How to be GRACEFUL

Today we are talking about what it means to be a graceful woman. How can you exude gracefulness? We will dive into the physical as well as personality elements of the topic. This will simultaneously help you with your femininity and elegance.
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[@gretas6794]

Female friendships are so so difficult, but so important.

[@CynthiaL]

I agree! :) 💛

[@alexisl.65]

I love how you present your content as a woman who is still learning herself! It feels so personal and relatable rather than a lecture! Sending love, Cynthia! 💕

[@CynthiaL]

awh that is really great to know! We are all always learning, I truly believe that everyone should seek improvement (one of the beautiful things about life) :) 💛

[@darling_darby]

I always love how you talk about jealousy and how to not beat yourself up for feeling like that. I am naturally jealous but also very loving and it is something that I have to work on choosing to love over envy every day!

[@CynthiaL]

It's honestly a natural feeling 💛, I think it is more about how we deal with it :)

[@michelletackett9489]

What brings a smile to my face is your wholesome and charming videos.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you ☺️

[@sarahd1706]

Me too! It's needed so much in the world. I come to these videos to help escape the darkness, bitterness & manipulation from the prominent woke culture.

[@sarahd1706]

Ironically I looked up the fox eye makeup look & that has been deemed racist by the woke😂😬😖There's no escape from them!

[@tralaritralarajiju2652]

I used to hold back my feminine and soft side in high school/ work because I was mocked and I could feel the jelousy of my peers...😖 I just hide until recently. I take classes and I groom myself the way I always wanted (vintage vibe, royal style as Kate Middleton) and I don't care if they were jelous (because I heard the gossip behind my back) I made closest friends with mature women, not children... and I felt sooo relieved and happy with my circle. And then... People that were gossiping and mocking me started to Copy... Bruh.😂😂😂 But I was sooo happy because I love see a girl/ woman embracing the feminine side. I love see them wearing cute things and making classic updos and when some of them do, I compliment her🍀🍀

[@lauratrefry3333]

As someone that loves to write. Improving my vocabulary has been a priority. And also along the lines of writing, I read somewhere that someone said that swearing in your writing is just lazy writing and it got me to thinking that if it's lazy in my writing it's lazy in my every day language used. Also wanted to add that it's always better to listen to understand not just to respond.

[@CynthiaL]

ooo those are definitely excellent and true tips! 💛

[@brookeingreso]

I had an acting coach who told me that my higher pitched voice isn’t my natural voice haha he would always recommend that I would take a voice and speech class to find my natural voice. This video makes me feel much better about myself 😂

[@CynthiaL]

lol that is so interesting! I think the natural voice is best found the more we grow into our authentic selves from an emotional standpoint first 💛 :)

[@rushmitaroy6719]

U r like the big sister I never had..sending love 💖🌼🌻

[@CynthiaL]

Rushmita Roy I am so glad to be!! Means a lot to me to hear that 🥰💛💛

[@sarimjimenez6519]

Hi, Cynthia! I love long videos like this one. You covered up a big range of aspects around the graceful woman. I also want to tell you that my speech and performance infront of a camera has improved a lot since I watch you. I am a high school teacher and here in Mexico, due to Covid, I have to give my lessons online so I record videos for my students every week. I think your advice has been real useful for me. Thanks a lot. God bless you and your husband.

[@CynthiaL]

This is so encouraging to hear!! Also, wishing you the best in your profession. Teachers are amazing :) 💛

[@BeccahJoy]

Emotional control! That's what's on my heart, right now. Thank you for your guidance and love!

[@CynthiaL]

It is definitely a difficult area to cultivate, but we can just try our best every day :) 💛

[@heidymae]

I am so obsessed with you and the complete woman you are. Really I truly wish to be as half as candid and warm you are. That is why I am eating all your videos, I truly need to learn how to become my best womanly self. Live you from Colombia 💕

[@CynthiaL]

You are so incredibly sweet, thank you!! 💛 :)

[@colourfulsecret281]

Yeah ...so early today!!!...saw the notification and clicked immediately!...love your energy and videos ❣️

[@CynthiaL]

Colourful Secret I’m so happy you did click on it!! Yay thank you for commenting as well. Hope you like the video 🥰💛💛💛

[@jordanjordan2619]

Hey Cynthia ! I love your new spot, it looks so cozy 🌸 Also I’m a huge fan of books they give so much knowledge packed in a few pages, 🤓 if you know a lot of books I would love to see a video about it (just a suggestion) 🧡

[@CynthiaL]

Jordan Jordan thank you! 🥰💛 it is definitely cozy! It is growing on me haha. I love audiobooks especially and I will try to share more over on Instagram or in vlogs. It is a great idea ☺️

[@amandazplace5663]

Definitely, speech is so critical to gracefulness. There are a lot of Bible verses warning against a loose tongue, right?. I love Proverbs for all it's wonderful advice on this & our overall behaviour. You could be the most elegantly dressed, poised, beautiful woman, but if your words don't match, you will just be seen as a hypocrite. Great video, Cynthia

[@CynthiaL]

Exactly!! :) 💛

[@kimrosebernadette2125]

Lovely topic, Cynthia! 💕 This was just what I needed to hear today. I love your point about giving ourselves grace when it comes to our femininity journey & that we shouldn’t be too hard on ourselves; even the smallest efforts can add up to a big difference. 🥰♥️ Thank you for this! 🌷

[@CynthiaL]

Exactly! We have to enjoy the journey, not obsess over perfection :) 💛

[@Ang_Nicole]

It’s always great to see your smiling face ☺️🥰💕

[@CynthiaL]

Angie H. Awh so sweet! It is always so great to see your comment! Have a lovely day Angie 🥰💛💛

[@Ang_Nicole]

Cynthia L ❣️❣️

[@ElsieDraco]

You should definitely do a marathon day of recording! It really speeds things up and you only have to do your makeup once! LOL But seriously, I did this last month and now that you mention it, this has reminded me I have 7 videos in the queue that I need to complete and post! I always look forward to your videos, Cynthia! Because you are a breath of fresh air! Have a great day!

[@CynthiaL]

Looking forward to seeing your videos :) 💛. I just find that I am tired after filming one video lol, so I'm not sure if I could do a marathon of recording!

[@emilyantiqua]

Your videos are such a highlight of my week! Very thought provoking

[@CynthiaL]

Awh that’s means so much to me that you look forward to them!! ☺️💛

[@janetlattimore7850]

🍁🍂🍁 One of my favorite topics Cynthia. Being graceful is such a feminine trait. Thank you for the reminder. Enjoy a graceful week.🤗 🍂🍁🍂

[@CynthiaL]

oo love it! Wishing you the same :) 💛

[@chelsea5143]

I Love this channel! Just what I was looking for girl. I am literally about to watch every video

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you!! That makes me so happy 💛💛

[@lune.etsoleil]

awww how can you really just so pretty 💖😭✨

[@CynthiaL]

A R I E L so sweet!! 🥺🥰

[@ellewest7272]

Yay!!! Thank you, Cynthia! I truly enjoyed the video. ❤️😁

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you lovely!! :) 💛

[@alysapalacios8777]

I love your videos Cynthia, another great one!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💛

[@orchidswithnina]

I love when you drop in a random French term or phrase. That to me.is elegance and grace 😊 x

[@CynthiaL]

oo thank you :) 💛

[@tamaramorgan2784]

Hi Cynthia, hope you re doing well today. I love your new makeup look. Thank you for the great video. Have a lovely day. xx

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you! I’ve been experimenting with a few new makeup looks 🥰💛. Hope you’re doing well lovely!!

[@helpfulbitsandentertainment]

This is my first time watching one of your videos. I was raised by a woman who hated women and was very upset that I was a girl. I was not allowed to fix my hair, do my makeup or nails, wear feminine clothes, (or even wear bras or shave my armpits or wear deodorant until other family members intervened pretty forcefully). I was called a whore, the "fart queen", and told how I was clumsy, ugly, and the polar opposite of grace constantly from the time I was small. I was not allowed to have girl toys or girl hobbies and was constantly told how my voice was horrible and embarrassing, my smell was horrible like a rapist. I was isolated and abused/neglected in numerous ways. That said, I have always believed me being feminine and graceful is totally impossible and I have been told I don't know what I'm doing and should stop embarrassing myself anytime I tried. That said, I have mostly cut off my relatives and have decided to try to learn anyway. I DON'T know what I'm doing- NOT because I am naturally masculine but because I have been systematically undermined when I try to be feminine... My mom herself wasn't all that feminine either. Her hobbies were welding and weight-lifting and she was antisocial and anti-beauty.

[@TrailsOfAbundance]

Thank you for making the point about cultivating friendships are refraining from tossing out the old despite them not being in total alignment with your image. I have grown quite a bit the last year and a half and sadly have lost a bunch of friends due to them lacking the ability to have different, unique friends. I personally don't think I have changed, I've just embraced the "me" behind the camera.

[@heidymae]

I would also like to know which books, podcast, blogs, and pages you use to learn so much about this! Please make a video, and a very long one! 💕💕💕💕

[@CynthiaL]

I try to mention some in my vlogs and on my instagram :) 💛💛

[@AmberlyPerez]

YASSSSSSS I love your videos!!!!

[@CynthiaL]

Amberly Calabria this is honestly so encouraging! Makes me want to film more, thank you lovely 🥺💛💛

[@et-uo7mp]

I enjoyed the video. And will try to incorporate all the points in my day to day life. Practice

[@A.Aleena]

Love your videos!! Thank you!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you!! :) 💛

[@jessafaithsorronda122]

You inspire so much, Cynthia! 🌸❤️

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you lovely 🥺💛

[@robinhahn9728]

Absolutely wonderful video!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💛

[@moimaris3369]

Where do you buy your clothes? I can’t find nice feminine clothes anywhere. Greetings from the Netherlands

[@CynthiaL]

I like Banana Republic, French Connection and Club Monaco stores, but I think they might just be in Canada/USA. I also shop at consignment stores a lot ☺️💛

[@moimaris3369]

Cynthia L thank you a lot ❤️

[@anjah.534]

@@moimaris3369 I live in Switzerland and I like the French online-shop www.laredoute.ch for dresses

[@OhLuv22]

I love your channel! 😊❤️

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you 🥰🥰

[@Nikcholey]

Always happy to see your uploads in my Subscription box!

[@CynthiaL]

Likewise, I am always happy to see your comments! :D 💛

[@Nikcholey]

@@CynthiaL Awe, you made my day Cynthia! Loved your new Glow up/Glow down video. ♥

[@sarahdesimon5781]

Alright Cynthia, you really need to train us on how to not loose our cool😅, please. As ladies, it is getting harder to keep our composure,because some people are soooo agressive nowadays ! Do you have any effective tips you apply to your own life (aside from praying😇) , please? Thank you sooo much!🌹

[@ruthannehohnecker6844]

I am With you sarahde, I need to learn how to keep calm!!

[@sarahdesimon5781]

@@ruthannehohnecker6844 🙏

[@sarahd1706]

So true!

[@sarahdesimon5781]

@@hana2o I know...

[@CynthiaL]

This would be a great question for a Q&A! I honestly usually walk away and take time to think about what to say. I have also gotten myself in trouble in the past for saying something I regretted, because I get emotional quite quickly. 💛

[@VegasFamilyHype]

Such a fantastic video! I love these longer videos that are so in depth! Also, which books are ones that you recommend? I don’t see them linked in the description but I’m also pretty blind lol 😅

[@CynthiaL]

oo that's good to know! :) 💛 Oh no, I forgot to add them! lol

[@thymeandtenderness]

Omg I have to say. That blue looks amazing on you.

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :D 💛

[@candaceelizabethanne475]

Love this!!!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💛

[@MsJbetancur]

Could you do a video on . . . exercises or practices (like concrete ones, step-by-step) to do to make a habit out of good posture and smiling and being graceful? I've never seen anyone do it and I feel like people become "naturals" after lots of practice. Yay!!

[@CynthiaL]

I have a few videos on mannerisms that could help :) 💛

[@jokergirl4351]

How you are so positive and funny 😁 joyful

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💛 It isn't always that way, but it comes with trying to live in the moment

[@melanierose7283]

What books do you recommend for learning femininity? I really want to know 🌹 One other lady I enjoy watching is Lisa Hart on KZbin. Have a lovely weekend! 💐

[@shawnamartin825]

Lovely!

[@CynthiaL]

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[@gennabrunet9881]

Iiiiiiiii 💜💜💜💜💜💜 you Cynthia!!!

[@jeanbb3283]

Always so interesting and chock full of food for thought 💭🥰

[@CynthiaL]

Happy to hear it! That's one of my goals :) 💛

[@flutenanyidk1806]

I've found that people actually take feminine women MORE seriously. This is something I've learned that is incredibly helpful for my wallet and my style. When you are shopping for clothing, if you don't absolutely LOVE it, don't buy it. Who cares if it's on sale, who cares if it's trending, if you don't adore it you won't wear it. Granted, if you are holding onto a pair of shorts or a certain shirt because you'll need it come summer or whatever season that's different. I have some shirts that I never wear but I keep them around because they're going to be awesome come band season. High school student here. I don't think it's 100% realistic to bring a gift whenever I go to someone's house. I'd love to but I don't really have the funds.

[@ainhoaroyen187]

Hey, I love your videos!❤ They give me so much joy and I love what you have to say 😊 I have a question! Are you partly from the French speaking Canada area or are you part French? I just though of this when you pronounced something very well in French 😍 I am a catholic girl from french-speaking Belgium and thanks to the algorithm I got to find you!! I wish you all the best 🤗❤ Lots of love, Ainhoa

[@CynthiaL]

I am part French Canadian :) 💛 Thank you! Wishing you a lovely week!

[@saisafetytrends]

pretty dress!

[@CynthiaL]

Thank you :) 💛

[@samah4595]

I'm wondering how can I talk this way in front of my father and my sister Without trying so hard to hide the féminin side ..I don't know why I'm so shy when I talk femininely and I always switch to masculine voice and way of talking pls help

[@bharadwajsai5382]

Hi there ! Ummmm I'm a mtf trans guy wanting to be recognized as a feminine woman do you have any tips as of where I can I get started ?

[@danielaknecht8994]

How do you feel about whites and pastels in winter and blacks and other dark colors in summer?

[@CynthiaL]

My opinion: in winter for example, you can balance incorporating touches of lighter colors but keeping the rest of your outfit warmer and darker

[@helloisitmeyourelookinfor9827]

you're so classy ♥️

[@CynthiaL]

awh thank you :) 💛

[@hallieanna3158]

Hello! Where can I find the books you mentioned?

[@Jmg12346]

Thought I was watching Mrs Midwest for a while

[@CynthiaL]

lol yes she does make similar content as well!

[@invadingminds]

Speaking of knowing your color palette, I'm having a hard time finding a good resource for women of color? Does anyone know of any? Thank you in advance 😊

[@sarahdesimon5781]

As a woman of color myself, I find warm tones usually work best for us (warm reds, mustard yellow, coral pink... ), unless you're closer to Lupita N' Yong Go' s beautiful skin tone, which is most flattered by cold colors (cold reds, burgundies, apple green, purples, royal blue...). Good luck !

[@CynthiaL]

This is a really good question! I will look into finding ressources and list some next time I talk about color palettes ☺️💛

[@prpwnage9296]

Cynthia you are 10/10 beautiful

[@CynthiaL]

Awh thank you so much 🥺☺️☺️

[@littledutchmama4902]

By 'pay attention to what you consume' , I thought: oh no, she is going to say that I shouldn't be standing here aimlessly in my kitchen eating chocolate after a hard day. 😂

[@CynthiaL]

Hahaha, we are all guilty of the late night chocolate snacking! 💛💛

[@marijanailjic1790]

I am not intending to be mean spirited, but I am genuinely interested in your view on Mrs Midwest. There have been some videos about her, the people she follows, make west great again kind of content, European beauty and family pages on Instagram, her interview with that Yogi guy, who is extremely misogynistic. Also the fact that she recommended history lessons provided by "race realist" who thinks that holocaust was just "overreaction". And her statements on redpillwomen, that she is the one herself. A lot of people think that she is a wolf in sheep's clothing, presenting her views in very beninge way, like it's just her choice, we don't all have to be like that, but than following and agreeing with some very racist and misogynistic people.

[@CynthiaL]

To be honest, I really try to stay out of KZbin drama. Once I said a comment to someone, defending myself, and many people took it the wrong way and thought I was speaking negatively about another creator. Ever since that time, I learned to stay away from the drama lol. There are many content creators in our niche now though, so I think if one person's videos don't appeal to a viewer (I would even say the same thing about mine, so this really is an unbiased opinion), then thankfully we have many different videos on femininity to choose from. 💛💛

[@neveahs.4453]

Love your videos dear, just wondering does this work for trans women?