How To Be Her PRIORITY, NOT An Option | Stoicism

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Be a Priority, Never an Option: 1- Don’t be their safety net ,”Don’t always be available”. 2- Don’t be Emotionally Attached, “stay Calm & walk away without emotions”. 3- Set your own Boundaries, “Self Respect”. My time is valuable. 4- Actions speaks louder than words, “talking doesn’t impress, actions do”. 5- Mystery, “be Unpredictable”. IE:(got few things planned for now) 6- Don’t Rearrange your Time / schedule to accommodate them. U come 1st. 7- Reciprocity, if they don’t reciprocate then; Stop, & walk away, don’t be anyone’s Convenience. 8- Rejection: isn’t about you, it’s about them, You are lucky to find your blind spots, therefore it brings you Freedom. 9- Becoming their emotional Anchor,” be Calm, not acting on their spiral ups& dows. 10- Don’t always be Available,”don’t give them your attention Freely”. Keep busy, Respect yourself, Value your time, Stop being a doormat.

[@B_Mac-bf1xu]

"The woman who rejects you today will be chasing you tomorrow." The greatest revenge of rejection is success and living your best life.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

So true🔥🔥

[@behopeful1736]

She didint answer for 10 days​@@TheStoicTribe101

[@pg18099]

After your success and when she chases you, then what?

[@masalachaimasta]

This is one of the best videos of this type I've seen. 👏 Nice job.

[@STOICLESSONSHD15724]

The pacing of this video is perfect. I was engaged the whole time

[@David-lx4yb]

If I am not her priority, I’m nothing, because I will remove myself from her life. I am number one in her life, as she is in mine, or she isn’t in my life. Period.

[@TimothyOrwahOgutu]

Rejection is not a setback, it's a redirection.

[@Anthrax57]

Excellent advice to become an Alpha male. Stay Stoic Kings.

[@TimothyOrwahOgutu]

Always

[@Pablo-f3f]

I had none that all are long truly I really don't want her I had enough of her long time now but thank you for this full 100

[@JM21999]

All of this is real talk.

[@Gregory0315]

I really needed this man, thank you so much! I subbed!

[@philipmwakio]

Not only women but even friends ❤😢

[@bobmorgan5636]

One of the best videos I have seen on this topic!!!! Real information.

[@Stoic_rulers1313]

stoicism is the best guide

[@TheStoicTribe101]

🔥🔥

[@francescoitalianman7305]

Thank you so much for this video.. it is absolutely amazing I really appreciate all the suggestions given and will follow then 100% 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@gabe321]

Great advice for men, keep it up!!!

[@tisonhunter7447]

Rejection is a gift of a better chance at life

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The best of life is stoicism

[@confidentperson-d1r]

I Agreed!

[@confidentperson-d1r]

I agree with ur stated!

[@stoicexcellencepath]

Years ago, I was in a relationship where I constantly made myself available, always putting her needs above mine. I thought being there for her every moment would make her value me, but instead, I became an option, not a priority. Even now, I struggle with the fear of being too available and not respected in new relationships. How do I balance being present without losing my sense of self-worth? Any advice would mean a lot.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

It’s really important to find that balance. Remember, your needs are just as important as anyone else’s. Take time for yourself and set boundaries in your relationships. That way, you can be present without compromising your self-worth!

[@YahyaMenjadid]

Thank you so much for everything

[@TheStoicTribe101]

You are so welcome

[@hectorborrero5443]

Thank you for the info. God bless.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks🙏

[@adamrahman1314]

Great message

[@StoicBud]

Great advice for men

[@daviddoctorMpila]

Truly speaking I had enough ii don't want her anymore, any way, thanks for advise

[@bobmorgan5636]

EXCELLENT!!!

[@riversedgegoatdairy297]

if your wife is acting as if she is dating, again. you need to call her out on this behavior. call her out on her gas lighting as well as playing you, as a plan B. calling her out, with evidence. lay everything out on the table. you are not be treated as plan B. and we are not dating, we are married. if she does not balance the scales of energy? then you know what to do. counselling canhelp her understand further. yes. though, your next step after counselling is to give her the ability to see the behavior as a give or take. taking and not giving? both of you have to agree, the scales are tipped. this has to be made clear. if the scales do not balance, breaking up is inevitable. breaking up will be the right move for both. breaking up will be the most painful for you. the giver, the man. though as said in the video. breaking up , even after counselling will be freeing for you. she will have lost, the giver doesn't lose. that is your integrity. not giving enough? is her problem, not yours. yhough is an illusion, manifested by the taker. if ahe needs more from less?hence her dating behavior. ahe will or already has found that someone else. you were he supplier of energy and the glue of the relationship. (glue is the rock, grounded committed, the giver of everything she needs) she is merely the rain, that washed all the glue away..... if she doesnt see that glue on this boat, needs maintenance and fixing? it's time to leave. hope this helps?

[@RandyGriffith-cp9bg]

Great video

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks!

[@Pablo-f3f]

I had enough ❤❤

[@marcusbrinson8342]

Sometime rejection is your protection cause sometime they be crazy anyway. There are some psychotic fools out there.

[@omsivayanama3886]

Very good bro nice video

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks brother

[@TheHuntercamper]

what I am or not, even that matters little. Knowing what happens after I walk on by and obvious attention getter matters less then thinking that I was lookn for a road leach .. Seeing how crippled men are that did the horrid sacrifice of wed "lock" down there's know way I'd bother use of my life for that level of abuse . There is no down play . There is no play at all

[@Sup3riorr]

this is all good information but this is useless in marriage or relationship. the only way you have is to leave and not look back

[@confidentperson-d1r]

U spoke well!

[@dustinmiller2775]

Because, once you ask for a relationship, you are OUT OF MOVES. 🙃

[@bhc5496]

Very stupid comment. Very.

[@riversedgegoatdairy297]

if your wife is acting as if she is dating, again. you need to call her out on this behavior. call her out on her gas lighting as well as playing you, as a plan B. calling her out, with evidence. lay everything out on the table. you are not be treated as plan B. and we are not dating, we are married. if she does not balance the scales of energy? then you know what to do. counselling canhelp her understand further. yes. though, your next step after counselling is to give her the ability to see the behavior as a give or take. taking and not giving? both of you have to agree, the scales are tipped. this has to be made clear. if the scales do not balance, breaking up is inevitable. breaking up will be the right move for both. breaking up will be the most painful for you. the giver, the man. though as said in the video. breaking up , even after counselling will be freeing for you. she will have lost, the giver doesn't lose. that is your integrity. not giving enough? is her problem, not yours. yhough is an illusion, manifested by the taker. if ahe needs more from less?hence her dating behavior. ahe will or already has found that someone else. you were he supplier of energy and the glue of the relationship. (glue is the rock, grounded committed, the giver of everything she needs) she is merely the rain, that washed all the glue away..... if she doesnt see that glue on this boat, needs maintenance and fixing? it's time to leave. hope this helps??

[@_themasteroflife_]

😂all that is true...but what when she said you are to old 😁

[@BRUCE_the_MOOSE_]

Be like Darth Vader and build your own Empire

[@vasthadulavenkatesh3422]

awesome

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks

[@MarkClay-f6x]

Does this advice the same for NARCISSIST women ?

[@DonaldMoeketsi-t6g]

She disappeared after i applied this guidelines in my new love affair.

[@nomadyr]

lol how do you keep coming up with these ideas everyday ? ChatGPT

[@Pablo-f3f]

Her time for me is past

[@brent4770]

Why? Because she's already married! ; )

[@carlrenandfayette289]

That should be taught at University after Men had had some experiences innreal life..!!!!!

[@mikaelmarts-hg9je]

I don’t know about this I agree with the psychology but a lot of girls are way to insecure to ever make a move in this day and age especially in my town I can definitely attract attention but I have to be the one to imitate and that falls under chasing women because sometimes the answer is still no I think just waiting for your soul mate to spawn in isn’t gonna get you too far and the more you better yourself the more nervous they get

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[@shaunw7935]

I was thinking the same thing.... 😅

[@lifeinaqua660]

Women want a domesticated bad boy. Those do not exist. 😂

[@TheStoicTribe101]

😅

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I love studying stocism gald to be a Stoic

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