How To Be Her PRIORITY, NOT An Option | Stoicism

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Be a Priority, Never an Option: 1- Don’t be their safety net ,”Don’t always be available”. 2- Don’t be Emotionally Attached, “stay Calm & walk away without emotions”. 3- Set your own Boundaries, “Self Respect”. My time is valuable. 4- Actions speaks louder than words, “talking doesn’t impress, actions do”. 5- Mystery, “be Unpredictable”. IE:(got few things planned for now) 6- Don’t Rearrange your Time / schedule to accommodate them. U come 1st. 7- Reciprocity, if they don’t reciprocate then; Stop, & walk away, don’t be anyone’s Convenience. 8- Rejection: isn’t about you, it’s about them, You are lucky to find your blind spots, therefore it brings you Freedom. 9- Becoming their emotional Anchor,” be Calm, not acting on their spiral ups& dows. 10- Don’t always be Available,”don’t give them your attention Freely”. Keep busy, Respect yourself, Value your time, Stop being a doormat.

[@stoicharmonyus]

Remember, you are deserving of respect and attention. Keep focusing on your value and the right people will prioritize you.

[@B_Mac-bf1xu]

"The woman who rejects you today will be chasing you tomorrow." The greatest revenge of rejection is success and living your best life.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

So true🔥🔥

[@behopeful1736]

She didint answer for 10 days​@@TheStoicTribe101

[@pg18099]

After your success and when she chases you, then what?

[@GeorgeEMYates]

I was that guy, giving my all to keep the relationship, marriage counseling, financial courses for smart budgeting to be in control of finances. When I got desperate for her validation I moved out and requested a break up in order to work on myself not to leave the relationship entirely. We'll her checking out of our relationship just was magnified to her making a decision to break up for good. I lost he respect long ago, she just said what she didn't have the courage to do all a long. If I was a priority, an anchor, she would have remained for us to fix things together. So I see that I have been an option. Well those days and choice for her to be the one taking me fir granted is over. I am over being the easy over. I am my biggest project to love, value myself, and enjoy me being me. Thank you for this valuable truth.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thank you for sharing your experience! It's inspiring to see someone take charge of their own happiness and growth. Your journey is a valuable reminder for all of us.

[@christianelcock7453]

Full respect 🙏

[@viewman33]

I love this channel!! It's changing my life as we speak! So enlightening! I've learned so much about women and how they operate just because of your videos! 💪🏾

[@David-lx4yb]

If I am not her priority, I’m nothing, because I will remove myself from her life. I am number one in her life, as she is in mine, or she isn’t in my life. Period.

[@TimothyOrwahOgutu]

Rejection is not a setback, it's a redirection.

[@STOICLESSONSHD15724]

The pacing of this video is perfect. I was engaged the whole time

[@philipmwakio]

Not only women but even friends ❤😢

[@Anthrax57]

Excellent advice to become an Alpha male. Stay Stoic Kings.

[@TimothyOrwahOgutu]

Always

[@stoicexcellencepath]

Years ago, I was in a relationship where I constantly made myself available, always putting her needs above mine. I thought being there for her every moment would make her value me, but instead, I became an option, not a priority. Even now, I struggle with the fear of being too available and not respected in new relationships. How do I balance being present without losing my sense of self-worth? Any advice would mean a lot.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

It’s really important to find that balance. Remember, your needs are just as important as anyone else’s. Take time for yourself and set boundaries in your relationships. That way, you can be present without compromising your self-worth!

[@marcusbrinson8342]

Sometime rejection is your protection cause sometime they be crazy anyway. There are some psychotic fools out there.

[@bobmorgan5636]

One of the best videos I have seen on this topic!!!! Real information.

[@Pablo-f3f]

I had none that all are long truly I really don't want her I had enough of her long time now but thank you for this full 100

[@masalachaimasta]

This is one of the best videos of this type I've seen. 👏 Nice job.

[@jamesfofornah7568]

The best of life is stoicism

[@confidentperson-d1r]

I Agreed!

[@confidentperson-d1r]

I agree with ur stated!

[@gabe321]

Great advice for men, keep it up!!!

[@Stoic_rulers1313]

stoicism is the best guide

[@TheStoicTribe101]

🔥🔥

[@francescoitalianman7305]

Thank you so much for this video.. it is absolutely amazing I really appreciate all the suggestions given and will follow then 100% 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Gregory0315]

I really needed this man, thank you so much! I subbed!

[@JM21999]

All of this is real talk.

[@tisonhunter7447]

Rejection is a gift of a better chance at life

[@hectorborrero5443]

Thank you for the info. God bless.

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks🙏

[@YahyaMenjadid]

Thank you so much for everything

[@TheStoicTribe101]

You are so welcome

[@adamrahman1314]

Great message

[@bobmorgan5636]

EXCELLENT!!!

[@daviddoctorMpila]

Truly speaking I had enough ii don't want her anymore, any way, thanks for advise

[@StoicBud]

Great advice for men

[@RandyGriffith-cp9bg]

Great video

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks!

[@riversedgegoatdairy297]

if your wife is acting as if she is dating, again. you need to call her out on this behavior. call her out on her gas lighting as well as playing you, as a plan B. calling her out, with evidence. lay everything out on the table. you are not be treated as plan B. and we are not dating, we are married. if she does not balance the scales of energy? then you know what to do. counselling canhelp her understand further. yes. though, your next step after counselling is to give her the ability to see the behavior as a give or take. taking and not giving? both of you have to agree, the scales are tipped. this has to be made clear. if the scales do not balance, breaking up is inevitable. breaking up will be the right move for both. breaking up will be the most painful for you. the giver, the man. though as said in the video. breaking up , even after counselling will be freeing for you. she will have lost, the giver doesn't lose. that is your integrity. not giving enough? is her problem, not yours. yhough is an illusion, manifested by the taker. if ahe needs more from less?hence her dating behavior. ahe will or already has found that someone else. you were he supplier of energy and the glue of the relationship. (glue is the rock, grounded committed, the giver of everything she needs) she is merely the rain, that washed all the glue away..... if she doesnt see that glue on this boat, needs maintenance and fixing? it's time to leave. hope this helps?

[@Pablo-f3f]

I had enough ❤❤

[@omsivayanama3886]

Very good bro nice video

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks brother

[@_themasteroflife_]

😂all that is true...but what when she said you are to old 😁

[@TheHuntercamper]

what I am or not, even that matters little. Knowing what happens after I walk on by and obvious attention getter matters less then thinking that I was lookn for a road leach .. Seeing how crippled men are that did the horrid sacrifice of wed "lock" down there's know way I'd bother use of my life for that level of abuse . There is no down play . There is no play at all

[@vasthadulavenkatesh3422]

awesome

[@TheStoicTribe101]

Thanks

[@BRUCE_the_MOOSE_]

Be like Darth Vader and build your own Empire

[@DrReactmor]

lol how do you keep coming up with these ideas everyday ? ChatGPT

[@mikaelmarts-hg9je]

I don’t know about this I agree with the psychology but a lot of girls are way to insecure to ever make a move in this day and age especially in my town I can definitely attract attention but I have to be the one to imitate and that falls under chasing women because sometimes the answer is still no I think just waiting for your soul mate to spawn in isn’t gonna get you too far and the more you better yourself the more nervous they get

[@DonaldMoeketsi-t6g]

She disappeared after i applied this guidelines in my new love affair.

[@Sup3riorr]

this is all good information but this is useless in marriage or relationship. the only way you have is to leave and not look back

[@confidentperson-d1r]

U spoke well!

[@dustinmiller2775]

Because, once you ask for a relationship, you are OUT OF MOVES. 🙃

[@bhc5496]

Very stupid comment. Very.

[@riversedgegoatdairy297]

if your wife is acting as if she is dating, again. you need to call her out on this behavior. call her out on her gas lighting as well as playing you, as a plan B. calling her out, with evidence. lay everything out on the table. you are not be treated as plan B. and we are not dating, we are married. if she does not balance the scales of energy? then you know what to do. counselling canhelp her understand further. yes. though, your next step after counselling is to give her the ability to see the behavior as a give or take. taking and not giving? both of you have to agree, the scales are tipped. this has to be made clear. if the scales do not balance, breaking up is inevitable. breaking up will be the right move for both. breaking up will be the most painful for you. the giver, the man. though as said in the video. breaking up , even after counselling will be freeing for you. she will have lost, the giver doesn't lose. that is your integrity. not giving enough? is her problem, not yours. yhough is an illusion, manifested by the taker. if ahe needs more from less?hence her dating behavior. ahe will or already has found that someone else. you were he supplier of energy and the glue of the relationship. (glue is the rock, grounded committed, the giver of everything she needs) she is merely the rain, that washed all the glue away..... if she doesnt see that glue on this boat, needs maintenance and fixing? it's time to leave. hope this helps??

[@gameaudioguidepros]

A Stoic Man is the move, the rock, the leader, she can take your boundaries or she can leave you in peace.

[@Pablo-f3f]

Her time for me is past

[@MarkClay-f6x]

Does this advice the same for NARCISSIST women ?

[@brent4770]

Why? Because she's already married! ; )

[@carlrenandfayette289]

That should be taught at University after Men had had some experiences innreal life..!!!!!

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Pls put more ads because ad on every 3 min is so annoying i wish there was ad on every 1.5min so I can press skip button and not forget what was talked about lmfao mthfkrs money chasers

[@shaunw7935]

I was thinking the same thing.... 😅

[@lifeinaqua660]

Women want a domesticated bad boy. Those do not exist. 😂

[@TheStoicTribe101]

😅

[@chrisriley8755]

I love studying stocism gald to be a Stoic

[@iconaastratta8202]

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