The Pains of Progress - Why Change is Hard

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Brendon Burchard is the world’s leading high performance coach, a 3-time New York Times bestselling author, and one of the most-watched, quoted, and followed personal development trainers in history. SUCCESS Magazine and O, The Oprah Magazine, have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement. Forbes named him the world’s leading high performance coach and Larry King named him the world’s top motivational trainer.
Brendon’s personal development trainings have more than 500 million views. Over 3,000,000 students have completed his online courses and video series. He’s created 20 blockbuster online courses in personal and professional development, including the most popular motivation, confidence, habits, leadership, and high performance courses of all time. For these results, Oprah.com named him “one of the most successful online trainers in history.” Success Magazine named Brendon “one of the Top 25 Most Influential Leaders in Personal Growth and Achievement.” Brendon has been on the cover of Success Magazine twice.
A #1 New York Times, #1 Wall Street Journal, and #1 USA Today bestselling author, Brendon’s books include High Performance Habits, The Motivation Manifesto, The Charge, The Millionaire Messenger and Life’s Golden Ticket. His most recent book, High Performance Habits: How Extraordinary People Become That Way, was a multiple week Wall Street Journal bestseller, and Amazon editors named it one of the “Top 3 Best Business & Leadership Books.”
Brendon is also the executive producer and star of MOTIVATION WITH BRENDON BURCHARD on Apple Podcasts, which debuted at #1 across all categories in its first season. It was a Top 10 Self-Help podcast for over 100 weeks, and after 5 years continues to be a chart-topping health podcast.
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[@morningglory3644]

The most powerful growth mindset is "I will figure it out" through uncertainty.

[@hossainmdabdullahal6517]

When I listen to Brendon I feel like " you are one of the few people who really cares for me."

[@NatAkiRaSoma]

😂😂😂

[@tony9622]

I just graduated highschool and I know life is changing at a faster rate so this video helped me

[@lunaticzellot7792]

"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self." "Pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work." "Happiness depends upon ourselves." - Aristotle quotes.

[@MyTaurus1984]

Thank you! I quit my job yesterday after 9 years in the same place that was unhealthy, and this video is helping me so much! For me it helps me keep focus on why I quit. And reminds me during hard times and ups and downs to sleepless nights that instead of freakin out I remember your words that its all in order☺ And I will figure this out ,and it will give me the right experience towards my goal to help and change other peoples lives☺ Im so grateful for your video! Thank you!🙏

[@joannmars]

Congrats!!

[@leovylrivera1930]

Can I know what happened to you now.. hope you make it..

[@shawniewelch366]

I’m starting a new career after 12 years. I stayed in the same field out of fear. Thinking that was all I know. I’m definitely stepping out of comfort zone. I needed this video. 👏

[@kennyadams5468]

Your videos have been such a catalyst for me! Thanks for sharing this with us😊. Much love!🦋

[@howedelamitri]

I think Brendon is one of the most fantastic people that has ever lived. Keep spreading the wisdom and the love

[@larasmith2931]

🦋It was terrifying to leave my job without something lined up but fear is a liar, gotta embrace the unknown

[@leonardolevy3852]

Awesome video! As many said, I loved the quote "When you knock at the door of opportunity, Work is the one who answers." Keep up the good work!

[@vijaypogaku7879]

These days people have a problem of just listening and get inspired in those moments but do not take conscious action. The reality is Procrastination! Any ones opinion doesn't matter until one takes the charge of ones life. Just do it, but with laser focus. Then you'll find the change, progress.

[@tanveerahmed2]

You are 100% correct Vijay . I see lots of people read inspiring lines on whatsapp or FB and they reshare and just forget without taking any action. The bottom line is you don't value whatever comes to you free of cost. The results are visible only when you intentionally spend some time or put some effort.

[@samantarizzi248]

Vijay Pogaku that's true actually, people got really lazy in my opinion...

[@howedelamitri]

"It's only in UNCERTAINTY that we're naked and alive"

[@mrmotivateme5397]

i never met you Brendon,but i have to admit,i love you bro.you've reached people who couldn't be teached.thank you for all your video's

[@evercamptrekking5217]

My tear dropped when i came back and watch the best motivation video that i used to watch during my hard time. Thank you Brendon

[@marcanyon]

Thank you Brendon. You hit so many nails on the head. When you feel so much overwhelming fear and panic and you see the results of uncertainty and procrastination, it makes you realise how much these often hidden characteristics incarcerate us in our own cages. I am drowning in all this right now and I want much faster progress. The clock is ticking!

[@asapgoms3710]

This is how I felt about church.. I didn't know what to expect or know what to do when in the house of god. Doubt and anxiety reveal themselves, but I see past that and invite myself to uncertainty. KNOWING that I'll be just fine, and grow.

[@formeyousee]

Brendon you really know how to speak to where people like me are at.

[@TheCanaplea]

The best talk ever, exactly pointed to the real challenges of change and the real benefits of it. I was there, I am now there, I can confirm every word the Brandon said. Thank you Brandon for doing this for us!

[@THEWIELDBOYS8700]

starting a new job I have no idea what I will be doing, terrified !! I soooooooooo needed this , listed 2x

[@Con25100]

Tanya Settel good luck

[@billiebillie678]

Good luck, lady! We've all been there and survived! You will too!!

[@carlostenorio9837]

Tanya Settel awesome

[@asapgoms3710]

I highly suggest adding this to your 'playlist' and come back to it for further benefits & motivation.

[@AmmuAlpha]

Ta ta me too😟

[@j0z3phy]

Perfect timing for me. Have made big changes, such a good reminder not to expect everything to be easy now that I'm in the fray!

[@kamarudinmohdsalleh2736]

Love you brandon.. Thank you so much for all your greatness, encouragement and positivity..

[@darribasarribas5994]

Wow! Amazing!!!! Last weeks I’ve been petrified with the fear of uncertainty. I wish I’ve listened to you back them. But it’s never too late. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Gracias!!! Your words are working wonders with my heart and my soul. Thank you! You are helping me, my kids, my parents and my sister to be happier. That’s a bit of the power of your words and your goodness. Gracias ❤️

[@clarkkegley]

Love this, Brendon. Great metaphors and images - those really drive the points home. The production of your videos is awesome as well. Keep them coming! -Clark

[@deeptityagi6994]

I love your videos u help me change myself thank you

[@mariselarobles5280]

Thank you Brendon. We just got laid off a close knit family business of 10 years. Your encouraging message showed up at precisely the right time. I love you man. Thank you for your love and dedication, I appreciate you❤

[@larisadoncibarnutu9601]

Hi Brendon. I love what you do! I have your book and you just changed my life in so many ways. I left my job and I have been living in a fear for more then a month and you just opened up my eyes that I am scared of judgment and uncertainty of what is coming. I am grateful that leaders like you exists! I wish yiu all the best and you are my light and I love your book so so much!

[@nicoadrian6261]

"In the end it's your life and you're gonna decide what it stands for." Brendon, thank you so much not only for this video, but for your whole work too. It is so inspiring! I'm from Germany and had just read your book The Motivation Manifesto.

[@debbierice3560]

Brendon, you are a blessing! I turned on KZbin this morning and there you were. There were other choices, but I chose you, and I'm so grateful I did. Every word you said, every story you told spoke to me. Your turnstile reference, gaining momentum, embracing the unknown, knowing that you can find the right road out of chaos, what will I go after with thunder and power today, or my favorite, don't forget what answers when you knock on the door of opportunity - its work that answers! Wow! So true and so powerful! This was exactly what I needed to hear today. And the part about the haters who comment on your shirt, you made me laugh out loud! We all have to learn to laugh at the haters, poor unhappy things that they are :( BTW, I love your shirt! Thank you for being you Brandon, and for sharing yourself, and your amazing words of wisdom. Know that you are the best and that you really helped me today. Yesterday I just got by, but today will be different and I know I'll feel good at the end of the day when I lay my head down, and it will be because of you. Thank you Brandon! XOXO

[@markypascua6284]

I love you Brendon!!! when I stopped watching your video I felt a negative change. I usually watch one of your videos in the morning under the sun. Thanks for having these videos free!!!

[@TheLisaTorres]

The price of change. no one talks about this; uncertainty, judgement and struggle. Thanks for sharing!

[@nicestuff8755]

his shirt matches with the background view if you watch closely, well thought

[@dreasmom2789]

yep,ur right.

[@dreasmom2789]

yep,ur right.

[@abuhurairakhan7079]

true

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he , et

[@llanekgwete5866]

Great observation

[@gisellenakandakari5943]

Thank you so much for this video. I always have a hard time with change, especially work-related; because despite knowing that I’m a hard-working person, I struggle with deadlines. I can deliver the results, but I’m a perfectionist and this has me pulling many all-nighters in a row or not socializing for periods of time. I’m afraid that if I commit to a project, I won’t be able to manage it properly and maintain a good work-life balance; and in this fear I’ve let many good opportunities slide. These days I’ve had a couple work proposals and, with all the jitters I’m having, I’m saying “yes” because I know there’re big rewards on the other side. I‘ve subscribed to your videos and am saving this one to my “Watch later” list so I can replay it as many times I need as a reminder that I’m capable of handling these challenges and more. You’re an awesome person and an inspiration to me and others, please keep up with the excellent work!!! ❤️

[@basemathfilms]

THIS ONE'S GOING DOWN IN MY FAVORITE VIDEOS' LIST I think I'm commenting for the first time on one of your videos but this time I had to thank you and comment on your video as I was stuck at a certain place in my life for a reeeeeaaaaallly long time and that was because of two of the three reasons which you gave here: 'uncertainty' and 'judgement' - which you pointed at today. Due to the 'uncertainty' factor, my approach towards anything in life had become like - I ain't doing that unless I'm 100% prepared and 100% sure. That made me lose on so many opportunities. 'My need for permission' and 'my need for perfection' would make me use months of my time for a task which would barely take a day or two. Due to 'judgement' factor, I was always taking very careful steps in life because I cared too much about what, people I love, will feel and say about it. Well said, "I am not gonna pause my mission simply because there are some mean people out there who are uninformed or are in a bad mood." I want you to know just these two things: 1. Before you said that the shirt was not that good one (11:08), I was already liking the shirt. 2. I WAS DANCING BY THE TIME THE VIDEO ENDED. NOW I'M GONNA TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH. WHO I AM IS NOT TETHERED TO MY PAST. COACH, JUST PUT ME IN THE GAME, I'LL FIGURE IT OUT. LET'S SEE WHAT HAPPENS. GOD bless you bro and your channel too.

[@edwardmccalip7490]

I'm am paying the price for change and I am enjoying my journey to Success! I thank you for this and I'm sending this to my Family.

[@ecstacygallegos510]

I love you brendon!! Man I want you to know that as a person I have all the love appreciation and respect for you!!! You sure do know how to make this 21 year old cry. You know exactly what to do and say and know I’m truly grateful that you live if wasn’t for you, people wouldn’t be who they are today thankyou for being a leader an inspiration to people! Thankyou for your trials and struggles you faced thankyou for being willing to choose the desire to conquer and endure, because of that your building people to become better and yourself! I’m thankful for people like you and I’m truly blessed that I came across your videos!!! I hope one day I’ll be able to go to one of your seminars and meet you in person!! Your truly one of my Role Models!✨😊 Thankyou!!! -Your fan Lily Gallegos.

[@rhondadennis6822]

Loved this! Fearful of Change vs. My Charge! My CAN DO ability! Overcoming Judgement/Expectations/Rejection/Struggle = My Confidence = My Character

[@aviliowalker]

" When you knock on the door of opportunity don't forget that work is the one that answers "

[@gogulilango]

Thank god I live in the time you make videos Brendon. Thanks a lot for this absolute energy!

[@sadequrrohman]

So true Brendan! I can relate to all those points! I have my own KZbin channel and I felt like people judge me but now I don't care! If I cared about what others say then I would not will be creating new content and being my authentic self! I also know about the uncertainty which is like what I am going through being a life but I'm really enjoying the journey! And struggle? Yes I do struggle to get myself out there to be know but I know my message and my videos will reach people and have an amazing impact to their lives!

[@polszowiak]

Watching your videos daily helps me with my 'daily struggle', makes me want to do something epic with my life. Thank you for all your hard work.

[@fionam3735]

I lived my husbands life and now he has someone else. Change is difficult for sure and I don’t know where me and the kids are heading but I hope it’s somewhere better 🙏

[@chriswbrim]

I'm new to your videos, but so far they've been one of the best things in my life lately. When I start doubting or thinking "what the hell have I begun???" I watch a new video and it's like getting a pep talk from my best friend. Thank you for that! ⚡️💪ife

[@martiembry852]

I am so glad I watched this again. Maybe change the title to "How to continue your path among negative people." LOL. I have placed this video in my "Must Watch Again." Thanks, Brandon, for making all these motivational videos -- and to remind ME that struggle is hard and part of the process towards success. You're the best!

[@richardharringtonofficial]

Wow! You get more believers when you have MOMENTUM! Great stuff Brendon! Much love from Bali ❤️

[@TrinJeto]

Damn. This is one of the BEST videos you've done Brendon. EVER! The three blocks of change you talked about apply to every person because change has affected us one way or another. Uncertainty, judgment, and struggle can change our views on a desired goal we want. Your perspective definitely transforms lives. Thank you Brendon for the continued wisdom and keep pressing on!

[@rdtperformance7829]

Thanks for all your help and all the hard work you do. It is definitely appreciated from all the ones like me, that wait for your videos every week.

[@lazyday778]

Thank you so much. You always bring the knowledge that I need. Whenever I watch your videos it brings a smile to my face.

[@azubermounir9151]

I just fell upon your channel and I’ve been binging. You are crushing your purpose Brendon, keep helping the people.

[@JuanRuiz-ji6ug]

your videos and books saved my life exactly a year ago. today I'm reminded where I came from. much love for the work you do Brendon

[@BrianQualls]

Brendon, your third point about struggle is so valuable. Thanks for your courage and transparency. You inspire me.

[@roshcoben8820]

I can relate a lot and thanks for putting it so clearly, it is painful to start with something difficult, but there is a reward, a momentum where you just flow and forget about the fear in your stomach... Great video Brendon, added to my favs

[@OthmanAhmad100]

I would like really thank you for these inspiring words. I am about to do a big change in my life and still facing this fear of change. sometimes I wake up in the morning and I am full of energy towards that change and sometimes I am feeling scared and uncertain. However, when I think logically, I go towards the change and when my emotions controls me I kindda back up. This video really came in the right time and I am going towards my change, face challenges, live the dream and be happier!

[@aniskashiwram781]

Everybody wants to shine bright like a diamond, but nobody want to get cut!

[@kelvinadams4877]

Tha why some people no want to change, the begin is struggle= fear to fail and when others see failing put you in a insecurity spot. The you dream is worth it. Let goooo...

[@westcoastsands]

Brandon, thank you for making this video. I’m a very quiet person and often when I face challenge in my life, I retreat into myself instead of stand in my power and mission. Listening to this message allowed self acceptance and encouraged me to be myself; that I can live with fear and react to the challenges on the path of my goals or I can keep feeding messages of encouragement and confidence that supports what is true in my heart to move towards.

[@johannhmuller]

I try to watch one video every morning. I truly think this is one of your very best ones. Thank you for sharing.

[@StriveForGloryRain]

I saw a video that said to choose your hard. It's going to be hard going after your dreams but it's going to be even harder having to swallow the pill of regret later in life

[@ayanlekadiye4384]

He who asks a better question gets a better answer who said that didnt lie. I have much respect for you man unlike those people who are trying to knock me off my game you are giving me a piece information that I need to hear really bad.. I'm also reading book so keep it coming man cuz your work has only values to those who are at where you have been that's understand you and you dont understand us hopefully we will some how pay it back to you or pay forward to information so much appreciated for your work man.

[@michaelavenkrbcova7561]

I love your videos, you inspire me every day to be better and spread the positive energy. Thank you so much, you can't even imagine how grateful I am to know you.

[@jenniferlawson5606]

Wonderful Brendon! I love you! I love the way you sound, the way you look, that you shave every day even though others don't! I love your messages and find them inspirational. Thank you!

[@AnnaAbramovskymakeup]

Thank you Brendon for the inspiration. For bringing clarity for the process i'm going threw. Loving your contact here and on podcasts.

[@lljohnson9249]

Brendan this is such a valuable lesson to learn especially around covid we are people are getting so uncomfortable with change to the point where it becomes violent your lectures such as this one should be mandatory but those who are sentence to do community service

[@brandonwhistler6874]

This is great! I've learned so much about myself over the past year working on personal development. I think one of the toughest things is dealing with people and their opinions especially when you strive to be different. But I have finally got past that and will continue to write the next chapter of my life without anyone else holding the pen!

[@nadimmobilink]

Thanks for the video...seriously it shaken me and changed the perspective... "Every change has a price" and one should be ready to pay that price to the good....

[@JayA-fv2md]

I'm grateful for every word you just mentioned in this video. I'm grateful i have come across your videos. Thank you. couldn't have described it any better.

[@larasmith490]

🦋Amen! That’s why I say your struggles don’t define you they refine you

[@Shivamkumar-nt7ks]

I think this is the most motivational video I ever watch and I definetly make change in myself . thanks for making this video.

[@salmabadawy2470]

Never stop your march Brendon . Keep rockin' it😊

[@elyse2440]

Brendan, thank you so much for this video and all of the work you do. This message was so powerful for me, thank you, thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart!

[@naveengamini3445]

Awesome insights.. This was my exact experience I had when I want to make progress in my life.. uncertainty, judgement, hardship .. So real.. Brendon is genius and explained the deep and core points..

[@melaniegetzen6389]

You are my hero Brendon! The exact message I needed to hear! Thank you a million times!

[@zeghjt231]

my first self development book was the motivation manifesto and introduced me to the world of self development. if it wasn't for you id be in a dark place. Thanks for all your efforts Brendon.

[@davidvalenzuela4136]

Thanks Brendon, your videos has encourage myself to overcome an accident (broken neck injury ) depression. From being energetic person to becoming a temporary disable was a drastic turn around but you sure have lifted my spirit. Good morning and best regards.

[@Michaelnolan1988]

Thanks, Brendon! You are helping me rethink my thought processes. You rock man!

[@Lazycat2094]

This is one of the best videos I've ever watched on KZbin. Thank you Brendon!

[@trubeautyMOVEMENT]

PS literally making it a goal to watch one of your videos-specifically THIS ONE every single day to motivate me for my movement and what I KNOW is my calling! Thank you 👊🏻✨

[@Natali-gl4tr]

Thank you so much, Brendon! Your speeches are always terribly inspiring!

[@synlee84]

Hi Brendon, I love your book Life's Golden ticket, I finished it in a week. Love the character of Henry choosing the lead as his last miracle to teach him something in his life. Life truly can be a miracle of possibility. Brendon you keep going and you keep making those video!! love it

[@ChanelleNovosey]

THANK YOU BRENDON!!! THIS BLESSED MY DAY!!! THIS CHANGE HAS BEEN DIFFICULT BUT I KNOW ITS WORTH IT!

[@CristianOliveras]

I needed this so bad 😊

[@imenbensmida9284]

THANK YOU!! It's really what i wanted to hear, perfect TIMING !! thanks a lot!!!!!

[@mr.mrs.vazquez1128]

You are amazing! God Bless you and EVERYTHING you do on this EARTH!

[@debbieforand6514]

Just fantastic!! It is like you were in my head tonight, I totally needed to hear this!! Thank you for all that you do! Speaking the words that many of us feel but don't know how to say it!!

[@sammybray5346]

Thank you a million times! I hope you luck for the rest of your life!

[@Arbiter417Machinima]

Inspirational as always Brendon.

[@ImanRB]

+Ned Stark I thought you were dead :)

[@Arbiter417Machinima]

Iman Rezasefat I get that a lot.

[@prosperitynuggets]

+Ned Stark Don't listen to the haters bro, keep your head up. :')

[@ImanRB]

since u are here.Jon is not ur son is it?

[@gborowme]

I am so happy i find you at this time of my life, you are a blessing.

[@howedelamitri]

"They were new dogs, utterly transformed by the harness. All passiveness and unconcern had dropped from them. They were alert and active, anxious that the work should go well, and fiercely irritable with whatever, by delay or confusion, retarded that work. The toil of the traces seemed the supreme expression of their being, and all that they lived for and the only thing in which they took delight."

[@shabanahameed80]

thank you. .perfect timing. .god bless you

[@pastrychef2495]

I love how you thought about the struggle. Yes you needed to struggle. You found fame ! You deserve all the of this Brandon. Thank you !

[@valerie3133]

yes it's true the moment i began tyo let go, and had the courage to move on in life with full of uncertainties, love whatever that comes along the way..my life started to be so charged.

[@JaizyTanawe]

watched this vid for I don't know how many times already. It always gives me the courage to just go out there without holding back. Thanks, Brendon. 😊

[@hilarymcginnis4236]

You told me exactly what I needed to hear today 🙏🏼. This video gave me the motivation I need to grow my business without the comfort of "certainty". Thank you for sharing your gifts with the 🌎 Brendon. Have a blessed week!

[@BrendonBurchard]

Thank you Hilary!

[@ThePearl0507]

Brendan ❤️ So real and authentic... vibrant ..majes me start my day with the charged life mindset

[@kathrynlynn1987]

SOOOO needed this one today!! Thank you Brendon :)

[@mariamacedo9553]

Brendon thank thank you for all your videos of inspirations. God bless you and your team.

[@adopodrinje1499]

these videos are priceless! thank u so much Bredon! u truly are an hero!

[@terril7354]

I just love you, I really do! God is using you in so many amazing ways and I'm so inspired. Going to order your book today!

[@kurisuchiinu1206]

Thank you for sharing this Brendon! :) I have been struggling so much to change but all I get is negative feedback from the crowd. They usually pull you down real good. But it's really up to you if you're going to be affected by it. Instead, use it as a stepping stone to grow and develop - even if it means being laughable or silly. If you know it's the right thing, then do it :) Thank God it's hard!! :D

[@DGewel]

Brendon! I super like this video! ☺️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you so much for your encouragement, Ive been posting your quotes on facebook many years ago, back then I just know you by name - your message always resonates within me. Hope you’ll be able to read this comment. ❤️

[@theresekruger1803]

love this! it changed my life

[@fastenough7299]

in 41 minutes 😂😂😂lol

[@theresekruger1803]

+High Y why 41 min?

[@FocusMrbjarke]

+High Y you 18?

[@Logical_Motivation]

Yes! I love this video too! 🙏

[@rontangcay8466]

thank you

[@isiwealthmanagement7534]

THANKS FROM FRANCE WITH THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART AND SOUL ! I NEEDED IT !!!