How to Deal With Sexual Performance Anxiety

[@champshannonthecannon5652]

Anybody else have a problem with overthinking. Hard during foreplay but when it comes down to it my mind is focused in it getting up and performing well that it’s just dead 😭🤣

[@ddolo6606]

Thats exactly the problem i am having, And the fact that it only happens when i am with the girl i really like and not the girls i hook up with from time to time is even more worrying.

[@champshannonthecannon5652]

@@ddolo6606 I’ll be honest. My works fine with call girls. But with girls I like.. dead. I think it has to do with porn I’m not sure. Trying to stop watching but it’s hard

[@shnpio]

@@ddolo6606 you’re the first person I’ve seen with this exact problem. If it’s a hookup it’s fine but with a girl I like I’m fine with foreplay and then fine once it comes to grabbing a condom. I feel it’s I don’t want to fuck up the relationship

[@roymarv5443]

Exactly had same experience 3 days before, never happened with me when I was casual with other girls. And she started doubting herself for this.

[@ej1847]

dead poet lol we need to have a tlk cuz I’m literally goin thru that rn

[@theuniverseinsideautism]

Im trying to learn more so I can help my partner with his anxiety.

[@AlijhaZ]

U can help me

[@raulguttierez7815]

👍

[@lolacola4103]

that’s so sweet of you

[@radupopa3427]

If you are a girl trying to get your guy to relax, never laugh when he's naked! 😅😂 don't talk about other things in bed, (it implies lack of interest) and don't "plan sex". "Let's cum together" killed more erections than old age.😅😂😂 Guys don't think during sex. Asking them something or asking them to do something reduces concentration and confidence. I know that normally women control the "dance" but men need to feel strong and in control otherwise they feel emasculated. If you want something to change just say something like "I would like to try....x" they will be happy to oblige 😅😉 men draw about 80% of the sexual pleasure from the feeling of accomplishment that they are pleasuring you. Orgasms are really short and not that important for guys. The process is the whole satisfaction but we can't hold for long 😅😂😂😂

[@glorialo8059]

Same trying to learn if ur the partner

[@justinvallejos7378]

Anxiety has played a big factor. As well as avoidance

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@tigranagajanian2651]

Guys if you are one of those people that is able to get an erection during masturbation but not during sex due to lack of experience, overthinking or bad past experiences then I wanted to suggest a few things that helped me personally at least feel confident to have sex again even though I’m still not 100% I’ve been able to feel confident enough to keep having it and improving and in the past after some bad experiences I was questioning whether I can ever have sex again because of how terrible the feeling of freezing and overthinking felt and how I embarrassing and stripping of my manhood that felt like. So let’s say you just had a bad experience you feel like you’re questioning things and feel super down and drained of energy. First thing first is take a few day break to yourself and spend time with close people to get yourself back to thinking a little more logically instead of emotionally. Then I suggest start to think of some reasons as to why you couldn’t get aroused during sex. That could be things like for me for example, watching too much porn to a point where I felt desensitized from the real sex and a result I couldn’t get aroused. The second time I had sex was with a person I trust and find attractive and by the time the opportunity came about to have it with her I stopped watching porn, cleaned my mind of any perverse thoughts that make me ashamed of myself as a result of masturbation addiction. Truly made sure I’m a person who I can be proud of (which helps in life as well not only is sex) and the day came about we started kissing things went well physically I felt an erection but as soon as the clothes came off, my mind went right back to that terrible experience I had and I froze up, my nightmare happened all over again, I went home morally destroyed because I put in all this work to make sure I’m back to normal after that terrible experience and I wasn’t able to despite all my efforts. The next day the girl texted me again that she wants to still meet up and that gave me confidence that maybe I was overthinking but she didn’t think of it as badly as I thought of myself. So I ended up opening up to her about my bad experience from last time and she took it very well and pretty much asked me why I didn’t tell her earlier and that it was fully okay. After that conversation she came over again and we had sex again and this time I still had some doubt from the day before so I wasn’t able to be 100% but I had times when I was fully erect and comfortable and glad that my doubts of never having sex again were proven wrong and I was able to still enjoy myself even if it’s not 100% it’s a start. So in conclusion try things like stop watching porn, make sure to work on any shameful sex thoughts that make your self esteem drop and if your next experience is bad again don’t worry, make sure it’s with a person you trust and can open up to because opening up helps a lot (with the right person though as I said). And during sex to help stop overthinking, try focus on one body part of hers/his, what helped me is grabbing some ass for example and fully putting my attention to it so that other thoughts wouldn’t have the opportunity to creep in, another thing I did is I kept controlling my breath and affirming myself in my head “I deserve to feel good right now and enjoy this moment” for example. All those things helped me go from the previous day of feeling absolutely hopeless to then being able to feel at least 60% myself during sex which isn’t amazing but at least now there’s some confidence to build on and you can always look at it as getting good in anything, like sports you need to be consistent, brave and willing to learn for example so I suggest to all the people that feel hopeless, get yourselves back up don’t lose doubt in yourselves because you are worthy of that experience as much as you may feel you’re not so fix some personal thoughts if you need to, take some time off but make sure to not quit and keep taking opportunities if you have any to experiment with sex and learn with someone you trust. Good luck fellow gentlemen of culture and much love!!

[@tigranagajanian2651]

@@cand1884 appreciate that massively bro, I’ve had some of my best experiences since posting this comment and even on the bad nights I no longer feel like “it’s over for me” I’m able to get myself back up and try again and learn rather than base things off of one bad night. Everything is possible with persistence and not giving up not just with this in life in general so everyone struggling with any type of issue at the moment, never ever give up. Much appreciated bro❤️

[@theworldisimmense]

@@tigranagajanian2651 dude help me out, just came from an massage parlor place for the 5th time and couldn’t get hard at all. I been watching porn and masturbating twice a day for the last 5-6 years. I’m in my late 20s. When I was 18-19 years old , I was still watching porn and masturbating once a day but also I became friends with this Hooker always used to get hard as hell with her and all. Idk why now its different but I can’t get hard again with hookers like I used to. I mean I can’t makeout with them because they dont let you. I figured one of the things that might get me hard and going is making out with foreplay. Maybe I’ll try and get a girlfriend and see. Maybe I’ll have to quit porn snd masturbation.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@jeremyrobinson6583]

​@@ryu7964 thanks man this was beautiful

[@ryu7964]

​@@jeremyrobinson6583You are welcome my friend

[@shawnlexington510]

I needed this thank you soo much just enjoying and let what happens happens is the best advice

[@ArMaJr4]

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@oliverreynolds6012]

Thanks for the tips, overthinking and worrying about sex has been a real issue for me recently and this brought me a lot of peace of mind, I will try implement some of these points

[@thankyounext916]

Same

[@ranashahid0790]

Daose it work

[@eliharris4270]

How’s it going i just started having this issue

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@morganlai168]

Thank you. I watched this to understand my husband more as what he might be going through. This video is also beneficial for understanding men as women don't have the same axieties around sex and we don't need to get 'it up' and 'perform.' This is very helpful.

[@colonjesse2618]

I have been faithfully used this erection dysfunction treatment *4NaturalEdCure. Com* each night before bed and I feel like I have really awakened my drive again. I just want to make love to my wife often times. It even helped me become more efficient in my plumbing tasks. Whatever they put in here works and I am happy its all natural alternatives.

[@Gong14921]

You're a good woman 👍

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@Raven_Intuition]

I’m a female with performance anxiety and this was very helpful! Thank you!

[@eliastrejo7347]

What’s is performance anxiety like for a female

[@theworldisimmense]

@@eliastrejo7347 right? I was gonna ask since they dont have to worry about getting and maintaining an erection

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@Turnpost2552]

@@ryu7964 Yes but specifically what? for women? not cuming that is usually guys responsibility not being attractive, you can lose weight, also the guy is already there he knows your wieght as it is. Any trauma any guy worth anything can totally understand. For guys though... Its very brutal, stereotypes galore, variables we cannot change, and loving relationship be destroyed in just a single night because of single phyiscal attributes. and Then rumours and comparisions. narratives, and experience and performance, allergies and work, and then just general anxiety. Guys have alot more to worrry about here.

[@ihsanahmadyar5658]

Hahaha there is no anxiety for female when it comes to female darling relax

[@muffemod]

This is the single best talk on the subject I've ever heard.

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@GetIntoYourLife]

This is the only video on KZbin you will need to overcome performance anxiety.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@dave4138]

1000% correct

[@mostafavalipour8214]

I needed every single point you mentioned here and I hope it is useful. thanks a lot and God bless you.

[@deckard1]

u fix it bro?

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@tipoftheiceberg7034]

Men are actually the ones that see it as closeness now and women see it as performance to be judged. That’s why it’s happening not the other way round

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@INFP_Growth]

With TikTok and all that crap, yes it is being spun that way. Unrealistic expectations (from women and men alike) in modern dating are paving the way for a true pandemic of loneliness (men especially) that society will take a long time to self-correct.

[@confidenceife]

I would say that sexual performance anxiety would be greatly reduced if we teach that sex is not what a man does to a woman rather what a male and female do together. It's evident in the kind of words used to refer to sex in most spheres e.g bang to mention a few. If we understand it as sharing, giving and contributing to a blissful experience for a couple. My two cents on this.

[@INFP_Growth]

This

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform, and fear of failure. If you have been sexually traumatized, it is even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being, at any time, can do. Even sexually traumatized people can do it, if they are by nature, loving people. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. What is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and one can love oneself and others physically. I hope this might helps you or others.

[@dannyhuskerjay]

I’ve been dealing with it for years now. So it’s not gonna be a Easy recovery. But day 1 with these exercises already helped . Gonna keep doing them everyday and look into anxiety meds and seeing a in person session as well to keep helping.

[@wowgreatwow]

Good luck man! You can do it

[@triggerskull]

Anxiety meds might make it worse

[@DH-ce8iv]

What anxiety meds have you taken that have helped?

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@saranyuvi5539]

Any pro tips

[@THEREAL_DC]

Thank you for the care that you put into this video.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@Lukafrcek]

I am not scared that I am not goinhg to preforme well, I am woried that I will be so streesed out that I wont be able to get it up. It reall scares me

[@DH-ce8iv]

Have you found s solution to this?I'm going through the same

[@Lukafrcek]

The solution is in your head, you have to stop worrying becose worrying and stress and bring irectal disfunction so just stop worrying, plus about 45% of male population can't get it up the first time so it's natural and don't worry if it happens but I'm sure it won't 😌👍🏻I hope this was of help to you and it made you at least a bit less worried 😅😁

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@Lamarrhezekiah]

Does any of you still struggle with this? And have any advice 🥲

[@Lukafrcek]

@@Lamarrhezekiah the key is to relax man, you need to stop thinking sbout that and just go with the flow and try to enjoy yourself

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@felixempire9026]

You are the best . I have been waiting for this explanation for a long time this will really help me in a long way. Is like this video was made for me

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@josh1674]

Skip to 4:43 to skip the anxiety part and get to the advice!

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@MisterSinister47]

This was very very useful. Thank you.

[@YourNonLegitGaming]

I couldnt get it hard enough for 2 hook ups. Lets get it

[@StallionMan]

same

[@julijanamartinovska7101]

Gay

[@je187u]

@@julijanamartinovska7101 martinovska fuck off ,you hairy bitch

[@rythempetemusic4207]

Im getting sperm but I'm forcing it out how do I get my morning wood back

[@YourNonLegitGaming]

Melissa A I last fine, prob just watched too much porn

[@traceholmes7028]

my problem seems to be thar during foreplay, i have no problem keeping it up but as soon as i get close to begin, it dies.

[@mixtuffy9120]

same here.

[@traceholmes7028]

@@mixtuffy9120 it does get better bro, i think i found out what i like and do that and youll be set, dont worry about how you preform just do what you like and feel everything and itll be okay.

[@traceholmes7028]

@@mixtuffy9120 i broke the cycle, once you do that its all gold

[@mixtuffy9120]

@@traceholmes7028 thanks homie i did it aswell, just takes a couple of times before you adjust and it gets better and better every time

[@17MrLeon]

@@traceholmes7028 i break the cycle.bit im always at the start with new girl. 13 years later 20 girls after I still have performance anxiety with the new girl

[@ericzondo3]

Just watching this vid destressed me so much, thank you

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@brunopasserino8303]

This video helped me a lot! Thanks!

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@adkinsmikkelsen4980]

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@amishachandna3135]

What if my boyfriends way to destress is by smoking weed? I worry that it contributes to his performance anxiety

[@julijanamartinovska7101]

I believe it helps him to get in the zone.But in the long term it may worsen the anxiety he already had.Then it could get harder to mask the dificulties and start drinking alcohol or viagra.You must be full of understanding rather then judgemental.Talk to one another and be patient

[@AB-ez2ct]

Drugs cause stress physical and mental. They just help hiding pain.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@KerrRobinson]

I needed this so much!

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@HosseinAzizi-yv6yv]

Thank you sir. Excellent

[@Ryu-v8r]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do it if they are loving people by nature. Making love includes all sexual elements and works like a manual. what is good for you, you do. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex is irrelevant and you can love yourself and others physically.

[@SPGEN95]

I needed this video.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@blasortiz7979]

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@bigk110kh]

Great tips thanks

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@bennycongo4131]

Thank you

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@ignazs.5816]

Great tips.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@rickj895]

Great video

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@brendangray]

This is spectacular advice

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@whyiseconomicsimportant]

Thank you - this is great - I have heard the same things from my girlfriend and it makes sense

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@P83-o2k]

Anxiety is evil

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@hsny76h4l9]

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@prasadshinde2180]

Thank you!

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@cyberiad]

It's a nature walk, not boot camp!

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@lamontholland4776]

This is GOLD! “Wonderful sex is like Art or Poetry.” “Sex is away of Communicating.”

[@diegocorvosier9576]

I have been faithfully used this erection dysfunction treatment *4NaturalEdCure. Com* each night before bed and I feel like I have really awakened my drive again. I just want to make love to my wife often times. It even helped me become more efficient in my plumbing tasks. Whatever they put in here works and I am happy its all natural alternatives.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention of having sex, creates expectations, performance pressure and fear of failure. If one has been traumatized sexually, it's even worse. Making love on the other hand is something, almost every being can do, anytime. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if one is a loving person by nature. And we can practice it with ourselves and with others. Then sex becomes irrelevant and you are able to love others physically.

[@aaliyahbutler4773]

My boyfriend drinks alcohol and smokes this is not good for me

[@jkjk-yv7yl]

You mean Marijuana smoke?

[@SimoDenis]

"This is not good for me" This line says it all. You are selfish, instead of being worried about his health you are worried about your sexual desire.

[@17MrLeon]

Maybe you are not good for him.

[@aaliyahbutler4773]

@@17MrLeon y u care

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@yuribezmenovwasright5625]

Xanax can really help.

[@bllacaartan]

Xanax helped you?

[@yuribezmenovwasright5625]

@@bllacaartan Yea. I was obsessing over performance and giving myself E.D due to anxiety. Xanax helped calm my mind and body. It stopped any flow of adrenaline from killing my erection.

[@bllacaartan]

@@yuribezmenovwasright5625 Thanks, how long before having sex did you take xanax?

[@yuribezmenovwasright5625]

@@bllacaartan I have a pretty high tolerance to Xanax Because I'm a type A personality. Try dropping .5 mg An hour before sex . You could even take it with 20 mg Viagra .5 mg Xanax doesn't alleviate your anxiety Another point five.

[@yuribezmenovwasright5625]

@@bllacaartan I used it a lot in the past when I was younger . Honestly I'm not sure I would be with my wife today had I not been On Xanax the first night we had sex . It allowed me to push through that anxiety barrier maintain an erection And have a positive experience After getting through that first time with her every other time became more easy

[@monkeycamdaykid8543]

Thx👌

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@dmvangel23_]

Bro the only reason why I’m nervous it’s cuz we fuckin at school

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@tipoftheiceberg7034]

That exercise in step 4 has too many steps in it so yeah just might make my brain confused

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@teriday954]

The man should stop worrying. It's not his problem, it's hers.

[@origen0174]

Maybe. It depends. The way the situation is described, it sounds like the man is at fault.

[@kadlebz]

Both are to blame

[@17MrLeon]

@@origen0174 right because women can totaly get wet on command.

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@brunogalanti9639]

Amazing

[@jamesrohan1636]

This erection dysfunction treatment solution *4NaturalEdCure. Com* must be utilized by people who suffer the same problem as well because it can provide rapid results. This stuff worked well for me personally. Gave me a good stamina boost. After about three weeks of following it, my performance and circulation of blood has greatly increased. These. positive changes were also noticed by my partner.?

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@origen0174]

It is not anxiety most of the time. It is inadequacy. Many men are not in shape and have erectile issues due to pornography. Mostly it is the former. It takes a lot of energy for a man to have intercourse and takes a lot of athleticism, discipline, and empathy. Not to mention, men may be concerned about the size of their genitals which is also a legitimate concern.

[@origen0174]

@@Algorhythmical Well, you responded.

[@origen0174]

@@Algorhythmical You are probably in a better position than myself so count your blessings.

[@rythempetemusic4207]

How do I get my morning wood back and cum a lot of sperm

[@williamwalton2359]

I disagree....I always experience performance anxiety the first time with a woman... Once I have sex with her ....the problem goes away....hard as a rock and can last for an hour

[@diegocorvosier9576]

I assumed that this treatment solution will take effect after a long time period. I followed this erection dysfunction treatment method *4NaturalEdCure. Com* utilized it at around 3pm. At 9pm, my wife returned to our house right after her duty at a school function. In those days, I uncovered that the treatment solution was efficient. I got and sustained the best erection I had in 10 years. Is this a chance?

[@cliffordt]

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[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@andrewcantrell2556]

Your legendary

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@maximiliank207]

LOL, until recently I hadn't realized that Mario updated his favorite way to tackle ED and it's a relief! Although what he previously suggested was pretty good, it was a real pain to follow... go'ogle Mario's Thunderous Erections, you'll see why it's so much easier and potent now!

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.

[@tylerstillion7124]

I have no problem getting and maintaining an erection with my wife but when we play with other couples as soon as i disrobe its all over for me

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@tylerstillion7124]

What if you and your spouse arw swingers and

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b

[@mthokozisikhumalo955]

Haha you are the best...

[@ryu7964]

Making Love The intention to have sex creates expectations, pressure to perform and fear of failure. If you've been sexually traumatized, it's even worse. Making love, on the other hand, is something that almost any being can do at any time. Even sexually traumatized people can do this if they are naturally loving people. And we can practice it on ourselves and on others. Then the sex is irrelevant and you can love others physically.b