How to Disappoint People and Live your Life - Teal Swan

[@starfuzzy2]

thats so true "humans go so into pleasing everyone then back into narcissism" so relatable and i notice it within myself!

[@elsagrace3893]

CaitsCurious ahh, so glad you quoted that because I missed it in the video. I was distracted by the nervous ditzy laughter.

[@ravenn2631]

Judging someone for being judging. . . sounds like a well thought out practice. At least I admit I'm doing it.

[@Billyboy7037]

the narcissism is waaay better

[@Caroline_Thedeathofa_sho-br2ut]

Personally think thats the same thing

[@electralight8866]

Everyone saying how much the girls nervous laughter annoys them but I genuinely feel so much light and love from this girl, I think she's hilarious and cute just being herself and trying to be comfortable with being in the presence of someone she admires. She's got a beautiful light laugh that just makes me want to laugh it's contagious really and all I could think about was how much I'd love her as a friend, so bubbly and funny ☺️

[@LauraVolpintesta]

Thanks for sharing that- I’m a nervous laugher too and that’s affirming

[@lmn6440]

teal swan is playing dominance games with her

[@littlestbroccoli]

Yeah, and Teal can be really intimidating at times. Being on stage, at the sane time as meeting someone famous to you, at the same time as revealing vulnerable things inn front of a crowd.. a little laughter to deal with that is a lot better than sitting there shaming herself quietly or something.. right everyone?

[@itsneolike]

I think she’s just an extrovert trapped in an introverted identity..

[@Mooriah38]

So much love to this girl who went up on !stage!! I agree the nervous laughing is totally ok and cute. We are all human and I love how she let her humanness shine through. It's ok to be yourself! Much love

[@beckyh1096]

I find it so interesting that so many people have made comments on how "annoying" this girl is.....perhaps you find her annoying because you hate aspects of yourself that perceive as embarrassing/you have your own insecurities about how people perceive you in situations where you're not comfortable. I found myself having those reactions at first, and then realized that I'm not too unlike her when it comes to speaking to someone I'm intimidated by...as much as I *don't want to be*. But if we want to integrate ourselves, like Teal talks about, we need to see the parts of ourselves we try so hard to hide.

[@Healingfromtheroot]

Becky w. Thank you for saying this. I found myself getting triggered for a moment and then realized it was because she has similarities to me.

[@Ava.Luna.Bellatrix]

Well said, love ❤

[@casperthespook]

Becky, it is annoying to know that Teal has intelligent and insightful things to say, which we might be able to hear if someone would ask well thought out questions in a clear voice, listen to the answer, and then follow up with more logical questions, instead of acting silly, giddy, and giggly. It would be just the same thing putting this giddy interviewer on a race horse, she wouldn't know what to do, she would sit in the saddle acting silly, and we wouldn't get to see the race horse run.

[@beckyh1096]

Totally get what you're saying Monika & Casper -- both your responses are understandable. That being said, I personally believe that our reactions/feelings towards things in our outside environment are a direct reflection of our inside environment so although you may not have resonated with what I said above, your annoyance/how you reacted may be telling you something regardless :) If you don't believe that, that's totally fine -- we're all entitled to our own beliefs!

[@monchen4688]

I was sooooo surprised when I read the comments. I honestly found nothing "wrong" or annoying about her.

[@kasandraborgess]

It’s so hard to choose yourself when you’re disappointing a parent.

[@namjesussssss]

This is late but, if u are disappointing them currently, by choosing Ur own path Than its worth it

[@educatedassassinps4746]

Freedom is infinitely more important than avoiding disappointment. :)

[@LutherAEvans]

I can so relate to this. It's true, but the difficult things are necessary sometimes.

[@Ben_D.]

Brave girl, getting up on the stage. Good on you. Thanks for being a surrogate me up there.

[@1gamz]

She didnt wanna share too much about her personal life but it came across as nervous and insincere. She was totally holding some important info back

[@pdmaster22]

damn, teal is reeeeeeally experienced with dealing with people, god damn

[@777NihonSloan]

Keeping cool and appearing natural is 95% of it.

[@disciplinenotregret]

Why don't people just say, "I don't understand"? Instead they just speak and then it's obvious to everyone they didn't understand.

[@thomashardin911]

Taking the Lords name in vain👀

[@thomashardin911]

She is a savant! ⚡️💃🏻😎

[@pisaconpala]

@@disciplinenotregret she looks nervous and that is ok, don't judge her because if you do when you feel nervous in x situation you will judge yourself

[@thecoolestgingerkid]

Everyone being rude in the comments not realizing they’re being rude to themselves. But then me judging their rudeness realizing they are me too 😅

[@moritzkohler4861]

Alexandra Haha. Good one. It's funny cause it's true. Lol.^^

[@bunknee1220]

😂

[@herman2096]

Alexandra Yea yea yea. Lol

[@hannaday8947]

THIS comment lol

[@secretattractionna]

Alexandra lol, very true

[@WildApricot12]

I admire Teals reactions because she stays so fucused and with her own. She doesn't let herself be drawn in that strange energy. If I was sitting on Teal's place, I would get lost, trying to meet with what the woman expects as reactions. Like pleasing her. Not disappointing her.

[@anakirilova2516]

That woman is just…very, very British. They are interesting communicators to say the least. Very awkward. She seems to have an additional trait of nervous laughter. I didn’t feel it was strange though. The way I see it, Teal can remain focused & present because 1) she is able to not perceive the energy as a foreign sensation to herself, which eliminates reactionary response, and 2) she doesn’t see personal gain in this woman’s approval. She has also mentioned in the past that she can’t do much for anyone who is unwell if she resonates the frequency of their ailment/issue. What you are describing sounds like you find safety in social approval a lot.

[@debbieakamine3583]

@@anakirilova2516 how cn we get to this level here that you described 1) she is able to not perceive the energy as a foreign sensation to herself, which eliminates reactionary response, and 2) she doesn’t see personal gain in this woman’s approval.

[@emalee2027]

@@anakirilova2516 btw she's Australian.

[@BlueEternities]

True selfishness IS selflessness. Keeping in mind that in order to continue to be helpful to others, we must respect ourselves. If it's harmful to ourselves, it's harmful to all around us. When we truly help others, we truly help ourselves. Giving what we have to offer, is what drives us. If we're in a situation where we find ourselves not wanting to give what we have to offer, we must recognize that we're not being all that we can be, and so there must be a better place for us, and that we're trying to fit into a role that either someone else would be better suited for, or that should not continue to exist.

[@kamaetee]

💜♓🙏🏻🌈

[@mcliviu112]

The way she masks her true emotions and anxiety by laughing and keep saying "yeah, yeah, yeah" is almost like an automatic response to everything that happens around her.

[@argeniaparkinson3891]

Yep I perceived it that way too, I recognised her laughter as a defence mechanism - I imagine that if it wasn’t a public setting that Teal might’ve asked a couple of penetrative questions, and the laughter may have turned quickly to sobs.

[@matejus13]

@@argeniaparkinson3891 haha, you said penetrative :D

[@tryptamine-loopring-eth]

Yup that’s the reason I cringed watching this. No hate on her or anything but I recognized those habits in myself all too well.

[@CoinDragon]

I've heard of the term "nervous laughter" before, but wow.

[@creesahidah4000]

It is true that she is nervous but it takes a lot of strength for someone to come and speak in front of a crowd of people. Public speaking isn't as easy as it looks-and I am proud of her. If she's reading this, I think you did a great job. Right on girl.

[@unitynofear7758]

Shes cute + laughing constantly releases pressure so she can get along dodging conflict, which builds frustration and resentment

[@motherofthunderboy6472]

I have taken my “disease to please” others to an extreme my entire life. Teal Swan has helped improve my life tremendously. I am making breakthroughs and progress that are giving me such peace and relief. Thank you for changing my life and an infinite amount of others for the better. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Yaheleven]

That blonde girl has a face of an angel. Teal is looking royally gorgeous herself 🙂

[@holdtrue2021]

Yamnayan Descent, IKR 👍

[@Quinn222]

Nice to see something positive 👍

[@alina24499]

E Eli I thought that too :D

[@autumnpendergast9151]

She is an incredible young woman. She is going to go very far in life. So happy she is moving forward.

[@dohnjoe4910]

Somebody's thirsty.

[@rubyxcube3]

The lesson Teal was teaching was so good but this woman was perfect for testing our patience, tolerance, and love of others... How did everyone do?

[@Silenceisgolden13]

rubyxcube3 I agree! And to do our shadow work. I felt really irritated, then remembered I used to get giggly (much less than this) when I was uncomfortable talking to someone. I could have beaten the world record for low self esteem/feeling less than others. And I hate that I felt like that. Hence the annoyance when someone else is doing it.

[@ginarossi1541]

rubyxcube3 I couldn’t do it

[@rubyxcube3]

Silenceisgolden500 I agree that we get irritated when people do things we secretly dislike about ourselves. Teal showed so much patience because it was obvious the lady wasn’t really getting it and just saying she was.

[@angelsheart85]

rubyxcube3 um i did bad 😂 i mean this was annoying.

[@garnetsword]

I was scrolling through the comment section...........

[@autumnpendergast9151]

Naww, this was my daughters teacher, she is amazingly talented and will go very far, teaching was great for her and I knew her from when she started, very young, and while she definitely WILL be missed, all of us know how far she has to go yet in her career. Without context what she says sounds odd perhaps, but I know exactly what she meant, she got it and she is doing it! YAY! LOVE YA! Also, what Teal didn't get, is that is how many Australians talk and respond. She got it from the beginning, but again without context it didn't seem that way.

[@autumnpendergast9151]

Oh and this young woman is EXCEPTIONAL. NEVER EVER judge a book by its cover folks, as so many of you seem so incredibly capable of doing. Personally knowing how talented she is, it really makes you all look so ignorant. Incredibly typical of the 'enlightened' crowd methinks.

[@Liz_in_oregon]

I think she's adorable and she seems like she has the biggest heart! I don't find her annoying at all. These comments make me sad.

[@autumnpendergast9151]

Marie me too. She is a joy and a rare gem. But then I always find people are frightened by young women like that. Women who hold the future in their palm.

[@marasgm2831]

I found her adorable as well good to know she is apreciatted outside the people here proyecting into her

[@datakprosto123]

I actually enjoyed watching this! I like the fact that she sincerely does not feel social pressure that she has to get up and leave)

[@thenightismyrefuge]

Great talk and very courageous of her to go on stage, but she needs to overcome her need to please everyone. We can tell by her nervous laughter that she has a real need to not disappoint or displease anyone

[@Billyboy7037]

aaaaaand she was annoying as F***….

[@LuanaKoch]

@@Billyboy7037 as you and your stupid comment . aum shanti aum

[@AkelasanAK]

... isn't that a fear of conflict? ... not feeling confident to stand your point ... needing appreciation from others ...

[@randomthoughts689]

Who's we? Lol ..... Oh my. Probably wise not to assume everyone feels the same way 🤷

[@Aethelrose]

she compulsively agrees with everything, yet can't answer a question or form a thought beyond agreement

[@aliciasalazar6773]

I remember when I first started to watch Teal's videos. Some things I resonated with, others I felt overwhelmed, but then I prayed foR understanding. Now everything she says about every single subject I resonate with. I'm like... who is this gorgeous woman? How on earth does she know so much? She makes perfect sense to me now. It seems like I know what she's talking about. You know what I mean?😅😍😀🙃😉

[@rileysdimension7843]

I like the way she says Yeah yeah yeah In between every word she says.But it's also a little sad at the same time because I see alot of PTSD in this lady. Great advise from Teal as always.

[@gojirahanma757]

This video literally popped up in my time of crisis when I've disappointed someone by going about things the ways I've wanted.

[@TheNamelessOne888]

That will be me soon or a little bit later.

[@VivKittie32]

Gojira Hanma Me too.

[@gojirahanma757]

BREEZYISBAE💙 I'm not going to lie, at least the Laughing lady in the other clip it was infectious and made you feel good,, this lady it was just kind of distracting and absent-minded

[@NeilG2023]

me too dude. This timing was impeccable.

[@Otto-Webb]

I especially love how people tend to link their emotions, well-being even to my personal freedom and decisions i am making for myself. People attacking your for not eating meat and then calling you problematic, religion choices, relationship choices, even clothing choices, they narcistically state that everything you do towards your own self-realisation is done to harm them and make them suffer, so one can conclude if others link their happiness to your unhappiness you should consider the priorities and goals of the person you are giving your attention.

[@neliaferreira9983]

This was very insightful. I have never phrased it that way. A good sentence to have in my repertoire: "Why is your wellbeing chained outside of yourself to my personal choices?".

[@Notavlogger817]

Life is bitterly sweet and harshly beautiful

[@pandorajodara]

I agree that the conversation just stayed on the surface. But perhaps in the state the person was in, there was nothing more Teal could do. I find these workshops bizzare sometimes, as people who go there seem to be intimidated and can't hold a conversation, or truly open up. After all Teal is not a therapist, this is not going to work the way therapy works. Also telling people the truth won't hack it sometimes. Perhaps the woman needs next to quit her job, feel slightly awful about it, realise the problem is not really the job (maybe the job made it worse)... so, just go through all the stages, until she realises what she truly needs in her life and how to solve inner conflict. After all, outer conflict just reflects the inner conflict so maybe there's more digging needed to find a resolve and reach a peaceful state of integrity with all the conflicting desires one may have. The questions that could be asked are: are you sure it's this job at fault? how is your next job going to be better? what are you going to do to feel better in your own skin, and feel better about your decision? How will you express authenticity from here on? I think the nervous laughter is another "mask", in order to appear unaffected by things, it is not only an expression of being nervous. So people who are triggered by it here, the trick is, it's not that you can't cope with laughter, you can't cope with the "mask" and perhaps the underlying sadness.

[@AsNatureIntended13]

Maria Moraru Amen.

[@XeaRae]

I appreciate your take. I believe she is showing a facade to protect herself. Do I have my own facades? Absolutely. But conversing with someone’s facade can be frustrating. It feels like a waste of time interacting with someone’s mask and guessing what is underneath it. I can empathise with her defensive body language. Some part of her views Teal as a threat (or judge or critic) and she is trying to protect herself by hiding vulnerable parts of herself. I can empathise with that. It’s a very raw and vulnerable place to be. So her honesty checked out here.

[@pristineparr7509]

Very insightful. Thought Teal would prove a bit deeper but that didn't happen. I think maybe it was cut short because the woman did indeed come across as willing to say whatever she had to to appear agreeable. It was braying and maybe Teal thought it was better to cut these short than to keep going round and round

[@clairecognizant6615]

insecure much?

[@kate7932]

I can’t cope with constant yeeee... it’s like a person repeating the word “school” over and over again at the end of a sentence.. it’s almost like a barrier in a conversation.. it seemed a conversation of a person that wasn’t really okay to be there.. so a not conversation.. I think teal had difficulties too.. so yes, maybe it’s more accurate this you said

[@saracoley3163]

Shes being brave because shes clearly very nervous to be doing this. Good on her ❤

[@pennyc7064]

Can't imagine she has negative energy at her work place. She "seems" so happy/friendly!

[@JJ-qz5gv]

Bless this woman and bless Teal's patient demeanor.

[@rodneypaglialong1038]

open discussion, however, the examinee is more concerned about how she looks to the crowd. She hasn't practiced "how to disappoint people", she is learning how to stretch herself, is brave, courageous, and fearless in being used as a public example. I admire her.

[@sandqwizm]

The best way to reach someone and make them understand and live through their challenges is to help them realize it on their own rather than giving them the answer. The hints and nudges did not hit home but for a moment her true self came out then went back in and the layers of emotional distress where present as the giggles.

[@sarahcowan5925]

Omg that woman is the cutest!!!!! I really hope she followed her heart and found her true passion in life and is happy ❤️

[@GabrielaLevi]

I love this girl, her laughter is everything 😂❤ Yeah, she was nervous, but her energy was lighting up the room, what a beautiful person!

[@pallasade1807]

I love how teal listens fully and completely before answering. Some people like Abraham hicks… interrupt before the person is done speaking. I believe Bashar does this too sometimes. But Teal let’s them explain themselves fully and they feel seen and heard and I love that.

[@TheMadsonblfanatic]

I can only imagine what it's like to be in the same building as Teal Swan 's energy let alone in the same room and in close proximity with her. This girl is me 🥰

[@88happiness]

I came here after Teal's video on intermittent reinforcement (the rats addicted to pellets) knowing that I need to leave a relationship, but the person in question thinks they need me. It was eyeopening, to realize what the win-win situation is.

[@thankyoujesus2836]

So sad how people looove to pick these brave souls apart

[@ourevilone]

agree.

[@ideasandtrucking]

loveisforever im with you. Thank you, you brave soul❤

[@autumnpendergast9151]

Definitely, I am appalled my the condescension in the comments, though not surprised, people who think they are enlightened are often sad wankers. My daughter is one of her students, this was a really big decision for her, and she made it and I can't wait to see where she goes! She is exceptionally talented. That is the thing these people don't realise, just because someone isn't good at public speaking, doesn't mean they are not incredible at what they do. She is an amazing teacher, but she is also exceptional at what she teaches, and teaching has been an important job, that she started very young (straight out of high school) and now she is going to flourish and have an incredible career. We have just watched a very talented woman make a huge decision to grow. But she made the decision before she talked to Teal, she just wanted to reconcile that with leaving the students she loves and who love her. He laughter was mostly confusion, as she understood Teal from the very beginning, but Teal didn't realise that is how many Australians talk so kept repeating herself. I found that more frustrating than my friends nervous laughter.

[@catdeluxeatday]

what's her subject? :)

[@after1001]

BRAVE soul?

[@Carmeeenxo]

I understand kind of where this lady is coming from. Aside from her obviously being uncomfortable, she asked a valid question. She’s battling between what would be a best for her. The truth is, if she found something better suited to her, she would have left already. But, she doesn’t know what she wants yet. I get that. We sit on fence for a long time, waiting for the perfect opportunity in circumstances like this. I hope she finds in her life, where her true joy is. 💛💛

[@TyraHigh]

She fills conversation with yeah and laughter, looks like she tries to please people out of nice performance. It’s nice to say yeah and let people know you’re listening. She seems unfocused. Like a child.

[@BarbaraMerryGeng]

Tyra High I see it as a fear of intimacy, the constant giggling is a wall of defense, nothing is getting through.. I myself could not stay on this interview w/o distracting myself , and I’ve never done this in a Teal interview ..

[@IchDuForeverExplorering]

nice analysing, but no, you don´t got the point of the video, try to analyse yourself, when noones watching, do you think you are more adult or more child? or are you even in a babystate like me?

[@NegG1919]

wow, the lady considered herself to be of a bad nature and it was her way of trying to find the work or route in the conversation to avoid her stern nature coming to the surface. She simple didn't want to position herself to be defensive of her feelings nor did she want to be put on trial.

[@simonneslezak4540]

Leslie Holcomb well said

[@rikvandermeer8323]

well well you people are so perfect so amazing wauw XD c'mon you aint perfect.. like you act right now i bet you are excaly the things you said about her, you decribed yourself. self hate XD

[@plaideuse]

there's a dark side to this.. I take other humans as part of myself but that includes I want the same behaviour from them towards other humans too, me included. The thing is - they are not there yet. So I'm trapped because I want something that only a few of us know and are doing actively. Personal grow has a dark side - the more you "work" the lonelier you get. We are living our hells different ways but once you see this, your world will be different.

[@rebecca_stone]

The only thing I'm hearing is trapping you, is the belief that it's somehow pointless to take others' interests as your own if the person doesn't understand nor reciprocate. You'll generate your own momentum from sticking to principles whether others are ready or not. Do it for the innate joy of it, nothing more x

[@Gloroxsocks]

What teal said at 11:11 caused me to feel a flush of relief!

[@randomthoughts689]

The comments under Teal's videos are so intriguing. Sometimes I feel like I'm in a hoard of bible thumpers, but replace the bible talk with new age rhetoric. Sometimes it's just a bunch of gratitude, there's some wisdoms shared, and some strange cultish mentalities that also remind me of church politics. Never a dull moment 🤪

[@samxsara]

This blonde woman is parts of all women. So is Teal.

[@ericgiesbrecht5493]

That was painful to watch

[@BarbaraMerryGeng]

For the first time, I met a person I can’t stand to listen to / during a Teal interview

[@goldendots7626]

Some months ago I would be irritaded also, now that I embrace MY awkward feelings in front of audiences, I can only feel symbathy and understanding for this woman that has to show her vulnerable side to herself, teal and the rest...not so easy people...

[@galiyaapple]

my summery is when you do what is best for you and you have no doubts in that, then universe will give you support in it. If you doubt inside of yourself, you do create those situation when you have to struggle and fight for things you want, just to prove to yourself that you really want to have them. Because the universe reflects what our mind consists. i do watch this videos coz they remind me on truth which i already know.

[@nathmartins3154]

People saying that the girl’s laugh annoys them, but her laugh actually gives me anxiety because that’s exactly what I do when I’m nervous, I laugh like that😂

[@VideoGamersOasisPlayTheatre]

Good points made. If it's GOOD for YOU, it's GOOD for EVERYONE. DON'T SELL your SOUL to FEED someone else's EGO. Peace.

[@Pienterr]

"Please everyone" and than in to narsicism, So reall! Thanks for this enlightment.

[@CODkiller998]

I've never felt this awkward watching a video

[@ellafaith8760]

Liked this immediately upon seeing the title, before even watching it! :) This is so relative to what I have going on personally right now, I already know I am going to love this.

[@linanilssonberglund]

This woman, how lovely and funny!! Brought me both laughter and insights 💜💜

[@Nokia.online.369]

everyone was mean and called her "annoying" but i all what i saw is sweet and lovely lady, she made my day with her infinite "yeaaaah.. yup"

[@sunsetjesus4719]

lesson learned - when you try so hard not to disappoint others, you end up annoying tf out of others

[@Saorlaithelka8]

It’s not synchronicity that the most people pleasing personality type ended up on stage presenting an excellent performance of someone who deflects and pleases and is clearly not tuned into themselves deeply enough.

[@MrCooper83]

Sometimes feels REALLY GOOD if I disappoint others. I love to see their reactions, the way how they want to hide their emotions :) It is great!

[@lovely1-b6l]

hope you really get what you want with people surround you

[@nadineg1889]

Thanks for getting onstage :)

[@thecoolestgingerkid]

4:17-4:34 daaaang.... that just made me realize this person I hate reflects an aspect of me I’ve been hating 😧

[@christianstachl]

Last weekend i started a class about spiritual healing. The first steps were getting a good basis etc and that included the realization you discribed. It's so eye opening, but on the other hand it's also very hard to accept ;)

[@JockularK]

Alexandra, that person you hate could also reflect an aspect of you that you suppress (the jungian shadow). That can be a scary thought, but when you dig very deep and be honest with yourself, it makes sense.

[@blankearth5840]

Don’t ever be a people pleaser

[@slrdspirit]

Everyone has to do the work. I'm pretty sure we all was once there before. Remember it's a process and it takes discipline and patience lol. Try to enjoy the ride. 🙏🏾

[@lucasthehuman242]

She just was there cos someone gifted a free card, was distracted, saw all the people standing and she stud up. Went to the stage to drop her “question” (based on having listened someone’s opinion about what “What they think about Teal Swan” from NEWS channels). She didn’t understand ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! She just wanna run away from there! One can see it at the beginning, when she says “Are we now going to talk about my life in front of all these people?”. She really meant it, she didn’t have idea about the workshop 😅. And she managed to answer and go through all of it laughing and repeating “yes, yes, yes”and “definitely” 🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♂️

[@Whowhytho]

this video literally appeared on my time line a day after I had the displeasure of being around a really insecure woman who spent the whole night interrupting my conversations and being rude to me because she felt left out and jealous. I'll keep doing me even if it triggers insecure people. :)

[@lucygoosey33]

This lady is on the verge of a nervous breakdown. Just leave and stop trying to pretend everything is okay when it is not. Stand up for yourself and be authentic. You are not a nicer person by acting like you are nice when deep down inside you are losing it and resenting everyone but yourself.

[@lizsypher9341]

smvc are you more upset because you have to feel what she is feeling and you would prefer not

[@autumnpendergast9151]

No she isn't. She is on the verge of becoming amazing! She just didn't want to feel like she was letting our kids down. Sheesh.

[@lucygoosey33]

Yes Liz

[@lucygoosey33]

Possibly Tani

[@badtzmarugirl31]

I agree - she was being inauthentic with herself, and the laughing covers up actually wanting to ask questions or know more. In reality she cares about looking good more than she cares about the actual "problem". I wonder if she pretends to "play dumb" when in fact she just doesn't want to say what there is to say for fear of disappointing others (which on the flip side still wanting to look good).

[@sophielism]

Wait... what did I just watch? What was even the question and the answer? I'm confused...

[@thePribs]

I loved this conversation between these two lovely ladies ❤️❤️❤️

[@willyouwright]

Whats best for her is to find a way to nuture and encourage and bring magic into the lives of those around.. i know that cos its what i want to give and get from others.. i dont want to be taught. I want to be inspire by beauty in others creation...

[@mariat8848]

These workshops are so comforting 💙

[@kirky9347]

Reminds me of the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie.

[@shenonnie17]

Like the flowers and the lavender chairs

[@nicolesawyer7117]

So many people in the comments being mean girls. You get up on stage in front of all those people then you can judge 🤦‍♀️

[@phoebesativa4011]

well said x stop bashing your fellow sisters down ladies. this woman speaking on stage is very brave. and you girls dissing her are cowardly because your posting negative comments on a KZbin video.

[@kate7932]

I think her laugh is a mechanism to cope with the anxiety of being there talking with Teal and many other people.. I found it hard to follow her.. the constant yeee it makes me realize she wasn’t really understanding what they were talking about

[@Bri-ss1gu]

This was sooo painful to watch, it was so awkward! But at the same time I couldn’t stop laughing because the nervous laughter was contagious 😂😂😂

[@zaitoonnaz9575]

I swear, it was cute as well 😂😂😂

[@zaitoonnaz9575]

Oh my God! Teal I love you so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤ I feel better just by looking at you for a second. Your smiles are everything 😭❤

[@Guest-t9z]

This may be the best interactive video i have ever seen.

[@zin82e98]

Something about non-confident people is really irking. Maybe I take it more personally because I too have been and still am a bit like that... but I just kept thinking how women and men differ and generally speaking men are confident in themselves, they allow themselves to exist. Like I just want to tell the beautiful lady to take up space and that you have the right to be there and ask questions. That you are worthy and to relax and let yourself be. Every laugh and yeah felt like an attempt to escape. Kudos to her that she even got up their being so nervous- quite brave.

[@destroyraiden]

they say men are born and molded to be confident while women are born and molded for to self conscious. It really starts with he is strong and she is pretty, or he is smart she is pretty, big difference in those two words 99% of people will say something constructive about a boy while for a growing baby girl it's pretty.

[@bakertaker777]

I wish the girl would ask Teal to clarify what she meant instead of saying ye ye ye, when its so obvious she didn't absorb anything that was said. I think this would've been more beneficial for her if she hadn't been so nervous, or wasn't in front of an audience

[@sometimesreviewsandthinkin5056]

With all the controversy around Teal. I would say that it does not matter if her past is made up. She has a talent for what she does anyway

[@rekostarr7149]

There would still be something very sinister about it. I'm just going to say that we all need people that we can trust in our lives. People we can't trust fully perhaps also serve a purpose; for example, you wouldn't get too close or commit fully to them. Teal said it herself that her goal is to get her information out there first and foremost and so a level of distrust may somewhat be beneficial to that end. Some people would use controversy to their advantage, and embrace the spotlight no matter the personal costs; not my style. It is important for me to unshackle myself completely from long-term hurtful controversies.

[@ceecollette6708]

I was led to watch this after watching the 11:11 video. When I tell you, the conversation between them is the exact one I've been having internally...both sides. I know this was meant for me. This was confirmation x10 💚💚💚.

[@dallymoo7816]

it was 12:22 for meee

[@marasgm2831]

I feel so angry to the universe becouse i think that the way we raised conscoiuness its so painful and everyone around me I see are falling into emotional crisis and i cant do anything to help them, i know this is not something I suppose to feel but its in me right now help me :( like this resenment to the universe and the way it works why cant it be easier? We cant we heal thorugh love and softness? Teal just I love the way you walk with us in life and you literally saved my life through light Lov u

[@alecksklar5135]

Mara Stephania Garcia Maya we can heal through love and softness period

[@tessarae9127]

You feel this way because it is true. We do only heal through love. However, healing is not possible if we are not willing to find our wounds. Imagine you fall off a bike and skin your knee. If you apply a bandaid and all that jazz without looking at it, you're going to be less successful at treating your wounds. A healer does not save people from themselves. A healer shows through example how to become saved. You are no different. Emotional crises is difficult but also immensely beautiful; it is beautiful because the pain oftentimes becomes a turning point. If you want to find a way beyond suffering, you walk the path of being the change you want to see in the world. Understand where they are, go there yourself, and find the way out.

[@TheEve1968]

It comes on time. I'm on the way to quit my job and it was a difficult decision to make. :)

[@stellarwulf]

I'm not sure why people judge others on stage when the majority of people in general have a fear of public speaking.

[@lovelylibra7349]

My bf laughs when uncomfortable or nervous. I found it very annoying at first I still do from time to time but I try not to give him a hard time about it accepted who he is I kind of feel bad for this girl at all the comments that say she's annoying yes ,she may be annoying but she's a human being and has feelings she might be reading the comments... We all have insecurities

[@Lunarosalina]

aww wut, I love her laughing!! She's so sweet. She is being emotionally vulnerable and very brave!

[@Lunarosalina]

I don't know if anyone cares but ima lay this out here for myself later... this lady has a prominent Moon ruled Nakshatra (baby-like, rounded, sweet, nurturing, loving, silly, emotionally vulnerable) and Teal has a prominent Sun ruled nakshatra (warrior-like, stoic, disciplined, wise, an adviser, structure oriented). This makes the dynamic between them so beautiful to me, like Sun and Moon lol. Vedic astrology aside, these are innate parts of this girl's personality, why you people gotta be so disrespectful?

[@acfiTraining]

her comment at the end (12:55 onwards) is a perfect example of cognitive dissidence , she has ideals and ambitions she fancies yet they don't fullfill her.

[@ipeklofijs]

Don't you hate the way you hate the way you hate yourself?

[@dramendiana373]

😂 OMG So cute and gentle girl! Love her nervous laugh! I think the problem in that kind of situations, and she didn't ask, is how to convince the other part that it is also in their best interest the decision you are taking. How help them set free that resistance? It also apply when is an actually inner conflict, how is the better way to let the part in conflict to know that is time to take a different way than the one it's preferring? 🤔

[@velvetzica]

Omg, i have such mixed feelings about this video! I cringed so much when i listened to the nervous laugh and the continuos yeah, yeah, yeeeee of this young, beautiful girl that i hardly finished the video. It is clearly that she is nervous speaking about her problems in public, but in the same time i'm not sure that she even realises how exagerated and stessfull for others are her nervous reactions. I think she is a gentle, kind soul and i guess she was courageous to face her fear of public speaking. I even realised that at same point i do that also when i am nervous...well, not to the same level, it's not a nervous laugh, but i tend to smile when the situation gets weird and when i don t know what to say i just go:mmmm, ok, nmmm etc.... Weird ways mirroring is working!

[@dcoci]

I relate to this woman's excited, kinda needy desperation for reassurance, and her nervousness. It would be very difficult to be able to relax and communicate in that situation. She was very sweet and I hope she was able to quit her job after that hahahaha. I hope she quit a lot of things!

[@jo.k.4210]

Dear Teal, can you tell me how to revolt against something without enhancing the thing we revolt against? Thank you and I always appreciate you.

[@neliaferreira9983]

Have you ever gotten your answer? From someone or from life itself? Would you share it?

[@alexanderx3554]

Yes the nervous laughter is hard to watch on the video. Put it aside and listen to the message (Reflecting of what I told myself)

[@thankyoujesus2836]

Alexander X better yet find the part within you that is her and love it unconditionally so you don’t feel so appalled by her. What is it exactly you disapprove of her and why? Where do you do exactly this? Good luck

[@sisselhansen3915]

Beautiful you, Teal Swan!! I wonder, how can I be aware of this "hidden manipulation" which someone does to me... They want me to move to their place (for my best, ofcourse) but I'm not sure...my intuition tells me that 'Thats Not What I Want!' but when speaking with them, they always manage to convince me...(almost...) And tell me that "its much more secure to live there when you get old...&; the health system there is much better,,, and:"You're not so young, anymore..." And i feel I'm being manipulated, though they do it because they love me and want my best, ofcourse. But it makes me feel that the world is like a prison! Thanks so much for your videos, Beautiful Teal Swan ❤🙏🎼🎵😍

[@ginarossi1541]

It’s so difficult for me to listen to this because of the constant nervous laughter. I know I need it too

[@kareemahmed6702]

Thanks to Prof. Teal Swan , I'm Awake . She has been and still the goddess teacher to me , she helped me realize my true self and had her affection through all long of my journey , she made me realize I'm NOW and HERE really my true self during every phase of my journey , she represented the GOD SELF or also the higher brahman self to me , I was always wondering that I want to be like her at least partially and now I say that her being is enough for me , for us and for the humanity , and until the end , she has been and will always the GREATNESS to me , Thank you Teal and no enough words for telling how much I appreciate your help and care , We always raise and transcend through your knowledge that you give , you're the living SPIRIT as a human which you made TEAL SWAN , Thank you very much .

[@jessjenkins5474]

I was in this situation last year. Wow this video is so good!

[@sheenaryan508]

I love watching these. Thank you Teal ❤❤❤

[@kellycraytor]

Awww shame this poor lady ❤❤❤ Teal your work is wonderful ❤❤❤ she’s a gem 💎 how they took advantage of her …

[@gusdavjr3740]

This girl taught me patience.. Jesus Christ

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Yeah, I actually couldn't make it through. Not even close, I have a long way to go in regards of "these things" lol.

[@gusdavjr3740]

TheAwakenedINFJ Lol, yeah I actually couldn't make it the first time, the cringe was too strong but I came back a second time and finished it. She's actually kinda funny when you look at it from a different perspective but still.. Jesus Christ

[@jamieazalea685]

hm, I just ended a teaching contract this year too! After many years of trying to stick it out. Glad it's over and hope the new employee who takes over the empty slot enjoys their position.

[@belleofthecamp6530]

Thinking that last statement she said about wanting to change to meet their ideals should be the most important thing to remember. She is willing, more than willing to change herself for others. Which as Teal emphasized isn’t inherently a negative, as it’s subconsciously taking others into yourself…however is it done compulsively and consciously?

[@Gtyler28]

This was really good. I really and truly liked it. Seems so easy to figure out if you put it in this context. Thank you

[@comotuabogada]

This was so awesome to witness from the distance ❤❤❤❤

[@bludesertfairy3370]

Watching you live in these last videos has been so intense! You have so much patience Teal! I am like next! Which tells me my selfcare isn't up to par to be of the type of service worker I would like to be yet* I need more selfcare..

[@erdem--]

Your videos helps me so much. Thank you...