for sharing such knowledgeable moments with us..🌹

[@rashaae3234]

This is the first time I see your channel ' but I loved it very much . Thank you very much❤

[@anshikashaw]

Thank you Jamila, you are an idol to me, though i don't know much about you but i want to be elegant, soft, positive and have a warm personality like you. Being the school head girl, I have to be little harsh sometimes to deal with tough students. But I try my best not to lose my temper and stay positive. I want to become the best version of me inspired by you. Awaiting for your next video 😊💝

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for your lovely feedback, Anshika ☺️

[@dianehelgaduncan4055]

This is one of my favorite videos from you. I will refer back to it. Thank you.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@ihajramalik]

This woman calms me down, love your content!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks!

[@shivanikharadkar8353]

Your videos has always helped me.. practical tips which are easy to understand and follow. I really love your work. Thank you ❤️.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@poisonedchalice]

Great advice as always. A video on creating a capsule jewellery collection would be greatly appreciated x

[@nurv9648]

This video is so precious. I will watch it regularly time to time 🦋

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@analindseynogueirafernande6579]

Wow,this dress is so beautiful Jamila!!🤩

[@evacarolita]

Thank you for the video. I often struggle with my sarcasm, evento though I considera to be mostly put together.

[@claudias676]

Thank you jamila this is Very educational, and will help me grow. 😊 Have a wonderful day!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@yourhealingjourney9824]

Thank you, Jamila. I have been working on these

[@hmtqnikitashakur3399]

ive just found this channel. i love it!! thank you. i love the Princess of Wales "casual" looks. epitome of elegance. imho....

[@melinahamezos8951]

True elegance is being conscientious and tactful with your words towards others. People who possess those qualities always leave a lasting impression on me.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I agree ☺️

[@jessicajoyce5035]

THANK YOU O MUCH ELEGANCE IS A STYLE OF LIFE WHO MAKE THINGS MORE BEAUTIFULL

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@rogmaryperezpardo572]

My voice tone is my biggest challenge. I realized I am too loud 😞 I've improved in the last six months but I still have a long way to go. I love watching your videos because the way you carry yourself inspires me a lot to do the same, so I try to be elegant from the inside out as you said. Thank you for this video! 💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you very much 🙌

[@lorna6965]

A deep topic carried out well, thanks for your insightful advices!😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@MarieCace]

Thank you Jamila for this video! 🤗

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@happygolucky6284]

You are my biggest inspiration! You’re helping me so much ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you

[@maricelgund]

Excellent advice. Thanks 🤍🤍🤍