HOW TO BE HAPPY AFTER LOSS | Grief after loss of a loved one | Grieving someone you love | Hope

[@janetgibson6531]

It is difficult to believe can feel happy again. It is a slow process but i feel that it is possible . Just such a slow process, but it is coming. Happiness that we can feel again! Great video!!! Very thought provoking!

[@jayneweathers]

Great video, Catherine. "Grief is not about their death. It's about our life." Very thought-provoking.❤

[@janetgibson6531]

Another book to add to my list! Love this video 💕

[@marmccann9068]

My beautiful daughter died before Christmas and it has changed my whole life, I walked with her through her fight for life and after 3 years she left this world and we had such a wonderful relationship i do believe that through time I will be happy again she would want me to live my life the best I can,❤

[@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty]

That is beautiful. I’d love to help!

[@nufailanoon]

Many family members of mine died but I never got to meet them. That's why I never experienced grief over a loved one loss. But I'm so scared of the future. I have a weak heart. I cry heavily if I think of my mom passing away even though I don't love her (she is hurtful and toxic). So imagine me losing someone I actually love with my soul like my nephew, God forbid. I think I would directly pass away after him cuz of the pain. Just imagining this is making me cry. How do people live after actually losing loved ones? How?

[@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty]

When we lose someone close to us, we have to make a decision. We can choose to live miserably, we can choose not to live, or we can choose to figure out how to keep on living. Keep on living is what we do here.

[@nufailanoon]

@@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty Thank you so much for replying. Yesterday I slept with a terrible headache cuz of all of the crying resulted from reading those stories. I really wish people can move on and still live happily but statistics say otherwise and some people say they are still depressed even after a decade after losing their child. My life is already hurtful and boring so it would definitely not be worth living if I lose my loved ones. It would be a life full of sadness. I really want to know what to expect. If I lose my loved, will I ever learn to accept it and move on with my life? I know sadness will still be there but would it be mild and short? I personally know I can't make it if my loved ones die but I'm just asking

[@jn3098]

How can I ever be happy when I lost the most glorious person in my life. My wife was was my soulmate. And I don’t deserve to be happy ever again

[@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty]

I think your wife would want to be happy again and yes, it is possible. Not easy but you can do it

[@jennifershort3104]

I still believe I can be happy again. Because everything is temporary I stop short of appreciating where I am now. It can all change in the blink of an eye. Sometimes, I just don't trust what's in the future.

[@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty]

I’m so happy to hear that you do believe you can be happy again. Let’s talk more about not trusting what’s in your future and decide what you want. You can’t always stop bad things from happening but you can add the things you want. ❤️. I’m very proud of how far you’ve come!

[@GriefInspiredCatherineMcNulty]

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