How to Break the Cycle: Overcoming Unhealthy Patterns + Making Better Decisions

[@jjjjm1458]

This is so true. Back in March, I successfully completed a 21 day fast. On day 22, I told myself because I did so well I was going to eat anything I wanted. I remember that I didn’t even have a craving for the foods. I ate, but I wanted to eat them just because I could. And I’ve been eating everything I want to ever since. I haven’t had any energy and I’ve been procrastinating on everything. I’m ashamed and embarrassed. But God😢 He is so amazing because when I think about the overall picture of what he’s trying to do in my life, it’s bigger than food. Although food is my struggle, I realized He’s trying to build in me disciplines that have nothing to do with a meal. But it starts with the small decisions we make daily. God is so good 🙏🏾. Today, I start my fast again. I understand where I went wrong now. He has so much grace for us ❤️

[@She_Is_Toni]

I struggle with this as well. I may also take this approach and practice discipline in other areas of my life before facing the hardest one for me which is food. When I give in to food (excessive amounts) I feel so demoralised and lose motivation for the day.

[@kyliajackson]

He is so good!💙

[@sajdahsamuels4037]

Ooohweeee yes to all of this. My entire struggle right now, ugh! I didn't even look at it as discipline. Now I can push through and ask him for direct guidance w/ this 😊🙌🏾

[@rea_art_leha]

Never tell people you are fasting

[@rea_art_leha]

Read mat 6vs5-18

[@aliciadiatto2654]

She said stop lying to yourself and stop making excuses, just be quiet and do it! JESUS!!!! This has set a fire ablaze in me, along with two other videos I watched today, to do what I know I need to do!!! Thanks again 🔥

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@SymedaButlerfamfriendsfun]

Man you read me like a book. Grateful for your obedience l, grateful for the Holy Spirit, grateful for conviction and grateful to make better decisions.

[@kyliajackson]

🤍🤍🤍

[@samjose8796]

I said the same thing. I said she is stabbing me. God really gave her a word for us man. 🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@SUZIEandIAMHIGHLYFAVORED]

Generational curses/strongholds cannot be broken with a five minutes prayer 😔😔😔

[@davianamartinez7421]

5:55

[@IAMAFFIRMATIONS-oq2xv]

The breaking of them can be initiated through a prayer if you are committed to the path and continue to ask for help. Experienced it myself!

[@desarae8794]

It can with 5minutes of prayer a day. Perspective is everything and don’t forget your whole life is built off perspective.

[@Tzinalovette]

These things come through fasting and prayer - Matthew 17:21

[@melissascholfield1162]

When I heard that I was like hmmm if you can’t say “Amen” just say “Ouch”

[@rebelwithapurpose]

All I can say is Ouch and Amen. There is no excuse at this point in my life of why I shouldn't make better decisions when I have all the resources and content to help me to get better. It is now time to apply what I have heard to my life. Thanks for sharing Kylia and pouring into us what God has given you.

[@kyliajackson]

Of course!

[@SapioCJ]

The way I did not want to listen at first…. I’m just glad I kept watching and listening and take accountability so I can move forward.

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad it was helpful!

[@terryntendesha2484]

"There are blessings that need a healed version of yourself" shuu I felt that .I thank God for this, much needed !!🔥 God bless you Kylia

[@alexislamberson1901]

*Sooooo good* 🔥🔥

[@meiapearson3661]

Amen 🙏🏽 ❤

[@beautifullymommyingrwanda]

“If you are not living like the wise you are living like the fool there is no in between”wow thank you for this im gonna listen to this video everyday.

[@SUZIEandIAMHIGHLYFAVORED]

Every decision I make MATTERS!

[@rosedaastv]

“we sometimes compromise for comfort “ mannn I needed to hear that.

[@SweetpeaC]

I need this because I’ve been putting off working out more, updating my resume, and eating healthier. I always say I have time to make these changes which is true, but I’m tired of being stagnant. I don’t want to regret anything later in my life.

[@venusfletcher4537]

when people be like "i need to take a break" this isnt a game or a challenge. It is your life, the one you say you wanna live, so if you gonna do it then do it.

[@itsalexandriarey]

This was a hard listen yet necessary. I'm constantly trying to break these negative patterns and I fail often. I've made some really bad decisions that have shaped my life but this video gave me hope that I can do this! One day at a time with God's grace 🙏🏾

[@kyliajackson]

You got this! And remember that you cannot transform yourself. It is only God who can transform us and change our habits. The more time we spend with him the more we become like him. It won’t be a quick fix, but as long as we are patient and continue to spend time with God, he can transform us.💙💙

[@Blessingogianyo]

Are you spying on me or is the Holy Spirit whispering my matters to you😂 You literally appeared without my clicking on your video! You are a good daughter of God.❤

[@kyliajackson]

Thanks so much!

[@sajdahsamuels4037]

😂😂 exactly

[@peacelove35]

I thought she was spying on me too.😩😩😩😩😩 Father continue to help us.

[@BibineBrave]

This video was made purposely for me. The Lord spoke to me using your words. I’m so grateful for this community on KZbin. At times you make poor decisions and fall off track; however, I’m thankful for amazing people like you on KZbin that provide the push to get back on track 😊

[@kyliajackson]

Glad it was helpful!

[@crystalblair6214]

God knows what I've been searching for, and he sent me straight to your channel. Praise him🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@kyliajackson]

🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@_yamirahh518]

Sister in Christ, you are preaching!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@chalicedixon5474]

I needed to hear this! Thanks sis in Christ

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@Dee_pika-D]

Faith without work is dead 🙂, I need to hear this Thank you Father God and Thank you sister

[@kyliajackson]

Of course!

[@jolajohnson35]

I needed this!!

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@ChristineMarshall-r1t]

Young Lady... yaaasss... thank you, ❤❤❤ and may the Spirit of the Lord continue to move in your heart and give you boldness for the kingdom

[@Insp1rationwNatasia]

This hit, especially about sowing seeds. Every seed we sow will grow. The question is what do you want to grow?

[@kyliajackson]

Amen!

[@andisamanaga9838]

Whew! I was not ready. Thank you for this, it was hard to hear but necessary.

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure 🤍

[@pinkprintlipstickbar7430]

Yes I’m so guilty 😅 Thank you for this ❤

[@ashlenemafokoane7229]

You spoke to me like a big sister and I didn't know I needed that! It's like I know what to do, but have just been pushing it back because I lack discipline, honestly! Grateful to have come across your channel. Thanks Kylia and God bless you!

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@jasminesmith913]

This is some of the best advice I’ve gotten in a long while

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@breionsdiary]

I needed to hear this. The good thing is spending time with God has showed me this and I literally started the steps but you gave me the extra push to keep going and being consistent with that discipline.

[@kyliajackson]

I'm so glad!

[@bklynbarbie90]

This page has truly blessed me. Feel like my cousin is speaking life into me. Always short & sweet with a sprinkle of tough love! 💕

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad!

[@sharleenbawa]

This is exactly what I needed to hear! God bless you abundantly for sharing🙏🏾❤️ Another area that would be such a blessing to cover is self-sabotage… most of us don’t even realise we do it, until it’s done

[@beth-annblackwood]

First of all!!! The hair is gorgeous and you are just glowing. ❤❤❤ So proud of you Kylia! Thanks for another video!

[@kyliajackson]

Aww thank you sis 🥰 I appreciate you 🤍

[@GodsChosenMekAmoR]

She is GLOWING! Lord continue to bless her.

[@books6000]

I mean you read me with hitting the snooze every morning. You said a word and I receive it. Stop making excuses just do it. Not showing up for small things leads to bigger things, this is so true. Thank you for sharing action steps, amazing! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@francesca.course]

This has been on my feed for days, I'm glad I watched it today. I needed it. My lack of seeing success in my hard work has been getting to me. idk why.

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@brittneywill02]

Yes thank you for this word! I will overcome my bad unhealthy habits/ patterns. In the name of Jesus, Amen

[@kyliajackson]

You got this!

[@ericafielder8134]

so true...mindless scrolling, procrastination is the thief

[@kyliajackson]

Absolutely!

[@Kingamii__]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 not one lie, the honest truth that we gotta start communicating to ourselves

[@kyliajackson]

Facts!

[@catherineamanda1034]

This is so true, it is the reason why I have always fallen off with my weight loss journey

[@eboneewebster1483]

"There"s really no in between" that really hit with such much conviction and revelation.. it's so crazy because I hit snooze 3x this morning but then I snapped out of it & threw the blankets off & immediately started praying to get my day going that is so ironic that I'm hearing this affirmation 🙏🏾

[@samitriagailliard]

I have been read & checked! Ouch! I always wanted true freedom and cycles to break. I was being lazy and lying to myself. I’m going on a fast for 30 days. Thank you. ❤

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure! Im so glad this was helpful!

[@anaisjohnson1880]

You don't understand how much i needed to here this The Most High brought me here PERIOD. 💪🙏😇🙌

[@kyliajackson]

So glad it was on time for you 🤍

[@melissascholfield1162]

Kylia….why are you allllll up in my business lol!!! Sis I thank God for you. I have been struggling lately and one day I was strolling through KZbin (which is a whole other story) but this particular day I’m glad I did because I came across your title of learning how to be still. Can I say it blessed me beyond words. Since then I’ve been looking at your topic titles and it’s like every one of them fits me. I have a problem with procrastination, and being busy and restless, the list goes on and on and I’m constantly seeking to be centered, not being still enough, in a rush all the time, choosing delay, and not being disciplined enough. Which was another video I listened to yesterday. I just want to thank you for letting God use you as a vessel to touch so many. It’s nobody but God that had you pop up on my feed because I was not looking for anything spiritual at that particular moment. I literally was just doing the same ole social media thing, which is wasting time and just strolling through but even in the things that we do that may not be the best God will send someone or give us a sign to pay attention. There is always a purpose for us. I know the reason for your channel is to touch people through the Word of God and if you ever wondering if you are touching anyone please know you have reached that lamb that was not where they belonged. I love God and truly live my life for him but the distraction and busiest and delay was starting to affect my walk in a serious way. I thank God again for speaking through you to help me and many others with this journey called life and most importantly our “Spiritual Walk”

[@Snoopersnooper_2]

I snoozed an alarm this morning and missed two prayer sessions, I was miserable the whole morning😭and didn’t do the rest of what I needed to do. I wish people could see how true what you are saying is 😭❤️

[@kyliajackson]

Of course! Im so glad it was helpful!

[@delisataylor9887]

This was sooooo absolutely TIMELY for me! Honey you gathered me all the way together, and I am so grateful. You surely drop some GODLY gems and I am ready to be a DOER as well as a HEARER! The best gift I can give myself outside of a relationship with the Lord is accountability to walk as He did! May God continue to bless your ministry and endeavors!

[@kyliajackson]

Amen! Thank you so much!

[@rikuuzauana]

Excuses can really get you off the path I can attest to that!! I started working out this year everyday at 5am but for the last month I have been so lazy and had unnecessary excuses. Thank you for your wisdom

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@tieshaj8305]

Please stop yelling at me😭 This conviction is a different type of heavy.

[@tineshaFranklin4]

Amen I’m here for this message ,Thank you for sharing

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@GrownGirlGlowUp]

These are all good reminders. Years ago I completely transformed my life with many of these small habits. Consistency mixed with a lot of faith = success 🎉

[@kyliajackson]

Amen!

[@shareewilliams6967]

On time message. Praise Yah! Thank you and Blessings and Shalom to you and your family.

[@demetrianapritchett]

Just found you randomly. Thank you for the pouring and I pray you are refilled until overflow happens in your life. Blessings!

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure sis!!

[@jami1295]

Thank you so much for this! You just don’t know what kind of fire this video just ignited in me. Grateful for stumbling across this channel ❤️

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad!

[@Zelmesha]

This is good! The heart is truly deceitful! We have to push and do the things even if we don’t feel like it!

[@kyliajackson]

Amen!

[@ItsJustHarlise]

Sisssss you spoke nothing but the TRUTH. Thank you for this. I know that I needed to hear this & probably everyone else that came across this video. God bless you 🙏🏽🩷

[@kyliajackson]

So glad it was helpful!

[@wakabiclaire6679]

Thank you. This is timely. I thank God for your life and ministry. Once again, thank you. God bless you.

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@ShanekaMarie]

This was so good and everything I needed to hear! Thankyou! 🤍

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad it was helpful! Of course!

[@mstea4325]

You did this content, Kylia! Very good! Proud, like I know you.....😊Thank you for letting him use you! God Bless you.

[@kyliajackson]

Thank you so much!

[@michellejohnson5872]

I really needed to hear this especially around the healing, fasting and praying

[@kyliajackson]

So grateful it was helpful!

[@thatgurlllll24]

Wow I needed to see this , because I'm currently going through this , thanks for allowing the Lord to use you for His glory sister❤

[@kyliajackson]

Amen! My pleasure sis!

[@keshiagarnett463]

I really needed to hear this. I have been struggling so much lately.Amen & Thank you

[@kyliajackson]

Hope you enjoy! ❤❤

[@carinacontreras1906]

This is so inspirational!!!Preach girl 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@LaurenWaller-eu2gq]

SOO thankful for the Lord putting you on my algorithm !!! I needed every part of this!

[@kyliajackson]

Aww so glad it was helpful!!

[@eboneewebster1483]

You are my virtual accountability partner sis 👏🏾

[@munachiso937]

Kylia, I heard God's admonishment on several fronts as I listened to this message especially. Thank you for your obedience. You challenge and inspire me all at once. May God bless and keep you. Amen!

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad!

[@Lex0328]

I really love how you break down stuff especially in the spiritual way ❤

[@kyliajackson]

Thanks so much!

[@SUZIEandIAMHIGHLYFAVORED]

Suzie stop sowing seeds of delay, if you don't want to reap delay! 😭

[@simphiwesambo2433]

Truth hurts so deeply 😢😢😢

[@benitaezeoke1568]

I subscribed immediately when I got 6 minutes into the video. Thank you Kylia. I can tell you for sure you are more than a blessing to me right now.

[@kyliajackson]

Welcome! Im so glad I could be helpful!

[@lahannah1224]

wow and another video where you are speaking directly to me. Because of this video I am going to get up and start my KZbin channel that God has been putting on my heart for years now.

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@astoldbymeek]

This came across my feed at just the right time. Convicting for sure but I needed it. Thank you

[@kyliajackson]

Of course!

[@InstantlyGlam]

This the second video I’ve watch this week about my daily activities that the Holy Spirit has snatched me blad 😂 the joy of the Lord is my strength I have a lot of work to do and I’m deeply humbled and receive this correction

[@lacharzeoncropper7275]

Amen I don’t lie to myself because I am hard on myself and too blunt I definitely need a new circle but the most important thing you said was stop entertaining others people lies

[@shaniquemorgan7057]

Sis.. listen.. Everytime I feel tempted to slack in a certain area of my life.. The Holy Spirits sends you my way 😅 I love it. Keep up the good work 👏🏾

[@kyliajackson]

Love that!

[@devyngreen4319]

You are speaking so much truth!!! God bless you girl

[@kyliajackson]

Thank you!

[@TaylorTarver]

Phew!! I needed this. I’m so glad God sent this video to my page, so that I could find you and receive this message. Thank you, sister!🙏🏽

[@kyliajackson]

Of course! Im so glad it was helpful!

[@annamachuene7648]

I’m glad I found your channel. So encouraging and inspiring. Especially when walking with God. Thank you🙏🏾

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it could be helpful!

[@sarap.3585]

Whew!! A word!! Thank you for your obedience to share this wisdom!! 🙌🏾

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@nellyblack9881]

I really needed this, the example you gave of food and going to the gym has been the issue I had to the point I have gained so much weight and procrastinate everything and it’s been causing delays. Watching this video has really put things into perspective! God bless you ❤

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@reformedyeah92]

Thankyou for the enlightening word. I am grateful.

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure! 🤍

[@danajamanley9451]

Subscribed immediately. You hit every nail. This year I have been struggling with discipline romantically, academically, and physically. I loved hearing your motivational words and would love to learn more!

[@kyliajackson]

Im so glad it was helpful!

[@NaturalBaeLocs]

Wow. I really needed this, it is confirmation that I need to fast.

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad it was helpful!

[@UniquelyHerz]

Thanks!

[@kyliajackson]

Thank you 🥰

[@ashleyblackberry8523]

This is my first time watching 👀you and I’m a fan 🥰 baby I needed to hear every single thing you said 😁!!!! God give us free will 🙌🏾 I will make better decisions !!!

[@kyliajackson]

Welcome to the channel!

[@samoniaparker]

Decision are a great big deal as an adult. I want and deserve better and I needed to come across this video. Ase

[@kyliajackson]

Absolutely! So glad it was helpful!

[@LovethroughAbby]

this ate me right up 😭 now I know I gotta tighten up 😢

[@strategizeme3791]

That was sobering and effective! This was great and on time. We can’t act like we didn’t know from listening to this message. Thank you!! ❤

[@kyliajackson]

Glad it was helpful!

[@bredejajohnson8802]

Girl you eat these messages down!!! So glad I found your channel ❤️

[@kyliajackson]

Thank you sis! So glad it was helpful!

[@IAmMickiel]

These are some great tips ❤ I have to utilize being silent and just pushing forward quietly!

[@Lizhamp44]

Just came across this and it has blessed me AND confirmed changes I need to make.. thank you for this video

[@kyliajackson]

My pleasure!

[@SUZIEandIAMHIGHLYFAVORED]

HEAL! 😮😮😮 And surrender to God!

[@eewusiwaa]

God bless you for this message. Continue to allow yourself be used by God Kylie

[@latanyamc.9199]

Yeah this hit home 🙂‍↕️ I needed to hear this, because I’ve been deceiving myself for so long and I know I should be doing better but I just keep saying “I’ll get it done later” and now it’s been a month…

[@ajwriter5699]

🗣️ Therapy year #16 here and you are absolutely correct! I continue to wail at God’s feet WHILE working with different therapists/social workers; because my life is always upside down in some way. I’d be dead if it weren’t for either one, Especially without God. Procrastination, disorganization, and delay have been reoccurring themes in my life over the past 40 years. Mental illness diagnosis and symptoms have wrecked HAVOC. Blah, blah, blah. I invest LOTS of energy into improving my behavior and overall personal growth. Heavy emphasis on LOTS because I actually have to be *more* intentional about this than the average person. Why? Let’s just say that ADD, PTSD and Anxiety/Panic are BEASTS to deal with. I can say that I am getting better, slowly, but surely. It’s just a slow And unpredictable process. Great steps, Ma’am!!👣Thank you. 😊

[@triceyXOXO]

Wow, your story is very similar to mine! Look into covenants and contracts with uncleaned spirits. Those are the generational curses that may need to be broken such as the spirit of infirmity, lust, etc. whatever negative patterns you see in your life and your personal life, you might have an unclean/demonic spirit that has legal spiritual authority to cause your life to continue to be upside down and to continue to cause delay. Fasting and prayer and verbally breaking the covenants is the answer. No matter how much you pray and go to God, if there are contracts that our ancestors or we ourselves have made knowingly and unknowingly from sin, witchcraft, etc, then the unclean spirits have legal authority over your life. I hope this helps!

[@CapriaTalks]

Thank you for this video. It’s confirmation and an answered prayer

[@kyliajackson]

Of course!

[@rhavenransaw8827]

God is really working through you!!

[@kyliajackson]

❤️

[@rosewilson4179]

This seems like this is just for me!😮 all I have to say is that the Holy Spirit is speaking to me through you 😮. I thank God for you!

[@kyliajackson]

Amen! Glory to God!

[@Claudia-lq3ns]

I so needed this today. It's a miracle you appeared in my feed. Thanl you, Coach K 🙏⭐️🌞

[@kyliajackson]

Of course! Im so glad it was helpful!

[@thadcroons518]

Thank you for this very timely word !! Blessings to You!! Shalom!!❤

[@audreyshakara6928]

Girl, I love you for this! God is using you in a mighty way, you have no idea how much I’ve needed this content & it’s right at the perfect. Thank you so much for being a faithful steward of the Lord and allowing yourself to be used by Him. Thank you for taking the steps you needed to be where you’re at now so that you can be in a position to speak on this and help others. I’m forever grateful 💝 Thank you Jesus for starting and continuing a good work inside this young woman of God🤍

[@kyliajackson]

Of course!

[@Veronica-t2e3r]

Thank you so much my love I needed to hear this, may God continue to bless you and your future endeavors ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@itssLaury]

my sister in Christ sent me this and woshhhhhhhh this was sooo good!!!! I needed to hear !!!!

[@kyliajackson]

I’m so glad it was helpful!

[@Thebeautifullifeofcam]

This is amazing!! I needed to hear every word you spoke.

[@chinajb5260]

I'm so glad a came across your page, I pray for a village to assist me to grow and baby you are apart if it. Keep it going, come to to Miami and let's so a ladies night with encouragement and etc.

[@aicatv7095]

This week been learning of decision making