How To Choose Your Future Life partner | Jordan Peterson Motivation

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2 жыл бұрын

Some people have what I have come to call "broken pickers." They just can't seem to pick good partners for themselves. If this is something you're dealing with, here are some tips for making good choices when it comes to dating and mating from Jordan Peterson.
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@kristinebailey6554
@kristinebailey6554 2 ай бұрын
You don't need to be an extrovert to get acquainted with the "right person." Volunteer at a cat rescue, take classes in photography, etc. You will come across people with common ground this way. Are you churchy? Then go to church, but don't do anything with the express purpose of finding the perfect mate. I volunteered to help in a Space program on the campus where I worked. Ended up marrying the director of the facility holding the event. Now together very compatibly for 22 years.
@wwilliams4743
@wwilliams4743 6 ай бұрын
I tell my children that it is true: opposites attract. But successful marriages can't be opposites in all things. Find a person who shares some commonalities in hobbies, interests, faith, etc.
@triciareardon1317
@triciareardon1317 2 жыл бұрын
When your least expecting it. The right person will come along. When you look. You never find what you want. Be patient it’s on his time not our’s. 🙏❤️
@toyaunderwood9760
@toyaunderwood9760 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙌🏻
@Aleksandra.DaGreat
@Aleksandra.DaGreat 2 жыл бұрын
That’s the truth
@supritiphani1282
@supritiphani1282 Жыл бұрын
Is this true ? I mean shouldn't we pursue ?
@ghislainlebel7000
@ghislainlebel7000 11 ай бұрын
@@toyaunderwood9760one I if I guy
@kelly889
@kelly889 10 ай бұрын
Yes be patient, it has literally just happened to me 😊. He came into my life organically through friends living 440kms away from me. You just never know when and where your person.❤
@saliciousable
@saliciousable 6 ай бұрын
My veterinarian gave me the best advice. He used the following 5 levels of compatibility: 1. Intellectual native ability 2. Physical attraction 3. Social compatibility 4. Emotional intelligence 5. Spiritual (not necessarily religious) compatibility. His advice to his grown kids was to ensure the potential mate scored a 4 or more. It works brilliantly.
@bettyboothe2523
@bettyboothe2523 4 ай бұрын
How do you score? What's the scale? Are you saying 4 out of the 5?
@bunbohue369
@bunbohue369 2 ай бұрын
what is spiritual? Number 2, 3 and 4 is enough, as for number 1, I think it works a lot better if the guy is smarter.
@MMchezziscoo
@MMchezziscoo 2 ай бұрын
​@@bunbohue369Not always the case. 1 is important because the kids you'll have will have an iq which will be nearly be the average of both parents iq. Also, if you have a very high iq difference, your partner may not be able to understand/ reason witha lot of decisions you take resulting in conflict
@SmartRichKindPretty
@SmartRichKindPretty 5 күн бұрын
What is social compatibility? Whats the difference with emotional intelligence?
@davidbooher5559
@davidbooher5559 Ай бұрын
I think Jordan said before….. think of all the qualities you want in a partner….. and become that yourself.
@Zellonous
@Zellonous 11 күн бұрын
I thought transitioning was bad
@samuellundblad5766
@samuellundblad5766 2 ай бұрын
"Knowing yourself is the begining of all wisdon" I think I will make that my motto.
@nocapgotcap
@nocapgotcap 10 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:05 🤝 Compatibility matters: Mismatched traits on fundamental dimensions can lead to ongoing conflicts in a relationship. 01:00 🤝 Agreeableness and Disagreeableness: Differing levels can lead to clashes in communication styles and expectations. 02:09 🛋️ Industriousness and Orderliness: Industrious individuals may struggle with inactivity, while orderly people may conflict over tidiness. 03:21 🧹 Gender differences: Women tend to be more orderly and agreeable, which could affect the distribution of housework. 05:12 💔 Trust: Successful relationships require trust, open communication, and confronting each other's weaknesses. 07:09 💍 Marriage bond: Commitment is crucial to facing truths and working through challenges together, leading to personal growth and resilience. Made with HARPA AI
@orange-one
@orange-one 7 ай бұрын
Thanks bro 👍
@vickysharma-gl6gv
@vickysharma-gl6gv Ай бұрын
Nice
@LisaDunahoe
@LisaDunahoe 6 ай бұрын
Well I have been married for 38 years and definitely all of this can apply. The key is to at least one of you to be more conscious and be open to change and find acceptance in another. Love is seeing the human in one another. In the long run, it’s cool to get through the challenges in life and still be together and who cares about the random thoughts of others. I love the conversation and open to all opinions.
@ninjapirate47
@ninjapirate47 9 ай бұрын
This video stands as a lesson to those who do not study grammar and spelling.
@abart2056
@abart2056 14 күн бұрын
AI can't tell the difference between two, to and too! Or even young or Yung! 😂
@TheWilDOn31
@TheWilDOn31 7 ай бұрын
You can never find a person who is just like you. You can create a good relationship with someone who also wants to create a good relationship, and with whom you share similar values in life.
@crystalthow5533
@crystalthow5533 2 ай бұрын
Thank you. Your words have helped me to finalise my decision.
@robbiejsemperfi1033
@robbiejsemperfi1033 9 ай бұрын
I took Personality Psychology last summer, and now i see the five-factor model everywhere. Which is what he's referring to when he's talking about openness, conscientiousness, agreeable, extraversion, and neuroticism.
@Stormy5533
@Stormy5533 Ай бұрын
I would argue that The Fear of God is the Beginning of all Wisdom.
@kizmojw8827
@kizmojw8827 4 күн бұрын
Sounds like the begining to slavery not wisdom. Why would or could you possibly fear the all forgiving allfarther/god. Unless you have done something wrong? If you did something wrong, isnt that lacking wisdom?
@abbasjoy4785
@abbasjoy4785 3 күн бұрын
Thank you. That's the first thing I saw. Worldly wisdom
@Stormy5533
@Stormy5533 3 күн бұрын
Slavery began over 11,000 years ago, when one man found that he could control another. One could even say it is human nature, a flesh desire to look down on scum that wollow in the muck. Men who know how to wield swords but keep them sheathed will inherent the world. This is the highest ideal. This is the logos. This is God. Wielding a force so powerful that could vanquish all except He willing lets humanity stumble through life. Not to control us, like Satan would like to do, but to allow us free will to find Him and to make the right choices.
@thebeloved287
@thebeloved287 Күн бұрын
I would say, the Love of God (not fear) is the beginning of wisdom. So know and love thyself because God is I AM (you).
@Stormy5533
@Stormy5533 Күн бұрын
Proverbs 1:7 "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; fools despise wisdom and instruction."
@Obey639
@Obey639 2 жыл бұрын
If you leave the back door open, you're going to use it for sure! Wow...
@jennethramilo1876
@jennethramilo1876 2 жыл бұрын
In short, compatibility is the key.
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
😂😂
@yolandavanhollstein8438
@yolandavanhollstein8438 7 ай бұрын
true, you must have the same view point as a partner, your partner must be what YOU are........if you are kind, they must be kind, etc etc . Very true. Their must be a bit of difference but mostly alike
@arteeejr
@arteeejr 8 ай бұрын
Jordan Peterson's insights into personality and relationships are truly enlightening. He highlights the significance of aligning with a partner on key dimensions such as extroversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, and orderliness. When these dimensions are mismatched, it can lead to ongoing conflicts, which is a valuable perspective to consider in relationships. Lisa Haisha has been instrumental in providing me with valuable teachings on transforming challenges into opportunities for growth and fostering deeper connections. She underscores the significance of open communication and dedicating quality time to one another, which have proven to be invaluable tools in strengthening bonds. Incorporating these insights into my journey, guided by Lisa's wisdom and inspired by Jordan Peterson, reinforces the idea that building and nurturing meaningful relationships is pivotal for our fulfilling life path.
@PatriciaIshiguchi
@PatriciaIshiguchi Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely true, and be open to each other it's special, between each other and what was meant together 🔥💕
@mikefp3
@mikefp3 10 ай бұрын
The differences only create conflict if you let them. You always have a choice, if having messes drives your spouse crazy and you the pick up your messes out of love and respect for your spouse. Pretty soon the messes will start to drive you crazy. If your spouse hates being late and you just don’t really care, start being more attentive to time. Set alarms to keep yourself on track and on time, again out of love and respect for your spouse. It really not that difficult to act in a loving way towards someone. We have come to a very self centered attitude in our culture, these things are really not difficult if you are willing to ACT in a loving manner to your spouse and make their well being the number one priority in your life. If that is done by both spouses you can overcome any differences or conflicts that come your way. The fact is that you can act loving to anyone you choose to, but you have to make the choice.
@emroze
@emroze 9 ай бұрын
so basically what you are saying is, change yourself and stop being the person you are just to please the other person? and dont have an expectation from the other person to do the same for you. correct?
@61sunset
@61sunset 9 ай бұрын
​@@emrozeNo, read his post again, he is basically saying we need to compromise in any relationship to make each other happy.
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 9 ай бұрын
Exactly negotiation and compromise are essential in healthy relationships. Team Players. Partnership. Equality mutuality and reciprocity.
@mybigfatexpatlife6865
@mybigfatexpatlife6865 9 ай бұрын
It needs to be done by BOTH! Sadly, that's why many marriages divorce. One person doesn't want to put in the work in the relationship. It takes two to tango!
@codyjones1486
@codyjones1486 8 ай бұрын
I concur this is accurate and my same view I hoped was limited to just me , 😅
@tatianalepadatu
@tatianalepadatu 9 ай бұрын
AMAZING WORDS!!!
@suekal3000
@suekal3000 6 ай бұрын
Love this!!
@Callummullans
@Callummullans 10 ай бұрын
Find peace, joy and love then the person you can share this with will be more obvious, you’ll vibe on these things in the same ways which is more important than economic views and carnal attraction etc. might not be exactly the same but you’ll hold similar regard for these things.
@sherriflemming3218
@sherriflemming3218 9 ай бұрын
Hes right about mismatches. Cimpatibility is crucial.
@davidnguyen270
@davidnguyen270 5 ай бұрын
Simpatibilty is the problem with men today. 😅
@malikattar9484
@malikattar9484 23 күн бұрын
No marriage can be successful without Trust …
@michaeloverstreet986
@michaeloverstreet986 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant observations Dr J, well done, thank you. The truth shall set you free.
@ChesnaHill-nk4bz
@ChesnaHill-nk4bz 3 ай бұрын
This was so on point !!!!!!
@adrianwinter5943
@adrianwinter5943 10 ай бұрын
Sacrifice helps when a person is worth keeping .
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 4 ай бұрын
It takes two. BOTH people need to sacrifice and want to, for each other.
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
@@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858agreed!
@KnowledgeWithAnEdge
@KnowledgeWithAnEdge 5 ай бұрын
This spoke volumes ❤
@marilynsalmon6149
@marilynsalmon6149 Жыл бұрын
That’s wisdom
@pz3j
@pz3j 8 ай бұрын
I wish i could have seen this 25 years ago😢
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
The parent we never had to say this is what you look for. No one told me about child rearing or marriage or realionships and s…e…x that was Dr Ruth and tv shows! 😂🤦‍♀️. I’m divorced after working hard to save it for so many years I was a zombie and so sick after years of toxicity of the children and me. What I would give to go back with the knowledge I have now!🙏😢
@user-uj5nf1iz8j
@user-uj5nf1iz8j 9 ай бұрын
That's right on the money
@LionInTheSky
@LionInTheSky 7 ай бұрын
I just Luv me some Jordan Peterson. 🥰
@chaddisrud535
@chaddisrud535 2 ай бұрын
I find it really interesting at about 6:45 he says “and so the marriage bond is something like okay, here’s the deal. I’m going to handcuff myself to you and you are going to handcuff yourself to me and then we’re going to tell each other the truth and neither of us are going to get to run away”. That seems so true. We put on a facade in dating that our sh-t don’t stink when we know it probably does. We can’t totally inform the other of all of our faults before marriage. We try to always put our best foot forward which is a bit of a dishonest representation of ourself. It would be so awesome if we could agree on “and neither of us are going to get to run away”. I think this should be drilled into every engaged couple by any entity marrying them. That’s what marriage is fundamentally all about. You and the other person give up the right to run away. That’s what we are signing up for. Unless that’s the deal, there is no marriage. It is only then that one can attain the highest level of honesty with another person. What do you think?
@user-fy4sf7be6x
@user-fy4sf7be6x 8 ай бұрын
Thanking you for your kind wishes 🙏
@KimberlyFavors
@KimberlyFavors 4 ай бұрын
This spoke volumes
@typical_orange_cat
@typical_orange_cat 11 ай бұрын
I'm not religious or anything but I hope that'll find that one and he'll become my husband. Relationship isn't something to play with. Now i just hope it's possible
@hudajamil3890
@hudajamil3890 5 ай бұрын
Solution to this is everyone must try to be a balanced personality him/ herself knowing their own weaknessess and strengths and understanding the other persons' .. if there is agreeable understanding along with the divine connection .. then everything will be "aik dam mast" 😊
@SharlaMontgomery
@SharlaMontgomery 11 ай бұрын
I think i finally found him! God willing ❤
@gerrimiller3491
@gerrimiller3491 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations 🎊
@emmanuelmwangi2514
@emmanuelmwangi2514 2 жыл бұрын
it's only on God's time that it happens I believe and declare that the right person will locate me,some1 I can learn frm who would understand me,n also be there through thick and thin.
@user-fn4my3tx2r
@user-fn4my3tx2r 9 ай бұрын
What about those who never meet the right person?
@WorDouglas8
@WorDouglas8 2 ай бұрын
Its so intresting to listen to your life lessons - some of wht you discuss is so interesting and relevant! wow
@shenanigans797
@shenanigans797 4 ай бұрын
The movie, "Joy Luck Club," really gives an amazing perspective
@nataliezaf
@nataliezaf 9 ай бұрын
Everyone is putting up with the traits of their spouse - because they love them. Incredible how much more generous in our judgement of others we are if we like them. When you love you absorb all of them, no matter how fkn annoying. Right on truth n trust tho, ain't nutin without that. No mention of cruelty - be very aware of cruel people and be ware they can present as very soft sometimes but just start to confuse you in circles, evasive. Other traits are just traits and ain't non of us perfect. You can put up with a few towel left on bathroom floor as long as he's a genuinely good person xx
@tektauron
@tektauron 8 ай бұрын
the amount of mistakes in the subtitles threw me off. But excellent talk by Peterson. As always
@manamejefffffffffffff9337
@manamejefffffffffffff9337 7 ай бұрын
She came when I was 10 and she was 8. We met by pure chance as we never lived in the same state, and as all of our other friends and family fell through and left us... We stayed close🥲
@ErinTrim
@ErinTrim 6 ай бұрын
how could anyone possible live with somebody like him???!
@HeavenlyLights
@HeavenlyLights 8 ай бұрын
Yes. Industrious here 👊🏻
@erikah1468
@erikah1468 Ай бұрын
I’m happy to help edit this
@Epic-so3ek
@Epic-so3ek 8 ай бұрын
"hey babe, how much social interaction should we subject ourselves to? I really want to come up with a consensus, at maximum by next quarter."
@roxybuell9898
@roxybuell9898 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Why can't We just Simply Love and get along.😥🙏
@mister-zen8491
@mister-zen8491 9 ай бұрын
Some people don't know how. I didn't.
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
Ego and I don’t need you and money is all I need and I can get S E. X. Outside marriage.
@emybarker20
@emybarker20 9 ай бұрын
I wish I could talk to Jordan just once And have him evaluate me So that I may truly rise to my cause Until then I will self listen, and be aware that this isn’t an easy journey for anyone
@doloresaquines1529
@doloresaquines1529 9 ай бұрын
Emy. You can examine yourself and decide exactly What you want in a partner or spouse. There is a good book, get It "Why do I do that" by Dr. Joseph Burgo.
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
Truths! 🙏🥹
@geemail369
@geemail369 10 ай бұрын
(Why) is no one checking the subtitles prior to publishing? 👀
@angloaust1575
@angloaust1575 7 ай бұрын
Its a temporal situation Human love is unreliable Gods love is eternal There isnt any right one Several could be compatible
@bethpoet1873
@bethpoet1873 25 күн бұрын
Ya, what if marriage is more about making us holy than happy?
@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142
@vivianeprudentiabuelens9142 7 ай бұрын
Thad is great ! ❤😊 8:32
@clearproppea
@clearproppea Жыл бұрын
6:20 NOICE.
@Portia620
@Portia620 2 ай бұрын
YES!!
@AnaRanja
@AnaRanja 11 ай бұрын
My partner are my good friend and never betrayd
@saliciousable
@saliciousable 6 ай бұрын
Opposites atrract but similars stay together. So, make sure you don't marry someone until you're out of the honeymoon period where the differences still seem attractive.
@amieaiello3456
@amieaiello3456 4 ай бұрын
So well said
@docdominus
@docdominus 9 ай бұрын
As a Muslim man who doesn't go out partying, or to any social events unless required to, it's so hard to meet someone. Furthermore it's even harder to find someone with whom you match on different dimensions. It seems like the game is over for traditional conservative men like me. The island I live on is very small and there aren't many options at all. Tried online matchmaking and even got married but people tell you what you want to hear until you live together and then they're like a totally different person. I gave up hope but I'll pray to Allah that I find that woman with whom I can build a family, to love, provide for and protect. It's hard out here. It seems like women want traditional men without being traditional women and it's such a demoralising thing to deal with.
@doloresaquines1529
@doloresaquines1529 9 ай бұрын
Doc. My advice. Stay away from online Dating and online stuff. You Will never meet a quality person that way. Ever.
@docdominus
@docdominus 9 ай бұрын
@@doloresaquines1529 Unfortunately I had to learn that the hard way. Some of us don't have any other option though realistically
@doloresaquines1529
@doloresaquines1529 9 ай бұрын
@@docdominus I am curious. Why not?
@docdominus
@docdominus 9 ай бұрын
@@doloresaquines1529 small country, even smaller community of persons of the same faith. I'm not part of the same group since my ancestry is a little different from most of my counterparts here as well and you're viewed differently just because of that. Then there's the growing liberal/woke type of culture especially within the opposite sex and that makes it even harder as a conservative person. Just a few reasons why it's challenging. I'm still hopeful, though. There's gotta be someone out there, there's 8 billion people haha
@doloresaquines1529
@doloresaquines1529 9 ай бұрын
@@docdominus For sure! And I know What you mean about the woke insanity. Far too many younger people are brainwashed by woke, they are woke-washed! Utter stupidity. Same over here I am afraid .
@FaydsterTV
@FaydsterTV Ай бұрын
In a way, the first one I had was probably THE one. We had the same background, we had the same views, we had the same taste in most every bit of media, we had friends that loved seeing us together. She broke it up, but I’m praying that it’s just temporary, and that we will try it again one day.
@samia8630
@samia8630 Ай бұрын
can i ask what happened?
@JaneDoe-ng3zm
@JaneDoe-ng3zm 6 ай бұрын
Singleness is beautiful wonderful amazing i love being single i do what i want when i want how i want its so PEACEFUL
@iletaitunefois11
@iletaitunefois11 9 ай бұрын
Lets be honest. I dont like to party. I dont like to meet new people. I dont like noise. I dont like alcohol. So.. how will I meet the person that is like me if he doesnt like to meet new people ? 😂
@doloresaquines1529
@doloresaquines1529 9 ай бұрын
Aurel. You Will never ever meet a quality person at parties, bars or at drinking sessions. You should know enough as an adult What a quality person is.
@nataliezaf
@nataliezaf 9 ай бұрын
Clubs, hobbies, ask your friends outright...
@iletaitunefois11
@iletaitunefois11 9 ай бұрын
@@doloresaquines1529 it was a bit of a joke but I dont care going to clubs and everything. Not so many good people indeed. Thank you to mention but yes Iam a grown up adult 🤣🤡
@sunwooyoo4457
@sunwooyoo4457 9 ай бұрын
If u r Christian you can go to church
@rosapasquale8179
@rosapasquale8179 8 ай бұрын
If you're a Catholic, there's Singles for Christ. If not, try going to your local church. Just as an example..
@conniedean3787
@conniedean3787 10 ай бұрын
You by the soul NOT the body, the inside of the person NOT the outside, have the same kind values
@fidel_cyclingaddicts5167
@fidel_cyclingaddicts5167 7 ай бұрын
best is to just live a fullfilled life and not go looking for love.. the right person for you will come be patient and vet them properly.. ppl can be cruel to those they claim they love
@camillachristinenorveganus161
@camillachristinenorveganus161 3 ай бұрын
Really Be You
@camillachristinenorveganus161
@camillachristinenorveganus161 3 ай бұрын
I am 51 % In, made by some human test
@camillachristinenorveganus161
@camillachristinenorveganus161 Ай бұрын
@Demondsmith13 Thank you! Picture is 100% me: - No Makup No Animale Testing!
@junevandermark952
@junevandermark952 10 ай бұрын
Ann Landers, who used to have a column in newspapers pertaining to how to have a good marriage, ended up being divorced. The moral of that story is … it just doesn’t pay to brag about knowing what works and what doesn’t work. From the book … Ann Eppie-The story of Ann Landers, by her daughter Margo Howard. Margo-My children thought the break-up of Gramma’s marriage had a positive side effect. “It mellowed her out,” they decided. She agreed that, yes, perhaps the kids were right. In fact, mother and I had a joke between us. A funny thing happened to her on her way to sainthood. She got divorced.
@josmclove4426
@josmclove4426 10 ай бұрын
You can't know it all hey
@ob2249
@ob2249 9 ай бұрын
junevandermark indeed, I pay n0 attenti0n t0 anything peters0n "eventuaIIy " gets r0und t0 saying he`says the Ieast with the m0st w0rds what d0es it say ab0ut him that he feeIs quaIified t0 advise pe0pie 0n aII kinds 0f t0pics ? was it s0crates wh0 said wisd0m is the re0gniti0n 0f y0ur 0wn ign0rance ?
@junevandermark952
@junevandermark952 9 ай бұрын
@@ob2249 After Jordan went on social media ... professing to being a know it all psychologist ... he opened the floodgates of those whose "ethical" job it was to prove him wrong. “I was Jordan Peterson’s strongest supporter. Now I think he’s dangerous. He wanted to establish a church, he said, in which he would preach every Sunday.” Author … Bernard Schiff … professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Toronto. From the book … The LITTLE BOOK OF PSYCHOLOGY: An Introduction to the Key Psychologists and Theories You Need to Know … authors … Emily Ralis, Caroline Riggs Integrity If a psychologist has any concerns over the practice of a colleague, they should raise this with the relevant professional body.
@karenholtzclaw3135
@karenholtzclaw3135 Ай бұрын
Know what I need to work on...
@rohi1654
@rohi1654 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@imisstheoldyoutube9845
@imisstheoldyoutube9845 10 ай бұрын
I chose so wisly that im still single 👀
@DenysSterling
@DenysSterling 5 ай бұрын
Please, provide a link to the uncut original video
@abhinavdhami1158
@abhinavdhami1158 Ай бұрын
If a man feels that he can be vulnerable and share his heart out to a woman without any judgements, she is the one; and vice versa. That is IT! Rest all is noise!
@Paradys8
@Paradys8 6 ай бұрын
It sounds SO complicated….
@jeanchristiane9462
@jeanchristiane9462 9 ай бұрын
I wish i had read this 10 years ago
@TessE777
@TessE777 6 күн бұрын
Several years ago, I understood there'll be at least one major flaw in a relationship. So, you just have to choose which flaw you refuse to deal with. Ex: I won't tolerate physical abuse whatsoever. After AIDS I refuse to accept infidelity. And, I despise a cheap man who expects the woman to pay. ETC....
@high-tech8133
@high-tech8133 2 жыл бұрын
May Allah grant me a good, loving man who'd be willing to go out of their way for me... Amen
@nc4125
@nc4125 Жыл бұрын
I wish more women felt like that…
@jaydee6710
@jaydee6710 Жыл бұрын
Wish I knew woman that actually meant that too
@thezanarose
@thezanarose 7 ай бұрын
But if no one who is like you wants you except for the opposite of you, your choice is so limited. 12 years with a guy who is the opposite of me, it can be a battle as he’s incredibly introverted and anal about a lot. I’m extremely adaptable and he’s really structured and unwilling to evolve. But we are loyal to each other. I have had to compromise more. Naturally women have to adapt more. But he would die for me to protect me.
@sunny-frevr
@sunny-frevr 6 ай бұрын
Ok, let me tell you eventhough I'm an amateur at this. However, from observation I KNOW to be for a fact, that when a person is 'ready' they choose whomever is around them, whoever they can get at the time. And that is relationships in a nutshell.
@gailconlon9507
@gailconlon9507 7 ай бұрын
Dear Doctor!! YOU ARE VERY INTERESTING 😘👍🎉🎵🎈🌲🦋🌈🥰😇🙏🎁💖🕊
@alexanderborodin351
@alexanderborodin351 7 ай бұрын
I wonder whether the same logic applies to neuroticism (one of the Big 5 personality dimensions) meaning that people who are very different in terms of neuroticism will have a hard time together. I imagine that the neurotic person will find it helpful to have a partner who isn't too neurotic, but vice versa it will probably be more challenging and potentially unpleasant for the person who is low in neuroticism. What are your thoughts?
@kevincarbone6831
@kevincarbone6831 Ай бұрын
Neuroticism is a little different. The lower the better, for both partners. It’s not best for a neurotic person person to be with a similarly neurotic person, but if one person is neurotic they can be stabilized by the person who is less so. Ideally both would be low in neuroticism though.
@hadasitalki7247
@hadasitalki7247 5 ай бұрын
@user-tz6wj2bw9i
@user-tz6wj2bw9i 26 күн бұрын
At 2:37 and onward where you talk about industrious people not being ok with not sitting around , and the unproductive people getting wiped out by the productive. Well that works pretty good on paper until Covid came along and everyone thinks they are entitled to work 3 days from home and get payed for 5 when they’re 30 years old-- tell me how that works out for your theory
@user-ko5bc4dg4y
@user-ko5bc4dg4y 6 ай бұрын
If You Have a Wonderful Partner
@susafouche2104
@susafouche2104 6 ай бұрын
What lecture was this audio clip taken from?
@matthewnelson9809
@matthewnelson9809 17 күн бұрын
that all
@jamescurrie2246
@jamescurrie2246 9 ай бұрын
How can I know myself if I see myself as one who is not yet done becoming? If faith is the strength to move forward into the abysmal unknowing, then isn't a person who knows themselves made completely out of faith?
@TheWilDOn31
@TheWilDOn31 7 ай бұрын
You will never be done becoming. Know yourself as you are now, and know yourself as you will be later. Best way to grow is to know yourself as you are now. If you can't, then maybe you have a problem with accepting yourself and your flaws (which we all have), maybe you criticise yourself too much or you have some past trauma for which you blame yourself, and you need to work on that. We all make mistakes, but we are still enough.
@lauriemeerlarock5649
@lauriemeerlarock5649 9 ай бұрын
@06:40
@Hhbdr
@Hhbdr 9 ай бұрын
I wish I'd have heard this 30 yrs ago.:(
@jonathanjohnson5216
@jonathanjohnson5216 Жыл бұрын
✅📝🚨🙏🏿
@user-ej5jc5dk1e
@user-ej5jc5dk1e 10 ай бұрын
I have so little to no energy left to even try getting into relationship . Also i am sure i am not enough & i think i am objective . As these is not enough , I always have many more problems .
@mister-zen8491
@mister-zen8491 9 ай бұрын
Then you are already dead. Fix that mindset and you'll be alive again.
@deangeloburke
@deangeloburke Жыл бұрын
Introvert outrovert Iam both
@papi5377
@papi5377 5 ай бұрын
Mam jednak nieco inne zdanie. Przeciwieństwa się przyciągają ( ciekawość )! Mając na uwadze hobby upodobania w tym rozwój osobisty. Ale nigdy nie będziesz nim nią spójność w jednym zdaniu nie istnieje. Nie nudzić się.
@erikramaekers63
@erikramaekers63 19 күн бұрын
Yep.That's why i'm single.
@InstitutoWatts
@InstitutoWatts 6 ай бұрын
Ask and you shall recieve
@user-po2ql5tb6w
@user-po2ql5tb6w 5 ай бұрын
Is dating lower than your status. Everything is a life lesson. There are times that you meet someone that may be a lower social economic status. And you can help them along to be all right. And looking for a major I don't think that's possible but I do believe that when you find that 1 pe friends doesn't Matter about pears, it is about the 2 of You and what You both bring to each other. And that you're good to each other it doesn't. It's not determining whether it's a low status socio-economic status but actually the 2 of you, a view away from everyone away from famplay. Just you too, and then you block out the world. Can you just have each other if people don't like that then a well
@nunelevonyan6413
@nunelevonyan6413 7 ай бұрын
Be different but not too much, then ))
@Soulenergy31
@Soulenergy31 6 ай бұрын
0:25 if you are introverted with an extroverted partner 0:50 the thing about introverts is that.....
@AWayOfLiving84
@AWayOfLiving84 5 ай бұрын
All wisdom achieves?
@pieter5466
@pieter5466 7 ай бұрын
5:33 I just want to know where this landscape is.
@luke-vr9wk
@luke-vr9wk 4 ай бұрын
I'm 33 male My fiance just left me after 5 years out of the blue. I was so happy I thought she was too it's so heartbreaking
@svetavinogradova4243
@svetavinogradova4243 Ай бұрын
You will fond another one, better. Women sometimes leave simply because they are imprinted by a certain type of man appearance wise. They get into a relationshp with a good man, but jhe is not that specific facial type... when they meet the type, they cannot resist. There are many women who are not imprinted though. You are lucky that she left. You are meant for the other one.
@karmachannel9135
@karmachannel9135 2 ай бұрын
Lol. ... that's a real challenge.
@DarraSmith-ul3mt
@DarraSmith-ul3mt 4 ай бұрын
😊❤🎉
@Jthk4855
@Jthk4855 6 ай бұрын
4:00
@taylorsherrill6110
@taylorsherrill6110 Ай бұрын
None of this matters if the person you’re dating deep down sees you as a lower quality human than others because you’re not as attractive. People will read this and think duh… but most people will assume they just didn’t date. Instead they did, and along the way he made sure she knew she was less
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