How to Find the Perfect Relationship | Adam Roa Speech | Goalcast

Adam Roa delivers the feels in a shiver-inducing speech about how we can be ready to receive and nurture the most important relationship in our life.
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[@sujitaher7106]

Wow !

[@mnjisun]

I'm just speechless...

[@helpcrazy]

Do you have an spanish version of this video? I love this video and i wanna share it with my friends but they dont understand english, thank you

[@valeriasedano33]

@@helpcrazy I agree whit you

[@valeriasedano33]

@@helpcrazy si lo llegas a tener avisame porfavor. Thanks😉

[@-genesis-182]

"Treat yourself like someone you loved" thats next lvl

[@lordmysaviour5738]

What’s the point I want nice ass treatment for myself n others

[@dharmendraprasad2430]

- Genesis - it means ..like your self

[@craftworld7530]

Treat yourself like someone you loved

[@toni-symone5905]

Necro Fell wish granted. 😊😊😊

[@callmeandy5402]

If you liked that, read 12 rules of life by Jordan Peterson and be baffled

[@thesfnb.5786]

These people are the reason for why humanity has hope.

[@hashtagornah]

I was 666 like. ;)

[@austinderosia4472]

You said some true fax

[@jesuslovesyou7130]

I don't disagree

[@the_hanburger]

Thid guy is practically rapping and telling a motivative message 😂

[@syundown6005]

Yes, I believe they call it "poetry" :)

[@museenergy]

@@syundown6005 yes, spoken word poetry!

[@lanizzlefoshizz951]

it’s called poetry my guy

[@miekaxiii]

🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

[@onelasttime5959]

Slam poetry

[@kanieswanson9677]

"Treat yourself like someone you loved" and that's where I started crying. I just went through a breakup where I believed I wasn't enough and I wasn't worth it. It's hard to not find your validation in someone else's eyes, but it's so satisfying once you find your own inner worth. Thank you for this

[@nirbhikasachdev3373]

It will get better. Hang in there. Going through the same. Just know we'll somehow make it.

[@tomwanders6022]

I feel you bro my ex broke up with me for another guy a little bit more then 2 months ago and it still hurts but by far not as hard. Cause it did one thing and that is working on my self I started doing sports changing my diet doing drivers lessons I go to school again and I am generally trying to get what the teachers are saying my arm almost never is down in a lesson no matter which Subjekt and after all this time I can finally say, I am very proud of my self. I can finally FINALLY start improving because I let my self try out stuff I mean yeah it still hurts when I think about my ex and it most likely always will but at least I can say I love my self because I worked for my self.

[@aanchalcharan7544]

see it's okay,i can feel you but you don't need the social validation, think about the people who are still with you in your life, those who never left you.

[@nirbhikasachdev3373]

@@tomwanders6022 I'm so proud of you. Hoping I reach this stage soon. Thanks for sharing your progress.

[@workingboss7030]

Awww.. You'll be fine

[@sahilgoswami4145]

Love is the answer, love is the key, but if you can't love yourself , how can you love me ? 🖤 🖤

[@DarkAce1]

i woke up eating air cuz i was dreaming of eating 😦

[@saiful4244]

This guy need to produce a song. I want his album so bad

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[@j3tstep]

This video has brought an end to my war for belonging. I belong to myself, and that's enough.

[@margaretsmith5119]

I heard my 6 year old daughter talking to herself. I said to her, "who are you talking to, Jessica." Her reply, "Myself. You know mummy I will never be lonely as long as I have myself." Very wise at 6 years. She is now 50 years old

[@corexdraconem8632]

I am a huge fan of Poetry Slams and wasn‘t expecting one here, but man you killed it!

[@lordmysaviour5738]

Oh poetry slams it iswhat this is about ..

[@thetruthbetweenthelines8521]

This reminds me about: do the things right and right things will happen to you. We get what we are and what we will become. Everything starts with our transformation.

[@frimpongaugustine9720]

Outsmart & Outwork nice one thank you bro

[@mikehunthurts3558]

Outsmart & Outwork nice one! And thank you 🍺

[@PratyushSkywalker]

No matter how many times I see this video, it always ends with tears of joy.

[@circehelen]

“ _You are who you’ve been looking for._ Stop looking for more unless you’re looking in a mirror because it’s about time for you to see clearly that you are who you’ve been looking for. And that empty feeling you got, that hole in your chest? You only got that feeling because you think you’re not blessed with everything you need. You see, we live in a consumerist society, which means they need you to buy stuff. And the easiest way to sell it is to tell you you’re not enough. _Buy this car, you’ll get girls_ _Buy this bra, you’ll get guys_ And we’re seeing it so much that we start believing these lies but the truth is; the make up they’re selling you to feel prettier is the same make up you buy to stop feeling shittier about this lie they keep telling you. _That you are not enough._ And what about the movies we watch, all the shows on TV? The more I watch the more I see I need you to complete me. And yes, love is the answer, love is the key but if you can’t love yourself, how could you ever love me? And loving yourself, what does that even mean? Like massages and selfies and that sort of thing? Because the more I think about it the more it feels weird; I've always been taught that self love was something to be feared, I’ve been taught that arrogance is bad and vanity? It’s not good. And even my bracelets are telling me to act how Jesus would. So what should I do? How should I act? I'm supposed to love myself but how do I even do that? Well I got a trick that I picked up from a friend, who noticed that I was quick to defend, her when she would say something negative about herself. She'd say, “I'm so dumb.” I'd say, “You're so brilliant.” She'd say “I'm so weak.” And I'd say, “You’re so resilient.” And when she said, “I feel ugly.” And I said, “You look beautiful.” She asked me why I was so dutifully filling up her cup constantly and yet treating my own cups so irresponsibly? Because when I looked in the mirror, my voice was quite clear; “You're ugly, you're too thin, your hairline’s receding, you got a pimple on your chin.” And that was when she gave me a piece of advice that changed my life. She gave me a hug and she said, “Treat yourself like someone you loved.” _Treat yourself like someone you loved._ Now I had been standing but I need to be sitting because I couldn't believe that I had been letting myself keep forgetting that I was who I had been looking for. And deep in my core I knew it was time to stop looking for more until I could look all through my fear and look into a mirror and see clearly, that the man looking back at me was the only one who could make me happy and I'm already enough. And I'm not any more special or unique than you. That's why I'm here to speak to you. _You are already enough._ And when you start to see that, you will be that, your world will get brighter, your load will get lighter and you see that with life you can be a lover not a fighter. And that life; you deserve it. Because you're worth it And there is no point in letting yourself keep forgetting because no matter what you say or do; You are perfect. And so today I hope I leave you with a direction, correction away from the flaws you see in your reflection; They aren’t flaws to me, they’re simply protection against all the doubts you have of your perfection. So start today. Take a good look of yourself in the mirror. And say, “I’m who I’ve been looking for.””

[@theitalianscorpio]

Thank you for posting this. I was about to start listening to it slowed way down so I could write it down.

[@michelamonicafergnani5065]

Thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@kalligrace1077]

“You can be a lover not a fighter” ❤️👊🏼

[@nitishroy153]

Hey what's up?

[@lordmysaviour5738]

Sdont quite get this line.. tell me what u think 😊

[@idkok5747]

I feel like these days in a society that profits from your insecurities,loving yourself is a true act of rebellion.

[@alaaaaa4132]

wow powerful

[@M7mdeltohamy]

And so today, I hope I leave you with a direction correction .. Away from the flaws you see in your reflection .. They aren't flaws to me, they are simply protection .. Against all the doubt you have of your "Perfection" .. Some of the best words ever said .. ❣️

[@Rachaella9]

Yea

[@pascalbarysch2587]

I've been watching this video now for like 3 month every day before I sleep and I promise you: This video is the real deal. Embrace it, let it power you and never forget YOU ARE ALREADY ENOUGH

[@tylermurphy9551]

“I am who I’ve been looking for”

[@lordmysaviour5738]

Do you like yourself?

[@livsnjutare2705]

@@lordmysaviour5738 i adore myself

[@BinLamim]

But there is always room for improvement. Don't lie to yourself and neglect your mistakes, telling yourself that you are perfect when you're not. Because you wouldn't lie to someone you love, right? There is nothing bad about admitting that you can treat people better, that you can loose some weight because it may affect your health, that you can give up bad habits, smile more, be more social etc. Work on your mistakes and you will love yourself more and more every day.

[@jamestan362]

Funny how you put desire as a benefit to one.

[@lordmysaviour5738]

Ya man ^ the above is more acceptable to me.. to my mind

[@user-yj2mr5we3k]

You are right, I live myself but I am not narcissistic and I am not crazy about myself, so being with yourself is healthy, try to change so you can love yourself more.

[@nickherbin8094]

I think you are missing the point, that every imperfection in someone is what makes them perfect, that you would rather have someone you love be imperfect because THAT is perfect in itself rather than be perfect, never make a mistake, because mistakes are what make those good moments even more perfect.

[@aldralee]

The fixation on relentless improvement (self-improvement no less) is a decidedly American thing and reflective of our hyper-consumerist culture.

[@anthonyneville8983]

Treat yourself like someone "YOU" love. ❤ This one sentence is enough to love yourself. ❤️

[@MyraValdez]

Today is my birthday and I've been looking for a partner my entire life. After many failed relationships, I now need to focus on me .This is exactly what I needed to hear, especially on this day. Thank you for this amazing video. I am everything that I need & very grateful.

[@ravneelsingh6032]

Hello

[@kanieswanson9677]

Woooooooo!!!!

[@erstequeen]

God bless you :)

[@PandaManPlaysFifa]

I really needed this today ❤️

[@lordmysaviour5738]

❤️

[@ILoveYou-bv7mf]

Me too ☺♥

[@mikehunthurts3558]

🍺

[@alelamanna8084]

Me too ( I owe you a beer ) jajajja

[@5.0steph]

Dan the directions are down the hall and to your left and you will find... ❤

[@elisabethstabel2082]

I know this is the truth. because every men i fell in love wih was someone i wanted to be. so instead i choose to persue the person i wanna be

[@catherinedelarama922]

☺

[@hoodpriestessphilosophy7669]

Yessssss. Do I want him? Or do I want to incorporate him into myself?

[@MikeKollin]

So Powerful... I am a Personal Development coach. And I teach men it's not about the money or things you buy or own... she wants to connect with you but you need to connect with your - "Self" first so she can connect with your "self". Once you learn how to connect with yourself, others can then connect with you! Once you truly Love yourself then and only then can others love you. If you can't Love your "SELF" how can you possibly Love someone else??? Be compassionate towards yourself because then others will see that you can also be Compassionate with them... Love to you All... 💕

[@coryburson3192]

I think for most the hardest part, once ppl accept its ok to luv themselves is knowing the difference between loving themselves as opposed to being selfish...many confuse the two....as well as confusing arrogance with confidence...not the same thing at all.....Well done everyone! Well done!

[@domi1889]

"Treat yourself like someone you've loved". That made me cry instantly out of nowhere. I'm right after a break up. I know how much I've done for her. We love each others but can't go on together. I've always made her feel good when she didn't. But I never thought about that advice. That's such a great one

[@jdubisbest6204]

"Sooner or Later a Person begins to notice, that everything that happens to him or her is perfect ..." ~Paul Williams : Das Energi

[@tajcin.2769]

This clip is from the 2017 Life is a Playground event by Kyle Cease. Kyle is a comedian and transformational speaker and Adam Roa was in the audience of this event. Just before this clip, Adam was telling Kyle how he is used to preforming to audiences of 50-10 people, but that he would love to preform infront of larger crowds. However, he feels like he can't because he doesn't know the right people or have the right connections. Kyle was saying how the connection to ourself is the only connection that truly matters and then he invited Adam onto the stage to preform his poem. I was just watching the event and when I saw Adam, I remembered seeing this clip a couple of years ago. Its so amazing to see how just a few moments before he walked up onto that stage, Adam was so unsure and insecure in his own ability. If anyone is interested, I really recommend watching the whole event. You can find it on Kyle Cease' official page and it is truly life changing. Much love to everyone ❤

[@asharockz7]

"Treat yourself like someone you love! "

[@deeb3272]

Im in depression. Thank you so much.

[@aureliemarie4225]

Dee B depression. Sucks ... I know. But you can be happy again

[@layshethiya4178]

May God bless you and take away all your miseries

[@bollywollyxD]

I just needed this thanks.😭

[@harviraymondkv7403]

"Make up they sell to make you feel prettier, is the same Make up you buy to stop feeling shittier, about this lie they keep telling you that you are not enough" -Adam Roa And that hit hard

[@kartiksharma2756]

"If you can't love yourself how could you love someone else" So True.

[@jaibay5877]

Im sad this generation of dating and breaking up is too easy

[@sieannesantis5786]

Yeah

[@mev7709]

Yep apparently forever means 4 months now

[@mementomori502]

There wasn't even dating back then, only courting. You know why relationships today don't last long? It's because dating came to us. The idea that we can leave when we can sounds good, BUT IT IS MORE DAMAGING THAN WE CAN EVER IMAGINE AND WE DON'T EVEN SEE IT. Put dating in the trash bin, start courting

[@caribaez5711]

When people end relationships, that means they were not that caring towards you. Love yourself.

[@caribaez5711]

jai bay the right people will come to you.

[@kapkap7315]

this video changed my life i’ve been depressed about my girlfriend and i was thinking what did i do wrong.

[@runninginsept]

This kept coming up in my recommend, and I tried to ignore it for the longest time. Till I couldn't anymore. And now I'm in love ❤️

[@thomasa.donald6072]

Hello

[@koustabhchoudhury7907]

This dude made me cry every word he said was true and so pure. I'm who I've been looking for .Thank you for this

[@paulheyman8049]

This video deserves millions of views...👍👌

[@paulheyman8049]

@HiDiMo Enterprises thn nw its tym to hit billion😉

[@secondemail8242]

“Pursue the person you want to be.”

[@yashchandak8016]

Your world can be brighter,your load can be lighter. You are enough ❤️❤️

[@ngljaani]

Oh...god I started loving myself after watching this video😭😭😭😭 i loved it

[@bridgetdraper8671]

My husband and I needed this! Then, we shared it with everyone possible! God! Thank you is NOT enough! Saved our lives!

[@Neerajkumar-tv4yo]

Treat yourself like someone you loved

[@trme872]

All I can say is that "you saved my life"! God bless you...

[@arlenemelendez8904]

I've used this in therapy with clients that have problems with self esteem. It has been great.

[@veero8130]

How does this not have 5mil views?! More people need to see this

[@PracticalInspiration]

So powerful. Just incredible to listen to!

[@marioz4198]

This gentleman is brilliant. Whoever doesn't listen to take advice from this gentleman as a whole lot to learn. Because everything what he's talkin about it's the way Society is today. We are so blind so dumb between social media and the TV that we don't even know who we are anymore.!!!!

[@jenny5109]

Honestly speaking, I was just thinking about any future relationship I’ll be in. I shut myself down fast, because I feel like I can’t relate to no guys when they all chase the same girls. Then this video came up, thanks Big Brother. I immediately was shook. I’m like this is just what I needed.

[@derekmoody8256]

I will have to hear this everyday for a long time. I spent so long trying to love the wrong people. I need to be in a relationship with me for a while!

[@yashchandak8016]

So much of goodness in 5 minutes. Wow this is the video I have been looking for. Love and peace.

[@Sakura98844]

Bcoz of people like you there is still hope in humanity. 🙂

[@stepforward4365]

Exactly. I was resisting the idea of self love because I always thought I love myself but I was far from self love. I was loving myself from the outside but inside I didn't know my worth. We're God creation, how come we treat ourselves that way

[@conversionperspectivesbyva4772]

Exceptional, Thought Provoking, Inspiring & Empowering!

[@khushboojhamnani6337]

I can listen to this everyday of each year.🖤

[@shirleyakpelu1831]

Excellent poem. I needed to be reminded of this. We have to love others as we love ourselves!

[@jennpauloake]

This actually made me cry! Thank u. The most real I’ve heard someone speak in a very long time

[@sachinb.v3151]

These videos are always uplifting and makes me to believe in miracles ..

[@BarbieBabesz16]

This has been my favorite video I saw today by far..thank you! So beautiful!

[@Nettie.89]

Adam Roa I cant tell you enough how this has changed my life... I can look in the mirror and say I’m beautiful and good enough !! Keep doing what you do

[@Meriemferhatl121]

For a change KZbin recommended something I really was in need for ! Thank you

[@Lonewoft]

I'm the broken one and i need this. Thank you.

[@slikdesigns3669]

Thank you so much. I really needed this today

[@Doreen3010]

This is what we all need to hear and be reminded. Thank you and God bless!

[@mindfulnessmeditation1084]

It's like he's reading a poem!! Love this!!!

[@SB-zq4rg]

This is beautiful and perfect. Every single line. Thank you ❤

[@ispitmygumonthesidewalk9753]

One of the best motivational speakers out there

[@sadisticparagon]

Who ever YOU ARE... BLESS YOU AND LOVE YOU, YOUR WORDS REACHED SO DEEP

[@Onholidaysfromparenting]

Thankyou 🙏 for sharing this message with us. That's what I needed to hear to get through today.

[@audrii4044]

I love this 💞 A person with substance.. keep doing what youre doing . The world needs this energy

[@sha_la007]

This is my 2020 video. I am who I have been looking for. This video is AMAZING!

[@papiscarlet5242]

Thank you so much for this video! Been on this journey to self healing and self love.

[@juleb9541]

Wow is this a sign? I needed that right now. Thank you so much

[@anastasiakarpova651]

I got so many chills from this. Just wow

[@tothemoon222]

Thank you Adam Roa, this made me cry. You are amazing for sharing this. 💛💫

[@AagneyWest]

I come here whenever i feel down, thanks alot! 😊 These words really means alot! Have a good day everyone ❤️

[@user-wp5iy1ww4k]

I keep coming back to this video. I cry EVERY time I see it. I love it. 💜

[@BMF-bq9xn]

This is so true. I finally figured myself out and this was exactly what I told myself. Perfectly putforth and simply portrayed for those who are just watching this. This will really change if you allow it do so within yourself😊

[@seeyouatthetop4543]

Thank you, you opened my eyes🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Luldudeee]

I can’t stop listening to this wow it moved me so much 😭💛

[@nicolaaslouw9945]

I tend to only give likes to things I think are meaningful contributions to humanity. This is one such a thing.

[@trynitireed4960]

I loved this its by far my favorite! this is just what I needed💖❤💛

[@joeperalta9341]

This is so powerful, thanks for this.

[@lynnmarieanderson1744]

That was beautiful, thank you. I'm coming back to this video again whenever I get down on myself. We are all enough.

[@rachelloy6942]

currently watching this for the third time in an hour because i just kEEP coming back to it. this is so impactful and amazing and so beautifully crafted together!

[@SHARmainEHOPE]

Thank you. God spoken to me through this.

[@Sneha-rc6hh]

"treat yourself like someone you lovED"

[@beusda]

in such case think of the cute innocent child you were and love that.

[@hasantahir8040]

I am in love with his words,with poetry ,with the back ground score and the reality he explained in the most artistic way.Thanks for the motivation mate.God bless u❤

[@ruwaydraffa3763]

I feel like one of the biggest reasons why what he is saying is so persuasive is the fact that he is using poetry to convey his message!

[@saarthaksabhijnan1354]

Adam Roa ❤ he just won my heart. Infact he cleared all these years of, tons of illusions which blocked my way in just 5. Thank you for helping me to find happiness within.

[@smritisharma5466]

He is just Awesome 🤗 Thanks for the video 😇 Love from India 😍❤

[@suetaniaemmanuel8107]

Best speech ever, "you are what you are looking for".....

[@ginamaries8854]

Thank you Adam. You brought me to happy tears. I love everything you said.

[@sundusfaheem256]

Ohh just listening to those simple yet powerful words reduced a huge complex heaviness from my mind... Truly crucial for today’s life. Thank you.

[@LeTuanDtv]

Wow thank you for much for blessing us with your soul & prosperity to humanity... feeling extremely grateful god bless you sir xoxox

[@doctoberbabywrites2649]

This is the most wonderful thing I've ever heard. It's life changing. And the flow of his words..! Oh god!

[@ephraimmoye4772]

This found me in time of need... And I never needed anymore.

[@LifeMantraForBetterLife]

Awesome... You are perfect... My fav line 😇

[@stefansimovic6707]

Nobody is perfect

[@MoAlnaseri]

Hahaha but no one is perfect

[@lordmysaviour5738]

Wai

[@alisajadahmadi]

@@stefansimovic6707 But you can be prefect version of your self.

[@meganjustice2608]

You should love yourself even though you're flawed and NOT perfect. You can always work on improving yourself. That's part of loving yourself unconditionally.

[@gabrielj.serrano2768]

One of the greatest things I've ever come across. I'm blessed to have seen and better yet, learned from this.

[@hollybondarenko3680]

Thank you for this gem. I literally wanna wake up everyday and remind myself this over & over again till I start thinking this way! Wish everybody who sees this a wonderful self-loving life.