How To Deal With Loneliness - Never Feel Lonely Again!

[@Supermanohman]

the fact that 1,200 people liked this video makes me feel a little less lonely and more connected with you guys.

[@skyalicejessi]

same here, we should all message each other :)

[@Supermanohman]

skyalicejessi you lonely too?

[@skyalicejessi]

+Vic Vinegar o my god yes. unemployment sucks. what about u??? where are u??

[@Supermanohman]

skyalicejessi I'm in psychology graduate school and I have a hard time dating because I have a few social difficulties and ADHD. Where are you from? I'm from St. Louis

[@skyalicejessi]

+Vic Vinegar oic, I gave up on dating, I feel like I'll b single forever!

[@jjabblePlayStation]

Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy;)...And never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.

[@rajanitha11]

J Junior very well said!!!

[@abhaysinghrajpurohit2641]

so true brother. i can totally relate. but there is illogical feeling which constantly have urge to talk to her even though she treat me as an option.

[@fatimadeleon3131]

Wow is like you knew how i was feeling. 😵

[@feemetsnor]

Thank you so much for affirming this thought to me at just the right time

[@frthepeple8815]

@@abhaysinghrajpurohit2641 that's because you don't value yourself as much as you should yet. Once you recognize that you and your time is valuable, you're not going to just allow the same people to continuously hurt you. You will remove them out of your life because you deserve pure happiness. Even though you think having them in your life is what make you happy, they don't deserve to be apart of your life if they don't see your worth. THEY ARE TOXIC FOR YOU!

[@rhysnichols8608]

Does anyone else feel that if you were born in a different generation, or different part of the Earth you'd be happier and have more excitement in life? Edit 3 years later 2020! Since making this comment I have learned that you have to make the best of ANY situation you’re in, we are here for a reason. So find a higher purpose and you’ll never be lonely

[@ShiboTheGodfather]

Yes, but... it's not gonna happen I think ._.

[@StatusOnline08]

I feel like I don't belong here and i have a desire to be somewhere else ,free ,but Ik it's impossible which liipsnright back to being lonely,......i just want to be saved and no one quite understands that....i just want to be saved,yet idk who I am

[@panicmissjackson2350]

all the time

[@marouaneouali3928]

i feel you but you think life is hard on you ? i live in Africa yet i'm able to make myself happy whenever i want regardless of the conditions :) its all in your head as Noah said

[@isabelcamille6839]

yes I have felt exactly that way

[@karlaromero4667]

I get jealous when people say they went to eat/movies with a group of friends bc I wish I was too. Or at least find one true friend where we match. I'm not looking for a lover. But I do thank you for the video bc a big part has to do with the negative thoughts about myself :(

[@zo3651]

Same....I get really upset and jelouse.....

[@JuniperTreeee]

@@zo3651 why be jealous? You can make some friends. Just get out there and don't give up. Look at all of these people on here (me too!). I'm gonna do what he's saying over thanksgiving (while I'm alone) and be happy dang it. But being jealous is just another bad feeling that they have what you can't and it's not true. We just need to edit our habits.

[@zo3651]

@@JuniperTreeee tysm❤

[@samiarockson8081]

I have really struggled with loneliness ever since primary school, and as I got to my early 20's its got so bad, because I don't have friends or a partner, its really effected my life and I've bee to counselling so many times and spoken to people and Its just got to a point I felt so tortured inside because no one understands, but this video is literally how my mind works, FINALLY someone understands, and it gave me a reality check and literally changed my life. thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

[@NoahElkrief]

Samia Rockson You're welcome Samia, thanks for sharing with me. Glad it helped

[@dominicc2017]

same no joke this stuff is deep I lost my dog to fleas my grandma cancer and all my old friends had to move😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😞😞😞😞😞

[@izzypaige8261]

+Dominic C I'm sorry

[@MaryMartinez-sl3og]

same but it's nothing with school

[@MaryMartinez-sl3og]

I also feel bad 4 u

[@TheMona885]

It's hard bc in school you see everyone having fun and being happy while you stand aside its rlly hard

[@bekita2671]

Monika Baric i know the feeling. When i see people like that i get a pit in my heart and then i feel like crying

[@bleh1362]

Mhmm

[@bleh1362]

90 more years.

[@Bobina634]

I know, even though i do have friends I just still feel so lonely even with them

[@areusproductions4896]

RubyRosella yeah I’m usually strong hearted but it’s just that last time I get and insulted or excluded, a girl stopped talking to me cuz her BFF wasn’t interested with talking to me

[@Charles-ix8cq]

I dont know what my problem is im just tired of living

[@CKthaGamer]

same bro

[@hcr3481]

I feel you

[@littlegirl9190]

i think i should tell u this when i watched an anime, this sentence was really meaning to me “even when times get dark and painful, people should feel lucky to be alive at all" i'm not gonna give advices but i just wanna show u another look of people's lives and how meaningful they are so dont just think about negative things :)))) let's try to think about joyful others :))

[@elainetamburello833]

Little Girl s

[@Medietos]

Charles: MAybe tired of living your old life+ what about changing it and you, exploring a new level? i feel similar, and have understood it's not tiredness of life itself, but of the life I have LED and tired of not being connected with myself snd my life.

[@daretardboy9637]

the comment section made me feel like i have 2000 friends. thank you, i hope you all find happiness soon.

[@sufy3612]

Yes

[@Lou-sf2ik]

When you have this feeling like you've lost everything, here's what you'll always have : - Books - Kindness from strangers - Languages to learn - Music - Animals to pet - Voluntary work - Good nights of sleep - Season changes - Endless new things to learn - Thousands of people to meet and love - Thousands of people who'll love you back.

[@dudestylish16]

+Lou Anna well music does help...not so sure about the other points...also cant have pets have to go to college....so cant leave them alone....

[@Lou-sf2ik]

gursimar singh Focus on the positive, you have much more than you think you have. it might not seem like it but everything gets better at some point... Every little thing's gonna be alright, Bob Marley said it

[@dudestylish16]

Lou Anna well I do try my best.... Thanks for the kind words BTW...

[@OGmoz4rt]

+Nightcore Plague I actually really like reading but for some reason the idea of reading while feeling like that just makes it sound more depressing.

[@OGmoz4rt]

+Nightcore Plague I actually really like reading but for some reason the idea of reading while feeling like that just makes it sound more depressing.

[@Chillingcomfy]

I wish parents were this compassionate.

[@newborneevee860]

same

[@Medietos]

BenisseC M F:Yes, but they are mostly wounded adult children themselves. myrelationship with my Mother improved, as I dare to calmly say what I felt: I hate you when you spew gall like that". I was fearful to have said that, hate being a taboo feeling for me. To my delight and surprise, I heard her calm, honest accepting reply from the other rooom: Yes, I understand that" . We sadly rarely meet, but can talk on the phone. And you?

[@lorrainelaskosky7785]

look up narcisstic parents

[@johannanousiainen2209]

Claudia Bothner That's great :)

[@ezioaltidore1502]

Same here

[@YumiOnline]

I just want to say to all the people who feel the same, I give you a huge hug. You are not broken ♥ I've always felt lonely... it's really horrible esp when you have depression and anxiety. But I promise you're not alone, you're not 'pathetic' and it's not your fault to be feeling this way. You are not alive to only feel like you're loved by a lot of people. You are the only one you have, so start by feeling comfortable with yourself and you'll start building more relationships as time passes. good luck

[@doublestandards4enemies994]

too bad it's too late for some of us. I don't even know what's wrong with me but I can never accept any invites of anybody being my friend sense I am so use to not having anybody who cares or wants to be around me. For example when me and some other people were camping (NJROTC camping) I went on a bible study with a couple people and everyone was crying which I didn't get because they have friends who care and share feelings while I was their still feeling lonely. Everyone was hugging each other and I was just sitting alone. The only person who hugged me was the kid who gave the bible study. And he has friends. I don't get what is wrong with me. My people I know with so many friends are sad and I SEE Them freaking talking to THEIR FRIENDS who can help them. I had to take on everything in my own mind because I have nobody.

[@doublestandards4enemies994]

how did i get invited by friends? the kid who started the bible study made an announcement. nobody came to me and said hey you want to go. I went by my self. next time don't assume things that are not true. Also you have friends so please shut up you don't know what you are talking about.

[@doublestandards4enemies994]

"You say nobody cares yet get invited by friends?" you plain out said I had friends. so yea you did. so yeah you do have no idea what you are talking about you spoiled jerk. try not to be so condescending.

[@utpalghosh30]

your dp pic makes me happy

[@DailyScratcher]

Thank you for that message. I've become so alone the last 2 years and today my parents left on a 9 day trip. I've been feeling so so so depressed since learning they'd be leaving. it's gotten so bad, I'm taking my dog to their vacation house (hopefully) this weekend only for 1 day! 3 hour drive down and 3 hour drive back just so I can be around people. But I am willing to do that so I am not alone for 9 days straight. Just sucks we have 2 dogs and the one is to old to come so I'd need to drop him at the dog sitter but haven't heard back from her yet. Hopefully I can get down to the vacation house this weekend, I really need people around me :( :(

[@yashpednekar4381]

why do these type of kind hearted people which I can see in comment session never met me in real life 😥

[@nerdothn892]

Bad luck I think but don't worry I have the same luck

[@r.m639]

mood..it's not fair..then again what is..this all sucks to shit (sorry fro my language) honestly i probably am broken.

[@SubscribersWithNoVideos-in9jh]

Yash Pednekar you haven’t met anyone in real life only because it can be dangerous

[@iluvu7551]

I know right

[@sonialoves444]

Exactly

[@kaiyaxe955]

I came here from typing "lonely" because yeah I AM lonely. I've been struggling with it since I was a kid. I do have several friends but most of them changed because they have found new friends which are more likely to give happiness more than I do. It's not that they forget about me but still, they made progress in their life while I'm still stuck in the same spot. I feel like I am left behind. I think that's what makes me lonely. It's so painful even more because nobody can understand this feeling. But after seeing this video (actually reading the comments) I feel better and not to miserable. I know I just have to try more. It's hard but I hope one day I can be successful. Anyway thanks :):):)

[@kaiyaxe955]

+pink thunder thankyouu, so glad that someone can finally understand me (: but sorry I only have this youtube channel

[@mlplover-wr5lh]

I am crying cuz I'm lonely I'm at my mom's boyfriends house and for some reason I feel lonly... I don't have my pets with me nor a TV :( I'm still crying cuz I'm so lonely

[@kaiyaxe955]

+pink thunder yeah.. Now that I've found a person with the same situation as me, I do feel stronger:) We can do it! Feel free to talk to me here when you have any problem:)

[@kaiyaxe955]

+mlp lover 3000 Aww what happened? Go talk to me here if you want, I hope that way I can help you to at least feeling better:) I'm sorry for the late reply:(

[@ifoundyou1311]

My girlfriend died and I know I'll be really lonley. I have no friends and now that she's gone.. I even thought of killing myself 😢 I don't know what to do with life

[@cakesinthecity]

I am incredibly proud of everyone in the comment section just for being brave and vulnerable. It’s a beautiful thing to see humanity in this light. I’m struggling to let go of so much pain from being in abusive relationships, friends that just ask to borrow money, my family not being healthy and me knowing the best thing to do is be alone but its hard and makes me sad. I cant stop trying though I’m just hoping one day I can be happy and at peace.

[@pamelapowell4463]

I am as well in childhood trauma, I have to look into my family of narcissistic an learn the ways because they are Hod children I had no contact with them for almost 3 years my mom sick an my sister has stage 4 cancer ! I look at it today even when you sick we refuse let Satan go! It was the perfect pic to see to day not fall into the trap of Satan not to go back where I was with them but keep focus on me an stand tall though lonely times ! I had recycle now I left home shelter a year ago got car apt an realize after losing my job I did it all wrong! I carried old habits with me that I did not realize was habit but to late I ate out of loneliness a lot sugar to take it away! Not sure where is I go but not back to family to dedrain myself but to find more self love an love them but never putting any one before myself! Sister got cancer stage 4 but still smokes an drinks I know pain she going though we both molelasted by our step father I know because my walk with Christ she still does not want remember I will say! I love her will be by her side but I come first ! Keep your head high we going make it

[@sdeb3333]

You have a hypnotic calmness in your voice, expressions, body language... I don't know whether its temporary or permanent BUT I am feeling better after watching this video... and for that THANK YOU! ........

[@kevinwoods4854]

You don"t know what what loneliness is. It's very real. I was married for 30 years when my partner suddenly left the marriage. I been alone for 8 years now. Have no family or friends. The loneliness I feel everyday. Loneliness is very overwhelming.

[@luisacordero6789]

I hope you are doing better. Time heals.

[@juanmora9332]

Sorry but a lot people feel this way including me

[@jcers]

I’m sorry to hear about that. Hope things are doing even a little better now

[@SabbathSOG]

Oh brother how I can relate. I was married for 31 years and then I came home and everything was gone. The guy came to my door after I realized everything was empty and was given divorce papers. My ex moved out of state with my children and my children now refused to talk to me. There was no abuse in the marriage I had a job for the entire marriage, was always faithful, my wife did not have to work and if she did work the money was hers. All that time effort and devotion, and nothing to show for it. Hang in there brother.

[@peterbosanko4404]

@@SabbathSOG if you are surviving such history you are an inspiration to me

[@lovettdeleted]

not having people around you makes you feel like you're unworthy of being loved. feeling loved makes you happy.

[@LostForever201]

Yep......really man you know I learned something truly valuable a few days ago I went out with my sister and one of her friends you know what fucking kills me dude ? People don't hate me her friend cool didn't have a problem with me I could easily be friends with her but I fucking hate myself I take every good thing anyone says or does and twist it to use it to fucking hate myself more I'm fucking done I am sick of being a lonely fuck with no friends who sits around hating himself while they will never know it they just on that one few hours of hanging out taught me something I can make friends people don't fucking hate me I hate me and I put myself down night after night thinking no one would give a fuck if I shot myself. I'm done being a selfish self hating lazy fuck I can do whatever anyone else can fucking do. Well shit now I owe a debt to her for making me realize my self worth I will repay that one day. After all we all go through fucked up times and need a hand right ? You have a good fucking night cause after I stop man crying like a bitch I sure as jack shit will! It's a new fucking day. One new debt one new idea. This is going to be a good fucking night

[@SharkRockstar]

Le Lo but are you loving yourself?

[@lovettdeleted]

Zeinab Sharqi hell yea I love my lonely ass

[@Terp_]

Le Lo me

[@BendyEdits]

+Fractured Dawn Mann... I've learnt a lot from reading that, God bless u.

[@babylonsfall7]

Noah - Your videos have opened up my mind in a way that no therapy or medication ever has. I'm blown away at how powerful and effective what you are saying has been for me. Thank you so much!

[@Lady13Paranoid]

Almost started crying when listening to this... This calm and friendly voice and that friendly caring face saying words of wisdom... thank you for this video, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@msaniese09]

This is one of the best videos I think I’ve ever watched in my whole entire life. The immediate relief of sadness is indescribable. I just woke up and not feeling great at all just laying here silently with tears heavily flowing out of my eyes down my face and all over my pillow. I really am not up for today. No one’s knows because I NEVER ever talk about it I’m busy making sure I’m a positive person at all times. I’m sort of relieved now. I will watch this every morning …and while I’m My daily walk. I’m about to go head on my walk . I’m going to go head on my walk now. Thank you. I hope everyone here Finds peace . We ALL deserve it and will be at peace one day. ❤️

[@lynic-0091]

I'm so glad it helped you so much!

[@swagatdashPrince43]

Thank u so much... I spent almost 15 yrs of my life being alone... The fact that I started living with the loneliness and I even enjoyed that.... But when she came to my life I felt like I can live a life with someone and I cant be alone anymore and now when she has left me. its very difficult for me to concentrate on everything and I am feeling like I cant live a life alone any more. But thanks to U that U have just showed me the way to live again and I dont need anyone to be happy... Seems like I m born to be alone..... I just have to accept it again that I can be happy even without having a love interest in my life.... Thank u so much... I am feeling better now....

[@elainetamburello833]

Jason Otto j

[@elperroreggae]

swagat dash Shit, looks like someone wrote by me, it's the same I always feel since she left me

[@ReayTraynor]

Your situation is a lot like mine. swagat. I feel much better now that I have seen this video.

[@lost2493]

I have friends but I'm alone most the time and I feel like that's what gets me. I feel like no one would blink if I died tomorrow, no one would visit me if I was in a coma. I feel like everyone would forget me or never recognize me. I also realized that I don't love anything or anyone and I want Someone to Chang that.....

[@lost2493]

I'm almost 20 and I'm struggling

[@coolcutsgal2]

Lost I feel the same exact way! if I died tonight no one would blink!

[@cobisari]

The way out of loneliness is a difficult one. It is like a trap, or a group of traps. You must first find what it is that you need from others (companionship, conversation, care, etc.) and then seek out how to go and fetch it. You must first, however, realie, that it is not because of who you are. It is much more complicated than that.

[@All-xv3oj]

the same :(

[@abbie_5_287]

Lost me too, dont worry all I say to my self is that people are having worse than me right now and I try to keep going throught life even tho I am sad down the majority of the time but trust me there is always something good in the end so get rid of the thoughts and do what makes you happy even if you do it alone, I sit in the toilets at school and listen to music and draw or do rubiks cubes that makes me happy even though I am alone at school just be ur self and ignore hate and thoughts do your favourite things and do it alone theres nothing wrong with that or you. hope this helped u a bit

[@mowmodern4700]

Noah Elkrief. Your rational thinking is simple, precious and unique. Most of us look far away while they can't see what is in between their legs. Honestly ur videos worth billions of dollars.

[@mowmodern4700]

Yeah man! Ideas worth money nowadays.

[@NoahElkrief]

Mow Modern haha thanks, glad you liked the video

[@StatusOnline08]

I think I'm depressed,and all I wAnt in life is freedom(not suicide) I want to go on long walks outside maybe at evening or go expire because it makes me happy but I can't,then I get pushed back to being lonely and depressed I'm stuck in an endless cycle and all I want to do is be saved......i have been fighting for years and I'm still trying,it's hard...i just want be saved

[@StatusOnline08]

explore*

[@isabelcamille6839]

keep trying. and keep trying something new. never give up

[@AnnalisaStacchini]

nobody-nothing can save you, you are the only one who can save yourself

[@Tutu-mf8br]

Never give up

[@littlegirl9190]

Try your best!! We are the same and i'm trying my best to get a better life so let's try with me. i believe oneday all of us (people the same with us) could find out our appropriated way and dont have to bear these hateful feelings. Let's try together. Never give up!!! (sorry if u dont understand, my english is bad :((( but anyways we gonna try try & tryyy 💪💪😉😉

[@Shadakiwolfen1]

I'm mentally incapable of being happy while alone. I absolutely believe life isn't worth much to me if it isn't spent with good company.

[@clubkiddxx]

me too

[@VitaminV29]

Money Man I feel the exact same

[@elainetamburello833]

Tamera Lewis

[@dianavillanuevaguerrero2250]

I always end up lonely, all of my friends find someone better to be with and I just notice they will never come back again and I dont know why if I am a good and kind person who has so much love to give why do they leave or replace me with someone else.Am I not enough for them?If that is the case i dont know what they want me to be.

[@itzmeh_crystalssage1317]

Diana Villanueva Guerrero im going through the same thing. My self esteem is extremely low because I feel like its me. Lonliness is not fun allll the time.

[@jakeself1911]

I'd give you a big hug if I could, Noah. First you calmed me when I was feeling extreme anxiety about a new job, and now you've helped me understand the feeling of loneliness that I've had for the past 13 years, since graduating high school. Thank you so much.

[@davidamills]

In my view, this is the most insightful and helpful video anywhere on KZbin. I purchased Noah's book and it resonates personally with how I think -- or overthink things, especially in the area of loneliness. I now spend part of every day reading Noah's writings and watching his videos. He is a gentle genius who knows exactly what to say to help you.

[@Yocarisfastlike]

I feel tortured by my presence

[@randomuploadsism]

wow, thats very poetic

[@stephghann9258]

Don't be hard on urself dear

[@drewtrulock333]

i do to because ive hurt others

[@sufy3612]

Same

[@flyingduck22]

Literally how I feel

[@lisaeve6426]

his voice feels healing and calming...so steady and assuring.

[@mariewilliams194]

It's hard being single when everyone has someone one but you

[@seanjohnson2695]

Right single 6 years and my 2 friends have gfs and I'm the single one it sucks.

[@mayacharrat6401]

Single for 10 years here

[@mopthermopther]

Laura Cortez Hang in there, kiddo. Better days are coming.

[@Kizamo]

Trust me when I say finding a significant other isn’t going to solve everything. It’s even worse when you’re in a relationship and still feel lonely

[@adrianandlaura]

Just because others have hooked up doesn’t mean that they’re happy. There’s nothing worse than being lonely in a relationship.

[@bgood6930]

Noah is BRILLIANT! Clarification is effective! All I can say is, “Thank you for helping me in such a significant way!”

[@vivien._.8013]

I don‘t know how many times i‘ve watched this video... whenever I feel lonely I watch this video and then feel better and when the loneliness comes back I watch it again

[@bonnieeastelow6677]

I'm not lonely but I feel lonely and I feel like nobody cares

[@MaxDamage1984]

I feel very lonely too. I've locked myself up in a room for almost a week untill today I finally found the courage to go out for a walk in the city. One of the first things I noticed was there were others sitting alone on benches, terraces, etc... It made me feel a little bit less lonely and more at ease with myself in less then 30 minutes. The sun was shining, so that felt good too. I kept walking and tried to force myself to smile at other people, make eye contact, or just say hello to someone. But I couldn't do it because I have so much social anxiety and low self esteem and I couldnt look at other people's eyes for over a second. Plus most of them just avoided eye contact. But then something weird happened. All of a sudden, out of all those people walking around in this shopping street, this older women which I had never even seen coming, stops me dead in my tracks in front of me and she says 'hello'. So I'm like, euh... yeah? hello...and I smile at her. She smiles back at me and walks away and that was that. Then this wave of pure happiness came over me. Somehow that 2-3 second event completely made my day. Out of all those people out there this women picked me out to say 'hello' to. It's hard to describe what I felt next, but it almost felt like God does exist, and he saw how I was struggling with my loneliness and he sent her my way to acknowledge me.

[@MrPapamoon]

your not alone man, i get it in fact most people watching this vid are here for the same reasons has you and i

[@MangoMilkshake]

All i want is to have a lot of quality people around me all the time. There is so much potential for me in life which never ends up happening and coming through due to things i can't control. The thing is the reason i have no real friends or anyone to hang out with is because of external problems like other people themselves creating problems that don't allow for fun, happy and good things to happen to me. If it was my fault, i would know. I am literally finding anything i can blame myself for by being open minded and logical. Which i can't cause to it makes no sense to and doesn't add up in my situations. I see all these people that do bad in life and they get everything they want and things that i can only imagine of getting. While i try to be the best version of me and get bullshit handed to me when its not my fault. Life is unfair, it feels like im born to loose..

[@soulnurturer1175]

i struggle with same thing

[@favouritemusic8959]

My story too. Blessings to you.

[@jgilbert29803]

Just want to come in here and say after watching the video I felt like he was speaking directly to me because I have always dealt with negative thoughts about myself. 2020 has been one hell of a year for us all. For me personally my wife decided to separate after 16 years of being together we were high school sweethearts and for the first time in my life at 33 I'm having to navigate life without a partner. It is videos like this that give me hope! To everyone out there I want to say you may be alone such as I but we are not alone in this struggle of life, May we find peace and happiness!

[@wardygrub]

How are you doing now Jeremy? I hope you’re recovering. X

[@jgilbert29803]

@@wardygrub Well it’s been five months since the separation and I still have my days but I am healing. One thing that is helping me is doing things for myself like eating much better and exercising. Getting out of the house and staying busy. Even though 2020 knock me down I’m optimistic about the future. Thank you stranger for asking. Hope you have a good day!

[@wardygrub]

@@jgilbert29803 hey, glad to hear you are being kind to yourself. At 33 you are still very young so, get better and get back into dating. You are a good soul, I can tell and you deserve to be cherished. Keep going buddy. X

[@hamzabhatti1351]

I am so damaged that when someone treats me nice. I dont know what to do. I love this video. One in a kind

[@cr-sg8jq]

I’m just wasting so much of the prime of my life because I can’t make any real connections with the people around me.

[@alureon1]

I feel this

[@chach2611]

I am a "loner." I enjoy solitude. I recently decided that anxiety (fear) about certain situations was boring me to death. (It's like a friend who continually tells the same story.) You have helped me immensely, young man. Thank you.

[@indiyahsidhartha1189]

When I went to 6th grade I felt loneliness because my friends would always do stuff without me and I would find out from social media.i would just stay at home crying my eyes out.I'm still doing this to this day.😰😭

[@indiyahsidhartha1189]

It doesn't help that I'm an only child too.It's just me and my mom

[@etherealschannel]

Indiyah Sidhartha that happens to me a lot. I know how it feels and it feels like you aren't good enough for those people, but just talk to them and tell them you feel left out and that you want to be included more.

[@chereruimoongui7397]

For me I don't have real friends

[@nitsuj7115]

I was recently diagnosed with perniosis and my girlfriend left me. I dont have any real friends and im extremely depressed, i wake up everyday with my hands and feet turning purple and it is very painful. But i would overcome the pain to just type in Noah Elkrief because truthfully these videos are SO helpful, and they make me feel alot better about myself. thank you noah your such a great person.

[@anfiscka]

To the end of the video I started to cry.. from feeling happy ant that I’m not alone.. Huge thanks for this video!

[@djbooz751]

74 videos in a nutshell: Don't believe your thoughts.

[@ctwofirst6635]

Amazing how many of us do.

[@dr_azam92]

I hope you're being sarcastic. I found your comment really funny. :)

[@djbooz751]

Muhammad Adil It's the simple truth, isn't that funny right? We all have different perspectives but at the end of the day it's only a thought.

[@dr_azam92]

I thought you to be sarcastic when you said 74 videos in a nutshell. You just summarized the entire channel in 4 words. That is funny to me.

[@michaelb.tysonson3375]

Shibo You have these thoughts for a reason You need to have sex reproduce and have children so your genes can survive

[@lindsandkev]

Not lonely anymore since watching your videos Noah.

[@sirikalvik]

I`ve been alone for 3 years. I'm 26 now. Up until recently I would have someone to talk to, and occationaly do stuff with, but most of my time I was alone. Now however, I for some reason took a job as a night guard in a remote place. Had no other options. And I've never been this lonely. I've been social outside of work only 1 time, and some guy took me to a concert for the night. It wasn't that social cause it was overcrowded and I was standing in one place just listening to music. Other than that I only speak cassualy (not work related) with 1 or two guys who work as a guard during the weekends when our bars are open until 02am. But that's only about 1 hour combined on friday and saturday. Rest of the time I'm on my own. I'm getting depressed, and I realy realy need someone to talk to. For a moment I met a nice girl on-line and we could talk about anything, eventualy sending eachother pictures of ourselves and showing interest in one another. However, after she quit her job as a bartender to pursue her dreams, she hasn't been able to stay up for as long, so the ammount we talk now is bare minimum, and the conversations has gone from "oh my god I want to meet you" - to show lack of interest and just empty talks most of the time. That's sad, cause when we were talking I forgot all about my lonelyness. Now that we don't get to talk as much, it's all coming back. Just getting someone to talk to on a regular basis makes a world of difference for me, so I've been looking through the internet hoping to find someone like her again (we are as mentioned still talking though), but the internet is full of trolls. Therefore I was thinking that the people who can relate, are looking up videos like this. So. Anyone want to talk with me?

[@ayepyaesone7591]

Oh my god, How coincidence between you and me. I also happen in this way. Now I am overcoming this lonliness.

[@IChroniclesofNerdiaI]

This video almost made me cry. It hit so many things I've never been able to explain to people. I feel a weird sense of relief I haven't had before with this way of thinking.

[@Onajourney519]

everyone yearns to have someone to share their life with them. I feel moments are incomplete because I have no one share them with, it's an unfulfilled moment.

[@sandypaz2335]

Thank you for your calm explanations. Your voice is very soothing. You are truely helping this world. Ofcourse I watch most of your videos. I aim to remember your words and to be this helpful towards my kids.

[@helena1786]

One of the smartest approaches to loneliness, thank you for sharing... I feel every year so lonely and sad on the new year when you supposed to celebrate with friends...

[@truthworld7036]

Skip to 15:50 for anyone that needs help and cant sit through all the blah blah and wants to know what his solution is, I grew very impatient watching this video waiting for the answer

[@scarlyt1017]

Thank you, savior ☺️☺️

[@lailak482]

You are really my KZbin therapist 😢thank youuuuuuui I feel better now I realized that’s why ! Yes

[@ShezzLuvsShadow]

Despite having a loving partner, I still feel very much alone. I cried throughout this whole video. I am even more alone now that I am in a relationship, I worry if he is cheating on me, I am more body conscious, I have self esteem issues. It's not his fault, it's mine. Insecurity and jealously rule my life

[@yarpen26]

Try to talk to him about it, even if you think he won't understand. You'll be surprised how caring and deep some people can be when you need them to.

[@Isaac-mm9jz]

Thank you so much for reproaching me. I'm glad you exist and helped me! Jesus/God Bless you! ❤

[@amberlove1658]

God Bless you Noah, thank you so much for posting this video. I cried hard in the beginning because everything you said was so true and so relatable to how I feel. I never thought of it that way that friends can't make you happy, it's all from thoughts, it's so true. I'll be sure to watch your other videos as well, you seem like a very knowledgeable person thank you.

[@marycynthiaokundaye5849]

your words are so conforting...

[@saun86]

Wow you are opening my eyes THANK YOU

[@NoahElkrief]

SAundra Wesley You're welcome Saundra

[@joelquinones8539]

Noah Elkrief I know this is an old video. Does this mean you do not need to socialize? or do we need it also

[@nightshade7111]

We don't NEED it, is the point. It doesn't mean we shouldn't or can't its just training you to accept yourself, accept that thoughts aren't physical and stop believing them. When you stop believing the negative thoughts in your head, you become more relax and peaceful which can help in many aspects of your life including socializing. You won't put so much importance on the opinions others have of you.

[@christinemurphy4367]

I love being alone but lately I’ve feeling bored and empty. I feel isolated and disconnected and I lost my Mom a little over a year ago and I also don’t have a vehicle at this time. I believe to a large extent what you are saying, however I do not deny that people and relationships with others as well as involved belonging and participation makes a HUGE difference in our day to day happiness. Thank you for all your help and thank you for understanding. God bless you!!! ❤

[@tatie7604]

Negative, hurtful comments from others or dealing with other people who irritate and drain you is not happiness. I met an old "friend" recently and it was the worst experience I've had in quite some time. If you don't agree with everything they say-- this is a cause for anger in them??! That's ridiculous. Another person was verbally abusive. Why? I have no idea. A lot of times, I do not share the same values or interests or morals and it becomes uncomfortable. I don't dislike the other people but there isn't a strong enough reason to be with them either.

[@ocaminhante08]

I don't have friends, man. I don't know, but the people look at me and simply create an antipathy. It's something like a preconception against me. Even when I smile. This make me so bad

[@dudestylish16]

+Cadu Andrade i usually dont care about the people who judge others without even knowing them....try avoiding them or ask them whats wrong...anyway you are the best judge of your life.....

[@cphdotdk]

+Cadu Andrade Could it be you judge yourself too hard and assume that is what they think? Most people are actually very friendly, but also deal with their stuff. My experience is that I had a similar way of seeing the world when I was younger

[@hew195050]

Simple and comforting. It feels like a loving dad is talking to me

[@jechero4e1]

simply thanks for being so postive and sharing it with others

[@NoahElkrief]

***** You're welcome jechero

[@pinusnigrus7333]

His voice is so calming...

[@LifeAfterNarc]

When you become ill and you are alone, it is pretty scary though, so they can make you feel more secure. I've been pretty sick this last week and it is very hard when there is no one to help you.

[@heidijacobs2716]

Wow you hit it square on the head. I'm 57 years old and I've been suffering this my whole life. I wish somebody would've explained this to me back then. Thank God for KZbin and the sharing of intelligence around the world. What a difference you're making for me and millions others,thank you so much. Thanks to you I can go forward and have a wonderful life, because I do love myself, I just want to share life with others. But life also is what it is and we must except what we get, but just not take it personally if we are doing everything in our power to be our best.

[@hoodaxx]

i love how u make me feel. thank you so much for existing

[@terishamoore8759]

I've been suppressing these feelings since my divorce. So this just broke at work trying to hold back the tears until I get off work. Thank God I found this video...He makes so much sense. Big hugs and kisses..feel better

[@alicetorngren8521]

I have a lot of friends and a supportive family, but i don’t have someone I can call just to talk or to hang out with or do homework with. I feel like the loneliest person in the world.

[@Aloszka7]

Such a powerful and helpful video! ❤️ Thank you. That's basically what I've been talking about on my therapy, that it's not the situation that makes me feel a certain way, it's the thoughts I have and my reaction to them. I had a hard time today, forgot about everything I've learned, but you helped me to remember and notice how much I still have to learn! 💜

[@garrettoneil3864]

Im lonely because im a truck driver and ive always had this deep desire to travel and i think about that constantly. Im married. We cant have kids. She controls all the money. I cant even buy a new toothbrush without begging for my own money. I feel like we grow more distant everyday. I use to wake up and go to bed with a text message from my wife. But now i hardly ever hear from her. My family never calls me so much so that i dont even have half of them in my phone contacts. Im a quadruplet. I lived in the same room as my 3 brothers until i was 18. We were close. As close as twins who finish each others sentences. But I became a truck driver to explore america. But all ive really ever wanted to do is grab a backpack a few small things necessary to survival and backpack across america become a true explorer of everything life has to offer But society says no! You must work! Live in a house! Raise a family! Your crazy to offer such notions. My wife thinks im crazy to. Is it so wrong that the idea of being a traveler taking odd jobs meeting new people learning their life stories discovering new things and Living off nothing is all i think about? Is there anyone like me? Am i all alone in this? Am i the only one that thinks when something bad happens and you overcome it that that is the best kind of memory? That to truly appreciate the world you must know what having nothing feels like? To travel see beautiful scenery up close and personal is to immerse yourself in the spirit of Gods green earth? To learn everything about a complete stranger on the sidewalk understand how they think, feel what they feel, see the world from their eyes is to know life? Everyone ive ever told this to thinks im insane. And maybe i am. But there has to be one person who feels how i feel. Thanks for letting me get that out internet.

[@sunflowers28]

Garrett Oneal Traveling is beautiful. The first time I thought about other places was answering the phone at work. I heard a song in the background of the caller’s office. I realized ‘There are people far away listening to the same songs I do.’ I didn’t think I could ever travel. My boyfriend was strict. I don’t know how to drive. Then one day, I got on the Amtrak and went to Texas to visit Lakewood Church. I hope your truck driving brings you joy. I was in a big rig once. It was a great thing...one of my very happy moments. I never tell myself I’m lonely. I tell myself I’m bored. So I go do something fun😊 May the Good Lord bless you and your family 🙏

[@anitanapp6759]

Garrett Oneal this is a year later since you posted! I hope you got to go on great adventures, journeys and a new chapters in your life! Wish I could do all that t

[@rubabrahman9497]

This video is literally the most realistic advice on loneliness I have seen on youtube.

[@KnowledgeSeeker78491]

Man this message was right on time...I love the internet. You didn't mention god, nor did you mention the myth of everyone having these so call friends we can depend on.

[@maggieadams8600]

Thank you Noah for your arc that is saving the earth's inhabitants that are drowning in a sea of lonely feelings.

[@skeeterburke]

my husband left, I am now disabled with an inoperable tumor in my brain, and left to raise my son, my only child, by myself while I try to live with my parents whom I really despise but try to hide that every day. But this morning I didn't burn the house down so that's good. "those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength" - #hisnameisYehoVAH

[@newscough8222]

anita, you are brave and awesome. thanks for sharing what you are going through. i hope you feel better i will pray for you.

[@ayepyaesone7591]

Thanks a lot for your speech. Now I feel lonliness. But after watching this video, I releive and have strength to live happily in my life. Actually, the most important thing in my life is not having boyfriend. Being alone can make me not to worry to lose something. So, I will do the things that will make me happy. I love my life.

[@persianbunny3239]

This video really helped me to understand what my problem is. Thank you so much

[@lia8576]

I've felt lonely for a while and I've never really liked it. I searched up on KZbin "What to do when you're lonely" because I needed help. Your video was the first I saw and I clicked on it. I cried because you actually helped me and my suffering. I might still suffer a bit, but I will not suffer as much as I did before and I just wanna thank you so much for helping me and other people. Thank you!

[@callyj8922]

This was a beautiful reminder to love myself. Your voice is also so calming and friendly. Thank you, I needed this right now. :)

[@nowi4300]

Noah is so good! This girl I met online stops all those terryfing existencial thoughts I have. Now I know why I love spending time with her and having her in my life - she takes soo much of my mental time that I feel at peace knowing that I have her, she cares after me and that I will meet her in the future

[@isabellajames157]

There is someone who can actually attract the person you love and your soulmate to you. Believe me it works very fast!

[@isabellajames157]

He's the same man that helped me attract my lover back , his name is Dr Steve, he can help you out too.

[@isabellajames157]

WHTSSAP Him

[@isabellajames157]

[phone]....

[@lucylocket118]

I don't think that anyone truly happy being alone well everyone likes being alone sometimes but I'm sick of having no friends or bf I feel so lonely and depressed because no one ever bothers with me or cares about me so why should I ?

[@KrisVic91]

+Sohcahtoa I don't know you but I love you.

[@skyalicejessi]

+Kris Vickers lovely message x

[@Jennifer-qf4od]

same..

[@Legendary____]

I never thought of this the way you explained it. My thoughts are what's causing my loneliness. And when I think of something I don't have I become alone. Thank you for this. I now understand where it comes from. I need to find my happiness from something that no one can give me. I can't rely on others. It's up to me. I will not give up.

[@alaskawolves]

I'm glad I found this video again.... Ty

[@IlakuSoKingg]

The people i hang around are really mean and are always sad , i just found out those friends are affecting me i used to feel lonely because i seperated myself from them but you had a great point no one can make you happy you have to find happiness within yourself

[@DZeynali]

I think if someone has the right partner(romantically), their loneliness will cease. I'm not talking about lovers, girlfriends, boyfriends(for women), or friends; I'm talking about a life-partner like a wife. It's this culture we live in that make it hard to find that life partner. Most people aren't worth it because they don't hold worthy values. Too liberal of a culture causes chaos in individual's lives. This video pretty much promotes being lonely because it is the better viable option in this society because people aren't worth pursuing. Yes, being lonely is better than wasting your time with most people in this culture. But in reality, a good circle of friends and a great spouse will solve your loneliness. I have a great circle of friends(all male) but I have not came across a worthy girl for myself.

[@missb1982]

I agree the right person could help with loneliness. but in reality even your wife or husband will have flaws too and may not always live up to the expectations you have in your mind. when you fantasize or think of your wife you are thinking of only good times, not the actual hell that will pop up eventually because life will never be perfect like we always fantasize situations we want to be. so yes I do think the right life partner can help, but I also think you definitely have to be secure and able to be alone if need be, otherwise you will be too needy and drain your partner.

[@TheHalfList]

This is a legit point, but if u master what Noah's talking about in this vid, u will be able to be happy all the time, and it will make finding a partner so much more enjoyable and less stressful.

[@OO-il6sl]

very true

[@giggles1219]

Daniel. YES! EXACTLY!

[@karrykay1728]

Daniel true👌🏾

[@tanysha1450]

The mind controls the entire body in a spectacular way. What a marvellous organ, a superve machine. Am grateful that there are people out there that help others understand how thoughts work and transform our daily lives. May God bless you Mr. Elkrief. Thanks for helping us remember how special and important we all are... thoughts are just thoughts

[@robgaming278]

im 10 years old i have felt lonely and deprisd i have no friends to play with atound me it makes me so sad that i crie alot it makes me feel like I want to run away and never come back it has not been easy for me my parents have tried there best to make me happy but evrey time i thinck that im happy people come and makes it a bumpy road for me when i make it to the end of the road i get pushed back to the start over and over and over again so if you have the same thing your not the only one im with you thanckyou for taking your time to listen to me god bless you

[@michaelb.tysonson3375]

gaming tv You need to become Good Looking, and Cooler, Taller, and Buffer... You will have tons of friends and get tons of Girls You will be happy and have alot of fun You need to stop playing video and focus on improving yourself You're about to hit Puberty You can possibly grow Tall, Big, Buff, Good Looking and you will have fun, tons of friends, any girl you want become rich You need to start playing sports and exercise You need eat alot of healthy food Get alot of sleep Make sure you are healthy and getting nutrients Maybe take supplements To become better looking Keep perfect straight Head posture and breathe only through your nose or else you will become ugly Also look up Mike Mew, show it to your parents, Tell them how important your Looks are in life and school, how important Face, Height and body is for all of life And you want to do something about it Look into improving your Health and Looks if you want not be Depressed and lonely, it will get way better youll be popular have girlfriends or else it will get worse Do what ever you can to improve your looks, it's everything in life Look into HIIT sprinting to grow taller

[@charmainebaptiste119]

rob gaming27hi buddy, have you tried to join a church? there is an endless amount of love there. You will find encouragement as well. Please, read a kids version of the Bible . You will find joy and peace. But more importantly you will learn that god did not create you to feel lonely. Take care and keep your head up!

[@serenity777mylonas5]

If your reading this. You are loved. You are of value. May god bless you

[@debbieharriman4048]

I wish I could be a child again

[@abhaysinghrajpurohit2641]

seriously

[@Nursejuliewellness]

Thank you so much for this Noel!!! As you put in so succinctly, the solution isn't what the brain and society tells us. Solution is the error in our thinking and judgement. This was so insightful and helpful. I, too was thinking I needed to seek others to handle feeling loneliness, but became more clearer, that was actually causing more sense of loneliness. This is much appreciated.

[@Sebas78888]

I don't want to die alone. I mean, it is good if you stop torturing yourself with thoughts, but living all the time alone is just sad. At least for me.

[@johnf3113]

Sebastián Muñoz one could have a mate yet feel the loneliest person in the world. That's sad!

[@theicberg]

Noemi+ If that is the case you are with the wrong person beside ; when we talk about a "companion" is not just anybody that happens to be just our "mate", but that person has to be "compatible" with you, You both has to have "chemistry", for if there is not, you are better without that mate , and therefore still feel "lonely" When we are with the right person (and notice I didn't say "perfect person") things get a lot easier and both will enjoy deeply each other company.

[@fredbower7922]

Noah, you have a great message and a compassionate delivery. Great food for thought. Wished I could afford your sessions. Keep up your positive contribution!

[@Mayuri1994ify]

wow this was on point

[@JeshiaSmily]

Yeahhh

[@moonbeam5188]

You're helping a lot of people think correctly and maybe saving lives. Thank You!

[@ausiillia]

When I’m in class a girl always cries everybody goes up to her but when I’m upset nobody comes up to me as I think there my friend, I feel lonely

[@honestlycookie3570]

Same here.There is this one girl everyone gets along with and everyone cares about then there's me.When it was my birthday,no one gave a shit.Some even moked a girl singing happy burthday to me.In her birthday,everyone in the dressing room sang happy birthday,EVERYONE.When i cried,only one person cared.When she cried,everyone was so worried about her and got up in a crowd.I just want as many people to care for me like they do for her...

[@baraamahfoud7851]

Thank you again..why are you not on this chanell any more..we miss you..you are really a good friend even we have never met before..

[@helghastisgood]

But I feel like I don't feel bad sometimes because I'm simply distracting myself from the fact that I'm alone. Whenever my brother goes out with his friends, I get sad because I realize that I want that. I'm tired of distracting myself constantly to avoid the truth. You say "some moments" you don't feel alone, that's true but that's really like for an hour or two every week. I often cry myself to sleep because I realize that I don't have friends and that I can't connect with other people. Does anybody else feel like this?

[@happyvirk1]

yes I'm in the same boat with you, since you already realize you don't have friends, why don't you make some? starting with me....I'm your friend...., I'm taking depression medicine since 2007 and still struggling, but some lessons of my life I have learned just cuz of depression....so I don't use the word depression anymore I call it teacher

[@happyvirk1]

And please don't think crying is a bad thing, if you do think it is... I often cries and it feels good cuz crying is like removing all negative thoughts with tears

[@srsjsjsks]

hi b

[@kireking2506]

Javier Aguilar oh trust me, your not the only one. Same story here, the wanting for a friend Is major.

[@stevenstallings5318]

im in the same situation but I am a only child and my parents don't talk to me and everyone at my school thinks that im retarded I don't know what to do

[@dianavillanuevaguerrero2250]

I will never be alone, having myself is enough, doing things alone, living alone makes you enjoy of your own company and realize how special you are.

[@seanmartin2519]

Sorry Noah, I usually agree with most of the points you make in your videos but when it comes to loneliness I believe it stems from something other than thoughts. We are social creatures, we're meant to interact with one another. It's like telling someone who is in love and trying to get over someone by saying "Your love is a thought" when it's not. It's a primal instinct to be part of the pack. Also to reference the "You don't feel lonely all the time" point, well I'm sure people going through breakups don't miss their partner 24/7, they'll be distracted by something but it doesn't mean that they don't love them anymore. It's just a distraction. What I'm saying is loneliness is a feeling not caused by thoughts. My mind can be totally vacant, I know I don't need someone to be happy and that this moment is fine despite the fact I'm alone but I have this inner need to connect with someone.

[@sarahsmith3016]

Definitely felt like this video could have been more in depth

[@jpierce8148]

I agree with you somewhat. It's hard to ignore loneliness when your body also craves attention from another whether that is physical/sexual or social. The problem with your statement is that, yes, we humans need to socialize and interact every now and then to satisfy horniness or boredom; however, you could find sex or friendship in anyone on the planet whenever you want. The issue is you don't want just anyone to sleep with or become friends with, you want a specific person with specific traits both physical and personality. Your thoughts are telling you that you need to be friends with someone who also has the same interests in Star Wars and football, not the guy who likes Indian Jones and Redsox. Yes, you desire sex as an instinct, but your mind (ego) is telling you to sleep with the blonde girl with big boobs, not the bookworm. Loneliness stems from your ego, or the lack of being able to satisfy your ego. You feel so much shame that you feel like there is something wrong with you when you aren't able to make the ego happy through societal standards, which you then isolate yourself until you can find ways to satisfy the ego again or, at least, get away from triggers that upset it. Loneliness is mental, because you can connect with anyone on the planet, you just want to connect with certain people who may reject you, because they too have egos to "satisfy".

[@ronignino]

Dude i agree with you...but what he says its real. If we dont think we dont need anyone in order to feel lonely, then we are not going to feel lonely. But if you are 100% sure that you need friends and a wife to be happy, you need to focus on that and put all your effort in it.your probably going to fail like everyone else, but life is hard and will beat you till you fell to your knees, after that you have to choose whether you give up or you just keep trying to achieve your goals.

[@pacospain5042]

I agree on you and I even am diabetic more feelings going around my situation is exactly what you described

[@najuan123]

We are put on this earth by ourselves and we will die by ourselves, God put us on earth alone so we are born with the tools to be happy so he is right we should be able to be happy by ourselves

[@wcam7822]

loneliness is miserable. im lonely most of the time. no friends, no spouse. no human contact -my answer is " i want my girlfriend back" that wont ever happen. i want option 3... friends, romantic partner and no loneliness. right now, i feel lonely all the time. i cant distract myself from these thoughts

[@Alexander-cd9zx]

+Canna Sayit i feel exactly the same as you.Fucked up feeling :/

[@dominicc2017]

same now my resting face is ( o o ) ( ------ )

[@dominicc2017]

+Dominic C sorry tablet glitched out

[@elperroreggae]

Plays Cool shit, same

[@MariaAlvarez-xh2ei]

This video is very helpful thanks so much

[@ChuckNorris-xy5pj]

I'm pretty sure this guy's videos has saved my life. I've had dark thoughts lately. The depression from feeling unwanted and rejected has taken its toll. The video made so much sense.

[@sanseeker]

This was really uplifting and just what I needed to hear right now! Thank you for this wonderful video

[@Kindred-Soul]

if you have lost someone close via death [ in my case my mum, the only family i had left and, no matter what [ even if you arranged grief help, but even they let you down as being too little and having to wait a year and a half for a visit] you can not recover from their death - your 'so-called' friends dump you as soon as you ask for support, leaving you then without anyone, the loneliness builds and builds. being disabled, housebound due to agoraphobia along with severe mdd and a lot of other illnesses [ though when mum was alive? she'd help me get out and about a bit ] plus your health is going down hill faster and faster and no, i can not afford a full time live in carer and no one can replace my mum - my only support is the samaritans. loneliness is a killer. sadly, no one can bring back my mum and no one these days has time, or remembers you exist - these days too many just do not care or look out for others any more. if i had a female friend to visit, even to be taken out as being a female myself it would be nice, but there is no one around - same with males. the only time i may see a human is when my medicines are delivered, that's it. i'd love to and need people in my ''life'' but how and to be honest? in lots of ways, feels too late for me now, i am and have been at an end point. even the local church was hopeless, the person who came round was only interested in getting me to believe in god and did not like it because i can not, so she put me down further on the two visits as in putting my appearance down, my home, my clothes, everything she found fault in - i do not need that, so i said goodbye and no, they never said sorry. sad thing is, those that i do know of that yes, i could try and ''run'' back to, i almost want to, as least i got some human contact, a hug, a feeling of being a human still. please no one judge me, i've suffered much and i am just pouring my heart out. i'd do anything to have my mum back and would love to have real friends not the fakes i've obviously had, just for me i guess it is too late and well, no one can bring mum back and even the memories just make me sob with more despair. i wish everyone else the very best, its not much but i offer all of you a hug and hope those that do feel lonely find what they need and i am sorry for the ramble. i am in agony in all ways.

[@missb1982]

hello. I know how you feel to an extent. I grew up in an abusive household and made horrible life decisions when it came to men and friends. I am now a single parent and my father was murdered in 2012 and he was the only one who I felt understood me. we weren't always on good terms but when we got on good terms I felt complete for the first time in my life. then he was gone. after his death, I became very sick, had to get on different medications and have surgeries etc. also got into a relationship because I was hurting and lonely after losing my father, and he ended up being abusive and taking from me. I also went to my church who told me they would email or call me and it never happened. I have no one to confide in, no friends. I pray a lot and read my bible and go to God. I guess what I'm trying to say is you are not alone, there are others going through similar feelings, and if it was your time to go, then you would be gone. I have my moments, but overall I keep dreams and hope alive because as long as you are alive, circumstances can and will change if you have patience. keep expecting and God will work it out for you. my fathers death anniversary was feb 16 and I wasn't sad this year when a few years ago I didn't think this could ever be possible. you have to make up in your mind that you refuse to give up no matter what. yes you will have bad days, but you will have better days too. bottom line is while we are here on earth we ALL will endure happiness and pain and I'm not underplaying your pain by any means. I'm saying you're not as alone as you think you are. we are all fighting, fighting to find our happiness. I do believe things will change one day. Feeling sorry for yourself will sink you into further depression.. sometimes I am so lonely feeling , all I have is Netflix and I hate watching movies lol. many days I just lie in bed and look at my ceiling and walls for hours because I have no one to talk to. I will pray for you , you will get through it, we all will get through it.

[@froomite]

Your situation sounds really hard and my heart goes out to you. I am also suffering from loneliness and just coming out of a period of depression. Days can go by without me having any real meaningful contact with anyone and I'm too sick to really have the energy and motivation to make new friends. Fortunately I have family and a few good friends that really helps but there are days when I don't see anyone and start to feel lonely again. I'm thinking that if I can somehow connect to God then the feelings of loneliness will go away. I think feeling connected to God would solve this for me. Maybe it would do the same for you.

[@jj-yd6eq]

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