How to Break the Toxic Patterns in Your Love Life (With Marie Forleo)

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@Aerie925 Жыл бұрын

Going for someone who isn’t necessarily your typ doesn’t have to mean going for someone that you don’t find physically attractive. Those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.

@annabanai8440 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think that’s what they were saying. It went more along the lines of someone might be very attractive, but not be your usual “type”, and to give people like that a go. 😊

@DianasArtAndCrafts Жыл бұрын

Magically.. somehow, Matthew always knows what topic needs to be addressed on which day. Its like he's a mind reader. 👀😂. And today, THAT was the one I needed to hear. Thanks for the video! 👏 💜

@chirokathleen Жыл бұрын

I’m currently dating someone who makes me feels calm, relaxed and “seen”. I am super attracted to him because he has the biggest heart I’ve experienced and I’m feeling that rush or surge of newness Marie mentions in the interview. My previous long term relationships have been toxic; I stayed too long, lost myself trying to make them happy and had my heart stomped on. 💔 After the last one, I spent time sitting w my feelings, meditating, journaling and switching my programming through a lot of soul searching and honesty. Self love was the answer for me and it’s now matched me up w someone I wouldn’t have been attracted to before who has a similar focus! 😍

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Жыл бұрын

congrats! I wish you two the best! ❤

@evanhiggins7298 Жыл бұрын

2 key things to take from this. 1. Feelings 2. Value.

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Жыл бұрын

❤

@szandraszilvassy9433 Жыл бұрын

OMG! I hardly ever comment, but Marie + Matthew = bliss point

@bellaleenat6096 Жыл бұрын

Brilliant and makes so much sense. Once you step into something where you’re appreciated and showed up for in so many ways❤, it’s a stark contrast to what you’ve put up with thinking it was right😢

@lauraz2896 Жыл бұрын

Great advice! I experienced this when I met my current BF a year ago. I think it’s also important to do the work to understand why you’ve pick the same type over and over. I worked on my attachment style. The result has been amazing! This has been my best relationship yet!

@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Жыл бұрын

congrats! you deserve this after doing the inner work! ❤❤

@v9b23j Жыл бұрын

While physical beauty may be the initial quality that attracts us to each other and is of primary importance for short-term mating, it is the most transient and perishable part of us as we age. Shared values, a similar mission and purpose, and psychological safety are qualities that keep us together in long-term relationships.

@jessicachan1849 Жыл бұрын

Honestly this is soooo helpful insight . When the blueprint is completely different and YET feeling more myself … crazy how the quality changes when you don’t go your usual “type”

@dlouise5680 5 ай бұрын

Great advice. Thank you both. I was never my best self in relationships until I broke out of my pattern.

@jessicachan1849 Жыл бұрын

Would LOVE to hear more conversation on how to rewire and vanilla and switch programming and COMMITTING to what feels more at home over physical attraction. How to prioritize this?? And stick to it? Love this conversation and can’t wait to hear more

@sunalighoghari Жыл бұрын

Could relate what she is saying word by word

@ellagadiparthi5679 Жыл бұрын

That was wonderful advice

@wholesomebybecky Жыл бұрын

Used to follow you a few years ago and just found out you have a podcast ....thank you for creating that, I'm super excited to tune in! Your advice helped me through some rough times :)

@catherinesimmons4574 Жыл бұрын

Really understood what she said 👏

@lapinchen964 Жыл бұрын

Two of my idols!!!! Love BOTH of YOU❤❤❤

@hiiiroobee Жыл бұрын

I am so glad I'm watching this right now. Was about to call one of those weedos.

@mariek4362 Жыл бұрын

All good, but so many say they have the same values (thinking highly of themselves) but, you find out after deep in, they are not true to their vision of their self.

@ArteWuwei Жыл бұрын

Hola! Mi última relación fue con un novio autista Inglés , para mi fue completamente diferente, culturalmente los latinos somos diferentes a los Ingleses. Fue un verdadero despertar espiritual, un auto descubrimiento ; descubrí que yo también era autista. En Latinoamerica existe un dicho : - Matrimonio y mortaja del cielo bajan. Y definitivamente creo que es así. Verdaderamente los requisitos para un hombre Norte Américano son completamente diferentes a un Latinoamericano, la religión, las culturas y filosofías de vida, como valores. Pero todavía se hablan de historias que duran toda la vida, como milagros es bonito escucharlas. Bendiciones 🦋🌼

@daliagrigonyte6872 Жыл бұрын

i have been attracted to people looking very different physically,y at least measuring by color, height numbers, body types and etc but yet it was still the same result. i always encounter someone im attracted to physically with whom things dont work out, or there is someone im not attracted at all, or someone im attracted but doesn't feel enough, regardless weather i give a chance or not, i don't feel like things are any different. anyway i feel like this comment is a bit maybe worthless because of the differences people hav in concepts expressed. anyway all in all it all feels super hopeless. it feels whatever amount of work i so on myself, whatever external techniques I try, it results in the same.

@nykiduffy133 Жыл бұрын

Super content 👏🏼‼️

@KimberleeApalategui Жыл бұрын

So good to know this

@Andreita483 Жыл бұрын

I love this video. So helpful

@ashleymartz6066 Жыл бұрын

I feel like I can only be myself with the same guys I pick over and over. I tried dating guys that arnt normally not part of my blue print and I never feel like I can be myself and tend to feel miserable. I even found guys who fit both are good for me and along the lines of what im looking for and I still feel empty. What is wrong with me?