HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF | the power of authenticity & not letting judgment get to you

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

I HOPE YOU ENJOY THIS EPISODE! this was fun to film and talk about :) pls dont forget to like, subscribe, & leave a comment! love you so much :)

[@Grangerways]

LOVE YOU FERN❤

[@Grangerways]

SO EXCITED FOR THE NEW PROJECTSS

[@crystalgtv5223]

🎉🎉🎉 🙌🏾 now I’ll have something to listen to in the car 🚗 ❤❤❤

[@LetsRomanticizeLife]

Yay! I discovered your podcast a couple of weeks ago and I've been looking forward to a new episode!

[@byeol-kh3lm]

Heyy Fern, just letting yk love, I think the screenshot in 18:57 isn't supposed to be there. :)

[@pst127]

Use this as a I love fern button

[@Imsohapoyilovekpop]

Love you girl ❤

[@SkyHigh098]

No I won’t.

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[@Grangerways]

The way this girl is just so amazing just teaching us all new stuff and helping us become better and have a happier life❤

[@NicoleTurner_]

I recently quit smoking weed & your podcast & KZbin has helped me quit so much!! You’re so positive & motivate me to live a better life! Thank you Fernanda!! 💕💕💕

[@nikolewrites1360]

congrats on quitting- I just recently stopped too- continue staying strong

[@NicoleTurner_]

@@nikolewrites1360 thank you babe!! You too 💕💕💕💕

[@Yours_mxxn]

You're doing great sis !! Power to you ❤️

[@TheNewWifeLife]

What I love is that I clean my house during these & I feel like I’m on the phone with a friend but not have to say anything but it’s a refreshing conversation

[@dqndicore]

So proud of you

[@peacelandhaven]

"Be yourself" sounds simple, but it takes real courage and work to discover who that is. Thank you for encouraging us to dig deep and live authentically. 🌟

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

🤞🏻♥️♥️♥️

[@lillydorawilkins]

i love that you give personal examples of everything you're talking about! So helpful and admirable x

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

so glad!

[@xoxo-gw8qs]

this video came in such a perfect time for me. i just came to a new school and i started being friends with the „cool” group. but i wasnt happy there. i constantly acted different so they would like me, but it just wasnt working. i felt miserable and that i didnt fit anywhere. i was anxious around them and cried every day. but i slowly started becoming friends with these girls in our class, i had to step out of my comfort zone because im not used to making new friends. but i really just relaxed and was myself and they accepted me into their „group”. i have never been happier. i never felt this good around new people and it’s really just amazing. this video reassured me in making the right choice and thank you for that. from now on, ill be just myself because i realised thats what makes me happy right now.

[@lgrcb555]

Dear Fernanda, thank you for this incredible pod, such a daily inspiration, I feel so much gratitude for your content, thank you for your incredible work, beautiful and radiant aura 💛

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

aw thank you!🥹🥹🥹

[@lucieirl]

I just withdrew from a teacher training course after thinking it was my goal for the last 5 years or so, but somehow it’s feeling right even though I’m now moving into unknown waters and having to go back to my family house etc, definitely leaning into the idea of authenticity and just honouring myself and how things make me feel. Already feeling like I’m engaging with the world in such a different but positive way! This podcast came at the right time 🥰

[@Imsohapoyilovekpop]

Girlys remember to always put yourself first and spend time with you ❤

[@salimouche3945]

One of my values I hold dear is indeed being authentic and authenticity in general, even though around some people I feel like I can’t be myself otherwise they won’t like me. But I’m working on it I’m losing friends but it’s worth it because the ones that stays are the ones that like me for me and imo it’s the most precious thing ever. Im also more attracted authentic people. I’m writing a lot but to sum up being authentic change life (for the better) thanks Fernanda for this podcast it was amazing like always 💖

[@camilleannemagat]

Hello Fern you are the best of the best Person I know through these online community Since 2020 I was watching to your vlog even when the time you are new in this online industry platform. I’m glad that you exist through out those vid and podcast i watch at listen when the time i lost myself confidence because of other people opinions. You are those people who help and cheer up on me. I learn to stand up to express myself to the most better version of person i can be. From Pampanga Philippines🇵🇭 I wish i can meet u personally to thanks for the genuine powerful words that u shared to all of us who was listening and watching u everytime.

[@mk.chellie]

i can kinda relate to the influencer thing. to vlog or not to vlog 😭😭. on the one hand vlogging is good to show others how you live but on the other hand if you're always showing people your life then you don't get to really live your life!!

[@juliaserreck7249]

Cant really express how much i love her

[@sydneypadgett4606]

Fernanda, I love this podcast episode! It is very important to be the truest version of yourself, and I love how you talked about this topic 💕💕💕

[@Grangerways]

Anyone else just love that white couch😂

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

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[@Yram0018]

I love how passionate you are about every topic Fernanda!! You want others to be the best version of themselves

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

so glad you like🥺

[@Alinaurstargirl]

Words can’t describe how much I love this girl

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

:) love u more!

[@valencorpancho672]

Every episode is a learning experience and makes my day! I love it!

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

yay!!

[@LetsRomanticizeLife]

Authenticity is so important.

[@noe492]

This girl saves me everytime,I really needed this podcast❤

[@saumyasingh9513]

Thankyou thankyou thankyou sooooooo muchhh seriously I was just wasting my all my energy from 1 year in adopting the false personality just to be accepted by everyone and I lost myself and was not happy felt stuck and exhausted . I am really feeling so calm and relaxed like I am not feeling pressurised anymore . Love you siso💌

[@Rebekagomilsek97]

I do astrology for several years and i believe that you can learn so much about yourself and others through astrology. You can really understand people on a deeper level and understand why they are the way they are. And also u can find people with whom u are compatible with🌙🧸 also your moon sign & house that moon is it in ,is very important because it shows where you feel the safest and with whom - all your emotions💗

[@ittychan]

then im curious. what can you say abt moon in leo in 1st house?

[@Rebekagomilsek97]

@@ittychan Moon in leo - u can be pretty dramatic person emotionally your emotions are quick and very direct. Especially because moon is in the first house people can easily see how you feel. Your emotions can be shown on your face.Your emotions can also be changeable. So the way you feel now and the way you feel in a couple minutes with not be the same. Moon in 1st house is also part of your personality and the way u look. Maybe you can have more cancer vibes.Your face can be rounder just like the moon. You can have bigger or brighter eyes. Moon also represents where you feel most at home. U can feel that u are very independet person & maybe not so connected with your home life.

[@ittychan]

@@Rebekagomilsek97 wow, it actually reflects me a lot... thank you!

[@JaedaWorthy-cp4bh]

​@@Rebekagomilsek97I'm a moon in Sagittarius, 1st house. Scorpio rising, Pluto in the 1 house. I want to embody my own energy

[@JaedaWorthy-cp4bh]

​@@Rebekagomilsek97 if you start your own channel ab astro, I would subscribe rq.

[@SARA-fw3dh]

When I listened to your podcast, I really want to change ⚡️

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

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[@sabinabeansabean9720]

hi girl!! was listening to this then I heard a pause, I think you forgot to edit out this clip at 18:58 ?? Not sure if that was intentional or accident tho love this episode!!

[@KaylaaHazel]

I was wondering the same thing, I’m like why did it pause….? Lol

[@abeedakhanum2789]

Ur podcasts are always sooo strongly motivating 🥹♥️

[@Nixie_Pixie09]

Please make a video about finding the true purpose... Loved the video❤

[@Ali.18550]

Be honest to yourself and don’t try to impress others, (be yourself because everyone else is taken - Oscar Wilde)

[@Grangerways]

I love having Fernanda as my bestie❤

[@Lissamaire]

i love ferdana she such a beautiful soul and helps and reminds of things i need to hear💞

[@antigonibeqiraj853]

I love ur podcast❤ u do such a good job and u made me love to improve myself everyday ❤

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

thank you beautiful!

[@jasminebadillo2879]

I’m working out w/ the podcast!! my fav way to workout

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

Love that!

[@stellafrank6714]

THIS IS EXACTLY MY SITUATION

[@gillianl6326]

your timing with this topic girl. thank you!

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

You're so welcome!

[@alianaway]

LOVED THIS! Thank you so much ❤️

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

So glad!

[@ChloeSinclair-jt5kj]

I have been binge watching it videos a lot I find them really helpful ❤

[@cyb3rlove123]

Yes finally I was waiting for Ferenda to post ❤😮😅😊

[@siobhan110]

ur voice is life changing ily

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

🥹😭

[@Grangerways]

PODCAST FAMILY WE ALMOST AT 180k WOOOOOOHOOOOO

[@KaylaaHazel]

I love your podcast!! but at 18:58 it pauses with a picture of your messages, was that intentional? I was a little confused lol I thought the podcast stopped for a second

[@Yram0018]

How do you spot someone who is fake though? What energies do you get?? How can you cut ties with them subltly. And what if it is family who you cant feel your most authentic around :(

[@Irai9746]

Hey, Fern! 21:52 the term for that should be "labelling theory" - it's basically when someone gets labelled as.. something; lets say "gifted", they'll probably feel the pressure to conform to that label by studying harder & becone the top student, no matter what. Hope this helps. XD

[@koyumi_no_kumo]

i want u to know that i follow u from Algeria 🙆🏻‍♀️ i mean your podcasts They have come this far, even to the Arab countries. I bet you don't even know the location of my country from the map 😭😂 .. but you are very inspiring to me 🩷🩷🩷

[@Euagelia03]

18:59 I think you put it here by accident and I think that you should know because it might be something personal that you wouldn't want us to see

[@harshachotia]

Loved this so so much ❤, taking notes for sure 🌝

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

So glad!

[@giada_montalto]

love you fern!💗

[@Grangerways]

YESSS IVE BEEN WAITINGGG❤

[@HaileyDuarte334]

I love your podcast fern it make me so happy🥰🥰

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

I love you!

[@valencorpancho672]

Hey fern at 21:23 there seems to have been an issue in the video 21:24 where it's cut and a screenshot from your dms was leaked

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

oops! omg thank you - I just edited it out but it should take a couple hours for it to go through

[@enamoradadelavidaa]

@18:57 too girlie!!!! @@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA

[@valencorpancho672]

@@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA haha no worries! I'm glad you were able to get it fixed, I just wanted to let you know since I figured you may have missed it since it's a lot of long form content to edit

[@clairegar3]

remember: i am grateful for the things i dislike because they help me understand what i do like more! :D

[@Shahid-m4n]

Welcome back 🍀🌼

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

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[@koyumi_no_kumo]

i were waiting for that so badly

[@shadankhansary5187]

I love these!!

[@aminanejat6387]

I needed this podcast ❤ thanks Fernanda

[@jasmynesartstudio]

Starts at 9:00

[@the-comments-poet]

Wanderings A thick blanket of new snow Has come today And hides away the season’s wear Painting it’s beauty on the scenery The sound of my steps is made quiet And in the deep covering My prints seem to follow behind Ghostly record on the unsullied ground I walk alone But the past walks with me The lane underneath buried Knows my feet And will not let me forget For I have tread here before Snow with or without My wandering From you - to you For you Always

[@rahaf7168]

The best broadcast ever❤

[@Chitorres2309]

Minute 19.25 she mentions getting hit in the head in New York . And this week a news headline came out of many women getting hit in the head in New York. I would think by now they would know who

[@LiveDangerously77]

It's ur Birthday too 😍 We're Libra ⚖️ sisters 💛🧡♥️

[@neha.badhe20]

21:59 it reminds me of the MBTI test that me and my friends did it was so fun cause I did it again and it came out completely different

[@Xtreniya]

Soo Good!!!❤️Thank You!😊

[@BBYGELLE]

you’re such a libra. so balanced and aware. this really helped me bc I think that being on social media for so long has lead me to be less aware of my own authentic hobbies, personality, style etc. such a good episode miss girlll🫶🏾

[@Liv.283]

Best podcast out there ❤

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

LOVE U

[@BellaDollStyle]

This podcast is the best Fernanda

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

🤍🤍🤗🤗🤍

[@aimantariq1981]

SOOOO EXCITED 🎉❤❤ 1STT❤❤

[@Babol00wna]

18:57 caught me so off guard, the ss is there by mistake or did i've missed something?

[@zainababbasi4209]

Plss do make a video on inner work if possible, thank you.

[@FERN-EUS.JO23]

Fernandaaaa you're thebest

[@FERN-EUS.JO23]

Thanks fern

[@lovejulai7356]

18:58 Fernandaaaaa

[@w1nternightt]

I love your podcast smm🫶

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

thank you!

[@Aramiror]

You need to read the book everything is trauma its very very helpful and a it has a veryy strong method to know your true self ever since I knew about this book and the other book narcissism is a trauma my life changgeed so much for the better Love you

[@kristabelmutize2168]

I’m actually cooking while listening to you

[@nancyvioleta1272]

Great video ✨️🖤🌌

[@Belle-cr4tg]

Hey Fern! I just wanted to tell you that at 18:59 I think there is some kind of error. idk error is not the right word. but there is a screenshot of a message you received. just wanted to tell you if you haven't already noticed! hope you have a great day :)

[@esAmaranta]

i was so confused when i saw it

[@SummerNelson224]

Making oatmeal and chia seeds while watching

[@zainababbasi4209]

I love youu🥺you're my favourite💕💗

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

♥️i LOVE YOU!

[@FERN-EUS.JO23]

She's is the authentic girls

[@lilyann6622]

i have never clicked this fast

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

🥹🥹🥹

[@caitlin9781]

Does anyone know what the random message request pictures throughout the video are related to? Is that just an editing mistake or is she referencing something?

[@filaz8216]

Love this podcast, so many interesting topics

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

Glad you enjoy it!🥹♥️

[@filaz8216]

@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA I know it's kind of cringey, but every time a youtuber answers my comment I am excited like a small kid😆🥹

[@Grangerways]

I love having this podcast in my journey of becoming a better me🩷

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

YESSSS

[@iamchisenga]

Doing skincare to feel better while on my period while listening ❤

[@aimantariq1981]

Lotsss of Loveee❤❤❤

[@gloss3451]

Lamentablemente no entiendo prácticamente nada pero me estos estos temas y los uso para practicar mi escucha en inglés

[@timesoup2096]

hey girl great vid! just wondering is there meant to be a screenshot of ur instagram dms at 18:57 ? :)

[@lexiwilliford]

i was going to comment this! 💌

[@sissi3331]

Frist commenttttt love you❤❤❤

[@hermessarmiento1389]

Hola saludooos I use this podcasto to practice my listening skills couse, I’m learning inglish so I consider thay you have a good way to speak , is kind of fast , so Thanks so much 😊 By the way I’m from Colombia jajaja kiss

[@justsiennayt]

fern, where is this sweater from i luv it ❤

[@iamnottellingyoumyname]

I’m now doing a REAAAALLY lot of shadow work and reflection. I started yesterday’s evening and am continuing right now. I already have written (used) 11 pages.. That’s a lot, but there’s a lot of things to figure out and I know that there’s still a lot to go through, but I already feel better and I’m already pretty far🥹

[@koyumi_no_kumo]

finelyyyyy 😭😭😭😭😭

[@christella_24]

I really like ur videos ♥

[@cheryl3315]

BEST INFLUENCER İS HERE FOLKS OFC İT İS OUR DEAR FERNN😚😚😚

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

You're the best!

[@reina4657]

The video starts in: 12:40 :)

[@Grangerways]

JOURNEY TO 200K PODCAST FAMILYYY

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

EKKKKEKEKEKEK I KNOWWW

[@lilyann6622]

i want to be like you when im older

[@ABETTERYOUBYFERNANDA]

🥹🥹🥹

[@zynthianunez]

My birthday is October 16! 🥹♎️🩷

[@adriannaseyjagat1469]

We literally have the same birthday ❤❤❤

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❤❤❤

[@Cindy-gb3ms]

10:20 14:00 25:15 29:20 39:05 44:20

[@brenda5297]

Hi I just subscribed to your channel. Can you please please do a podcast on KZbin about getting rid of being a big worrywart? I always worry about everything every day and it's tiring. 🙏🏼