how to HINT that YOU'RE GAY

how to hint that you're gay
Hey Dutchy fam!! In today's video I decided to get your suggestions on how to HINT at being gay or LGBTQ+! some of these were super creative and could have come in handy before coming out myself hehe! As always, love you all sooo much and can't wait to chat in the comments xxxxx
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[@friendofstars]

*Kiss someone of the opposite sex and say "no hetero"*

[@lemons2406]

Lol

[@jxderin]

if ur a coffee HATER & ur lesbian: i like my men how i like my coffee, i dont like coffee XD

[@davidwhitaker836]

Okay

[@unicorntomboy9736]

I love coffee. It always helps me in the mornings 😉

[@jxderin]

@@unicorntomboy9736 always gives you that motivation to wake up XD (ps. i always see u around for some reason lmao)

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@jxderin Am I bothering you at all? I should probably go then.

[@Lily-jg2vr]

For the people like me how hate veggies say I like men like I like vegetables.. I don’t 🌽 😌😂

[@jessiforeva]

lowkey recommended this for her pride month series

[@eddiejeffery7015]

i thought that said lowly. I was scared lmao

[@killjoytw1nk]

Cringe or say "eww" every time your parents or family mention "yOuR fUtUrE hUsBaNd UwU" I don't really do this as I'm bi, but for gay girls this will work ❤️❤️❤️

[@thatonerandombooknerd1632]

My parents always say "husband or wife" when talking to me and my sister about marriage. 1, you're wasting your breath you could just say spouse. 2, Non-Binary people exist so husband or wife doesn't apply to them implying that my family does not approve of Non-Binary people so I'm screwed. 3, JOKES ON YOU I'M ACE/ARO I'M NEVER GETTING MARRIED

[@killjoytw1nk]

@@thatonerandombooknerd1632 Lmaoo at least they don't imply you're straight, like 99.9% of my relatives do 😂😂❤️❤️

[@unicorntomboy9736]

@@thatonerandombooknerd1632 I wish I could get married soon. I would like to be married by time I graduate. On a side note, I don't think that nesserceeily means they don't like non binary people.

[@stupidguy6497]

• Mara • saaaaaaame

[@fadedsophomore]

Lmaooo

[@sallypitt1099]

Ok, I just started listening to girl in red like, a couple.of days ago, and I'm already OBSESSED ❤

[@h.5361]

Hehe welcome to the dark side *we have cookies*

[@thesksquad1068]

@@h.5361 no we have pancakes. And lesbipops (lollipops). And a bunch of other totally not lgbt food joke items

[@h.5361]

The SK Squad haha *wE hAvE fOoD*

[@onyxsnowflake5696]

Welcome to the very gay side, we have rainbows and June

[@Mor1moo]

The SK Squad We have Pepsi. Yes. Pepsi and only Pepsi Oh and cakes.

[@someonewhoexists7322]

My problem is, where I live everything what is “stereotypical bi” is fashion. Everybody wears cuffed pants, Vans, oversized hoodies / shirts and have their hair in *this* length

[@johannarussell6181]

That's exactly how I dress but w long hair☠️

[@rubyjohnson5854]

How to hint you’re gay: Walk into a room and scream I AM GAY. hopefully someone would pick up on the hint.

[@hollymitchell1432]

For the 1 person who disliked this. HOW CAN U NOT LIKE DUTCHY??!!!

[@emilyhill6971]

Maybe they were homophobic or just didn't like Dutchy. But how can someone not love Dutchy? She's amazing!

[@hollymitchell1432]

Exactly. Thx

[@emilyrubalcava2706]

Yeah how can on one like her she is beautiful and cute

[@emilyrubalcava2706]

@@emilyhill6971 hi

[@Izzypookiebea4]

U mean the 15?

[@aggrococonut]

Here’s something to say, “I like my men how I like my coffee, I don’t like coffee”

[@pers0nt4pe65]

WAIT THATS SMART TY-

[@anastasiashistoryproductio6791]

I am very subtle: I blurted that im Bi to my friend groups when the LGBTQ community topic came up. Oops.

[@eddiejeffery7015]

same....

[@awesomenessiswelcomed]

You should be proud. If they hate, oh well. (Sorry if it came out rude)

[@anastasiashistoryproductio6791]

@@awesomenessiswelcomed I am proud and now I am trans and Pan so...*Got to come out again*

[@awesomenessiswelcomed]

@@anastasiashistoryproductio6791, good luck

[@anastasiashistoryproductio6791]

@@awesomenessiswelcomed thank you

[@luciatm98]

I'm going to like these recommendations to indicate that I'm gay with the girls, since I don't know how to flirt 😂😉🏳️‍🌈

[@awesomenessiswelcomed]

So lesbian

[@violet3430]

@@awesomenessiswelcomed AKDKSKDKDK

[@Zanderren]

Basically just put loads of King Princess, girl in red and Harry Styles rainbow paradise Tip kiss your friend and say we are just roommates❤️😂

[@killjoytw1nk]

Oh my god they were roommates

[@Zanderren]

• Mara • oh my God yess❤️😂

[@noah-yy8zg]

yes Harry ;)

[@Izzypookiebea4]

And Sam Smith. He's gay

[@Zanderren]

@@Izzypookiebea4yesss

[@roseagt5902]

For the lesbians: Loudly start playing music from a widely known lesbian artist. (Girl in red, king princess, Jessie paege, Dodie, haley kiyoko etc.) If that would be too conspicuous, maybe pretend you didn't slip the headphone jack in enough. Chances are she'll say smth or give you a look if she's gay, and you don't even have to confront her. Ask if she's seen She Ra, Amphibia, Owl House, Lengend of Korra or Steven Universe etc. There's also the stereotype of how you pick up a coffee cup: hand wrapped around it = ur out of luck😔, gripping the lid with fingertips = she gae.🌈 But I wouldn't rely on these too much lol Compliment her on gay aspects of her appearance while making deliberate eye contact. These may include short nails, doc martins/combat boots, under cut, flannels, extreme eyeliner, beanie, anything rainbow, eyebrow slit, bizarre earrings, rolled jean cuffs, died hair, beanies and rings- especially a thumb ring.

[@effiehughes5353]

How to hint that your gay: Me: ye, I was born

[@chaoticdemonpunk]

K, SING WITH ME: ive been hiding for so longgg

[@nerd8797]

Can I tell anyoneee

[@raincloudrat6970]

Afraid of what they'll say So I push them aAwayy

[@densskjeikkeskjeogskjeikke7400]

I'm acting so strangeee

[@5kydragon347]

They’re so pretty IT HURTS 😫😫

[@baillie9009]

They're so pretty it hurts I'm not talking bout boys I'm talking bout girls

[@mtavguerreiro]

well, since we are facing this corona thing, just wear a rainbow mask

[@issyh2570]

I'm really excited for this, only issue is that it's the holidays so I ain't waking up at 8:30. See ya a couple hours after the premiere ❤😴

[@cityboundforest]

On the coffee one, I made a joke about this recently: "I like my women like I like my coffee. I drink tea."

[@gonegirl000]

i like my men like my coffee. i haven't had coffee yet but i'd love to try it someday

[@desireer.n.539]

I have almost used all of these hints, but no one suspects I'm bi.

[@dystopianfan1892]

I just realised why all my friends and family and practically the whole world thinks I’m gay I do like all of these most unintentionally

[@addisonellis2146]

Its 4:23am I just finished watching blackpink new comeback it was amazing

[@h.5361]

Hehe so my best friend said that she had feelings for me and that she really liked me. **gay panic** so I said I think ur cute to and I had a quiet meltdown Soooo yh

[@psychobunieee6786]

I'm that girl that buys so much rainbow stuff. I have a lil pride section in my room. 🏳️‍🌈 Lol gotta make it obvious.

[@davidwhitaker836]

Awww that is so cute 💛🧡💚💜🤣💞💖💗💝💘💙♥️💕😍🏳️‍🌈💓

[@psychobunieee6786]

@@davidwhitaker836 thanks. It's a neat idea

[@meghan_.]

It’s 4:30 AM for me lol.

[@sophiep.5040]

For me it's 00:30 AM 😂😂❤

[@gabbyf4281]

5:45 am here

[@magnoliabraun4291]

For me it's 10:18am

[@Froggy.blobby]

It’s 3:24 here :)

[@jackattack119]

How tf are yall putting times without putting links to the video??

[@hownice4856]

The bad thing about this for me is that everybody at my school does a lot of these things even if they're straight... Or are they trying to tell us something... Nah it's just the trends going around

[@makaylavinson300]

Thanks for helping me come out to my father! 🏳️‍🌈

[@fr0gc00ch9]

I really need this😳💕🏳️‍🌈

[@sk8witch19]

Heyy, My name's Emmie too😂

[@tessajane7792]

I'm going to try to start subtly hinting to my friends and family that I'm bi :)

[@elizabethfindlay8118]

This also a way to see if they are gay

[@frogoverlord3471]

I got kinda happy when my dad was like "does her new glasses have boy repellent on them?" Because I was like, "ohh gotta have that, yea does it?" Also most of these are just coming out, I wanna make them know im gay, without outright telling them.

[@EveInTheMachine]

"Tuck your dang shirts in, bisexuals!" I'm feeling very called out right now. LOL

[@azzy9932]

I have “love is love” on my light box and a drawing saying love is love in different lgbtqia+ flags in my room. I also have two small drawings, one is a rainbow and one is a sky in the colours of the bi flag. No one have asked any questions or acknowledged it. But you can try if you want🏳️‍🌈

[@jiiuux1437]

I NEED A GIRLFRIEND BEFORE PRIDES OVER HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP

[@rm2915]

Oof

[@burntrice4418]

U still need one?

[@destiny3317]

@@burntrice4418 lol

[@Maria-vt7yf]

@@burntrice4418 omg a shera stan

[@pigeonwithswageon4102]

That's not how it works.

[@Stardropzx]

2:26 you could also say “I like my men/women how I like my coffee! And I don’t like coffee.” 😭

[@julliiaaa]

My mom was like "were u meeting a booooooooyyyyyy?" I was like, "I met a girl, Hanna" (my friend lol)

[@treyb.2288]

Dutchy is that one super suportive/kind/loving teacher that loves everyone!😭💕

[@alexorpin9893]

Thank you so much for this, I will definitely use some of these non-verbal hints seeing as I find social interactions and flirting difficult🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@alinet4466]

I haven't watched the Video yet, but I've already liked because I know, it'll be good 👌

[@xxiicharlieiixx8039]

literally came on youtube to search that up and my girl dutchy has got it in my recommended. best youtuber ever😎💕

[@eddiejeffery7015]

SO CLOSE TO 90K OMG, LOVE YOU DUTCHY 🌟

[@isabellastein2934]

I like my men how I like my coffee. I don’t like coffee.

[@Alahna285]

Dutchy your amazing and great at giving advice. I love your videos they're so helpful and I love you you're such a creative person :)

[@madisonvest7741]

My FaMiLy Is HoMoPhObIc... it sucks and it is stressful and it hurts to know that they ignore the fact that I'm bi because if they payed attention to it then they wouldn't love me...

[@danceboi3001]

casually mention your girlfriend and hope no one questions it

[@crzyderpkity7548]

Brooo i have been doing all of this stuff without realizing it til after watching this video. I color rainbows on everything, i wear a beanie and a snapback, i have a rainbow bracelet i wear, i have an obsession with flannels, i have a jean and leather jacket, i had a bi flag painted on my phone case before i took it off cause i am acrually a lesbian and not bi. I cuff my jeans, i have a rainbow pillow, i make jokes about how stuff is almost as gay as me, ect. I've been dropping all this onto my family for years and only just recently realized im lesbian!!! I also had a crush on my best friend for 3 years before she moved schools ;-; this comment is super long now, im gonna stop now, im just so happy!

[@louiserk3788]

Oh my god I just came out to my parents and I already feel so much better about my sexuality 😂

[@oolbgoolb7542]

time to start doing some of this y'all also, if you don't like coffee (like me), you just say "i like my coffee like i like my men." and wait til somebody notices. if nobody notices, just send more hints, but if they do notice and are like "but you don't like coffee..?" just be like "i know" and walk away because you're 🎶afraid of what they'll say🎶

[@gabbypieczynski533]

I sang I kissed a girl and girl in red today my parents still haven’t caught on

[@caroline-dl2ot]

Me and my brother were watching a show and he asked who my favorite character was and I said a lesbian character(Luna).

[@thatonerandombooknerd1632]

I have like no clothes and I want to dress emo/punk/goth but I have like 4 shirts and 4 pants besides my school uniform. I'm blowing all my money at thrift stores once quarantine is over

[@Mor1moo]

Same tho-

[@jxderin]

lmaooo sameee im itching to buy more denim for my wardrobe XD

[@sierraargenta2101]

The worst thing abt this is I want to try to hint that I’m bi but I’m the only one in my family and extended family that’s lgbtq so no one knows stereotypes and things lgbtq people do and they won’t know the flag meanings but I can’t just come out to them because I would get nervous and not be able to do it and I would change the subject:)

[@hermie0699]

Gurl I love your energy

[@teh-maxh]

I like my men how I like my coffee. *sips tea*

[@moderndayavatar924]

God i love your energy, what a kween

[@radiofish395]

I’ll stay up whatever time to watch dutchys vids!!

[@Bee-xs1vk]

Love your profile pic 🥰🏳️‍🌈🧡🤍💗

[@radiofish395]

@@Bee-xs1vk thank you bby❤️❤️

[@Bee-xs1vk]

@@radiofish395 I already have one online girlfriend, I don’t need another

[@radiofish395]

@@Bee-xs1vk daym I mean good for you but I wasn’t really asking but I hope your happy with your boo

[@imballeraddy]

I legit used the call a tv character cute one lmao 😂 I said that mike and Max from stranger things were both cute and my guy friends were chill.

[@greapesouda805]

I plan on to get some acrylic paints and color that rubbery material stuff.. on my sweater into the lesbian flag and see how long it takes for my parents to notice. Edit: sorry forgot to add in the part about to being my sweater 😂

[@Gigan10610]

"scream *IM GAY!* every time you go in a room" Principal: Can you please send him down to my office Me: ĮM GŸ!

[@alicejarosch6637]

I came out 4 days ago and I feel amazing. My mom knew it since I was little and when I started doing what every "straight" girl would do, so basically since I was 14-15 years old. My sister was super cool, same for my brother. My friends took it so cute and lovely, last but not least my dad is supportive of me even though I was more scared to tell him. I'm super lucky to have such good people around me and I hope that you all are going to have that.

[@alicejarosch6637]

@@Soph-TV I hope you get a supportive group, but don't forget, sometimes it's hard for them to. Lots of love to you 🥰

[@alicejarosch6637]

@@Soph-TV No worries, take your time. I told my my last year about it and I was 21 at that point. You will find what's right for you.

[@jamaIjackson]

I recently figured out I was gay, and I have only came out to 3 people (not family) and I just wanted to hint to other people that I was gay. Thank you alot Dutchy. You have helped me alot. 🏳️‍🌈 ❤ 🏳️‍🌈

[@mylesm.5147]

yelling I'm gay when you enter a room is more of a statement than a hint

[@bubba283]

Girlfriends over the years just randomly have asked me if I was, something that would shock me everytime

[@silverseen8300]

First time ever watching your videos, I think this one will be awesome. Lol I'm gay af andddd yeah this is the exact vid I need rn, ty🥰

[@mrs.cringe3308]

NOTIFICATION SQUADDDDD :D

[@baylordiamond8819]

Lol when I wrote "say I'm gay" I was tired out of my mind

[@oakTEEp]

when you said short nails i realized i was already biting my nails short-

[@cutesy_lil_cos7506]

2:20 Also bisexuals could use: I like my coffee how I like my men, I also like tea

[@skymalfoy4224]

Tysm im using these to try hint to my parents and its going well so far!!!

[@killjoytw1nk]

I'd definitely mention you! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Ceciliawasthe1sttogo]

My coworkers keep shipping me and this other dude, and their brothers and blah blah but I’m too embarrassed to admit I’m lesbian cause after that, people see and treat you differently.

[@MadelineBrigit]

I really like the leaving pride flags around until someone notices

[@CringeyLoon]

I've done most of these, my family is very I don't know the word but you get it

[@horsegirl2.012]

When I was still in the closet, a very pretty woman, asked me if I listen to Girl In Red, helped me cuff my pants and I had feelings for her. A group of ladies close by said, are they about to kiss? Then she asked if I was a lesbian. I made one of the worst choices in my life and said no. I have been out of the closet since October 2019 and I have my first girlfriend that I asked to be mine. She is amazing. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@andrewvakalis9385]

Omg the am I gay quiz is how I came out as questioning to some of my friends

[@urkindadumb7009]

i’m addicted to doing the thumbs up lmfao

[@davidwhitaker836]

Anyone who loves dutchy

[@ivyc4867]

Dutchy: talk about how doc martens are superior Me: but I do that already.....

[@breakthestigma1501]

It’s 10:40 am for me

[@DutchGirlGamingAnnemarijn]

Same

[@meghan_.]

it’s almost 5 in the morning for me lol

[@holyshinx6391]

Right now it's 8:30 am for me, but it will be 6: 30 when this premieres

[@umamiki]

Cinnamonroll. Absolute cinnamonroll. You be proud of those plants. And thanks for the advice.

[@jailanmohamed8938]

Looks at myself:cuffed jeans,cuffed sleaves,flannel,tucked in shirt. I think there starting to catch on

[@Amylase1000]

I listen to Girl in Red. She is my favourite singer ♥️

[@mylesm.5147]

I just dressed masculine and drew rainbows on school papers and then told my mum.

[@fancyhat3940]

When I came out to my mother as a lesbian (Panromantic now), She said she saw it coming lol I mentioned how I always play game of life with 2 females instead of a female and male and claimed I "Wanted to mix it up" She said that, she never even realised that. I also mentioned when I took a "Am I Gay" quiz a year before coming out and said "I TOOK AN ONLINE QUIZ AND IT SAYS IM GAY" and she also said she didn't notice anything at the time.

[@xboxnox1719]

Beautiful plants 👌

[@jasminewheeler328]

Hi dutchy i now it's a bit late for u to reply but i just wanted to say thanks for being like a emotional support buddie to me through all my tough times

[@lushicsx7715]

I have gave my parents loads of hints that I’m bi cause I told them my favorite on Andi Mack was Cyrus who was gave and then I said we are the same cause irl he bi I think my mom knows cause she bought me sunglasses that looked like a pride flag and said LGBTQ LOVE U DUTCHY

[@finch3333]

I wear a dang moodring (technically rainbow) on my thumb. The good old thumb ring trick.

[@marahmccormick3621]

I’m already out, but I love these videos

[@jackrumptz4496]

Me who is gay and in the closet who just thought cuffed skinny jeans looked good with my blazers.

[@b.r.3.n_083]

90k subs YAY

[@U.R.coolkid]

I love flannels

[@howjwebdbdbsjz]

How do you wear flannels right or wrong?

[@AA-ik9ob]

Not this being recommended to me....im a closeted bisexual 🧍‍♀️

[@g1zmosixfive293]

Gonna look like a walking visible light spectrum after all this 💀

[@jeon9081]

Playing girl in red and bisexual anthems out loud 🌝 though only my bro understood 😅 my parents were like yah don't sing with that voice our ears hurt

[@ambersjourneysinlife]

I am here 108 minutes early new record😁

[@sk8witch19]

I just slit my eyebrow to look GAY and it looks so dope! I highly recommend. Just look up a tutorial on KZbin!

[@cherri9176]

I do about 2-7 of these things every day.🤣🤣

[@chicken_carnival]

Bagy graphic tee with skinny jeans and chunky shoes

[@Alana-lanalana]

The only thing about flannels is that if u r Canadian no one would take the hint. I know this from personal experience😢