How To Get Over A Break Up - Instant Impact

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Noah Elkrief

Noah Elkrief

Күн бұрын

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@lovemecom3832
@lovemecom3832 7 жыл бұрын
Eventually you will realize that happiness is not the absence of problems, but simply the ability to deal well with them. Imagine all the wondrous things your mind might embrace if it weren’t wrapped so tightly around your struggles. Always look at what you have, instead of what you have lost. Because it’s not what the world takes away from you that counts; it’s what you do with what you have left.
@Dafnesharing
@Dafnesharing 5 жыл бұрын
All right, thank's also yours, were words I needed to hear and loved to! Thank's because I'm gonna do something good with things, animals and people including family, who are always with me, because those are the ones who really count in my life meant to make with and for me the best things!!
@jaredgaming4k
@jaredgaming4k 4 жыл бұрын
Your word's touch my heart , Sometimes it's so hard to look at what you have when that person you was with they were everything you have
@jenniverse5086
@jenniverse5086 3 жыл бұрын
thank you 🙏🏼
@oldschool8330
@oldschool8330 4 жыл бұрын
What hurts is that their opinion of us has changed. They once had a good opinion of us and now they don’t. That’s where the pain comes from.
@KenjiiSykes
@KenjiiSykes 3 ай бұрын
While it is true that the pain of someone changing their mind or opinion of you is real, we must not forget that change is the only constant in life, nothing in nature is the same all year round. And in just the same way people change, grow, discover their true needs and wants and have different desires in different phases of their life. I know how much it hurts to love someone and consider them everything you ever wanted and them not being able to reciprocate, but never are our needs more important than somebody else's, and so we must accept the pain with grace and not make it mean anything about us or our worth and lovability.
@d0n315
@d0n315 2 жыл бұрын
A doctor once told me *“Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness”*
@lordcecilix
@lordcecilix 7 жыл бұрын
Mate, I've watched dozens of videos to deal with the problems I have, and none have helped as much as yours. The way you explain things let's me know that you actually understand the complexities of depression, anxiety and the like. Thank you, and keep up the good work, and I'll keep fighting the good fight.
@lindsaylewis5905
@lindsaylewis5905 Жыл бұрын
Isn't he the best! So lucid and clear! :)
@smartgal2010
@smartgal2010 7 жыл бұрын
I tend to think that once the damage is done your best bet is to pull the plug on the relationship. No matter how hard it might seem. People are cruel and chasing after someone who does not love you is like chasing the wind. Love yourself and move on. Men are a dime a dozen and he's not the last coca cola in the desert
@MrThatscute
@MrThatscute 4 жыл бұрын
"...chasing after someone who does not love you is like chasing the wind." WOW Thank you for that!
@madysondrewniak2809
@madysondrewniak2809 8 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend of 1 year broke up with me saying I mistreated him. even tho I gave him everything I had. I put in so much time and effort into trying to make him happy. he seemed happy too tho... he cheated on me when it hit 8 months. I was crying and everything. I told my family, friends. and they told me to leave him. but I didn't. He told me I wasn't enough for him. then blocked me on everything. I tried talking to him. but that made me cry way more. my advice is to block them! stop talking to them! thats the sign that they aren't the one. so now you have to move on and find the one. and trust me, it will be hard. but in the future someone will love you way more.
@dhritiunadkat
@dhritiunadkat 7 жыл бұрын
Madyson Drewniak my boyfriend broke up with me because of me smoking and drinking. I had one shisha and few drinks...never been drunk wanted to compromise with him....even risked my life to answer his call but it wasn't enough
@madysondrewniak2809
@madysondrewniak2809 7 жыл бұрын
Dhriti Unadkat I'm so sorry. I hope you are doing better now
@meh9634
@meh9634 7 жыл бұрын
can i ask how you are now?
@horacesilver5238
@horacesilver5238 7 жыл бұрын
i wish I could see that. My relationship was only 4 months and I'm still in a little bit of pain....6 months after the fact. Days overall are getting better...but still
@moneyflow3076
@moneyflow3076 7 жыл бұрын
Wow i wish u were my girl my gf left me when i quote on quote cheated on her
@jessepp4351
@jessepp4351 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I've been dealing with my breakup for the last couple months and whenever the pain gets too much, I always come back to this video and the pain numbs for a while. So thank you for making my life feel a little bit less awful. Thank you so much.
@halloweenfan882
@halloweenfan882 7 жыл бұрын
hope your good now jess 👌👊💯
@jenniverse5086
@jenniverse5086 3 жыл бұрын
i’m here hoping your heart is healed
@luisquinones6081
@luisquinones6081 8 жыл бұрын
My ex fiance broke up with me about two months ago ,I got sick and we lost our apartment now she got married two weeks ago and it devastated me . thank you for the help Noah . it had been really hard but your videos have helped a lot .
@sonialoves444
@sonialoves444 9 ай бұрын
i know it’s been years, but if you receive this message, how are you doing now?
@Mimi-wp1cx
@Mimi-wp1cx 7 жыл бұрын
We broke up a couple of days ago after being together for 4 years and being engaged. I'm having a very hard time because I want to find a way to speed up my healing time. It took 4 years to build something and 1 day for it to be destroyed. It's hurtful.
@rogerfriddle726
@rogerfriddle726 5 жыл бұрын
This EXACT Same thing just happened to me...what happened?
@a.b.2385
@a.b.2385 4 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatewheelchair please don't give ppl such bs advice. It's just not true
@a.b.2385
@a.b.2385 4 жыл бұрын
@@chocolatewheelchair i was told once that it takes the half time. It takes individual time...depending on the ppl, the relationship, the amount of drama 😁 etc... Fe. I had a seven year long relationship. We were 18 when we met and we just developed in totally different ways. I realized that during the relationship and it didn't really needed long (maybe 3 months) to get over it. Two months ago I moved out from a covert narcissist after a year relationship and I'm still sometimes having flashbacks and outburst in tears...I don't really know how long that one will last...emotional abuse is without compare. Life is slowly getting colorful again,but it may last a bit longer than the one before. Hope not two years... I would kill myself 🤣
@patricklewis5676
@patricklewis5676 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going through the same thing. I can’t get over her.
@a.b.2385
@a.b.2385 4 жыл бұрын
@@patricklewis5676 how? What is rousing through your mind? How long have you been together and how did it end? I'm sorry that you are suffering. Hope you can soon find a way to get through it :/ I moved to another town, so I'm alone a lot. My friends are not too far away, but I feel the need to spend time with myself. Music and arts help me a lot. I take good care of my needs and my body with healthy food and exercise. When I'm tired I take a nap. I go to the forest when my mind is too active, that helps heaps to slow it down. When I feel like it I take a bath fe. I started meditating in the mornings (which brought also very unpleasant feelings to the surface, but I feel that my days are somehow smoother when I do it) Just be kind to yourself. You're not alone and you deserve it to be appreciated!
@treeseer1573
@treeseer1573 8 жыл бұрын
This is true but their opinion is so important BC we love that person. Put so much into them. The emotions and history is strong. It's heart breaking.
@aishwaryadargopatil
@aishwaryadargopatil 8 жыл бұрын
this video was a instant relief....This was what i needed to hear. This video was like it was personalized for me and the thoughts I am going through now.... Thank you so much
@jenniverse5086
@jenniverse5086 3 жыл бұрын
i’m here with you 🙏🏼💖
@matthewgay8867
@matthewgay8867 8 жыл бұрын
Just had my first real and serious relationship end today. This video was exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you
@aliciamurray3408
@aliciamurray3408 8 жыл бұрын
+Matthew Gay me too! hang in there
@newshki
@newshki 8 жыл бұрын
This was exactly what I needed to hear. I was the one who initiated the break up but I felt he left me no choice & although its been almost 2 months I've been having a hard time getting over it, we were together for 5 yrs. Thank you Noah! I feel better already.
@jenniverse5086
@jenniverse5086 3 жыл бұрын
same here, hope everything has worked out to the best
@TheChandan3343
@TheChandan3343 5 жыл бұрын
I have seen soooo sooo many videos about how to move from break up in the past 3 months but your one is the best simply the best and truthful. Thank you so much for helping me and so many out there come out of sorrow , loneliness, and depression. Much love from India
@mushahidhussain1516
@mushahidhussain1516 7 жыл бұрын
I had been in a relationship for an year. But she cheated and left me for my best friend. I now think I've lost both she and my best friend. I was feeling the worst then, came to your videos. I go to college everyday, we sit in the same class. It's really hard, but you know it's working. You're videos are really great. I hope, I'll soon be better.
@DanielValentinClauss312thxtcr
@DanielValentinClauss312thxtcr 7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much for this. this has saved me from walking a path of self-hate, self-destruction, and unhappiness that could have been caused by a recent break-up. i feel like an entirely new person.
@rosaguzman9511
@rosaguzman9511 8 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me because he's ex started texting him and one day he decided to text her back and he said he realised he still had feelings for her and that he misses her, he broke up with me over a text message, the bad thing is i went through alot of stuff with my family because of that relationship cause they didnt like him. now I just feel like crying all the time.
@dastimfpv6888
@dastimfpv6888 7 жыл бұрын
Rosa Guzman I really feel for you, same thing happend to me. My girlfriend went back to her ex husband, she stopped returning my calls and then I got a text about her wanting to be single and not to ever text or call her anymore. I stayed in bed crying for 3 days and finally I got a call from her, I was so happy but it was to tell me her and her ex husband decided to work things out. I was so hurt, but now looking back on it, it was a blessing. You don't want people like that in your life, you deserve better than that. Stay strong.
@ehiggins360
@ehiggins360 4 жыл бұрын
Try to change the narrative and see this chapter and experience as a gift. Use your suffering to transform you into who you want to be, how you want to feel, and what you want in your life. We often hold into bad relationships in order to avoid facing parts of ourselves that we don’t want to look at or that we don’t want to do the work to improve.
@AndersAlecks
@AndersAlecks 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for every one of your videos. You have given me strategies that have saved me a lot of heart break and anxiety, keep making a difference.
@sh3lieMa3
@sh3lieMa3 9 жыл бұрын
You look like Nev and Max from Catfish MTV, combined
@Jimboh8
@Jimboh8 9 жыл бұрын
+ibuprofanity That's creepily accurate.
@enchantria5983
@enchantria5983 8 жыл бұрын
such a beautiful combination, then... *swoons like a school girl* You are gorgeous, Noah!
@nodeal4791
@nodeal4791 6 жыл бұрын
ibuprofanity hes gorgeous and very intelligent.
@XxCorrinnexX
@XxCorrinnexX 6 жыл бұрын
Omg so friggin true
@janetgibbons7885
@janetgibbons7885 5 жыл бұрын
This is where alot of people muss the boat! If you have faith and believe in God you don't have to worry about what others opinions and outcomes are! Just put God first, pray and ask the Holy Spirit for strength and guidance and steer you in the right direction while asking for the right people to come into your life! We take things into our own hands ( the flesh) instead if going to God for our daily bread which is the first step in the right path in achieving happiness in life! Amen! Amen!
@katymoe8150
@katymoe8150 7 жыл бұрын
He will never come back to me. I cant stop thinking about him. i love him .
@monopalisa619
@monopalisa619 6 жыл бұрын
How are you doing now?
@queenofthorns4053
@queenofthorns4053 4 жыл бұрын
You and I are on the same situation. I just lost my love and I feel so sad and lost without him. Now I have to find my peace, release him so he can be happy. I don't want to be without him but I have to let him go and find happiness. Losing him for his peace and happiness is part of me loving him.
@doobdoob2
@doobdoob2 7 жыл бұрын
There's someone I love so deeply right now, but I can't have them. It hurts everyday. The most special person I ever met in my life.
@doobdoob2
@doobdoob2 6 жыл бұрын
barely lol I'm doing better. The ole father time struck again lol :D
@horacesilver5238
@horacesilver5238 7 жыл бұрын
Having my ex break up with me, although heartbreaking at the time...inspired the biggest growth I've ever experienced. I took a long, hard look inward and the change has been monumental. Is it still painful? Sure. But I accept all the pain with loving gratitude. Suffering is amazing for growth
@ellafield1246
@ellafield1246 5 жыл бұрын
Out of EVERYTHING that I have viewed and explored; YOU are SPOT ON!!! Thank you for understanding and presenting the TRUTH about what makes us think the way we think.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 10 ай бұрын
I already know I’m great, and lovable, and worthy Noah I don’t need anyone to tell me that.
@kylerrariden8909
@kylerrariden8909 7 жыл бұрын
This video really points out how one-sided relationships can be. It seems to me that most relationships exist so that one partner can make the other feel better about themselves. Not that this has any negative or positive connotation, I just think that this is a great way to understand how people develop dependencies on relationships.
@marcosvidal2797
@marcosvidal2797 3 жыл бұрын
which is also normal and fine
@anietytretra7168
@anietytretra7168 8 жыл бұрын
This video has helped me so much. I just went though one yesterday and still feeling very sad, but hopeful to move on
@TubokNaey
@TubokNaey 6 жыл бұрын
WOW! You've addressed every single aspect ON POINT! Thank you! I wish I saw your videos before I broke up with my boyfriend. I can't change the past...but I now have a much better understanding of why I suffer emotionally...and now I have a much better way of handling my emotions and thoughts. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
@MacAndKeys
@MacAndKeys 9 жыл бұрын
I love you, Noah! haha, but seriously, I found your videos a month ago when I had JUST gotten broken up with, and you provided me with a lot of comfort. It's getting better every day, but it's still nice to hear your words. so thank you for talking more about this topic! if i hadn't gone through the break-up, I would have never found you, so that's definitely a positive thing i've gotten out of the ordeal.
@coolbian513
@coolbian513 9 жыл бұрын
Noah Elkrief hey, can you do a video specifically on letting go...thx
@MacyLuv
@MacyLuv 9 жыл бұрын
Amen to that
@mariobertachini6081
@mariobertachini6081 7 жыл бұрын
Noah I cannot find the words to express enough my gratitude, this video has helped me far than I expected. Anyway, thanks a lot !
@thecrazymuzician1
@thecrazymuzician1 8 жыл бұрын
You have seriously helped me reshape my self image and have really made an impact on my life. Thank you!
@taina313
@taina313 9 жыл бұрын
literally everything he says has more than hit the nail on the head....
@NoahElkrief
@NoahElkrief 9 жыл бұрын
franchesca r Glad to hear it Franchesca
@bossychick1234567890
@bossychick1234567890 4 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful...i had to leave someone that took me for granted and never putting me first... and it hurts like hell but this is helping me... thank you🥰
@helmutjorg9073
@helmutjorg9073 4 жыл бұрын
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@bossychick1234567890
@bossychick1234567890 4 жыл бұрын
I m ok thank you
@Gourgandise
@Gourgandise 5 жыл бұрын
I stumble on this video even though I don't have a breakup to get over, I'm curious, I click. I really appreciate the tone you have and the way you explain things. KZbin needs more people like you, who elevates people and give advice for free. Altruism as its finest.
@jamesgriffin8927
@jamesgriffin8927 8 жыл бұрын
Noah your videos took a lot of pressure off of me with my recent breakup. you helped me realize that im going to be ok and while i dont quite feel it yet, I will be.
@HugDealer
@HugDealer 5 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely awesome. So wise and insightful. Thank you so much for this video!!!! Golden!!
@swayslay2070
@swayslay2070 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you Noah .. it’s harsh to arrive to the reality that someone you love doesn’t love you anymore and wants nothing to do with you any longer.. but it’s not impossible .. you just need to respect their decision 😔
@innogee8423
@innogee8423 5 жыл бұрын
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@randyhandbag
@randyhandbag 9 жыл бұрын
You should definitely do a guided meditation video with music, you have one of the most relaxing voices to listen to.I just started watching your videos today and they are fantastic keep up the good work.
@NoahElkrief
@NoahElkrief 9 жыл бұрын
randyhandbag I'm glad you enjoyed it. I have one guided meditation, but I will probably do more soon. With music is a nice idea
@ledesalaura6793
@ledesalaura6793 8 жыл бұрын
What you do is making a real difference in people's lives,.. I have so much gratitude! Thank you soooooooo much Noah Elkrief !!!! ..~*So much love*~..
@Ilana61
@Ilana61 7 жыл бұрын
wow Noah, this makes so much sense! when you explain it step by step in such a comprehensive way it makes my mind clear from all that stories that been in my head all this time!! I this is the best advice ever about how to heel the broken heart! thank you Noah! 😀be blessed
@missy941
@missy941 8 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend of 10years was cheating on me for a few months and I knew in the pit of my stomach that he was being unfaithful, so I confronted him he lied obviously. Then the girl he was having sex with I got in contact with her she supported me and told me everything. He blamed me and her for everything but not himself. He beat me for confronting him. I wish I can forget him but it's proving difficult. Because he made me feel he loved me but he was using me all along. He didn't care for me. I just want to know how can I get over him and love myself? X
@crochetsmooches
@crochetsmooches 8 жыл бұрын
I'm so, so happy I found you.....you are so factual and right about everything.
@zackdl
@zackdl 8 жыл бұрын
This saved me. Thank you so much Noah. This is a whole new perspective that I have never seen before!
@chica13lexi
@chica13lexi 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so grateful I found you because you have explained so many things that I’ve been keeping in my head and today I woke up and said it needs to stop I have to gain my masculine energy back after being too feminine for a too masculine man.
@meilang7389
@meilang7389 3 жыл бұрын
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@dianadenis4163
@dianadenis4163 3 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
@dianadenis4163
@dianadenis4163 3 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
@dianadenis4163
@dianadenis4163 3 жыл бұрын
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@kira-zg1xs
@kira-zg1xs 4 жыл бұрын
I've seen this video 5 years ago, i had lost my self in those thoughts and this video helped so much! 5 years after and im still sending this video to my friend who has a has a harsh brake up. Thank you alot!
@kira-zg1xs
@kira-zg1xs 4 жыл бұрын
@Kate Jenny really? I wanted to say thank you to the person who helped me 5 years ago... And u gonna turn it into a sales comment.. no no no my dear.. if some one brake up. you dont match. no need to chase any exes ew. And get another job if you dont know how abd where to market you products properly. Idiot
@lindsaylewis5905
@lindsaylewis5905 Жыл бұрын
You are a very good feeling translator. A big compliment coming from a language translator!
@Ninasee19
@Ninasee19 7 жыл бұрын
I love u. You are the best. Thank you for making this video. I know I'm gonna listen to u again and again till it sinks which is already happening right this moment. Thanks again!
@PeteCranfield
@PeteCranfield 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for what you've done, Noah. You have enlightened me. At least, I can think about suicide less often. I can now view a relationship from another perspective - hoping that I can get over this miserable feeling caused by my ex soon.
@lindsaylewis5905
@lindsaylewis5905 Жыл бұрын
It's horrible to be in the dungeon of despair. Also have been there. Learning to love ourselves is not taught- but he really helps. Hang in!
@MrDrummerman32
@MrDrummerman32 9 жыл бұрын
Noah Elkrief I believe you've made a video a lot like this before, but let me say that your videos have helped me realize that it's my thoughts, which I can't touch nor prove, that control my emotions and that if someone left me their negative opinion of me is simply that and what I miss is the thoughts of pleasure I had when I was with them. Moreover, I can't look to them nor anyone for my happiness.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 4 жыл бұрын
Everything is created in your mind that makes perfect sense.
@davids6898
@davids6898 9 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is what I needed to hear today. My boyfriend called me up earlier and said that I don't make him happy. Watering it down to the very basic gist of why, he said it had to do with issues surrounding his feelings about him being homosexual and the reasons "why" he is that way which he attributes to things that happened in his childhood. There is no way I can make those thoughts go away. I wish there was. I wish there was a way for me to convince him that I cannot and make him want to stay in my life. I am so scared right now but this video is definitely something I needed to see.
@NoahElkrief
@NoahElkrief 9 жыл бұрын
dip1955 You're welcome, glad it helped. Good luck
@davids6898
@davids6898 9 жыл бұрын
Noah Elkrief This did help. Thank you so much! I think it was in another video where you said that there is no way you can make someones negative memories go away, and I basically told him the same thing. That no matter what I cannot remove his memories of his trauma. I can be there to lend a shoulder for him to cry on but I cannot take away his memories. Once I told him this he realized he was expecting me to remove his bad feelings which I cannot nor anyone else do. This changed his mood toward me and things are much better now. Thank you so much!
@jesseroussellmusic
@jesseroussellmusic 4 жыл бұрын
be here as yourself. who you ARE. amazing and true
@frankescandon1933
@frankescandon1933 8 жыл бұрын
Your videos have helped me so much, & my life has improved a lot, & I'm a lot happier. Thanks, noah :) it took me a long time to get over a break up with my ex wife, but I found someone that makes me happy :)
@raginisharma9302
@raginisharma9302 4 жыл бұрын
This is the best video I have ever watched to get over the loss of a relationship. Thanks for making it 🙏
@gracehelper4126
@gracehelper4126 4 жыл бұрын
WhatsApp him +2347014197854
@newscough8222
@newscough8222 6 жыл бұрын
this video should not only be shown to people with broken heart but also with anyone who wants to feel better about themselves.. Noah you are like a buddha am i exaggerating? firm no. thanks for spreading your words.
@LunarMarie
@LunarMarie 4 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and had a bad fight. A month went by when it hit me that I wanted him back but he'd already met someone elsebabd told me he no longer saw the spark between us. He had grieved the relationship already. We were practically married. I can't get over how quickly he moved on and how I'm not worth accepting back. I feel horrible and depressed. The memories feel pointless to have made now. And I see no reason to get with someone only to lose partners over and over again.
@nina5569
@nina5569 8 жыл бұрын
I want to feel better but it takes time I guess:((
@dastimfpv6888
@dastimfpv6888 7 жыл бұрын
nina you'll feel better in time, talking to friends and family is what's kept me alive through my breakup. The moment your alone, makes things so much worse so stay around friends.
@C1ERRA05
@C1ERRA05 7 жыл бұрын
nina it does take time. How are you managing now?
@nina5569
@nina5569 7 жыл бұрын
C1ERRA05 I feel better thank you, but he's back again ,if you won't cut them off from your life they will come back always, guys are assholes, not all of them of course; ))
@halloweenfan882
@halloweenfan882 7 жыл бұрын
not all is right nina lol 😂😫
@nina5569
@nina5569 7 жыл бұрын
lol Ikr 😏😏
@everay1846
@everay1846 4 жыл бұрын
Your analogies have such a deep inpact, awesome advice thank you that helps me a lot
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 3 жыл бұрын
My mother always tells me she loves me and I love you Christopher.
@khadinemcdougall6779
@khadinemcdougall6779 9 жыл бұрын
Great. So much time is spent in negative chat with yourself. Good video. Really brought perspective to right thinking
@NoahElkrief
@NoahElkrief 9 жыл бұрын
Khadine Mc Dougall Glad you enjoyed it Khadine
@phoq8880
@phoq8880 5 жыл бұрын
About 2 years ago I went through a serious breakup. And I watched this video over and over and over again. I want to thank you now for putting this video on KZbin. This really helped
@garyp411
@garyp411 6 жыл бұрын
good, realistic advice. i havent been dumped by anyone for a long time but i never realized what goes into the hurt. noah is the best.
@maipham4766
@maipham4766 8 жыл бұрын
wow i am so happy that i found your channel, this is so deep and helpful, thank you so much. your helping me so much with your videos!
@mohammadbilawal5709
@mohammadbilawal5709 9 жыл бұрын
You are amazing you changed my life I was about to quit my life to be very honest but then I just looked at your video and its a game changer... she left me 2 weeks back she wants to be my friend that's all. but thanks a lot to you :)
@annasofia4513
@annasofia4513 9 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much this just helped me
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 10 ай бұрын
When I was in a relationship with Tracci I worried about whether or not she loved me.
@susanasierra8508
@susanasierra8508 5 жыл бұрын
Let yourself just be here AS.YOU.ARE
@cchxx624
@cchxx624 9 жыл бұрын
wow thanks for the new perspective. i watched a few videos and this one is extremely great. in a bigger picture this is about how to be happy with who you are and stop constantly seeking for approval and caring about other opinion which in fact doesn't have anything to do with me. this video was like a meditation session for me, thanks. i feel better now.
@loveisshh509
@loveisshh509 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You took my thaughts to a different point. I needed this. Thank you so much. just an hour ago I was shouting and crying and breaking things but now, basically from now onwards, I'm sure I won't be affected by these mere issues much. Thank you.
@halloweenfan882
@halloweenfan882 7 жыл бұрын
hope your good now
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 4 жыл бұрын
My ex-girlfriend Tracci Ludwick never told me I love you because she’s been hurt to many times.
@ngalahansel6066
@ngalahansel6066 4 жыл бұрын
Don't know if it's ok to put their name out there
@chilisoup4843
@chilisoup4843 8 жыл бұрын
I have a long distance relationship & it lasted for 6 months & this girl is beautiful. She was everything to me & I went to see her 2 days ago to be with her for a weekend. As soon as I got there I kissed her. She said "I don't think we should be together" I instantly said "what the hell!" She slapped me & I got in my car & left. I traveled from Alabama to Virginia & I probably cried every second of the way... I can't do this
@khuranapriyanka
@khuranapriyanka 6 жыл бұрын
Chili Soup do you feel better today? I have a similar experience that's why I'm here
@jenniverse5086
@jenniverse5086 3 жыл бұрын
i hope u have found a princess by now
@Priyathatsmyname
@Priyathatsmyname 9 жыл бұрын
Pleas help me Noah :( my boyfriend and I broke up yesterday not because we don't love each other but because his parents would not accept our relationship and they made him choose between them and me and he chose them. I understand why he did this as he loves his parents very much and they have done a lot for him. I do not have any issues with feeling unloveable or anything like that, I just feel an overwhelming sense of grief and unfairness. Do you have any suggestions on how to deal with these feelings? We love each other very much and are best friends but how do we move on from a breakup that is essentially not our fault?
@roxineexo
@roxineexo 9 жыл бұрын
Omg we have same situation!!!! ): I can't get over him, I don't want to give up on him
@karakorummountainstories3051
@karakorummountainstories3051 8 жыл бұрын
+Priya Gunaseelan same is case with my girl . we formally broke up last nights as its seems impossible for her to go with me against her parents will (in a closed society) this is worst thing that parents doesn't let their children live their life as they want.. any how let me know if you got some thing related to this i have the same issue
@Priyathatsmyname
@Priyathatsmyname 8 жыл бұрын
roxineexo ZeO LOsT hey guys it's been a few months since this happened and I'm happy to say that I've moved on. It has been hard and there were many tears along the way but eventually I realised that holding onto him was not healthy for me and in order to move on I had to cut contact off completely. He was very cruel to me after the breakup and got annoyed at me for still loving him so I realised I had to let go in order to be happy again. As soon as I properly let go I was able to open my heart and I'm now in a new relationship with a loving great guy :) Don't worry you can move on it just takes time. I never thought I could stop loving him but sometimes love makes you blind to peoples flaws. As soon as I stopped loving I realised he wasn't always good for me.
@penpermanent
@penpermanent 8 жыл бұрын
+Priya Gunaseelan Thank you so much for sharing your story. Please remember that even though i never met you or have listen to you in person your story is being a great support for someone living in this globe to get through their hard time. Send you best wishes and love.
@mshill2406
@mshill2406 5 жыл бұрын
Man you are helping me get over a breakup. I needed a reminder of these things. This last relationship took a lot out of me.
@JonnyEaston
@JonnyEaston 8 жыл бұрын
Noah, i really can't thank you enough...
@logophile92
@logophile92 7 жыл бұрын
I smiled because I can literally relate to that example. @8:34-9:51 resonated with me, but not about hair color. My specific example, which is one of my most vivid childhood memories is when I was on a playground on some jungle gym with my sister nearby, and a boy said to me, "I like your sister better," and then went down the slide. Now, we looked even more identical as children than we do these days. I just remember feeling like I had been violently accosted and that it was nonsensical for this little boy to say something that stupid to me. I like this video, but as I listened to it, I thought, I wasn’t unhappy when I got broken up with because I believed I'm not worthy, lovable, good enough, etc., I was unhappy to be broken up with because he couldn't see how worthy, lovable, better than good enough, etc. I am!
@mwil619
@mwil619 8 жыл бұрын
so is there anything real about our thoughts?
@gamingisinourblood4251
@gamingisinourblood4251 6 жыл бұрын
Nope
@ZERA__
@ZERA__ 4 жыл бұрын
I am good enough..I'm loving this speech .. You saved the best for last .
@oaklandsoldier5920
@oaklandsoldier5920 6 жыл бұрын
Breakups stink. This emotional pain hurts. Especially at night and early in the morning. Suicidal thoughts every single day.
@e-jaypagalilauan4463
@e-jaypagalilauan4463 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This helped me delete negative thoughts in my life, and secure pleasure innerly. Not with the idea of her in my life.
@deepmehta6309
@deepmehta6309 7 жыл бұрын
Noah- by far, one of the best videos on you tube, wch sumarises all the videos, previously uploaded by you on you tube. Thank you v much. Keep on doing this good stuff.
@АннаКоваль-н3ы
@АннаКоваль-н3ы 8 жыл бұрын
Your videos are extremely helpful, thank you.
@Cherrymeanscherished
@Cherrymeanscherished 5 жыл бұрын
This is the best video on KZbin, thank you so much
@PoojaSharma-ru3cj
@PoojaSharma-ru3cj 5 жыл бұрын
I was in relationship with a guy for 3 years. We had decided to get married and our families too knew about it. But suddenly he said he doesn’t want to marry me as he feels i have lot of problems and he cant tolerate it. He said not just him but no one can possibly tolerate me. I don’t deny that I have some emotional issues due to my traumatic childhood and i shared my heart out with him thinking he will never judge me for it. But he used my weaknesses against me to show how pathetic person i am and made it an excuse to not marry me. Currently i have emotional problems, but i am working on it and it won’t be for long. But i never expected him to say such hurtful things to me that crushed my already broken soul. He too has problems, no one is perfect but no one deserves to be hurt for their imperfections. I have lost the hope that true love exists. Everyone is selfish and won’t think twice before ditching you.
@MitsuiSalgadoSaitoct
@MitsuiSalgadoSaitoct 5 жыл бұрын
that actually happened to me two weeks a go
@pinkygirl1975
@pinkygirl1975 9 жыл бұрын
Noah, Can you make a video about how to face/interact with your ex and their new partner in a social setting?
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 4 жыл бұрын
Tracci Ludwick became my ex-girlfriend because I couldn’t make her happy and she never called me or really loved me.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 4 жыл бұрын
Tracci Ludwick never verbally told me I Love You and she was afraid I would hurt her.
@Kennedy1op
@Kennedy1op 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely positively love this man! 👍😎✌️💙🖤 His videos need to be watched daily! When he gets into a rhythm, and on a roll with what he says, he is: 💥💯🔥👍👌
@alishpeach8
@alishpeach8 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is amazing at taking complex ideas and making it simple enough for us to understand, and more importantly I'm able to retain the information learned. Thank you so much! It has really helped me better understand my less than ideal situation and I feel a lot better.
@harrywoods2541
@harrywoods2541 4 жыл бұрын
I I know of a man who can bring your ex back to you within 48 hours, he brought back my ex 2 days ago, he can bring your ex back
@harrywoods2541
@harrywoods2541 4 жыл бұрын
His name is Dr Frank
@harrywoods2541
@harrywoods2541 4 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sapp
@harrywoods2541
@harrywoods2541 4 жыл бұрын
Text him on what sapp
@harrywoods2541
@harrywoods2541 4 жыл бұрын
+2349066185737
@mynando
@mynando 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this video. It's helped me tremendously. I really appreciate it. :)
@Briashanise
@Briashanise 9 жыл бұрын
Listen to these videos every night.. Really think it's helped me get over my break-up....,great videos!
@DiogoF.
@DiogoF. 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You are helping me a lot in getting over a relationship.
@bingetravelneat
@bingetravelneat 7 жыл бұрын
you told same things coming from my heart,even cleared some of my confusion about myself. i used to get affected a lot by others opinions about me. now I could watch your video. because I was resonating on same frequency. really nice video. wish u good luck. 👌👌👌
@paulyg17
@paulyg17 8 жыл бұрын
wow, i really needed that. thank you so much, i will relisten when times get hard. thank you for what you do
@hoodwink325
@hoodwink325 8 жыл бұрын
Noah, your videos have helped me, more than you know. Thank you.
@conanlovespiilani5006
@conanlovespiilani5006 7 жыл бұрын
I really feel better watch your videos Noah thanks alot man I had the feelings of depression coming over me and I just watch your videos and it goes away.
@chrismcevoy2503
@chrismcevoy2503 10 ай бұрын
I remember once saying to this girl named Becky Keena “I like you Becky, but I like Tracci more, who was another girl I went to school with Noah. I also went to school with Becky.
@mohsengholampur4546
@mohsengholampur4546 8 жыл бұрын
you are very logical and better than any psychiatrist.thanks
@radicalfmsatv3223
@radicalfmsatv3223 6 жыл бұрын
JUST BROKE UP WITH THE GIRL I LOVE SO MUCH 5 DAYS BACK AND SHE HAVE JUST MOVED ON AFTER A BREAKUP. I LOVED HER SO MUCH AND WERE EVEN PLANNING TO GET MARRY THIS NOVEMBER, I WAS SO COMMITTED TO HER. EVEN TOOK HER 3YRS OLD BABE AS MINE. AFTER BREAKUP, I NEVER WENT OUTDOOR, I NEVER SPEAK TO ANYONE AND NEVER HAD A PROPER MEAL. EVEN TODAY THE ONLY THING I HAVE IS MY LAPTOP AND NOTHING ELSE. I'VE BEEN CRYING WITH SLEEPLESS NIGHT. TERRIBLE AND I FEEL SO TRAUMATISED
@motivationalvideolibrary5823
@motivationalvideolibrary5823 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Noaf, Great observations. Isn't that when we are breaking up, we are telling the other that I have perceived this world around me in a different way which is having more dissimilarities from your perception of this world. And, none can ever make it to sense them similarly. It is bound to be dissimilar when it is perceived by two different people. The right match never exists in psychological field.
@CHATWITHAPT
@CHATWITHAPT 7 жыл бұрын
This video helped me through one of the toughest nights of my life
@khuranapriyanka
@khuranapriyanka 6 жыл бұрын
Mateo Este do you feel better today?
@dirtyrottenhikers4972
@dirtyrottenhikers4972 6 жыл бұрын
Watching this video after a breakup And I feel instantly better! Thank you so very much Sir. You are a Saint!
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