How to Build Unshakable Trust in Relationships

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@ItsChristineTV Ай бұрын

I feel that trust is built when a vulnerability is presented and your partner chooses to protect you over all the other options. Building trust happens over time with small things that progress to bigger things.

@amysinger2201 Ай бұрын

can you talk about 'good enough honesty'? I have trauma, so honesty is a big one for me and lying, even little lies, are massive triggers for me. But, everybody lies on occasion, myself included.... how do you build trust while making space for the fact that sometimes, people lie. maybe they just want privacy, maybe they don't want to hurt your feelings, etc. but how do you assess and discern a 'safe' amount of dishonesty from a red flag level?

@Fahrenheit4051 Ай бұрын

Just say "coffee shop" to begin with. If you're telling fibs without a motive, that's called pathological lying.

@haibella34 Ай бұрын

@@Fahrenheit4051 I MEANT TO SAY COFFEE SHOP BUT IT CAME OUT BAR YOU NEVER ACCIDENTALLY misspeak??? Idiot missed my whole damn point

@thefictionxwelive Ай бұрын

Dishonesty is earth shattering for me. I’m curious about advice on this too.

@Victory_to_Ukr Ай бұрын

Very good question

@kaizenborntowin Ай бұрын

Thank you!

@Sommyie Ай бұрын

The audio sounds really weird. Like low bit rate or something.

@sherececocco Ай бұрын

You "can't " I don't know what I don't know 😕 Nietzsche said "can't is a scarecrow " I say I Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference. And forgave myself for I knew not what I was doing. ❤

@jcbailey1578 Ай бұрын

How do you trust someone who keeps running back to his ex wife and she enables his lies? How do you create a healthy relationship with someone who is being influenced by their children and ex?

@floand12345 Ай бұрын

You don’t! Move on, stop wasting your time. This is not someone who wants YOU

@geemail369 Ай бұрын

You just don't. They need to grow tf up, leave tbe victim mindset behind and take responsibility for their actions. Otherwise you'll be just their doormat.

@Rocky_ridesxz Ай бұрын

You Don’t. Change Must Happen

@Rocky_ridesxz Ай бұрын

Change Can Happen

@floand12345 Ай бұрын

Uuuuhh… this has to do with someone being dependable, not trust worthy…

@juliedelling8723 Ай бұрын

I think she’s saying these examples of dependability are building blocks that help create trust

@jackdeniston6150 Ай бұрын

What do you consider trustworthy?

@brennancard9806 Ай бұрын

Can’t trust someone you can’t depend on. You build trust by being consistent and following through, and also verbalizing when you can’t follow through.