How to Date 9s and 10s

[@damitzdesign]

Those “average” girls in the beginning are better looking than the “most girls guys are afraid to approach”

[@reggiexp69]

for real they avarage? fam in my terms those are pretty hot... average girls dont look like that...

[@GabrielGarcia-pg1pi]

This Benjamin has a significant distortion of reality and very bad taste with his fixation on plastic women

[@reggiexp69]

@@GabrielGarcia-pg1pi yeah... ever since bases zeus is gone, i stoped watching, benjamin does the same stuff but he seems to care way less nowb to reality, i uses to watch every video but then they behind a paywall and he just says stuff that is impossible. who wants a 10 that has horrible caractere, give me whatr he calls average girl who is fun and great and has something to give that are not her looks

[@ming454]

I thought they were these 9's and 10's before he said about average

[@arthurgames9610]

Yup. The first ones are feminine and cute, the last ones look like literal s l v t 5

[@JokerR22222]

The girls in the beginning of the video are the real 9's and 10s . Just saying

[@studybooks3395]

I agree

[@abderra7im]

totally agree, blonde girls are overrated

[@Test-xt3ys]

6 /7 / 7

[@86quicksilver86]

not if they were men I can bet!

[@user-ze4cx5sn5c]

Average at best

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Being yourself gets you action. For most guys, it gets them nowhere.

[@reggiexp69]

i mean it does but like once every couple of years.... in my case i dont put up a fake act... be my self and talk to girls and see if i like them or not. am not trying to sleep with them right away if i dont have a conection with them i dont have interest in sex with them.. but at the end i never get a relation cause after 2-3month talking hangening i see alot of red flags i dont want to deal with if i date her...

[@Force_user57]

People don't wanna admit that it's 98% looks

[@videowilliams]

Yeah, it's a definition debate. "Be Yourself" but ONLY once you've optimised your attractiveness already.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@videowilliams In most cases, that still won't be good enough.

[@nickp3949]

This is so dumb. Yes, it’s about looks, but most guys are not ugly. Like…your looks is not what’s stopping you. It’s your confidence. She doesn’t find you attractive because you’re approaching her like you wouldn’t even date yourself. It’s insecure, it’s unattractive, and it’s kinda creepy. If you have confidence and social skills, you’ll realize that you were never ugly or unatttractive. You just sucked at talking. It’s not hard for a girl to like you. Girls like men, you’re a man. She wants to fuck you, you just gotta act like more of a man.

[@thatsred1154]

"If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you as a fan" 🔥🔥🔥

[@worldadventuretravel]

As a 10, this is comically bad advice. Men need to stop listening to "alpha bros" on podcasts talking about women and start listening to actual women. Here, I'll give you the formula for free. Wanna date 9s and 10s? Literally every woman out there agrees with this because it's true. 10 steps: 1) Be a good human being 2) Be a good partner to women 3) Deal with your emotional and psychological issues 4) Be a functioning adult in your household and stop putting all the domestic, childcare, and mental labor on your partners 5) Take good care of yourself physically, meaning your hygiene, health, and appearance 6) Support women's reproductive and economic sovereignty 7) Purge all internalized misogyny and rape culture out of your psyche and get rid of all your POS guy friends still out there exploiting and abusing women 8 ) Deal with your family system before expecting a woman to subject herself to your family dysfunction 9) Have a clear direction in life and have your shit together so you don't burden your partner. Women are done with raising grown men. If you don't have a career and a stable life built for yourself you should not be dating or seeking access to women. 10) Develop a strong personal and spiritual growth mindset and DO. THE. WORK. ON. YOURSELF. 11) Because patriarchy is unraveling and man are no longer able to continue gatekeeping access to resources and social capital, women no longer need men to survive. This means if men want to find female partners they will actually have to deliver real value to women's lives and make our lives better. Otherwise, men are competing against all of the peace, safety, and joy women get by remaining single. And that's a competition you won't win by trying to do it the way most men are.

[@ejm_official]

The only thing I heavily disagree on is the follow up point. If she’s not interested, she won’t make an effort to text back. If she has plans already, she’ll suggest another date. Coach Corey Wayne says you are only ever going to ask the same girl out twice if she turns your offer down because you don’t want to waste your time with girls who have low interest. It will make the date awkward as fuck. Trust me I know

[@AZ2PM]

disagree. Like he says int the video it takes 5 seconds. It's not a huge investment - or least it shouldn't be. Treat it like you would any side chick. Timing is everything and it may not align first time.

[@ejm_official]

@@AZ2PM if you have to remind a girl that you exist, you shouldn't contact that girl in the first place. It shows that you lack options and you are needy. Girls who are excited to see you will make it obvious because they are good at screening guys out they are not attracted to. It doesn't have to do with it being the right time. If Brad Pitt messaged her to go out on a date, you bet she is dropping her current plans

[@hansmemling7605]

@AZ2PM Your persistence is easily seen as being keen but since you don’t know each other they will think your enthusiasm is suspicious and question your motives.

[@JoeB0604]

​@@AZ2PMfair points, but if a side chick is a side chick, she's already chasing you

[@hoasteroo6367]

Well the reason why she didnt respond can be: that she is not interested = lost cause or that she got distracted by other activities in the day real 9s and 10s dont spend the whole day on the phone checking if somebody has written to her and gave her the attention And as he says in the video you loose nothing doing so and it sometimes can help if she sees oh he is interested and said something more than Hey do you want to go on a date the thing is how do you follow up

[@DionLYA]

0:03 "He was going on 2 to 3 dates a week." *Shows 3 good-looking girls* Me: "Damn they're so pretty." 0:05 "...But the girls were all average." Me: "What do you mean 'average'? 🤨"

[@joshdaniels224]

Man, I had the same thoughts as I was watching that part! Either my ass has low standards or those girls really are attractive.

[@ivanuskicanal]

Average: Actual girls 9s and 10s: Make up with legs

[@Champ1988]

Most men just want a woman they are mutually attracted to, who will stick around. I think the "9's and 10's" mindset is why the BP community is the way it is. It's OK to date someone who's on your looks level. Most guys can barely approach or talk to them, so start there. And once you're comfortable with women on a human level, their looks won't phase you.

[@kurtisjohnson9718]

What is the BP community?

[@brian5682]

@@kurtisjohnson9718 black pill

[@reggiexp69]

i start by looks to talk to them, but then over a spen of 1-3 months i wanna know every thing about them to see if they are a fit for my taste... and often they are not, they are nice but up such a fake persona that pisses me off when i know how they really are.. and yeha once it pisses me off i dont feel like spending my time on them anymore i want a girl who gives me peace and support not a complaining figure it out your self, dont game, listen to me type it give me the icks and chills or am about to run far away if i like how she treats me and stuff i forget looks... if she helps me and give me peace i can look pass how they look, i do need a nice face and long hair. the rest i dont mind

[@KiIlAllMen]

It important to date attractive hot women too because when post nut clarity hit you will feel extremely bad if the women aren't physically attractive enough even if you're attracted to her.

[@JJ38255]

​@@kurtisjohnson9718Blood Pressure. Because their blood pressure goes up when they try and talk to hot women

[@gmoneymac23]

This video: Double text and be persistent. Next Video: Why women lose respect when you double text them. If they have so many orbiters that they can't respond, move on. It'll only get worse. He said, "Don't treat them like a celebrity", then, he says to double text and act like a fan. Historically speaking, relationships rarely started from cold approaches. Sure, it can work from time to time but that only proves the exception. People meet through friends, family, work, hobbies, bars(when they're open(buzzed) to being approached), etc.

[@worldadventuretravel]

As a 10, this is comically bad advice. Men need to stop listening to "alpha bros" on podcasts talking about women and start listening to actual women. Here, I'll give you the formula for free. Wanna date 9s and 10s? Literally every woman out there agrees with this because it's true. 10 steps: 1) Be a good human being 2) Be a good partner to women 3) Deal with your emotional and psychological issues 4) Be a functioning adult in your household and stop putting all the domestic, childcare, and mental labor on your partners 5) Take good care of yourself physically, meaning your hygiene, health, and appearance 6) Support women's reproductive and economic sovereignty 7) Purge all internalized misogyny and rape culture out of your psyche and get rid of all your POS guy friends still out there exploiting and abusing women 8 ) Deal with your family system before expecting a woman to subject herself to your family dysfunction 9) Have a clear direction in life and have your shit together so you don't burden your partner. Women are done with raising grown men. If you don't have a career and a stable life built for yourself you should not be dating or seeking access to women. 10) Develop a strong personal and spiritual growth mindset and DO. THE. WORK. ON. YOURSELF. 11) Because patriarchy is unraveling and man are no longer able to continue gatekeeping access to resources and social capital, women no longer need men to survive. This means if men want to find female partners they will actually have to deliver real value to women's lives and make our lives better. Otherwise, men are competing against all of the peace, safety, and joy women get by remaining single. And that's a competition you won't win by trying to do it the way most men are.

[@gehirnstaub8234]

Before dating 9 - 10 girls, I need to date average girls first. x)

[@Vincent-lm9eh]

Nha life is tho short to not go straight to the point

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@Vincent-lm9eh Even average girls expect Chads to themselves.

[@sethikablip8607]

Average or ugly girls are gaslighted because of simps. I am pretty sure that 10s or 9s have even less demand or expectations to a guy@@DavidZ4-gg3dm

[@aimanharith1248]

@@DavidZ4-gg3dm yess

[@dadacosmo29]

Same lmao, at this point I'd even date a -10 lmao

[@KnuckleDusterBuster]

They say attracting 9s and 10s is actually easier than attracting an 8. Why? Because very few men actually approach 9s or 10s. And 8s have been approached a ton + heard every line in the book.

[@tatjana7008]

I'm 9 and although we approached rarely doesn't mean we don't have options. Yes they are less abundant, as its usually sucessfull top earners who don't worry about hearing no

[@HenrySimmons1225]

Meh

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Even guys who are 9s & 10s can't get them!

[@paulcolin9071]

Though I like the regular woman look better

[@imabigbadgirl1273]

Cope

[@piyushrasote8051]

money can get them

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@piyushrasote8051 In many cases yes.

[@lliioonnheart9874]

Following up is needy. Its a fine line. Most of the time, do not do it. Do not send messages in a row that havent been replied to. She will see that you care too much. And dont have a life of your own. You can only escalate things foward, with her co operation. If she is not co operating, than drop it and find another one. Because most likely, she not attracted to you and is testing to see if you take the bait.

[@sloebone7399]

To date 8s, 9s and 10s, the key is to be attractive and to not be unattractive. In fact the less unattractive you are the better your results will be.

[@Kharmatos13]

More important to be interesting and not a slobbering, boring, simp. Like the dude said, don't be a fan.

[@jaydot8815]

If ur an unattractive dude saying this you might just be talking out your ass. You can’t speak on attractiveness if you never lived the life of an attractive guy

[@bigal98761]

The key is not to place them that high on a pedestal there are no 9 or 10s they're all average at best

[@gooniusmaximus94]

@@Kharmatos13 ​ @bigal98761 Sure but if you fail the unattractive step none of that matters unless you're rich. Lol

[@NowWeAreFree3]

If you do cold approaches you would find out that those 9's and 10's are the most arrogant...

[@geniusproductions2888]

Interesting, Please explain further por favor

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@geniusproductions2888 The hotter she is, the higher her opinion of herself.

[@akronym4439]

Wouldnt say that. Once I have approached a girl in the gym( I dont usally do that but she was my type) who was a 9. She rejected me but when we spoke she was kind and played with her hair and said she was sorry but she had a boyfriend. But she thanked me that I approached her and she said it was a nice talk. I think some are so good looking that guys dont even try in person and a lot of girls who arent that good looking are more cruel in rejecting.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@akronym4439 The hotter she is, the more often she's approached.

[@mistrzjuliusz9372]

@@geniusproductions2888 the hotter she is the more creeps approach her and she treat every guy as creep then :\

[@FF4EVA]

Rule 1 : Be a Chad.

[@Jaboukii]

Rule 2 : Bring +10000 aura to The Table 🗿with a 10inch

[@SonOfSparda2024]

Or just don't care about it and save your time and energy on something else that is beneficial or makes you happy.

[@Jaboukii]

@@SonOfSparda2024 no no no, You don't understand Son. This Is Life or Death ! These are what make up the Triangle Of Life. "The Sage Of The Chad-Part". Inner Wisdom comes from External Factors and external factors Lead One To Rizzetation. By practicing Chadfulness, it is said that one will master the art of becoming a Chad without the need of a heartbreak. It is known as the "Glow up" That is natural in oneself. Here noble one, Take "+1000" Aura and be on Your Way 🗿

[@shamiir1812]

@@SonOfSparda2024 what if dating multiple 9s and 10s is what makes you happy? What then bro?

[@UnknownLemonadeStand]

You need too evaulate your life

[@diethyl_azodicarboxylate]

Looking at just the title, I thought 9s and 10s were age ☠️☠️☠️

[@wealth.circle]

SO WHY DID YOU CLICK 🤨

[@user-360johnn]

nah you going to jail buddy

[@nver2284]

Same!!! I was shocked and wanted to check out if the guy was fucking serious

[@jenishvadhel2605]

Same bro

[@braydenfrancis5551]

I wish bro

[@robbo3132]

Thanks for the tips.....I am ignoring hundreds of 10s right now.....can't wait!

[@thetruth981]

How to date 9s and 10s : Pick the right parents.

[@HenrySimmons1225]

What?

[@Perfect_Pizza]

When will you guys learn that all this ONLY works if her initial attraction is high for you. Period.

[@hansmemling7605]

That piece of knowledge doesn’t sell books, courses, trainings and consultations.

[@Brokoli119]

So the difference between average and 9s/10s is Solarium tan, hair extensions, more makeup and more expensive clothes? With a bit of that the girls in the beginning look easily like the 9s/10s shown after.

[@marcin5690]

0:05 These are not average looking girls

[@e.paradigm7415]

For reals!! I’d rather take any of those gurls over the “10’s”

[@JB0i]

This dude doesn’t know the difference between fake and pure. The women at the start are honestly the most beautiful in the video.

[@insy_calis]

Where you from man? 😅

[@mariannikolov4129]

3:08 Follow up is sign of desperation. If she was attracted, she would have responded

[@raido7816]

If I ever find myself paying 47 or 67 $ for "The Gentlemans approach" courses. It's game over.

[@cristipaun8398]

My problem is, a lot of 9’s and 10’s usually have mediocre personality (when you look good you dont feel the need to work on your personality) + combined with the fact that she thinks she is superior to you just cuz she looks good. And I get extremly bored with the interaction (low chances to get somewhere) even If I like how they look and desire them for having fun.

[@disco.jellyfish]

People clearly underestimate the importance of looks. Looks are actually the most important factor for women. Women have very blurry vision when it comes to the question why they find a guy attractive. They dont even realize that looks is the most important factor to them. You can do the absolutely same things and even say the same things. If you are good looking, you are a handsome and funny guy. If you are average or worse, your same behavior will be precieved as creepy. If you want this to work out long term, you want to find a girl that looks as good as you ±1. You can go for Looksmaxxing and Neichemaxxing to become a precieved 9 or 10 in some girls' eyes.

[@tigersgedanken1246]

its simple, be 9 or 10. if you arent , dont even bother

[@bloodysolution8190]

Nope that's wrong. It's simple, don't use numbers for humans and don't lift them up for how they're looking. Treat everybody like u want to be treated and be urself.

[@tigersgedanken1246]

@@bloodysolution8190 i dont lift them up, its simple biology

[@gaynzz6841]

@@bloodysolution8190 Hypergamy is real.

[@PAVELKOULIKOV]

This is absolutely true. All this seduction coaches make you think that no matter how you look and who you are you can get a 9 or 10 with few easy steps. They give you hope because they want your attention and your money. In real life things are not so easy or pretty. You MUST absolutely be very good looking OR be somebody with a very high social status (and obviously it means that you have lots of money as well). If you are a random dude with average looks then you will never be attractive for a really beautiful woman. Just hitting the Gym and “be confident” is not enough. You must have a very good looking face or be brilliant at something and make lots of money. These are the only kind of men 9s and 10s are genuinely interested in.

[@tigersgedanken1246]

@@PAVELKOULIKOV yes you still can have sex with hot women, you just need to pay.. xD and if you dont want to pay much, go to poor countries

[@intzeproduction99]

I use the "They won't even consider me" mindset so I don't even have the thought of trying to impress them or prove myself, which removes the nervousness entirely

[@mikaelmagnusson3225]

You also have to create an spark, an attraction. That is the most important thing.

[@cartman7353]

The second I saw the first rule I knew this guy knows what he is talking about instantly.

[@tablewithadoor]

i saw this somewhere but i forgot where from: “Looks get you the date. Personality keeps them around.” i think it went something like like that

[@ohyeatony]

i am currently 21 years old and i used to watch based zeus all the time when i was 14/15. ever since then i’ve had at least 10 girlfriends and have slept with 30 different women and have picked up girls all over the country. i’d like to come back and just pay my respects and thank you for teaching me how to be confident and how to date girls.

[@Aiguy1905]

U got any tips ?

[@ohyeatony]

@@Aiguy1905 yes i have a tonnn of them! tbh bro the main things you have to do first is get yourself right and you gotta be yourself and have some character. never ever conform yourself to something you’re not just to get some action. maybe get a fresh haircut first, start going to the gym and make sure you stay on top of your hygiene. all these women/girls truly want bro is someone that will treat them like a regular person, someone to relate with, confide in and comfort and feel protected by a man. when you’re talking to girls introduce yourself and talk about your surroundings and things that are going on and then you can manipulate and steer the conversation however way you like. there’s been times i’ve talked for hours straight with women just by basing the next topic off of the last thing that was said. make sure you maintain strong eye contact and you smile a lot and you tell some jokes and make them laugh. you will get rejected A LOT every man does so when it happens don’t feel bad don’t feel stupid rejection happens to every single man don’t even stress about it. i literally dress like a 2000’s dope boy and wear baggy clothes like a character from the show the wire i have stretched ears and a bunch of face piercings i have neck tattoos hand tattoos arm tattoos torso tattoos and i still get action with every type of woman u can imagine. it’s all about how you speak and how you carry yourself. the bottom line is women want a confident man who’s mysterious and interesting and can protect them. i hope everything i said helps and if you ever have any questions come holla bro!

[@Azeazanamanthius]

@@Aiguy1905 he dont

[@HenrySimmons1225]

You're 21 years old with a 30+ body count? Tf?

[@ohyeatony]

@@HenrySimmons1225 yeah. i’ve only added one more body to the count in 2024 …

[@eilaydror]

I think you are the only "real" influence that not fake himself. Thanks for the video.

[@johnrainsman6650]

I somewhat "ignored" this coworker (let's call her Sara) who apparently found me annoying, but now I wonder if she likes me. She's a bartender at my old job, and whenever I approached her or a coworker, I would tell the same joke, "I'll have one large beer to help me get over my ex-girlfriend." One time, she said to me as I approached, "John, I don't want to hear it." A week or so later, I was approaching her coworker, and from the distance, Sara said "John" in a stern voice. So yes, I was annoyed and since then, I didn't really interact with her. Went from outgoing to quiet. Sometimes she'd say hi to me when we saw each other, and I would emotionlessly say hey. I think a few times she would ask me to do this favor/task and I would just nod my head. Once or twice she thanked me and I didn't respond. I left the job, went to work in this cafe in the same building, but came back for this one particular service. The catering crew were REALLY desperate and reached out to me. In the ballroom, I made eye contact with Sara, who was only a few feet or so from me. What's funny is she _approached_ me; she could've just politely acknowledged me and went on with whatever. I know I would've. She asked me how I was (to my slight surprise), said she heard I switched to the cafe downstairs, asked me if I liked the job. Curious to see how she'd react (considering her past signs of not liking me), I told her I didn't plan on coming back to catering, and yeah, she did seem a bit surprised: "You're not coming back?" I remember saying "I don't think so" in a slightly disgusted tone of voice. But that wasn't it. That month, at a bar, Sara put her hand on my arm to get my attention and gave a slight wave. I just gave a slight smile and brief, still wave and went forward to catch up with friends (it was crowded). So it's funny...she approached me when I temporarily came back and reached out to me at the bar. But why? Are these signs of liking me? Not that I'm gonna ask her out or anything. I'm just curious.

[@mestizos5800]

LMAO. She doesn't give a fuck about you. Stop fooling yourself.

[@JOKER-hw5mx]

These tips are good for getting a girlfriend but for getting a wife and true love , you have to be a better person and it will eventually come when you least expect it but some people do get their true love by dating and chasing girls, that's a small number tho

[@bigal98761]

The key is to stop placing them on a pedestal ranking them 9 or 10 is already saying that you think their better then you women are average at best

[@maxamillion2140]

What's funny is if you're a 9 or 10 guy, the women that actually flirt are 9s and sometimes 8s but almost never below.

[@andrewrice9383]

True

[@andrewrice9383]

And 10s too

[@dr-redditstories]

you know you've hit rock bottom when you watch these type of vids

[@monkmodementor]

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

[@pomaranczowegury2503]

I agree that some of ,,girls guys are afraid to approach" looks better for ONS but first 3 defnitly pretty af and better if you want dating.

[@perocigla4425]

1) be rich 2) be tall

[@gavinwiener]

4:00 - Ego, I realised, is what stops us from achieving almost anything in our life. Regardless if its girls, business, trying something new, etc.

[@Sgerman]

I wonder when Zeus is going to come back from Vacation. His manager, Benjamin, is a great successor and has done a good job, but I would like to know how zeus is doing.

[@sebastienseb919]

I'm 57. Not rich, 5'11", average good looks at best. Fit. Dress well. I don't ignore people i just don't pay attention to them. I've done this since childhood. NEVER have I asked women on dates. They've ALWAYS asked me. I wear dark glasses indoors and out and I'm always studying in any given venue, minding my own business and i get approached by women. Gorgeous and not so. Perhaps women sence something about me that intrigues them. Perhaps I'm mysterious in some way too and it sparks their curiosity. I've asked some and the answers were, "you just looked interesting", or, " you seemed, "different" or, "I was curious as to what you were doing looking at your computer with such intensity". Of course I've had other answers but it seems to me it's the "I'm in my own world and I'm content and I have this leave me the fk alone attitude". Dunno.🤷. Women are strange when it comes to why they choose what they choose.

[@sxintwke]

The “average” girls in the beginning are just a different aesthetic style.

[@x1.dxv1d]

I LOVE THE TITLE (I WAS THINKING HOW TO BAG 9 AND 10 YEARS OLD)

[@videowilliams]

I see I'm not the only one to view your opening girls as a cut above "average". The word I'd put to the ones that follow is "expensive".

[@urmatnurbekov]

whats wrong with yall, if u love someone just love , cease loving exactly 9s 10s just obey yo your heart

[@viktord1]

you should also know that for extremely attractive women have an easier time in many industries…. so pursuing good careers is a no brainer

[@LizziesLukas]

dude, there's no way you categorized the so-called gorgeous girl are those who show cleavage and the one you called average are those who dressed modestly like 0:02

[@pslgodmindset]

you will need to be as attractive as her to date her, thats it. Basically better skullshape and taller height. If you are average or bellow then its not gonna happen.

[@ChaosArthur5822]

True,or maybe even higher than her

[@HenrySimmons1225]

Avoid them if they're that shallow...

[@azul1964]

The problem is my standards are too high, and speak to ppls like how i would speak to myself

[@edward3105]

All average girl were 10's for me,especially the 1 for left, I am in love with her.

[@PAVELKOULIKOV]

If you want 9s and 10s then you must be a 9 or 10. The other option is to be rich and famous. Last option is to have a very high social status. If you don’t have any of that then a 9 or 10 will never be attracted to you. 9 and 10s can have any man they want, so obviously they will chose somebody really special. Simple as that

[@rez2340]

Brother, I am watching you for months now and as a person both physically and mentally you 've evolved so much and it's widely visible, congrats

[@kenmeyer100]

10s are by definition very rare. I live in the center of a big city and I haven't came accross even one this year! Its akin to running into Elon Musk or Einstein somewhere in rural India. A 9, if I am on the lookout, one every other week may be and only if I am lucky. The ones I usually see on the cover of Playboy mag or FHM are mostly 7 and 8s, occasionally 8+

[@thewolfofwallstreet627]

I agree with everything you said in this video. Great job.

[@PlaybookEmpire]

Keep the videos rolling

[@BeastHighlightsOfficial]

this video popped up after a Kris Tyson video and I was like, AYO NO MORE DATING MINORS

[@steverempel8584]

I love that: Rule #1 for dealing with 9s and 10s: Stop calling them 9s and 10s

[@corvanlennep]

best advice ever believe me ... blabla bla girls wanna have fun. you talk boring ...its not funny so you dont give them a good vibe. new life mission , make ever one you see smile . thats 3 piontss up!!

[@_ahrorjon]

Work on yourself. This is the best and only way

[@Misaleey]

Hey Benjamin! First time seeing your videos, was expecting another looksmaxxing type of video, but the arguments that you presented were actually very much in line with my beliefs on this topic. Good for you man, subscribed.

[@romanporetti]

I didnt know fake boobs are seen as soo attractive… 😂

[@sterlingrawlsshorts]

lol, every time he says average girl I feel sorry for whoever picture he brings up 😂😂

[@AlbertonJiggletip]

The 9's and 10's i like are, very different from what people like.

[@marcus_ohreallyus]

The only scale that matters is 0 to 1.

[@kebman]

Ahaha the hot jacked dude saying it's easy to pickup hot women lol.

[@forevhr]

the amount of work and games you have to play just for a date is insane. i think these women need to learn how to appreciate the men that approach them instead of us trying to jump through hoops for a text back. Doing what he wants in this video is part of the problem. If every guy left every woman on read today. Tomorrow most men would wake up to a good morning text. Stop simping and stop trying so hard guys.

[@marz6217]

It's so easy for him to say while being ina high relational mobility country, but yeh give us some advice for low relational mobility countries too yk..

[@theotht]

Love that long sleeve polo benj

[@kuromukuro5621]

wow there is actually *coaching* on how to talk and be around women XD maan these times we're living in...

[@user-we9pn3kh3j]

I’m 15 I wanna go out and talk to some girls but I feel like girls my age wouldn’t be as polite as older I feel like it may just be an excuse I’m making

[@saschajunglas9966]

Damn, this video was actually really helpful. Thanks a lot!

[@madhunter8994]

drop a hair tutorial bro

[@Yash7031_]

I agree

[@bryanu1737]

Dont usually say this but This video is actually pure facts

[@praveenkumar-mu8iv]

Benjamin like every time this is a valuable video man, no nonsense , very real and practical . thank you very much making some genuine content my friend , keep rocking . can we more videos from you more frequently bro, cause im excited very what would be ur next one and how to live more exciting life .

[@iqbloxygames1946]

the title can be so misinterpreted by the wrong type of people 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@SanoopAI]

It's like taking a lottery... To find trustworthy and good looking woman

[@josephpolicastro3149]

Guys don’t like approaching 9’s & 10’s because most hot women have RBF and look like they don’t want to be bothered.

[@jonskee]

step 1 : look good

[@friedrice0]

Then follow the rest of the vid from there on 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@isuth2210]

Clickbait title, i thought 9 and 10 stands for age :c

[@depressing_reap969]

How to hit the box with a 9 and 10: How to get a lasting and loving relationship: Alt F4

[@simonloridon5117]

The only dating advice you really need is that this type of dating is superficial.

[@masked8745]

Lets be awkward and weird, yet confident :)

[@Daniel00232]

I agree with most of what you said except the follow up.Not worthy to waste your time, there are fun girls who are not a pain in the ass to text and at the end are the ones who I spend the most genuine times.

[@dylanmuscat]

Never girl multiple dates to follow up, if she says she busy say let me know when you're free

[@_night_spring_]

bro is saying feeding their egos rather than mine ..... seriously ??? lmao 😂

[@JoeB0604]

inconsistent message...the title card says ignore her, but the advice is to text her more than once when she gets multiple messages on her phone across social media.

[@silaslaurent691]

🙏a minute of silence for the dude who crashed his testicules at 1:45 😂😂😂

[@ishkamael9645]

Man if ur not handsome and tall you get rejected i need SURGERY asap bruh

[@moneymastermind2698]

You are frankly the first guy that I have seen give real good dating advice. Not the people like Andrew Tate that are like “YOU GOTTA BE RICH AND FAMOUS AND BUFF AND ALL THAT TO GET HOT WOMEN!” No. Just. Fucking. No. I literally dated and had great times with women who were very attractive just by being myself and being a good conversationalist and actually fucking caring. But also, I wear my intentions on my sleeve. Whether it’s sex, dating, being a friend, whatever.

[@TheOfficialTemmie]

Step one, get a Chad jawline

[@initiatorhater0688]

another reminder that men are the only gender that have to practice and do all the learning when it comes to knowing how to talk to or how to interact or communicate with the opposite sex. i've felt this way for years now, the way a man talks and behaves, acts, in a conversation or interaction with a woman, is what either makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around. Another way to put it, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to women, not the other way around. True or False? A woman doesn't need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with men, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with women. Or another way to put it, the way the man talks, acts, behaves, in interactions or conversations is what ultimately matters, thats what determines if the woman is gonna be attracted, interested or not, not the other way around. Am i right or wrong? I find it stupid and mind-boggling that women even seek advice on how to talk to men. Men are always the ones in position in which they can make a mistake or mess up an interaction that causes it to be boring, unattractive or make the other person uncomfortable, creeped out, etc.

[@vincemaria3981]

True for like 90% of men. I suggest just trying to entertain yourself and saying whatever you’re thinking, even if it’s weird. This helps me to feel authentic and I do the same around men and women

[@CLew-sd2ix]

Bro said double text I’m done lololol

[@tamasgyorffy1]

most supermodels are lonely women. personality is not dependent on looks, but previous personal history, family background and - eminently - relation with her father as a little girl. this you can know nothinf about unless you give her a chance by approaching her.I am 52, always and approached on the streets, or shppoing facilities. (where those females err...) aiming for those you perceive as VERY beautifuls is the only valid way to go. as the video says , they are rarely approached, they always told me so at the first tea-coffee- walk in the park.

[@oscarherrerabeltran1000]

The “follow up” part is a horrible advise. She saw your text, she didn’t hit the ball back by not replying. That means she either has low interest or not interested. Dating is a game of tennis. Don’t waste your time!

[@auserwahlte5705]

I‘m for a long time in a relationship with the most beautiful girl in the world. My advice for everyone watching the video is just do it you have nothing to lose (literally) she just might be the one!!! No one cares if she doesn’t likes you back just have the balls and treat her normal. You find the right one this way…

[@zombiekilla7463]

as an introvert i realized that a relationship with a woman is the worst enviroment for an introvert

[@pasmanitan]

That title is crazy out of context

[@holy_shiite]

1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive

[@mehmetemirozyigit5505]

Or just drive a lambo