What a wonderful message. We shouldn’t take any day for granted and learn to live each one as if we are on vacation and take it all in. I really appreciate you sharing your insight with the world Don. Can’t wait to see you at the next second Friday of the month!
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
Thank you Bill. This little insight is making such a big difference in my life. See you soon.
@chelseasavage5990Ай бұрын
Love this so much! It's refreshing to hear someone advocate for curiosity and openness in daily life.
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Thank you Chelsea!
@idanowser2 ай бұрын
I like the idea of challenging yourself to see things differently, and not just for the purpose of being more joyful but also to challenge our biases! I think it's so easy to get caught up in our own perspectives to the point where our perceptions are just feeding our confirmation bias. This seems like a great way to combat all of that
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
You are so right, Ida. Travel challenges our biases, and forces us to adjust to other cultures and norms as we move through their countries. So it is as we widen our peripheral vision locally and meet new people. A handful of core values is all we really need. There are many debates that just aren't that important in the grand scheme of things. Thanks for sharining your thoughts!!
@1BrownMatters12 ай бұрын
Love the idea of "tourist eyes" sort of reminds me of going into the city with my folks when I was young and everything felt so big and impressive
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Yes...through a child's eyes!
@surut78253 ай бұрын
Your message about 'tourist eyes' is such an important reminder to find beauty in the mundane, thank you
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Thank you!
@ellaantoinette2 ай бұрын
I think it's really easy to get caught up in how quickly everything moves and how tired we always are... it can make it really difficult to actually experience life as we're living it
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Yes! Rather than looking inward, better to look out and around. Thanks!
@aaronereid2 ай бұрын
I liked what he said about "leaping through the portal of your best vision of today" It's like choosing to see the potential in each day rather than just going through the motions. Definitely something I want to do more of
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Yes! There are so many portals to exciting places in every day that we choose to ignore, or just glance at and walk on past.
@shanteydevers2 ай бұрын
There's something so amazing about being in a new part of the world though! Like the air itself smells different... you can't replicate that feeling in a place that's routine
@thedeepfocus3 ай бұрын
I get where he's coming from, spending a whole year having all these amazing experiences and then coming home to a life where nothing has changed would feel so frustrating and certainly hard to readjust to.
@didiliuus4 ай бұрын
Great talk! Especially love the part that you describe the traveler’s blue upon returning home, the burning desire to talk about the trip to everyone I know and don’t know 😊
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Thank you Didi..!
@franhustard2 ай бұрын
Such wonderful lessons on curiosity and openness, even if you're not a world traveler. Thank you.
@DEdgarVideoАй бұрын
"Even if you're not a world traveler" - but you are! All of us are moving around on the surface of the planet. Traveling to other countries opens your eyes to different cultures, different people, different architecture, different landscapes. But you know what, there are so many different kinds of culture, people, architecture, and landscapes within the United States. We have a huge diverse country with no borders between states, and the government does not limit our movement around the country. This is an awesome freedom! Tell me, Fran, where have you traveled? I'd really like to hear about it. Have a wonderful day of exploration and joy!
@franhustard3 күн бұрын
@@DEdgarVideo what a lovely reply, thank you! You're absolutely right we are lucky to have so much culture and diversity right here and this makes me a little embarrassed to say I haven't really been much outside the upper mid west! I've been to Canada a couple times to see family and a few trips to New York and Washington but that's really it!
@coreykansasbell3 ай бұрын
I gotta say, I'm a bit envious of this guy's opportunity to travel the world for a year. but it's cool how he turned that experience into a philosophy for everyday life... maybe I can't globe-trot, but I can definitely try the tourist eyes thing!
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
Thank you Corey! Maybe travel creates a sort of experiential fingerprint that gives us each our one-of-a-kind perspective. You have covered completely different on the planet than I have. Oh, if only I could see what you've seen, my fellow traveler!
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
***you have covered completely different ground
@gemmaatterks6 күн бұрын
The idea of waking up each morning with expectancy, like packing for a trip to visit a best friend, is beautiful. Imagine if we all approached our days with that kind of enthusiasm!
@MichaelB.Morgan3 ай бұрын
Well done Don!
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
Thank you Mike! Means a lot!
@chancecormac3 ай бұрын
Needed this today, thanks Don!
@brynleecarter4 ай бұрын
Oh I loved this story and your journey/lessons learned really resonate with me! Especially the part about the invisible audience and not realizing how much you were doing it for them
@MBruno-ub5ko4 ай бұрын
"Tourist Eyes" is great way of describing how we need to slow down and really see what's in front of our eyes. I whole heartedly with you, Don. Very well done.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much!
@CreedMessiah4 ай бұрын
This was such an incredible story! The way you described your travels made me feel like I was right there with you. Thanks for reminding us to see the extraordinary in our everyday lives 🥳🥳
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for watching.
@aspennotcolorado4 ай бұрын
Wow, what an inspiring journey! I love how you turned a tragic event into an opportunity to explore the world. Your message about living every day with 'tourist eyes' is truly motivating.
@ximena6224 ай бұрын
Don's ideas to bring the joy of travel to everyday life have helped me so much especially when I start to get the urge to travel and can't afford it. That same excitement that those of us who have the travel bug get, I have had it just going to the farmer's market! And I love his honesty about his dreams. Don is the road warrior wether at home or in Morocco!
@thegreatemilianosantiago2 ай бұрын
I appreciate how he shared his struggles after returning home. It's not often we hear about the downsides of achieving our dreams.
@DONtalks-f7mАй бұрын
Thank you!
@kaydenjasmins2 ай бұрын
His idea of using "tourist eyes" in everyday situations is brilliant. I'm gonna try looking at my neighborhood with fresh curiosity tomorrow!
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you see this too, Kayden. This simple realization that I am actually traveling every day, moving around through the rich landscape of our planet, whether close to home or far away has made my life so much richer and more joyful! May it be the same for you.
@effierose53913 ай бұрын
Such a beautiful decision to honor the legacy of your aunt through travelling. I imagine it would have made your adventures that much more meaningful!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Yes! I keep saying, "Thank you Aunt Joy."
@joanguckel24 күн бұрын
I love how he turned a potentially depressing situation (coming back from an epic trip) into a whole new way of approaching life. that's some real emotional intelligence right there.
@woodychuck22 күн бұрын
I found the closing thought powerful - "It's not where you go that makes you a tourist, it's what you see." It's a great reminder that wonder and discovery are more about attitude than location
@mayaquinton4 ай бұрын
I love that his aunts name was Joy and the talk is the JOY of travelling 😭😭
@TheBestCuddleBug4 ай бұрын
I didn't even put that together!!! SO CUTE
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
She was definitely "The Joy of my Travels."
@therealmyytАй бұрын
The idea of Tourist eyes is a lovely way of appreciating where you are and everything your blessed with!
@jonahcuster23023 ай бұрын
"A false future propelled by the applause of an imaginary audience" is such a reality check and I know exactly what he means... sometimes when I'm doing something even though I'm enjoying the thing in itself I do think about the reactions of my friends and family and look forward to telling them, maybe sometimes in a way that's looking to fuel my ego more than actually sharing it with them
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
So true. Thanks Jonah!
@goodlife82784 ай бұрын
Great reminder of how we should all be living our lives!
@DEdgarVideoАй бұрын
All we have to do is open our eyes and walk around; it's such a beautiful world!
@scratchydemocracy4 ай бұрын
I am watching this from Krakow, Poland and I just realized that there would be no ticker parade when I get home. 😂 Good job. Love the concept. It strikes me as a variation on the theme of never losing your curiosity. Sometimes I learn new things about my neighborhood, like what it was like in the 1860s or where all the oldest buildings are and why they survived, and it really perks me up and makes my home so much more a part of the march of human history. Little things like that make daily life so much more stimulating.
@bobleih4 ай бұрын
Have so enjoyed developing our tourist eyes while traveling with you and Mimi, Don! Great talk!
@johnburgos77195 ай бұрын
Great job Don! I will certainly look at my surroundings with a different perspective.
@MyStrifeLife2 ай бұрын
This talk really opened my eyes to how I've been sleepwalking through life lately. Keen to take some of this advice, hopefully it'll help shake things up a bit.
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
I so happy to hear this! May your tourist eyes give you a wider view of the possibilities.
@lisavaughn79534 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I grew up in a military family and lived in Japan and Germany as a kid. I understand the travel bug, but unfortunately I haven't been able to travel internationally in years! One day I will fulfill my daughter and my own dream to go back to France!
@theLadyMuffin17 күн бұрын
His suggestion to surprise people with "an inreal life story" about your day is intriguing. It's a cool way to break out of the "same old, same old" mentality and really engage with your experiences.
@omarputal4 ай бұрын
Interesting talk! While I can’t relate to the extensive travel, the idea of seeing the everyday with fresh eyes is appealing. Maybe I’ll start with small local adventures.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Yes! Fresh eyes! Thank you.
@mangocantu53823 күн бұрын
Love it Don! Life should be approached with wonder and curiosity!
@GreenvilleDigital4 ай бұрын
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Wow Don that was phenomenally well done! Captivating stories and the way it unfolded and peaked around keeping “your tourist eyes”. Love it 💯 💯 💯 You are going to start a movement… Can’t wait to hear more! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@davidlecocq5235 ай бұрын
GREAT JOB!!
@jayreaves1578Ай бұрын
I think this really speaks to how personal growth doesn't always come from some huge event but just shifting our mindset and how we're thinking about everything
@emmaann42835 ай бұрын
You did such a great job papa! I am so proud of you for your big accomplishments Tex x is a very special thing to be able to do, A once and a life time opportunity and they picked you to do it you are a very special person I love you papa congratulations ❤️
@KathrynLathrop-gq6qp5 ай бұрын
I love this! Tourist eyes, love the term. Very encouraging talk. I’m planning my next drive to somewhere new!
@maryjeanpalmer2054 ай бұрын
❤Fabulous job Don!! Opening my eyes to new adventures & experiences always.
@acaciaproductions4 ай бұрын
Love this concept. It's a great way to scratch the itch to travel and appreciate what locations, moments, and people are before us!
@DreadCityAngel29 күн бұрын
The story about his Aunt Joy was touching. It's amazing how one person's generosity can lead to such life-changing experiences and makes me think about the impact we can have on others' lives.
@lecocqjeff5 ай бұрын
I can't wait to go to work tomorrow and look through my tourist eyes. Good job Don!!!!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jeff. Enjoy the view.
@TheBestCuddleBug4 ай бұрын
"I'm certainly not going to sit here and read your postcards." is SUCH a good response lol love it
@gabriellavaldez99475 ай бұрын
Don is my papa !! ❤I would love to open my eyes to travel !
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Gabby! Tourist Eyes!
@amagodatfortnite4 ай бұрын
I know exactly what he means by this like even just visiting other states I'm like "WOW EVERYTHING HERE IS SO GREAT" so to find something that talks about transferring that attitude to the everyday is actually so helpful
@Hollywood_ah3 ай бұрын
Flawless!
@colleensanden4 ай бұрын
Excellent talk! I think I’ll plan a few more daily discoveries into my schedule & our schedule with family & friends. Thank you!
@KarinGreenwood4 ай бұрын
Thank you Don for sharing your insight. As I watched and listened to your talk, I saw your resemblance in many ways to your mother Trudie Lamp. She would have greatly enjoyed your talk and have agreed with your suggestions for how to live a happier life.
@Cloud9-up8mn4 ай бұрын
You have a beautiful way with words. Perfectly expressed the “travel bug” and provided a salve for those times when it cannot be satiated😄
@DonRicedorff4 ай бұрын
We might be confined by our circumstances, but our brain is never confined in the same way. As Don points out, we are not limited to global travel to enjoy seeing and learning.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Yes! Thanks Don.
@musicshare60375 ай бұрын
Oh my fond friend "so oddly lost, so newly found", this was brilliant! I look forward to meeting in a cafe or something, where so many journeys we took in poetry were born
@SabrinaHendricks-el9wb4 ай бұрын
What a great story, Don! We can't all travel the world, but we can find all the same kind of soul satisfying connections right where we are! Wherever we are! I too am accepting the challange... My DIY operation is complete!
@harbingyr4 ай бұрын
What a vision for transforming the everyday litany of catastrophe, scandal and childish rhetoric. Joining a brave band of curious and enthusiastic adventurers traversing the journey of the predictable to see the novel, the personable and the unique. Inspiring, seductive and convincing-I’m in!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you! "Transforming the everyday..." Yes!
@jdbabwe4 ай бұрын
Don provides us with an insightful attitude adjustment strategy. Approaching everyday life with "tourist eyes" reinforces the value of optimism. I look forward to his next Tedx Talk!
@lorissarinehart59334 ай бұрын
What a fantastic message! Travel is such an amazing way to build both empathy and wonder. Thank you so much for this inspiring talk!
@raeflores-cb6nk4 ай бұрын
Such a simple and actionable perspective change, but so very profound!
@rhondanolan36544 ай бұрын
This was a wonderful TED talk Don, love the idea of looking through tourist eyes very inspirational.
@DEdgarVideoАй бұрын
Thank you Rhonda! Have you done any traveling lately--near or far? Tell about one trip you've taken. I'd like to hear about it. Have a great "trip" today, whatever you're doing, wherever you're going. (Fond memories of Idyllwild Arts Academy!)
@KirsiKilpelainen-ng7de4 ай бұрын
Wow Don! This is incredible. I very much enjoyed the overall message and your storytelling.
@marlabailey60454 ай бұрын
Wow Don! Amazing talk! And to think that you memorized all of that!!! The whole topic is fascinating and healthy. I love how honest you were about being "an angry, pouting toddler" when people were oblivious to the fabulous travels you had taken.. I'm remembering "Reverse Cultureshock" as a child returning to the U.S. The shock was similar. I also love how your story reveals how great my sister is for you😂...we were just talking about that!! You are good at writing your story and speaking it too. What makes this really fun is, this is who you are in a nutshell :) Keep telling your stories and i hope you write a book some day. With Mimi's memory to help you, you can do it!!
@bwzander4 ай бұрын
Excellent perspectives on travel. We have experienced 50 states, 7 provinces and Mexico in our travels, employing many of Don's concepts. Among the many values we have gained are the hundreds of stories we tell anyone who will listen gained from memories, photos and relics collected from practically every stop along the road. I will now call them testaments to the "peripheral vision" which Don explains so well. Your term "Tourist eyes" well defines the key to keeping each of the many stops fresh and exciting. Also, your delivery and active presence are added incentives to stay immersed in the TED Talk. We can't wait to get on the road again.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Enjoy!
@magnusseversonАй бұрын
The idea of treating each day like a mini-adventure is quite appealing... I've been feeling stuck in a rut lately, and this approach could be just what I need. Thank you.
@raeflores-nr1ge4 ай бұрын
Fabulous talk!! I absolutely love this idea. Simple and so actionable. Tourist eyes all the time!!
@maymaylui3rd4 ай бұрын
Loved the concept of "tourist eyes" will definitely try to incorporate it into my daily routine
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Excellent! Thank you.
@AlanCrandall5 ай бұрын
Way to go, Don! I'll be trying out the tourist eyes. "It's not where you go but what you see!"
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Yes, new sight!
@LifeSculptors5 ай бұрын
You have such a gift of painting pictures with your words. I have accepted your challenge. My eyes are open Don! Dante Poole
@bulldogggg4 ай бұрын
What struck me most was your transition from a grand adventure to finding joy in the everyday. I think that really speaks to the idea that fulfillment comes from perspective, not circumstance
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you Bulldogggg!
@bulldogggg3 ай бұрын
@@DEdgarVideo 🙌🙌
@BlingHiveАй бұрын
Travel is not just about the destination, it's how we perceive our experiences... if we can bring that excitement and feelings of newness to our everyday I can see how that would really benefit our mental health as well as our perspectives!
@iamtherealyesmanАй бұрын
Yes. This is the kind of attitude we should take with us wherever we go
@thePositiveMOM5 ай бұрын
This is such a powerful philosophy to discover ourselves, each other, and the world. A timely message for all.
@georgedubois31764 ай бұрын
I'll try to focus on looking at life through those tourist eyes you espouse. There's a lot to wonder about all around.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Yes! Thank you George.
@RickRawson-ee1fk4 ай бұрын
Great Talk! Very inspirational!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
When I learned you were the CEO of LLUMC-Murrieta, I went there and applied for work. Your lifelong high-principled leadership has made a huge impact in healthcare in California...and in my life personally. Thank you Rick!
@sandralewandowski2 ай бұрын
Wow, 73 countries in one year? That's intense! I wonder if he really got to experience each place fully though.
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
You are so right to ask this question, Sandra. And the answer is definitely, "No, I didn't." It's actually *not* a small world after all. I only got the once-around broad sweep of it.
@mikehweaver4 ай бұрын
The way you dealt with your restlessness and turned it into a whole philosophy is pretty incredible. Also a reminder that often our biggest changes come from within, not some external adventure
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you Mike!
@le.62754 ай бұрын
I like your perspective, Don. Very true there is so much around us in our daily lives that we may ignore just waiting for our next big adventure abroad. I will recommend this vid to others.
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for passing this on to others!
@Lisapiano14 ай бұрын
Awesome, Don! What a great talk! I'm so proud of you! I remember back in high school how you'd talk about traveling the world and maybe even sail around the world! I'm so happy you got to experience this dream and love all the lessons you've learned since then! The idea of "tourist eyes" is so simple, but we Americans are usually too busy to stop and really "see" things around us that bring joy! Thanks for sharing your ideas! It was inspiring!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Fond memories! Thank you.
@lizdickinson14124 ай бұрын
❤I am inspired! My husband and I have traveled extensively and always seek to embrace the cultures of our destinations. Now, we will experience the joy of travel in a new light. This colorful talk is not just about international travel, it’s about the joy and vision of everyday life! Thanks for opening our hours to new sights!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you Liz! You inspired me as a young healthcare leader back in the day. For my words to have inpired *you* is the best compliment, a such an honor.
@CamouflageAngelАй бұрын
It's about being present and appreciating the little things.
@ironmercMike17 күн бұрын
his point about peripheral vision in football as a metaphor for seeing alternative paths in life was clever. It reminds me to not get too fixated on one way of doing things.
@andrewleeson28224 ай бұрын
Excellent advice!
@DEdgarVideo3 ай бұрын
Thank you Andrew!
@norapharper2 ай бұрын
The four themes he outlined seem like a solid framework for personal growth. Keen to see how I can apply them in my life
@1LilyThingsАй бұрын
I totally get what he's saying. I've lived in the same city my whole life and it wasn't until my mid 20's when I met a guy from overseas and took him to all the "tourist spots" that I was like, damn this is actually such a beautiful place lol
@makiweshterАй бұрын
This brought back memories of my own travels and how it shaped my view of the world. It's a nice time to think about, thank you.
@carljanicekАй бұрын
Easy to get caught up in the day to day. With a little mental effort this concept could make wherever you are exciting.
@milyfetymeАй бұрын
Wish I could travel the world for a year.... must have been nice
@sylzoor418316 күн бұрын
Very cool perspectives, thank you!
@lisa-lio26 күн бұрын
The talk has made me rethink how I use my phone... like maybe I need to spend less time scrolling and more time really looking at the world around me. I'm going to try leaving my phone in my pocket more often.
@carstenberns7104Ай бұрын
I found it interesting how he turned his disappointment about the cancelled Antarctica trip into a new life philosophy. It's a great example of how to make lemonade when life gives you lemons!
@iamcomediam13 күн бұрын
I think true happiness is finding joy in the mundane. A tree on ones street, a fart from a loved one.
@lakylewashington16 күн бұрын
It's a challenge to apply this to daily life. Spending the commute dreading work. Copping hate from your girl for not replying all day on the way home.
@oo_eddie_oo42043 ай бұрын
I appreciate what he's getting at but let's be real no one's taking a different way to work every day
@sarahyjames2 ай бұрын
I'm skeptical about how sustainable this "tourist eyes" approach is long-term. Won't the novelty wear off eventually?
@hughshotton892012 күн бұрын
Would highly recommend getting a working visa if you're under 30. You can immerse yourself in a foreign culture and foster a gratefulness for your own.
@PixelProwler123Ай бұрын
Very nice
@jacobtosh8 күн бұрын
A well trained mind can travel the world and beyond from their zafu cushion.
@Cheyenne19893 ай бұрын
this is good advice but I'm not sure how realistic it is for most people
@DEdgarVideo2 ай бұрын
Thank you Cheyenne. I'd like to hear more about this. How could the idea of tourist eyes and peripheral vision be presented in a more realistic way? How could I do that better?
@moneymaker3243 сағат бұрын
Don't need to travel. A little bit of set up with govt payments (real life vc glitch) + high speed internet and we golden.
@gabehileski2 ай бұрын
What he says around the 12:28 mark is pretty damn poignant