How to deal with family members that disrespect you - toxic family members

[@Broitscast]

If you searched for this video I pray that things will get better for you ❤️

[@imaamericangirl1406]

Thank you!

[@ritpep7192]

Amen

[@karenmaxwell3158]

Thank you❤

[@smaganas]

Thank you.

[@Th3BigBoy]

​@EYRM9 I'm not trying to avenge myself. I want him to leave me alone because he lays his hands on me! What do I do?!

[@pamchesler242]

I agree with placing boundaries with toxic family members, but the only way that that works is by removing yourself, because when people become verbally abusive, their emotions are extremely heightened and they have absolutely no ability to listen to what you have to say or even be reasonable so when it does happen, I completely remove myself. I do not respond or react and then, however, long it takes everything just dies back down again. The more I take care of myself and the more I set boundaries the more I know that I’m giving myself the love and care I deserve and it’s not important for me to get it from people who are abusive towards me boundaries boundaries, Boundaries and more boundaries are the answer and being being non-reactive… All, are a form of self care and self love…

[@ivybaxter4896]

This video is probably wonderful for some but I had to giggle the whole time bc having a truly toxic family means they don’t care about your boundaries.

[@pamchesler242]

@ there is a saying that the only people who fight against her don’t respect boundaries or those who never had any.. it’s like dealing with grown-up children even though they’re your parents or your grandparents doesn’t matter it’s what they learned and that’s not so because I’ve like of my entire family and they think I’m nuts and I’m not I’m not because of all the bullshit that I learned, and all the drama that I experienced when you’re toxic is when you’re ignorant to yourself and the pain that you may cause yourself and others that’s what toxicity is healthy aware and awakened is love being conscious, having no problem holding yourself accountable the exact opposite of the way you were raised you can love them in at the same time steer or clear and that goes for Anybody

[@hienienguyen6766]

yes you either ignore them or block all that negative energy out. people don't have time to waste on horrible energy

[@RobinPoe]

The best solution is to move far away, and don't tell them where you're going. I'm thinking either Alaska or Siberia (I don't like hot weather)

[@pantherman8719]

Which one did you pick? Shit I was thinking the same 😂. My sister moved down south and cut contact. I'm about to do the same.

[@RobinPoe]

@@pantherman8719 Alaska. All the large predators were nothin compared to my Mommy Dearest.

[@InshasChoice]

You lot always say: to have boundaries. Ok, doable, but toxic people tend to exploit said boundaries

[@Th3BigBoy]

This is my problem. I have my boundaries, and they just disregard them. Now what?!

[@marycampeau9378]

@@Th3BigBoy YES! I finally went no contact with my older sister. I did not want to, but she repeatedly kept doing things I asked her multiple times to PLEASE stop doing. And the gaslighting....

[@jham3124]

​@@marycampeau9378The gaslighting is what really pisses me off because now he's insulting my intelligence, which is another emotional attack.

[@abj99861]

Silence speaks volumes

[@IamaDanish]

4:42 Finally gets to the point of the video.

[@jss302]

Thank you!

[@meganreynolds3460]

The thing is my family isn’t toxic it’s just I did something horrible to get back at a ex of mine and it caused my dad and my brother mostly to completely ignore me. Like it’s getting really bad to where I have to lock myself in my room because I feel so unwanted

[@TheHealthHustle11]

As a doctor myself, I could of given better advice within a space of 3 minutes. This video is full of so much waffle..

[@brendalg4]

Ok so make it so we can watch

[@igordemy]

Well done!

[@jotheakston2405]

Thank you ❤

[@gwendolynwehage6336]

We are living in the end times in which many if not most people are experiencing people who are very selfish and mean. 2 Timothy 3:1-5 Difficult Times Will Come "3 But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these."

[@brendalg4]

What if there is a family member who treats you bad? On holidays or birthdays the only thing you could do is not go yourself. But that's not fair to you. If you say do the other person that you're not going to come if that person's there, then that's not fair because you're making them decide between the two.

[@supraman160]

I'm in that situation... Exactly I took control of the situation and just said I'm not coming to anymore family reunions just said don't count on me being the eldest anymore. My brother who wanted it ,deals with it. It's been liberating no more Xmas was great no more toxic aggressive dinners. At some point just look out for you. As time goes by I just see I am too different. I have 2 family members who treat me bad 2 others just silent.

[@brendalg4]

@@supraman160 sorry you are going through that. The problem is, I live with my elderly mother. I feel family is using this as a reason they won't come and help.

[@YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he]

Hopefully thé distancé and mental détachement is helpfull. At least I only have à sence of responsability and none love. And enjoy my life alone❤😊 so much.

[@Cullen-no9ly]

Ya my grandma 👵 doesn’t really listen to me or my mom 👩 and my grandma 👵 is not caring that i have boundaries And my 380 BB gun pistal got stolen by my stepdad Richard

[@Cullen-no9ly]

Thats not good at all man 🧍‍♂️