How to Date a Viet Girl

[@VietKieuDating]

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[@mandeesman7889]

No offense but with your dating advice I think you're still single 😂

[@VietKieuDating]

I have a girlfriend already 😂

[@itstriplem2069]

@@mandeesman7889 Get rekted

[@kesiajacobs9174]

@@mandeesman7889 lol

[@SilveradoShootingAcademy]

I would, but my Vietnamese wife would have a problem with that.

[@moviereefed8058]

It is very informative. I am in a long-distance relationship with a Vietnamese for more than 1.5 years now. From my personal experience, I can say what you have said is absolutely right. Giving her attention every day is the most important thing you can do. They don't want expensive gifts or any gifts at all. All she needs is respect and attention, a man who is calm/matured and who can lead her.

[@VietKieuDating]

Thank you!

[@TERRI19842]

I'm going on my first date with a Vietnamese lady. You are the best to listen to for advice. Keep up the good work 👏

[@VietKieuDating]

Congrats and good luck! 🙌

[@russellscott1064]

I met a wonderful VN girl on Vietnam Cupid. I'm 43 and she is 27. She teaches me the VN language every day for at least 1 hour. I will visit her for 3 weeks in their lunar new year and meet her family.

[@VietKieuDating]

good luck

[@russellscott1064]

@@VietKieuDating after watching your scams video I am a little concerned. I'll only be spending a couple of days in hcm. The rest of the time in tay ninh with my girl.

[@VietKieuDating]

@@russellscott1064 If you screened her properly and she's not exhibiting any red flags I wouldn't worry too much about it. Just be a little cautious and enjoy your time there.

[@angrynorwegian323]

Married a Vietnamese girl a few years back, best decision I have ever made.

[@katpeace7290]

I know you guys. Steven and Nhung. I enjoy your wife videos. Helpful and amazing! Best wishes to your family! I'm Vietnamese 🤗.

[@kesiajacobs9174]

It's only been a few weeks dont get too excited

[@angrynorwegian323]

@@kesiajacobs9174 I've never been so sure about anything in my life. Maybe you miss understood me, I met Nhung in 2013 I spent three years and many trips to Vietnam giving us time to know each other completely before making the decision to marry, after five years of marriage and eight years of friendship I double down and say it's the best decision i've ever made.

[@kesiajacobs9174]

@@angrynorwegian323 oh I'm sorry Steven. I read your comment wrong . I didnt see you said a few years I thought you said "a few weeks" that's why I said that lol sorry

[@angrynorwegian323]

@@kesiajacobs9174 😁 stay safe enjoy life.

[@antonio_de.castro]

Thanks for this video. This really good information!!! I am from Russia and have been talking to a Vietnamese woman for a year now. And really speaking every day is very important. Now such a difficult situation with coronavirus, I hope it will be better and people will come to the countries to visit friends😄

[@VietKieuDating]

Thanks! I hope so too.

[@CattailsandSage]

Man, you nailed it with this video. Good advice all the way through. Well done!

[@VietKieuDating]

Thank you!

[@kisbushcraftdownunder]

They have a slang saying chuẩn men it translates to meet the standard of the men in slang it means manly. They like men to be a manly gentleman when they go out they make an effort and you better notice

[@jadeng293]

Guys, you have first ask yourself: What are you looking for, a chick to get laid, or a girlfriend who will probably become your wife. From there, you can answer some of your own questions: Where to meet girls, at a bar, nightclub, theme park, workplace, volunteer group, church, pagoda, online, dating apps,..One of my friends who is American, married a Vietnamese jokes around that if you find a Vietnamese wife, the good news is she will stick with you forever but the bad news is she is also the one will stick with you forever, lol (just in case you change your mind later).

[@lianle7904]

😂👍

[@Lucrativecris]

😂😂😂

[@Antonio-zv7mm]

Thanks for video, this soo important information :))) Hello from Russia

[@VietKieuDating]

Your welcome!

[@musk-eteer9898]

I never let a girl pay when we go out, never ever.

[@hsjwjhshhwaj5015]

Yea, and when you Will broke with her you Will say : she used me for money, I was paying everything.

[@rubylovelyfromvietnam5522]

Crazy !

[@russellscott1064]

It makes you feel good to pay right? Why not give her the opportunity to feel that way? If you care about HER feelings you would let her pay once in awhile.

[@luuquangminhpro]

nice job many thanks man

[@vinrho123]

2:33 I actually watched the Uncle play live during our Mekong tour. That was nice to see.

[@Cody2189]

My man! I love how you called out the simps and you are a straight up alpha male bro. Thank for the honesty and insight. You are spot on. And all your videos are done so well and professional. Keep them coming brother.

[@VietKieuDating]

Thanks for the support!

[@pratiknaik2326]

U gave best explanation i have never gone through we must learn something from this

[@VietKieuDating]

Thank you!

[@artisansportsman8950]

So basically same as my experience with any decent western girl, but in my opinion far better looking..

[@fatherlegion8386]

After listening to the first 1 minute and 10 seconds, I knew I had come to the right place

[@illfreakynana]

What is a popular messaging app? In China it's Wechat, in Thailand is Line. What do girls use in Vn?

[@VietKieuDating]

zalo/facebook

[@xdgs567z]

Great advice, even for a Vietnamese American like me 😂

[@VietKieuDating]

Thx!

[@VietKieuDating]

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[@michaelmartinez4658]

I feel like these are good dating tips for courting anyone.

[@cindysmith765]

And the age old question. What does she do besides eventually giving it up?

[@Articus48]

Thank you so much!!! Really helpful!

[@VietKieuDating]

Glad it helped!

[@lordheadass8310]

Hello, a Vietnamese here, I agreed with almost all every points you listed here tho there are some notes to take 1 - for those who can’t get a date here it’s not so much becuz you’re too much of a Beta male or not taking the lead enough. It’s also some part due to our culture, we are not as used to casual dates or casual sex as westerners, if you’re dating a Vietnamese girl, she expected you to see her the only person in the world for you. So if you’re not getting any, it means you haven’t shown her that you care enough 2 - Taking the lead on the date is right on point. Our gender equality here’s also not quite same as they are in the US, men are expected to be the pillar of the family, especially if you’re a foreigner since the media tends to portray western man as huge hulking macho. 3 - I want to add something that’s not included in a video, Vietnamese girls love it when you exchange text with them, it shows that you care for her even when she’s not there. Send her a message to ask her how she’s doin every now and then (not all the time) ask her about her day and wish her good night

[@VietKieuDating]

Thank you for sharing this info for the readers!

[@andrewsmart2241]

Viet Kieu Dating women FATHFULL

[@NaTi-fz3cn]

Great ! I'm a Vietnamese woman

[@jaws7794]

I agree with every thing you mentioned.similar to thai dating too.

[@jimthesnowboarder12]

i know you know this but you are doing the lords work

[@AmericanFUBAR33]

lol....

[@konasaketrinh1446]

What lol

[@davecore9305]

I'm currently dating a Thai girl and the culture between Thai and Vietnamese is pretty similar. My Thai girlfriend seems very closed off and I'm not sure if there will be a future with her.

[@VietKieuDating]

When a girl starts acting distant to you, you need to mirror her behavior and give her space. NEVER CHASE HER when she starts pulling away!

[@davecore9305]

@@VietKieuDating , I totally agree with you and I am not chasing her. I'm just deciding how much time I want to take give it before I cut it off or see if she comes around. I'm very content on being single. Many women today, especially in the west aren't worth the effort. I'm from the US,but currently live and work in China and I also lived in Russia for about three years.

[@VietKieuDating]

@@davecore9305 Just put her on the back burner and go do something else and let her come around.

[@garypearson64]

Top marks for your informative and fun, yet, very enlightening tutorial on 'gentlemanly pursuits' in Vietnam. I was in Cambodia (PP) in December and January, While most of the city women are young 18 to 24 year olds, they look even younger than other women from SE Asia. A negative or a plus, depending on the age gap. The most dissapointing thing I found with Cambodian women, was that they are not interested in education in the slightest. That was my experience from talking to hotel and service industry staffers who are generally very friendly. Therefore the video you made was a breath of fresh air , so to speak, that Vietnam could be that utophia many expats are seeking.

[@VietKieuDating]

The median age in Cambodia is lower than Vietnam I believe, something like 25 years old.

[@homebrandrules]

Very good advice, thankyou

[@VietKieuDating]

Your welcome!

[@DaxXadify]

Thank you for this video. Thank you for all your videos. I will really bury this in my brain. Dax here from Binan Laguna Philippines

[@jeffbee6090]

great insights!

[@VietKieuDating]

Thanks!

[@jaws7794]

there is the vietnamese lady very beautiful and she has her own videos on youtube.I thought she was a perfect lady in the countryside living off the land in a farming community,until I seen other videos of her as a model,also a beauty contestant,must be fake or acting.not sure but I think her name is Duyên nhé. she is perfect!

[@123arcadia]

jaws 77 perfect? Does not exist !

[@theocean3364]

imperfection is the most perfection thing

[@sullenday]

Learn Vietnamese, okay be back in 3 years.

[@KamranJafarli]

So, 3 years passed. Bạn khỏe không? 😄

[@fekalistagrzybowory7619]

I guess that he stucked somewhere in 20th lesson

[@mathsyaleng398]

Thanks sir! This is fantastic

[@VietKieuDating]

Your welcome! 😀

[@habibbasit4518]

Vasectomy? Love it!

[@brAmbedkarvadheemusalmaan]

I also want one Vietnam girlfriend.

[@medicann_coping]

me too

[@NaTi-fz3cn]

Sky Na77

[@jn3750]

Do you live in Vietnam? What do you do for a living?

[@VietKieuDating]

Yeah, I work online

[@josiahcaruso2735]

at 6:22 you seemed to have made a mistake and blurred out the iconic hungry man logo

[@VietKieuDating]

Not a mistake my friend ;)

[@winnwinn7580]

You're dead right on the last one... You're not only married to her, you're married to entire her "family".....

[@theocean3364]

i think its common in east asia culture not just Viet

[@Lucrativecris]

Oh shit really?

[@fekalistagrzybowory7619]

Yeah

[@jpbrown3925]

Everything you shared applies everywhere.

[@khuongnguyen6644]

Yeah kinda my problem now, I am Vietnamese who live in US. I don't know much Vietnamese people here so kinda hard to get to know Viet Girls (don't even mention date them). And if I am looking for Viet girls in Viet Nam. Urggg, they prolly want to get the Green Card and divorce me 3 months later. Yeah, I am kinda stuck I guess lol.

[@VietKieuDating]

That usually happens if your one of those guys that come back to vietnam for 2-4 weeks and then get married lol. Spend some more time here in the motherland and date the girl for a while before deciding to get hitched and you'll greatly reduce the chances of that happening.

[@khuongnguyen6644]

@@VietKieuDating yeah pretty much unless I can work and live there again for like 6 months -1 year and not telling em I am US citizen. Otherwise I can't trust if those girls actually like me or the US Greencard lool.

[@VietKieuDating]

@@khuongnguyen6644 Just save up some money and then go stay there for a couple of months. You can live pretty well for around 1k a month if you know how to watch your finances. Also the girls will know that your viet kieu so there's no point in hiding it lol. The way you talk, act, dress, physical body, etc will give it all away.

[@kyliewilson896]

Well. You said you don't know much about Vietnamese people. How could you said them just wanna get Green card??

[@kyliewilson896]

Not all Vietnamese women who get married to foreigners men are for money or nationality I think you were confused with women from Thailand and the Philippines!!!

[@poolfool31021]

how do Vietnemese women feel about american men of the War Era?

[@VietKieuDating]

In my opinion, most Vietnamese don't really think too much about that period of time.

[@mikeghoshal6613]

Excellent.

[@ricardojuarez544]

My comments is(l hope this time can help me to find a nice and honest vietnamese lady and I can love her for ever and take care her thanks

[@Lucrativecris]

I have a Vietnamese gf and im looking at this😂

[@srinivasag3534]

I Like to Love Vietnamese

[@jacksonambrose6269]

You should do videos and articles on mail order brides.

[@VietKieuDating]

I'm gonna write up a mail order bride article in a few weeks

[@JJason406]

whats the language barrier like? Very few women speak english in thailand.

[@VietKieuDating]

English levels are very low here

[@Lucrativecris]

@@VietKieuDating I have a question If a foreigner like me goes to Vietnam will girls try to catch my attention?

[@VietKieuDating]

@@Lucrativecris Possibly, depends on the girl and whether or not you're her type

[@Lucrativecris]

@@VietKieuDating Since im american im sure it will get alot of girls attention

[@JKR007]

😂😂😂​@@Lucrativecris

[@123arcadia]

Lol 😂 love it

[@Pattaya-360]

Shooting star at 5:52.......

[@NaTi-fz3cn]

Hello

[@markholland6657]

all logical and reasonable..

[@nhuevo]

If you are Vietnamese, so where is your parent, your parent must know someone to introduce you to a nice girls.

[@VietKieuDating]

Better to not rely on others 😉

[@pieteradriaanmaartencornee5803]

love to date, but i live in the netherlands....

[@robertlloyd3184]

Some decent advice here but you are getting a bit close to AFC behaviour in some areas.

[@VietKieuDating]

Here's the thing. Maintaining a relationship requires a different set of skills at times vs trying to pick up a girl. A lot of these PUA guys spew that you need to always act alpha and such and such at all times. But ask yourself, how many girlfriends and long term relationships have these guys been in? Often times these guys have trouble holding onto relationships because of this exact reason. Maintaining a relationship requires you to find balance between being too alpha and too supplicating. You need to find a happy medium somewhere where you still show her that you possess leadership qualities but at the same time can give her security and comfort.

[@lokintim]

Any Vietnamese girl here ?

[@VietKieuDating]

Are you seriously going on youtube to try and hit on girls?

[@lokintim]

@@VietKieuDating I m planning to visit Vietnam...

[@VietKieuDating]

@@lokintim The border's closed. You probably won't be able to get in until next year.

[@lokintim]

@@VietKieuDating Ya of course not during this Covid19.. for now I have been watching KZbin videos on places an people in Vietnam.. Laos and Cambodia too. So similar to my place Sabah

[@VietKieuDating]

I think you can visit Cambodia but you need to go into quarantine and pay a lot of money for health insurance though before they let you in from what I read online. I can't confirm this though.

[@ieataxe]

Are you Vietnamese?

[@VietKieuDating]

yes

[@djsweetdaddy3215]

What happen your videos bro? No new ones for months

[@VietKieuDating]

The pandemic happened. Makes filming travel videos impossible with travel bans. Anyways I'm working on a workaround for the meantime, stay tuned, I will be releasing new videos shortly once I figure out how to proceed going forward.

[@nkwari]

I love your cultural respect instructions!

[@VietKieuDating]

Thanks!

[@chanliyueandy3787]

Hi mate, you said you are viet kieu but don't viết kiểu supposed to know vietnamese? So you mum is Vietnamese? Cheers thanks for your time

[@VietKieuDating]

I can speak a little Vietnamese.

[@QuangNguyen-dw9je]

@@VietKieuDating same. I was born Canadian so I just know a little Vietnamese

[@VietKieuDating]

@@QuangNguyen-dw9je Its a lot harder to practice Vietnamese when everyone else is speaking English at home 😆

[@kesiajacobs9174]

Why do you make as if these vietnamese girls are Gods. Lol all girls should be treated amazingly .

[@kesiajacobs9174]

@Dung Lee Hi Dung Lee

[@kesiajacobs9174]

@Dung Lee Oh thank you for asking, I'm doing good and staying safe, Hope you staying safe too 🙂🙂

[@brAmbedkarvadheemusalmaan]

@@kesiajacobs9174 🌷

[@SOCORROGM]

Thanx for getting to the points an not a bunch of bs

[@Masystech]

tarkan is very or quite bless for that

[@jn3750]

Are you Vietnamese American?

[@VietKieuDating]

yes

[@jn3750]

@@VietKieuDating Your AZN bro here. Do a video on their personalities. I notice that many Viet women seem downright indifferent/cold and passive/incurious. Is this the default mode, letting the guys do the talking/asking questions...

[@VietKieuDating]

@@jn3750 A lot of it has to due with shyness. A lot of Vietnamese women are shy by default at least compared to western women. You need to build a lot of comfort with them before they open up. Notice how when its texting, they tend to text a lot more then western women? They are way more comfortable talking behind a phone then in person unless you built up comfort with them. Once you break past that point they will ask you a whole bunch of questions. "Where are you from?" "how long will you be in Vietnam for? "Are you here on Vacation or work?", etc.

[@VietKieuDating]

@@NaTi-fz3cn Left during covid

[@deletedchannel6939]

That's exactly how India goes too!

[@albertwillim4724]

nice

[@FracturedReality777]

Don't. Just don't. They are all scammers. Maybe they don't show it in the beginning but their goal is to scam you.

[@6969tomahawk]

Vietnamese culture, ladies expect men pay all bills

[@DucNguyen86]

No, man. Most VN girls only expect that thing on the first day to see how generous you are, after that they will offer sharing if they're interest in you.

[@hoangdang7025]

Just pull up to shawty at the function and be like "anh co tien"

[@fazalmfazal5907]

മലയാളി undo❤

[@clintkeene7865]

I’m a lonely broken hearted man looking for a good hearted woman. Tired of being used and cheated on. Please help me but I’ll won’t be a burden. Sorry to bother you.

[@VietKieuDating]

Check out my website. There's tonnes of free info on how to land yourself a nice woman.

[@nkwari]

Clint also please get counseling first as if not you will be going on a wild rollercoaster of falling in love fast and hard and not taking the love at a slow pace! You deserve to have your dreams come true.

[@clintkeene7865]

I appreciate your concern and trust me I don’t need counseling. My wife of 14 years left for our step sons best friend just because I couldn’t be home because I was putting a roof over their head food on the table etc. Trust me I dated her for 3 years before we got married. My mom and dad were married for 59 years and and never seen my dad even bow up to my mom. I don’t think I need counseling brother just a good hearted woman and soulmate. I have never cheated on a woman in my life and don’t believe in it.

[@daze7491]

Keep believing, one day you'll find one Clint

[@NaTi-fz3cn]

Hi ! I'm living in Vietnam, I'm serious

[@ricardojuarez544]

What true can be the history What you saying. Cause I been trying to find a nice and honest vietnamese lady those app when I ready found one send me to change money l not paying for love..., and l am still looking a nice honest vietnamese lady for serious relationship no matter if is rich or poor older or younger l am a hard worker 👷 l don't have nothing but l am very honest ok

[@VietKieuDating]

It takes time to separate the wheat from the chaff and if you speak Vietnamese this becomes even easier.

[@dhall10067]

This is the story of how Muhammad the last prophet, peace be unto him, ultimately attained peace and serenity... he took his 4 wives on a picnic. The four went looking for food. The first wife was sent north into a swamp, the second was sent west over a waterfall, the third was sent east into a canyon, and the fourth was sent south into a sand sinkhole.

[@rowdyyates4273]

Wouldnt be happy with the vns attitude to dogs in there resturants!!!

[@afkkygame2717]

Iam Vietnamese and i hates eating dogs so much

[@jesuisrobert808]

Dog usually eaten by country folk just like in the states and country folk eating roadkill.

[@giavietanhnguyen8539]

your first cultural shock in vietnam

[@hon1126]

khong co tien khong co tinh , my first learned vietnamese words !

[@VietKieuDating]

No money, no honey

[@elmorcielagomorcielago1146]

Trying ro lose my chick, why won't anyone take her?

[@doriangraham2644]

there exist casual sex in Vietnam nowadays ??

[@VietKieuDating]

Obviously

[@doriangraham2644]

@@VietKieuDating In your opinion, what percentage of Vietnamese women does casual sex sometimes ??

[@OgpBosnia]

Lost me at learn Vietnamese.

[@medicann_coping]

based

[@dicktracy3405]

Don't like vegetables! Steak and potatoes. No like rice. If they can't speak English, goobye

[@springteen3743]

So are you saying that Vietnamese men are opening doors to the Vietnamese females? I don’t think so and they still get lay.😜

[@VietKieuDating]

Some do but that mainly applies to dates, especially at the beginning 😉

[@dhall10067]

Arranged marriages are the only way to have a true succesful lasting marriage. Dating is nasty.

[@MikeMartinez74]

Part of me agrees with you wholeheartedly, but what happens when you get an ugly one? I hope the parents are thinking about these sorts of things.

[@ShilShilee]

I say is 50/50, a lot of arranged marriages don't work as well. We are all human and I think is all about compatibility with the partner you with to have a lasting relationship. Also if you don't love your partner how can you be with them, and LOVE takes time to know one another..

[@LeBronBoxing4Life]

Lol omg i dont eat fish i love chicken and pork chops soo maybe i dont fit in asia

[@ShilShilee]

Lol, asia don't just eat fish..they have many varieties! 💕

[@Mugm133]

just say : anh là việt kiều . They automaticaly crush on you . Try it .What you say is complicated .

[@jaws7794]

there is the vietnamese lady very beautiful and she has her own videos on youtube.I thought she was a perfect lady in the countryside living off the land in a farming community,until I seen other videos of her as a model,also a beauty contestant,must be fake or acting.not sure but I think her name is Duyên nhé. she is perfect!

[@VietKieuDating]

You mean this chick? kzbin.info/door/AOq09KRWGd09uD8P8rNSKwvideos

[@jaws7794]

@@VietKieuDating yes,that's her.can't understand the heading of her video's,what's her name? I'm hoping that all the ladies are like this..hahaha

[@VietKieuDating]

@@jaws7794 Her name's my duyen. Nah, she's more of the exception. Her height is unusually tall for a Vietnamese girl. Most Vietnamese girls are around 5'2 on average. She's at least 5'7-5'8. Plus she was apparently a beauty pageant winner. To get someone like that, your gonna have to be pretty high value yourself.

[@jaws7794]

@@VietKieuDating Thanks for the info.she does seem to be taller than other ladies and some men in her video's.

[@John_DaMan]

jaws 77 I've meet quite a few viet girls that are close to my height (5'9). Theyre getting tall lately