How to Communicate With Men | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs

9 жыл бұрын

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In this video you'll learn the one key to communicate your needs with your man in the most effective way.
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@AdrianColley
@AdrianColley 2 жыл бұрын
4:19 "telling a man how to deliver you happiness" Yes! As a man, I confirm that this is a major motivator for us. If you want your man to do something for you, tell him it's something you want.
@noorthernluces190
@noorthernluces190 2 жыл бұрын
I told him I wanted him to clean the dishes. ...I’m still waiting 😂
@aliabuseem2102
@aliabuseem2102 2 жыл бұрын
@@noorthernluces190 😂😂
@savannahjreeves
@savannahjreeves Жыл бұрын
How do you want to hear it being asked if you? A man in my life just said I speak disrespectful like I am telling him what to do. Even though I feel like I am asking nicely if we wouldn’t mind doing the small thing. I don’t know the correct way to effectively communicate it across to the man.
@prjdghyt
@prjdghyt 3 жыл бұрын
It's better to be direct. Saves a lot of time. Avoids misunderstandings. And each person doesn't have to guess what the other person wants. If they love you they'd be happy to express their love for you in ways you want to be loved.
@anisa3610
@anisa3610 Жыл бұрын
you just like me frl. I can't stand when people WALK around the bush like some folks got time, when a lot of us don't have the mental patience. So I agree with you, let's just be honest, yet respectful
@SwedishGFE
@SwedishGFE 2 ай бұрын
Exactly! We'll said!
@prjdghyt
@prjdghyt 2 ай бұрын
@@anisa3610 yeah. Being direct also helps us get the answer we need right away and then we can make a decision on what to do next.
@Kiseochan
@Kiseochan 8 жыл бұрын
The reason I ask "do you want" instead of telling them that I want them to go with me is because I want to know that he WANTS to spend time with me. It's not really about going to the place, its about seeing that he LIKES spending time with me.
@TaperedNatural
@TaperedNatural 8 жыл бұрын
While that may be true, sometimes we still get upset when they are honest with their answers. Sometimes we communicate With others in the way that we like to be communicated to, or that we think they should communicate with us. In a relationship, it's important to communicate in the way that person best responds. Our communication should not be positioned to give us personal gratification, that's insecurity. Communication should have the intent of sending a direct message.
@Kiseochan
@Kiseochan 8 жыл бұрын
+Tapered Natural you're right, it should be direct. I guess it's more of a direct question, "do you want to go to wherever with me?" one instance doesn't necessarily mean more than a yes or no. but if I get a "yes" 9 out of 10 times, I would think that he likes going with me, if I get a "no" 9 out of 10 times, I would think that he doesn't like going with me.
@luulips
@luulips 7 жыл бұрын
Kiseo Chan Either way I still think Matt is right that if it's what we want we should say it instead of asking. Most likely you'll still get an honest answer from the man.
@wisdomdaily3889
@wisdomdaily3889 7 жыл бұрын
Kiseo Chan l agree with you.l think it's true that we'd like to spend time with the one we like the most but sometimes they may not think the same.lol
@Bryan-lu4du
@Bryan-lu4du 7 жыл бұрын
Kiseo Chan There is nothing wrong with that but consider that maybe while he does want to spend time with you, maybe he hasn't seen his friend in ages and is enjoying his time there. In essence you put him in a no win situation that is a bit unfair. If you would like him there, then tell him so, he prioritizes YOU after all.
@user-ml6ik4pi4z
@user-ml6ik4pi4z 8 жыл бұрын
I totally did this today all wrong. I said, "you can come over whenever you want." I was trying to seem like I didn't care what choice he made, but I do. That's indirect communication. Thanks for the video!
@ashleymeyer9997
@ashleymeyer9997 8 жыл бұрын
diii
@mugen3603
@mugen3603 3 жыл бұрын
The reason women ask "Do you want to..." instead of telling a man "I would love it if you would..." is because we don't want to be demanding and make you do things that would make you unhappy. We want you to WANT to do that thing for us. I would rather be disappointed by you not wanting to help me than for you to show up all grumpy and annoyed because I pulled you away from something you were enjoying. I see this behavior with my folks and I don't want that.
@jessroyle6613
@jessroyle6613 3 жыл бұрын
Then don't force him to. Tell him you would like him to and if he doesn't seem interested, then tell him that it's fine if he would prefer not to. You both need to be happy in your relationship. It isn't just about what the woman or man wants. Compromise is often key.
@SimonKnight1023
@SimonKnight1023 2 жыл бұрын
You do that anyway. Men expect you to be needy. Be direct and it makes the situation direct.
@AdisCandra
@AdisCandra 5 жыл бұрын
i've been learning about male psychology in romantic relationship for far too long i think i'm emotionally a male now.
@tysongames2750
@tysongames2750 3 жыл бұрын
LOL!
@rubiejanemontejo7573
@rubiejanemontejo7573 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahah underrated comment
@SriVaishnaviYagnamurthy
@SriVaishnaviYagnamurthy 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@rocking1313
@rocking1313 3 жыл бұрын
getting in touch with your masculine side:)?
@AdrianColley
@AdrianColley 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. :)
@TheCebulon
@TheCebulon Жыл бұрын
Absolute gold! Exactly what should happen. To the point. Be direct and clear.
@marcellawolkowitz6711
@marcellawolkowitz6711 6 жыл бұрын
I was able to tell my boyfriend how I am feeling completely and you gave me the strength to tell him. We love each other. I was always told to be indirect cause of self esteem issues. Thank you so much
@Sarah-si5yn
@Sarah-si5yn 8 жыл бұрын
I think it's great for both men and women to be more direct (in a pleasant way). Better to put it in a pleasant way, but sometimes makes me fearful that he will say no, and it leads me to feeling vulnerable. Especially with someone that I'm simply dating or just hoping to get to know better. Maybe it's better to look through it with the eyes of respect for yourself and the guy you're talking to, and hopefully he will step up to bat and that he can see it.
@user-vr4ih6jg3n
@user-vr4ih6jg3n 5 жыл бұрын
He's talking about situation where the couples are used to each other, otherwise its understandable to use hints, men do that as well, we all fear rejection.
@wombatgirl598
@wombatgirl598 5 жыл бұрын
I am very direct with my man. I tell him exactly what I want & need. Great video 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@rabia6242
@rabia6242 8 жыл бұрын
I'm a direct person and always ask my guy out--but after awhile it makes me feel desperate, like I'M the only one who is wanting this, while he's like, "Meh, whatever." 😞😞😞
@Zulaaadulis1
@Zulaaadulis1 5 жыл бұрын
meki licious exactly it’s like talking to a wall
@carolinareaper8089
@carolinareaper8089 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😢
@ness1739
@ness1739 4 жыл бұрын
Yes man
@pournamigd8899
@pournamigd8899 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@gelflingfay
@gelflingfay 3 жыл бұрын
Just tell him you want to go out on blah day and he needs to pick what you're doing while out.
@freezyrachel5974
@freezyrachel5974 7 жыл бұрын
Only few men wants to deliver you a happiness these days . Most men just wants to get into your pants without doing anything actually.
@SunnySummer777
@SunnySummer777 7 жыл бұрын
Freezy Rachel yep. exactly.😐
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 7 жыл бұрын
So true.
@karlanm925
@karlanm925 7 жыл бұрын
"without doing anything"..... My Translation: "what have you done for me lately"
@nuzhie
@nuzhie 7 жыл бұрын
Freezy Rachel somehow i just really agree with u
@irenekhusial1615
@irenekhusial1615 6 жыл бұрын
Agree Rachael. Want u to work in every possible way for their Benefit then ignore u totally and take all the credit
@ritahnakiswa1371
@ritahnakiswa1371 6 жыл бұрын
I love the way you explain,its stops when i still want to watch and listen to it
@holla4hala1
@holla4hala1 6 жыл бұрын
Communication is my weakness. Really need to strengthen that muscle. But love your videos. They put me on a high vibrational frequency
@mcalko
@mcalko 4 жыл бұрын
Matt! Thank you for shedding light on the male psyche and how we as women can communicate better with them and in turn increase positive energy within the relationship. Your wisdom and insight are so valuable and I’m grateful for all of your videos. THANK YOU!!!!
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true! It's one reason I love men...because they say what they mean and mean what they say. They don't put it in vague terms. I love that.
@MovieTube4Me
@MovieTube4Me 3 жыл бұрын
Do they. Ask them to explain because their direct response was ambigious and watch them stop say what then deflect rather than actually simply rephrase or attempt to explain. Men use few words thinking as this presenter did it is a clear answer because it is to them, they never believe it can be heard as having two meanings. Woman who let husband know of works party why didnt husband do the blunt man thing and say so you want me to come if it is good?
@yokedupbra
@yokedupbra 3 жыл бұрын
thanks
@yokedupbra
@yokedupbra 3 жыл бұрын
@@MovieTube4Me me learned not to be too blunt with their girlfriend or wives it's TRUE. because it hurts them. and they get upset. we generally like our wives and believe it's better when they are happy.
@crazystuff2825
@crazystuff2825 8 жыл бұрын
Mathew thanks for this video. I am now a better communicator with Men, love it, love it!!!
@MatthewCoast
@MatthewCoast 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!
@tracybehnke6961
@tracybehnke6961 8 жыл бұрын
Any hint when it comes to men , is a good hint ! Matt you are easy on the eyes and interesting to listen to.
@YogaBlissDance
@YogaBlissDance 8 жыл бұрын
This was your best- you need to expand on it, it's so crucial!~
@luulips
@luulips 7 жыл бұрын
I like to be more direct but the man I like tends to be indirect. I had to recently tell him a better way to communicate something with me in a more direct way so that I can understand better. I came across in a loving way I believe so I will see in time if it got through to him.
@chia-liamyyu109
@chia-liamyyu109 9 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! Your interpretations are so clear and easy to understand!! Please keep posting!!
@liamryan6604
@liamryan6604 Жыл бұрын
You are teaching such an important subject man! If you had like a workshop/mastermind teaching this topic to both ment & women (we would have so many relationships thriving in the world!) Rock on
@qianasanders4856
@qianasanders4856 8 жыл бұрын
Omg SO EYE OPENING!! Makes so much sense
@mahiitistic7399
@mahiitistic7399 4 жыл бұрын
I don't understand. A woman will only ask something if she wants you to do that for her. So isn't the question do.you want to actually would you? Y is there such a difference ?!
@iceblue1457
@iceblue1457 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Mat, I really love your videos. I shared your videos to my family who are now all married. It's a good relationship conversation. Thank you.
@starzintheskyz4477
@starzintheskyz4477 4 жыл бұрын
How about making a video of how to teach men how to communicate with women. Men need these lessons too.
@jillybeanthegringa4104
@jillybeanthegringa4104 2 жыл бұрын
YES THANK YOU … I know women aren’t always great communicators either. However, my personal experience I truly have learned how to be effective in speaking due to 2 failed marriages and many many life lessons. I changed completely. I’m trying to explain to a man there are better ways WE can communicate and I would like to help him. I also mentioned therapy and immediately he says I don’t need therapy you do. I’m deducing his behavior and lack of effective communication to not having the proper resources or care to want to look at his behavior and communication skills with me. I can only try but ultimately I’m berated and told I don’t understand nothing. Not sure how to help him.
@xw6475
@xw6475 7 жыл бұрын
SOOOOOO AWESOME!!! I really need to learn more about communicating with man, this video really helps! Thank you Matt!!
@Pukalicious72
@Pukalicious72 8 жыл бұрын
You're super right, when I tell my boo directly he loves it rather than I'm being a riddle. :-)
@lalawest5031
@lalawest5031 4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. I’m currently in a very healthy, communicative, and loving relationship. I have learned a lot about how to communicate with and understand my man from your advice. Yesterday I watched your video about how to touch a man to turn them on...and let’s just say it was right on and we had an amazing time in bed. I love your candor, honesty, lack of asking women to play games, and the variety of your videos. I have watched other’s advice here on the tubes, but I keep coming back to your videos because when your advice is put into practice...it works! Thank you so so so very much for helping women navigate the divide between a man’s brain, needs, wants, and communication style, and those qualities in women. I hope you know what a gift you are to the tricky, yet f***ing amazing world, of relationship. I honor you and am grateful for all your advice.💗
@xpinksweetcheeksx
@xpinksweetcheeksx 6 жыл бұрын
Wow. I need this guy to be my life coach! In all relationships not only romantic ones
@katperdiz
@katperdiz 8 жыл бұрын
i love the way you discuss things... hmm very informative to know more about men... thanks!!
@keleshalove8477
@keleshalove8477 5 жыл бұрын
I really hate demanding my BF to do things cause I don't know how he feels. Me I really need his opinions so I know he's happy and comfortable with whatever we are doing at the moment
@honeybeerose33
@honeybeerose33 5 жыл бұрын
I asks because l actually want to know what the person I care about honestly wants to do. That can influence what we do next. It helps me understand what the guy is into genuinely. I hate game playing and assumptions as to what I mean when I say something. Honesty leads to more intimacy and less resentment. Just be real. Ask questions. Don’t assume. Be yourself. I want the person who comes to the party with me to actually want to be there. I can have a good time on my own and we can always meet up later for things we both enjoy. Not every woman is the same.
@ukphilly
@ukphilly 9 жыл бұрын
Loved that advice...I will definitely use, thank you!!
@HajerahBibiDegia
@HajerahBibiDegia 6 жыл бұрын
Not always the case.. as the roles can switch up being.. i find myself being direct & the significant other the being indirect..
@vampirismorrigan2640
@vampirismorrigan2640 4 жыл бұрын
Basically, be more assertive!
@paloma6755
@paloma6755 7 жыл бұрын
this is an awesome piece of advice and im taking it with me wherever I go... thanks Matt...
@MaiVu-eo9cb
@MaiVu-eo9cb 6 ай бұрын
Very useful technique! Really appreciate this tip Mat!!! You always talk to the practical point!
@lisagarcia8349
@lisagarcia8349 4 жыл бұрын
Lol loved this video! 😀 I love when you explain things by applying your personal take on your topic! So “down to earth” lol Thank you!
@TheImpelar
@TheImpelar 9 жыл бұрын
You are awesome! Thank you sooo much for this videos! You are smart and kind!
@Rathbonek
@Rathbonek 7 жыл бұрын
Love seeing your videos pop up! You stated in the video that if you ask for the same things and they don't change or get done, you need to change the way you communicate. Well I've been with my bf for 6 years now and for the past two I have been communicating like you say in the video. Asking for direct actions vs vague statements. He still to this day does not pick up on it whatsoever and I'm starting to realize that it's time to make a decision whether this is forever or not. So I guess my question is: how do I know I've done my part in trying to communicate with him and feel like if I have to walk away I did everything I could to try to make things work? Thanks in advance! I look forward to seeing your response!
@PickelLO
@PickelLO 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I've been saying this for years!!! My mom would ask me all the time "do you want to do this" and the real answer was "no I dont"! But that wasn't what she was really asking! I saw her do this to my father all growing up and realized that I was starting to talk to my (at the time) person essentially IN CODE. 🤯 not like THAT is confusing at all! 🤣
@spunkysagittarius87
@spunkysagittarius87 4 жыл бұрын
Well that explains a lot! Valuable lesson- thank you!
@thedude8526
@thedude8526 5 жыл бұрын
Ya I'm still taking the beer over any of those secondary questions.
@sneekytinky107
@sneekytinky107 5 жыл бұрын
I used this and it worked like a charm!!
@user-dn7qd4km1z
@user-dn7qd4km1z 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I tried it with my partner hopefully we can communicate better :)
@Sofia-jr3bd
@Sofia-jr3bd 3 жыл бұрын
I like such advices without a template
@ComiendoFeliz
@ComiendoFeliz 8 жыл бұрын
thank you , i am learning to talk with men
@yokedupbra
@yokedupbra 3 жыл бұрын
Again women this man just gave you the truth.
@haileeroxana
@haileeroxana 8 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
@annette454
@annette454 9 жыл бұрын
i LOVE this guy!
@tamaraamarabeaumontfenix8886
@tamaraamarabeaumontfenix8886 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt, really appreciate this!
@AngelaAllen40216
@AngelaAllen40216 8 жыл бұрын
I'm trying this this week. Hope it works.
@annlaughren9060
@annlaughren9060 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, make since, love the advice
@Serendeppity2009
@Serendeppity2009 9 жыл бұрын
This is a GREAT video, and it was delivered with tongue-n-cheek humor :)
@tysongames2750
@tysongames2750 3 жыл бұрын
You call it being direct, I call it strait up lying. This is the number one thing me and my wife fight about. It drives me nuts. No matter what I ask her she never tell me the truth.
@Pipsterz
@Pipsterz 2 жыл бұрын
Loved this!!
@angelinevanheerden687
@angelinevanheerden687 3 жыл бұрын
Ok. I get it... Saying "I would love you to".. do this or that or join me... Rather than "Would you like to..." I think this way you are also setting up your mindset to be in a more fun spirit or be open of enjoying yourself ect apposed to thinking, why wouldn't he want to be with me? or do this for me, am I/my feelings not that important to him? Our thoughts will keep on spiralling and probably kill the whole vibe or date or activity, ect. Thanx
@KikiJay7878
@KikiJay7878 7 жыл бұрын
I'm going to try this. Thank you! 😀
@hiddeninthesnowwe
@hiddeninthesnowwe 7 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you!!
@swanmute5713
@swanmute5713 7 жыл бұрын
it was so helpful for me , thanks .
@Khoyal
@Khoyal 8 жыл бұрын
This is good!! Thank you!
@mariana236zyz
@mariana236zyz 6 жыл бұрын
Hello and thank you for your very simple and informative videos on relationships!!..... First and foremost thank you also for your professional approach!..... Ive watched many different relationship coaches and well, their language is NOT professional if you know what i mean,....... Anyways, your videos have been a great help!..... Thank you for doing what you do for us!!.... Much love and joy😀💌 Mariana~
@marybayne5155
@marybayne5155 6 жыл бұрын
I have to agree with the women, when I have been asked what do I want to eat I have in the past answered very directly and been ignored. Why? Because it was obviously not what he wanted, so he just went where he wanted to go anyway... Then why bother to ask what I want? Then I hate when I ask a question and I get vague answers, especially about finances!!! Your supposed to be the man and want to "make the woman happy" not seeing it!
@annee5582
@annee5582 3 жыл бұрын
So be direct. No room to say no.
@manditah33
@manditah33 7 жыл бұрын
thank you! This was so helpful
@mermaidmylife
@mermaidmylife 6 жыл бұрын
wow. this is an eye opening view!
@Katydag88
@Katydag88 8 жыл бұрын
You are totally missing the fact that when a woman (or anyone asks) "Would you want to...?" that's exactly what they mean to ask. They want to know if you want to do what they are requesting of you. If instead they do not care how you feel about what they want you to do they will instead say "I need you to come get this with me" or "Come meet me at this party." This is a classic case of men overthinking it. Here's some great advice and please share it: women want to be wanted, people like to be liked. If a woman asks if you want to do something with her guess what she's hoping you'll say yes but she's an adult and understands even if she is your number one priority your just not going to want to do everything she asks of you. And for crying out loud stop getting annoyed when a woman doesn't know where she wants to eat or what she wants to watch. Maybe just maybe she wants her partner to make a decision for once.
@KMR1776
@KMR1776 8 жыл бұрын
+Katydag88 EXACTLY I agree with being direct. For me, part of the reason why I would ask a "would you" question is because I want you to WANT to do those things- not just as a favor for me. And also I'm inviting you to be apart of something that I am doing.... it really is that simple.
@DeafGypsy
@DeafGypsy 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I've always had this problem where in some of my past relationships, I was making all the decisions. Then there were men who were complete control freaks. No happy medium. Frustrating.
@user-vr4ih6jg3n
@user-vr4ih6jg3n 5 жыл бұрын
So don't get upset if he says no! women want to be wanted, and man need to be needed. So if you need him and you did tell him that and he say no, so that's frequently may mean something.
@adriianurse887
@adriianurse887 3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@trafficiskey
@trafficiskey 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! Mathew!!
@cherylhoalim2492
@cherylhoalim2492 7 жыл бұрын
great Max tnx for this tip on communication with men
@finestcomplex
@finestcomplex 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I needed to lean this! 😊
@finestcomplex
@finestcomplex 10 ай бұрын
learn*
@TheUniversal8
@TheUniversal8 9 жыл бұрын
Love it! Thank you.
@eddajustice8345
@eddajustice8345 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for another inspirational video
@jadorecocobeauty8850
@jadorecocobeauty8850 6 жыл бұрын
Great advice... i guess sometimes we do assume you guys know what we mean
@Dana2826
@Dana2826 8 жыл бұрын
I loved the Aladdin's high way 🏍
@PamelaAMango
@PamelaAMango 6 жыл бұрын
you help me to understand my man. thank you.
@sharon_chai
@sharon_chai 8 жыл бұрын
thanks matt this really helps
@susankeller164
@susankeller164 4 жыл бұрын
Now that qas a great video.. Short and to the point. ❤🎼🐾
@anangelskissinspring330
@anangelskissinspring330 8 жыл бұрын
love, love, love your videos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANKS :)
@charminggirl6748
@charminggirl6748 2 жыл бұрын
Such sn awesome piece of advice! Thank you!
@barlowlaura
@barlowlaura 6 жыл бұрын
This works both ways.
@eilybeltran8619
@eilybeltran8619 7 жыл бұрын
you make me happy with your videos thank you!!** mathew
@redbeansa
@redbeansa 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This is helpful 😀
@drmom2426
@drmom2426 8 жыл бұрын
Ok, a little inconsistency here... if guys are so "direct" why didn't the dude just say, No, or 'Not really because I just got to my friend's house and I have a beer and I want to chill".. The guy is the one who is being dishonest, and indirect. Matt Boggs, maybe your wife really just wanted to know if you wanted to get the valet ticket You assumed that she is trying to manipulate you into doing something, rather than simply answering her straightforward question. You are overthinking and projecting feeling on to her that she may not really have. Take it at face value, and tell her "No, I don't really want to go, but if you would like for me to go, I will go." She may be perfectly fine with you saying "No". Men need to take what a women says at face value and not read all sorts of their own baggage into a simple question, that requires a straightforward answer, i.e.. Yes or No. Give the woman credit for being able to accept a no answer and being Ok with that.
@luulips
@luulips 7 жыл бұрын
dr mom in some cases it could be the way Matt said though. Some women are more indirect others aren't.
@user-vr4ih6jg3n
@user-vr4ih6jg3n 5 жыл бұрын
He talked about his experience, that means that he said no, and the consequences were't nice. or that he know his wife better by experience than to say no.
@thelonemaiden
@thelonemaiden 5 жыл бұрын
holey crackin moley hold the phones and shut the door!!! ( I so concur!)
@tysongames2750
@tysongames2750 3 жыл бұрын
Touche. Your right, if a guy expects you to be direct he needs to be direct back, and if he isn't he's probably a Mama's boy so watch out!
@neeenoaljameelah9393
@neeenoaljameelah9393 5 жыл бұрын
This is true thank you mat👍🏼
@nicoleterrell1098
@nicoleterrell1098 6 жыл бұрын
So helpful!
@Irene-gq4jr
@Irene-gq4jr 6 жыл бұрын
When I ask my man "Would you like to go to my friend's party?" it's a genuine question. If he doesn't that's fine. If he asked me to do something I didn't want to do I'd say no and he wouldn't be upset, so why should I? If something needs done I'll say "This needs done, when can you do it?" and usually offer to help if I can. Life is so much easier when we co-operate rather than fighting a war of the gender stereotypes that no-one will win.
@beverlydickerson7872
@beverlydickerson7872 6 жыл бұрын
him better spending quality time. Traveling,cooking for him, we become one down theline whenever he wants.l'll be in his life. Forever!
@ilzekonovalova942
@ilzekonovalova942 8 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! That was SUPER!!! Thank U!!!
@user-os4nk3sg6r
@user-os4nk3sg6r 9 жыл бұрын
I love how your eyes match your shirt
@septemberdawnluketz
@septemberdawnluketz 6 жыл бұрын
I think it's safe to say most women want a man to be honest, forthright, funny, independent but also doting. To help provide his woman's needs, to love, honor, and cherish her for better for worse, sickness, and health, life so they only part when they need space, time alone, or some quality guy time. I'm pretty sure most women want a man that stands beside her, stands up for her, and fights for her as well. Women like to be courted, go on first dates even when they've been in a long term, long standing relationship as well. Women love surprises, to be spoiled from time to time, shown off but not paraded around, introduced to the friends and family of their significant other, and sexy, flirtatious games, but not head games.
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
Preach!!
@moniquerichards4687
@moniquerichards4687 8 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure I'm taking in what you're saying Mathew... but I can watch you all day... your so sweet =D
@JAEAubriana
@JAEAubriana 6 жыл бұрын
What if you’re told you’re too direct
@resawhit2478
@resawhit2478 3 жыл бұрын
If you and I could combine our methods, we might have the perfect way of saying things 🤣 (because I can be overly indirect). But for real, something that I’m seeing work for me is to be direct about what I want but still present it in a way that gives him the option of how he wants to respond. Yep, men definitely don’t like being told what to do...or left wondering what we actually want. I’m working on it too, girl. Good luck.
@tysongames2750
@tysongames2750 3 жыл бұрын
Sinerio: Too direct: My wife asks- Do these jeans make me look fat, and I say no your stomach does. Indirect: Do these jeans make me look fat? No, but if you think they do you should start working out or dieting.
@agotacsaszar43
@agotacsaszar43 3 жыл бұрын
I hear you girl 😁
@justtiersa
@justtiersa 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They say they want direct.... but they really don’t. Promise.
@mariabenjamin8018
@mariabenjamin8018 2 жыл бұрын
Stay direct. Just be mindful of your delivery 😊
@claudiafiebig1499
@claudiafiebig1499 3 жыл бұрын
I was direct and he went quiet and went for the hills..
@stevienicks9210
@stevienicks9210 3 жыл бұрын
Dump him.
@claudiafiebig1499
@claudiafiebig1499 3 жыл бұрын
@@stevienicks9210 i did..told him that i am done playing his game..and doing so much better
@stevienicks9210
@stevienicks9210 3 жыл бұрын
@@claudiafiebig1499 yaaaasss girrlll im so proud! 👑👑
@claudiafiebig1499
@claudiafiebig1499 3 жыл бұрын
@@stevienicks9210 it hurts and i havent looked at anyone since.. i think its for the best and focus on myself for now.. and its working for me..🥰 thank you for your kind words
@stevienicks9210
@stevienicks9210 3 жыл бұрын
@@claudiafiebig1499 i'm on a similar journey too...i highly recommend inner child healing videos,Candace van Dell is a great channel for getting over narcissistic partners! Work on self love and good luck! 💋💋
@Jheyanneify
@Jheyanneify 5 жыл бұрын
Well said 👍
@miriamdiestro482
@miriamdiestro482 7 жыл бұрын
You're a god. Thank you!
@FacingDeath1
@FacingDeath1 7 жыл бұрын
The joke in the first couple of minutes is very good!
@Rachel-cd1ei
@Rachel-cd1ei 5 жыл бұрын
Love this guy!
@rizzamaeong
@rizzamaeong 5 жыл бұрын
thank you. i will keep this tip in mind. Men are so easy to decode. hehe..
@brownstoneres9467
@brownstoneres9467 6 жыл бұрын
Love that joke about the genie!! Mega-LOL
I wish I could change THIS fast! 🤣
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