How to become confident

[@luveena6614]

"What do you wanna be remembered for?” “I wanna be remembered”

[@TechMuchHD]

Lmao this sums it up

[@calmspace8221]

😹😹🤣🤣

[@myarts224]

I wanna be remembered as a good KZbinr

[@novaprime1166]

😭

[@ShatabdaRoy115]

XD

[@rubytemple-uy9tv]

"being pretty has never been my goal in life" ** literally the prettiest person ever ** ❤️

[@LucyMaxham]

i feel like that's actually a good point. when she's not focusing as much on her looks, she looks prettier because she's not constantly worried about how she looks.

[@GraceMann-s3p]

@LucyMaxham omgosh ur absolutely right I've never thought abt it like that! Tysm for this!

[@KathrynContini-t1j]

I feel like this is really going to help me, because I’m really insecure. And I think most of it comes from being bullied my whole seventh grade year.

[@moonabf]

I want to be remember as one of the most kind, lovable, sweet, caring person they've ever met. I just want to be remembered as a wonderful human being. Not perfect but a decent human :')

[@whyamigae9666]

I’m far from pretty, I’m Shrek’s long lost sister. Even his weight is the same as mine. I really don’t care what people think off me, I keep to myself in class. I’ll talk to people but if I can get away with not socialising I will. I’m not the nicest human you’ll ever meet, I’m quite blunt and I struggle showing emotions, but at least I can say I try.

[@coconutwaffle4999]

Same!!

[@nutella_odella5367]

@@whyamigae9666 shrek is beautiful.

[@idontknowwhatnameishouldpu3389]

@@whyamigae9666 shrek is love, Shrek is life

[@mimi003]

Same♡

[@Iluv2pac]

I wanna be remembered as the confident girl. The girl who goes out of her way to get or achieve something she wants. A girl who is fearless,assertive,bold etc… a girl who never stops trying until she achieves her goals. I just want to be someone people who would look up to and go for some advice.

[@megan7292]

People already describe me as smart and kind. It’s not ridiculous or dumb to want to be remembered as beautiful as well.

[@BethanyKaiser]

She was not saying that she was saying that life isn't about looks it's about the things that matter like kindness and honesty

[@Bond-m007]

I can understand.. not so good looking people definitely would like to be pretty very much and which is why they want to be remembered as one.

[@Juan-fw6ez]

But why tho? It's something that you have absolutely nothing to do with and you didn't contribute to. It's like saying oh yeah that person?? Yeah the one born with those circumstances?? Yeah I remember them. It's like not that important 😂

[@Cheese_quakers]

I am remembered as the "smart person" and sure that's great, but it feels like I am nothing but that smart person. So yeahhh.....

[@amandamenezes5617]

Girl same

[@liza4757]

“What do you want to be remembered for?” My anxiety: “I don’t want to be remembered”

[@sabrinagilmore]

😂 But still, just love yourself, girl 💗 It doesn’t matter at all what others think. It’s not like you would die because someone decided that you are weird. And yeah, actually, no one cares about you. They think about their own problems. No, “Do they like me?”. No-no-no-no. Just better ask yourself, “Do I like them?”

[@OtakuOneeChan00]

The introvert thing 😊❤

[@HarshLioness-dh8bv]

haha Yup

[@laeticialana]

@@OtakuOneeChan00 fr

[@Itsme_vdhjdn]

Same

[@venuss.7218]

I started sobbing when you said "what do you want to be remembered for?" No. I don't want people to remember me because I look a certain way. I want to be remembered because of my good qualities and my unique skills. Thank you so much for posting this. What you said touched me.

[@claireroche1000]

Same ❤😊

[@EnglishOrSpanish209]

I want to remembered as a friend who brings everyone in my school connected.

[@chihuahua5210]

Your prettiness shines threw I don't mean your looks I mean how strong and confident you are

[@omrohit3998]

Then I remembered that you would probs only get remembered because of your good qualities and unique skills because of how you looked like

[@betty6946]

I want to be remembered as someone who is confident, independent and strong🍀

[@claire_bear708]

GIRL you are literally the kind girl who works so hard and makes everyone smile who is ALSO pretty

[@derrick2251]

“Works hard” lmao I didn’t know it was hard work to speak into a camera for 60 second

[@sophia2474]

@@derrick2251 fine you get 471k subscribers

[@derrick2251]

@@sophia2474 id love to. If I were a girl I definitely would because the game would be on easy mode. Just show up and win.

[@bullymaguire2640]

@@derrick2251 agree lol

[@tns.loverr7585]

@@derrick2251 sorry what? Her being a girl gives her an advantage? How

[@Army-ey3ve]

This girl is really beautiful from inside❤❤❤❤

[@Nevaeh24413]

SPENCER and everyone else PLEASE READ!! Spencer is so kind.She has made such an impact on my confidence and how i look at myself and other people.She will be remember throughout my life and i will recommend this chanel and have to si many kids pre teens and adults.Thank you spencer and i wish you the best if luck life has to give ❤

[@allieroserutherford3574]

You actually have changed my life I was so incredibly insecure just a month ago and I can’t believe how much my confidence has changed I’m still suffering from really bad anxiety but I am doing better and your helping so much I just wanted to say thank you. ❤️

[@DaveHilgers]

your so nice. when i feel insecure i watch your videos. you make a good point, i feel like she makes me confident by me seeing her being confident in herself

[@isabelhope16]

Thank you so much for this wonderful video Spencer

[@puppy1art]

I needed this so bad, you have no idea. Thank you

[@ericreeves676]

You are amazing Spencer you encourage me to be confident ❤

[@Unbotheredlassr5634]

I want to be remembered for being strong, determined, kind,smart,patient

[@newmanhiding2314]

I’m a dude, and I have confidence issues. This helped a ton. Thank you.

[@Ankka2663]

You just got tears of hapiness to my eyes! THANK YOU FOR CHANGING MY LIFE!!❤

[@Kitcat_flash]

Thank you, as a girl who is going into high school next year i am very grateful for any advice, I’m overwheight and just hearing sm1 say “what do WANT to be” it js feels nice❤❤

[@juliasshorts7981]

I want to be remembered as that one nurse that saved kids and adults life's

[@hanumeshanayak2907]

Omg

[@scotthearts9634]

That's super cool! 😊❤

[@robertarwelhughes6977]

Congratulations j have scrolled down 2 the first Spencer barbosa vid here’s ur trophy🏆 LOVE U GIRL❤❤❤

[@DylanGrimes01]

That smile always makes any day better

[@MEM23SCADO]

Spencer is smoking 🔥 and holds a classic exquisite beauty. She really works hard and is very kind ❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@floper_g]

Wow. This is amazing. Looking back at all the comments from the very start of this video,(her first video) you can see how it changes to the top comments, and how supportive and thankful the top comments are compared to the older ones. This is Spencer’s first video and from a long time ago, but now y’all can see how much she has impacted other people’s life’s only through 60 second videos. And how much she has progressed. And yes, she is pretty, but because she is confident. Her confidence in the tone of her voice is what’s mostly showing it. And people, you should just watch what this girl has done over time and how much effort she has done. Thank you so much queen ❤❤❤👑👑

[@watermelonsuga4944]

this actually helped me...i want to be remembered as a musician/singer and a kind and helpful person and after watching your video i am gonna work on these goals:)

[@laurenlippazaner7307]

I would say that oh spencer she’s the girl that sets goals that seem high but she will totally reach them since she has a insane amount of confidence and it’s good he love for herself is through the roof and it’s amazing

[@magnipettersson4432]

Confidence never ever mattered. Its discipline. Discipline despite what you feel abiut yourself.

[@paigewicklow813]

This helped me so much I used to wear pants all time now I can wear shorts without worrying about what people think about me. When I first saw this video I said to myself “ this isn’t going to help me with anything “ but I listened to it and I’m really glad I did.

[@emma-nu1wl]

I want to be remembered as a person who will speak motivationally and help people feel better about themselves

[@Ruthlessnessismercy]

Just sent this to all my friends. Spencer is my every goal and wish as a person. Like if someone was like “who do you look up to in life, like a person you just know is so amazing and you would love to be them” I would say “Spencer barbosa” you are literally my queen and I started watching your videos this year and immediately subscribed. Since I started watching I have become so much more confident in my self and it’s all because of you! Thank you for being there in my journey to greatness! And for the record I wanna be remembered as kind, thoughtful, and the girl who always cared but at the same time never gave a sh!t about what other people say about me. I want people to remember I have a beautiful heart.

[@rebeccabilley3428]

I want to be remembered for being God's child. For serving our holy father and to help others know his beautiful love.

[@addywilliams3918]

I love this so much thank you

[@stephenjackson5065]

Moses 1 ❤️ changed my life and helped me to love myself :)

[@goldenlamb777]

@@stephenjackson5065 how did he do so ?

[@stephenjackson5065]

@@goldenlamb777 helped me realize my life had purpose and that I have value even if I don’t see it all the way :)

[@moonievm]

Yes

[@edenecklund3599]

You changed my life. I have been questioning my existence and this has helped me more than anything else ever will and I just needed this. Thank you.

[@violetholtz1511]

Ilysm ty for spreading all of this positivity spencer!!!

[@T-swizzle08]

Contagious smile Spencer 🥹💖💯

[@anne-marieeeek]

i want to be remembered as the artsy girl who made people happy just by being herself and genuinely cared for people while also being smart

[@nourakhaleel7505]

I want to be remembered as someone somebody liked to be around. Someone who somebody liked my voice, or how I act. Someone who somebody missed when I was gone. Someone who makes a difference. Someone who doesn’t care if they fit the beauty standard or not. Someone who is confident in themself and others.

[@makima7767]

i want to be remember as an hardworking artist, fun, strong- independent girl and kind girl.

[@magnipettersson4432]

Is anyone actually independent? Isnt it a pretentious ideal?

[@LexiOrapeleng]

Ur literally amazing

[@gf_ni_soobin]

I want to be remembered as one of a innocent, smart, loved person as the prettiest of all

[@Ash132]

this is definitely good advice but this made me feel worse💔 everyone spreads rumors about me and they are so insecure that it goes off on me and i’m known as not good things. i learn that the only people i need to show up for is my friends and be kind to everyone even if they are rude to me. ❤❤❤

[@Idiot_TaylorsVersion]

I really needed this today Spencer. Thank you so much! I do think you’re really pretty but I also think you’re really nice and funny and just a great person in general. I’m overweight and I’ve struggled with body image for so long but this really helped me

[@CosetteK]

I LOVE YOUR NAILS ❤

[@xverge3745]

People like u just make me feel more confident

[@aussieoriginalgirl]

you garenteed changed my whole perspective on everything. ily so much girl! 🫶

[@WeluvKhlo_khlo]

Spencer literally makes me so happy and made me feel so confident in who I was❤

[@Astarothiart]

I want to be remembered as the person who is always happy to see you. My house is always open and the kettle is freshly boiled.

[@Audreyloo82]

Thank you so much for this you have helped me so much

[@sarahbrown1133]

I love your videos!!! I have been going through depression and dealing with anxiety and feeling ashamed for my body and not looking like the other girls. You have been helping me feel better about my body and feel way happier! Thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️

[@HadesRanAway]

Wanna be remembered as someone who loved those around them regardless of their flaws, mistakes, or what they did.

[@Lily-e8r1m]

Y'all listen.! I watched this video when it was released and she is damn right! I took Her words seriously and and i can tell i never lived a better version of life (where I'm stress free about how i look externally matter ) before! Thank u Spencer

[@abbylee2076]

I want to be remembered as the girl who is kind to everyone but can also stick up for herself and her friends

[@Kam_Davis]

Love this message- so true! When I’m no longer here, what memories do I want to leave behind? What is the first trait that will pop into people’s heads? 🤔 kindness, funny, thoughtful.. so much more of a gift then “she was so pretty”! Facts babes!!!

[@delilah5976]

I love your shorts and just wanted to say that if you are anything irl like you are on KZbin (which I definitely think you are) you will definitely be remembered as a kind, hard working individual that makes people smile. I know I definitely smile every time I see one of your videos

[@zeezu1676]

Oh boi, I'm so glad you brought this up.. People look at me and say things oh you're so beautiful, or you so pretty, you should be married, why aren't you married, oh you can find any man you want... And like they don't get me.. I've been going through so much of internal turmoil, and especially after my failed marriage..I just lost the plot.. Being pretty means absolutely zilch when looking for meaning in life 😊 I subscribed and I hope to see more content from you ❤

[@saragaikwad9377]

You are remembered as a best KZbinr out there with such great advice❤️✨

[@the_H_factor_]

I’m obsessed with your outfit? That’s the witch dear!!! 😂

[@abhinav_1729]

Your wonderful thoughts changed my mindset. Thanks for the amazing content. You gained a new subscriber

[@happy40872]

Sometimes I don’t feel pretty enough so I came to you and Tysm Spencer you e lifted me up so much your such an inspiration keep up the good work!!!

[@MichelleC-p9q]

Who scrolled to her very first video 👇

[@TeddyBearTreasure]

Why did you watch then

[@sangeethaaa3105]

The first word that popped up in my head was "Kind". I want to be remembered as a person that was uncommonly kind✨

[@starstaruyoutube]

Me who doesn't want to be remembered: 👀

[@שלומיטלקר-ר4ש]

I will remember you

[@aiwang7644]

@@שלומיטלקר-ר4שand I will remember you

[@scotthearts9634]

I will remember you! 🥰

[@dani_viv]

True ❤being perfect has more to do with you and your personality than your looks because you can’t change your looks but you can change your attitudes towards people

[@SIPremiere]

People who scrolled down to Spencer’s first short 👇👇

[@sageantoinette]

she’s literally so beautiful

[@evieanne06]

I mean, I already love myself and am not super insecure about my looks but I know that my best friend is and is struggling with it a lot. She feels like people are constantly judging her and that she’s not pretty enough. I NEED to tell her this because this will totally change her life. Thank you Spencer, you’ve done it again. ❤️

[@djaneessongs9202]

Whenever I watch her videos I just look into her eyes She has beautiful eyes 🥰

[@DanielSmith-pq4yc]

What do you want to be remembered for? Honestly I couldn't care less I'm going chilling somewhere else

[@rafka2729]

Ok

[@DanielSmith-pq4yc]

@@rafka2729 just to clear things up by elsewhere I mean heaven/hell/reincarnation whatever you believe

[@rafka2729]

@@DanielSmith-pq4yc Ok

[@crazy_pyromaniac]

but working hard to be who you want to be remembered for can help you be a better person in this life as well. I personally don’t care if I’m famous or not, but I still will try to be the best version of myself that I possibly can.

[@DanielSmith-pq4yc]

@@crazy_pyromaniac I honestly don't care if I'm remembered I wake up every morning and I try to be the best person I can be that's all there is. I couldn't care what people think about me I have enough of my own issue to deal with

[@divinesaesthetic3688]

I’d love to be remembered as someone who helps animals,(cats,dogs,..) all sort of injured animals.

[@suhtangwong]

She did change my life in 60 seconds 😳 she made me watch this whole video when I could've been doing something else, #respect.

[@taipeez]

I want to be remember as a kind, caring, loving and sweet person with a beautiful personality and a character even better🤍

[@maryelmore3569]

oh my gosh thank you so much.I was thinking and not once have a ever wanted to be around someone who as just "pretty" you rally did change my life and perspective. Ilysm

[@aligrunge1408]

I want to be remembered as the grunge mysterious kind spookey kid 💝 and what helps me be confident is being silly at the start of the day and quiet at school

[@Mystic_Paths]

Confident people are often more comfortable being themselves, without feeling the need to conform or hide who they are.

[@theboogieman11]

I don't like the saying "no one is perfect" Everybody is perfect in different ways, there is not one type of perfect. We are all made the way we are, so therefore we are all perfect.

[@mariepatt]

I needed this! Thank you kind, hard-working, compassionate soul 💕

[@Kalogerasistersfanpage-v1f]

Ppl in 2024 👇🏽

[@gretabryce5268]

You lowkey did just change my life You are a queen thank you ❤️

[@purp1whale468]

"Outer beauty is overrated."

[@palaksahu8200]

And this comment is underrated 💗👏

[@Eclipwze___]

Hey Spencer I do always remember you as the sweetest, kindest and positive person ever. Love you and love your videos ❤️

[@EmzIsOnDaGame]

what if i don't know what i want to be remembered as

[@crazy_pyromaniac]

Just think about who you want to be now. Think about the things you did that might’ve hurt yourself or others, and make an effort to not do that again. Just thinking about how you are living now, and how you want to be living now, can make a big difference.

[@EmzIsOnDaGame]

@@crazy_pyromaniac still clueless 😂 all i want is to go to bed lmao 🤣 "oh emz? ya shes a lazy moron who never gets outta bed" 😂😂😂

[@speaknow_fearless1]

i’ve been watching you since you started posting on the youtube platform and now im rewatching it all! tysm spencer you have really helped me and i want to be known as someone whose happy,makes people happy, confident, kind to others and self

[@aspenn.mooonn]

Who watched this to see her oldest video?👇

[@vlv..]

Bro u changed my whole entire perspective of myself… i love ur videos spencer! 🫶🥺

[@Nlovesfwenchyfwies]

Omg she already made my life change when she said "I will change your life in 60 seconds." like girl ate with no crumbs like WE NEED TO BE FRIENDS!!

[@chloecorbett4069]

You really did change my life in 60 seconds or at least how I think about life lol. You are so amazing and one of the things you will be remembered by is as the strong women who helps others find their confidence 🫶🏻✨

[@annanorth1458]

But I wanna be remembered as the pretty one or the one who got all the guys back then and not the fat nice girl.

[@NoName-pf3zi]

You are the nice pretty girl I don't know you but you are pretty Even if you are not the "one who got all the guys"back then,that doesn't mean you're not pretty. You're pretty inside and out

[@magnipettersson4432]

Why not become the gal who secured a strong man worth more than a 100 men? If you go this route you actually cant get that type of man afterwards because men care deeply about visual and physical exclusivity. Being a young mans practice girl is nothing to be proud of. Please respect yourself

[@wolfpack4lifeeeedontfakeyo686]

I wanna be remembered as someone who is kind, caring, hard-working, even though half of the time my family doesn’t remember me, but I’m working on fixing that and including myself more and kinda telling them, “hey did u know that I exist?” one family member called me disgusting, but I don’t care, she’s allowed to have her own opinion and I’m glad she didn’t say stuff like that straight to my face, but she does blame me a lot and stuff, so, I’m glad I have my sisters who actually care about me and I’m thankful for you because you did just change my life!

[@billylardner]

I want to be remembered as a prolific sex offender.

[@lusss.m]

She gave a promisy and kept it! Thank you so much. I understand that one video can't really change your life, but this one for sure helped me very much ❤

[@richardguillen-ck9qq]

Your words really speak to me your awesome

[@chelseataylor06]

❤❤❤❤❤ thank you!!! Also I love your nails!!

[@HSismymedicine]

Why did this actually help me a lot. I want to be remembered as intelligent and powerful in a sense of having a strong will

[@Sofia.21411]

Omg at first I did not believe you that this would change me but now I thank God that I watched this video!!! Thanks for this, I love you! I want to spread this around❤

[@LetsGoChelsea1238]

Let us let go and let God. Our confidence will come with knowing the amazing Lord we serve! 🙏🏾💙

[@Yochanan1981]

The way you look is a commonality within what one is deep down whether one has discipline or not the way you look physically is just as important as how you look like in the inside mate.

[@ms-vx3ny]

thank you Spencer for putting this video up! i actually really needed it! your body positivity and your personality is something i wanna have! so thank you!

[@leeyongberry]

OMG Spencer is the most pretty!!! within her heart ❤ because she is sooo kind.

[@peterose9526]

I just went through most of your shorts trying to pick the one I thought you looked the best in and ..I can't ! You are stunning in every way

[@ArtbyNikhilalala]

I want to be remembered as kind, caring, successful, and a great artist. ❤

[@simranahuja7]

this was eye opening 💗