How to Deal with Loneliness & Heartbreak | DMP Ep. 9

[@CaptainSinbad]

⚔️ TRANSMUTED: The Transmuted App is something I'm incredibly proud of. You can get it here: Apple: apps.apple.com/us/app/transmuted/id1613637743 Android: play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.Transmuted.android

[@The7thLove]

Hey, do you guys think you can do a video on: (1) what the flow state is (2) the conditions typically required to enter it (3) how to enter it at will (if possible) (4) how to leverage it? You guys can modify this list to your liking, but I feel like you guys would have a very interesting take on it after diving into it a bit

[@nostro1940]

Captain 🇵​🇦​🇯​🇪​🇪​🇹​ and the Incel army

[@siddidmishra4168]

@@nostro1940 bruh do you even watch his videos? How is he an incel

[@nostro1940]

@@siddidmishra4168 _omg y gurls don like me. I want her bobs but she ignores me...i need to lookmax and become a sigma male to show those alphas who's the boss_ - Cpt 🇵​🇦​🇯​🇪​🇪​🇹​

[@nostro1940]

@@siddidmishra4168 I'm telling ya. This 🇵​🇦​🇯​🇪​🇪​🇹​ is like the famous JinnKid who killed his wife. Egocentric maniacs, narcissists. I'm surprised how he didn't turn out to be a "pickup artist", he has all the traits of one

[@cameronmiller6240]

Nikhils biggest heartbreak was when Thomas started seeing someone else.

[@Structured.Wealth]

Hahahaha 😅🤣

[@nostro1940]

What do you mean

[@oOAngeloAmorimOo]

this might go unnoticed, but this has been so MUCH HELPFUL, please keep going with this damaged men podcast theme, it's super weird seeing this honesty which some people might be scared to verbalize, but it's super relatable and i feel great knowing people feel the same way, thank you!

[@amaanislam]

Loneliness and heartbreak are two of the greatest feelings in the world, because they shape you into a better person. you come out on the other side as a changed man, one who used his struggles as fuel to success

[@asifmomin5752]

yeah u are right, but there is a limit, sometimes people try try and then eventually break ....

[@Foxarocious]

*If you handle the pain correctly

[@TheBioneer]

Thanks for the mention, Captain! It's very true for me that moving and exercise offers a massive mood boost. Plus I like the feeling of defiance you get, training when you're at your lowest. Love these podcasts guys, they're hilarious, cathartic, and thought provoking! Also, responding to a comment in a previous episode, you could absolutely get Peterson and Goggins on the channel right now! Go for it!

[@VistaOneStudios]

ohhh shiii, Batman himself is here!

[@noelkuriakose8641]

Bioneer 😃😃😃

[@thelighthouse8051]

Legend!

[@when_life_gives_you_limes]

Poor Nikhil is so damaged, Thomas seems a bit more rational & healthy. I hope both of you find ways to feel better soon.

[@BraedenTheG]

“It is during our darkest moments that we must focus to see the light.” - Aristotle

[@felipesampaiocastanheira6025]

"He who feels lonely when alone is in bad company." -Jean Paul Sartre Sinbad,to fix heartbreak you gotta accept that you cant control her.She wasnt yours,it was just your turn. So no matter how much you suffer it wont change a thing. Start suffering for shit that actually matters,that is, yourself. Life only goes in one direction and you gotta keep going as well. Keep your head held high,cause you have every right to.Stay stoic and go get some.Because Greatness is Coming

[@steakhero]

30:50 Since y’all asked, what helps me go through pain (depression, etc) is to accept suffering and move on. I deal with perfectionist/anxious issues too so I understand what go through. This is in my Christian perspective but what I’m about to say next translates to all religions I think. The best thing I’ve ever done was to accept that God is triumphant man. He already won every war. The beautiful thing about life is that peace and love is infinite and eternal, suffering is finite. Suffering will never win. And when you really believe and understand on that deep level you can manage anything, because we are made in God’s image. We are kings and queens, but when we don’t believe that we forget our own power. Sometimes suffering can feel so unbearable that we think that this is the only thing that exists and it’s more powerful then us (I.e. the devil). But it’s an illusion because we are more powerful then suffering. When we accept our suffering and move on we are saying that yes, I accept suffering because I believe in something greater then this, which is God for me. Basically, accept suffering so it can go away.

[@sneakers_guy5488]

Honestly, this podcast just feels like two dudes just talking about their lives as friends. I've been lucky to have that with friends of mine, but I also realize not all guys are able to open up and talk about these things with other guys that would understand.

[@400_kay]

This week is pretty fucked guys, not gonna lie. I'm a bit sick, just enough to really annoy me, and I'm basically hanging around waiting for news about my uncle who is deathly ill. So I'm gonna listen to this while coughing and snorting and generally being grumpy. Hope everyone out there is hanging on.

[@liddlebolee735]

Dude I’m sick with covid and watching this too! Now I can’t help but think it’s something astrological going on this month because things haven’t been in my favour for the month of April so far lol.

[@GeneralGnn]

This really is the damaged men podcast lmao. I've heard that during heartbreak your brain is in a similar state as drug withdrawal. So I think you guys are spot on - keep moving, find or build a community or skillset or whatever. And remember, you can't have profound joy without profound sadness. Really nice to hear discussion on such relatable topics as they come up in my life as well!

[@TheFreedPerspective]

I’ve known a few married couples that had their own houses right beside each other- and it worked great! There’s no drama with house expenses or people being messy or whatever and the dating phase just keeps lasting in a way! BUT dude. You can’t be in 24/7 presentation-mode in a real relationship! It’s actually exhilarating to cross over into that raw space. I’m telling you- be “ugly” because a kick ass partner won’t be into that level of perfection.💫

[@alienkishorekumar]

The world of instagram and livestreaming will disagree with you and with growing influencer sadly it is gonna be the way. Needing that level of perfection. And it will probably lead to disappointments.

[@ErrorNameNotFound123]

That sounds rather wasteful honestly. How does one raise a family when the married couple is split across houses? And living costs could be cut in half for both. I agree with your second paragraph though.

[@when_life_gives_you_limes]

@@ErrorNameNotFound123 hey, if they can afford it & be happier, why not?

[@trueromani7262]

@@alienkishorekumar we live in the age of fake beauty. Fake eyes, fake skin, fake jawline, fake tits, fake butt. Fuck that crap, we gon' be ugly till we're done cuz!

[@angellorenzoa]

I experienced heart break 4 months ago. I literally did the opposite of what you guys said 😂 but for 2 months I worked harder than ever. I worked so hard that I ended up having a mental breakdown. Best thing I did was to work with a therapist. After the mental breakdown, I actually relaxed my work and fitness. I started writing more about my past traumas and I wrote about being at peace with them. I spent a lot of time by myself on purpose to self reflect and to truly heal from my heart break. In my experience, working hard and masking the pain was the worst thing. I only got Better when I tackled my heart break head on. I forsure didn’t want to pursue any person because I knew that I still had baggage. Conclusion, I think everyone must find their own healthy way of dealing with heart break.

[@Joemanjoe101]

People are desperately trying not to feel sad or think about painful subjects. So that's why I like this podcast

[@danielj3010]

The root of depression is inactivity. Keep on moving!

[@jackceroni7388]

The podcast grind continues even on Easter, thanks guys! 🙏

[@jonweberg]

Personally from my experience - it's best to focus in on becoming a better person. At any struggle I've faced in life, I quickly have risen forward through improving myself... It's the same concept I apply to my business, my KZbin channel, and so much more.

[@nostro1940]

Are you afraid your girlfriend will leave you?

[@andresAtMudra]

My advice would be journal things you did wrong and things they did wrong in the relationship so that you can become more self-aware of what you need to change in yourself. But also to inform you what you should look for in your next partner. Everything you guys already talk about would already help massively through a break-up. The best revenge is success.

[@sanjanasuresh5565]

Thanks for the podcast! This applies to heartbroken or/and lonely women as well! 😀

[@overtone55]

For being scared of marriage: I agree it's not really the red pill thing. For me personally I'm scared of someone taking advantage of my trust, lying to me, or us growing apart. I can't imagine having to rebuild after something like that

[@benpicton10]

The best podcast you’ve done yet, just pure conversation and absolute flow between you 🤌

[@jacobcoryell8258]

Jocko Willink said it so well. He says that when it comes to heartbreak you have you hate your ex because they aren't at all who you thought they were. You put together a perfect person in your head who really isn't who she is and you have to realize that you were wrong about her and she isn't a good person

[@praveenkatiyar6733]

"Broken heart is like a broken bone" pure gold brother 🔥 that's the only thing you need to know to get over a break up

[@abhishekmalavade7571]

Your channel is like a hidden gem, a community of true, deep thinkers. Bigtime appreciate you Nikhil!

[@etherealradar]

@39:12 "You're kinda like fighting for your life." As someone who recently got out of the valley of heartbreak, self pity, lethargy, and loneliness. I feel this. Great advice, I'm glad you're doing a podcast now, your content is not just clever and mocking but purposeful and vulnerable. Both have their value, but one will fulfill you.

[@thehuss2652]

I was definitely someone who fell into the lethargy and demotivation after heartbreak at a terrible time during COVID while I was already depressed, it's taken me some time at rock bottom but now I'm starting to make different moves in my life and try different things to start moving forward. Love the pod guys

[@wizdum4247]

This is probably the best episode in the podcast so far. I felt myself connecting with this navigation into loneliness and despite the ambiguous answer at the end, it was more genuine than spitting out things we already know. I honestly didn’t think this topic would be any good just from the title but it exceeded my expectations since this discussion really sums up what it is to be a damaged man.

[@islomsobirov]

Thomas is so wise

[@mynameisnotmax]

This is huge, thank you gentlemen I’m going through a marriage breakup at the moment. I’m 3 weeks in and I can’t help but feel depressed throughout the day. Withdrawals are real. My only relief is cold immersion, sauna, lifting weights plus micro dosing 🍄 gives me a better perspective on what I can be grateful for. This pod has been a great reminder that what I’m feeling is normal, rebuilding social circles and confidence is next. Peace and love homies

[@nouralostaz1278]

Working out while listening to this is such a mood

[@danielkoren4969]

amazing way to start the week with listening to your podcast, cheers and keep doing what you do

[@Sekzay]

i instantly fell in love with your podcasts. don’t break my heart and stop making them, even if it means i’ll hit a pr 🥺

[@musicby.gaurav]

embrace the pain, dont stop moving and bury them w success

[@SenshiNico]

"Just eat, work, exercise and sleep", the ultimate mechanism to get over heartbreak. "All you have to do is move as fast and as hard as you can". Love it. By the way Captain I didn't know you also watched The Bioneer, which is probably one of the best health and fitness youtube channels in existence.

[@augustin19tube]

I think THE thing to deal with heart break is to fall in love with oneself, this may sound off to some people so let me put this more technical. When somebody you are interested in dumps you (severity may differ) you basically loose external validation, so the idea is to become independent of the external and build up the internal. That's why distracting yourself works to some degree. You invest and validate yourself instead chasing mommy and daddy's validation that you orject ontu other people. TLDR: Invest in yourself, validate yourself, love yourself and the world, a big everlasting YES to fate - amor fati

[@13aaryan]

Nah fr I love this channel. I've subscribed to like 1K channels on KZbin and only have notifications enabled for your channel! Thanks for the video too, I really needed this right now!

[@ShahabAhmad1398]

Cap I just wanna thank you and your co host (whose name escapes me) for the particular podcast episode about the "low hanging fruit" where you guys said something along the lines of if you are not earning you should at least be practicing a high income skill. This encouraged me to start my own daily blog about stories and creative writing so that I have a consistent point of focus in my life.

[@abhishekdas9535]

Week after week brutally honest podcast! Keep up the good work.

[@AldensAntlers]

The body heals , the mind heals, we can’t think. All we can do is do

[@AddisonEverett]

Great relationships last when both sides are able to walk away, but choose to stay and flourish together. Being “bored” while in a relationship is normal, but the danger is when effort to keep engaged in the relationship disappears. I think?

[@Garrus1995]

That’s why I’ve always resented my parents for staying together and putting me through their little Hell. They’re two people who clearly want to walk away but don’t because they don’t want to admit to sunk cost fallacy; they’re just gonna be miserable into their old age and probably die that way. The worst thing is I think a dysfunctional couple can do is bring kids into the mix, because then their lives end up sucking too. If I’m ever able to find a woman who will have me, I’ll be sure that we support each other without resentment or anger.

[@lukeholbrook]

Been on my first NoFap streak since march 7th. Idk if it's a direct cause but I've literally had the most productive, crazy 6 weeks of my life. My business is taking off, I made an investment partner, and when I gave my weekend job my 2 week notice they responded with a counteroffer. Love the Damaged Men Podcast! LOL

[@nostro1940]

So you don't masturbate for 2 weeks. Someone give this man a reward

[@JarinXeno]

You guys might feel like you are just rambling here sometimes but in every episode you guys drop some serious gems. Like the whole thing about keeping moving all the time.

[@mistersunshinebaby]

quality content!

[@indiantiger10]

It resonated with me so well...it's like I was talking to myself.

[@jesse3105]

Imagine if all dudes could talk to eachother like this.

[@iamgoddessoflove]

Constantly looking at things that remind you of your ex is not going to help you to get over them. You must discipline yourself not to do these things as this will help you to heal and move on from the hurt and pain. 💙KZbinr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[@deadmqn_]

I've had similar feelings as you both- it's nice to hear your thoughts at the start of these episodes!

[@naimr.4301]

Greatness is coming is a great message for this Easter Sunday.

[@storydevice]

Toward the very end there, you guys really have me wondering what "healing" is, or if I ever really knew in the first place! Without looking up any definitions, I think it's arriving at a place where there's an absence of pain, or a successfully managed pain at the least. Your words were "accept the pain".

[@sloppyjoe4us]

youre doing good Sinbad

[@davidzhan777]

Don't know if you will see this, but like the Killer Podcast as the podcast name better. Has a more positive intonation to it, feels like I am going on offense rather than defense. Always loved your videos, will keep supporting and listening no matter what.

[@CoreofShane]

I think the Killer was kinda corny tbh, the damaged men podcast is hilarious, and actually pretty original

[@sofiangiuroiu9121]

Most people listening to this podcast do not seek that 'positive intonation'.

[@davidzhan777]

When I talk about a positive intonation to each episode, I’m not talking about resonating fake positive energy. What I am talking about is teaching men a proactive approach to going on offense, being completely raw, being completely real in terms of what it takes to succeed in the modern society. Becoming the killer podcast sets the mood for each episode to be a learning experience to become the best version a man can be. While the damaged man podcast sets the mood for each episode to be a therapy session. There is no right or wrong answer, this is just my personal preference, and I prefer to think of each episode as a training session rather then a therapy session. I honestly think it also effects the way the show is hosted, as the past 2 episodes has a different energy and flow compared to the first couple of episodes. Becoming the Killer just had that raw and mamba feel to it, every time you guys cue the intro it absolutely pumps me up! Once again coming from one of your biggest fans here, I’m a Taiwanese KZbinr with 240,000 subscribers, I’m also passionate about teaching men confidence, just giving my two cents because I think you guys provide a lot of value and I want the podcast to be a huge success racking up more and more listeners.

[@ashvinvaidyanathan7239]

@@davidzhan777 it's more of an ironic title

[@Retiredmagician1]

I think even talking through it like you guys do here helps a lot too. Just verbalizing it can help you sort out your thoughts and feelings on the situation. Another dope episode💪🏾

[@younga.k9145]

Only half way through but I can tell this is an amazing episode. So relatable, always comes at the right time for me. Thanks

[@nostro1940]

_so relatable_ So you are an incel. Ouch

[@thomasmilleville5023]

Love how Thomas just sees through shit - no BS, straight to the truth

[@krishnar3-e3o]

Love you guys! Keep sailing captain

[@ABHINAVKUMAR-rv2wo]

This is so raw and I relate to it so much

[@KnowThyself619]

"Every man should pull a boat over a mountain at least once in his life" - Werner Herzog. Suffering is a man's ultimate teacher. Like Sinbad said, "fuck healing". Let's put our suffering in a cup, gulp it down, roll up our sleeves, and get to work gentlemen. Greatness is coming.

[@paulariggs9456]

I agree that some people are addicted to the chase, also to the feel of brand new relationships. "breadcrumbing" is a thing with both men and women. I feel that within the last few years, especially with the rise of dating apps, more people are happy to be pen pals than meet face to face. Marriage is an investment, and young people should be careful. Focusing on oneself during a break up and loneliness really helps. In a way, you learn about the failed relationship, and hopefully have the awareness in the next relationship. Working out, meditation, taking classes, really helps to focus on what matters.

[@champloo2500]

These podcast episodes come out on Mondays for me. I always look forward to them because they are a great way to start the week. Keep it up, Kings! Love from Australia 🇦🇺 🦘

[@callum7081]

Happy Easter kings good to be back here again this Sunday 👑

[@Therevolution7]

Thomas is a great guy, so is Sinbad- hope these too continue to liaise together; They are better together than apart- quite a dynamic duo- and good content; Also balanced-- they understand the red pill, but don't seem tooo bitter about it as other youtubers. They also show a human side to themselves- empathy, compassion etc.- rather than a false overly stoic mindset They also tackle some of the spiritual in an authentic way- meditation, SR,/no fap, both of which are empirically proven My wish would be if they continue the same quality of work /content as they ascend to the top , which i am optimistic will eventually happen.

[@cowetareserve]

Wooooooh you dudes did change the name! Props; I dig it!

[@ChocolateMilkCultLeader]

This podcast is becoming my favorite because y'all feel real. Great work

[@mcmaschio]

Yesss podcast episode on Easter 🔥💯 What a treat … Thanks Guys 💯 This podcast is so valuable and inspiring you guys … im sure i am not alone in finding it so valuable … keep them coming 💯🔥

[@jenniferharper2119]

Energy is not created or destroyed, only transferred. Transfer heartbreak into productivity. Outline your goals and make decisions each day that align w those goals. Nurture other relationships with friends and family. Engage in stimulating experiences. Prioritize fitness and quality sleep/recovery. Believe Greatness Is Coming. ❤️

[@g.s.rajendraprasath5930]

I'm here Captain!

[@Garrus1995]

O Captain, my Captain!

[@ayoolukoga9829]

Fear not, nor be dismayed, be strong and of good courage. Joshua 10:25

[@smrtt92]

All good points. Got my heart ripped through my backdoor recently when she cheated on me, and boy it's been a doozie. Went through all the stages of grief, and now I'm thankful that she's in no way a part of my life. Lessons learned, moving on. Got me into weightlifting too. But there's a lot of fear moving forward, I almost married that girl and we planned a life together. I was always sceptical about marriage but now... I've become sceptical about relationships too. Not really feeling like chasing after anyone anymore. Maybe time will heal. Maybe I'll go on alone. Both okay options. Best wishes guys, happy Easter

[@x-blade4724]

Hi Captain Sinbad. To Improve the Transmuted app I would recommend putting in a time-blocking section that allows you to time block the habits in your day. I would also recommend that there be a place where you can input desired habits that you want to work on, for example meditation, and that you can input the amount of times that you need to do each habit per day, and at the end of the day when you pull out the sword maybe you could input the amount of times you've done each habit, and they could be saved in the statistics tab along with the streak. I also think there could be a portion in the journaling section that allows you to write a summary of the day. Thank you for the app and I can't wait to see it get better.

[@JPJosefPictures]

I actually like that you two make this podcast, but I think in the future it may also be fun when other people come on, too, as a guest for you two. For example you can both ask them cool questions. (Eg. on Hamza? Maybe?)

[@vishalshah132]

Just downloaded transmuted! I'm digging the journal feature, and the library. As a user I'd like to have daily notifications prompting me to journal or transmute, and I'd like to see the price of premium clearly displayed. Awesome app brother, love the minimalist feel.

[@CaptainSinbad]

thats great feedback!

[@Mysterious2887]

Always found the best way to get over loneliness and heartbreak is to find someone better than the last person because then the last person becomes irrelevant

[@user-pf9mt7tz5u]

“Becoming” was the better angle for the podcast

[@doctornov7]

**Heartbreak philosophy** My philosophy with heartbreak has been to make sure I’m not aggressively trying to cut the person out of my heart or bury them in activity. It feels wrong. Let me explain. When you fall in love or become attached to someone you give them a space within your heart, right? (Try to conceptualise that as an actual space that has a certain size but the potential to become bigger or smaller or stay the same). Someone has entered your life and by will or by chance they’ve found a place within your being. With luck, their love has meant something to you and helped your heart to grow in the experience of the love you both shared. So, if they leave your life (for whatever reason) it’s important to try not to cut them out of that space within your heart. To do so would be to reduce its size, which is wrong. It’s regressive and actually makes you less of a person than you were before (your heart is smaller, a piece having been cut off). Of course pain can kill parts of you, sometimes your whole being, but that’s often a good thing and I truly believe that if you go about your regeneration in the right way, greater things will happen within and without. The pain of death is nothing compared to the joy of rebirth. If heartbreak visits you, let all the pain wash through you and accept that you love and miss the person now, and might always. This will be hard, but to deny the truth of your feelings and the full reality of a loss is unwise. Let yourself feel all of it, if you feel a feeling has to come out. Often I’ve gone to lie down if a feeling calls for it, because I recognise it needs to sweep me away. Like they say, if you get caught in the current at sea the best thing you can do is let the current take you back to shore. Don’t fight it. Cry, wail and curse the gods if that’s what your heart needs. But don’t close your heart off. Keep the door open, even if it’s just slightly. Light needs only a crack to enter. Accept that you found love and now it is lost. Of course it will hurt, of course you miss them; but it’s better to live in balance by acknowledging the love as well as the loss. It’s far better than to deny the love ever existing in an attempt to exorcise the pain. Because choosing to live with the love *as well as* the heartbreak will mean that your soul is balanced and your heart will grow in size: you’ll see the bigger picture. That life isn’t about winning or losing or gaining victory over pain: it’s about *becoming more* and allowing your heart to grow, so that it has a greater capacity to love. Like any muscle, the heart can be grown. Heartbreak is a strain, but like any strenuous exercise if you nourish yourself in the right way (spiritual practice, fitness, healthy productivity and other meaningful relationships) and give yourself time to recover, your heart will become bigger and it will become stronger. By allowing your heart to become larger, you’ll be able to fit more people in it. Over time, your heart will become a less fixed and tight place. With luck (we all need luck, but luck can earned) it will become a wide open space, not restricted by the pain but greater because of it; and able to fit a potentially infinite number of people inside. Thus, the percentage of your heart that any old person occupied will become smaller as the sum total grows and grows (like body fat percentage to muscle); and eventually that person will not feel like a problem anymore. They’ll be a gift. The memory of them will resemble that of an old song, that lit up your life once upon a time. But now it is time for new music; and you will simply smile warmly in remembrance of that old favourite song. You will always miss them, but you will miss them in the right way. If you cut people out, your heart becomes smaller: and having a small heart is no way to live life. You’ve got to try to live big in small ways, and having a larger heart is the only true way to do that. Take it from me, this has worked all my life. I’m proof that such a way of being is possible. I’m sure you’ve met people like this. If not then it’s up to you to grow and light the way. Growing your heart is very hard, but having a smaller heart is harder. Pick your hard. God bless

[@godofmasculinity2772]

If you have written this yourself , then you are a great writer . Write a book . It will help other people like me to go through the tough times . I don't comment on KZbin . But you are the first one who earned my comment . I got cheated by my gf of 4 and a half years. I felt different kinds of emotions in last 6 months . But recently I adopted a philosophy like yours to handle it . And my heart is healing . And when I saw your comment which is almost same as my vision I felt so good . I adopted the philosophy , but you gave me the reason to stick with it .

[@KunwarKochar]

Solid as always. This will hit home for a lot of guys.

[@rekhajunagade8101]

Mate. This in what you can do Go out with friends. Do something that makes your life meaningful. Accept the reality and vent out to someone. Finally work on yourself and smell the roses, Have fun and eventually you'll find someone

[@JesseMartin]

You guys should get 1st man on the pod! Either way I’ve been loving every episode so far.

[@xXxbloodykissesxXx]

If I get married, my partner has to be okay with us having separate quarters. We each have our own bedroom, office, and bathroom. I think you’re right about relationships falling apart AFTER marriage/moving in together. We need our own space. And if the relationship was working just fine, why would we want to mess with it by getting more in each other’s personal space? I’m childfree, though; so I don’t know how this would work with folks who want children. You can’t be too attached to personal space if you have kids anyway…

[@rory644]

The separate bathroom is a must we have our own bathrooms and its the best, marriage is not important to us and we are also childfree.

[@c6tlvr]

maybe you're not cut out for a relationship, if you can't live with your paretner in the same room then u probably shouldn't be dating

[@nostro1940]

Separare quarters? Lmao thats weird. Are u that disgusted by ur bf?

[@lordescanor8232]

lmfo imagine providing for a women who does not touch you and also wants space for the sake of the releationship lmfo, she will cheat and u wont even know

[@dylangordon1540]

On marriage: You may want to look into "AVOIDANT ATTACHMENT". I'm healing for it myself. Listening to you explain the need for space and being presentable sounds like classic avoidant behaviour.

[@avoidantbehavior]

Yeah, I'll check that out after this video... Maybe

[@MichelleTech]

Attached is a great book to figure out how you behave in relationships. Good find.

[@Archerphil9000]

Dude, that opening line. I totally can relate this past week.

[@sswildlifevideos]

I really appreciate your ability to be open and relatable, Nikhil. I think the point you brought up about viewing rejection as something wrong with you took a lot of courage to bring up - that is something I struggle with too. Also identified with your point about randomly months or years down the line thinking about an ex from the past. Lastly, totally agree 18-22 year old me would wish I was where I am now financially/professionally and would have liked to play the field. However just like you, my career and interest in photography take precedence so I am not interested in the process of dating even if I would like the end goal of a deep, meaningful relationship. Keep up the great content!

[@FinancialFreedomMadeSimple]

What a great way to start the week with this podcast!

[@RazrSharpProductions]

I think the best thing you can do immediately after a breakup is take care of yourself. I had a friend once go on like a 60 day bender after a breakup and he admits today it was the worst way to handle it. When I got dumped I immediately hopped on 75 hard and the feeling that I was taking care of myself and becoming better each day was definitely a huge help

[@jrgenpaulsen2220]

Danish Gang. parents dont care about us. its awesome. no expectations.

[@Bakslash]

Been watching your vids for a couple years, but these podcasts are my favorite

[@sleepysleepy9913]

13:43 that's insane to even fathom a realationship like that. Me and my girl never did anything and it was a blast

[@vardeep277]

Man can't tell you how much I relate with the 17:00 on. It happens to me as well. It's low self-confidence and self-esteem. I didn't know you would say something like this too. Don't know where it comes from.

[@mindful4125]

I needed this episode! Came in the perfect time!

[@bautistapenayo8278]

Nice to see I am not the only one damaged 😅. Thanks for this guys. Keep it up

[@02HERO17]

Love the podcast, really pumps me up every I watch it (and thats every sunday asap), you guys really are raw and honest, if you're feeling like trash you say it, thats self improvement but realistic, love it! Keep it up you absolute kings!

[@thisisriyaray1]

Just downloaded Transmuted. Can’t wait to try it. 🙌🏼

[@saadmohammad5758]

going to the gym becomes a little less lonely when I have Captain Sinbad and 'TheMammoth in space' talking life advice to me every single day.

[@olivierpataut7015]

Heartbreak ? Went to a therapist and being analysing all the feelings i have been repressing my whole life. Decided to focus on me make sports be with nature make music which IS my passion and soon make Friends

[@bilaliq1449]

My fav podcast you guys!

[@saturn_bee2283]

Thomas is a gold catch for you,he really does push you in believing things you wouldn't otherwise :) Take care Nikhil,it takes time .. Just make sure you face your emotions and don't runaway from it, it's tough but for a while :)

[@saturn_bee2283]

And some sunlight exposure and breathing excercise can help you with keeping the anxiousness away ..

[@nostro1940]

You are one of the highest receiver of hearts 💕 from Captain 🇵​🇦​🇯​🇪​🇪​🇹​ When will you take the hint? He wants you

[@omkarxj]

Intro is fireeee

[@Ghxst969]

Just Started watching but as an Introvert who is in a Long Distance relationship for the first time. Trust me i see no difference between being alone and long distance cuz i try getting in touch with her she doesn't reply for weeks so i was sad at first but accepting that fact and moving on seems to work.

[@mateiadeodatus335]

Awesome episode!