How to cope with an avoidant partner | Practical tips and solutions

[@Eliza_beast]

Actually asking those questions will make them shut down completely

[@hellswindstaff91]

Thank you for this. It's given me a lot of clarity

[@darspe8831]

Been there and doing it! Feel totally lost

[@GodIsWithUs4LIFE]

Very helpful video, thank you for sharing !

[@DrDougWeiss]

You are so welcome!

[@TeachYHWH]

This is my husband. Im completely 7 days a week invisible. So much so when i just had our child, he said he didnt sign up for this and abandoned me mentally, physically,emotionally....he definitly has intimacy anorexia

[@DrDougWeiss]

I'm sorry that you are dealing with this, your pain and trauma is real. I would recommend having a support system for yourself, whether that is a trusted friend, a support group, or a therapist, since this is a lot for one to go through alone. This way you would be able to receive encouragement and find healing. You can call us at 719-278-3708 to get booked with one of our therapists regarding this matter. You can also join our Married & Alone Facebook support group as well: facebook.com/groups/MarriedandAlone/ You are not alone in this.

[@GodIsWithUs4LIFE]

4:27 this is key!

[@KeriLessard]

Dr. Weiss. When I was engaged, I discovered hundreds of emails from my fiancé to try and meet mostly men on Craigslist for sex. One of your counselors helped me immensely with my trauma. I’m now 2 years moved on. I’m in a serious relationship with a wonderful guy now but I feel like I’m avoiding being close with him and possible became an Intimacy Anorexic. I shut down often as a coping mechanism. He deserves more. How can I fix this?

[@DrDougWeiss]

Recognizing that this may be what you are struggling with is a great first step. My next suggestion would be to schedule an appointment with an Intimacy Anorexia therapist who can recognize if reactive Intimacy Anorexia is what you're dealing with. I have a therapeutic teaching about reactive IA coming out soon. Stay tuned on my social media accounts to be notified of the release. If there isn't an IA therapist in your area, Heart To Heart Counseling Center has virtual appointments for those who are local. You can call us at 719-278-3708.

[@lydiawhitehead2453]

Should my husband come to an intensive if we are not talking

[@TeachYHWH]

He refuses to go to therapy. The only affection IF THAT, is in public. He ileven goes so far to look eyes on women while im with him. And NOT just a small glance. He likes when im in pain. Hes literally laughed hysterically, when ive said "when you do this, it hurts me" im a christian and he is not. I dont want to continue but am afraid to go agaisnt God. Ive already been divroced before and know what it does..... Plus now we have our first child and its not fair for her...but medically im getting sick, losing my hair, i shake now, no sleep, etc...i mean its really bad. This marriage on my health...idk...i just need help

[@MarinaM-o6p]

FOR THE WOMEN IN THIS CATEGORY …..MATCH WHAT THEY ARE SAYING AND DOING TOO .I ASSURE YOU HE IS HAVING HOT INTIMATE “ STUFF” OUT THERE .

[@wendycollins765]

Please don’t suggest yoga

[@raisedonpurpose6331]

Very helpful information, thank you!