This has got to be one of my favorite of your videos so far, Brendon! Perfect length to listen to during a post-workout stretch, and so, sooooooo jam-packed with useful information. Loved that you broke down the decision making process... figuring out priorities has always been difficult for me as I usually have a "million" things thrown at me at once! Hahaha! Happy New Year! ~Mermaid Phantom
@peterchan95256 жыл бұрын
One time I said "no" to my boss, he fired me...but I feel relieved and mind became more clearly what I have to do next in life . Thank you !:)
@lalaithan6 жыл бұрын
Congrats for standing up for yourself and doing what you feel is right! It's hard!
@rva6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brendon for shining bright for us all to see. I watched the facebook video you are referring to. It inspired me to keep on going. Namaste. Rebecca
@calireddglam6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I choose to follow you! Inspiring us to be better and have the knowledge to be in tune with what's important! Thank you Brendon!!!♥️
@thomasshirrefs53316 жыл бұрын
What an amazing communicator! It really is inspiring to see you in action Brendon. Thank you!
@ikkasantos1926 жыл бұрын
This guy! THIS GUY!!!! I really love this guy!
@TameraWeeks16 жыл бұрын
This is the best way I've been taught on how to say "yes" or "no". 😃
@daslayareborn66184 жыл бұрын
No
@wisepersonsay31426 жыл бұрын
Organization. Prioritization. Do things and mix with people that are beneficial to you. Be generous with reason. Don't give a fish, but teach how to fish. All requires discipline and determination. Life is fun!
@jennifergorman77234 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this exercise in awareness. I have pretty much lived my life in Reactive Mode. I had never framed it this way before although I have grown to be aware that my life choices have been made based on where external factors have led me. In this moment I am aware of why I ALWAYS feel like I am behind and never able to catch up. Overwhelmed by the never ending to do list and the anxious feeling that I have to catch up. The sense of urgency to achieve....I could go on but I think you understand. I put it down to the impact of the waves of unexpected life trauma that I did not invite or plan for. I am now 55 and been widowed twice, lost both parents and far too many friends. I have made many important decisions with the needs of others as the first criteria and now I see more clearly how it all connects to how lost, overwhelmed and behind I feel now. WOW! Inside voice.. Big share!!! It is amazing how small influences can resonate with a person to connect the dots! I have much to think about now as I work on aligning all of this. Thank you
@ChillAngels4 жыл бұрын
Help, this video has me in tears. It's exactly as he says. I'm going around doing things that weren't planned, reactive in helping my kids and husband, I'm carrying everybody else, it doesn't feel right because I don't want to do what they want me to do, it's always their emergencies, it does not help me to grow, I'm not passionate about it. All it is, is the last point in the checklist, which is that I am serving others, my family. I'm drowning in busy work. I am a stay home mom of 2 with husband at home. I want to focus on growing my business but it's in the back burner. I am scared to bring it to the front too, because.. My husband warns me that I better prioritize the "family's needs" first. If he ever senses that I obsess about something else and I neglect their needs, he will shut down the LLC and I will have no peace from his verbal aggression, to put me back in the correct place. So I pretend not to be thinking about my business. I try not to talk about it with him and I am so lost now. How can I prioritize my business...I really want to succeed...God if you can hear me, please help me..😢
@sandyshorewalker53646 жыл бұрын
I like what you said about leading your family, the service you provide them..being a light in the dark for some. Helping me setting priorities, your book high performance habits sounds like a good read for the new year.
@buildingblocksstaffchannel37496 жыл бұрын
THAT WAS SO AWESOME! JUST WHAT I NEEDED TO HEAR BEFORE 2018. THANKS YOU BRENDON!
@akhmissara15456 жыл бұрын
the amazing thing that i love in 2017, is that i discovered you brendon! you are my inspiration, you rock and can'T wait to receive your book that i ahev just ordered !! keep going
@moritzschroder6 жыл бұрын
i like his public speaking, it is really on point! i am taking notes for my own personal development channel! 😉
@thasleemaakram6 жыл бұрын
👍
@doubleHLabs6 жыл бұрын
Watching this on a Saturday! Amen
@cellydrive6386 жыл бұрын
Literally today as I was planning my day I asked myself "hmm I wonder whats the best way to prioritize" Considering I have a pretty neverending list of critically important task. I then thought " I wonder if Brendan has a talk on this" 10 seconds later Im here the internets awesome lol..fuckin love this guy
@mariatachi83985 жыл бұрын
Celly Drive This will depends whether your boss is someone that is rationale or someone that let emotional runs all over. Perhaps using the method that he teaches to share with your boss BUT this will depends on whether your boss willing to listen to it as well.
@simplelifenotes40716 жыл бұрын
Hi Brendon, new sub- love the way you express it all- the energy - pace- clarity of message. Thanks for being so honest and real in your videos. I’m going to watch all your videos this week 👍👍👍
@kimgordoncumbo78906 жыл бұрын
Loved this, not new, but the visual was very helpful. I went to my calendar and blocked time. I have made mornings my writing time and follow up time. Though at times my Airbnb guests are checking out, laundry and room changes happen; but I get back on track. Thanks. :)
@Ciskuss6 жыл бұрын
In the end, just three things matter: How well we have lived How well we have loved How well we have learned to let go. (Jack Kornfield) His motto sounds to me like a plague
@dubiouslycrisp6 жыл бұрын
Ciskuss, a plague? You are saying it is toxic?
@MattRemorinoGB6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Brendon for this. I too often get pulled into other situations that really I shouldn't. This scorecard will help tremendously! Thank you also for all you do and provide your audience!
@trubeautyMOVEMENT5 жыл бұрын
Awesome chart and advice!!! Love the chart and non-emotional way of determining to take guess work out!! 💫
@periperihustle45616 жыл бұрын
Just a thought, in business. If you’re client wants something urgently. You can charge a little more and prioritise it.
@ChrisMolenaar6 жыл бұрын
Brendon: HUGE upgrade to your youtube channel- love love love it!!
@hetanthakkar45326 жыл бұрын
He is far better than other motivational 🔊
@linoazzurro6 жыл бұрын
Hetan Thakkar Yes and he doesn't have an irritating voice like Tony the Scamming Robbins.
@monugupta326 жыл бұрын
Everybody is helping out in their own way, there is no need for comparison here.
@linoazzurro6 жыл бұрын
Rahul Gupta There is no need for you to comment either.
@monugupta326 жыл бұрын
haha
@bernadinebesterwitch50106 жыл бұрын
Hetan Thakkar
@goracezelazko18296 жыл бұрын
number one coach .Greetings from EUROPE -POLAND !!!!!1
@RichflixInc3 жыл бұрын
This scorecard is brilliant! Can't wait to attend the next HPX LIVE after Covid passes ✌🏽 Much love from Bali!
@travisguide45166 жыл бұрын
Great ideas as to ethics helping motivation always had good vibes from Brendon so wise to realize the bigger picture
@masoodtyagi99326 жыл бұрын
well done brendon, you have done a great job, i have learned all the points which you have mentioned and inshallah i will practice these in my daily life.
@buddhaneosiddhananda84996 жыл бұрын
"To thine own self be true..."
@dawngrimshaw94186 жыл бұрын
I never comment on anything but I love this. Very helpful.
@frederiquemermozmounier82156 жыл бұрын
Hi Brendon ! Thank you so much for your video. I have a question for your : how do you do when the someone who throws a false emergency your way is your boss ???? I've lived this situation again and again and again and I have never felt like No was an option. Have you encountered the same situation ? How did you react ? What lesson did you learn from this experience ? What would you do today is this particular situation ? Thank you so much for all your work and videos.
@thebootjournal60376 жыл бұрын
Not every mountain is worth the climb. Great quote.
@Yayyyyyyyyyy6 жыл бұрын
I like that, your own ad in your own video!
@mahdibh26716 жыл бұрын
شكراً جزيلاً برندن. دمت على هذا العطاء و وفقت لكل خير Hello Brendon, I just received your book "High Performance Habits" , I'm currently reading "The Charge", and I've already finished "The Millionaire Messenger". How great I am progressing. Thank you from deep heart. All these books I received from your giveaways. Cannot appreciate this favour and kindness only to pray that you be safe and continue helping me and others and we too contribute to share your thoughts, knowledge, and rituals. This was Mahdi from Bahrain, Middle East, Lands of Arab. :)
@BrendonBurchard6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Enjoy High Performance Habits!
@aboudayman28846 жыл бұрын
Is this your real page?
@mahdibh26716 жыл бұрын
Asking me? what page bro?
@1stFlyingeagle6 жыл бұрын
Brendon, you say to try to make a case against your intuition. What I have LEARNED! intuition is never wrong. What I will do is once I receive the instruction. I will repeat it to God exactly the way I think it was meant. And wait for confirmation. Go left is easy. But when there are different steps sometimes it just needs to be confirmed. Say there are 4 steps. 1 and 2, I got really clear but 3 & 4 are not clear. I will ask God to send it to me again in a clearer message so that I may proceed with the instruction for 3 and 4 as I am completing 1 and 2. Waiting on God is something I truly cherish. So Brendon back to what you said. Could you give an example please.
@MsAimm6 жыл бұрын
A video full of awesomeness as usual!!!Thanks Brendon
@AH-xr1uf6 жыл бұрын
Definitely getting the book, right recommendation at a time when my landlady has been harassing me for a few months now.
@BarbTUSA6 жыл бұрын
Listened to this at 4:45 am 12/29/2017 - Excellent message to receive at the "perfect" time. :-)
@TheSunshinefee6 жыл бұрын
Thank you. REally needed this one.
@boymom778 ай бұрын
This is Awesome! It's the message that I need at this time. Our Intuition is truly a compass to our dreams.
@deew2932 Жыл бұрын
This is SO good!! Wish I had this years ago.
@aquilathebee80586 жыл бұрын
Needed this right now. Thank you!🙏🏽
@BarbTUSA6 жыл бұрын
Book by Rushworth M. Kidder ~ How Good People Make Tough Choices vs. How Good People Make Tough Decisions :-)
@FreelancingwithFaith6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing, Brendon! Hope and pray that I'll be able to attend this event in person.
@t.h.nguyen51936 жыл бұрын
Not every mountain is worth to clime! Awesome! Thank you!
@DanielaCunhaEFT6 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, even beeing to HPA, it's incredible how we need repetition
@kineticarts62343 жыл бұрын
Some things can wait and must come out of the basket .
@NuhuSunday-v2jКүн бұрын
So educating ❤️
@shafiazahin7286 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we don't want to hurt other people's feelings and be rude by saying no.If it doesn't take that much to be the reason of someone's happiness by sacrificing some of yours...is it too bad?
@SJ-vd1jh3 жыл бұрын
“Can I get an ‘amen’ on a Saturday?” Ha!
@SeedSucceed6 жыл бұрын
Genius
@olgakucharska28006 жыл бұрын
How much points you get to the projects that you start? What's your score range of the projects that you decline?
@RashawMedia6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful content once again still crushing it thanks!
@nikita-teapositive49435 жыл бұрын
Excellent yes and no ♥️
@UXGillespie6 жыл бұрын
Wow...so so influential, thank you so much.
@nataliapanic90006 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@אושרפנטהון3 жыл бұрын
I thought it would be some 💩 video but its so real and on point 🙏🏾
@aprilsjchoi89125 жыл бұрын
Great advice!!! Thank you.
@amrutsardar36756 жыл бұрын
Really liked this video Brendon.
@lemuelworkoutlistjackson26926 жыл бұрын
Wow! So true need to be better plan on priorities! !!
@dhanukakarunasena47116 жыл бұрын
11:35 the Yes! No! shake!!!
@KrystenJanzen6 жыл бұрын
So helpful Brendon 🙏🏻🔥
@austonlim5836 Жыл бұрын
Book: How good people make tough decisions
@IAmJudy11118 ай бұрын
Hmmm...being able to pivot and react has landed me some of my biggest contracts. Unplanned opportunities.
@49wendyg6 жыл бұрын
great concepts to start the new year :)
@dianatee4666 жыл бұрын
And how do you communicate no to a person? Any tips? Or scripts?
@gabirimoldi6 жыл бұрын
Brendon, how to deal with a boss that isn’t a good person and don’t want your success ?
@BashdaarulNaimTv2 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@drawingmaniacsterben71446 жыл бұрын
If I only watched that yesterday XD... and i am not taking my words back
@tamziie93116 жыл бұрын
Great advice
@Aalling766 жыл бұрын
right to the point
@buddhaneosiddhananda84996 жыл бұрын
Be in the moment, 'not plan'...
@rahul25bala6 жыл бұрын
How do you say NO to your boss? He always comes at the last minute?
@Yayyyyyyyyyy6 жыл бұрын
Rahul Bala say no by getting a new job?
@lalaithan6 жыл бұрын
Tell him he's coming to you too late for you to get stuff done the best you can and suggest a more appropriate time to come to you.
@justdoit23773 жыл бұрын
I don't have time = This is not my Priority
@msmolyansky6 жыл бұрын
Great video
@susanburchfield84975 жыл бұрын
What about those of us that have already bought the book?
@aliona.lubimova6 жыл бұрын
perfect
@diverstalent6 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE hilarious!!
@nyaric75436 жыл бұрын
Amen
@larasmith4904 жыл бұрын
🦋Amen
@BeatBoXer0096 жыл бұрын
Your score card should reflect you values.
@factsbluboi15036 жыл бұрын
Facts
@Manoj_Tomar_Uski_Jawa3 жыл бұрын
great
@DiegoElMentor10 ай бұрын
🎉❤
@anesiaduffy73786 жыл бұрын
Hi there I just realized I read a story about how it was Brendon’s first time meeting Dali lama he went to his country I remember reading that lol Follow Freda Burris on FACEBOOK