How to Communicate With Men | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@AdrianColley]

4:19 "telling a man how to deliver you happiness" Yes! As a man, I confirm that this is a major motivator for us. If you want your man to do something for you, tell him it's something you want.

[@noorthernluces190]

I told him I wanted him to clean the dishes. ...I’m still waiting 😂

[@aliabuseem2102]

@@noorthernluces190 😂😂

[@savannahjreeves]

How do you want to hear it being asked if you? A man in my life just said I speak disrespectful like I am telling him what to do. Even though I feel like I am asking nicely if we wouldn’t mind doing the small thing. I don’t know the correct way to effectively communicate it across to the man.

[@prjdghyt]

It's better to be direct. Saves a lot of time. Avoids misunderstandings. And each person doesn't have to guess what the other person wants. If they love you they'd be happy to express their love for you in ways you want to be loved.

[@anisa3610]

you just like me frl. I can't stand when people WALK around the bush like some folks got time, when a lot of us don't have the mental patience. So I agree with you, let's just be honest, yet respectful

[@SwedishGFE]

Exactly! We'll said!

[@prjdghyt]

@@anisa3610 yeah. Being direct also helps us get the answer we need right away and then we can make a decision on what to do next.

[@nm9412]

That’s not how men think

[@user-ml6ik4pi4z]

I totally did this today all wrong. I said, "you can come over whenever you want." I was trying to seem like I didn't care what choice he made, but I do. That's indirect communication. Thanks for the video!

[@ashleymeyer9997]

diii

[@TheCebulon]

Absolute gold! Exactly what should happen. To the point. Be direct and clear.

[@marcellawolkowitz6711]

I was able to tell my boyfriend how I am feeling completely and you gave me the strength to tell him. We love each other. I was always told to be indirect cause of self esteem issues. Thank you so much

[@Kiseochan]

The reason I ask "do you want" instead of telling them that I want them to go with me is because I want to know that he WANTS to spend time with me. It's not really about going to the place, its about seeing that he LIKES spending time with me.

[@TaperedNatural]

While that may be true, sometimes we still get upset when they are honest with their answers. Sometimes we communicate With others in the way that we like to be communicated to, or that we think they should communicate with us. In a relationship, it's important to communicate in the way that person best responds. Our communication should not be positioned to give us personal gratification, that's insecurity. Communication should have the intent of sending a direct message.

[@Kiseochan]

+Tapered Natural you're right, it should be direct. I guess it's more of a direct question, "do you want to go to wherever with me?" one instance doesn't necessarily mean more than a yes or no. but if I get a "yes" 9 out of 10 times, I would think that he likes going with me, if I get a "no" 9 out of 10 times, I would think that he doesn't like going with me.

[@luulips]

Kiseo Chan Either way I still think Matt is right that if it's what we want we should say it instead of asking. Most likely you'll still get an honest answer from the man.

[@wisdomdaily3889]

Kiseo Chan l agree with you.l think it's true that we'd like to spend time with the one we like the most but sometimes they may not think the same.lol

[@Bryan-lu4du]

Kiseo Chan There is nothing wrong with that but consider that maybe while he does want to spend time with you, maybe he hasn't seen his friend in ages and is enjoying his time there. In essence you put him in a no win situation that is a bit unfair. If you would like him there, then tell him so, he prioritizes YOU after all.

[@mugen3603]

The reason women ask "Do you want to..." instead of telling a man "I would love it if you would..." is because we don't want to be demanding and make you do things that would make you unhappy. We want you to WANT to do that thing for us. I would rather be disappointed by you not wanting to help me than for you to show up all grumpy and annoyed because I pulled you away from something you were enjoying. I see this behavior with my folks and I don't want that.

[@95_jessiej]

Then don't force him to. Tell him you would like him to and if he doesn't seem interested, then tell him that it's fine if he would prefer not to. You both need to be happy in your relationship. It isn't just about what the woman or man wants. Compromise is often key.

[@SimonKnight1023]

You do that anyway. Men expect you to be needy. Be direct and it makes the situation direct.

[@Sarah-si5yn]

I think it's great for both men and women to be more direct (in a pleasant way). Better to put it in a pleasant way, but sometimes makes me fearful that he will say no, and it leads me to feeling vulnerable. Especially with someone that I'm simply dating or just hoping to get to know better. Maybe it's better to look through it with the eyes of respect for yourself and the guy you're talking to, and hopefully he will step up to bat and that he can see it.

[@قناةأصواتالطبيعة-س8ز]

He's talking about situation where the couples are used to each other, otherwise its understandable to use hints, men do that as well, we all fear rejection.

[@LisaGemini]

This is so true! It's one reason I love men...because they say what they mean and mean what they say. They don't put it in vague terms. I love that.

[@MovieTube4Me]

Do they. Ask them to explain because their direct response was ambigious and watch them stop say what then deflect rather than actually simply rephrase or attempt to explain. Men use few words thinking as this presenter did it is a clear answer because it is to them, they never believe it can be heard as having two meanings. Woman who let husband know of works party why didnt husband do the blunt man thing and say so you want me to come if it is good?

[@yokedupbra]

thanks

[@yokedupbra]

@@MovieTube4Me me learned not to be too blunt with their girlfriend or wives it's TRUE. because it hurts them. and they get upset. we generally like our wives and believe it's better when they are happy.

[@AdisCandra]

i've been learning about male psychology in romantic relationship for far too long i think i'm emotionally a male now.

[@tysongames2750]

LOL!

[@rubiejanemontejo7573]

Hahahah underrated comment

[@SriVaishnaviYagnamurthy]

Lmao

[@rocking1313]

getting in touch with your masculine side:)?

[@AdrianColley]

I'm sorry for your loss. :)

[@holla4hala1]

Communication is my weakness. Really need to strengthen that muscle. But love your videos. They put me on a high vibrational frequency

[@freezyrachel5974]

Only few men wants to deliver you a happiness these days . Most men just wants to get into your pants without doing anything actually.

[@SunnySummer777]

Freezy Rachel yep. exactly.😐

[@nofybn7794]

So true.

[@karlanm925]

"without doing anything"..... My Translation: "what have you done for me lately"

[@nuzhie]

Freezy Rachel somehow i just really agree with u

[@irenekhusial1615]

Agree Rachael. Want u to work in every possible way for their Benefit then ignore u totally and take all the credit

[@MatthewCoast]

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate all of the advice. Keep up the good work!

[@wombatgirl598]

I am very direct with my man. I tell him exactly what I want & need. Great video 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@mcalko]

Matt! Thank you for shedding light on the male psyche and how we as women can communicate better with them and in turn increase positive energy within the relationship. Your wisdom and insight are so valuable and I’m grateful for all of your videos. THANK YOU!!!!

[@liamryan6604]

You are teaching such an important subject man! If you had like a workshop/mastermind teaching this topic to both ment & women (we would have so many relationships thriving in the world!) Rock on

[@luulips]

I like to be more direct but the man I like tends to be indirect. I had to recently tell him a better way to communicate something with me in a more direct way so that I can understand better. I came across in a loving way I believe so I will see in time if it got through to him.

[@drmom2426]

Ok, a little inconsistency here... if guys are so "direct" why didn't the dude just say, No, or 'Not really because I just got to my friend's house and I have a beer and I want to chill".. The guy is the one who is being dishonest, and indirect. Matt Boggs, maybe your wife really just wanted to know if you wanted to get the valet ticket You assumed that she is trying to manipulate you into doing something, rather than simply answering her straightforward question. You are overthinking and projecting feeling on to her that she may not really have. Take it at face value, and tell her "No, I don't really want to go, but if you would like for me to go, I will go." She may be perfectly fine with you saying "No". Men need to take what a women says at face value and not read all sorts of their own baggage into a simple question, that requires a straightforward answer, i.e.. Yes or No. Give the woman credit for being able to accept a no answer and being Ok with that.

[@luulips]

dr mom in some cases it could be the way Matt said though. Some women are more indirect others aren't.

[@قناةأصواتالطبيعة-س8ز]

He talked about his experience, that means that he said no, and the consequences were't nice. or that he know his wife better by experience than to say no.

[@thelonemaiden]

holey crackin moley hold the phones and shut the door!!! ( I so concur!)

[@tysongames2750]

Touche. Your right, if a guy expects you to be direct he needs to be direct back, and if he isn't he's probably a Mama's boy so watch out!

[@rabia6242]

I'm a direct person and always ask my guy out--but after awhile it makes me feel desperate, like I'M the only one who is wanting this, while he's like, "Meh, whatever." 😞😞😞

[@Zulaaadulis1]

meki licious exactly it’s like talking to a wall

[@carolinareaper8089]

Me too 😢

[@ness1739]

Yes man

[@onlycleans]

Same

[@gelflingfay]

Just tell him you want to go out on blah day and he needs to pick what you're doing while out.

[@Katydag88]

You are totally missing the fact that when a woman (or anyone asks) "Would you want to...?" that's exactly what they mean to ask. They want to know if you want to do what they are requesting of you. If instead they do not care how you feel about what they want you to do they will instead say "I need you to come get this with me" or "Come meet me at this party." This is a classic case of men overthinking it. Here's some great advice and please share it: women want to be wanted, people like to be liked. If a woman asks if you want to do something with her guess what she's hoping you'll say yes but she's an adult and understands even if she is your number one priority your just not going to want to do everything she asks of you. And for crying out loud stop getting annoyed when a woman doesn't know where she wants to eat or what she wants to watch. Maybe just maybe she wants her partner to make a decision for once.

[@KMR1776]

+Katydag88 EXACTLY I agree with being direct. For me, part of the reason why I would ask a "would you" question is because I want you to WANT to do those things- not just as a favor for me. And also I'm inviting you to be apart of something that I am doing.... it really is that simple.

[@DeafGypsy]

Yes! I've always had this problem where in some of my past relationships, I was making all the decisions. Then there were men who were complete control freaks. No happy medium. Frustrating.

[@قناةأصواتالطبيعة-س8ز]

So don't get upset if he says no! women want to be wanted, and man need to be needed. So if you need him and you did tell him that and he say no, so that's frequently may mean something.

[@adriianurse887]

Well said!

[@lalawest5031]

I love your videos. I’m currently in a very healthy, communicative, and loving relationship. I have learned a lot about how to communicate with and understand my man from your advice. Yesterday I watched your video about how to touch a man to turn them on...and let’s just say it was right on and we had an amazing time in bed. I love your candor, honesty, lack of asking women to play games, and the variety of your videos. I have watched other’s advice here on the tubes, but I keep coming back to your videos because when your advice is put into practice...it works! Thank you so so so very much for helping women navigate the divide between a man’s brain, needs, wants, and communication style, and those qualities in women. I hope you know what a gift you are to the tricky, yet f***ing amazing world, of relationship. I honor you and am grateful for all your advice.💗

[@Rathbonek]

Love seeing your videos pop up! You stated in the video that if you ask for the same things and they don't change or get done, you need to change the way you communicate. Well I've been with my bf for 6 years now and for the past two I have been communicating like you say in the video. Asking for direct actions vs vague statements. He still to this day does not pick up on it whatsoever and I'm starting to realize that it's time to make a decision whether this is forever or not. So I guess my question is: how do I know I've done my part in trying to communicate with him and feel like if I have to walk away I did everything I could to try to make things work? Thanks in advance! I look forward to seeing your response!

[@qianasanders4856]

Omg SO EYE OPENING!! Makes so much sense

[@mahiitistic7399]

I don't understand. A woman will only ask something if she wants you to do that for her. So isn't the question do.you want to actually would you? Y is there such a difference ?!

[@crazystuff2825]

Mathew thanks for this video. I am now a better communicator with Men, love it, love it!!!

[@JAEAubriana]

What if you’re told you’re too direct

[@resawhit2478]

If you and I could combine our methods, we might have the perfect way of saying things 🤣 (because I can be overly indirect). But for real, something that I’m seeing work for me is to be direct about what I want but still present it in a way that gives him the option of how he wants to respond. Yep, men definitely don’t like being told what to do...or left wondering what we actually want. I’m working on it too, girl. Good luck.

[@tysongames2750]

Sinerio: Too direct: My wife asks- Do these jeans make me look fat, and I say no your stomach does. Indirect: Do these jeans make me look fat? No, but if you think they do you should start working out or dieting.

[@agotacsaszar43]

I hear you girl 😁

[@justtiersa]

Exactly. They say they want direct.... but they really don’t. Promise.

[@mariabenjamin8018]

Stay direct. Just be mindful of your delivery 😊

[@YogaBlissDance]

This was your best- you need to expand on it, it's so crucial!~

[@ritahnakiswa1371]

I love the way you explain,its stops when i still want to watch and listen to it

[@tracybehnke6961]

Any hint when it comes to men , is a good hint ! Matt you are easy on the eyes and interesting to listen to.

[@keleshalove8477]

I really hate demanding my BF to do things cause I don't know how he feels. Me I really need his opinions so I know he's happy and comfortable with whatever we are doing at the moment

[@honeybeerose33]

I asks because l actually want to know what the person I care about honestly wants to do. That can influence what we do next. It helps me understand what the guy is into genuinely. I hate game playing and assumptions as to what I mean when I say something. Honesty leads to more intimacy and less resentment. Just be real. Ask questions. Don’t assume. Be yourself. I want the person who comes to the party with me to actually want to be there. I can have a good time on my own and we can always meet up later for things we both enjoy. Not every woman is the same.

[@tysongames2750]

You call it being direct, I call it strait up lying. This is the number one thing me and my wife fight about. It drives me nuts. No matter what I ask her she never tell me the truth.

[@Irene-gq4jr]

When I ask my man "Would you like to go to my friend's party?" it's a genuine question. If he doesn't that's fine. If he asked me to do something I didn't want to do I'd say no and he wouldn't be upset, so why should I? If something needs done I'll say "This needs done, when can you do it?" and usually offer to help if I can. Life is so much easier when we co-operate rather than fighting a war of the gender stereotypes that no-one will win.

[@beverlydickerson7872]

him better spending quality time. Traveling,cooking for him, we become one down theline whenever he wants.l'll be in his life. Forever!

[@angelinevanheerden687]

Ok. I get it... Saying "I would love you to".. do this or that or join me... Rather than "Would you like to..." I think this way you are also setting up your mindset to be in a more fun spirit or be open of enjoying yourself ect apposed to thinking, why wouldn't he want to be with me? or do this for me, am I/my feelings not that important to him? Our thoughts will keep on spiralling and probably kill the whole vibe or date or activity, ect. Thanx

[@nikip4503]

So basically what your saying is one way of asking men take it as you are offering an option that might make them happy ( would you want to come to this party?) they register as you offering something for their happiness. The other way of asking communicates better that this would make us happy would he be willing to do it? (I would love if you would come would you be willing to?) in which case if he loves you it is most always an automatic yes and he just needs to know that that is what you are asking. Is that correct?

[@MaiVu-eo9cb]

Very useful technique! Really appreciate this tip Mat!!! You always talk to the practical point!

[@septemberdawnluketz]

I think it's safe to say most women want a man to be honest, forthright, funny, independent but also doting. To help provide his woman's needs, to love, honor, and cherish her for better for worse, sickness, and health, life so they only part when they need space, time alone, or some quality guy time. I'm pretty sure most women want a man that stands beside her, stands up for her, and fights for her as well. Women like to be courted, go on first dates even when they've been in a long term, long standing relationship as well. Women love surprises, to be spoiled from time to time, shown off but not paraded around, introduced to the friends and family of their significant other, and sexy, flirtatious games, but not head games.

[@nofybn7794]

Preach!!

[@enlightenedinlasvegas]

I want to know what you are supposed to do when you are direct and you still don't get waht you need

[@OwnTheDink]

Yes!!! I've been saying this for years!!! My mom would ask me all the time "do you want to do this" and the real answer was "no I dont"! But that wasn't what she was really asking! I saw her do this to my father all growing up and realized that I was starting to talk to my (at the time) person essentially IN CODE. 🤯 not like THAT is confusing at all! 🤣

[@StefinMiami]

This is so funny... I teach my son "women speak" I told him if a woman says "want to go to the mall with me?" This really means "you are going to the mall with me." Funny enough in very direct when I talk and I actually intimidate men

[@Magdol]

Stef Lee 😂😂 same here

[@claudiafiebig1499]

I was direct and he went quiet and went for the hills..

[@stevienicks9210]

Dump him.

[@claudiafiebig1499]

@@stevienicks9210 i did..told him that i am done playing his game..and doing so much better

[@stevienicks9210]

@@claudiafiebig1499 yaaaasss girrlll im so proud! 👑👑

[@claudiafiebig1499]

@@stevienicks9210 it hurts and i havent looked at anyone since.. i think its for the best and focus on myself for now.. and its working for me..🥰 thank you for your kind words

[@stevienicks9210]

@@claudiafiebig1499 i'm on a similar journey too...i highly recommend inner child healing videos,Candace van Dell is a great channel for getting over narcissistic partners! Work on self love and good luck! 💋💋

[@xw6475]

SOOOOOO AWESOME!!! I really need to learn more about communicating with man, this video really helps! Thank you Matt!!

[@annette454]

i LOVE this guy!

[@xrivckx9705]

As Hispanic if your being groups with compadres and usually very long communication but same time im just good listener , feels like I won’t have good beverage conversation , if you know what I mean

[@katperdiz]

i love the way you discuss things... hmm very informative to know more about men... thanks!!

[@HajerahBibiDegia]

Not always the case.. as the roles can switch up being.. i find myself being direct & the significant other the being indirect..

[@kyracoach]

Mathew, Men and communication, non dating. "Why guys avoid basic communication?" Not emotional stuff, "just please take out trash...don't want to be only one doing it. thanks! :)" then they avoid and don't do it for months till other roommates get resentment. Why, why, why?? ...And no prior tension... But avoiding creates resentment. Help!!! Yes, we had pre-exiting agreements upfront. We are clear, calm, direct.

[@قناةأصواتالطبيعة-س8ز]

If you said it without nagging, especially without ordering him around, then that's just disrespectful bastard, it has nothing to do with men.

[@iceblue1457]

Hi Mat, I really love your videos. I shared your videos to my family who are now all married. It's a good relationship conversation. Thank you.

[@CarmitaSmilesofSYWM]

This video is very helpful, thank you very much. Do you have a video or pdf of example conversations or how to ask a man questions? In my mind, I am formulating questions for a man to understand. According to the man though, I am not formulating questions in a way they understand. Any examples would be greatly appreciated and beneficial. Thanks again!

[@starzintheskyz4477]

How about making a video of how to teach men how to communicate with women. Men need these lessons too.

[@jillybeanthegringa4104]

YES THANK YOU … I know women aren’t always great communicators either. However, my personal experience I truly have learned how to be effective in speaking due to 2 failed marriages and many many life lessons. I changed completely. I’m trying to explain to a man there are better ways WE can communicate and I would like to help him. I also mentioned therapy and immediately he says I don’t need therapy you do. I’m deducing his behavior and lack of effective communication to not having the proper resources or care to want to look at his behavior and communication skills with me. I can only try but ultimately I’m berated and told I don’t understand nothing. Not sure how to help him.

[@marybayne5155]

I have to agree with the women, when I have been asked what do I want to eat I have in the past answered very directly and been ignored. Why? Because it was obviously not what he wanted, so he just went where he wanted to go anyway... Then why bother to ask what I want? Then I hate when I ask a question and I get vague answers, especially about finances!!! Your supposed to be the man and want to "make the woman happy" not seeing it!

[@jadorecocobeauty8850]

Great advice... i guess sometimes we do assume you guys know what we mean

[@paulabatari4282]

Just finished watching your video. My concern is I would not want my boyfriend to feel abligated to do something for me. I rather him just be honest. Please let me know what you think. Thanks!

[@thedude8526]

Ya I'm still taking the beer over any of those secondary questions.

[@npnpnp858]

How about this: you also speak about how important it is to create distance. How direct is that? I just really want to meet a guy and then I have to play hard and create distance to make him possibly chase me. I hate this game.

[@karlaforonda105]

What about questions above life plans together? If they don't match up do you break up or make compromises for what you want?

[@matboggs9517]

I don't recommend, compromising your highest values. If you're life plans don't match up that should tell you something about your long term compatibility. If your primary values are conflicting you might thing about finding someone who is a better match. If you don't match up on little things (not primary values), then you can look at compromise. Hope this helps!

[@PianoGirl555]

Mat Boggs Lots of spelling mistakes, surprised me at first but then I realised you are not Matt!! You can still answer questions here if you wwnt to help, but stop pretending to be someone else!!

[@andrea3700]

+Karla Foronda You are a beautiful young girl and you will find the man with whom you can live the life you want. I have done the mistake of such a compromise a few times and it just doesn't work. First of all you need to know what YOU want in life, and if you are not getting that in a relationship, you will suffer on a long term. Beside Matt's videos, I would recommend you to get the free e-book he is giving away on his website, and also, you will find very useful information about relationships from John Gray and his daughter, look for Mars and Venus.

[@chia-liamyyu109]

I love your videos! Your interpretations are so clear and easy to understand!! Please keep posting!!

[@xpinksweetcheeksx]

Wow. I need this guy to be my life coach! In all relationships not only romantic ones

[@Pukalicious72]

You're super right, when I tell my boo directly he loves it rather than I'm being a riddle. :-)

[@WatchtheWaters12]

I’m the one that’s direct and my partner talks in riddles. Then gets upset with me because I can’t solve the riddle. My direct communication puts pressure on him. I’m lost with this communication issue!!

[@yokedupbra]

Again women this man just gave you the truth.

[@finestcomplex]

Thank you so much, I needed to lean this! 😊

[@finestcomplex]

learn*

[@mariana236zyz]

Hello and thank you for your very simple and informative videos on relationships!!..... First and foremost thank you also for your professional approach!..... Ive watched many different relationship coaches and well, their language is NOT professional if you know what i mean,....... Anyways, your videos have been a great help!..... Thank you for doing what you do for us!!.... Much love and joy😀💌 Mariana~

[@donnamumie2896]

So how do u get a man to do something that u want him to do and not ask like twenty thousand times cause I do this with my husband all the time and he doesn't budge???

[@konkachi7854]

What if the woman has different language with the man, and it can be a struggle sometimes. Of course this is not the point of the video, but I think if you know your wife/husband/partner enough, there won't really be any uncomfortable feelings when talking to each other. They would just answer honestly and in a straightforward manner but in a respectable/loving way. Thanks for the video tho! It shows that you and your wife are clearly intelligent people. I wish all the best for all the couples out there! :)

[@TheImpelar]

You are awesome! Thank you sooo much for this videos! You are smart and kind!

[@chrysalizubeth88]

My problem is I tell men as directly as possible and am as authentic as possible, but most of the guys I’ve dated have read more into my statements, jokes, etc. They just don’t believe that a woman could possibly be straightforward.

[@annlaughren9060]

Wow, make since, love the advice

[@user-os4nk3sg6r]

I love how your eyes match your shirt

[@Sofia-jr3bd]

I like such advices without a template

[@user-dn7qd4km1z]

Thanks! I tried it with my partner hopefully we can communicate better :)

[@bnb0510]

I like you even more now that I know you’re a Steelers fan!

[@swanmute5713]

it was so helpful for me , thanks .

[@AngelaAllen40216]

I'm trying this this week. Hope it works.

[@paloma6755]

this is an awesome piece of advice and im taking it with me wherever I go... thanks Matt...

[@spunkysagittarius87]

Well that explains a lot! Valuable lesson- thank you!

[@danicacarbon3808]

If a guy says he likes you and he wants to court you personally more than communicating you through txt. Is that sincere enough? I mean, txting is fun but then I think he is not into txting. Would that be true enough when he says he I was the one he is looking for?

[@charminggirl6748]

Such sn awesome piece of advice! Thank you!

[@lanzsnoopy7779]

Please share your views on how handle if u love a married man.

[@katelynsexton-ransom4861]

Love this! Thanks I have a question though if you could answer it, I'm knew to this so yeah. If your a man who works all day is tired comes home and want to sleep or watch a movie on the couch, yet your girlfriend wants to go out and do something, how do you get them to say yes to your request of going out?! Is it the same concept of this simply stating you would like him to go out to dinner with you instead of watch a movie at home like always?!? Thanks again for this awesome advice

[@fjsukje8]

Pleas make a video on that : he texted first 2 times "how's going"-"hey. How are you" but he ignored my response each time. 1st time I responded 1 hour later. 2nd time on the 4days later because I was busy on holiday. On the second time, he liked my picture on the 3rd day I did not reply.. Why does he initiate contact then ignore my response ? ( not serious relationship-just like each other flirt in uni ) Please please respond I don't know why he does that...:/

[@ukphilly]

Loved that advice...I will definitely use, thank you!!

[@dalila023]

Is there a page on face book where we can follow you. You are really good! I love your videos 👍🏼

[@mermaidmylife]

wow. this is an eye opening view!

[@siennavenezia792]

I've never had a man want to make me happy.

[@Rathbonek]

Sienna Venezia with that kind of attitude you never will.

[@itsmesia2469]

What attitude...? She do not have any bad attitude...she just said that she had not met that kind of man.... (maybe she do not have any bad attitude only bad luck...)

[@devinewynter3736]

Sienna Venezia you will find him soon. ♥♥♥

[@TheLovely990]

Sienna Venezia You will find him, but you have to kiss a lot frogs.

[@nofybn7794]

You don't know that it will be soon. Probably not.

[@admac3152]

What words do I need to use to ask my husband to wash his own dish and don't leave it for me in a sink, considering that he works part time and I work 8-5. (Mind you, I've tried to ask nicely, but he seam to ignore my request). I feel a bit frustrated and calling him my hero for watching 3 hours of TV before I get home feels like laying. What would be the right line in this case?

[@susankeller164]

Now that qas a great video.. Short and to the point. ❤🎼🐾

[@CJJLful]

Hi Mat, needs some advise here please. What happens when u meet someone that you both have a really good chemistry with, and know he's married? But yet u both continue to flirt, but himself puts in those innuendos while flirting and then pulls back and then he's fine....I'm very confused. He doesn't want me to call too much unless it's work related (yes we work together) and no texting. I really like him and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. But he doesn't want to jeopardize his family life either. Suggestions???

[@annaint.1414]

Women do know what they want, and it's way easier to understand than what men want. I'm getting sick of this myth. Theres nothing easier than making a woman smile or getting her what she wants.

[@sneekytinky107]

I used this and it worked like a charm!!

[@elyssaschmitz6891]

i have a question and i don't know how my crush feels and i don't know how to tell him what i have been felling that i am interested in him . into him .we were talking way before COVID 19 hit and during this pandemic i am nervous to tell him how i feel but how do i do that . without losing him., i already know that he likes me . i have been watching other videos and how he likes me . but how do i show him that i am into him without losing him. what should i do for next year so when i see him i know actually what to do.

[@paulabatari4282]

I really enjoyed your video. But the only thing I am wondering is iIf my boyfriend were to say he wants to do something for me. I would feel like he is ablgated to do it

[@cherylhoalim2492]

great Max tnx for this tip on communication with men

[@ComiendoFeliz]

thank you , i am learning to talk with men

[@Pipsterz]

Loved this!!

[@sakurisake4201]

I am a direct communicator with a guy friend and I ask him to see a fricking movie or something and there's poor communication no replies via texts or voice mail and the movie plan doesn't go down so I'm frustrated and ticked off at him don't get me wrong there's a pattern going on what do I end up doing? Going to the movie alone me myself and I I'm fed up to be honest

[@قناةأصواتالطبيعة-س8ز]

If a guy didn't reply, then you have to accept that he's not interested.

[@pensfan4life]

Go Steelers and Penguins!! Sorry but I live in Pittsburgh and its awesome that your a fan of the Steelers 🙂

[@vampirismorrigan2640]

Basically, be more assertive!

[@KikiJay7878]

I'm going to try this. Thank you! 😀

[@meia002]

isnt that like forcing them to do something they dont wanna do tho? confused a little about this

[@andygreen7314]

That is the point, most guys do not like doing stuff that women find interesting, shopping, watching emotional movies, hanging out with your work colleagues, going to your gfs wedding.. etc You ask if he would like to do these.. he will say no. However if you let him know it is important to you that he does these things then he will come if he cares about you. It's not rocket science.

[@nofybn7794]

@@andygreen7314 Women do these without groaning, unlike guys. Also stereotypical and sexist.