How to Talk to Anyone and Get What You Want: Surrounded by Idiots by Thomas Erikson
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@alexmarvel468219 күн бұрын
You really blowing my mind with how accurate this actually is I feel like I look at the world in a much different way now
@8MinutesExplainer22 күн бұрын
Pay attention to what the other person is saying, and show genuine interest in their perspective. By understanding their needs and concerns, you can tailor your communication to better align with their interests, increasing the likelihood of getting what you want.
@zsoltmadacs556721 күн бұрын
It’s called Active listening . There’s a book called “ Listening the forgotten skill - second edition by Madelyn Burley-Allen” . It points out quickly what kind of listener u are and help you get better at listening and also become a better and more successful person
@ish123199722 күн бұрын
I was part of a management course this year where we were categorised into our colours! This video has condensed it all into 20 minutes 👌 sending it to my boss
@noorgonzalez107621 күн бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😂
@simplereally.21 күн бұрын
My wife and I have such a wonderful marriage. I always know what she is thinking, because she always tell me. She always knows what I'm thinking, because she tells me that too. Communication is great
@TK.00019 күн бұрын
😂
@minterproperties714614 күн бұрын
Sou ds about right
@susanadelgado10239 күн бұрын
😂😂😂👍
@perfectplays684922 күн бұрын
Can you please make an video[ specifically on small talk.] "How to build small talk mind map? Don't worry about what to say and build the ability to ask questions without feeling what to ask." After taking a lot of courses I came to realize that problem is specifically small talk. A general mind map of small talk great communicators follow. Will be very greatful.
@user-do3gg6zb9g20 күн бұрын
Thank you for coming back Elvin, Life and Work was kind of not effective without you Around.
@marycjey414121 күн бұрын
This is a perfect video to master the skill of interaction.
@haleemabdurahman51516 күн бұрын
Part 4, blue and yellow is gold 👌
@kingdidi003720 күн бұрын
Best lesson ever ❤
@BlessedOne6867 күн бұрын
Excellent Summary🔥🔥
@akitadakid632622 күн бұрын
yeah your right i do feel empowered cuz apparently im the avatar. i change through out the day and with different task. This just helped me uderstand why sometimes im on top of things and later i can feel like i never stood a chance.
@boss-fu1cy2 күн бұрын
Thanks it's helpful
@scottunique22 күн бұрын
Fabulous Video!! Your work is always so thorough and clear. I'm reading more quality books because of your excellent choices!!
@Neezy98 күн бұрын
Great work! Very helpful content.Helps me be less blue lol
@ProdProddy21 күн бұрын
Everyone can be all of them under the right circumstances
@kartikgrover254522 күн бұрын
I am all four colours. Might be schizophrenia
@bentonrp21 күн бұрын
I always considered you more of a mauve.
@kartikgrover254521 күн бұрын
@@bentonrp nvm I am n word colour
@stevenchapman58106 күн бұрын
ME TOO.. BITS AND PIECES
@Getbetter202322 күн бұрын
I like your content👍 Nice attention to details
@MoonLint18 күн бұрын
Amazing video.
@nsepeter22 күн бұрын
Nice graphic backing ✅
@theminecrafter49er5 күн бұрын
Hey love the videos and hope all is well! I’d love to see a video over “One Up On Wallstreet”! Thanks
@getachewdessie16853 күн бұрын
Please present the book can't hurt me by david goginns pls it is amazing book that is why i said do the book because i want to share what i know for this amazing youtube channel fans lots of lov!
@KaysProduct22 күн бұрын
It was one of your best video of all time. I found myself clearly described in what you were saying. I just hoped you would tell us where you locate yourself. You made it so great. It filled me with ideas of what to do and what to be. Thanks
@infoworldnow-ig6lo9 күн бұрын
Please turn this into a series
@NewDay1211422 күн бұрын
I love your videos ❤❤
@IsaacMusama-ry5tq13 күн бұрын
can you continue putting that background tune(sound) that I hear in your older videos please 🙏🏼
@Lunar12342418 күн бұрын
Green blue 💚🪀💙🍏🥒🦋💙💚🩵🩵 🌱
@farakalhor181517 сағат бұрын
Can you please tell me what software you are using for your video?
@travelingtheusa27721 күн бұрын
Hello, can you do a summary of CRUCIAL CONVERSATIONS?
@XindyNnn21 күн бұрын
I think I’m a green person. And my close friend is a red person . No wonder I feel stressed when I’m with her
@sammou801121 күн бұрын
which kind of program do u use to make this video? i want to use it for school. thank you✌
@stevenchapman58106 күн бұрын
I AM A MIXER OF ALL 4!!!
@albertjohnbasson22 күн бұрын
Bit of a spelling mistake in the title there
@sherrellejohnson345122 күн бұрын
Unfortunately with titles KZbin doesn’t give you enough space for a complete title. So you have to be creative with your spelling.
@albertjohnbasson22 күн бұрын
OK I get that but by dropping the "N" in the word you created a complete new meaning. Why didnt you just drop the space after the Colon: @@sherrellejohnson3451
@angelinebarreno946022 күн бұрын
*SC
@angelinebarreno946022 күн бұрын
Could of used NEone
@bentonrp21 күн бұрын
I think she fixed it. But anyway, chaps, ...what do you think this chick looks like? Think she's a fox? I think I've always liked her naive, little voice, is why...
@charmievisperas13 күн бұрын
I have this book…
@SailorGreenTea21 күн бұрын
Interesting
@fwdsmatter111721 күн бұрын
For sureeeeee i'm all except yellow lol
@tome345420 күн бұрын
I'm definitely a red, blue, and yellow combo.
@Isushmasagar9 күн бұрын
Strangely.. I am a combo of all four.. Depending on the task..
@GOEDGEDAAN22 күн бұрын
i love this channel so much change the title because you spelled it wrong ANYONE you wrote ayone
@juliemarkham433218 күн бұрын
Green was right on. I'm a turtle. 🐢
@Chuck-Norris121 күн бұрын
I'm a perfect combination of green and blue
@codylazenby52828 күн бұрын
Would be a good video if there wasn’t an ad every 2.5 minutes
@JonnyRay8220 күн бұрын
Why do I feel like I'm an equal part of all colors??
@sahebmark21 күн бұрын
❤❤
@daniellagunes593021 күн бұрын
Red is a menace
@justicechannelforthepeople173011 күн бұрын
I’m definitely red
@akolangito420921 күн бұрын
Whats the best thing to do while me as blue and my wife is yellow😅
@kazuya99ace19 күн бұрын
As a blue primary-red secondary, I feel like it's easy to hate absolutely everyone around me except for other blue-reds. Anybody else in the comments feel this?
@Aerixes.22 күн бұрын
i'm red and blue combined. i find being yellow a bit naive tbh, the way i understood yellow's personality is "if we're all relaxed then it will all work out" but someone's gotta do the dirty work, same way that everyone works so the country keeps going
@bentonrp21 күн бұрын
No; You're Puce.
@Bruce4lmighty20 күн бұрын
We are all a combination of all 4 colours, some stronger than others. Perfection would be when all 4 colours are represented equally. I did a course 11 years ago along with colleagues at the company I worked at and we all found it incredibly beneficial 👍🏻
@onlyme245018 күн бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
@palakondahemanth746421 күн бұрын
wow im clearly yellow but i kind of feel like im a combination of all colors .but still yellows dominant😜.
@1999Jerod22 күн бұрын
I wonder if we can change 🤔
@brak138121 күн бұрын
We can be more aware of each other and ourselves.
@dudalojogrme19 күн бұрын
Good question, but it's a marathon not a sprint!
@sylviazepeda625921 күн бұрын
Anyone? You have a typo in the tittle of your video
@ryanmoraleta659221 күн бұрын
You got “tittle” on yours
@nelju062121 күн бұрын
Hello, Blue
@queenyassgoddessgifts941821 күн бұрын
I'm actually a yellow type of person mixed with blue, but I am introvert and I don't like surrounded by peoples, I get my energy from animals and natures.. I don't like working with groups of peoples, it drained me..
@Bruce4lmighty20 күн бұрын
Strong yellow represents an extrovert. I think from your comment you are strong blue & green, weak red & yellow. I did the course 11 years ago 👍🏻
@user-eg1sk6bx2r18 күн бұрын
Some people work very hard to make things complex especially women 😅😅😅
@bumpintheG22 күн бұрын
🏆🏆🏆
@RishiRajxtrim22 күн бұрын
🙂👍😌🙏
@lesleyjohnson848821 күн бұрын
Yes, these were the colours many years ago when they designated people according to the Four Humours in medieval science and medicine. I remember it as Red - choleric, Yellow - sanguine, Blue - melancholy, and Green - phlegmatic. Doesn’t really help as much as the Enneagram, though. Not enough nuance. Plus it is based in a very flawed vision of medicine and psychology. Recycled ideas from 40 years ago, which was recycled from the time of Galen.
@Bruce4lmighty20 күн бұрын
Totally agree. I did this then the Enneagram at a retreat over a decade ago. Works well in combination however, if I could only choose one it would be the Enneagram every time 👍🏻
@listennow549621 күн бұрын
Dear diary, Today I found out that I am a rainbow.
@brak138121 күн бұрын
😅
@akolangito420921 күн бұрын
Blue😅
@hrg_tv22 күн бұрын
*anyone
@mrunalpatel545814 күн бұрын
I am green
@T-o-o-t-h-l-e-s-s22 күн бұрын
Definitely a green guy
@Aerixes.22 күн бұрын
i find green a bit closed minded.. in my eyes red and blue are the ideal and what everyone should be aiming for.
@FrostyFlipz10 күн бұрын
I'm literally all of these, every last one!
@socksrocksdocks18 күн бұрын
i guess im a little of every color then
@_themasteroflife_20 күн бұрын
Yellow is narcis
@rodgerpiercearchitect13 күн бұрын
…I’m thinking that this video would be really funny at 2X speed
@chebautista16922 күн бұрын
I am yellow-green. My boyfriend is red-yellow
@bentonrp21 күн бұрын
No, you're turquoise.
@user-fk8gm9zz2p22 күн бұрын
I like this channel it's favorite one, I hope to see more videos
@Venom-nk8nd13 күн бұрын
🇵🇬🇵🇬,,,
@zap714020 күн бұрын
【Free Advice】I think in your videos, the way you speak is too quick and make me stressful with lots of important information in short period of time. I think you might work on it.
@dudalojogrme19 күн бұрын
But I think everyone of us can cut her a lot of slack, it's not easier to cover a whole book in 20mins! I suggest anyone who is finding it difficult to catch up to listen twice or thrice and also to pause and listen and ultimately get the book she's promoting. Then we will see what a great work she's Doing.
@BradyVaughn19 күн бұрын
You can actually slow down the playback speed thus slowing her speech. Neat!
@miguellibert46458 күн бұрын
There is another page called so much better thay is copying your content
@casmartin131422 күн бұрын
This is bullshit. I'm a different color depending of the crowd, mainly the 1st three
@bentonrp21 күн бұрын
Of course it's bullshit. Don't you know that this book is just a conspiratorial ploy to make you think of, and buy more Skittles?... 🔴🟠🟢🟣🔵🟡 🟠🟢🔵🟡🔴🟣
@Vexwisval288 күн бұрын
This sounds like hogwarts houses
@HeavenlyLights20 күн бұрын
I’m a RED surrounded by NO REDS. yuck. Except I DON’T do temper. I STAY AWAY from the time wasters.
@seonpook4296 күн бұрын
You painted the Red & the Yellow in a way they are mostly from the higher up, defining how the world works in all human history. If that's the case, it doesn't worth the time at all because the Red likes to blame upon failure, and the Yellow likes to kiss xss, cuz that's how they get into where they are. You might end up losing yourself or being a toady trying to impress everyone, before even getting what you want. And you think you're smart enough using "surrounded by idiots" to immune from potential criticism on the credibility of this borrowed content.
@brians190218 күн бұрын
This has been debunked. Oversimplified that it is pseudo science.
@mahboubnik23769 күн бұрын
Hahaha, you are basically trying to sell your services by presentation visual means.
@508outdoorcooking18 күн бұрын
I love how I have you in my featured channels because I always need you, you are some of the best advice I have ever gotten the books you read in the way you deliver it are so helpful to me I know I don’t comment all the time, but I really am a life fan of your channel and all your hard work. I know I said it before but thank you.🫶💕👌😎