How To Create Small Talk With A Girl

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@Comand94 4 жыл бұрын

A real pro tip, gentlemen: talk about your shared environment. That's one thing you have in common, for sure. Doesn't matter if you're in school, at a wedding or in a bar. If you talk about travel or video games, there's a chance you won't hit at all, might even make the other person uncomfortable if you don't notice that they aren't too keen on the subject of your choice. For example, if you talked with me about travel a couple years back, I'd feel pretty shitty about it, since back then I haven't really traveled anywhere ever, only now I've been on a few trips I could talk about. That being said, don't be afraid to be very specific in the things you say, it might give another person an anchor for a conversation as well. Say you tell me how you bought your younger cousin a present recently vs you tell me how you bought a LEGO set for your younger cousin Daniel as a present for his 12th birthday. Suddenly I might talk about LEGO or how I also have a younger cousin named Daniel, or about children in general, or birthdays, birthday parties and birthday presents - yes, it sounds like boring and irrelevant information, but unless you go on and on about it for too long then it isn't. You can bring up any subject as long as you know when to stop talking about it, if you get no reciprocation (in form of talking back or at least asking curious questions) after a minute or two then it's best you switch subject. If you wanna learn more about small talk in general, I'd recommend The Serious Business of Small Talk by Carol A. Fleming. For me, it helped me understand the objective of small talk and it's importance, meaning I was able to more naturally develop my small talk instead of going online to look up questions that you can ask to get to know a person. By no means am I an expert in small talk, but I'm no longer completely helpless if my friends left me for a few minutes with a person I don't know, which I very distinctly remember being on my prom night when I was left to stand awkwardly with someone I only knew by name...

@honestchin621 3 жыл бұрын

Me: Hey there...the floor’s looking uh...pretty nice today

@caleb_sully24 3 жыл бұрын

@@honestchin621 lmao

@ilhanozgur5974 3 жыл бұрын

@@honestchin621 😅😅😅

@apollo6376 3 жыл бұрын

what do you mean talk about your shared environment?

@javajimmy1090 3 жыл бұрын

That moment when the comment is at least as helpful than the actual video.

@erikekholm9617 4 жыл бұрын

“ I see you’re drinking 1%. Is that ’cause you think you’re fat? ‘Cause you’re not. You could totally be drinking whole if you wanted to” usually works for me

@TaxinGigs Жыл бұрын

Lol

@spaghetsnoogans3571 4 жыл бұрын

Your videos have been a great help and opening my perspective to all the details required to improving social skills and multiply opportunities in day to day life. Thanks for helping me out without me asking for it

@gmdwill 4 жыл бұрын

I love how you give actual advice that can be implemented instead of trying to invent some chess game that doesn’t exist

@SPACEDOUT19 Жыл бұрын

most of the time, it comes to your inner true confidence and accepting things as they are, stop trying to put a front and just enjoy talking and listening to her

@LDarlong 4 жыл бұрын

Hey Tripp, could you start putting summaries in the description please? It helps to screenshot something I can look through to jog my memory occasionally.

@welovefootball1463 4 жыл бұрын

My man make tons of video his mision is to make us comfortable 👍 great Tripp 💯👏👏

@mihanich 2 жыл бұрын

what if I genuinely not interested in topics like "how did you meet?", "what's cool to do in Spain", "what's that like?" etc? Like, you actually like the person yet for some reasons these questions don't interest you.

@dr_sangita_kagrecha 3 жыл бұрын

I liked ur long talk😊...will guide my son as how to communicate with girls 😅

@pleasestop1760 4 жыл бұрын

Always look forward to your content,Thank you for sharing.

@monchichisekiguchi6477 4 жыл бұрын

what if she gives your one words answers and very vague answers even after you say whats that like

@RaviSingh-be3mx 4 жыл бұрын

Move on Shes clearly not interested man..dont waste ur time

@rohannair5191 2 жыл бұрын

You vibe energy ain’t it bro

@jaspergabriels8933 4 жыл бұрын

This is my biggest struggle for sure in hostels or something where you meet alot of new people how to engage with them and make meaningful conversations

@HalfSupply 11 ай бұрын

Damn I’m such a loner, hope y’all get the girl y’all lile

@PrinceCobra21 4 жыл бұрын

could‘ve done the whole video in 3min dude...

@TsarOrthodoxBro_II 4 жыл бұрын

Please make shorter videos, otherwise good informative video👍

@Mohamedkane18 2 жыл бұрын

X 1,5/2 😉

@Videokeizah 4 жыл бұрын

11:10 But don't linger on Spain. Spain is the key to a more personal conversation. Why did she choose Spain? Preferences, ancestry? Maybe she wanted to leave the US for a while. Why? Etcetera. But don't go on about the Spain, because the conversation remains impersonal.

@bennybobanger7841 2 жыл бұрын

Step one: Be good looking

@Josh-fp2qn Жыл бұрын

Step two: have balls to approach

@BigBoyO56 Жыл бұрын

@@Josh-fp2qnthat’s the main thing. Confidence builds attraction

@dariosucevac7623 Жыл бұрын

@@BigBoyO56That my problem I have no problem thinking what to say but when the approach barrier is already broken, I simply don't have the self confidence to approach a girl, especially when she is in a group of her friends, and most of them are 😢

@andone3540 4 жыл бұрын

isn’t it annoying to ask so many questions?

@ohtych1004 3 жыл бұрын

Watch vid in 1.5x speed to make it seem normal

@MrTheomighty1 4 жыл бұрын

Am I right I’m saying small talk is me saying, my lovers really good friend I feel only wants my lover when she hasn’t got men running around after her, or she’s fallen out with the regular guy she’s with . like last night I turned up at my lovers house and I hear my lovers Friend on the phone and she is using my lover to pick herself up. I’m just making small talk with you guys 😆😆😆 ....