How To Deal With Toxic People

Do you have any relationships in your life that repeatedly leave you feeling emotionally drained and miserable? These can be in the form of a romantic partner, friend, coworker, or family member. Have you tried to share your feelings and been made to feel dejected or ashamed? If so, you might be dealing with a toxic person. So here are a few ways on how you can deal with them.
Disclaimer: Please note that this video is intended for educational and entertainment purposes. If you feel trapped in a relationship, please seek the advice of a mental health professional.
Writer: Syazwana Amirah
Script Editor: Sophia Katz
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Sun Biscuit
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References:
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[@Psych2go]

Do you have other advice on dealing with toxic people that aren't on our list? Feel free to share it may help others out!

[@ihaveanewchannelnow.9880]

thx

[@businessisboomin7252]

Wait is advice countable?

[@businessisboomin7252]

My can aka brain is empty I guess

[@ifrahjama2215]

Slowly detach from them

[@ifrahjama2215]

Or distance yourself from negativity

[@ComicalRealm]

"Even if removing all the toxic people means that you'll be left all alone, it's still worth it. Suffering from solitude for a time before you meet genuine people is always better than enduring the daily misery that toxic people provide." - Jason Voorhees

[@stark.edwards2068]

Absolutely 💯

[@mirisparkleslikewhoa]

Jason Voorhees??

[@nievesshiratama3964]

I absolutely agree to that statement. Shook off a toxic friend and I've been all alone for two years now, but I'm very much happy.

[@user-ue3lu8dh1g]

Ah yes my favorite philosopher, Jason Voorhees. Voice of a generation

[@lsrasr]

- Jason Voorhees *Record player scratches*

[@froggysprite]

"Don't keep toxic people around just because you're lonely. You wouldn't eat poison because you're hungry" -Don't know where this originated

[@Jackgritty28]

How should you deal with it, set boundaries,don't let people tell you what to do, uncompromising and confrontational won't work, people would be annoyed by your stubbornnesss, complain about being mistreated, people don't enjoy being criticised, a hostile environment makes you feel uncomfortable🚩🆘💥🚫✅

[@burnttoast1076]

People literally eat poison all the time because they are hungry and become addicted to it.

[@froggysprite]

@@burnttoast1076 ok and is that a good thing

[@Luvlyxflora]

That’s actually a really good phrase:0

[@froggysprite]

@@Luvlyxflora ha thanks :]

[@datboi6954]

1. you establish your physical and emotional boundaries 0:29 2. you avoid playing into their reality 1:11 3. you don't share secrets with the gossipers 1:55 4. you focus on solutions, not problems 2:34 5. you spend time with loyal friends 3:09 6. you recognise the insults, ignore them or toss up a joke 3:35 7. you change your routine 4:18 I hope I could help!

[@ifrahjama2215]

Thanks ❤❤😁😁

[@Alovelylobster]

Thanks time traveler!

[@iunanimous1983]

Please everyone make this top post

[@doratheexplorer1113]

What-

[@connie0613]

Ty

[@LOL-jj7rf]

I don't have true friends. I only consider everyone as acquaintances. This way, I feel everything is in balance.

[@colormatic2186]

Hope you don't think or start to think that the world has no true friends in store for you... Wish you the best internet stranger!

[@spacesloth6496]

Its good to socialise with people and be among people. Just remember you chose you want to b with True friends everybody have 1,2,3,4,5 or less ❤️🦋. You are 1 b true to youre self. ❤️🦋🕊🙏

[@saywhatyouwant888]

Your doing right ✅ I too,finally do as you

[@Sergmanny46]

Same. There's no such thing as true friends. Everyone is after their own selfish interests.

[@colormatic2186]

@@Sergmanny46 Think of it like this, selfish interests can come in many different forms, including genuinely caring

[@carlosspeicywiener7018]

I managed to ditch all the toxic people in my life. Now I live alone and have no family or friends. I would rather be alone than surrounded by assholes

[@sriku1000]

A very calm video on, How your reality is controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk

[@user-lx5jf4vi2k]

I feel SO lucky to have been able to cut out all of my toxic “friends” this year. I was always aware that they never made me happy and only made me feel unappreciated, but I felt that I just had to see it through and couldn’t find new friends at school since everyone already established their friend groups. But, after a certain point, I realized I needed to distance myself even if it meant being alone, and from here, some of the nicest people I’ve ever met started talking to me and are now the main group of friends that I hang out with. I don’t know where I’d be without them now, they just make me so genuinely happy every day

[@HavianEla]

Dude, that’s so awesome! Good for you for enduring the hard to get to the better! I pray things continue to go your way!

[@inuala9453]

I‘m glad and very happy for you that you have found your true friends and feel happier :) When I was in school, I had problems with making friends as I was a loner. During the years, I have build up some wonderful friendships but also some toxic „friendships“. It was a major factor that kept constantly stirring up my depression and anxiety. But now I have been able to remove these toxic people from my life and cling on to the true friendships and I also feel much happier. Better have a small group of people around you that truly care for you instead of hundreds of people who don‘t care about you at all.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

when I was 15, I was sleeping in a foul mood and it was the middle of the night, my family was downstairs drinking and partrying, they decided arbitrarily to want to play a game that I had in my bedroom, so naturally they decided to ignore my locked door, ignore the fact I was sleeping, ignore the fact I was in a bad mood and decided to break down the door and take it. How does one avoid such toxic environments when they dont respect boundaries without abandoning your family entirely?

[@lenesehhe9885]

I left my toxic friend for a month but i was bored and we are friends now

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

@@lenesehhe9885what about your other friends?

[@5Demona5]

My family is toxic to the point I had anxiety, panic attacks, depression and suicidal thoughts. They would not respect any boundaries and wanted to keep me trapped with them. With my bf's help, and his family's, I was able to move far from them.

[@blueside2836]

that is impressive, i'm so proud of you. you're really strong, i wish you nothing but the best. your bf and his family seem like great people, it's indeed great that you have them.

[@NusratJahan-cu9vt]

I wish i have a best friend like you have 😔

[@potato-nf9qo]

Your voice is just so comforting and soothing that half my anxiety is already gone...

[@lavalt-]

I see this kind of comment for the 20th time, but it's true.

[@dishansomboii7648]

lukanette is the best ship. I don't know why but they are so cute together although Zoe would also be great with Luka. I dunno

[@d.akiehs]

@@lavalt- same

[@thecatsbackyard4833]

Her name is Amanda silvera. She has songs on Spotify and other platforms. She also has a yt channel. She's super cool and I love her dog.

[@Xamry]

😂 true

[@amani4025]

Now since school is back, I really need this, like, REALLY

[@moonbrightdabunny1786]

Same…even 10 year old kids these days need these because everyone is becoming toxic..

[@rachaelwilloughby8263]

@@moonbrightdabunny1786 why is this sadly true

[@voidzy6815]

@@moonbrightdabunny1786 ikr

[@drinasun6984]

I wish I had that advice when I was in school. No wonder I started building resentment.

[@drinasun6984]

@@moonbrightdabunny1786 IKR. I wish I knew that when I was younger.

[@Tealeaves_k]

Being friends with toxic people because you’re lonely is like drinking poison because you’re thirsty. Don’t put yourself through that kind of pain, it’ll only make things worse for you and escalate and I know from experience it’s better to just end the relationship. Stay strong ❤️

[@k-addictt6315]

Its very hard for me,,i wanna be cold to her and ignore her but because some situation i can't,,, shee thinks talking toxic shit about me means that we are good friends wow!there is a limit to it bruh,,,but imma try my best,, from tomorrow i will start ignoring her and wouldn’t melt,,,cs i easily forgive these shits but then they again come to me with much more power so can't deal with it no more,,,the disrespect that she shows to me is really hurting,,and imma not let anybody crose the limits ever again,,,,respect is a really big thing to me,,i am always nice to herr,,but when she says shits i can also say those but i know these things are really hurtful and these are the things that keep u at night,,,so i always end up not saying anything but not everybody deserves kindness from you,,,that person literally enjoys hurting you and still u behave nicely with her,,I'm very angry with me bcs of that,,,from tmrrw i will really try to ignore herr,,and if comes with negetivity imma just slap her hard with wordsss,,,Don't think too much about being nice in this kinda scenario,,,if it means happiness then be a bitch to people like that,,they deserve it,,,i Won't endure no more duh

[@rominaloliva3986]

@@k-addictt6315 wow i’m in the same fucked up situation you’re in right now and respect is also a big deal for me. i absolutely do not allow disrespect in my life so i’m cutting off contact with her but her and her other friends are turning my life into a living hell. can you and i be friends or at least stay in contact? we don’t have to talk at all that much i just want to know there’s someone else in the same situation like mine out there. that just helps me stay strong

[@Murug-og3zm]

It's all fun and games, until one of your family part is toxic.

[@dodonodens8802]

At my point I will straight up harass and beat them up. Instead it’s worthy they get an taste of their own medicine. I know my mom I personally don’t hate her but she managed to convince others that I’m the villain here, she should go out and touch some grass, she has been spending all of her break time day scroll Tik Tok at least her cooking is excellent and she actually spends money unmean heavy money on us.

[@ivythealiencat]

@@dodonodens8802 are you sure she's toxuc? What does she do

[@anazenpunksoul6123]

Oh dear one or at least one... Im counting more than 2... 😞⚠️ 🆘 🌨️ Its exausting. 😓

[@lindziep6319]

Ikr especially if its one your parents or both 😆😆 im a joker and not easily hurt by words but if its my dad why does it hurts a lot 😒 and i became a drama actress instead of a comediane actress 😔

[@Hennaf16]

Same. My dad.

[@karmas.pelden3076]

This will really help me cope with toxic people who gain fun by mocking me

[@abhaverma10]

Same😢

[@pyschologygeek]

Avoid playing into their reality. ... Don't get drawn in. ... Pay attention to how they make you feel. ... Talk to them about their behavior. ... Put yourself first. ... Offer compassion, but don't try to fix them. ... Say no (and walk away) ... Remember, you aren't at fault.

[@lindziep6319]

The thing is if the toxic person is your family and your younger than them you think their reality is also your reality so its hard to avoid and you will certainly drawn to it coz you didnt know. Its hard to pay attention and talk to them if they are your parents, and offering compassion is not that easy as well as saying no 🙄 coz youre dependent on them.

[@ulrikeg2639]

Offer compassion, but don‘t try to fix them… uff, I think I need to meditate really hard on this. Thanks for putting it in those words 💭

[@moesameer5675]

The narrator voice is smoothly and makes you comfortable!

[@dishansomboii7648]

lukanette is the best ship. I don't know why but they are so cute together although Zoe would also be great with Luka. I dunno

[@val3ruu]

@@dishansomboii7648 what..

[@slash5989]

@@dishansomboii7648 thats wayyyy out of topic 💀✋🏼

[@urdailyeverything6087]

@@slash5989 IKR LMAO

[@channchanchan]

sometimes being straightforward and pushing them back even when you never do or normally don’t have the confidence to can really be helpful as well :)

[@sunnydaze2359]

How to deal with toxic people. Leave them ! They are not worth it. I was told by a psychoanalyst, that whether it’s your mother father sister friend, do not deal with them because, toxicity is poison.

[@games4boredom1549]

One day, when I'm finally financially capable of supporting my own needs, I'll be able to leave this house. I'm doing my best to succeed so I could leave this toxic household environment in the future. But for now, this video will somehow help me to get through with my current situation. Thanks a lot! Sending you lots of hugs and kisses for making videos like this😽

[@moonflower1729]

Dealing with toxic people isn’t ever easy, especially if it’s someone you care about and/or family. Honestly the best way I’ve learned is to give them some kindness, second chances, make your boundaries known clearly, in communication if you’re trying to mend the relationship or keep it make a way out saying you only have a few minutes and keep the topic superficial and if you can, try to delve into a serious one about how they are affecting you if especially if it’s someone close just by saying their behavior is hurting you. If they care, they will try to talk it out and change, but they might and most likely not be happy to hear it. People don’t change overnight or even in a month, it takes time- But if you see improvement within the first week, however small, extend kindness and forgiveness. Just don’t let yourself get physically and verbally abused please, if that continues, it’s best to give distance the best you can. The last resort is cutting them out of your life, and sometimes it is the right decision- but it’s a decision to be used with caution and when only necessary, so please be safe and careful guys. You are loved and cared about alright? Stay hydrated.

[@WhiteSpatula]

I liked #4 especially. When I managed a team at work, I always told them, “Don’t come to me with a problem. Come to me with a problem and your best suggestion for its solution.” Cheers! -Phill, Las Vegas

[@Ice-zs6po]

I've met a couple toxic people in my life before, some are nothing but some experience are painful. It's so sad to slowly realize a friend you genuinely like and treated with heart is a toxic person, and leaving them is really not something easy to do.

[@lindziep6319]

Thats the hardest part when the toxic person is someone you care 😔 its easier just to walk out if the toxic ones are just nobody in your life.

[@antinutjobs]

Yeah, even worse is if you're dealing with a narcissist and they'll try to destroy your social circle to control you. It's hard to be sad and dealing with bs, but eventually you'll be relieved by doing what must be done 👍

[@FelixSkura]

Mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say “My tooth is aching” than to say “My heart is broken."

[@charlotte_stevens]

Completely agree 😓

[@OreadNYC]

As Maya Angelou has been quoted as saying, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." So much for "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." Physical pain usually fades with time and is often significantly easier to treat than psychological pain, which can potentially last for decades.

[@lindziep6319]

So true 😔

[@lindziep6319]

@@OreadNYC true 😔😔 and sometimes its hard to notice that youre already in that situation in a couple of years already and when your limit comes its hard to calm down and to ease all the pain within

[@rhyneshiane2774]

This statement is from C.S. Lewis ♥️

[@mybrainmeatshurt]

#8: Randomly alternate between kindness and chaos. It's how I survived 20 years at my workplace, where there are people who have 4-year degrees in gaslighting.

[@vickielewallen3799]

Cut toxic people out of your life and you'll feel like you're finally walking in sunshine rather than in darkness. After decades, i finally learned to say "My life is none of your business." She (my narc sister) sputtered, spewed, argued, and cringed, and hated losing one of her minions/victims. But i felt great, and finally free. I'll never let that darkness back into my life.

[@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956]

My cousins aré all so negative they always ignore me my messages ect my moms damn nieces care More about her then me they talk to my mom More then me and they ignore me but one day when i die they Will regret all this shit or if not one day when i die illl come haunt them at night lol 😅

[@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956]

I had to block all them on Facebook because they Made me fall in deep depression this year too 😞

[@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956]

I even planned on killing myself too be honest i had planned my own death seriouly sometimes i still get suicidal thoughts but theres three special people that keep making me strong 💕💕💕💕

[@vickielewallen3799]

@@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956 If they're negative, bitter, mean, etc, its probably better to just avoid them, and be around cheerful, positive people, instead.

[@vickielewallen3799]

@@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956 Don't let them drag you into depression and suicide. Do some things you love, and hang out with cheerful, positive people instead, i believe you'll feel happy and alive again.

[@tasiacross5173]

This is definitely what I'm going through with a family member. It isn't easy sometimes I lash out.

[@jeanmariedoyle6123]

One of my sisters is both a gossip and a liar with a hair-trigger temper. She’s always complaining that nobody answers her phone calls or messages. She has absolutely no self awareness. It makes family gatherings so stressful. These tips will help me a LOT 😊

[@saywhatyouwant888]

Take comfort I have an older sister if she's miserable she'll make the rest of the family too becomes miserable 💯

[@sriku1000]

A very calm video on, How your reality is controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk

[@nuoliharakiri5058]

Sometimes it is kinda creepy, how accurate the timing of your videos is - yesterday I realized for the first time, that I'm having a toxic realationship and have no idea, how to deal with it. Thank you for sharing this!

[@anuragtumane5227]

Letting go off toxic people is important for mental and emotional well-being.

[@anyeong1246]

Dealing with toxic ppl is toxic itself, it's exhausting on both mental and spiritual level! I used to deal with toxic co-workers but got them grow tired of making me feel on egg shell (eventually) Nope, I didn't resign. I just learned how to deal with them without sacrificing my principles and personal boundaries. I made it pretty obvious that I don't want anything to do with them cause of their idea of having fun by gossiping about other coworkers, they also tried to make me spill a couple of teas before, expecting me to fit in but they didn't get anything out of it so they moved on.. (I guess 😂) luckily for me, I have very minimal interaction with them in line with work, even though I have to see them everyday before the pandemic. Silence, 'kill them with kindness' and maintaining respectful demeanor is still sure the best armor against those kinds of ppl (esp if they're older than you and considered veteran in the field). For sure it won't be a guarantee that they won't talk behind your back but they can't help not to treat you properly when you approach them professionally. Having toxic family member on the other hand could be extra challenging cause unlike co-workers, they're irreplaceable. They're part of who you are so dealing with them could take a lot of patience, tolerance and courage to make them understand that they're disturbing your peace. But I believe it isn't impossible esp with proper communication

[@sriku1000]

A very calm video on, How your reality is controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk

[@GreasySenpai]

To be honest, how I get around is usually to be very kind. Sometimes I can't do that but I've practiced controlling my anger.

[@astrandedhushpuppie128]

i've tried doing that but its like my toxic person takes that to their advantage and i do consider myself a kind person and i can get pretty timid sometimes but i have started to realize that maybe i need to start being more tough

[@theinsecthashira]

Same... but sometimes too much kindness can abuse you... this happened to me many times. I just balance sweetness and bitterness

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

I try that too but people like to take advantage of me when I’m kind and I become their little puppet

[@Angelique448]

We all gotta agree that there is a limit to being kind. Like, yes at the start we can kill them with kindness, but at some point, you just realise that, that person doesn’t deserve all that kindness for all the toxicity they’ve put in your life. Never feel bad for placing boundaries for yourself from them!

[@icecubes822]

I had a few toxic relationships. It ended up with me pounding the guy’s stomach in a heated fight. I regret the fight, but I don’t regret ending my friendship with him and his friends.

[@RedRose1120]

If I’d known this years ago My school year would have been so much better.

[@colormatic2186]

2:00 That "ugh" is the most aggressive thing I've heard the narrator say. VERY UNEXPECTED

[@greatwavefan397]

Almost sounded like Raven from Teen Titans

[@sniperultra3093]

I love time travelling

[@jungkooklovesjinsworldwide52]

Me too

[@iunanimous1983]

I- what?

[@Alovelylobster]

*w h a t*

[@potato-nf9qo]

🤣🤣🤣

[@somewherefaraway3093]

Okay geez, don't flex on us lmao

[@guardzoma5857]

1:55 It’s so hard to keep secrets from the gossipers when they’re good at “observing people”

[@Cherrycreamsoda1]

I hate gossip. There are *so* many other more interesting things to talk about than people behind their back. Luckily I don't think I have any toxic friends now (fingers crossed) as I've managed to get better over the years at surrounding myself with people who aren't toxic. I reckon positive gossip needs to become a thing, too.

[@Alontebanks]

No cap

[@teigans7221]

This is literally THE video I need right now thank you. Currently dealing with an out of control narcissistic mother whom I'm planning to cut off again once I can leave again

[@sal_tae]

Sorta helpful, but it's especially tasking when said people are your roommates, never listen and keep intruding your personal space when you give yourself space 😪

[@U.R.coolkid]

Thank you, i actually really needed this as since i am now back in school, i have to deal with an "old friend" (they were abusive and toxic, say they've changed, but.. it doesn't quite show.)

[@pratisthamukherjee4641]

I personally wanna thank you a lot , you guys really work hard and post the most needed ideas and mental health care tips , exactly when we need them , so a big thank you ❤

[@hadasm5033]

I came here specifically for this, thank you so much for your content, I recently found my self in the middle of a toxic group of people, rude, complaining, gossiping and trying to get a reaction from me, and today I felt so tired of it, thank you so so much!

[@Simsherly]

I personally advise my friends to joining online classes everyday..i gathered all my courage to do that..but then they disrespect me..i just felt poor to those who always joining those online classes and the teacher who stay motivating us till the end..and i dont want them to waste it..such ungrateful friends..i hate being like this..so stress

[@smolbeansherryll]

im such a people pleaser, it'll be hard to follow this in reality

[@manufacturedpie4118]

You guys released the video at the perfect time!! Recently I’ve heard cringe people backbite about me and they’re quite toxic so this helpful! TYSM

[@furryboi_raccoon]

This help me a lot to get my head straight : i had a friend i knew since kindie and over the last few years they changed a lot and keep hurting me mentally and physically but this year I finally fond a friend that isn't toxic and I appreciate her a lot.

[@user-dn3cd6fp4o]

Usually I try being friends with them and try telling them not to be toxic to others thats how I made friends with a toxic friend...

[@Someone-sl4zq]

Just live your life with an open mind but when you feel negativity; question it.

[@marissa2160]

This is helpful. I recently ended a friendship with someone who always said mean things, pretended it was a joke, and if you confronted them about it or told anyone else, they would try to gaslight you and say it was a rumor. As much as I dislike this person and in some ways hope they feel miserable, I appreciate them for teaching me that not everyone is gonna be nice to me or treat me how I deserve to be treated. And this situation has showed me who my real friends are, because my real friends also dropped this person after realizing how terrible they are.

[@RandomLuna13]

WOW! Phyc2go you really help me alot... I'm going through a hard time and I have toxic people around me sometimes... Thank u! You will always be one of my fav youtubers!!! ❤️

[@Just1Independent1]

Timely word! Thank you Psych!

[@love_bug.]

Love how you decided to put your icon in the light bulb at the end it was a nice touch

[@Xanderka2009]

Thank you, I really needed this. I am dealing with a difficult co-worker at my part-time job recently. I am doing everything possible to get my tasks done for my shift and Miss Toxic has the nerve to yell at me to do more things and accuse me of being incompetent when she was the one who didn't clarify her demands. I was losing my temper and I badly wanted to drive my fist through her face, which I couldn't do out of fear of being fired. I will keep these tips in mind for my next shift.

[@pataridisanna]

Thank you! Just what I needed to hear to help me deal with a toxic partner.

[@mehakarya3770]

0:31 You establish your physical and emotional boundaries 1:11 You avoid playing into their reality 1:55 you don't share secrets with the gossipers 2:35 You focus on solutions not problems 3:11: You spend time with loyal friends 3:38 You recognize the insult, ignore them or toss up a joke 4:18 Change your routine Hope this helps:)

[@charlotte_stevens]

You are an angel! Thank you 🥰😘

[@quit8116]

Thank you I needed this!! My toxic friend will never stop breaking my boundaries

[@kimifw58]

What if you're financially dependent on them under a broken economy?

[@preciousnessoflove]

I found the animation quite beautifully made in intelligent way 😊 Thank you for a great content!

[@theinsecthashira]

Thanks for this... I really need this so much

[@Hiepphandang0702]

1. Change your routine 2. Don't share secrets with gossippers 3. Go to positive people, not toxic people 4. Don't be angry as they want you to be angry, have a joke and stay happy 5. Try not to spend time in the gossippers' community (less emotion and less physical time) 6. Focus on the solutions, not the problems 7. Don't accept the reality that they think is true

[@CG0820]

please continue sharing beautiful information. thank you

[@izzatihassan1475]

Without gossip girl group, I admit life has been quieter, there's no longer excitement when you hear notifications on your phone. But it has definitely been more peaceful. At some point in life you're tired of hearning 'the scoop' of every drama every day.

[@sanakuchan1435]

I'm a magnet for toxic people. Finding true genuine people is a rarity these days, and fake, pretentious, negative people seem to outnumber the real people. Where is the real people in this world? Where are they hiding? I am sick of having toxic people in my life and rather have true friends than fake ones.

[@MatiasMuka]

That's so f*cking true brooooo. That's how I felt always.

[@charliepudding6533]

Thank you, I needed this just today

[@Lyov-3]

Thank you for this video it helped me focus on the most important parts of my life and stay away from toxic people

[@k1r1.00]

Thank you. I have a toxic friend. She's always toxic. Thanks again. 😊

[@GenoPBG]

Thank you, your video will help me a lot in my life. You are a life-saver!

[@jorgedizon6739]

My ways to avoid toxic person: Just ignore the insults or just show that I dont care about them and it doesnt affect me When they mock something bout me I just go with the joke and go with my day

[@ZardyChess]

Wow! This is so useful. Every single tip

[@loitsyy]

This came on a right time

[@inyouall]

JUST STAY FAR AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE 🧐

[@elroyadams1511]

Too bad I live with them 😔

[@LilAshak]

THESE VIDEOS ALWAYS COME AT SUCH A PERFECT MOMENT

[@a.d.samano7873]

I like that step in focusing on the solution. A family member I know is always focused on the problem. So toxic that everyday is mostly complains I hear from the mouth of that person.

[@whoknew5940]

Great information, tone and animations.

[@DeRez19]

Thank you for this video, Psych2Go! You always tell people that they are amazing, but I hope you know you are also amazing. Regarding the topic: Sometimes it is best to part ways with toxic people. Whether they were old classmates, family members, or a coworker, toxic relationships must be eradicated if YOU want to be happy. Trust me.

[@halakhalaf5975]

YOU POSTED THIS VIDEO WHEN I WATED IT , THANK YOU PSYCH2GO ❤️😭

[@C0202_]

Thank you so much, your videos make my day better 🐱

[@Petra44YT]

"Ignoring" an insult is just wrong. And I would not "joke" about it either!

[@hannahadhi940]

Thank you sooo much ,this video saved my life .😭😭😭😱😱😱😩😩😩❤️❤️❤️

[@remedy9448]

I found all of the tips useful. Thank you

[@samuelhere41]

Right on time to thanks for these tips!

[@Psych2go]

Happy to help!

[@zanathebananar]

I needed this one of my friends are so toxic

[@DenniMochi]

ONE MORE TIME THANK YOU

[@mykittenisaferociousnugget]

I’m not that good at dealing with toxic or rude people 😅 this video will help me a lot! I’m a subscriber by the way! I love your channel! ❤️

[@zeoxavier2947]

Another much needed tips for better survival... Thanks very much Psych2Go team .. keep up the awesome work... One different situation I faced .... Co-workers comparing you with your counterpart (adding fuel to fire... Same gender) idk much about females , but for males thats a bit offensive to their ego) , who have worked with them in the past. Once in a while it was ok if that discussion gives tips to improve yourself. But too many times, with irrelevant points made me be passive aggressive towards them... For me that was giving cold shoulder and silent treatment... (That was effective but was seemed childish) Then comes 2nd strategy ... More primitive one ... Eye for an Eye ! Once in a while , I did small speeches glorifying my past female coworkers (which I never did before) .... worked much better. Still confused which one better ...(both have their own bad after effects) Need more effective way to deal this type of situation 🙂

[@boogieman539]

Thank you so much for all of your help you have made me a better person and made me secure about myself

[@ami3026]

I still don't understand how this channel knows everything about me. It is changing my life

[@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956]

Same here

[@cooky3589]

i was SEARCHING for ways how to cut off toxic friends and this plops up omg

[@wwhjinssisteruknow2254]

Same

[@ninili847]

I am really lucky to have a group of friends who are never toxic.

[@sriku1000]

A very calm video on, How your reality is controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk

[@taehunkim7148]

Let us not play at their levels!

[@tiyaa12]

Helloo Psych!! I looove your vids

[@yvettes321]

Thank yo so much for this advice about how to handle toxic people.

[@alien-vc6lk]

This is very helpful Keep up the good work😄👍👍👍

[@marvindickmann4405]

until now.... when a toxic person I KNOW talks to me i just ignore them cuz the little amount of people i know, know how i and my mind works. and if they keep going im being toxic to them too

[@220musicschool]

Very helpful, thank you 🙂. And I realise I actually did some of those things without thinking of it 😁

[@starroukit]

i actually really needed this, Someone toxic was aggressive to someone that is very important to me :(

[@sriku1000]

A very calm video on, How your reality is controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzbin.info/www/bejne/iHLaaYKues9giMk

[@Simon0501]

It is necessary to get rid of the conversation that makes you feel uncomfortable, and be careful around the toxic people

[@AlecRBorden]

I think I struck gold when this video came up!

[@clarisse7763]

I have this young co-worker who is a gossiper and a whirlpool of negativity. I wasn't able to establish boundaries thus finding myself tangled with her drama! Boundaries are important indeed.

[@NoeleVeerod]

I am so glad that most (if not all) toxic people I had around me decided I wasn't worth anything and kind of removed themselves from the scene. I fell though as if this is also a good checklist to have handy in case we indulge in behaviours this video is advising to defend against. The more you know about it, the better you avoid it.

[@katiepayne2479]

I need to rewatch this daily/weekly.

[@itsrainingoutside6182]

Thank you so much! Theres a chance i wont have to suffer everyday anymore! ^-^