How To Become More Emotionally & Spiritually Attractive - PIES Explained

[@140ex5]

This advice is so spot on. I’ve been married for 38 years and can now see all my flaws. Thank you for your wisdom.

[@georgew.5639]

People need to learn to genuinely listen to their partners. Refusing to listen with the attitude the they are smarter than their partner is a recipe for ruining the relationship.

[@lincolnearnest8910]

Here is the point I think we should ALL remember....why should we not always remember that it's our choice in a relationship to build up our significant other and I do this for my wife because she deserves to be empowered and encouraged. She deserves to be loved despite her imperfections and mistakes. If we only loved people when they did the right things, then the first time ANY of us made a mistake we would be lonely as hell. That's not love then! And I love my wife. I always will. That's why I am standing alone for my marriage. To fight for it, to fight for her, because my marriage and her are worth it. I want her to believe in herself and know that she can turn things around, if she just remembered that she's not alone. That she can do anything if only she would believe in herself. She doesnt need validation from people who don't give a shit about her really when she already had someone she is married to that validates her, that loves her, misses her, and is STILL waiting for her. That STILL needs her. Not for anything materialistic wise, but needs her companionship. That wants her friendship, and her conversation....I want my wife back!!!

[@MassGradingTeacher]

Any update?

[@TheDavidAlexander]

Fantastic advise - I had NO IDEA I was doing so many things to reduce my attractiveness to my wife - in hindsight it's obvious, but before Dr. Beam's ingenious advise, I couldn't see it.

[@carlranns6658]

Emotional attractiveness is basically charisma

[@jsquad1730]

I watched this video because my 11 year marriage is almost sexless and I'm physically fit and Ive approached my husband for more frequent sex but he has chosen to withdraw and look at internet ...... I am not even really upset that he looks at it I'm upset that I m not getting laid !!!! I'm faithful and don't look to the internet at all I look to my husband for sexual fulfillment but I'm not getting it. I found the pies extremely helpful and I can see how and why this is happening. I want to thank you very much for opening my eyes and helping me to understand what I can do to get my married life back where it should be!!!! Its going to be a lot of work but I know I can succeed!!!

[@youngkevinsmith]

Similar position but I'm a bloke.tks for sharing. Feel free to share any advice or Experience

[@kimora7964]

Did things get any better?

[@kimora7964]

​@@youngkevinsmithdid things improve for you?

[@joekilroy2965]

Thank you for making me realize that I have fallen stagnant. I used to do all of this and was happy-go-lucky with a great marriage. It's time to become that again, thank you. I'm 52 yo. And my wife has just filed for divorce.

[@devincheatham166]

You guys are Anointed.... thank you... You're like my secret weapons...

[@jesseyates6725]

I am so thankful for the work that y’all do and the resources you offer for free! You have helped me immensely in my journey of growth and change. You have truly been a Godsend , thank you!

[@brianabramsjr.7245]

Excellent video! More people truly need to understand the concept of P.I.E.S.!

[@robinsego2745]

I just broke up with my boy friend and feeling that loss. Thank you so much I now have a focus!💜🤗

[@gorgainde1978]

Is a forgettable matter

[@deborahrouse5644]

@@gorgainde1978???

[@jasontwombly4049]

Thank you for the advice. My wife has recently told me that she is no longer in love with me. Very painful. Looking back it was a series of situations, that lead to this. I can’t change the past, I can’t change how she feels. I can only control myself. But I do love her, and I do want her with me. I will continue to work on myself.

[@jasontwombly4049]

I’m sorry you’re going through this, I’m sure you are a loving, beautiful woman. I feel your pain. You’ll get through this. We’ll get through this. Just remember, you are worthy of love.

[@arturoacosta8301]

I am in the same situation. How are you both doing?

[@jameshendrickson4845]

So, how do you have a conversation where you want your partner to change - loose weight, stop drinking, etc. Sometimes having difficult conversations isn't always positive.

[@jazzyfizzle7975]

You’re never going to succeed by leading with losing weight….

[@davidpolk421]

That’s the best advice I’ve heard , thank for bringing it up

[@710sethh]

This guy is the bob ross of marriage issues

[@keepitsimple5744]

This was so good. God had spoken that to me about being more happier and not angry.

[@lauriezahniser2413]

Thank you. PIES have to be a priority.

[@veronicaisles947]

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[@veronicaisles947]

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[@juanmadera5180]

Me and my wife are or where very family oriented and was one of the qualities we loved about each other. And no she separeted and breaking our family we have a 8 year old.

[@juanmadera5180]

I believe in family and i dont believe in divorce. And working together to fix whats wrong.. but she is completly checked out and recentful.

[@eddys.3485]

Did things work out better? Has she come back or have you decided to let go?

[@davidbarden6751]

My wife is around quite a bit to communicate with but I keep stuffing up! I think I am always communicating from a place of fear, questioning, distrust and worry which is blocking me showing the love I have for her.

[@jokingmatt]

Same here

[@kennyplay5982]

What are we males doing? Woosing out

[@olusegunakinbode8698]

Thank you guys

[@kimora7964]

Excellent advice

[@RimoKamar]

Bless to Both of you for all the help in saving people’s Marriages which are very rare these days .. How I wish I have known this kind of help with now my troubled marriage, it might save me and my family now . Praying for all those who marriage are in turmoil

[@trailerfitter2]

Could this lead to being too agreeable in a relationship and turning the partner off because one is too nice?

[@THERetiredHomeskoolMomma]

We’re experiencing all of this now!

[@sonewton1]

This was sooooo helpful! Thank you!

[@veronicaisles947]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your ex back to you?????

[@veronicaisles947]

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[@veronicaisles947]

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[@josegeda7807]

How does one evoke positive emotions? What are examples of things that one can do to evoke positive emotions in someone?

[@kenpeffley9427]

Curious, does MarriageHelper have or/recommend a dating site that have people that use PIES etc? Thx

[@longevity-u1z]

with respect, with the emotional emphasis on positive 'pulling', isn't one being a bit fake if that's not one's natural disposition???

[@JoyofTheLord77]

How do I evoke positivity in someone and everyone? Can you give some examples

[@siot7350]

How to handle the situation when my partners thinks that everything i do is wrong, all the things that will come out from her mind is always correct? 😥😓💔

[@naty1012]

What if the way to intellectually attract your spouse eg. speaking about innovative ideas, causes him to get too absorbed into the idea, to the point that it's his primary focus and it's causing lack in other areas. How do you become intellectually attractive while encouraging your spouse to maintain a balance in life?

[@Alice-ie9zv]

Thanks for Ur videos nd could u create another videos where u explain with more longer details about the pikes? So useful thanks nd an advice to all the he people fall in live First nd Always with urself nd be aware there are many dysfunctional be lovely nd respectful to Ur partner but only of he good If u understand he a violent an ill intentioned a cunning an opportunist nd this u can understand with the time by talking nd observibg his reactiobs If he an abused run away Forever

[@elizabethechase]

What about when you're in a long term relationship with children, but you come to faith and your partner doesn't like it?

[@hereonlyculturally6334]

@ Dr.Joe Beam and Kimberly,thanks much!! a question If our ex does not want to give us any chance and never forgive us or came back,do u think is there someone we can do to make him change his mind? especially when we have neglected him?

[@tasnuvazarinmou9827]

could u find any solution? I am in a similar situation

[@asamusicdude]

Its interesting because I did more good to my spouse than bad but she chose to get bitter and hateful towards me by focusing on the bad. I choose to focus on good. I'm far from perfect but I know what to do and I'm gonna do it

[@veronicaisles947]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your ex back to you?????

[@veronicaisles947]

Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me. He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️

[@veronicaisles947]

Watzap him now for help..........

[@veronicaisles947]

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[@deborahrouse5644]

@@veronicaisles947 You need to get YOUR OWN videos on KZbin rather than constantly intruding on almost ALL of the Marriage Helper videos.

[@arturoacosta8301]

Thanks

[@Vazhakkodan]

Thank you very much

[@veronicaisles947]

Hi friend, do you really need help to recover your relationship and get your ex back to you??????

[@veronicaisles947]

Let me recommend you to someone called baba Eseohe that helped me recover my relationship and get my ex back to me. He can definitely help you also ❤️❤️

[@veronicaisles947]

Watzap him now for help..........

[@veronicaisles947]

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[@lindaengler6446]

I would like to ask a private question

[@theonemrham]

Emotionally... Dang I'm a 2 😢.

[@juanmadera5180]

Its harded when you wife isnt home

[@marcowagner3930]

Thats my Situation, too. But the PIES are Things that we should lern first only For ourself and the way we communicate to others. We shoudnt do this For our spouses. But this things will make us more attractive. And maybe someday for our spouse, too.

[@kennyplay5982]

What are pies???

[@MarriageHelper]

Hi Kenny! PIES refers to physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual levels of attraction.

[@gladysbin9174]

Marriage Helper where can I buy the PIES boothcamp

[@justinziyobliterator7656]

So is there a correct way to tell your wife that she would look better if she lost a couple of pounds? Or is this a topic that should be entirely avoided? 😂