RED FLAGS IN RELATIONSHIPS || WHAT YOU SHOULD LOOK OUR FOR || MUTHONI MUKIRI...

[@wairimu558]

"THE FIRST TIME THEY DISRESPECT YOU, IT'S ON THEM. THE SECOND TIME, IT'S ON YOU!". Deep!!

[@wairimu558]

Muthoni I resonate with almost everything you are saying. I have been deep in toxic relationships, I have let my guard down, and I have been exploited and walked on by men. Anyway, now am slowly recovering from those situations. But here is what I have to say, there is nothing like "I know I did things that I shouldn't have done" No. Life is not always about making the right choices. It's a package of all of it; the good decisions, the celebrations, the bad decisions, the mistakes, failures. These are what make life LIFE. The good choices and the bad choices make a package of who you are, own them in equal measure. The only thing is: what have you learned from all these experiences that will grow you as a person moving forward? Appreciate those 'bad decisions' you made because they have built you into the STRONG WOMAN you are today. And girl, keep up the good content.

[@joyceleboo]

I wish I'd copy save this. Well put. Awesome.❤

[@romanmateo2566]

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[@zevlorenzo4737]

@Roman Mateo I dunno I use Flixportal. you can find it thru google:) -zev

[@romanmateo2566]

@Zev Lorenzo thank you, I signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there :) I appreciate it !

[@zevlorenzo4737]

@Roman Mateo Glad I could help xD

[@Mteulepioneers2024]

Good point "when it starts raise it, if it continues stop it". This is not even a red flag it's a red duvet.

[@namulandaivy2731]

Eeey 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jenniferwanyoike3894]

👍🤣🤣

[@itsJojo201]

😳🤣🤣

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

Eish actually I understand your point very well

[@gladyssemeiyian5247]

It's a red tent

[@DaenjelicQuotes]

I love it that ''when you find yourself praying to God to give you a sign, that's a sign already...''

[@christinenjoki2747]

Ghosting is a NO for me. Disrespect is also a NO... My gut is also top notch.... I listen to it sana.

[@tourismmanagement4772]

The female version of benjamin zulu is muthoni wa mukiri

[@simiyudorcas1406]

Very true

[@janettole3442]

So true,but you know what,that's what the world needs.

[@mercienjoroge9658]

Wow leo notes nazo tumezitake na tukalearn Esp how to point out mistake s to someone, sometimes tunajipatanga tuko rude or tearful tukizipoint out.

[@mirriamchege2927]

This channel has been very helpful and i can't miss a single video. Its part of my routine now. Kindly Speak about '"Toxicity/Jealousy at the work place"

[@gathonikuriambugua4865]

I have gone through cheating, verbal abuse and emotional abuse which were all deal breakers in those relationships. I am glad I have moved on from them.

[@mercygishohi6713]

Red signs I ignored in my 4yrs relationship 🚩🚩🚩 1. Lie 2. Borrow money and never return 3. Complain about all my friends 4. Complain I call my mom for to long 5. Slept with his baby mama 6. Hit me 7. Choke me 8. Call me a baby everytime we argue 9. Irresponsible 10. Drugs and alcohol 11. Stealing from me. 12. Accusing me of killing our baby( I had still birth at 36wewks) 13. Slept with 6 women and gave me Infections. I wish I left when I saw the first ref sign. BUT ITS NEVER TO LATE.

[@amrgmusic]

i have seen 3 already and we are not even dating

[@blessings9445]

Mailod. Anyway, hope you're better now😁

[@blessings9445]

Mailod. Anyway, hope you're better now😁

[@aquilerahchris9082]

Damn truth 1000%, I'm proud narcissist servivor, when you meet one 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️they never change those zombies👹, even on new supply

[@wanjirukarago9308]

Then I have never been in love 😂😂😂 " finding myself googling things never" 😂😂😂....but I agree on most Kwanza that one of wanting to call shots 💯 is top of my list.

[@joywanjiru8874]

Ata nimebuy notebook juu this is a class on its on thanks gal for always educating us I Rilly appreciate you are helping a soul out there....waiting for that topic emotional immaturity..

[@muthonismission]

Yaaaay!!!!! Bless you 🙏

[@joywanjiru8874]

Amen

[@ruthmwangi6813]

I love your topics Muthoni. Please talk about spouse mismanaging family finances especially in marriage. Keep up the good job 👏👏👏

[@loisenduta5296]

Msoo anza classes juu girl you are deep! you are slapping us with wisdom left right center. Bless you mama❤️

[@muthonismission]

Really? Thank you

[@loisenduta5296]

@@muthonismission yeah like am sure there so many girls out that are so lost. They need these lessons trust me

[@annmuturi9847]

Wish i saw this like 3 Years ago... There many things i would have done different. But all said done am working on me and knowing what i want in any relationship

[@Habibtay]

Muthoni you really have beautiful eyes and the words that come out of your mouth are so full of wisdom. That makes it very easy to listen to you non stop

[@muthonismission]

Thank you dear 😘

[@carolineluhrs306]

Muthoni,waaa!!why and where did you get all this experience??You’ve just hit that nail on the wall. I married my Germany husband very young,had no exposure with life,he separated me from my family and my friends. I never understood why?but later when I got fed up,is when i slowly slowly understand und understood what he was up to. He wanted me not to run to no one. Ooh my God🥲have been thinking am the only one…your so beautiful,i love your style,your hair is amazing,your wonderful..you’ve won my heart ♥️ we are in the same level..let me hit that subscribe button…beg…beg keep it up😘

[@muthonismission]

Welcome to the family

[@ruthnyambura3990]

Msooo I hope u were here before I got married but i give up on that married an am myself now. Thanks dia for telling as the truth

[@virginiamuthoni3746]

Another deal breaker for me or red flag is that they rush intimacy and they never take you out on dates everytime he calls you to go to his house.

[@carolinemuseka9924]

Kabisaaaa

[@christinenjoki2747]

I blocked...

[@BettyBellah510]

A new subscriber looking foward to learn more.happy holidays and merry Christmas to all my online families i love u💖

[@paulinewaithera5250]

Thanks a lot Mūthoni. Kindly also talk about where by you meet a guy and he starts asking ,“what you have?”. In terms of material things. For instance lets say i am a nurse. Then a guy asks me. “Apart from being a nurse what else do you do?” For how long should a lady stay before she disclose what she has/ or what she does? Because guys are also nowadays gold diggers. Kindly help.

[@Kate_benard]

Am happy I was able to see those red flags when I was in a relationship n walked out... keeping sharpening ladies Muthoni.Good work!

[@annewamuti3952]

Muthoni, muthoni,..msooo...ndagwita maita Maigana....where were you when I stupidly googling and over working to please...😣😥😢😭

[@josephgitau3706]

Hi, Msoo you are talking about the reality of things, but I guess, maybe is out of my previous relationships but most of the red flags you have highlighted wee with my partners, n they are women not men

[@ruthgitau1285]

Aki muthoni you're talking to me.I am really learning alot.

[@susanmaina7149]

Great teaching Msoo, the key word is LOVE YOURSELF

[@shizma7917]

I was so toxic but deep down i knew that was a reaction and a self defence! 😒

[@muthonismission]

The most important thing is accepting that you are toxic and working towards becoming a better person.

[@abletasharnetwork]

Ihave been avoiding this video because I knew it's currying my trueth🙊am telling you am even shaking listening to this. But anywho thanks Mamie

[@muthonismission]

Karibu. I help it helps you

[@rozanmuthoni3927]

I have gone through Emotional abuse I always thought I was wrong But thank God I learnt a lot n walked away Thanks msoo for eye opening

[@essym.m1980]

Hey, Muthoni I wish I knew all your advice 10 years ago but anyways am still learning a lot. Keep what you are doing gal it's changing lives! It has changed me a lot.

[@perismwangi8909]

Hi Muthoni I love your your talk being a mother of young girls. Another red flag is someone who does not want the best for either at work or in education......you look like you are doing better than them. Like I lost a chance to go for a scholarship coz he was threatening that if I take up that I will not find him later

[@habibadawe]

Wuueh my friend must watch this aki we always go to internet looking for ways🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wuuuuuuh life aki💔💔😂😂😂

[@PurityMuriithi-dm8tt]

Nani alipea msoo chai yangu 😅😅😅😅 Muthoni Mukiri you are ozzing wisdom ❤

[@SarahNyambura-co4hv]

You are doing nice job, some of us have in toxic relationships dating narcissistic and we even don't know if we are dating them very dangerous

[@njerindungu643]

I thank God mso ur hia wen am still single lol kuelimishwa nayo ❤️💕😘luv u gal

[@flomwangi2078]

Ooooo Jesus ...u r an eye opener to many... those teaching are just in another level more grace

[@luciekaris1505]

I would wish you visit mt Kenya university you talk to us .your too informative

[@fashionflorence4861]

No commitment is the biggest red flag if you are both looking for commitment. Its the biggest realization that you need to move wueh!

[@muthonismission]

True

[@moreennjeru1603]

When a guy asks you to visit him in his house,a red flag for me

[@trizawambui5284]

Mso i like your advice. But all the red flags you described are actually deal breakers. One needs to take a walk as soon as they happen. Coz they are bound to happen again, and may be this time very late.

[@rabeccambeke2460]

No but to my best friend....it really broke her heart..... before then I don't know that someone can be in a relationship with you only con you

[@joanwinga9123]

This hits home and I will watch it over and over again...thank goodness for you

[@janemwaura3319]

Waoh thumbs up, love this video very informative indeed, face the bull by its horn don't fear if something is wrong because the guy is providing you,.. Ladies get your money, waoh!

[@deborahnjeri1504]

Aki apo kwa googling was soo me😂😂 kwanza his captions aki post on socials ati 'what does it mean to say...' zingine napata ni song lyrics I end up listening to the whole song what it means and all renditions of the song🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wueh! God is good😁

[@essykimani9440]

I love this channel everyday. Do a topic on a long distance relationship

[@alyssa_p612]

Yes please

[@janysasha6414]

Yes

[@fl0rencemutuku40]

Aki coz sometimes it hearts..

[@hellenmwangi7408]

Yes aki

[@immaculatekihara3526]

Yes

[@loisenduta5296]

Take home "if you cheat on me it has nothing to do with me but everything to do with yourself!"

[@muthonismission]

Exactly

[@wanjirakagira2165]

Talk about long distance relationships

[@joanwinga9123]

For me , it's trauma bonding. Making excuses for behaviour he is not willing to change (had a traumatic childhood and everything and everyone around him must suffer) Don't wait 2years to end it honey it's harder

[@itsJojo201]

Hapo kwa excuses 😔😔woi

[@mumbyvivian9875]

Thank you Muthoni. Phones put upside down is a scarlet red high flag.

[@Ann_wanjiru]

This your talks is making me know myself,, and what i want in life

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@emilykaranja1191]

Drinking knowledge from this gal thanks Sana msoo Notebook nayo nayo

[@tessnjokie4847]

Very true. Please talk about cohabiting in relationships.

[@kasivamary5958]

Great topic right there

[@chicwithchrist5117]

What about denial. They deny the whole red flag issue

[@gakiimiriti9809]

Most of them will not agree on the red flags .But its you to see period

[@wahinyaabiah]

Thank you for the great info and i like your sound check sana. I dont struggle to get you

[@anngathogo3610]

Wao, this is so informative, I have never though of putting them down but I now can. Thank you for empowering a girl 😀

[@muthonismission]

Yessss

[@margret2688]

How to make him love me😂🤣Thanks mso New subscriber learning so much

[@priscillahnjuguna6783]

Khai Muthoni,this was me sometimes back.Nowadays napita kama ambulance

[@annewamuti3952]

Pole gal but i have to lol this one😃😂

[@joanmuhoro1584]

Awww... Always beautiful Mso and so full of wisdom❤️❤️

[@emmywanjohi6957]

Am currently in a toxic relationship where even my life is threatened,,thanks for this muthoni and am working on exiting the rship

[@kanariopeninah]

Wishing you well dear.

[@muthonismission]

All the best dear. All will be well .hugs 🤗

[@emilykaranja1191]

Thanks God you realized it before it too late

[@lindawaweru74]

Sending you all hugs

[@healthbysalome]

Run run run...... Run.... Wachana na huyo mtu..... He will make u bitter... Mad.... Stressed out....

[@elizabethmbula7173]

I feel I was in the same shoes... He wouldn't be happy if I left work without telling him it would create a scene. Would go for days without talking to me and he would want me to apologize..he even got vulgar at a point coz of a disagreement we had... He was like you will do what I say not what you want.. Anytime I saw his call I was afraid what he will tell me. It got worse when we couldn't work out and he asked me to refund the cash he had spent on me.

[@muthonismission]

So sorry for what you had to go through

[@elizabethmbula7173]

Thanks so much dear but am happy I got the nerve to move out... I feel a new being all again and my life doesn't seem a mess again...

[@dorcasgitari4125]

What could have become of most of us if Msoo💖 never fed us with such knowledge ???🥱🥱Thank you for always sharing,,I can confidently say that my social life is on another level☺️☺️❤️

[@esthermutua1287]

Good teaching

[@olivemugo7973]

I really enjoy her topics ❤️❤️ enjoying it

[@njugunalynn9621]

I have really prayed for those signs before and i think it is somehow desperate.

[@KenyanAtHeart]

Spot on Muthoni. Always keeping it 💯

[@leahnjeri1213]

Weee!!!this was more than a therapy session. I have learnt something useful,thank you.

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching

[@joynjau1776]

About trust...I never trusted my ex because he was the type of guy who would share everything about me or us to his friends...Thank God I know better and am learning alot from you...Am a whole new person

[@trizawambui5284]

Someone cannot call you stupid and then ati you communicate nicely?? Hell No! That is a deal breaker right there. I will disappear and never to come back.

[@philomenagathoni7119]

I'm here to learn something new

[@faithmuturi5017]

Wawawa! I never thought lucky of apologies is a red flag I now see where I go wrong

[@abletasharnetwork]

Akii ilove you with passion muthoni❤️ you speak to my soul darling may God bless you for me.

[@muthonismission]

Awwwww .....I love you right back.

[@harrietbosibori]

Surprisingly there are girlfriends like this...very sick with an exaggerated opinion of themselves. Talking negatively about others,being mean about your other friends

[@paulinekamau8476]

Thea is guy i was dating everytime we get back my moods change I'm not happy... what i did i called off the relationship.. it affected me 2 weeks now I'm Soo happy 😊😊

[@princesslizjoy6173]

wow bravo Muthoni this so nice

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching

[@beckyjinxs9699]

God bless you, You're doing a great job... Thanks for the lessons

[@esthernjagi2031]

Wish I had this advice several months ago...i would have saved myself from so much trouble and heartache..but thanks Msoo for speaking to me. I really appreciate

[@ivywegulo7465]

Thanks dear, I have watched it today, very helpful....

[@lakenya6559]

I have just subscribe ❤i really love your content

[@rabeccambeke2460]

Hi gal thanks for everything... kindly can you talk about relationship scammers it's on the rise sana

[@muthonismission]

Okay. Had it ever happened to you?

[@maureenwahu7390]

Eagerly waitting

[@millicentkayanda16]

How do we deal with the curse that someone puts on you when you leave them suppose they are nacissist or abusive then they tell you that u will never prosper or settle. Does these things work?

[@njeriwaceke4414]

izi ni vitisho baridi unless there is a blood covenant tying you together....but kama ni this kawaida breakup it will not do nothing to you just love yourself and you will be good to go and be happy..

[@njokifunmoments1482]

A curse is a curse ...,the same way parents curse their children is the same way any another person can do out there so lemme give you a piece of advice....raise a seed (any amount)that is going to break every kind of evil words spoken towards you and learn how to always say God forbid when someone is talking to you in such a way and also while you are praying learn how to declare decree good things over your life and that way even the “silent curses “ will ruin not your life ....,remember that even when someone curses you with their thoughts will also affect you but people don’t really realize that....,

[@evammata9463]

Proverbs 26:2 a curse without cause/grounds does not come to rest. If you did not wrong him or do something bad the curse has no cause

[@Middle_school2024]

Good job Pauline❤️❤️

[@sallymwasi]

Red flag for me is....inconsistency!

[@verowanga8727]

Today i think you are talking to me direct

[@ironlady41]

Kindly wt if ur in a distance relationship en U've sensed the red flags form a man, wts the best way of quitting it,

[@randomtingschannel2195]

Some do things without thinking but after you tell them it's over, they become extremely sorry of their actions. Do you forgive such?

[@zobasworld4689]

You're such an amazing influencer loving you the more

[@muthonismission]

Thank you 😊

[@wanjirunduta5346]

This is a class for real; Muthoni you're doing great. I look out for commitment too. It is very crucial. Keep soaring gal. Weekly therapy.

[@gladysnganga6662]

Ur just crazy aki,eti how to what,😂😂😂I love you though

[@muthonismission]

Thanks for watching.

[@getrudemukami5112]

A plus to this content.so practicle and real examples .....💯💯🔊🔊

[@yvonnebettynjokindirangu7614]

Went out with a hanky- loaded guy- waiter spilled his drink- he seriously insulted him- red flag- how he treats those perceived “lower than him” ( and what’s lower anyway?- we are all human)

[@sugarsam1]

hahahaha, ati unakaa kama waru. Anyway I love your informative content, keep on going

[@lynerosie]

Thanks dear..learning big time....

[@ndungujoy5777]

U completely described a person I know

[@gladys.kofficial661]

Our superb clinic always💞💞💞

[@steveirungu3132]

I'm not interested in realationships period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

[@susanmwangi7172]

Loving ur content, looking great in blonde hair..go...go...ghurl...u got what it takes

[@muthonismission]

Thank you

[@kenyanscooper]

Waiting😌

[@kenyanscooper]

@@gracekim2208 ✨

[@aliciawanjiku5636]

Am learning a lot from you mso

[@muthonismission]

Glad to hear that

[@susanwachiuri869]

Here taking notes

[@hildachep7675]

Taking notes.. Thanks