How to Believe in Yourself (More than Self-Esteem and Confidence)

[@DouglasLee9]

1. Momentum. Small wins consistently. 2. Integration. Taking in what you have done. 3. Feedback. Feedback from people you love 4. Priming. Affirmations or things to change your state. To get you into the zone. You generate these emotions consistently 5. Love. Love yourself.

[@Transform_with_Tea]

Thank you

[@jackiewash4]

LORD I NEEDED THIS IN THIS PANDEMIC... I HAVE BEEN SO DOWN LATELY... BUT GOD LEAD ME HERE TO LET ME KNOW THAT I AM LOVE AND THEREFORE I CHOOSE TO KEEP THIS IN MY FRONT FRONTAL LOBE OF MY MENTAL STATE... TO NOT GIVE UP ON GOD OR MYSELF WHOM HE MADE ME... BY AND WITH LOVE ❤️😭👏🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾💞

[@champion1772]

I never had anyone believe in me, and when you were saying good job kid. It kind of made me feel happy like someone validated the effort I make towards my anxiety

[@karolinasereikaite]

I know that feeling , what I came to realize the most important thing is to believe in yourself and zone out of disbelievering thoughts, there's always a new resistance form people around us once we start changing anything or doing the way we think is the best, but every time when I take radical acceptance on who I am and what I do people are starting to catch up with that vibe and one way or another I see reflection of support I give to myself in others. However I'm super grateful for Brendon too and I always feel huge gratitude for the encouragement and real change he gives to my life. Keep doing what you're doing I'm sure you're awesome and you're doing a great job 👍🏻 You're not alone

[@thecurrentmoment]

I learnt to accept/believe the good things people say about me, not just the bad things. I realised it didn't make sense to believe the negative things people said, but resist the good things they said. When someone says something good, believe it.Good luck

[@ShadowsMasquerade]

Same here ProGamer, had to learn to believe in me when no one else did. I mean, quite literally everyone I was surrounded by were big downers, generally pretty pessimistic people who encouraged me to settle for less because that's what they did. This is unfortunate, but what it means is that it will be harder to grow into the person you really are when in that environment. Harder.... but not impossible. Stand your ground. Keep on keeping on.

[@sharonherrin]

Fight for what you want,!so later you know you gave it your best, it’s not important how others see you but how you know yourself!

[@rockybalboa1814]

Are you done with your drama yet?

[@letgoandlive4595]

His energy is always so vibrant. Great video!

[@sagenosnibor9173]

Right! I always feel refreshed after listening to him! I need positive people in my life like him.

[@dudewat212]

"Do the thing and you will have the power." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[@itsrim7037]

dudew

[@WickWars101]

OMG u Blew my Mind

[@starrypurple8568]

I'm crying watching this. I realize now that i give myself less credit also denying credit from other people.. i think it as nothing matter.. Thanks Brandon for the enlightenment ;) I'm coming from the family who give me less appreciation.

[@crutopiadrums]

I’ve discovered Brendan 5 years after this was posted, but I’m truly grateful for all his advice. It’s so easy to digest and so applicable. What a legend! 🤘

[@mstango2850]

Lost confidence in my ability to do my job, as I have moved jobs when I should have stayed and worked things out. I guess loving myself helps. Kindness and gratitude - goes a long way.

[@DanielaCunhaEFT]

I love when he shoots in this beautiful house.

[@nedhc4724]

thx Brendon. I rewatch your videos every single day to get motivated..

[@vanessam9784]

I always learned listening to Brandon and some of his video I listen many time , grateful from you and hope you all have a very happy day

[@charliegreen7988]

I’ve been on a binge of advice-searching for how to believe in myself and this video was enough to get through to me and make me tear up a bit. I’ve never done any integration. I can’t remember the last time I felt proud of myself and really allowed myself to take credit for it. I also probably didn’t get the positive feedback I needed growing up. I don’t remember what it’s like to feel confident in myself or my ability. (And that sounds pretty messed up) Before I can jump outside my comfort zone and pursue a passion I need to at least have a tiny, tiny voice of Hope telling me I can do it.

[@drasandracos]

thank you man! thank you for being a part of my life

[@samantarizzi248]

I love you man. Your videos are really helping me out lately. I almost lost all of my respect towards me, my family,... Just because things were really hard from the moment I was born my mom was sick, we have so much money problems, my mother's depression was the worst back then when I was little, and even to this day has so much impact on me, it's ridiculous and really painful sometimes. My mom often says things about me that are really mean and they make me so sad and lonely. I do realize I'm not my mother, but still some parts of me believe I will be just like her one day, if I don't move far away from her, but I can't because I don't have the money right now, I'm studying and paying for school... so our situation is really hard. that's why I'm in a bad mood most of the time. and because of that I started to hate myself...which definitely has to stop! With your help I'm starting to see things differently, so thanks for that Brandon. You're the best!

[@scourt7846]

I hope things are improving for you ❤

[@sindeyshon1477]

You are so positive person . You give this energy even through these videos .

[@cheery-hex]

Momentum is the BEST!

[@SusanB101]

Yup. So true. “Integration” really resonated with me. And you know, I will start this practice with my husband too. Not taking myself or him, or anyone else in my life for granted. Appreciating all the little successes in our life, and, saying them out loud, to make them real! I will be sharing this with my 14 year old too. Thank you for the wisdom!

[@enchantresswildwoman6496]

I just love you, I love your energy, I love the difference you have made to my days. I appreciate you. Thank you

[@diwr]

Few motivational speakers can hold a candle to this guy. He really nails his advice and delivery. He must practice what he preaches.

[@hullaskumar5689]

Good job kid, your doing alright.. proud of you. I see that your working hard here.. I see that your trying.. Phew.. got tears in my eyes listening to this.. Missed my dad.. He passed away when I was 7 years old. Now i'm 29.. I faintly remember him.. This touched me deep, felt like he would say the same and give me confidence :)

[@scourt7846]

❤

[@ramziha4678]

Thanx you so much Brendon for the awesome vibe :)

[@josannehoo9772]

You make every day 1 in a billion i so appreciate you MR BRENDON BURCHARD

[@holy21engr]

Whenever I got in trouble, back to your podcasts. These gave me a lot of confidence. I felt good when you said, "Happiness is not there, you would have to create it". It rejuvenile me. thanks a lot.

[@tipnitati1343]

Thanks Brendon. God bless you.

[@aniskashiwram781]

Let that light SHINE ✨

[@BubbleknightGames]

Thanks Brandon, you helped me started my gaming channel. I always wanted to start a KZbin channel but the negative things are always in my mind, like I'm not good enough, no one is going to be interested in my video, I am too old, etc... I just need to start and get momentum!

[@champion1772]

BubbleKnight Mobile Gaming sub me I'll sub you back I just stared my gaming channel a week ago

[@naz_novo1436]

you my man have change my life, you just flip it all upside down thank you

[@yeseniasplace]

Brendon I JUST LOVE YOU. Thank you sooooo very much for taking the time to develop your skills to help people like me. Thank you for not giving up on yourself and throwing in the towel so that me and the millions of others that need you. Reading your charge book. Thank u so much for making it free only paying the shipping so that I can be blessed by it. chapter 3 and I'm so freaking grateful. Grateful for You

[@shubhammore9213]

BRENDON..... You are AWESOME !!!

[@Betterthantelly]

Thank you. Have just come across you as I restart from a very dark period. I am very grateful that you are leading and offering.

[@prayunceasingly2029]

Generate energy in your unique way, great advice. And honour what is good, and improve what is not, also great.

[@bertinfonge3282]

Life is beautiful if you place the right thoughts in your mind and work on your confidence that you can stay positive no matter the situation . Thanks Brandon 😃😊

[@shilpamerwade]

Brendon, I keep watching your vedio's when I feel down.. And it gives me lots of energy.. Thank you

[@RealSandraDeeRobinson]

I love that you take on "tough topics" and so well, too! Being in nature can be very inspirational! Thank you for the tips I certainly know what it feels like to be knocked down, and how hard it can be to get back up quickly! We all experience this and I'll be happy to share this video.

[@alexo.1388]

Thank you Brandon. People need more persons like you.

[@adnerbharley]

Thank you for working so hard to learn so you can teach. You are a great blessing to society.

[@cherylinrosemond9048]

Hey Brendon! Thank you for the life changing videos you share. I always feel like your speaking right to me. I have set a few personal goals and to be honest attaining them have been so rewarding and fun! Most often I am amazed at how far I've come and I know it's because I have a Greater Power working behind the scenes. Its humbling and scary. I just stay positive, focused, pray and work hard. Thanks again for all your help.🤗

[@cmb8516]

I think you are an amazing mentor. Thing's i would never think about you put in perspective and it's a great eye opener. You can never grow unless you know the things that are holding you back and alot of those things never even cross your mind. You have made me take a step back and help me realize what I can do help my future self. You are amazing and hope you continue to create these wonderful video's and books!

[@johannaperez8649]

Great video!! Thanks Brendon! Integration is sometimes hard...I liked the tip of integrating our successes, however, even integrating our failures in a constructive way, makes us more confident in our potential to overcome rough patches in our character or life, it makes us more kind to others' failures and mistakes (enhance our forgiveness capabilities), and actually can make us feel proud!

[@OneMinuteImprovement]

Omg, Brendon, I Love your videos so much They've helped me more than you could ever imagine. I actually even started doing my own animated book summaries to try to help other people as much as you've helped me. Feel free to check it out, there's a new video coming every sunday! :) Thanks again, Brendon, never stop doing what you're doing.

[@BrendonBurchard]

My pleasure! Thanks for watching!

[@karinalopez9942]

Keep making more inspirational videos they really help uplift spirits! I've showed your videos to family and friends and they love them! Thanks for the great Vibes:)

[@lunaticzellot7792]

Dude you got some great energy, hard not to get psyched watching your advice. I Highly recommend this

[@sisandahenna]

Brendon. Sisanda Henna here from Johannesburg, South Africa. This is absolutely incredible. Thank you 🙌🏾🏆🧡

[@ryan-eo7zk]

brendon is a legend

[@yhtalksaboutanime]

SERIOUSLY THANK YOU BRENDON I NEED THIS VIDEO SO MUCH

[@darribasarribas5994]

Thank you Brendan for all the good you are doing!!! Thank you!!! Gracias!!!! God bless you!!! Dios te bendiga!!!!

[@karenleroy499]

Generate Happiness...that's what I'm going to focus on today. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@demetriusgreenaway-immanue1992]

You are blessing me to the point when you were talking I was cheering you. Go On Brendon

[@analuisajohnson2083]

Woooow Brendon, I really like this training. Integration resonates with me. I sincerely appreciate your positive energy. Thank you❤️

[@dattagrace]

That 2nd point - Integration, I never do this. This video was eye-opening. Thankyou!!! Thank you for being the guide and mentor you're being to so many of us!

[@lina21angel]

Thank you Brendon. I think I watched all your videos. Or at least 90%. I sometimes repeat them over and over. I'm so glad you uploaded a new video !!! Thank you thank you!

[@KlaasVictor]

Thank you Brendon!

[@tranynnguyen2382]

God bless you Brendon. This is so helpful. Even when I feel good about myself, I still watch your videos just to reinforce at what I already believe in.

[@mohamadsabbagh4544]

You are awesome man!

[@mateuris]

Many thanks Brendon for the video in the morning. I felt I needed something like this to start my day.

[@OurOromoFamily]

Love this!! Believe in yourself we are all unique! Never give up!

[@radicaltp]

Love the idea of integration. Just think of your achievements however small. This is the key to self belief.

[@anadaro813]

I really needed to hear this today. I have been having bad days and I was hopeless. Thank you so much for your words, for the motivation you provide to us. I hope you have a wonderful life.

[@misbahyasin5024]

Thank you Brendon

[@koul_2482]

Great video! I love how you are helping others and me included

[@jordannorth8198]

Your energy gives me energy x

[@thealchemist6858]

90-10 1. Love ( love yourself, love every one) 2. You need a proof, you have to maintain an activity in a long run. a tiny change makes big result. 3. Follow step 2: you need to integrate small win, I did it yesterday. I just do it. I can do it. You don't need do prove who you are for other people, You need prove that for yourself. 4 Priming ( do something in advance, anything that activate your feelings, your emotions---> but from your core !) 5. feedback ( admit that, no pain, no gain), go ahead.

[@CEOBRIE]

thank you so much Brendon

[@harshitachaudhry3536]

You're amazing

[@daftmou5s160]

Brendon you're awesome dude!!

[@DarthDomino]

First time viewer! I learned about Imposter Syndrome and have been doing research on how to overcome it, and this video has been one of the most helpful things I've found. Thank you so much! You rock! Way to bring it all the way up to 11.

[@moganavemala2408]

Thanks Brendon for boosting my confidence every single day❤

[@gborowme]

love openly

[@lailab7670]

Thank you very much for the nice talk

[@Alexandra_Mauve]

you are my hero I needed this

[@zerodue1000]

Thank you Brendon for pointing this out to us. Great points

[@mobarakCmadridC85]

you have changed my life man

[@anaisaranega1679]

You are so awesome man! Thank you for helping humanity progress by sharing the incredible things that you have learned. 💙

[@sveinbjornkari]

Thank you Brenton. You make my mornings so good.

[@JulieAnnStone]

Brendon thank you for sharing this message and your faith, and the analogy of us being like power plants, generating the energy.

[@jeremywhite2105]

Brendon, as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in private practice, I frequently utilize your empowering messages with clients. Thank you!!

[@mstango2850]

It's how you view things I wish I viewed my situation as a challenge instead of getting depressed about it.

[@TheInfliction09]

Thank you Brendon! i am grateful that i found you

[@downbntout]

I like to use a little positive comparison. Not to say, I'm better than that mess of a human, but rather to say I once was struggling with that problem, I see I've come a ways. Now to speak some love over that person, to encourage. I don't offer advice without permission, it's usually not wanted.

[@leigholding6079]

Loving the energy thanks Brendon. Better then Alexjones. Lets not go there. What you resist persists, so dive right into what your fighting, don't fight it, love it. Give the devil a big hug,and own what you create into your reality.

[@RyanONeilWilliams]

LOL! New goal: Writer's Villa. Dude, I love you, man.

[@VincentUA]

Thanks Brendon

[@aterventypityp]

I love your background. Very peaceful.

[@ortizceci77]

Thanks! Needed this today!

[@jennifersuessner3484]

I have to thank you for your videos :) I have a big exam on Saturday and I'm already nervous and a bit scared so I wach your videos and they give me confident and also I think of why i'm scared because there could me something more worse than this exam! And tomorrow is my 21 birthday and of course I wanna be happy that day and not think too much about the exam so thank you so much Brendon 😊👍🏻

[@elhadjdiallo7533]

Jennifer Suessner how did your exam go ..... I hope you made it. Congratulations!!!!!!!

[@tomoritz7154]

Thank you Brendon! I will start to win today.

[@dianac9613]

Thank you , you inspire me so much !

[@miguelsanchez121982]

you are a great teacher my friend thank you verymuch

[@nadaabushamia5422]

I love your energy

[@Dankaz2027]

Incredible video. Brendon, I think more videos like this where you share your thoughts and words of motivation and encouragement on overcoming very difficult ruts in life that I believe apply to a lot of your fans, including myself. Sometimes for us (me at least), the life tips you offer are, for lack of a better way to put it, 'beyond' our primary issue list we constantly need to address in our lives. In other words, in my experience I have noticed my ability to relate and get the 'most' out of your videos is when I choose your videos with themes that sorta correspond to my level of life happiness or mental psyche at that point of my life. So I think addressing more videos that help get people out of that initial, baseline rut will allow them to have a better perspective going into a lot of your other videos, and it will likely have a greater effect on your fans, including myself. Thanks for all that you do.

[@thegdvibe7161]

You are an awesome life coach🎵

[@DeOliveiraThais]

Fantastic video. Thank you 🙏

[@prayunceasingly2029]

I am trying to write 7 stories of accomplishments I did in my life, to help flesh out a career. It is from "what color is your parachute", a career defining book. I have ran into difficulty completing this task because I don't believe that my accomplishments had enough accomplishment and importance to matter enough to impact a direction for my future career. And yet, these accomplishments must be enough for this task, and must influence my future in some way, by pointing out some direction.

[@madihaaldakshy2099]

Thank you so much, Brendon, so great indeed

[@thisrobinson668]

Always awesome value. . .the best

[@ibrahimmaidi8500]

thank you so much.you're my best motivational speaker,I love the way you're going

[@oananechifor8586]

Well done Brendon, more greatness in our life!

[@angeleahlebrie5170]

I love your animated style! I am often told to calm down when I speak about my micro school. Thank you!

[@g.a.chamilakumara2483]

Thank you so much for these videos Brendon ....

[@SusieO]

Thanks Brendon, great messages and such a great watch to start your day.