HOW TO FIND A GOOD MAN || MUTHONI MUKIRI

[@njukisperspective]

1.Emotional maturity ✔️- learn to separate emotions from facts💯 2.Heal from your childhood traumas✔️ 3.Focus on increasing your worth✔️: If you want to date better, be better. 4.Self love🎤🎤- you're the most important person in your life.✔️ Stop putting yourself on fire to keep other people warm. 5. Don't play games.✔️Nobody is a mind reader. 6. Set & communicate your STANDARDS.✔️ Know what you want and communicate it, if someone isn't willing to respect them, walk away.🏃 7. Don't commit too early, when you barely know yourself.✔️ Not earlier than 24 🚫 8. Pray for your spouse even before you meet him.✔️ 9. Express your femininity.✔️ Be vulnerable. Vulnerability is not an indicator of weakness but strength. Ladies, remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE 🏆. Pure gems.

[@muthonismission]

Yes, you are the prize. Thanks for watching.

[@njukisperspective]

@@muthonismission Thankyou for always sharing. Your wisdom is much needed in our generation.❣️

[@alicewaithira5807]

I love this

[@annraini9000]

Wow thanks for this

[@gladysmichael]

A lot of wisdom

[@martinmaina2671]

I watched this video so I am able to become a good man to my wife and a better father to my daughters. Thanks, Muthoni. You are an inspiration.

[@muthonismission]

This makes me happy. Thank you for watching.

[@ngathawambui3237]

Wow!

[@phoebewanjiru3765]

A good man and a good woman comes from the lord.kuna ata huoana wakiwa pure bt pple change..there is nothing like a full package trust me...kuri atumia ngatha fiu..my opinion..simply pray pray pray.

[@shirleyzaid9782]

Muthoni, I want you to know that you've been a blessing in my life. A great timely blessing. You have provided solutions to problems I never knew I could get out of. Thank you!

[@muthonismission]

You are more than welcome.

[@jesintahwanjiku2412]

When Muthoni talked about breaking down in the car that hit me thanks God He has fullfilled your heart desires

[@judithmwongeli843]

To be honest the message is enough and satfying.wow!!we have enough comedians,singers etc but what our gal is doing we need it most than anything else..Be blessed and may God grand you more to always deliver to us..

[@muthonismission]

Thank you so much.

[@momentswithvivien3302]

Thank you Muthoni, am a new you tuber, I felt like I found such a sister!!! I’ve been a victim several times but from now on , I choose to be better, put myself first, work on my healing and aim at choosing the right person for me by God’s grace! I love your vulnerability and openness. Blessings in your forthcoming marriage mrembo ❤️

[@muthonismission]

Thank you. All the best.

[@missiondei]

Thanks Muthoni. I am your senior by age, experience and by training in these matters but I can tell you that you are doing a great job. I love the way you are insisting on changing self to attract your kind. I encourage you to get professional training so that you can actually become an authority by experience and by training. Come to Pan Africa Christian University where I lecture for a degree in Marriage and Family Therapy or Counseling Psychology. Ignore the naysayers on your Facebook wall. You are doing well. Kudos!!

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@wangarikariuki6522]

I fully concur with this sentiment. You would make an excellent counselor, should it ever tickle your fancy

[@DorisWanjohiGifttv]

Wow. I want too

[@cessthuita5035]

I love how you insist on not playing the victim & working on ourselves to be better .... You looking beautiful Msoo❤

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@janet5679]

I found you Muthoni,I found myself .Thank you for the mission may God please bless you alot.🙏

[@muthonismission]

Thank you too

[@mercynyokabi5040]

"Let's take take the focus off the man Let's focus on ourselves We can only control ourselves" 🤩

[@muthonismission]

Precisely.

[@heartnverse]

yes, thats true, you have to learn to control yourself before getting a beast in your home, otherwise the beast will kill you.

[@hellenamedia3470]

As you are improving yourself, know that God created the best, you are amaizing. Whatever God created is good... You are good...

[@agnesladasha5641]

You're inspiring girl l learn alot through this Chanel before I used to blame myself for everything now I know how to love myself end go out my self buying gift end happiness ❤️❤️

[@muthonismission]

I'm glad I could help. Thanks for watching.

[@loycenduku5584]

Cheers gal,me here

[@adeladavis1876]

Me too I learn a lot and I see changes on myself through your videos . God bless you

[@Nyamburasworld]

In here I found a big sister that I never had. I love how the knowledge comes out with ease. And am camping here forever because self development is a lifetime role on me for me. Thanks Muthoni, barikiwa Sana🙏

[@muthonismission]

That is awesome! Karibu

[@sophiagakuru2805]

This video inspired me? Am 27 now and am learning to love myself...and working on myself.... hoping to get a husband... from my mouth to God's ears..amina

[@paulinemakaishe1738]

Me too

[@muthonismission]

Amen. Wishing you the best.

[@muthonismission]

All the best

[@diaryofagrowingblackwoman3843]

Newly single and in my mid twenties now. This could not have come at a perfect time. Thank you for this, I was really a people pleaser and now I'm starting the journey of self 💕

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching. Wishing you the best.

[@joanwangari]

The book you recommended last time' You can heal your life'is such a gem. It talks about most things you mentioned on self love. I highly recommend it 💯💯

[@muthonismission]

Yes it does. Thanks for watching.

[@fionamukoya4235]

Where can I get the book

[@brigidnjoroge6389]

I won't say much "I love you muthoni" such a nagget of wisdom you got mamaa❤️

[@muthonismission]

Thank you.

[@LolaBugzy85]

I have never felt this pressure as a woman either from myself or from my family. From society I dnt even give it airtime. Got married at 31 and now expecting a child at 36. I have always believed things will fall in place in Gods time.

[@muthonismission]

As it should be. Thanks for watching.

[@beatricenjeri6096]

This is so tourching and good

[@Laureen_nifa]

Our female Benjamin Zulu🥰I love your hair 😍😍

[@muthonismission]

Thank you.

[@esthergitau777]

You're doing a great job Muthoni 👏

[@AnnAyubanlyayub]

Wow this message is home. Who I am is a reflection of what I attract

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching ❤..instagram.com/muthonismission? Kindly follow our new insta page

[@maryamia9473]

More louder please! This video should go viral💞 Great mentorship for gal child 👌i hope gals are listening 👂it's time women stopped settling en putting up with disrespect. I love love love ladies with standards💃I've never understand how women move in with men🙄it have never crossed my mind.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@isabellamuthoni9716]

Namesake , aky! si the best thing i did this year is finding you, u've really helped me in time i needed most, i am not that open to talk of my problems.thanks for your talks motivations aky uve beening a big sister who i have never had. DONT STOP !

[@essymuthama8710]

I love this wisdom,please take mic and shout to this generation.

[@rahabwanjiru9902]

You inspire me,, by encouraging women to love themselves.and raise their standards

[@muthonismission]

Glad I can help.

[@muthonismission]

Glad I can help.

[@queenezzywanjiru3582]

Here as well but single looking for this good man coz I deserve it in God time thanks mso we have x but not good story one day we be narrated

[@muthonismission]

All the best.

[@shizma7917]

The title is abit.... ...... but what u are talking about is GOLD!. Selfcare!! Girls!! Umeongea ukweli

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@sheilawanjira29]

Thanks for reminding me to always pray I've been really desperate calling everyone in my phone book but they don't come by... Prayers are always answered at some point.🙏

[@catherinewathithi4771]

This is so helpful to us especially we girls who are in our early 20.be blessed.

[@muthonismission]

Karibu, I'm glad I can help. Thanks for watching.

[@reggyann133]

Wueh! Why did it take me too long to come here aki?... Thanks alot Msoo.. You are doing a great job

[@muthonismission]

Welcome!!

[@Shirulyyn41610]

MSO....I don't only love ur encouraging words...but also ur characters...I admire how u express ur message....be blessed mommy...u r my role model...

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@estherwambui324]

Thanks msoo for good advice...I'm on my early twenties and am greaful for the way you are preparing for us when the time comes.things we were never taught at school n home🥰

[@judynyokabi8502]

This advice earns 20 out of 10. Awesome!!

[@thehadassahgeneration4264]

Your content matches your beauty. May God give you more wisdom, strength and finances koz u have a big heart.

[@muthonismission]

Thank you Tabitha.

[@marygathoni3452]

Aki and the way i have watched this video keenly to know where you went wrong becoz of some hearsay nimeskia kwa social media. You are very right gal.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@PammyYinda]

I LOVE THIS! Thank you for your beautiful words. You are one wise woman. Continue sharing.

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome

[@margaretnduati9276]

I feel like there should be a sadaka basket passing around because Amen sister, to everything you have said. So much wisdom 🙌 🙌 Subscribed.

[@muthonismission]

😂😂😂😂 wow. Thanks for the love

[@winniewambui2]

Setting my standards and improving on myself are the most important key words that I have learned... Thankyou maah for the advice😍😍

[@muthonismission]

Welcome

[@janetchristine3282]

You are really a big sister to me. Your videos had really healed me Keep the fire burning gal. waiting for more from you

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome

[@tinaoquaro]

You just did this at a time i need to hear it.. Its worth waiting not settling just for anything just coz we are miserable or desperate. The positive energy you show here is such an inspiration. It is never too late

[@muthonismission]

Karibu

[@evamwangi1061]

Muthoni, I also had the tantrums, drama and I was so emotional. I sacrificed my happiness and peace for them for years but now, I'm so strong that I don't entertain such and I'm grateful for you Muthoni, you've taught me alot of selfworth😊🙏

[@muthonismission]

Karibu

[@loisenyamburaK]

Waow ❣️ I was also ready for drama but nowadays I did change, we need more of this girl 💘 you blessed girl

[@muthonismission]

Thank you for watching.

[@caro254foodie]

For sure your mission is to make us be better people in the society and separate emotions with reality. I can listen to this everyday.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@WangariLilian]

Muthoni, kindly share some of the videos you watch for self-growth

[@muthonismission]

I will definitely do that.

[@ruthgatimu6058]

Yeah I support you in that please do

[@itsneshonly]

We need that actually.

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

Absolutely

[@peshnjeri3966]

I am happy to know yearning for affection is normal.. I really love this..

[@muthonismission]

Yes it is. Thanks for watching.

[@ninymwangi378]

This is my first time here and am in love with you muthoni, I have now watched like 50%of your videos and it is very educative, to me I have always hard disfunctional relationships and I always blamed people

[@muthonismission]

Welcome to the family Ryma, I hope the videos help. Thank you for watching.

[@winniealuoch2391]

I get so emotional every time I watch your videos but in a good way because i relate. Thank you Muthoni

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome Winnie.

[@deborahnjeri1504]

True Mso...always giving advice coming from a place of pure intentions..thanks girl!

[@muthonismission]

You are so welcome

[@auntieaggie7007]

Thank you Muthoni for such a wonderful help to many!!! Wooow! I love the way you use self-disclosure because it makes all the difference! Self-love and setting standards, amazing!! May God bless you for sharing.

[@muthonismission]

You are so welcome

[@gracegitonga3468]

Am still wondering why people are so bitter about this video. This is the best advice ever I've learnt a lot. I think they didn't understand the content or the title of the video.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@peshyjane1730]

omg i feel inspired Muthoni...you are such a great inspiring lady....you are the best...today i just feel like am the one whom you are advising

[@muthonismission]

I am glad I could help. Thanks for watching the video.

[@charleswachira3951]

Hey young girl, where did you get all this wisdom? It cannot be said more.,, Good job, Keep it up!

[@muthonismission]

Thank you for watching.

[@marykiarie3988]

Waow mammie you such a blessing i thought am the only one who just break down at times aww thank you now am gentle to myself

[@jacksonkariuki9965]

Not only you but many

[@muthonismission]

Glad you are learning. Thanks for watching.

[@marywainaina3464]

Well said Muthoni I think I have a long journey to work on myself . ...thanks alot

[@virgomelody1529]

The number you have called yourself crazy is this video is so relatable 😁😁 to me

[@ThePEEF]

Good message Mso, Be leaving the links to your previous videos that you keep referring to. It will really help many of us. Otherwise good job. Thumbs up. GOD bless you.

[@muthonismission]

I will do that, Thank you.

[@MylesKungu]

I can't explain how much your videos have helped me grow myself. You are my big sister!!!. 💗💗

[@muthonismission]

🤗🤗🤗

[@wanjaann1]

I pray to be adequate and i am praying for him,meanwhile i am waiting for God's time😍😍thankyou Muthoni

[@muthonismission]

You got this!

[@kelitukaseo2582]

Oh my God I just realized I don't love myself at all....I have a long way to go...finding myself. Thanks for sharing this.

[@muthonismission]

You got this!

[@puritymuthoni226]

Muthoni you are a gem in this generation.

[@muthonismission]

Thank you.

[@stellanjeri8962]

Thank you so much muthoni your message is so much helpful to me i have nothing much to say but you are a messagers God sent me.

[@mercymaina6813]

This is nice content. I hope these men are there for us older women 40 and above 😊

[@muthonismission]

Thank you for watching.

[@winniewaka7910]

Hae muthoni I love your advise and topic they are so educative, kindly touch on the topic of how to deal with your ex when you working at the same place when you keep seeing them everyday at work

[@muthonismission]

Great suggestion!

[@likanari]

I have the courage to work on myself now. Thanks Muthoni 😊

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome

[@annahkimani4458]

I like your solid, practical and wise advice.

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@kangethemonica172]

Thanks muthoni It's quite encouraging. I would like to get contact of a good therapist to handle and save someone in such problems

[@fridahndeti2480]

This message is so powerful...my role model 😊

[@SOLOSOUNDS22]

Life is surely a journey, not a destination. Thanks for sharing about life at this POINT. It gives a broader imagination of tomorrow, of which hope and faith propel us through this journey called Life.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@cherutojune]

This is powerful. Continue doing the great job that you do. I started watching this channel some weeks ago and I'm here to stay.

[@muthonismission]

Welcome aboard!

[@evalynmuthoni1448]

This talk is all i needed to be a better me .

[@muthonismission]

Glad I can help.

[@alicewaithira5807]

Ndani ndani, this is what has been in my mind, thank you for covering it

[@muthonismission]

Welcome

[@judithkingola778]

Wow,, Muthoni you are God sent. Great wisdom here.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching

[@josephnganga8473]

Turning 30 early next year. I wanted to settle down before 30 and i was in a toxic relationship i was forcing to work out just to achieve my dream. I decided to quit last month.

[@esthergitau777]

It's sad.ive seen young people rush into marriages dysfunctional marriages forcing issues and becoming divorcees very early. Thank God we now have such platforms to educate us better

[@muthonismission]

I'm glad you made the right decision.

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@nashpatty6567]

Same here

[@DorisWanjohiGifttv]

Congrats

[@nancyssonni8365]

The lady may not be very experienced in as far as marriage is concerned but she has some facts..... lets work on improving our selves, thank you baby girl

[@muthonismission]

Thank you for watching Ssonni.

[@antonettewambani805]

This is so true and spot on . When you have standards , automatically the man will level up .

[@muthonismission]

True

[@mercymulatya9279]

Very true

[@aliciaallyson4678]

Thank you,,,I will keep pushing,,he will come

[@muthonismission]

You got this!

[@Muenihomes]

Muthoni I decided to watch all your vedios all day long since 4pm since am on leave and am like why did I miss your vedios😭😭😭You such an inspiration love

[@muthonismission]

Thank you Eunice

[@ruthgatimu6058]

I really love this channel because as young as I am I have someone to open my eyes on what is Ahead of me it really help me alot thengs muthoni may God always keep on blessing and giving you ideas and knowledge to inspire other people

[@muthonismission]

Karibu

[@jacklinemwangi9910]

Eeeish!! Casual waaart!! Haha my gal, hugs, hugs mammie.

[@muthonismission]

Thank you.

[@irenemsnjauwellness.2000]

My take is, you get married, go through storms of life, then know “How to find a good man”.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@23568982]

She is just excited after been desperate now she got someone She need.to take time. And see

[@irenemsnjauwellness.2000]

@@23568982 I did not mean it that way. I am sure she wasn’t desperate. I think she is a good lady, just not with enough marital experience to advise on the same. She is very wise though and I watch her videos diligently.

[@annekarobia7429]

Negative energy

[@nancykagwiri7135]

You are thick if you got mislead by the title,the message is more about self awareness and for many it's home as intended!... @Muthoni keep up mama

[@Esthershine254]

Wow God bless you gal for the inspiring videos,they are soo powerful.

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

Actually am still here and carefully listening for I am almost feed up bt, for now I will collect up myself again

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

@@muthonismission together my dear

[@janebaguette4424]

Msoo you are just amazing...you make so much sense. I love love your shows...

[@muthonismission]

Thank you so much!

[@rachealnyaguthie2470]

I absolutely love this video.. Good stuff Mso

[@muthonismission]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@EunessB]

Wow, you’re doing good Muthoni, keep it up👏🏾👏🏾

[@muthonismission]

Thank you, I will

[@nancykagwiri7135]

Wow! great word Muthoni👏

[@muthonismission]

Thank you 🙂

[@njokiwabudest6411]

very informative🙌...working on self version is very important, helps alot even in how we relate with the society....and praying is key in everything,..we should always commit our men to God..

[@muthonismission]

True. Thanks for watching.

[@monicshish8195]

Waoh...this is amazing...just on time

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome.

[@carolinekabutu9555]

Since I started following you gal am very focused with what I want🥰

[@muthonismission]

All the best

[@tabithawairimu326]

You are a blessing in my life...God bless and keep you

[@muthonismission]

You are so welcome

[@MwaleWaGitau]

My take home: You attract different kinds of men but YOU CHOOSE who stays.

[@muthonismission]

Precisely

[@thewoundedhealerremapintl2887]

👌

[@heartnverse]

yes thats true, and we are many out here with different ambitions and the way you run your life is the determinant of what path we will take in your life. meaning if your self esteem is low, we walk over you, coz we dont want to waste time raising it up, if you are poor in making choices and decisions then we manipulate you and deny you choices, thats where toxicity starts, if you dont value your dignity, then we will help in marketing that commodity, and thats where a man takes better advantage of you.

[@paulinewairimu8492]

I will start knowing myself

[@peninahngure7654]

Thanx muthoni for your advice..actually its u r talking about me,Cz right now am in that situation😓n I need help...keep the fire burning🔥🔥

[@muthonismission]

All the best

[@miriamnjuguna1160]

Great inspiration mso. Go go gal

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@joannitharburett1875]

Hello darling Keep up the good spirit in you, Thanks for sharing with us, More love from 🇬🇧

[@muthonismission]

Thank you, I will

[@sarahkariuki2123]

Great advice there👍. I wish young women can put it into practice

[@muthonismission]

I hope so too!

[@janenjuguna8946]

I am just here after the fuss in social media and bloggers madness.. But seriously where is this gal advising people in marriage?! What is the meaning of all the fuss.. Is this what is called cyber bullying?!people in their thousands attack someone for what she has not said! Mwathani!!!!! 😱😱😱😱 I am so surprised

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@chebby7351]

Some people are just bitter .

[@janemuthoni298]

My namesake...we can only control ourselves

[@muthonismission]

True

[@jacklinemwangi9910]

Waow!!! Great Message Gal.

[@muthonismission]

You are welcome.