How to Change Tone of Voice

[@alexanderlyon]

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[@saritakamel2497]

I have a problem with my voice It is high.. Always under criticism Sometimes it is annoying to other.. I want change him 😢

[@brandonjimenez902]

Communication Coach Alex Lyon any tips on if your told your tone sound like if I’m on coke you don’t know how Frustrating this is especially since I just started a new job and everyone perceives me already asked this I would appreciate if you got any tips

[@siddhantnaik7232]

It's great to listen you sir but if we have to contact you ,what we should do can you give us your email id or anything something? It might helpful for your followers , they goona share your problems with you.

[@MadolAjakMadol]

👍

[@PracticalInspiration]

Love how you link tone and mindset together, that's incredibly true and valuable

[@alexanderlyon]

Oh, thanks. It's an important conversation to have and it connects to so much of our growth and maturity.

[@Olesia_Kurilo]

I am trying to sound warm and gentle, people think that I am sick or tired ))) LOL

[@alexandraade576]

same hahaha

[@jackievang1906]

Lol tell me about it I got a deep voice which sound like I tired too 😭

[@dhatchayanim]

For me ppl think I'm arrogant and rude 😭 no where it's working and only hatred

[@Blessedibe86]

😂

[@Cocoginger100]

😁😁😁

[@SaxandRelax]

LMAO i thought “everyone around me is stupid” “the world is stupid”

[@alexanderlyon]

Revealing! Thanks for sharing, Sax and Relax.

[@lexgervin6880]

😭 Glad I’m not alone... Explains why my tone is such 🤣🤣 This is an awesome video

[@whatsgoingon6256]

I think the same (most people are stupid),... but my tone is respectful to people I value Anything less is EMOTIONAL ABUSE

[@IdontWatchIsee]

Omg, now i realize why some people have that arrogant tone i hate :)

[@morgantownkiosk]

The people around me are ignorant the world is full of lies. The truth is out there it is something you must seek. I really need this video because now that I know this I have to change the way I feel about it.

[@freethinker3083]

Wow! I wasn’t expecting this when I clicked on this. This was great. I sound just like my mother and I hate it. Because she always spoke in a negative, judgmental, Debbie downer type of way. I’ve picked up poor social skills and it makes it hard for people to understand where I am coming from. I’ve been since trying to consciously be aware of how I’m talking or expressing my feelings to people without coming off “fake”. Thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm glad the video was helpful. Good luck with it!

[@rhrhdrhrehehh9006]

Same here!

[@jayanthr8762]

Same here

[@peanutbutterpancakes7]

Omg I thought I was the only one who struggled with this

[@freethinker3083]

@@peanutbutterpancakes7 You are not alone!

[@geaninasee4553]

I’ve been struggling to change my tone of voice, but watching your video makes me believe it’s still possible to change my tone of voice. This was such great self help video! I’ll do my best to follow your 3 steps. Really glad I stumbled upon this.

[@alexanderlyon]

Great. I hope it helps.

[@crzygrl8849]

I'm trying to do the same!! 🙏🙏

[@clfm0711]

I am trying to sound gentle and soften my voice but my friends and classmates told me that i was angry😂

[@rahulsrivastava3234]

Then I guess you should focus on your melody part

[@DWhitney34436]

Same.... And I have resting b**** face so that doesn't help me either 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@msmayfield0735]

Right? I sound like I am speaking in ALL CAPS. 😅

[@Unicorn-up3gn]

@@DWhitney34436 Same! People misunderstood me most of the time

[@adithyanramachandran3936]

Same here.. 😢😢

[@millerlaguna2360]

This topic has been formulated with great mindset and great habit. More power to you Coach Alex

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Paul. Glad it was helpful.

[@T1000-h4k]

Someone told me to watch "Between two ferns" coz it's funny.. This isn't funny.

[@davemcdave99]

😂😂

[@RoaringMind]

LMAO!

[@avoiceinthewilderness9864]

Your on the wrong video!

[@nancewin5693]

Thank you so much for this video Coach Alex. Currently in college what I have realized after many years is that my tone of voice comes off angry and upset all the time. I was super outgoing and friendly but would always find myself being labeled as rude or mean even though I didn’t say things that were such. People would tell me to relax even though I was or would be coming at me when I was just trying to have regular convo. I would be so confused, fell into depression and it’s affected me deeply. I guess what I’m trying to ask is with depression it is very hard to change my mindset, so how can I work more on my tone if my mindset will be changing at a slower pace?

[@alexanderlyon]

Most mental health counseling helps if people stick with it. I obviously am not a medical professional but I have read that depression is not a life-long sentence and therapy works. If I were in your situation, I'd start by talking to a therapist.

[@farwajaved6814]

I am also tired... I become rude when am stressed and I even don't say things that could hurt but my accent is rude unknowingly..what to do

[@isidoreaerys8745]

I have gotten into the habit of saying everything with a subtle insinuation of irony so much so that I have unintentionally offended people while trying to complement them. It’s not a problem when someone knows me and learns I’m a generally kind caring person. But with insecure strangers it can cause conflicts to erupt out of nowhere.

[@kels1009]

It’s a conscious choice. Tone can be either a reflection of your true emotions or a projection of a vision and mission. I’m a bilingual speaker. Tone varies depending if you speak your own mother tongue or secondary language, for work or social, under pressure/urgent situation etc. Tone carries your attitude. Be mindful especially now we work from home and engage more virtually.

[@ethnyjane3248]

I like to let coworkers know if I'm struggling with something personal, so they understand it isnt them if my tone slips! ;)

[@alexanderlyon]

Great idea. I've done the same so they know the issue is on my end.

[@Morningfame]

Wow, this is deep Alex! So many things that you said made me remember certain situations in my life. For example, I have a friend who takes part in discussions by always asking great questions. Sometimes he even sounds a bit like a psychologist just to give you an idea. I really look up to him in this regards because I am often not calm enough in the inside to hold off my own opinions long enough to have these kinds of conversations as well. After all I really enjoy listening and learning from others this way. :) Cheers, Nico

[@alexanderlyon]

Hi, Nico. Great to see your comment on here. Love your Morningfame tools! Just read your reply email, too. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@Morningfame]

@@alexanderlyon Thanks a lot Alex! Absolutely my pleasure. Your content really intrigued me at first glance so I had to take a closer look. :) Keep up the great work!

[@MelanieAwenKate]

This is interesting. I am generally anxious and excited and my voice is high and unsteady. I know my breath will help I need to take my meditation presence into social situations. This isn’t going to be easy but it’s time. Thanks 🙏🏽

[@alexanderlyon]

Sounds like you have a direction to go in now. It's not easy. You're right about that. It's darn hard, in fact. But, over time, we can make improvements.

[@Phoenix-kd1we]

I've been looking for this all my life! Thank you very much!

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm so glad it is helpful for you.

[@김천재-c9j]

Thanks a lot for video. I sound like I am angry. Now I understand why. I should not speak when Im angry n frustrated.😵

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm glad the video helped you learn more about yourself.

[@layfusiv4045]

The Problem here in this video is "Self-awareness". And that's my problem. Im just not aware of what i actually doing while people around me aware of it. - My emotion: when im not angry but my face looks like im angry. sometimes people say why im smiling when i dont really smile. - My voice: sometimes i raise my voice in the middle of conversation without knowing it myself. These things become somewhat i cannot control. what a shame!

[@alexanderlyon]

Self awareness is the key. I hope you are able to reflect on what exactly is going on in your mindset in those moments. It might be just a slight change in how you feel that is leading to those nonverbals you describe.

[@evelynsierra2004]

I told my husband all the time you remind me of my brother. Being rude from time to time, in other words he's tone of voice. Jesus I hope I'm not causing it.

[@albertmangubat6541]

Its true! Really works.

[@alexanderlyon]

Awesome! I'm happy it was helpful, Albert.

[@የድንግልልጅ-ሠ5ኸ]

Thanks! I'll practice this advice because, I have a big problem with my family specially with my husband & son they always give me a comment but I know if i'm not a good mood & stress out it comes that voice I'll try to fix it.

[@persiancatknows4463]

I sound like a clingy dying chicken 😭😭😭 Everyone who hears my voice for the 1st time teases me and eventually laughs at me 😭 I've been trying to change my voice all these years, but it's really hard. It makes me depressed and destroys my self-esteem 😭 All I want is a normal voice, just a regular one 💔 I'm not asking for more 💔 From this day on, October 1, 2021. I will give my very best to follow and do all ur advices. If I will be successful in changing my voice, into a better and more appropriate one. I promise, I will come back on December 31,2021 with a better voice.. Good luck to me 😭

[@alexanderlyon]

I hope it goes well for you. Looking forward to hearing back.

[@joewiiparty4403]

Did.. did It Work?

[@sweetee77]

This is an amazing video, Alex. Thank you for sharing. It is essentially taking it back to basics and I myself have noticed how mindset can change projection. Your company and environment will literally define who you are... And thank you for noting that it takes time to implement these changes. This helped me a lot. Keep it up!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it was helpful!

[@languagenextlevel6075]

I love your channel! I'm a neurolanguage coach for English learning and your videos are very helpful to improve my students' communication in a holistic way.

[@alexanderlyon]

Awesome. Pleased to meet you and thanks for the encouragement.

[@naveenaryal1400]

Wow..!! Lessons for lifetime. And these points are applicable to everything whether you are a leader, speaker, actor, singer. Thanks for this amazing video.

[@rishbh27]

The best video, deep, love to hear more on this topic., like right tone for any emotion? Some example maybe

[@alexanderlyon]

Great suggestion!

[@tejaswishetkar4775]

Thanks to your videos I just realized that why others have issues with my tone. Whenever I am in a conflict my tone becomes authoritative and sound angry and rude to others. I didn't understand why it was happening when clearly it was not my intention. But now I realised it comes from fear and need to protect myself so no one can overpower me. Thank you so much. I will try to be mindful and try to think before speaking the way I speak.😊

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Others will benefit from reading your post.

[@j.r.nvision-imagination77]

I can relate with you on this. Thanks for sharing

[@angeliquew69]

Hi I just read your comment and honestly that's exactly how I come across to people and it's not my intentions to come across aggressive or anything and I just thought to myself maybe there's a program or something that can help change the tone of a person's voice and so I found this video well my question to you and I know this was 3 years ago that you posted this but hopefully you'll see this were you able to make progress and change like the way your tone came out I don't know how I'm trying to ask this question but basically were you able to get good results

[@crzygrl8849]

I'm the same way, came here seeking advice!! Any tips or tricks you've learned along the way?

[@aoitakumi9081]

I speak softly and people often say I'm very soft spoken. While I was doing practice teaching as an early childhood educator, my mentor mentioned that I have to change my tone by putting energy. I have no idea how to even do that.

[@alexanderlyon]

If I were you, I'd work mostly on speaking a bit more loudly. Usually, an increase in volume will also provide your tone more variety and energy.

[@lgdasilva5989]

I work in sales and my coworkers have told me that I sound like I’m a cold/mean person. Sometimes I’ll sound sad/depressed, but the truth is I’m actually a really nice guy and I’m very positive. Thank you for this content 🙏, it helped me with my tone, I sound more confident, my words are strong and I sound like an expert.

[@KomotsukiDZoro]

I used to have the same problem too! When I was younger I came across as tooooo intense, even though I was just trying to be normal. I resolved the issue by consciously speaking softer, and I've never received that critique since. The solution is always conscious actions : )

[@bctanzer]

I think this was the video I was looking for. You really honed in on what my problem is. My view of the world around me is impacting my otherwise happy and fulfilling life and marriage.

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm so glad you found it to be helpful. I hope your efforts pay off.

[@hajarabdullah5622]

You are my best trainer

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Hajar. I appreciate that. Glad it was ehlpful.

[@OrganizationXIII]

I noticed that Ariana grande and Michael Jackson sometimes sound like they have a deeper voice when watching some of their interviews on KZbin. And in other videos there voices are more high pitched. So I came here to learn why and how they do it.

[@Solomon2024]

Although your videos were very informative, I need to bring to your attention a few things you are missing; 1- Tone of voice is basically the result of life experiences. I don't think it's possible to change the tone of voice ( you can if you want to act and not be yourself). 2- Tone of voice formed by our language knowledge, such as terminology and grammar. 3- If the English was your second language then your tone of voice will be totally different from the native speaker ( again, you can change it if you want to gain trust, work opportunity, and personal experience). 4- Every language has its own and primary tone. That also could enforced by cultural influences. Thank you for your video.

[@alexanderlyon]

Good additions, Loveis the Key. Thanks for your point of view.

[@ElizabetaDante]

I don’t like hearing my sound in the phone audio notes...it’s very alike the sound of the voice of my ex mother, is it possible to change not the mood but the actual sound? 😣

[@alexanderlyon]

Good question but it's not really possible to do that in the short run. You can maybe changes things a little bit over time but our voices are part of our physical development.

[@nellyikuwa1336]

Same bro

[@neonblud9595]

I’m definitely a rusher, working on it, and it shows in my tone lol

[@BBGshop7]

I appreciate the way you explained the things that effect the tone of voice. I had been feeling tense from bad memories. Sensations would just come up anytime something reminds of the past. My heart would start beating fast, and I would feel defensive. Before I know it, my tone has changed; I'm still saying the same words that I would normally say... but the tone carried my message in another direction, and I would be perceived as blunt or harsh sometimes. I think I had gotten so used to texting or writing straightforward messages, and maybe I could be partially speaking how I type as well. I was disappointed in the direction some of my conversations would go because I didn't understand what I said wrong. Edit:TONE truly is key, and I realized that my head has to be in the right place for deeper talks so my tone of voices gives the right message. I am very glad to have a new perspective on the mindset I need to be in to carry on a pleasant conversation. Thank you.

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm so encouraged that the video is helpful for you!

[@beaverburps8910]

First words that came to mind for each; "Stupid" and "bullshit". Interesting.

[@alexanderlyon]

I hear you. It's a revealing self experiment.

[@mikesmokes5891]

I have an anxiety tone alot of the time and i think i do give that out to alot of people and it makes them anxious

[@felixlucanus7922]

Thank you for this! I think it is also useful to have someone specific to model yourself on. Any suggestions/examples from our culture, past or present, whose tone of voice is worth striving for?

[@zainabmandiwala8673]

I am trying to sound warm and polite but every time I talk.. even though it's a normal conversation on phone or in person I sound rude and commanding. What can I do abt it?

[@alexanderlyon]

I'd just recommend starting with the advice in the video, especially the action steps at the end. Did you put those into practice yet?

[@ryanreedgibson]

This is a great video! I hope you're still around doing this type of work. After I lost someone, I stayed inside not communicating with anyone for about five years. I finally snapped out of it and am trying to regain my confidence. I do voiceover work now and am trying to get back to where I was about six years ago when I was a public speaker. I never thought it was possible for one to lose their voice and self. I lost both completely. I need them back!

[@alexanderlyon]

Yes, I'm 100% still posting videos. I put out new videos almost every week. I'm glad to hear you're getting your mojo back. I wish you the best with your comeback story.

[@halavathbhadru8807]

Thank you so much sir I consider what is my fault and why am I not speaking English correctly and Now I check what is going on in my mind thank you so much for your videos ❤

[@samivan9877]

I have a light and calm mindset and it's true my voice is also kinda light but when my mood goes down and my voice gets deeper and indifferent

[@alexanderlyon]

Ah, great insight!

[@BeOutstanding]

Great Content Thank You Coach Habits Mindset

[@driftghost9237]

LOVE YOU YOU HELPEDME!!!

[@p.-.b]

One question - Is content of this video scripted and you rehearsed it or is it spontaneous ?

[@alexanderlyon]

I can't remember how I did this one. I *_think_* this was just from notes. I usually have an outline next to the camera. I often do use a teleprompter on my newest videos (but not always). But, I never just sit down and do it spontaneously without preparation. Before I sit down, I know what I want to say.

[@AngelekaL]

I have some mental issues and often I hear that I sound like a robot or flat, and I am so thankful I found your channel! This will help me so much!

[@nads008able]

Thank you!! Very helpful.

[@justadragonnamemarcus1751]

Now I voiced like MARIO

[@PrinceJes]

And this advice is free! Wow bless you!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you, Massa. Bless you, too!

[@nancydenver2200]

Thank you for this video. I'm working on rapport building. I'm a super-happy outgoing person, but, I think when I meet new people I get excited and I'm too intense. I'd love to find a video that helps me understand some steps to toning down my enthusiasm. In a culture of over-stressed/over-worked people, I think it might be a turn off.

[@oquefilmaragora]

My voice all my life has been a chest voice, so deep, i dont like it. (Un)related, I come off as "masculine" or "agressive", and i feel that people dont like hearing me much. Recently I've noticed It feels a lot better to speak higher in pitch, still veeeeery far from that falsetto phony voice. Its a whole octave up for me, and still sounds very natural. What would my life have been if i talked like that all my life? I want to speak this way now on. It tires me less and i think its more pleasant to the ear. I am a little shy in the transition, if people notice the difference and mock me, but i need to try to do this and shift my tone at 30 rather than never!

[@oquefilmaragora]

My normal chest voice sometimes even comes out as mushy, hard to understand. A higher one provides more clarity, and i also sound more calm. It just feels better. What's a good way to discipline oneself to remind to everyday speak in a new way?

[@lotsa2000]

Thank you for this video! I've been told at work by my boss that he doesn't like my communication style through email. Do you have anything that helps with that? I consider myself to be more direct and don't want to obfuscate the important with needles details that may distract. My mother is super, uber direct and even I am uncomfortable with it. Also, this video reminded me of this: And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me-everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you. Philippians 4:8‭-‬9 NLT Thanks again!

[@alexanderlyon]

Email is easier, I think, because you can edit before you send. I don't have a video on that but I do frequently ask my wife to read important emails for tone to give me feedback so I can revise.

[@blueskies773]

I often read my emails out aloud. Often I will save it as a ‘draft’, leave for 30 minutes or so, then read it again inwardly and out loud. That helps.

[@robinlynn898]

Born and raised in Philadelphia,My Philly accent was pretty strong. When I joined the Army, my drill SGTS always called me loud and arrogant. I didnt even realize it. I had a southern gramma who was passive and sweet who always said that I was loud.. Im not an angry person. Why so people always think im angry? I live in Texas now and everyone always asks if im mad... Its so hurtful.

[@imasava3560]

❤❤❤🎉thanks. One of best tips of communications! I just got critisized over my sarcasm by the most sarcastic person I used to grow up with as a kid😅😅😅😂 It's true that we mostly do not realize how we sound like

[@hamedmohamed3312]

My voice is so soft like lol😂

[@Aaishakapoor]

Improve mindset: Pause moment & examine it. Communication habits picked up from parents/friends Learn new habits

[@sheenap214]

This was a whole life coaching session in the framework of tone and communication. Lol. Laughing, but I'm serious! God bless you!

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you enjoyed it, Sheena. I would say that you are not wrong. Most tutorials I've seen treat tone a bit superficially but there are some deeper things going on that drive it all.

[@syedbilal8653]

How mindset can be useful for actions?sometimes we ourself can't examine our own habits, I guess but it's a great video👍

[@alexanderlyon]

It is not easy to get clear on our own mindset but I do recommend some steps at the end of the video to get started.

[@syedbilal8653]

@@alexanderlyonsure Thanks

[@cengiz246]

Solution: 4:08 How do I see the world? Most of the people around me are XYZ... Who do you sound like? ( parents maybe). What do the people you grow up with sound like? 6:40 steps

[@RoXon007]

Many people say to that when you talk you are like fighting or angry but i say I'm not, I'm just talking. Then a friend mine said to me you have picked this tone from your family,at the time i didnt liked his answer but overtime it makes sense and now you said it also.then how can i remove or change this tone. thank you and God bless you

[@amylang2602]

I am so frustrated because i have trouble coming across as confident. My voice sounds like a little girl. I also trail off because I am often thinking through things.

[@TheMrInnovative]

Great, but this gave ZERO practical steps! Just think more...Im thinking and thats why I clicked on this video

[@its_supreme]

I sound like I'm barking at people even though when I was delivering my message, I sound fine. When I was young, people used to have trouble hearing me so I got used to amplifying my voice by trying to talk louder that now I sound like I'm yelling at you. Also my overbite makes me over enunciate words and it makes me sounds like I have an attitude :']

[@ivanrazo8943]

Should I get this course, if I just want to master tonality? Where if I’m communicating I don’t want people to yawn?

[@DWhitney34436]

So my issue is that even if I'm in a great mood and happy or anything.. apparently I come across differently than how I'm meaning to.. it's causing problems with my relationships because I don't hear what they hear and do not see it.. I talk a little louder than normal because I don't have great hearing... i've recorded myself and still don't hear it... I also have RBF and that has an impact on it too.. I can't change my testing face so idk what to do anymore

[@jwjjq7735]

Amazing video with eye-opening insights! I realized what I need to change thanks to you

[@alexanderlyon]

I'm glad it was helpful so quickly. I hope it goes well.

[@sharnieb2723]

I asked a question at work yesterday and at least 10 people told me my tone sound too strong and I should be careful. I was confused as I wasn’t annoyed/irritated when I asked the question 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@siddhantnaik7232]

great to listen you sir but if we have to contact you , what we should do can? you give us your email id or anything something? It might helpful for your followers , they goona share our problems with you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Hi, Siddhant. I appreciate that. However, I don't do any coaching or 1-2-1 tutoring like that for individuals. So, if you have a comment, post it and I'll try to answer.

[@devilslayer182]

Thanks sir because of you I am helped out I don't know the problem with me but every body told me that you are like this n that I would always be very concerned I thank you from the bottom of my heart may God bless you

[@darrylsimango1835]

My girlfriend sounds like a drunk horse and this has really helped us….thank you🙏🙏

[@divarose2017]

I'm female and my voice is low and kinda heavy, honestly I don't like it at all :-((( however I have been told on more than once occasion that I have a nice voice, maybe even sexy at times. I think its probably low and soothing, I don't know.

[@shahidfarooq115]

Whenever you Explain Something So you should to open your Hands by every word so that viewer will easily understand put on Context

[@janelleetsitty36]

I have so many word choices for those two questions lol most ppl about me, some are kind, genuine, but most are selfish and a bunch of idiots.. as the world is beautiful and full of chaos. Just don't have one answer

[@jerryhatrick5860]

I don't sound like other people but I hate how I sound. Simply stating true observations that don't even bother me, to others I sound like I'm complaining.

[@manasakullegowda7669]

Excellent Explanation !!

[@alexanderlyon]

Thank you!

[@kidsgcmchannel9271]

Hi ,this is Sippora,i want to change my tone . My voice is harsh,it got change after i gave birth to my son,as am a teacher hope this is also one reason . Its been 2 yrs since my voice changed ,earlier it was so soft and my voice was in suprano but now turned to be an alto

[@dannovak3886]

If you want to find out how tone of voice is very important just listen to some of the historical videos on KZbin and how these people present themselves. Sometimes they mumble sometimes they trail off their words sometimes they don't make any sense. Avoid this if you can and speak clearly

[@jerryhatrick5860]

Most of the energy around me is toxic, working on that and succeeding. The world is lost and in a stupor. Hahahahahaha. Yah my mindset due toy environment is not very good.

[@rottnlove]

How would someone who has inguries in the right parietal lobe that has been surgically removed due to brain cancer tumor that caused emotional expressive agnosia and are emotionally blind to voice intonation or inflection of their own speech as well as percieving the facial expressions of others? If the person is blind to vocal intonation or inflections how can they recognize when they are doing it and how to change it to a more positive one? It seems like a situation where you are trying to get a detailed description of a color and wanting a different color description from someone who never had any eyes?

[@sidclove6788]

Thank you so much for this content. Could you make more videos on this topic, please? I am trying to change my vocal tone while speaking.

[@alexanderlyon]

Hi, Sid. Thank you for your support and I'm glad the videos are helpful. I have no current plans to make more on tone of voice but if I think of more to say, I'll do it.

[@LisaY4yeshua]

Gosh this was incredibly insightful and helpful to me. Thank you

[@石政泰]

I feel like it is more than talking about tone. It talks about you. Tone just delivers you.

[@alexanderlyon]

Well said!

[@MsLOBunnie]

So happy I came across this video. It helped me see I’m on the right track. I looked up the topic as a part of my morning mindfulness practice. It helped me get to the roots of my tone in conversations

[@damirsfist]

I never thought about how we pick up communication habits, the same as trauma. Now that I see it, I cannot unsee it anymore.

[@raechelyndawn2580]

So it sounds like changing the tone of your voice is not an easy to change issue. Sounds like a major life changing event with lots of counseling, time, education and commitment. You should change your title to this video. Lol

[@connectlifehr6366]

This is a great video! You covered a lot of important points in a few, short minutes. You connected a lot of dots and gave people actionable steps forward.

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Natchwolf21]

I’m tryna sound less monotone, I have a deep voice and struggle tremendously with my using the right tone for certain situations

[@rnmas8927]

i have question on both statement.. the answer would be either two according to the mood.. what should i answer, according to the mood? or i write both? if i write both, its shows i have mess up mindset.. is that true coach?

[@dannovak3886]

Most of the people around me are stupid And because these are people in the world the world is chaotic My job is to play dodgebomb pick and choose the way I wanna go

[@angelobronte1452]

I like your content very much. Thanks for the video

[@alexanderlyon]

Thanks, Angelo. I appreciate that. I'm glad the videos are helpful.

[@Harshitmusix]

Great psychological tonal expression & observation noticed

[@Jj-rq9sp]

This is great insight.

[@davebecker5471]

I hate my voice how it sounds on recording but people tell me I'm friendly voice I don't talk a lot but I herd I can be a talker lol

[@blvezae7832]

Coming here cuz ppl always think im angry and mad when i talk 😌 what to do i grow up with someone who talk like thT

[@NocturneSoul]

This is so true and useful. I've been noticing over the years that my tone comes from my mindset, and I've been trying to be conscious of attitudes and habits that I carry with me in orden to try to change the way I talk. This video is so true.

[@leighredfern9783]

Mind blown ! Thanks so much for this video . I’ve been told numerous times about my tone until now the pieces of the puzzles are connecting . Appreciate your work .

[@alexanderlyon]

Glad it helped.

[@jetcitysinatra7300]

Do you remember the silent movie era? When Hollywood decided to do talking pictures most of the Silent movie stars had to retire because their voice didn't translate well to audio. I guess now that doesn't matter because people will listen to anything these days. I was hoping this would touch on that. No matter how you say something if you have a voice that doesn't sound good it still will not sound good. Not everyone can sound like Clark Gable.

[@alexanderlyon]

Ah, interesting! I hadn't thought of that.

[@sunshiniiteLUVsMAC]

I come across as a bitch sometimes because of my tone .... well shit I don’t hear myself ... this is becoming an issue at work

[@katuk8173]

Most of the people around me 'probably hate me for the the way I talk'