This Is Why You SUCK At Love | Adam Roa Speech | Goalcast

This Is Why You SUCK At Love | Adam Roa Speech | Goalcast
Dumped, cheated on or can't find love? Adam Roa shares THE SECRET to finding true connection...
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[@cutecritterscorner9232]

Don't swim oceans for people who won't even jump puddles for you.🙌

[@rogacz5966]

Which is hard when ur in love :'D

[@MustardService]

@@rogacz5966 wow you right

[@yungbraveheart103]

That's so true!

[@FavioPlays]

This is hard when u r in love bro

[@husttlearvind5369]

Didn't know until I lost my Job and looked behind no one was there.. being in hard time doesn't matter but when people dump you at hard times hurts more and it's more hard.

[@burritooperator5850]

"Don't be a simp for them, be a simp for you."

[@IG18029]

Underrated comment😂 dont simp at all

[@militaryproductions8714]

Iann Grijmans - is he trolling? 😂

[@br4inacid475]

Words of wisdom

[@balladin9200]

Simp for yourself, be someone who you’re responsible for helping.

[@e711x4]

Good wisdom

[@osse1n]

The most important relationship one can have is with the person you see in the mirror.

[@Theswar.thy_]

This is the best comment I have read.

[@nahommersha6175]

Hay, u r everywhere :)

[@nahommersha6175]

Anyways, very true

[@destinyjames6117]

Proceeds to look at crush through the mirror

[@veyrix1418]

Instructions unclear, I have an date with myself.

[@mjeleven1537]

Find your equal not your whole.

[@Ezra_27]

Indeed!

[@MjMori4444]

The right one shows up the right moment and when it's the right one you'll feel it inside :)

[@Courtesyyy]

I hope so, 2 had Girlfriends first one cheated. Second didnt work out, now am just standing still

[@pabloescobar-laganjadecoca1064]

@@Courtesyyy hold strong. You are enough, mate.

[@madude007]

Oh thanks bro love yourself too

[@epikcyne]

Put yourself first, above all. People are temporary in this lifetime.

[@khalidkhoso4768]

I appreciate you

[@gopikrishna9072]

👌

[@exileapathy8707]

This lifetime like if there are others

[@husttlearvind5369]

I literally forget and put her above and she isn't there now

[@moco8721]

666 its devil time

[@nkazimulokunene5235]

I often feel like I want or need a Girlfriend but when I get one I don't feel good about myself

[@dritashpirterore4569]

Why man

[@DionLYA]

Because you feel like you can only love yourself if your girlfriend says so. Know that you are enough, because you are.

[@sarahcole_ann]

Agreed

[@joequinn4869]

Your desire to be with someone stems from the belief that you are unlovable or not enough and the guilt you feel because of it. Deep within, it’s the guilt you feel for not loving yourself first. That guilt will eventually manifest itself in the relationship through symptoms of negativity or distance knowing your cup is empty and perhaps looking for her to fill it up. This is why we turn down another’s authentic love for us. We often use the relationship to avoid our unhealed places, essentially hiding there, not growing. This can be healed when we begin to know and trust that we are already complete!

[@silverdollars5735]

Then try boys that’s what most gay people on tv do when they don’t know their gay

[@Camaron9769]

I just spent 6 months on a girl that I cared entirely too much about for her to just drop me like I'm nothing... this recommended video couldn't have hit closer to home than it did

[@epikcyne]

Cam don’t worry man...keep your head up. Just take time to heal up and find yourself a good girl. Take your time.

[@hassaankhanniazi5480]

I spent 2 years. Feel me?

[@Camaron9769]

epikcyne of course chief, her loss not mine

[@Camaron9769]

Hassan Khan Niazi okay now that is a painful thing to hear

[@wilmz19]

Happened to me 3 days ago. I feel like falling apart.

[@ODrane]

Seems like it’s always chad

[@pan_duh8852]

Always

[@qonthaar6024]

Odraner yeeeeeet

[@lalbihari6663]

or chuck

[@sambara9427]

Chad is such a wasteman

[@pan4048]

Let's cancel chads

[@datoneaznboy]

i thought he was going to rap after he said "palm sweaty"

[@cultofpunktionality3302]

Knees weak Arms are heavy

[@datoneaznboy]

@Elijah Snapp mom's spaghetti

[@eslamedenini6312]

i also thought that, considering he looks nervous

[@waynesworld686]

I thought of Eminem 😂😂

[@achyutbajpai4787]

Yep 😂😂😂

[@dhas1222]

You can find love when you're not looking

[@notagarbage6728]

you said truest thing .

[@tituscassiusseverus6303]

You can ONLY find love when you are not looking. (otherwise you it's false, you sell yourself short, or come over desperate)

[@christophershanklin112]

Ben Baker that’s very much true

[@daminidam78]

I did. And i lost it

[@dhas1222]

@@daminidam78 There are Days to Come when you know it's the One

[@jacobcelmer4928]

When my ex and I broke up I was devastated at first and I'll never forget what one of my best friends told me. He said: "Remember, with each heartbreak, we're one step closer to the person we're meant to be with."

[@ashh5418]

Boyfriend's far away,Iam here waiting for my future "best friend" 😅...which u hav got...very lucky😇

[@anderstermansen130]

More like with each heartbreak we get one step closer to give in, and accept love doesnt work for All humans.

[@syedjafferimam5789]

You can't make anyone fall in love with you. You cannot control anyone's decision making process. The only person who will always be with you is just you. Respect people's decision let them go. Put a price on your self respect don't chase anyone. Human beings are mechanised to move on. You do that too. Love yourself because you are 10 times more adorable than you think you're.

[@Shinitakunai26]

I think that nobody learned to be with....him/her and this is were the problem is

[@danxylight]

SYED JAFFER IMAM thanks

[@Lucrativecris]

Honestly if someone broke up with me it’s not even worth putting up the energy of being hurt I just move on 🚘

[@spiritualityisunderstandin2530]

I love myself a billion times more than I loved her from now on

[@jessejive117]

Well that’s not true. People need to improve themselves and sometimes people are 10 times worse than they think they are and it’s not virtuous to just say the opposite.

[@user-dp5qi8cz1n]

I've been through this , I know how it feels like ...that pain just eats you inside out.....nobody cares ....love yourself .... You deserve love unconditionally than any one..

[@mickfox3262]

Moral of the story is dont act like a door mat and dont be so quick to just jump into a relationship. Also yes there are signs

[@ancientgear7192]

The moral is that people are incapable of loving each other. So stay alone in seclution and become a God.

[@nocap4874]

The moral is that never love a hoe

[@anderstermansen130]

Correction. Moral of the story is once you got dumped, stop. Stop as in completely stop. Pull All brakes. Quit. Give up. Learn relationships isnt a Thing for All humans. Embrace a life of involuntary solitude.

[@user-ui8sp5th4g]

How can you love someone if you can’t love yourself

[@danielpradhanasaputra7956]

Accept yourself as whole. Good and bad. Everything. I know it's not easy. I strugle myself. But for me, i will try to forgive myself for every mistake i make and thank myself for every good thing i ever receive.

[@quiznos817]

Trisha Sandhu you just have to gather your courage and leave him and heal yourself if he is really in love with you he will do the right thing and realize what he will lose if he doesn’t clean up his act but you must stay strong and work on yourself for a while and ignore him till you are ready and it doesn’t mean a week or two take a couple of months and if a person truly loves you they will reflect and know and will be clean as long as both are having clean lives like not having rebound relationships cause if they do that then they were never really what you thought they were and it was just a fantasy that you created in your head. What will be will be but you must regain yourself love so that you can love cause if you don’t love yourself or he doesn’t love himself then how are you going to love someone else if you don’t love yourself first.

[@alongpongener8997]

Because they are the version of me which I failed to become

[@marcelbarle1225]

Just from that i can say u listen to eden.

[@Shinitakunai26]

Self hatred

[@ivyamber]

I was crying during the entire video. This is something that resonates so much with me. It feels both sad and heartwarming to know that someone somewhere has gone through the same kind of pain and that i am understood. This is a very powerful inspiration for me.😢💕

[@thelucianofamily3053]

This video is what i needed my dad just died a few weeks ago from lung cancer 52 years old and all my life ive been trying to make others happy. But no more im enough to love

[@vnx2738]

THE LUCIANO FAMILY305 my uncle passed away just after his birthday, really is sad but always try and stay happy for them as that's what they would want

[@parthapratimdeka6638]

Try to make yourself happy too

[@Илан-ю7г]

@@vnx2738 God bless your uncle soul

[@Илан-ю7г]

God give Heave to your Fathers soul

[@adwaitjayantrane9697]

I can feel you! I was in the same situation, When I was 6 I had a crush on my art teacher in 3rd-grade she got married.

[@vex8133]

Haha

[@onikyuuma8288]

lols XD

[@okayokay-wd9rh]

Bachpan ka pyaar 🥺

[@wilmz19]

I needed this. Thank you KZbin Algorithm

[@That_Handle]

No doubt. Jabbed into me and took hold of something.

[@Prakash_4444]

Definitely needed this 🙂

[@lestermartis1990]

To be honest at my 30, finally, I have come to understand that doesn't matter how much Love, Care, Time and Feelings you share with a person with whom you think will spend your life with and live a dreamed love life, but later (in my case it's 3 years) they will be bored, irritated, exhausted !! But this video is completely how I look into a relationship with another person now!! Thanks.

[@wicoiven3848]

before watching video: single after watching video: still single.

[@kizitokumwenda2531]

😂😂

[@kimanieunice]

ERROR 😂😂🤣

[@andrewthomas4941]

Me too😂😂

[@mafiaseargent]

Same. But at least I own my own house to be alone in!

[@eslamedenini6312]

after watching video: appreciating being single over a lie based relationship

[@thunderthrustable]

0:21 Knees weak Arms are heavy

[@m_5982]

There’s vomit on his sweater already , moms spaghetti

[@thunderthrustable]

M_5 A00 he’s nervous, but on the surface he looks calm and ready

[@yvsh]

To drop bombs, but he keeps on forgetting

[@sarthakgupta479]

What he wrote down .. the whole crowd go so loud..

[@yvsh]

He opens his mouth, but the words won't come out

[@deshanlokuge5636]

At age six I didn't even know what love is. I was playing with mud and dirt. U kids gotta chill out 😂

[@RomanJLinus]

This have been my whole life, trying to be perfect for girlfriends and ending up being disappointed, thinking there is something wrong with me.

[@MustardService]

I'm sure you've listened to this video and now see you are enough If you do realise this you've found true happiness from the only person who can provide unconditional and monumental love as much as possible To find the "right one" is not go have a perfect gf or bf bit rather the perfect friend that accepts your flaws and you accept there flaws and your own because looking for "The one" Is pointless because you are the one

[@RomanJLinus]

@@MustardService thanks a lot.

[@rahulsonwanshi8596]

Love is really complicated It's like You have everything to give but they have so little to give you back. It really hurts when someone does that. It's their loss. They can never find someone like you. They will crave for such love and care when they get out of their childish games and they will never find it. So love Yourself You dodged a bullet YOU ARE ENOUGH!!

[@MiniJihad]

I looked up sad videos bc I’m sad about my relationship and I’m weird like that...and I just found out I’ve got a lack of self love

[@MustardService]

Fingles Me too I've been going through a lot because of quarantine and how I haven't seen my gf in 32 days and we've had struggles and barely held on but this video has taught me the complication I've had is being afraid to lose her and now I know I have allowed myself go hate myself but because of this video I know the more afraid I get to lose someone the higher the probability of me losing that person because of fear Go out and stop being afraid of losing someone Miss them yes Love them yes But if you're too afraid to lose them that's when it happens

[@Prodsacul]

@@MustardService this is exactly whats been happening to me man it sucks so bad

[@boiinyourgg482]

breaking someone's heart is as easy as throwing a rock in the ocean. but you never know how deep that can go..

[@lukevernon9424]

I’m 18. I’ve liked if not loved the same girl for almost 5 years. It’s the third time now that we’ve decided we shouldn’t talk to each other. I’ve been watching some videos posted by this channels after work or while working out and it’s given me motivation. But this... this hits home so hard

[@Ventuskeymaster]

One thing I come to learn is that being in love is amazing but having a strong connection bought us together. learn from ur mistakes and see the world differently, make new things and let ur heart guide u

[@motivet7908]

this story reminds me of the relationship i had with my daughter's mother.

[@xavierh2999]

MOTIVE T ISAAC this story reminds me of the relationship I had with my daughter.

[@ayomideojo3729]

Good Ol' Albama

[@fordhayo607]

This video hits me, im with a girl for 1 year and 2 months already. And everything changed when the lockdown started. I just cant see any reason why but she said she regretted everything on me.

[@caveman3744]

Develop your confidence, build it up like a castle of pride(not arrogance). Then if you have enough self-confidence to analyze people if you can trust them, start out with being friends…if that low level of connection doesn't work, what more if it's a higher commitment? You'll end up in divorce. See both good and the bad in every individual and ask yourself if you can live with their qualities.

[@KarleeM76]

I really love this message !

[@RobJenkinsDubTechno]

There is no traffic jam along the extra mile. Most people aren't willing to go the extra mile, so if you are, then you can set yourself apart from the crowd. This is my intention with my study and meditation music KZbin channel. Many new KZbin channels fail, but I believe that going the extra mile gives the best chance of success.

[@chopianist5226]

Chillout Meditation Music Go for it dude!

[@Jupiterodysseus]

And my manly tears are flowing like a river. I have been bottling all these feelings for so long. really need to hear this. This is a wake up call. Thanks mate!

[@verenah.1190]

This is beautiful and just what I needed. Whatever I do I always feel I’m not good enough. This is still the narrative I picked up from my family and school. But it was never about me. They projected their fears and insecurities onto me. Maybe it helped them feel better if they kept me down. Who knows. I suffered immensely because of this. I grew immensely because of this. Now, it’s time to let go of this belief. Im beautiful and I am enough! So are you!

[@salcardinale1062]

After my night last night... this video just made me feel so much better, thank you for this!

[@inspiretobeu]

I don't know you, but I'm glad 👊🏾🙏🏾

[@fiG34jk]

I‘m speechless... that was definitely the most inspiring video i ever saw...

[@militaryproductions8714]

Don’t be loved for who you may become, be loved for who you are.

[@leafmealoynederpydeu85]

This

[@letherspeak3063]

Ohhhhkkkayyyyyy...my gosh it feels like I was knowing it that's why every single time I'm getting hurt & betrayed but while watching this I acknowledged it !..tysm Roa❤️🥀

[@295moose]

One of the heart melting speech I ever listened on this channel

[@tituscassiusseverus6303]

Wow wise words indeed, this bordering Borderline personality disorder, trying to be perfect for everyone else whilst denying yourself. To the point you don't even know who you are.

[@jamesfollett1057]

Bro this EXACTLY describes how I feel. I’m out of words. The story is so relatable, the story being almost exactly to the point

[@rituuuurr]

Whenever I heard him he makes me believe that I'm enough...we all did this for someone 💯

[@bladel9]

I'm seeing myself in that guy. Putting myself for others always, being the best, wanting to be the best in others life while I'm putting myself at worst for them when they leave. This video is kinda going to change my life and a reminder for me everyday

[@owens6578]

I have been denied by every girls I’ve asked out in my entire life so far. It really lowered my self-esteem. I began to believe that I was a loser and will never find love. I really needed to watch this video. It really boosted my spirits

[@theatomicstuff6101]

Drew HQ hey king 👑 just want to say, you don’t have to ask out a lot of women. It would make you seem desperate and thus lowers your attractiveness.

[@danielogboru8808]

You’re a king ❤

[@9thb1996]

There was a similar video, take care of yourself as the person as you love. When you have so much love in you, then you give it away to the person who needs it the most.

[@lielzamir]

Best motivational video I ever saw in my life... I'm speechless.

[@nidhineeraj03]

I cried listening to you... Every word is a truth...every word...💞 Love this! 💖

[@nicholaslimtunyang3276]

I am enough and that's enough just by showing up that hit hard thank you man for this speech it made me realise that i gotta start realising my self worth more and bond with others by being the real me not the perfect me others want me to be. thank you

[@ProudOne]

This is so me. I see the best in the persons I open up for. If she doesn't respond sometimes, I blame it on myself. something has got to be wrong with me is what I keep telling myself every time she doesn't respond or listen to me or whatever. and it's killing me because I'm very sad inside but don't show it because I don't want to make her feel sad. so I keep blaming myself and is slowly starting to hate myself. But don't get me wrong. I know my girlfriend is the most wonderful person. I'm just too harsh on myself.

[@daxware603]

This video should be shown to every teen, I made the same mistakes when I was 16 not releasing the small things or the signs.

[@trishadiane4379]

I stayed married 17 years always trying to see the best in him when all he was doing was seeing the worst in me. I will never again put someone above me. It isn't healthy. The right person will lift me up, not tear me down to nothing.

[@SebastianRamirez-sm7zp]

What did you do to make him seethe worst in you

[@trishadiane4379]

@@SebastianRamirez-sm7zp Nothing. He was a narcissistic drug addicted alcoholic who used his childhood trauma to keep me hooked.

[@neerajjh1233]

Hang in there

[@swapnilkarad2956]

"Self love is self discipline " - Sandeep Maheshwari

[@CarolineAng]

I have had enough of living life for others. I now am living life for myself.

[@hipstar999world9]

Be you, take yourself out and enjoy the world 😍

[@noahybarra3700]

This is what I need I am currently going through a breakup of 7 years with a daughter I feel like my life is crumbling. But I know she is not good for me but i still go back. After all the things she did to me and we did to each other I keep running back when I know I shouldn’t...

[@The5BeanersBut1]

Put yourself better than her cuz she probably not gonna try to put any effort for the relationship and you will for no reaosn. Just be in love with yourself then with someone who doesn't even love u back

[@imlibanmo8660]

If your young don't fall in love because it's fake.

[@sawmyathakur336]

Thanks for advice

[@PXKU77]

Preach

[@beastfromeast6548]

Exactly bruh

[@philipmartinez496]

As a teenager I recognize that teenagers do not understand the concept of love, and love only the concept

[@antonhermann138]

@@philipmartinez496. Not sure about that. I hated the concept but now my brain is hella fucked up, thinking about a girl 24/7. But she just loved the concept of being loved. Not loving. That make sense?

[@marhub2]

Shes the most beautiful i’ve ever seen in my life Shows a kid

[@kakashiboss8350]

🤣🤣 yeah I never understood those reference.

[@crisperjeeper5220]

Well he is six years old at that times🤷

[@xavierh2999]

Bruh. Pay attention to the relevancy of the story. As he said this he was referring to his six year old self.

[@mehuljain5322]

hes not wrong, 6 years, that was his life

[@Raez_XL]

So many r/whoosh candidates

[@ana-mariadrozd4771]

Love and respect yourself! This is not selfishness, is a healthy mindset.

[@angrypatriot9989]

I wonder what these sound like without the sad or empowering music in the background

[@veronna_k2804]

If someone is betraying you ..!!! You need to forgive yourself first for feeling how they project themselves they can't change about themselves in you...

[@MonkyDollqueen]

Love - is when you wish all the best to the people you love, when you put their interests and well-being above their own. Always. -Angelina Jolie 🤩

[@khangsingchopel6443]

black ghost! 69 when you put their interests and well being being above their own? I’m confused

[@thatolehutso4364]

My friends ,family ,strangers always compliment me on how beautiful i am but its so difficult for me to see that .i struggle so much to see that i really dont know why .thats one main reason my relationships fail its cause i feel like i dont deserve this guy he is too handsome or too good for me which causes me to lose my confidence very quick .i dont know what to do with myself anymore i lock myself in the house for months cause i have low self esteem

[@Lucrativecris]

I think it’s because people like you for your beauty but they don’t love you for who you are and you seem you lost your identity as a person

[@Ashirbani_music]

That's exactly like my story till I started realising that I'm just trying to fit myself in the vision of others. This video means so much to me now.

[@mohammedgulled7919]

Am 21 years old and I have been through 5 relationship...i relate so much to this guy I always try to put others first and if one relationship ends I will be like maybe I did something wrong and try to find miss perfect I put her so high that I can do anything and I mean anything to see her smile and laugh but they don't do that for me and I still continue to believe in others but no more am gonna try to change myself

[@shikhaandani2259]

N how you ll try to change?

[@pawanchhetri670]

I know what heart break feel . when you even don't have to share your feeling with . Crying silently on midnight every dream of that person who is not yours. the moment You put all your energy but they don't feel thae love even don't value you your love

[@muskntesla3493]

How you do anything is how you do everything! Thank you Gabriel for correcting me!!

[@alexanderrichards1802]

Facts

[@Gabriel-fr3sd]

I AM SUCCESS how you do anything is how you do everything.

[@muskntesla3493]

@@Gabriel-fr3sd yeah!!That is the original one!!!

[@Gabriel-fr3sd]

Lol np bro 😂

[@muskntesla3493]

@@Gabriel-fr3sd thank you for correcting me!!

[@peterkang1807]

Why did this pop up in my feed? How did it know I needed this literally the next day?... Thank you so much...

[@Steguano]

I can relate to this guy so much , and I appreciate this speech. I’ve been through so much bro fr fr

[@sleepynap7806]

just love yourself and make that a priority. everything follows

[@carlojamessaladaga7912]

While listening this I realized im sad and im so lost

[@zaiddababneh2039]

It doesn’t matter... all of it. We’re all going to die in a matter of decades and all that’s left of us are distant memories that our kids would have. However, even more time will pass and our presence will fade away even more in the eyes of our children and soon it’ll be like we never existed. So why should anything matter.

[@MasterPandaBearChannel]

t

[@90blin19]

zaid Dababneh nothin matters

[@Lucrativecris]

Anything In life doesn’t matter

[@a_o_9148]

I love how this video took a turn in the ending ✌️

[@lilcrusty7131]

This is basically my life story this has helped me realize a lot

[@richstwart2079]

This story really touch something deep inside, a lot of us can relate to that experience....it was tough to hear as i felt empathy for him, but i really admire and commend him when he was at his lowest to find the strength and courage to pick himself up and recognize his self worth and value to himself.....a very uplifting and inspiration to us all that we can find within ourselves....we all have been there...i love this vid...

[@Aadityadt5]

I assume all the dislikes are from the people who lacks fidelity & honesty!

[@Ashadow700]

I like these speeches, but can we tone down the music a tiny bit? It's distracting. Strong ideas don't need half the London symphon orchestra to invoke a response in people, they stand own their own just fine.

[@sauviel6296]

Yeah youre right

[@ansonchin7103]

I mean... im stuck at 17 and I havent even been in a single relationship yet so... i guess even having a relationship at 6 is already better than me

[@That_Handle]

Naw, self worth and value doesn't work like that. There is no relativism there from which to over-simplify like you did. So, "Heads up!" / "Chin up!" and scan around you. 👍✌🤟🖖👋

[@c.dalenale7415]

being 17 and not in a relationship isn’t uncommon & it isn’t a bad thing. i didn’t have my first relationship until 19, and even that shouldn’t be considered “late”. sometimes, the right person isn’t around you... and that’s okay. it’s better to be alone than to settle because you’re lonely. since you may feel like you’re missing out from the experience, take some time to determine what it is you actually want in a partner and in a relationship. 17 is so so so young. you have plenty of time to find someone to share your life with. i know it’s incredibly lonely watching everyone else be in relationships, but just take that time to focus on yourself, your friendships, etc.

[@treatmenice1564]

Trust yourself. It will happen.

[@skatesescool]

DOn’t worry i got my first girlfriend at 19-20

[@Dudeimweird]

Don’t do that to yourself

[@moalex9313]

well. there is a girl that i knew for 5 years, now i hear his words and i see my self in between, tried to be the perfect one for her, though she never really care about me, i was like the last one on her list to call whenever she has no one else to meet and nothing to do. i just didn´t wanna see it, i denied it, as i have tried to deny the fact of having feelings for her, i remember when she asked me bout someone, and that someone was a person she hated the most as she said, at the end i found out that they are together. it took time till i realize that i have been blinded by love, and blaming myself for loving her, trying hard to focus on me instead, still can not see her in front of me without having a difficulties to be normal, just hearing you now makes me know that i am just like many others, that i´m not the only one who been there and stop blaming myself because of it.

[@margaretsmith5119]

He is talking about me. This makes me cry. I am 70 this year, 2024. What a wake-up call.

[@yuji6678]

mate im 17 and u just helped me to see what my problem is. Thank u

[@moecher7891]

Almost the same events happened to me its really nothing worst cause things like that can shape up to ruin your life no matter how much you say and try to be good

[@rudolphbaloyi2505]

You're enough ♥️🙏

[@kesler4944]

Really needed this, thank you for posting. ❤️

[@Son-km3rt]

*Behind every successful man there is a woman* . A Paradox well said.

[@SvgeRose]

I’ve learned a lot of this from my first love. Tho love is blind. I choose to see other. And it broke me. And I find it hard to trust women nowadays. But I’ve always distrusted ppl and loved them from a distance cause that stems further then any other break up or heartache. I am given the tools to love but lack the strength to give myself that freedom. And I’ve been alone for a very long time, I know people but they don’t know me. And they never will. Because I’ve been so good at it. I’ve mastered it. But man none should ever feel this weight..

[@sloshedfox2044]

Recently blocked by someone I cared for. This was well needed.

[@town-l2565]

Stop looking for someone. Let them find you. If THEY picked you, they know that they will have a great life with you. If you keep looking for others, your heart will just break untill you'll just have an emotionless expression for "normal"

[@Lucrativecris]

Honestly that’s me

[@anderstermansen130]

@@Lucrativecris try being rejected constantly like i have been.. You will learn to give up. Pull All brakes, emergency brakes, and stall All engines. Just lay completely flat down.

[@increadibleangel7980]

I can't have enough words...to describe...but what ur story has 💯 similar to me..I went through all this and from months m doubting myself why all this happened ... Thx .for telling me. Congo for you ...u have become u. Now m becoming me.again for me.

[@mohammedalwy4629]

Uh rocked the site mister this is wat we were awaiting for long ......"dont ever try to make people happy while uh are still unhappy"....if life hits uh so hard every now and then then stop right there take a turn and let people now hit on you ...be the perfect you and people will hit on you instead of uh hitting on them now and then

[@edwincito0925]

That was amazing! Life changing 🙏🏽

[@jessejive117]

The problem with a lot of relationships as people think just because someone doesn’t want to be with them, that person somehow is doing something wrong that doesn’t want to be with you. Some people just don’t want to be with you just because you do need to better things about yourself. It’s not immoral when someone breaks up with you. it hurts, it sucks and it’s disappointing sometimes it is your failures are you inadequacies and pretending like you’re more virtuous because you would “swim oceans for them and they won’t even jump puddles for you” is incredibly childish. just because you like somebody Waymore than they like you they change their mind about you does it mean they are doing anything wrong or should even need to apologize.Cheating specifically is an entirely different topic. But at the same time you are responsible for the type of people you choose to be with associate with. If there were no indicators then it is her fault. But if you aren’t going after people with integrity then you shouldn’t expect anything better. But everyone’s a victim

[@jeanodicampo1183]

This felt like it was made for me

[@deboraveiga8072]

Thanks for sharing, Adam. 🙏🏻 Another great speech!!!! Loved it!😍🥰😍🥰 I already know that I will watch it several times - as I did with the other one.😊 THANK YOU!!!

[@deboraveiga8072]

@Beast Perspective Nice videos on your channel! 😉👍🏻 Keep doing it!!!!

[@freedomfighter84]

The girls I cared for didn’t care much when I started treating them like they were nothing to me suddenly they started loving me. Sad 😞 but true.

[@Kamo766]

Adam I'm evolving right now thank you very much😭

[@mormsophen3238]

This is me when i was in highschool. Being gentleman, handsome man, in the end I haven’t got girlfriend until now im in year 3 in university.

[@drkzetsu5690]

Thank you so much 😢😢 really ...this is very much related to me ...and whatever you said ... everything is true...😢

[@peterrajendran4612]

Dont be sad bro😊

[@yanski9395]

love your self is the beginning of love

[@julitaserrano5550]

I've pretty much decided to let go of hope for love. Don't fall for it, it hurts too much. Guess I gotta relearn how to love myself again.