how to celebrate pride month when you're in the closet

[@MsDickerz]

If you’re still in the closet, what are some ways you celebrate pride month? ❤️❤️❤️

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

Make tiktoks. And then every time meh parents come in meh room stop recording, jump on mah bed and pretend to be chilling ahah.. And listen to girl in red, Hayley Kiyoko and P!ATD💖💛💙Love ya Dutchy (Also Dutchy fam discord server for yall!! come join and chat!! discord.gg/YVj5vV )

[@itz_kp12roblox35]

Dutchy I’m in love with my best friend

[@morgrugyn]

I have this thing with my friends, we call it Wearing The Rainbow, where we wear a different colour of the rainbow every day.

[@teenmutantsstikbots2459]

Dutchy I’m 11 but my mum thinks my age is too young to be in the lgbtq+ she doesn’t know I’m gay, what do I do? 😰 also I lov ur super gay content :D

[@itz_kp12roblox35]

SushiNoodlez Plays Just remember you ARE valid no matter what, if you feel like you need to do anything about it you might consider talking to your parents if not then that’s fine, I hope everything goes well when you come out I have not came out yet either good luck and remember you are valid in your sexuality. Happy pride 😊

[@h.5361]

Ah yes...The trusty ol’ closet. It hasn’t let me down once.

[@sophiehopkins1955]

MOOODDD

[@pearlyfindlay4117]

felt i'm never leaving

[@raffy4559]

It is quite cosy tbh

[@kyronmarshall3792]

Never has, never will

[@crowrose7032]

Mine has let me down :( i got outed

[@killjoytw1nk]

If you're in a foreign household, and your parents don't understand English very well, you can sing Hayley Kiyoko or Girl in Red out loud. They won't pay attention to the lyrics 🏳️‍🌈❤️🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@thefunnyman8073]

You're a genius!

[@katem6278]

@@thefunnyman8073 I agree lol

[@bandanasingh6034]

Yes but my siblings will get it

[@camillebrt7437]

Yesss I do that everyday and it's funny because the lyrics are very obvious 😂🔥

[@killjoytw1nk]

@@thefunnyman8073 Thank youuu 😂❤️

[@thefunnyman8073]

im not sure if im gay, bi, or pan, or if im in the closet, ca-bi-net, or pantry. so i guess im in the wardrobe.

[@elizabethfindlay8118]

😂 same

[@ariram407]

So poetic

[@hollieheginbottom7492]

🤣same😂

[@hellokittiesleftovary]

youre in a container

[@IAMAGIRLNOTAGUY]

Im in the shed

[@welcomeg5533]

I just have to say one thing... THEIR SO PRETTY, IT HURTS🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@Zanderren]

Welcome Gilbert yes 👏🏻 I AM NOT TAKING ABOUT BOYS I TAKING ABOUT GIRLS 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@holyshinx6391]

@@Zanderren THEY'RE SO PRETTY IN THEIR BUTTON UP SHIRTS 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@Zanderren]

Disappointment Salad yeh

[@elizabethfindlay8118]

I'm not talking about boys I'm talking about girls

[@expertfrenchtoast3480]

AHH OOOOOOOOO

[@gabbyf4281]

Can we all just appreciate how wonderful of a person Megan is

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg. Preach 🙏🏽❤

[@bizagugu]

She is our mom and Jessie is our dad😊

[@Zanderren]

Definition… Sit in bed and rewind the kissing scenes between girls with any comfort food bonus points if you’re crying while doing so Tip: all of the lesbians on KZbin have compiled all of the kissing scenes for you … You’re welcome 😉❤️

[@fr0gc00ch9]

Thank you😌

[@Zanderren]

Emmy Toast :3 no problem 😉❤️❤️😂

[@thedailyshaver1171]

Thats hot

[@Zanderren]

The Daily Shave! I do it all the time❤️❤️😅

[@AleesatheIsraeli]

Thanks for calling me cute I 😳 btw...your straight forward 👍. Don't mind your bi...

[@effiehughes5353]

Me: sees this video title. Messages friends: *omg dutchy made a video about me.*

[@skutela32]

I might actually do that to come out lol

[@effiehughes5353]

Let me know how it goes if you do ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@lovemelikeits-vf2kf]

This is so true I’m in the closet 😓😂

[@Algo1]

well, guessing it no longer applies, but you have plenty of content that does now that you're out, big congrats lol

[@_heyimava]

Can I use this to come out? Please...

[@Star-ou5gq]

I just wear rainbow eyeshadow and have a pride necklace. I tell my parents 'I just like the colors.' And they ACTUALLY BELIEVE ME

[@holyshinx6391]

I have a rainbow background on my phonw, rainbow bracelets, I wear rainbow clothes and my mom still doesn't catch on haha

[@thefunnyman8073]

not gonna work for me, im a cis dude...

[@Star-ou5gq]

@@holyshinx6391 lol

[@Star-ou5gq]

@@thefunnyman8073 oh

[@ashie_4487]

I wore colorful clothes along with a rainbow necklace and my parents didn't even question it!

[@nynke2165]

when you came out to your parents three days before pride month >>> and for those who aren’t out yet, you can do this. it took me 6 months before actually getting the braveness to come out. you’re still valid 🤍

[@captainshroomy1690]

It's been three years since I realized that I was pansexual and Ive only came out to 3 friends

[@captainshroomy1690]

Update: I have come out to pretty much all of my friends and 1 of my cousins. They all accept me for who I am and I couldn't be happier

[@nynke2165]

@@captainshroomy1690 i didnt see your other comment back in 2020 but i wanna say: im so proud of you 💕

[@captainshroomy1690]

@@nynke2165 thank you❤️

[@addiefausey3196]

i came out to my family as bisexual on the 7th of this month. i’m happy i did. it was just very stressful. i don’t think i would have been able to do it without watching you. you’ve made a huge impact on my life 💜

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg congrats 😊 I know I don't know you but I'm so happy for you ❤🏳️‍🌈

[@user-ec3pi7wx3r]

Schitts Creek, The Miseducation Of Cameron Post and Everything Sucks! Are so underrated! Glad you mentioned them :)

[@kore2568]

Me just casually waiting for this to premiere in 34 hours so I can show it to my friend: 👁👄👁

[@Star-ou5gq]

So my dad let me get a pride flag today and he didnt question me. I havent told him I'm a lesbian. Also Dutchy I LOVE YOU I forgot to update this but I'm fully out and hes cool with it!

[@Y33r4l]

He probably knows and he just wants to make sure your comfortable with telling him

[@itsantoniaaa9200]

I wish I could order an omnisexual flag… qwq

[@meghan_.]

I’m like kinda out of the closet, but I wish I could take that back because now my parents know and they are homophobic.

[@notmine1383]

Meghan Yeah same, except that they ignore my pronouns and nickname. And their not homophobic, at least they say it. They just complain “It’s to hard!”. I wished I was still closeted, so they’ll at least have an excuse

[@samanthapatrick4345]

Oh my goodness I'm really sorry sending hugs and love your way 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗💗💗💗💗💗💗🌈🏳️‍🌈☮️🌠

[@deIcorazon]

i love you and i'm so sorry to hear that. i'm still in the closet because of the same reason and it sucks. hate to know i can't do anything to help but i'm here if you ever need anyone to talk to or anything at all. always remember you're amazing the way you are

[@agnessfox9983]

I hope you're doing well now. sending love to you 💖💖❤️❤️💜

[@victoriaironside7783]

Same, only my dad dont now i wish i could be back in the closet

[@obrany_migdal]

CAN'T WAIT! I'm safely in the closet rn TwT

[@onyxsnowflake5696]

Im going to dance weirdly to LGBT songs with headphones in

[@unicorntomboy9736]

I just listen to Hayley Williams/Paramore, and old 2000s rock music.

[@unicorntomboy9736]

As well as Breaking Benjamin

[@stateofgrace17]

I play girl in red while looking at gay memes on insta lol

[@manharshitkaur3091]

Hahaha meee toooo!!!!

[@Y33r4l]

I do that 24/7

[@eleanor8196]

“If you wear doc Martins no ones gonna see your pride socks” Girl, if you’re wearing doc martins, you‘ve just come out.

[@bookofthesun]

I’m very scared to tell people I’m bi, but the one person I will come out to when I’m confident enough is my lesbian friend who probably knows I’m bisexual. Lol

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg im bi as well, and yeah it's really scary to come out, but the people who love you will stay. And if someone doesn't, that's their fault for losing one of the most amazing people their life. It's their loss, not yours ❤

[@katherinewarnaka197]

I’m in like the exact same situation I have a lesbian friend who will probably be the first I tell and she KNOWS lmao

[@bookofthesun]

@Violet Eadington thanks for the advice ! But I’m actually unlabeled now ! I told my lesbian friend back in November , and we dated in December ! I was lesbian then , but now I’m trans and unlabeled , we’re not exactly friends anymore.

[@emilyhill6971]

61 likes 0 dislikes... Perfection

[@jj-or7th]

Emily Hill THERES 1 now

[@jazzybeanss]

So I’m sitting here. 19 HOURS TILL THE PREMIERE. And there’s already a dislike SOMEONES either homophobic or has post notifs on Edit: they took it back I called them out lol

[@Rachelpryor26]

They could be a bot. I'm not sure though

[@kiosushanify]

There are no dislikes so I guess whoever disliked before came to their senses

[@elizabethfindlay8118]

They must have took it back

[@carlamitce443]

Dutchy! You won’t notice me but thanks for the great content! I’m out of the closet but you helped me a lot when I wasn’t

[@sallypitt1099]

So im not out to my dad, and I have a bi flag as my lock screen. And when my dad saw it he was like "that's a nice pink background you have" and cuz my favourite colour is pink, so he thinks that it's just a background with pink blue and purple stripes :| fml

[@1940semochild]

Relatable. I have one but its pastel colored so its lighter. My mom doesn't know this flag but if I had a rainbow,she would probably get suspicious.

[@megssevern608]

Hi dutchy. I loved this vidio I was wondering if you could ever do a vid like the coming out stories and stuff but from KZbin comments. That way the people who dont have other social media can still take part.

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg :0 dutchy please do this 🏳️‍🌈

[@fr0gc00ch9]

I desperately needed this video, thank you so much 💗

[@thathorsegirl5088]

I still live with my parents, so buying Pride stuff is a no, but making subtle pride stickers isn’t off the table. There’s a ton of cool designs for whatever you identify as. I found some super cool dragon designs for most of the more common identities. The rainbow design is a little harder to get away with, but my mom noticed an AroAce sword and flower sticker on my water bottle and said it was pretty.

[@catarinaclemente3416]

i really need this video in my life!!!

[@Raelni]

A dislike when it’s not even started 😒😞

[@bi_saster]

i sorted the books in my bookshelf in rainbow order :) nothing too special, but still makes me happy every time I look at it!

[@sophieshutyourgob4778]

I've been hoping for a video like this! Thanks Dutchy, you never let me down 🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@alice-ij7fu]

Thank u so much for this video, Dutchy! I've been feeling sad lately bc my family is v homophobic, but some ways I celebrate pride month are that I wear rainbow badges (they're totally oblivious lol) and listen to Rina Sawayama! She's an amazing pansexual singer that is Japanese, and also has homophobic parents, so I relate a lot. And of course, your videos have helped me a lot

[@HelloWorld-qn2sw]

So, here I am, now watching these videos of yours from out of the damn closet for quite a long time now. I perfectly remember when I watched them while being closeted and then I felt like I could never possibly tell anyone in my life. Later, a told like... three good friends? The first reaction was beautiful and thinking about it always makes me happy. Other two were just ok. So, in high school I met some LGBT people right at my first day and we immediately became friends. From the beginning I acted as I was out of the closet next to them, and few other friends in our group. I also told the rest of people around me. As it turned out, all of the reactions were positive, even when I didn't expected it. It made me so confident I even told my parents (which was always unimaginable to me), and I was basically confident enough to admit it to anyone who would ask or just to mention it in casual conversation when it comes to the topics in which it is relevant. I started attending to pride and being very gay at my daily basics. It is great now and I have no clue how all of these could happen. Although it's not perfect. There are still some individuals I am kinda scared fo tell. I guess there always would be. But for now, I have the support of my friends and family, and that's enough. If someone else would find out and be mad about that, I don't care as much.

[@prideforever5201]

The other day I saw someone's house that had a pride flag above there door, and it just mad me feel so happy and valid. You know?

[@cameronfacchin-young517]

Was this video made for me or was it MADE for me?! Love you Dutchy 💕

[@GwishinSong]

dutchy: "closeted to your family but out to your friends" bro you just... completely explained my situation. thank you so much for this. i've been kinda scared to try to do stuff since i'm stuck at home with my family but i'm glad i have some ideas

[@onebigmood9632]

I have only told my friends and my sister who came out to me as asexual that I’m gay and I have homophobic parents. This helped me a lot. I just wanted to just thank you for making this!

[@adat5933]

PREMIERES IN 29 HOURS??! *sits and waits*

[@bbblogs3028]

I just came out to my dad as bisexual and he said it was just a phase

[@bubba283]

That's why I've never said much on that to anyone

[@kiosushanify]

I though being a boomer was one too, guess we're both wrong Lmao I would say this if that was my dad

[@sallypitt1099]

Yeah but It isn't

[@lilybronson5881]

Yess! I have watched so many videos like this lately! P.s. ilysm Dutchy ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜

[@hannahschuh4840]

I'm bi and have come out to my friends but not my family. If you're looking for an LGBTQ+ show to watch, I would recommend "Love, Victor". It was recently released to Hulu and it helped me deal with some the emotions I was experiencing during Pride Month, as well as give me more courage to be who I am. :)

[@nicksgotbored2450]

I'm out of the closet, i just love your vids 😂💕

[@r0t_g0b1in]

Thank you - I really needed this video 😌💕

[@SOPHIEELORD]

Also BLUE IS THE WARMEST COLOUR for movies. It’s my fave 💙

[@langa2903]

Congrats on nearly 90K!!! Love you Dutchy🏳️‍🌈❤

[@chilicheese1057]

And yea she’s always there ore watches with me : She-ra , Dead End , Steven Univers and 🤩The Owl House🤩 and Co. 🏳️‍🌈

[@straykidsforlife8217]

I’m not in the closet, I’m in the caBInet

[@ridanazeeh8187]

Hi stay 😫

[@Tiedye6336]

I really enjoyed one day at a time when I was watching it!

[@lioxflemming2694]

I'm so Happy, you mentioned glee omg I luv it so much

[@robertp181]

Happy Pride everyone! I’ve got your back regardless if you are out or not. 🏳️‍🌈💖💜💙

[@carlamitce443]

Yayyy! Caught a premiere!

[@berryjunmill9029]

I've been thinking about reading some LGBTQ books to celebrate I need some recommendations tho

[@samanthapatrick4345]

There's one I've read recently it's called the skin I'm in by Jenny Wood it was actually really good I have it on my Kindle app but I ordered the paperback book as well it's a really good book

[@1940semochild]

Try The Price of Salt. Its a classic. Written in the 1950s by Patricia Highsmith. Was turned into a movie called Carol which is on Netflix.

[@anikacredico1897]

Notif squad! Awesome video!

[@adelynbee8177]

Yass I need this so bad lol

[@faithdoesmakeup5007]

I need this video so bad

[@Zanderren]

Peachy Gay yes I’m creeping out open the closet I’m not sure😂❤️

[@weird.lil.pan.on.the.inter9399]

Same, bro

[@ellielouisecook8656]

Dutchy has helped me so much in coming to terms with my sexuality and excepting myself. I’ve always been attracted to girls but I just thought I liked them as friends, I kept telling myself that I was straight and to be honest I don’t think I am. I would love to come out to my family but they don’t like that I dress alternative so I can’t imagine what coming out to them would be like. But I am now out to a few of my close friends as BiCurious. I hope Dutchy sees this comment and my little way of saying thank you to her. 💖💖🏳️‍🌈

[@ilenawaterschoot6911]

oeeeeh excited for this one!!!!!

[@cameronwarmerdam4251]

Just found out my dad is transphobic (I'm nb) so that's how my life is going now Fun times am I right

[@hiworldiexist]

Earlier I was making a birthday card with some markers and I accidentally got my pride flag on my hand! 💖💛💙 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@prideforever5201]

Ah! The closet. I'm in it right now

[@zoesashajackson6543]

LOL me too

[@jailanmohamed8938]

Yes this is perfect im way to scared to come out so I can't wait yo find out how to celebrate

[@husnajalil2665]

I think there's no way to come out to my family, yet I'm still proudly a pansexual. Love you guys. ;)

[@ryanleering8726]

I was in the closet 3 days ago if u want to know the whole dramatic story check your insta dms please

[@Y33r4l]

I’m out but I still wanna do this

[@Luna11280]

I feel like I'm almost ready to come out

[@SOPHIEELORD]

Only just came out so I relate to this so much 😂❤️ Thank you Dutchy!

[@bubba283]

I wish I knew how

[@debbiedinnoo8992]

Remember this...the closet is for clothes not love🏳️‍🌈

[@brettcarruthers8838]

Great Pride content :)

[@FacelessGossiping]

Such a good video. To celebrate pride while in the closet I go outside in my front yard and I draw loads of rainbows and different flags of lgbtq+ and when my parents ask why I just say that I am trying to find good colour combinations lol happy pride 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈 I draw the flags on the floor with chalk

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg that's so smart :O I wanna do that now 😂🏳️‍🌈

[@NickLynn]

Dead to Me also has LGBTQ+ representation and let me tell you- it is my favourite show to ever exist. It is SO SO SO good

[@itz_kp12roblox35]

Dutchy how do I give hints that I like my best friend as she said she liked me as a sister but she never said anything about liking me differently it would mean the world if you or somebody gave me some advice 🥰🥺❤️

[@sallypitt1099]

1: Does she know you liked girls? 2: mabye of you got onto a topic of like what ur "type" is in people, you could describe some of her characteristics. Hair, eyes, style, etc

[@itz_kp12roblox35]

Nonnie Pink ty 💗

[@jaxondrawss]

What i do is making pins and stuff out of foam or plastic from my 3d pen

[@agnessfox9983]

This video really helped me. I live in Poland and now there are many scary things happening here. Please pray for Poland 🇵🇱 😣💔

[@Ok-wb4du]

I'm watching a BUNCH of pride movies for pride month uVu

[@edge2608]

I have come out as bi to my friends but still closeted to my family I had the idea that I’m going to colour MINI version of the bi flag on my fingers and wait till they notice 😀

[@chilicheese1057]

I just don’t know how to come out, because I’m a little young and my mom is like 10% Homophobic ! But well she will probably understand and not really care to much ! 😅❤😅

[@loganmacgyver2625]

i can blast t.a.t.u at home without my parents thinking anything. my mom thinks malchik-gey is just a girl singing about a guy (normal teen girl stuff i guess) so she doesnt think anyyyythingg at all (i know they been in some shit on russian TV a few years ago but idk, their songs are still catchy)

[@artistikgaming2619]

My closet door seems to be locked-

[@omgkween1428]

OK IM SORRY HOW TF ARE MOST COMMENTS FROM A DAY AGO WHEN THE VIDEO HAS CAME OUT 15 minutes ago

[@husnajalil2665]

The notification come out 29 hours before the video is premiered

[@areligiouseducation6639]

I'm a trans girl in the process of coming out and I celebrated pride by buying thigh-high socks in trans pride colors and going to BLM protests. I've also bought new makeup and tried new things with it. I tried a Euphoria inspired look the other day and was very happy with it. Also, last Monday marked 6 months on hrt for me. My chosen name is Skye and my pronouns are she/her.

[@rawlikar0016]

I loveeeeee love Simon. I watched it behind my family's back. V good movie

[@neaharviainen9691]

BOOKSMART IS MY FAV MOVIE OF ALL TIME

[@Maya-re7im]

We have a pride flag in our garage so I’m asking if I can move it to my room

[@kisskiss6866]

Can we just stop for a moment and DUTCHY I LOVE THE WAY YOU WEAR THAT SHIRT it just makes me more gay lol 😍❤️😅

[@sallypitt1099]

Omg. yes

[@ariellasnyder6272]

Thank u so much this is amazing

[@Sam-xx6hq]

I'm sooo happy I just came out last week and my mom is kind of sick of me talking about it a lot but it's fine ok love you dutchyyy

[@fazelehzmn7018]

How to celebrate pride in an extremly homophobic country?😑

[@sallypitt1099]

Dutchy. This is your next video This is not a request This is a demand Make a video like this To help people in homophobic country's Please 🏳️‍🌈

[@kylahwooley5772]

Yes do it next

[@rachelwolf1731]

Move.

[@DragonFire167-x5j]

So I have a Dutch family and I'm part of the Dutchy family. Sweet.

[@Jasmine-eh6cp]

I finally achieved knowing my sexuality

[@stardropboy]

Sorry. I’m so far in the closet I’ll reach Narnia soon.

[@scottperkins5038]

I plan on coming out tomorrow before my last lecture as a university student and I'm terrified.

[@Notmelol.]

So I watched the show called "everything sucks" and OMG. I now know I'm definately bi😂

[@littlechan2477]

Thank you so much 💕💜

[@M_56612]

I accidentally came out to my sister yesterday by buying a pride hoodie online when she was next to me and she didn’t even question it, she even helped me find a cool one ☺️

[@addition6302]

You should watch alex strangelove its a really good movie

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

Don't mind me *sits in closet* , I'm just chilling.. 😅 haha Hope yall stay safe And also *they're so pretty it HURTS* Also I made a Dutchy Fam discord server for everyone and would love if yall (and the queen Dutchy if she sees this) could join!! ⬇️ discord.gg/kA44aH Love yall!! 💖💛💙 Edit: Holy shi- I've just checked the server and I think dutchy's joined!!

[@n1kita.jpg_]

I loved this video tysm

[@Ashro_j]

Jessica Kellgren-Fozard. Check her out!

[@bandanasingh6034]

I am in closet only super open at youtube so videos like yours helps alot, thank you 🤗

[@bubba283]

Me too, watch guy's on here just hiding it from my mother is hardest part

[@mariamendez6741]

DUTCHY YOURE MY SECOND....GAY MOM! :D I LOVE YOU

[@harryjamessmithmusic7762]

Great video!