how to cultivate strong self-love | filling the void you feel | @tiffanylaibhen

[@TiffanyTV]

good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop

[@shantekahenry6612]

😊

[@alkelangaspard]

“Everyone is actually doing the best they can at their level of emotional maturity.” Sheesh this is rich 👌🏾

[@ariannacamacho4150]

Listening to this In the morning while showering was the best decision I’ve made✨ now I’m gonna get dressed and take myself out on a date and buy myself roses✨✨

[@ariannacamacho4150]

Self love is beautiful

[@TiffanyTV]

this made me smile so big 😌 have a beautiful day!

[@ayo3070]

I will do the same….let’s start from there 😍

[@AAA34FL448]

Girl, I needed this because I was barking all morning, and I just sat down and started crying. I'm crying as I'm typing this. The lack of love I've been showing myself looking for it in others lately is disappointing. I feel like I've lost myself lately. Thank you for these words. I needed them. It's always up to me

[@TiffanyTV]

I’m a bit late but I’m sending you the biggest hug girl because I gettt it! praying your able to make a few shifts to find some more inner peace.. you’ll start to see it reflected on the outside 🤎

[@menaaileen]

Literally just went through a breakup last night, that was completely unexpected so now today I have to move out after 2 years together. Thank you for dropping this. I love hearing your messages.

[@S00DamJazzy]

Stay strong sis ❤

[@baisinbu98]

Hugs 🤗 and kisses. You got this. 🤍💚

[@chichimweetwa]

You got this sis❤️ your gonna love finding yourself again

[@iesheamahogany3785]

Sending lots of love your way❤❤❤

[@SadeCeara]

Going through a break up right now with my boyfriend of almost 8 years & my now child’s father as I am currently almost 7 months pregnant and it sucks. But through out this process I need to just focus on my baby & I! Stay strong sis! We got this

[@jasmineasinati]

This was especially difficult for me because I couldn’t even define love, let alone give it to myself. I looked to 1 Corinthians 13 4-8 and my life has changed. Now I treat myself how the Bible defines love to be. And I’ve never been more full.

[@emmarampf7354]

Thank you

[@SiobhanC.Quinones-ws7sw]

Tiffany!!!!! As a mental health professional I want to thank you for your energy and your support to empower others to seek self-love. Self love is sooooo crucial to your mental wellbeing. I have shared your video with my clients as a source of motivation. Keep up the work mama! It’s truly healing to others.

[@Fuzzyblossom]

Self-love is a different ball game if your single...You have 1 choice+ that is to LOVE YOURSELF ..it's hard but the journey is priceless+ empowering✌️✨💖

[@samara.dadonnn]

💕 Steps start @ 15:48 💞

[@kimiko_111]

Thank you 😊

[@ΜύριαμΕλΆρμπι]

THANKYOUUUU

[@Xoxo_lanaa]

Thanks 😊

[@movingforward789]

Thank you! ❤

[@reneeari45]

I was totally in this deep funk because of this very reason last week. I cried constantly all week. Thank you for this 🙏🏾💖

[@marywithane9166]

FINALLY someone who explains self love in a way that I understand bone deep. The idea about finding the void and filling it yourself is gold that I can practically apply straight away. Your content is excellent instant sub thank you 🙏

[@einaj9]

Your comment really is the cherry on top to this quest of self love 🥹🥹🥹🥹 your comment has truly blessed me indeed❤ thank you

[@asamara673]

Am I the only one who has it the other way round. I just want a relationship. I’ve been single for so long. I know how to look after myself be by myself, go out with myself, push myself to do better motivate myself, but sometimes I just want a shoulder to cry on or some support to keep me going 😢

[@asamara673]

@@user-st9fs6xu5yI’ve just said I don’t need someone to keep me going. I’m comfortable pushing myself and doing things on my own. BUT I WANT a partner. I don’t NEED one

[@sandrasteward2059]

That's real. We are taught on one hand that we are strong black women, we can make it on our own, trust in God & keep it moving. All of that is true but we are human & we were NOT made to work everything out alone so we need to be loved, held, talked to & cry with by other humans. I do agree that the work starts with self bc "no man is an island"

[@EfejiroAbo]

Lately,I have removed myself from friends that don't add anything, Friends that laugh and mock you, Friends who reduce your self worth and make u feel less of yourself, Friends that make laugh at your bodily features or how you look and this reduced my confidence level ,And I know that I am beautiful but I don't know why I want to hear validation from people to know this fact,I just recently know a lot about my self worth and key into the spirit 🎉 I know I am an ambivert but then this reduced my confidence,I now feel why will I be friends with this girl she is so beautiful ,why would this guy like me,I am not good or pretty enough because of those friends who brought negative thoughts to me

[@kembaI.]

I’m so glad I came across this video. We are responsible for our OWN happiness. So many people place their happiness on other people and that is not fair and such a HUGE responsibility. We’re all human and we all go through things. No one has time to be responsible for your happiness.

[@kathlynroach566]

Tiffanyyyyy, ! Shouting amen amen amen .. at my big age Lord knows you have reminded me to wake up! Hug myself ! Love myself, be okay ! Build me. Recognizing individuality, regulating boundaries, my family reminded me. I am the common denominator and I need to show up for SELF and not always allowing people to be codependent or vice versa. Lord I really have some cleaning up. I am not for everyone. You may have just saved 50 percent of my mental health😢.. thank you

[@makeitcount8164]

Yes! To be honest I still get kind of iffy and listen with precaution when being told to continually love myself I do think however that you have a good balance

[@TiffanyTV]

I’m tearing up reading this. sending you a big hug 🫂🤎 we love aha/realization moments 🙌🏾

[@kathlynroach566]

​@@TiffanyTVthank you .. everyday has been a challenge.. I pray for strength and positivity energy 🙏

[@kathlynroach566]

Thank you sooo much for you all your feedback...I am continuously praying for the guidance and strength on my life attributes.. work everyday and push towards abundance. Today is February 1st and I inhale/ exhaled

[@reciprocalhealing]

Ah, how synchronized... self love has been the center of my awareness lately. Thank you for this video ❤

[@licisoul3283]

Thanks for this video!! First tome here!! To all the ladies feeling/believing we need to be "fully healed" before getting into a relationship, we must know this isn't correct. We get opportunities to heal within relationships as they help us grow. How else can we see where we must work on if it isn't reflected in relationship with others? Let's be gentle with ourselves and appreciate where we are (while working towards growth) and know that we are worthy of love and acceptance within the bounds of partnership. Working together ❤

[@yukipurplezone]

I used to give love and care to everyone but never giving it to myself I still have lots of insecurities but I'm trying my best to put me first this time it's a hard journey for me so please everyone pray for me 💙✨ and thank you Tiffany you've always been there since day one of my healing journey 💙✨

[@MJmamita]

Same here

[@Larue8807]

THE WAY I AM CRYING......😭😭 Thank you!! this was a real blessing. ❤

[@jeralynlangford1341]

“Is this really about him”😮‍💨 we truly project unhappiness onto others in the form of nitpicking. I’ve been guilty of that. Learning to go within and be content with self has done so much for me! Great video Queen🫶🏽

[@TiffanyTV]

that part! thank you love 🤎

[@prime-novel]

This hair and the length is THE look! ❤

[@rdaliz]

Another home run. This is beyond impactful, this is exactly where I am. Thank you once again for sharing. I am speechless and taken back by how well you managed to deliver this message. This is an amazing starting point for healing ❤😊 You are so amazing 🙌🏿

[@__4theloveofkj]

I started back buying myself flowers yesterday. Each week I’m promising myself to do that. Also taking a least one day to do all self care things for myself. I also really enjoy cooking so that helps too. Don’t forget the gym!

[@Areallionaire]

I’ll Be Using These Steps To Get To The Root Of Why I’ve Felt Resentful For Being Kind Lately. I’m Naturally A Kindhearted Person, I’ll Do Anything For Anyone. But For Whatever Reason, The Gestures Dont Feel Good & I Think It’s Me Overcompensating, Doing Too Much For Others & Neglecting Myself.

[@chantelleg5529]

Don’t know how I found this video, but I’m so happy I did. My husband and I had a major argument three days ago. He asked for space but it’s been three days. I’ve been keeping busy for the last 72 hours waiting for him to talk to me( I’m anxious attached and semi- codependent). After watching this video, I’m inspired to work on myself, love on myself, take the time to pour into me. I’m so use to “us” that I’ve been forgetting me 😢

[@TiffanyTV]

I relate to this alll too well… it’s almost impossible to fix things in a relationship before we’ve healed what’s going on within ourselves. sending you love + and big hug on this part of your journey + praying for health in your marriage 🫂🤎

[@chantelleg5529]

@@TiffanyTV thank you very much !

[@briannaevans2600]

Yes you shouldn’t look for happiness or joy from others. It should come from within. However, just like someone can add to your happiness and joy they can also take from it. Your surrounding influences your mood.

[@_NenasNonsense]

So glad I found this channel! This year we’re standing on business

[@kaitline1183]

Same she’s so good at this

[@adessmanda8569]

I have never come across anyone who made me understand how to get that strong self love or just basic self love. This is something I struggled with until I watched this video. Tiffany thank you so much, you have help me change how to perceive the world of self love. I’m experiencing the most amazing change. 🎉❤

[@TiffanyTV]

this literally made my day sis! 🥹🙌🏾

[@Uniquely.Melissa]

Took out my journal so fast when you started naming those steps 🌼☀️💕👏🏼 thank you!

[@Boujienadiadaniel]

What are the steps

[@Uniquely.Melissa]

@@Boujienadiadaniel when you watch the video, you’ll hear her talk about those Steps 1-5.. it’s a given to see the video itself and hear her talk about self-love to understand why she is giving those steps. 🎁🙌🏼

[@Boujienadiadaniel]

@@Uniquely.Melissa Oky

[@starrchild1972]

New subbie here, I love it! I was too that relationship girl! The codependency is real! I found myself "chasing" relationships as soon as one ended because I truly thought I needed one to be whole. Now, I here trying to fix this mess. If I could go back, I would change this about my younger self. This is great advice. Plus, loving me and focusing on "dating" me makes my even more desired.

[@_thelovelyliz_]

This was another beautiful said reminder to fill my cup before anything I do. So that I can feel loved and good within myself and be able to pour out positive and loving energy with others. This was really really helpful for me, this week was a struggle and listening helped me see what I was missing. Thank you truly again for another impactful message! I truly believe god is working with you to help our generation ❤

[@Jaythedon7]

I love your videos. As a male follower I resonate with a lot of what you’re saying. Thank you!

[@giselle7026]

Still healing from my last relationship I truly needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@christinechan1650]

thank u! i'm in a relationship and im trying to love myself more, this was really helpful

[@Jhlechiae]

This is such a great topic! When we give ourselves the love we are seeking, it takes the weight off of our relationships. Then they are given the space to flourish the way they were meant to.

[@TiffanyTV]

absolutely! + when we love ourselves, we can see our partners in a whole new light 🤎

[@kims4744]

You are a blessing. For individuals who find it difficult to articulate their true emotions (me)… this has helped me truly learn to look inward first, because now I have my voice to advocate for myself with others

[@emm2058]

Really needed to hear this ❤ my bf and I have postponed getting married because he feels unsupported. I’m very dependent on him and this was a huge wake-up call. I hope practicing these tips will make the changes within myself to be interdependent ❤

[@reyyanlynn]

I just want you to know your words go a long way.. truthfully I needed to hear this because lately I’ve been relying on others for my happiness and it never works out in the end. I’ve been depressed for a long time but I’ve been watching your videos and I swear it’s my therapy. I’m becoming a better and smarter women every day. I feel your words really touch me. Thank you ❤️

[@TheBlossomingLife]

This is by far one of the most important and beneficial videos I have ever seen on KZbin. ❤ Thank you so much.

[@staceywilliams7144]

I am having an off day today. And I came across your video. First time watching you. And let me tell you. I am internally screaming. I am soo mad because it is now hitting me how much I don’t love myself. How hard it is for me to love myself. And just overall how could I do this to myself. Thank you. Your video will be on repeat.

[@TiffanyTV]

try not to be so hard on yourself mama. most of us aren’t taught to love ourselves… we’re taught to look for love in everything outside of us… you’ve found your community because as you can see in this comment section, you’re not alone at alllll. sending you love + a big hug at this part of your journey 🫂🤎

[@amandatheeauthor]

Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through a divorce and I’m single for the first time in almost a decade… I didn’t fully realize just how much I’ve spent my life dependent on others for my happiness/ self-regulation/ self-love until I watched this! Thank you for giving steps to take to get to a place of self love. ❤️

[@Perfectpeace19]

You never miss Tiffany. Thank you.

[@jessicab3995]

What about when physical touch is what you are lacking?

[@kitashinsukesricebag]

i’ve read somewhere that letting yourself dance freely is really healing for touch ❤

[@Okaythen193]

Girlll I be watching your videos wishing I has friends like you lol. I just feel like you’re so self aware about your actions and how your behaviors can contribute to how you feel and your environment. I loveee that about this channel because it’s hard to come by people who are self aware about themselves. Honestly even I have to work on being more self aware myself and it’s harder than it seems, so I don’t blame anyone who has a hard time doing that. It’s a lot easier said than done, and takes baby steps and a lot of time to fully understand it all. But anyways this is so true, keep up the great work ❤

[@mindshiftmami]

This was so helpful and so many truth bombs about the NECESSITY OF SELF LOVE! I especially had a lightbulb when you started talking about focusing on what WE need to solve and come to an understanding to within ourselves before we go to someone else, because if we address ourselves FIRST, 9 times out of ten we will not even need to take it to the person afterwards because we already solved the internal conflict within ourselves 🤯 then we make the necessary decisions accordingly 😌 our peace can only be from within (and every other feeling, good or bad.) Thank you Tiffany for all you are providing to us you are making a huge difference in the world.

[@fa1a2ha]

Totally agree my same finding!

[@emmarampf7354]

I really like that you called us out not just told us to find it for ourselves but SHOWED us how what we seek, what’s missing is our job to cultivate

[@EarthangelTee]

she brings out the best in me is swear

[@Nickisthegreatest]

I love the way she presents herself

[@KrishanaDavis]

I'm still working on this in marriage. It takes time to develop those skills to be happy independently when you have been sold a dream and now have expectations that the oneness of marriage means all of your love and joy is the responsibility of your mate. I would often let my husband's emotions or bad days consume me because as an empath I feel others' feelings so deeply. I am still learning to regulate myself. Thank you for sharing this!

[@iam_carlapretty1202]

Ooow weee girl I just did this and you're not telling no lies in this video. You just told my life story

[@TiffanyTV]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@panamababy29613]

this is a general comment bcus ive been binge watching your channel. im very thankful I came across your channel. YOU are everything I needed- the help and the word ive been hoping to find. you’re very inspiring and your energy is so bright and gentle I appreciate you very much and just wanted to give my appreciation. thank you for your kind words of hope and guidance! im truly thankful! have a blessed day 🙏🏽🤍🧿

[@everythingshanita8108]

❤

[@poshposh7609]

Truelly one of the best videos I have ever listened to....i dont think i ever loved myself enough to a point where i dont need to cry to others....i have started this journey and its hard for me to actually know how to start but the steps you have given me are gold ..I hope you are blessed beyond recognition i pray what you have given to me i hope Jehova God gives you Tiffany in multitude❤....you have nooooo clue how your helping ❤ our scars are deep.

[@ashawntiford1457]

Came back to this video after a few months and whew was it needed!! Thank you for calling me in. I feel like I am losing myself, allowing others to have power over how I feel about myself. Placing my happiness in what others say and do for me. I used to have such high confidence until a big emotional blow that has me questioning how I really feel about myself. I'm working to not get back to who I once was, but to allow adversities and trials and tribulations to inform how I love myself better and become confident with new and darker chapters to my story.

[@koolinwitkiki3028]

0:45 White Henny shouldn’t even be considered Hennessy it’s so smooth!

[@abbeyeligio8468]

Thank you for being the big sister I never had but always needed❤️

[@gurleenkaurwahla2522]

So lately, I've been feeling a bit lonely and I don't have many friends that ( I don't get many invitations for hangouts), so from time to time, I would ask my boyfriend to make plans and maybe just show some invitative to want to do things with me because I usually feel like I'm the who makes all the initiatives and plans. So this is something we've struggled for in your whole relationship, where I feel like my needs aren't met and he seems too overwhelmed to do anything. It gets to the point where when I try to make plans I feel resentful Anyway, when you asked "What was I wanting from this relationship or other people?" It's that feeling of acceptance, feeling loved and calued by someone, so much so that they want to put in the effort to plan hangouts with you. This is my love language and I crave it. I've tried giving this to myself and going on solo dates like to the farmers market where I interact with a few people and sometimes I end up feeling more alone and kinda miserable and lonely, wishing someone would invite me to this.

[@TiffanyTV]

hey love. there’s so much more to this video that you didn’t address. yes, it’s important to love on yourself, but it’s also important to evaluate your relationships and determine if they’re meeting your needs. once we truly begin to love ourselves, we no longer tolerate relationships + connections that don’t meet our needs. I am not a relationship therapist, nor am I telling you to end your relationship, but if you feel like you’ve communicated your needs multiple times and there isn’t any attempt to make it happen, you have to determine if the pros outweigh the cons… if this is the relationship that you want to remain in. only you can determine that and make changes there. sending you a big hug 🫂 because these are not easy realizations.

[@novejotsingh]

Tiffany you are such a breath of fresh air. I love this message and reminder.

[@TiffanyTV]

thank you so much love 🤎

[@noxolonancyndlovu1576]

Hey Tiffany, I want to tell you that you have become my best friend. Every time l watch your channel l learn more about myself thank you very much for the wisdom you share with me💐

[@Its.justlife]

To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself❤

[@TiffanyTV]

🎯 it all starts with you! and everyone else falls into line after that 😌🤎

[@Its.justlife]

@ true ❤️

[@dtheemess]

I’m so glad you touched on this topic! It’s so good I have to send it to my mama, she got to hear this too!

[@TiffanyTV]

🙌🏾🤎

[@khadijahtu3898]

Wow such an incredible sweet video 🩷🌱✨ it felt like a big hug !

[@Eriandniyah_roblox]

Oh I love this! My biggest problem is me not getting enough alone time and I can take that frustration out on others sometimes. This is something I’m currently working through and have been working through for a while. Thank you for this video ❤

[@crystalpryor8639]

This was by far one of your BEST AND MY MOST FAVORITE VIDEOS. All of them are great, however this just hit!! Thank you for being you and giving all that you give. I hope to meet you one day.❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@RoseFinley-e3s]

GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SELF!!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO… CHANGED MY LIFE!! I’ve shared this video with sooooo many people & they’ve shared it. Everything you’ve said is so true. THANK YOU… please continue to make videos like this because our sisters need to know. I’m now watching all your videos now😊

[@milaopacich9371]

This is the most important video I’ve ever watched

[@TiffanyTV]

🥹🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@jaimerose1297]

I loved the actionable steps you gave to sit with how I am feeling and take responsibility by implementing what I need for myself ❤

[@bumblebee_ms]

Just found your channel, you're gorgeous and smart. Needed to hear these things today.

[@mergarydiolazo]

I watch a lot of self improvement and videos similar to better myself, and this one really stopped me in my tracks. You’ve really got a way with your words, and you’ve put all of the concepts in a way that was easily understandable, kept us accountable, but did not shame us for feeling certain ways-simply allowed us to reflect. This is the first time I’ve heard the term “interdependence” and I love how it acknowledges our need for connection but also emphasizes the importance of loving ourselves fully and understanding our needs first. Thank you SO much. I’ve sent this to some of my friends who are on similar journeys 🥹🫂❤️‍🩹appreciate you and your content!! ❤️

[@TiffanyTV]

you are so sooo welcome! it’s my pleasure. I'm so glad you found it helpful, I am rooting for you and your friends on your journeys 🤎🤎

[@breannamagana]

WOW! I needed this video. And the way you say is everything is exactly how I need to hear it. I’m going to need to rewatch this a few times. And I just subscribed ❤

[@LoveJhanelle]

Your videos always hit at the right time. Thank you!

[@AdvertEyes-exe]

I’m glad to know that I’ve grown a lot through these years. You explained exactly the process I go through with problems in my life. However, my problems still exist I don’t ask nothing of others and handle all of my emotions myself. At the same time I’ve lost friends,family and financial stability and my partner someone I ask rarely to do or provide for me has yet to even attempt to comfort me. Hell I can’t even be near him because my presence drains him. But this video has definitely made my mind up about my relationship it’s toxic and I need to move on. ❤ I pray god heals and softens my heart for my next relationship because I definitely don’t want to bring and of this toxic behavior or feelings with me. And that I’m able to trust him with my heart amen.🙏🏾

[@nicolenicole9298]

I love this channel! You speak to me every time. It’s always what I need to hear.

[@maximizedmoney]

This video is how I found you and I’ve been binging ever since! This was so good and just what I needed to hear as I found myself questioning a few decisions.

[@donniep.1513]

I’ve realized this as well and I’m glad you said it so I know I’m not crazy. Whenever I feel unloved it’s due to a lack that I started slipping on ❤❤❤

[@tanzanekova]

I’m literally in a relationship where I have to love on myself because I’m definitely feeling like I’m not getting it in the relationship. But like you stated maybe it’s me. And that’s the mission I’m on to find out. Thank you for this video, right on time.

[@ugochiemerole9000]

You did so well with this video Tiffany! This video literally came at the right time and I am going to put everything you said into practice and actually journal!

[@jasmynlinzy4453]

You’re energy is so bright. The glow!!!

[@TiffanyTV]

received love 😌 thank youuu

[@TT-nu4qk]

This was a moment I had this morning. ladies if you keep expecting rejection and don't know why? Your trying to give yourself away to someone else . No one can take on another person living inside of them. Picture someone else inside of you. you have to deal with your things and now thier things. you can't take that on yourself so stop trying to give yourself away. Loving you is taking on you in all aspects and making sure your loved, happy and taken care of. You don't need to belong to anyone You already belong to the best person on this earth and that's. YOU. Cheers

[@TiffanyTV]

🎯🎯

[@josephojo5185]

This is what I needed. I’ve been expecting my woman to compliment me. To make me love myself more and when she doesn’t I feel very angry. I don’t love myself

[@TiffanyTV]

don’t get me wrong, it’s human nature to want to be seen, complimented, loved on… but let’s make sure it not from an empty void we’re trying to fill. yes mam… learn to love you! and that might mean making some changes that you don’t like when you reflect. that’s okay! sending you a big hug at this part of your journey 🫂🤎

[@jocelyntorres69]

You just spoke to my soul! Thank you so much for this, I have been feeling depressed down and with anxiety for some time now and you truly helped me to open my eyes and realize that I have to pour into myself more. ♥️ thank you! Definitely subscribed to your channel and would love to see more!

[@jamiehuntington5563]

Thank you for the reminder to continuously look inward when heavy emotions are arising in our relationships. I needed that perspective shift. ❤

[@shalommagalore783]

Your skin looks so rich and deep 🎉❤

[@helenribeiro5243]

This is literally what I needed to hear for today. Thank you so much ❤

[@ash_appeal]

I was preaching this to my friend recently, who jumps from one relationship to next. After I've told her multiple times to take a break from dating and focus on her and her interests. While I was going on, she stops me and says "but it's so lonely". Like I had nothing to say to her bc it's true. Self-love and trying to fill the void really gets lonely. You keep remembering or wanting someone for the intimacy. Telling them how your day was etc.

[@AlyUy]

This video is everything. Thank you!

[@lakajhapruitt4806]

You go girl! Affirming you every chance I get! You are where you’re supposed to be! ❤

[@TiffanyTV]

🙏🏾 it’s well received love! thank youu

[@a.b2156]

I just clicked on the video and the vibes are vibing and I love that this popped up on my page!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ new subscriber is right on time.

[@msdreams6838]

This was divine timing of this message 🙏🏾💓💓

[@femmefatale55]

This was such a gem. Thanks so much, beautiful!! 💖💖💖💖

[@IntuitiveFlow1114]

This was so enlightening and beautifully articulated 😌 Thank youuuu 🙏🏾 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@sayuristillwater7471]

This take was simply refreshing 😌. Thank you for sharing your thoughts & imparting wisdom!

[@MrsBrinson]

Hola Tiffany, this upload was so on point. Im still learning how much im in control of my own happiness, but i make sure to keep up with the practice of what keeps me happy. Having the awareness of our emotional changes is so important to keeping ourselves at our best selves....🥂... ..i was sipping on water during the video🤭🤭

[@TiffanyTV]

I’m glad it spoke to you mamas! + yes to everything you said. one step at a time 🤎 yes hydrationnn lol

[@deloishall]

I simply truly love this video.

[@WhitneyBeeLibra]

I love your positivity! I just wish I could be like this

[@aisatacapri]

Absolutely love this! Have to fill up your own cup because it's not anyone else's responsibility 🤞🏾

[@lilanoue]

You’re speaking to me!! I am reclaiming my power and learning how to communicate directly. Getting to the root of what is, what I’m feeling, what I need, has helped me so much 🙌

[@HG-le5tj]

I think we all have a duty of care and certain amount of responsibilty towards each other, and our happiness. We need to talk about our worries and concerns together if we ever have a chance of healing! we're all here together going through similar experiences, "No Man Is An Island, if we were meant to go through it all alone, then we'd be the only person on the planet, we're meant to heal together as God intended! Instead of being so separated and detached from eachother, it's just not natural, and not a very safe environment either for most of us, especially vulnerable people! I think it's become a very lonely, isolated, sad planet, and it's such a shame, what's life all about, if not connectedness! Afterall, there's strength in numbers!

[@TiffanyTV]

@@HG-le5tj I totally agree… and it’s a good thing that this video is not about being alone, but instead about not relying on others to make you “happy” … finding time to pour into yourself so that you show up whole + healthy in your relationships…. even when there are things to heal within that relationship. Unhealthy attachment is a real. I say that multiple times in the video

[@celestebaptiste3603]

Im so glad ive came across your videos little by little im realising in some situations i was the problem n because i used to rely on everyone to make me happy when it was gone i felt unloved 😮 and would become aggressive towards everyone even in relationships

[@TiffanyTV]

that’s a big step!! to see it and admit it. now the world begins of healing + showing up better. sending you a big hug + all the love 🫂🤎🤎

[@celestebaptiste3603]

@@TiffanyTV thank u so much for the encouragement.

[@yayasims16]

Ok so why is it that every time you drop a video it's exactly what I need! Thank you sis!❤

[@diallomady5184]

Hands down, the best cideo I've ever listened to about self-love. Thank you!