If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND and KEEP LOVE - WATCH THIS!

If You Want To Know What It Takes To FIND and KEEP LOVE - WATCH THIS!
Simon Sinek on LOVE and LEADERSHIP
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"She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink, you got her one without even asking. She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work, and she came home and she had a terrible day at work, you didn't say "Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let me tell you about my day." You sat and listened to her awful day, and you didn't say a thing about your amazing day. This is why she fell in love with you."
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[@FearlessSoulOfficial]

What does it take to FALL IN and STAY IN love?

[@nqobazibuko]

Consistency!

[@jodyannsmith5808]

Waaaaaaaw your words really touch my heart keep it up 💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@bahouskouidri3164]

Try to rise in love not falling in love 💓💓

[@limesr6464]

Love itself,,takes to fall IN and STAY in love

[@ashishit4134]

She left me

[@poteqqetop942]

The guy: How much do you love her? Give me a number. Me: 3000

[@poteqqetop942]

@moLOTOv LOL

[@SurBanPink]

broooooo, you can’t do that to me.

[@Saggie-dz7pi]

I always go with 4 myself.

[@anonymouse7379]

ITS OVER 9000!!!🔥🔥🔥(few people will get this)

[@anonymouse7379]

@john boss DBZ🤔

[@alucard1128]

Best host ever He didn’t interrupt

[@belsayshootingground]

Khof YT the only host I know who doesn’t make the show about himself, he’s the only host I know who makes the show all about his guest. He says nothing and it allows them to talk to the point where they have nothing left to give, which means we get everything out of them. It’s amazing!

[@RuzoOwzy]

May b he was not understanding!!! 😁

[@gvprince]

I love Graham Norton too as a host along with him

[@topstuff4830]

Maybe he lied at first 😂

[@Jeanca99]

Yes he is

[@ArtistryAlchemyy]

I just lost my job because of the pandemic as a music teacher, so I started a KZbin channel. wish me luck guys :))

[@viktorakawisevik1305]

All the best...try other avenues like schools in other areas/regions and countries. The blessing of the pandemic means you can reach out to schools globally and not just in your local area. Every blessing and best wishes.

[@Ssookawai]

Try to contact your clients and see if there's also a possibility to keep lessons online, through skype (or any other app) videocalls and recordings, like they record their stuff and you give feedback as well. Best of luck to you

[@ronakchoudhary7248]

Best wishes to you 🤗

[@aaa-vq8nm]

@Jax Teller that’s when it was his normal account to watch videos nou he changed the name and his first video was 6 months ago

[@aaa-vq8nm]

@Jax Teller think before you speak

[@shokshakapp]

Every single word, truth. That being said, my father (rest in peace dad) was a plant manager at a factory. He managed about 300 people. He knew the names of each one, he knew WHO each one was. He was ALWAYS the first to come into work, and he madr sure to say good morning to each and every single person and CARE about the short conversation each one had with him (and remember everything). Where ever you are dad, this video further showed me how special of a person you were.

[@dustersinternational221]

What a great dad, my dad was the opposite and if he made it home for Xmas he was drunk! He took his childhood issues to his grave. I faced my darkness and found my light ... My dad was still my dad and I never hated him like the rest of my family. It is lovely to hear of such nice kind thoughtful men who clearly made peoples lives nicer and always leads to more kindness 🙏💗💗

[@sickkunt1573]

well he's teaching simpin

[@shokshakapp]

@@dustersinternational221 thank you so much for your kind words. Means a lot. And, you are a rare sight to see. Very few people would have taken the situation as you did with your father. My deepest respect.

[@Swadheenta06]

A great person your dad was. World needs such people today. It is said, 'you are a big person, only when someone sitting next to you doesn't feel small'. ☮️

[@damonkabb1404]

Amazing

[@AH-ml2jl]

Loving someone gives you courage. Being loved gives you strength.

[@alicedarko-ampem4664]

Andrew Harvey That's very true

[@SilencedButNotForgotten]

I like this so much!

[@Chiungalla79]

Awesome!

[@PerritoLoca]

Your words went straight to my heart 💓😄

[@sussy_rabbit1887]

This explains why i lack both

[@emersonsrandomvideos248]

The guy on the right was like, "Aahh... oohhh... uuuhh... yeaaahhh.. ahuhhh..." Speechless

[@rext4607]

I think that's what made the monologue so impactful. The interviewer was good at his job

[@rext4607]

@@cherrynado You have to lead others in order to be a leader if others don't consider you a leader you're not one You can be a boss, a dictator but not a leader no

[@ArcticuKitsu]

@@cherrynado True. You'll see what he means by simply being in a school setting doing group work, or even retail work. You won't listen to a scummy supervisor/fulltimer, but you will listen and respect a supervisor/fulltimer who respects you. You give more respect to those who respect you and treat you like a human. Sure, you need to do your job, but you do a better job when you're validated as a human, not a slave. If you want people to listen to you (as a leader) you need to be respected to allow that leader to lead you. Look at hockey teams, marketing, and such.... The way marketing works (advertisments) is similar to how leadership works because it preys on people's tribal side of things. People are lemmings, people want a good leader to follow.

[@helen.cabo.villanueva97]

Before ...i don't understand yet about GOD ...i am speechless. NOW i know about GOD ... i am "taratitat" (talkative)

[@tkgplays2831]

Just like me 😐😳😁

[@NidiaZ93]

When a man learns to love, he must bear the risk of hatred - Uchiha madara

[@peter86427]

hello there you good sir, nice quote from naruto there.thank you.

[@youripoorter996]

Tobi🥺

[@mysticalverax]

Take this upvote good sir

[@johnjoyce5137]

Naruto is such a great show i love that quote

[@PranksterPaws]

@@johnjoyce5137 it has so much great quotes

[@abdulrahmanaqlan6085]

Can we all give some credit to the host for not interrupting his guest. That's some amazing listening skills there!

[@anthonykhoury3895]

Spot on. He's the best interviewer there is. Check out Impact Theory if you haven't already for some amazing content

[@michaelcarpenter1031]

Absolutely, this is an exceptionally good interviewer.

[@newlightmotivationandrelax1597]

"Don't stop when you are tired,stop when you are done" - Johhny sins

[@Jackson-tx5uc]

Wise words from a wise multi-jobs man

[@moviesstudio8171]

😂 😂 😂 Bruh 👆

[@amangrover21]

Movies Studio nhrk on k9 kk

[@Brandon-305]

Bruh I cried laughing 😂😂

[@Aserve1st]

Lmao

[@yuvalvernik9483]

This doesn't teach how to find love, it teaches how to improve and maintain an already existing love.

[@MarcYuInside]

@@georgepsychedelic9318 - It worked in The Office!

[@scroogetheking3613]

Marc Yu it did!

[@1000Staver]

@@georgepsychedelic9318 You know, in most cases when your crush doesn't even like you, that won't work

[@ashutosht13]

I

[@mehdiouabas9587]

@@1000Staver Well,she will like you because of that

[@attenonmj3708]

When you say "Good morning!" to your teacher every day and you still get an F...

[@randomserbianguy5677]

Reality is often disappointing :(

[@Chordofthestrings]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@venkataraghavareddyvarla3830]

The teacher should be more honest to you as she loves you and make reality clear infront of you...So it must be F if you only worth it...

[@ibrameid1022]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kawaakibkreem2610]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

God is saying to you today, "That closed door was not a rejection, but a redirection to something bigger and better. Don't look back. I have something amazing in your future." Amen.💕 🙏

[@Isokatmydydecsf]

No, I don't believe in God, in response to your username, but I respect and appreciate your message and it's meaning.

[@jamieelder135]

I receive that

[@flakkovxv]

Amen 🙏 ✝️ ❤️ May the almighty bless you!

[@wrath5867]

You don’t need god to find salvation. I’m very happy in my life without religion.

[@raimondabaskyte3678]

Amen!!!!❤️

[@slightdesign4041]

"Brushing your teeth for 9 hours straight wont make it bright" "Brushing for 2 minutes, 2 times a day. will make it Bright" *He motivated me to brushing my teeth*

[@sabrsndi6358]

Same 😂

[@skullcrusher4158]

U literally mixed the workout advice and the brushing advice 😂

[@ksksdjjd2254]

still yellow

[@skullcrusher4158]

@@ksksdjjd2254 u probably need a more effective product like "parodontax" or something

[@ksksdjjd2254]

@@skullcrusher4158 will it destroy my teeth?

[@deadacid514]

I think he made the other guy fall in love w him.

[@viktoriak3461]

dead acid 😂😂😂✋

[@consciouslifestyle4554]

These comments though 😂😅🤣😭

[@Servant1666]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤔

[@smbc6560]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@tingle2323]

No ..he just explained..if he falls in love..he is literally abandoning his teaching 😂

[@drugsarebad97]

Love is an action word, not an emotion. To love , you must act. To be loved, you must be able to receive kindness.

[@murdhonno_koi]

-2 years later, If you're still watching this you're a legend.

[@HistorysArena]

I think youtube is spying on me... I don't know how but every time i m going through something youtube recomends exactly what i needed to watch.

[@howardbaxter2514]

Same for me. Kinda creepy not going to lie

[@HistorysArena]

@@howardbaxter2514 yeah its creepy...

[@srukshan98]

youtube is not spying on you. Google Knows about you. More than even you would know. So it's simple, Just fall in love with google.

[@minlee5376]

Bitupan Boruah it's god giving us this video bro I needed as well

[@anahernan7335]

it's called google analytics and big data... responsible for artificial intelligence and generating information according to what suits you... Marketing, consumerism ... studying human behaviour

[@tagehetland5899]

you can feel he truly truly believes what he is saying and that makes it more powerful

[@barbatvs8959]

Or he's a good actor like Hitler.

[@muskanhira1094]

It's genuine stuff he's speaking right there. Some people just don't get it or they don't want to

[@fantasypolice]

Specialization

[@ksksdjjd2254]

@@moisessalazar2180 validation seeking trash

[@linghang1]

Exactly 👍

[@abraiyan7984]

Look at Tom, that is exactly how you listen to a person.

[@bluemagneticstorm988]

Love isn't about the other person. It is about how much you connect with being what you really are and embracing it in yourself. If you love yourself then you can love another and it not be dependent on what they say or do. So love is not about what happens on the outside, but what happens on the inside. And that kind of love doesn't fade, even if you have to let them go.

[@michaelcarpenter1031]

Well said! Reminiscent of some things Sadhguru says about love. Very salient points here.

[@Dingkus]

This proves; Studying for 14 hrs the day before an exam is totally useless..... Lol

[@simplythebest286]

exactly !!!

[@sasy8761]

in the long-term, probably.. the short-term gain is still you getting through the exam thing is.. you probably wont be able to remember any of the stuff from that exam a week afterwards

[@liamitz7630]

Don't say that 😂

[@Dingkus]

@@liamitz7630 even if i don't, deep down u know its true 😂

[@odyssey7245]

Thats not the way it works

[@ankitmehta6880]

Hardwork + consistency = success

[@mohammedaminaissou2285]

what does consistency means ?

[@m.n.6147]

Aissou Amine to keep doing what you do.

[@osmatamar5398]

Ankit Mehta really

[@ShawnFX]

@@mohammedaminaissou2285 to do things on a daily basis. For example If you want to become a faster reader, read every single day, and within a month or so you will know your speed changed because you have been practicing it EVERY SINGLE DAY for the past month. Hope this helps!

[@Liyanev]

Not really, it would be ''Smart hard work + consistency''. In your case every slave and labourer would succed. To put in a nutshell, working hard, but not smart, does not mean success. That is my point of view. Hope you having a nice day!

[@m.o.s.h.1836]

Being CONSISTENT in life and in love makes someone trustworthy and reliable.

[@xauthu4704]

When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.

[@nqobazibuko]

Consistency is key to everything and I love it!

[@tomwanders6022]

Nqoba Zibuko me 2 bro/sis me too but it’s hard to keep it up

[@adam.maqavoy]

@nqobazibuko Yeah and I've been doing for years and even telling others about, but so many ppl do not even understand this.

[@rayenasarkar]

@@adam.maqavoy don't expect from oders 😊

[@adam.maqavoy]

@@thongminhnguyen6031 You can definitely tell, which is the point of this vlog. That doesn't mean it is the only way of doing it. Showing is just another option.

[@zakarianabilsea5041]

I gave u like so u have now 1k likes :)

[@BeAnInspirer]

“It is better to fight in a relationship than not to communicate with each other at all.”

[@23NRJNR]

Agree. The thing that she/he doesn't want is to be shut out completely. If you don't even attempt to discuss matters and try to come to a resolution, you are ultimately giving up.

[@matemokrai4900]

Wish my ex knew that...

[@Sleepy_Sunshine]

i call fights aggressive conversations

[@Boniwix]

bitch i did that and she left lmao

[@elrickpenn]

@@Sleepy_Sunshine ... I call them: " Spirited Debates " ...

[@kavipriyas2108]

"Consistency " a 11 letter word can make ur life a wonderful story🙂

[@JJ-ps9xe]

Never put your joy in anything you cannot control or is variable. If you do, you will find much pain in your life!

[@KrazyKratosFan]

What isn't though? Don't you think its better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all?

[@simonbolivar3697]

True 👍

[@somniato7759]

"If you want people to follow the big laws, you have to enforce the small ones" -Batman

[@planewire2153]

Sad Lad I thought it was j q Wilson

[@TheDarkOne9942]

The batman who said that wasn’t the one in the parallel universe?

[@somniato7759]

@@TheDarkOne9942 Yeah, with the evil Batman apparently.

[@AB-vp9mi]

Don't mix fiction and reality please.

[@makhnig3150]

Nope only major pic matters... No freedom.. Leader is changed

[@rodrigo-tj1gf]

The other guy was like: did i do all that shit ???? Idk i will just agree

[@franki01mail]

xD

[@codmobilemodmenu]

😂😂😂😂

[@rayrocanaldo1189]

Hahaha!! Lmfao

[@herbertmason6265]

You can begin manifesting your dreams instantly. People don't learn how to use their thoughts the right way. It is not that tough to implement law of attraction with whole potential. I found my prosperity fountain here => *4ManifestAll. Com* (Live Training Inside) PS: Be ahead of everyone?

[@AZheatherrr]

The “other guy” is Tom Bilyeu. He’s brilliant, but he’s listening. His wife also has a KZbin show. They’re an awesome couple who know exactly what they’re doing. I’ve watched them together and separate talk about their relationship as well as countless other topics. And Tom is not sitting there misunderstanding a word, he’s absorbing it and also letting his guest share his knowledge. Simon Sinek is freaking awesome too. I’m glad Tom let him talk.

[@nyreggie]

An Amazing video, Choosing the right industry to invest is very critical, Most times, it amazes me greatly how I moved from an average lifestyle to earning over $83k per month. Utter shock is the word. I have understood a lot in the past few years to doubt that opportunities are bound in the financial markets. The only thing is to know where to focus.

[@abigail_campbell]

I keep wondering how people earn money in financial markets, i tried trading bitcoin on my own made a huge loss and now I'm scared of investing more.

[@nyreggie]

@@abigail_campbell That won't bother you if you trade with a professional like *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* my coach, you may have come across him on interviews relating to bitcoin. He trades, manage trading account and offer mentorship program for clients who wish to become professional investors.

[@abigail_campbell]

@@nyreggie You allow people to trade for you ? that's interesting, I would love to learn, hope it’s safe?

[@roklin1]

Wow I can't believe you guys are discussing about *Mr Gary Mason Brooks* , I once met him at a conference in California 2019, just before the pandemic. I can testify that he’s very good in trading..Highly recommended.

[@roklin1]

@jasonlauu Yes i do, I've known him for couple of years , I'm still using his services , His management team is quite impressive so far.... with my $15,000 deposit, I made over $288,000 profit with just 10% charge.

[@user2j3ycg4df]

How inspiring is Simon Sinek. He speaks like some wise person within one's own family, who is not speaking just to impress someone, but with confidence and wants to genuinely help.

[@tanishkabhatia3594]

How lucky is the speakers wife :)

[@rphanmurphy8385]

He's probably a raging alcohol who goes home drunk and alone every day crying himself to sleep because no one can help him the way he helps others.

[@bryansalazar8927]

@@rphanmurphy8385 Maybe he helps himself.

[@rphanmurphy8385]

@@bryansalazar8927 not many people can...

[@helen.cabo.villanueva97]

good reputation

[@lok6314]

not lucky, big difference in saying the right things....and doing them... We all struggle with that..knowing what is right and not doing it... You would be surprised what happens behind the scenes. Its not that if i know a lot about cars that i can construct a car or create one with raw materials..

[@JZBZACK]

This video put it correctly, bluntly, and biblically. Love is a set of actions, not just an unreliable emotion.

[@landonodonnell4135]

I love Callie Turner

[@JosephAliDeeb]

What means bluntly and biblically? Im not English

[@zackjandali]

JAD bluntly means short, biblically means relating to the Bible. I’m not sure how the video had anything to do with the Bible though that was a little weird to hear that...

[@ynwa1283]

JZBZACK 1 John 3:18 "Let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth." Don't talk about it, BE about it. My favorite bible verse.

[@RJ39767793]

R.eese.2D2 and why should we care what the Bible says?

[@shahinparveen3528]

I am not the kind of a person who comments but after listening to this guy, I am amazed , I am like wow. love from India, Simon❤️

[@muhammadrehman3000]

Man I was having a very bad day cuz of some issues with relations. But now I feel confident enough to Man up. Thank God I decided to open KZbin

[@weili1963]

“Love comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith”

[@boyapatin9060]

Well i am not sure that i have a pure heart,a clear conscience and genuine faith and i think she also does not have all of these ,but maybe more than me,i would feel bad if she is sick and hurt and try and make her better,that is all iam

[@boyapatin9060]

Maybe i am expecting her to do the same when i was sick or hurt too,i do not maybe love her,but do care for her

[@janr.3923]

This is beautiful. Thank you Wei Li.

[@weili1963]

@@janr.3923 heroes have the same point :)

[@janr.3923]

Wei Li Thank you for being kind. I wish you the best.

[@wokegod007]

After watching this I gave the good morning thing a try... I guess I should have waited for her to wake up.

[@melvinpariyadan4884]

😂😂😂😂

[@SalmanKhan-nm8if]

Hope ur face is still in good shape

[@rodrigosigoli]

Hahahahaha

[@winblessed1357]

Hahaha atleast you tried

[@estherdesir2873]

🤣🤣

[@thomasvleminckx]

I like to believe that where ever Simon Sinek goes, that soft inspirational music follows him around

[@woodbrassandglass]

I remember the exact moment I began to love each of my adopted daughters. The moment I knew they needed me and the moment I loved them more then myself. My life changed forever.

[@prolife4396]

Yeah just don't lose yourself to a woman who can't see the simple thing's in a realationship or a man. Don't sacrifice you're well being to provide for their dreams and goals when they are unwilling to do the same for you. Find someone who laughs, plays, enjoys you for who you are. And your hard work you put into the realationship. Communication is key to keeping love in a relationship. It's teamwork. Not a one sided realationship so they can be happy. Both must put in the effort to keep each other from falling out of love. Keep your damn friends out of your realationships. And have sex with their soul not their body. Remember why you love them. Be real and take the responsibility for yourself when you are in the wrong. Owe up to what you did. Don't avoid it. Fight for it.

[@owennyamuzihwa1920]

Wise words

[@DrDino2426]

Underated comment Thank you sir!

[@boogeyman2868]

''And have sex with their soul not their body.'' yes man! and try to touch her heart from deep inside!

[@Stoneybv]

Well said

[@LOKITYZ]

Beautiful

[@whereeveritgoes]

Simon Sinek: Do you love your wife? Tom Bilyeu: No. *Video Ends*

[@mac1bc]

That would've been awesome

[@khalidomi7061]

U r genious!

[@brianh3982]

😂

[@mra4486]

Then the closing theme of who wants to be a millionaire is played.

[@aaronpuspok265]

Il be : Handsome, genius, marvellous.

[@DreamSurferRelaxation]

Yes, you. You're probably scrolling through the comments, like I am, reading all these motivational comments. If you are reading this at night, you should get some sleep, and don't stress about everything going on in the world, or what you are going through. Don't dwell on things from the past, don't stress on your future. Just live your life, because you only get one. Do whatever makes you happy, not what other people want from you. For me, I'm gonna wake up tomorrow morning, get hit the gym, and cherish life for the amazing blessing that it is. I hope you do the same and have an amazing day as well!

[@SeizeTheDayMukhtar]

Lots of love

[@YouTubeLate]

This video should be played on gyms and treadmills, on repeat and without anybody access to changing the channel, like a scene out of 1984 especially at the start of the year.

[@bupechikumbi3082]

I swear I have a new attitude to teeth brushing! 2019 anyone?

[@shanemoe9098]

Well my mother will whip my arse if I don't brush my teeth twice a day

[@BrooklynnR90]

Bupe Chikumbi lmbo yes!!

[@sherwineliscar735]

Shane Moe she cares about you and you should love her no matter happened

[@SubscribersWithVideos-wq6rj]

@@shanemoe9098 same my mom is an orthodintist, :')

[@azazelmaxwell7842]

Haha. I get it. I need to brush my teeth. I'm going right now. Thanks for the time warp remi der.

[@GosuHub]

Don't treat her like a celebrity Cruz she will treat you like a fan :) .

[@NewsOnQueue]

I like that saying. So much truth behind it

[@kodydew222]

Ultra Mix v/ if you’re going to quote someone at least give the credit to Aaron Doughty

[@georgemaster3845]

Plagiarism alert

[@minkjay3218]

Instruction not clear Now she is treating me like an air conditioner

[@suryam.7581]

I'm stealing thisss

[@danielasantos2295]

Marry someone who looks at you as this interviewer looks at Simon!

[@kumarzena]

just like u look at the mirror 😂😂

[@KA-eu9sy]

Simon Sinek. The speaker with the glasses is a great motivator. Speaks with power.

[@canopypak1238]

Love is all about four things: 1) Respecting 2)communication 3)understanding 4) responsibility . And this only possible when we love Someone with everything.

[@theiridiumgamer5225]

I think there's also a 5th thing, Sacrifice.

[@royalafa8006]

Trust

[@shinobiex3851]

@@theiridiumgamer5225 that can fall under responsibility

[@shinobiex3851]

@11STARFIRE i think they all fall under all 4 of what he said

[@shinobiex3851]

What i do think is appreciation is the 5th one.

[@joajaimemarti4556]

This is the first motivational video that actually worked for me

[@AH17293]

I love 'your world within' The guy produces good content.

[@hazratuddin8309]

Joajaime Marti same

[@zackjandali]

Joajaime Marti good for you bro! The best place to get your motivation is on the inside, and these videos help with that so well. Hope it goes a long way for you!

[@lolgamez9171]

@@zackjandali haha, nice test but courage is external

[@colecarver8586]

Mine was Shia lebouffs just do it video.

[@Alexander-fp6yp]

I am clapping alone in my room right now. This is how good it was.

[@daothang7892]

Amazing. Thanks so much for your words. The love is proven by little loved actions accumulated consistently day by day, it will be the sustainable and long-lasting love !

[@G_Lady]

Girls been saying this for years. "It's all the little thing that matters." Really. No need for flowers everyday, expensive gifts, etc. Sure once in a while it's nice to celebrate. But really, guys. Girls will fall in love stupidly. Just the way you laugh... Just the way your eyes shines when you talked about her... Just the way you goof around... It's easy. To get a girl to fall in love with you.

[@Oussii]

👏👏

[@arshiadelphan875]

I have nothin to say just this👍👍👍👍👍

[@JohnDoe-pc1qf]

"It's easy to get a girl to fall in love with you."Biggest bullshit I've ever read.

[@slarkel506]

Yes :**((

[@slarkel506]

@John Doe It can be, but only for the one you truly love

[@god6less]

he really makes himself sound like he has all the answers

[@beyoutiful2023]

That's true, because when you speak from authentic place, information flows.

[@andriod090]

Vikky S it also really really helps the information stick when you actually listen to what’s being said.

[@juantorres-fk7bk]

He does have a lot of answers.

[@user-qe7bt9dz1l]

andy gonzalo No he just has an opinion and closes his brain off to any other possibility to maintain confidence on his opinion. It’s a cheap tactic many people do for a cheap confidence boost...

[@spectre3671]

Mr. Blunt why do you have to be like that. It isn't him that's closed minded, it's your edgy ass. Honestly just listen to what he is saying and his passion put behind it. He obviously cares a lot about this. The stuff he is talking about isn't opinion on how to keep love, it is a fact

[@energysentry1841]

Diamonds formed under tremendous pressure, so does great leadership.

[@ochirbatnyamsuren3574]

Consistency is one of desirable qualities only. There are others. Life is rich.

[@raz9006]

Memorizing every single word! I watch it over and over again... Btw- Don't forget to brush your teeth ;)

[@SilencedButNotForgotten]

Same.

[@gladec3896]

This guy and my Ed Mylett have a great interview you might like, both do a great job

[@helen.cabo.villanueva97]

sure

[@wasithpol]

Today I lost the person who taught me love and kindness, the first person who pulled me out of the darkness. The first person ever that i can proudly say that I loved. In my whole life before we met I was oblivious to love. Tears just wouldn't stop flowing I cried and cried for the whole day for the first time in my life I cried so much. I cried until I couldn't cry anymore I secretly cried in the room trying to not let anyone know. Even now as i kept typing this i can't stop myself. I just want someone to hear me out.

[@oo_o376]

Ing Ing -_- you knew what he meant... he was typing while crying... leave him alone.

[@kzzzc]

We hear and feel you bro, stay strong.

[@iggydadawg9712]

Ay man it's ok to cry when grieving. Stay strong for their sake too

[@josephmutori9769]

Me 2

[@johannefemillan4807]

Stay strong.. FOR GOD'S TIME IS THE BEST TIME.. GODBLESS

[@j3tstep]

One of the greatest relationships you can foster, is one with yourself. Nothing can stop you.

[@YourMom-xs8ov]

"Do you love your wife?" "Prove it" *stares blankly*

[@boyapatin9060]

how do you prove it?

[@raularmas317]

@@boyapatin9060 be accepting of them as you find them and then get to work at becoming the person who can add the most value to their lives while it makes you the better person for having exerted the effort to try. From K. Ghibran the profit "work is love made visible". Whether that work is building a bridge or simply doing the dishes and taking out the trash before the beloved person comes home.

[@doehetvoorgentstudent2113]

I went to say goodmorning to my crush. She said i was a pervert and had to leave her house or she would call the cops

[@renbipatton2311]

TheBig Whopper lol

[@no_one3249]

HAHAHHAH!!

[@no_one3249]

This made my day haha thank you xD

[@swastikbiswas8293]

Try again with "consistency" untill you become the most wanted man

[@adamant6184]

LMAO!

[@vladusa]

You know what else is consistent? The amount of times he said consistent

[@christiantaylor1495]

Good joke.

[@Eagle90able]

Vertilogy The key word

[@karmaakabane2165]

Reiteration

[@NewWorldOrderFilms2030]

The amount of times libtards say Russian collusion 😆

[@dontstalkmyaccount3096]

Its a type of writing style lots of people use in speeches, writing, poems, etc. to bring attention to a word, and imply there is a deeper meaning. Like "I had a Dream" by MLK

[@Handle6278]

It's not an impossible question. Love is the day we started putting them instead of us. It's when we made the choice to stay, to put your heart into it. It's the day you chose them.

[@otha00]

I remember the day I fell in love with my wife and there is no number that could be put on how much I love her. Love isn't about numbers it's about everything.

[@jeremymcquellen500]

These are some powerful words by markiplier

[@pieterlindeque7798]

Was looking for this.

[@feuillemorty]

Finally someone who see it too

[@maurice5726]

Wtf haha

[@universalistsnape8584]

So frikin true

[@matt.noble05]

Ruthless l3g3nd I see a young Alec Baldwin

[@nanitaheart]

The opposite is true. An accumulation of the wrong things will make you fall out of love.

[@martinp338]

Absolutely correct;)

[@beenay18]

but why does it hurts so bad. Its like losing your whole world and you have to rebuild it again. its been 10 years and I'm still fighting with hurt and pain it caused me. Its traumatic.

[@eminsarac9041]

):

[@johnxhina8857]

@@beenay18 Whatever happened to you, I wish you the best of luck getting over it and maybe you will be able to find someone new, who you can entrust your heart with.

[@RadleyAwesome]

@@beenay18 I'm there with you. Wish you the best of luck.

[@PositiveEnergy733]

Dear everyone, I wish you peace inside your soul. We are all light and all connected, don’t be scare, all gonna be ok. Your futur gonna be fantastic because you are fantastic. Thank you so much for your reading.

[@BH_Restorative_fitness]

Simon Sinek is a true Leader. Such an inspiration. Change My Mind.

[@Alice-kn9ii]

Before making her fall in love, make sure you want to. Because I fell in love and loved deeply and unconditionally for YEARS. And now he’s gone and I’m left with sorrow and questions and pain

[@NN-yt9bl]

im in a relationship where my heart is falling for her , but my brain is telling me you'll get hurt back off. and now i can't stop overthinking

[@beenay18]

@@NN-yt9bl I got hurt 10 years ago and its traumatic. Don't know how many mental breaks down I had during these years. But what needs to happen will happen. I don't think you can back down on anything. We can just try our best to be our best and love the best we can.

[@NN-yt9bl]

@@beenay18 thank u 😊

[@lifesabeach5405]

@@NN-yt9bl while you thinking about her, Chad and Tyrone are banging her brains out.

[@MikiWarhammer40k]

@@lifesabeach5405 bruh

[@christianjasonbacani2619]

“It’s not about the event. It’s not about the intensity. It’s about consistency.” I felt that

[@crackheadstuff6474]

This man is wise, true love is really not a one day or a one event thing. wise people know it takes time, but when it happens it's one of the most beautiful things in the world.

[@ogzbyrktr1]

Great speech. Thanks for all the influence you gave Simon Sinek. Consistency in love, in work or in everything we appriciate, maybe be the most important thing we must remind ourselves in these days.

[@dhananjaynaik6391]

It's a pity that people don't appreciate what is real. I think the day people start doing it, the world will be UNITY.

[@boogeyman2868]

like the one from rick n morty? that would be hot

[@Jin-di9zv]

@@boogeyman2868 don't

[@helen.cabo.villanueva97]

thanks

[@sjaa6183]

This hits me on such a personal level. Me and my girlfriend have our ups and downs but we always, always forgive each other. Yes sometimes it takes a while and you get mad at each other. Love isn't easy, falling in love is. Love is coming without fights, disagreements, and miss communications. But you get to know each other throughout this progress and allthough it takes a couple days for us to talk to each other again. We always happen to forgive each other. Cause I happen to believe love is the most powerfull thing in the world. This Motivates me to keep going.

[@dylanjackson5085]

You keep on walking .. your a good man I can tell just by the way you talk.. you truly know what it means to love some one.. honestly you keep going..cause the sad truth is many dont value this any more.. you keep going ..

[@TT-th1gb]

SJ AA Spoken like a true, emotionally stable, mature man bro👑 protect you & your lady love much success brother😎

[@lok6314]

believing what this guy says 100% is very very bad. Sometimes people just don't fit together...but doing what you doing you just prolong execution and nobody and literally nobody is getting better by it. People beating the shit our of each other or scolding each other and being in a toxic situation i don't call that a healthy relationship and doing the same thing over and over and hoping for better results is waste of time. People grow as individuals, and sometimes this is a point of breaking, because one cannot neglect oneself in order to stay in a relationship just for comfort or what you call 'love'. Love is a feeling and state of being connected. I don't talk about butterflies, i talk about emotion. Point is..one day you started building a castle(relationship) only to figure out later along the line..it wasn't the caste that was the problem, it was that you build the castle on sand and things became unstable, very unstable and instead of taking it down, people sometimes keep building just to keep building... If you build a castle on solid ground, then this guy is right 100% but otherwise this guy ain't right, it depends on the situation. Sometimes its 1 of the 2 who is aware that not enough common ground (sand) and sometimes its both people that aware its sand but still building and wasting time. But in the end whether you succeed or fail, at least you learn something for the next project i hope and don't build on sand anymore and make sure the other new person is also not building on sand

[@regismarkv3208]

Comes to realize his girlfriend is banging his best friend Jeff.

[@seonl6339]

@@lok6314 well said. Just described my situation.

[@williamking1766]

This young man inspires me! Clear thinking and moving the paradigms I'm used to. Thanks!

[@MrFinancialWellness]

Simon Sinek is simply a genius of a man.. because this analysis and execution, am sure everyone who watches this video will understand his points.. simple put and he relates everything to the way we live day to day.. I love this.. thank you

[@eafindme]

Love is like quantum mechanics, if you don't measure it, the world is full of possibility. But if you do, you will break down the love into relativistic hatred.

[@dhruveshshahkar5325]

Woahhhh

[@Kairava]

Yes, there were some things off with the speech...

[@thanhvinhnguyento7069]

Wow, just wow

[@tingle2323]

True people actually fall apart bcoz they think that we fight it means our future is going to ruin ..they don't actually know what is relationship and family

[@neslisultan]

I measure everything about my relationships, it’s hell for my boyfriend 😝

[@undeadman7676]

Nothing’s worse than letting people rely on you only to have them ignore you when you need them the most. Nothing’s better than letting somebody rely on you and having them fall in love with you enough to reciprocate. If you want love, expect to go through the bad a million times over before you get that one moment of gratification. Life isn’t about the joy. It’s about what you hurt yourself to achieve.

[@lok6314]

Life is about joy as end product, and it seems you made bad decisions and by doing so you begin to say things like you say, based on your personal experience which is fine, everybody does that. Many people think like you think they have a clue of what life is. I Disagree i would say, you have a clue about what life is, but not what is is suppose to be...thats a big difference. One is without a goal and reckless decision making based on thought or emotion, and the other is with a goal in mind making wise decision based on thought and emotion. We all fail sometimes, but pick yourself back up set the goal and try to aim for it. Because happiness and love comes from inside not outside, those who get it from outside, will always be slaves of circumstances of other people. If you want people to love you..then the chance is big you are empty inside.... If you don't care if people hate or love you but you in return choose to love as a standard, chances are high you are not that empty inside anymore

[@CatineSkyi]

If you truly love someone, you'd do anything for them and not expect anything in return (just like parents). If they reciprocate, that's a bonus. I've had bad experiences too which gave me this perspective cos it's easier to not expect reciprocation than to spend energy getting upset, or mad when you expect reciprocation and it doesn't happen.

[@vaporeon344]

This video taught me so much. I was worried of getting used in the past, I never thought those simple acts and selflessness were so significant. It was a perspective I never saw, that openness could be what I need for the future. Thank you, honestly.

[@chingbachiller2613]

You're an awesome Simon. Such a good leader. God bless.

[@rebeccab4519]

He's right, consistency is the key. I didn't know it until a man show me. I've to learn to receive but I feel blessed today

[@georgetashjian2178]

The other guy was like: did i do all that shit ???? Idk i will just agree

[@NathalieLazo]

You explained this really well! Thanks for the great point about consistency. :) I'll remember this for next time!

[@SA-de4lc]

@@NathalieLazo I also know the importance of consistency but just can't maintain it. How can you cope with it? Any suggestion would be highly appreciated. Take care & thanks in advance.

[@NathalieLazo]

@@SA-de4lc That is a really good question! Some people have been blessed with consistency and some others have to work a little harder on it but the best advice I can give you is always have a goal in front of you, something that naturally motivates you or makes you tick and consistency won’t run short because you found something that motives you to go after it. It can be anything! Anything at all! Hope this helps my friend! You’re awesome! 🙌🏼❤️

[@ellainel.3651]

Yeah he is right, I had a crush with someone. Then one day that man confess his feelings to me but I stepback because he is not CONSISTENT with his action... I dont feel he really mean it. So though I like him, I choose to stepback.. I want him to prove it first but now he dont do anything... He dont even message me unless i post pretty pics of me. 😢 Its my first time to meet a person who hv mutual feelings but. I am looking for someone who is GENUINE...praying to God to meet that man someday.

[@dannyboycinco]

It took me watching this video to realize that getting into and maintaining a relationship is a skill that you can master like any other. I put so much of my self development to focus only on my fitness/diet and business that I completely neglected my amazing girlfriend that put up with my lousy relationship skills for 3 years before finally leaving me. That changes today. I really needed to see this. Thank you.

[@tonythegreat4275]

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[@davorebo5790]

Nothing wrong focusing on yourself and your goals. It’s the masculine energy and security that women love.

[@laquzoeshiyasha]

@@davorebo5790 he should focus on himself, his partner and the bond between the two

[@luc6284]

Same man. Except my gf left after 15 months approximately. She is someone who works very hard for everything in her life. Constantly looking out for her loved ones, getting the best grades in university, and helping everyone with chores. She gave me many presents and she organised dates, while I didn't do that much at all. I wanted the best for her, but had no idea how. I kept letting her make all decisions because I thought that she'd always be happy with that. Can't make mistakes if you don't make choices. She was my first love so I really didn't know what it takes and how heartbreak feels, but when she went I realised all things that I could've done (better). Most important is communication, and I guess that somehow includes physical contact too, since it conveys the message "I love you" so much better than words ever can. I wish I had kissed her in the rain that one day in Amsterdam, it could've been amazing, but I didn't because I had doubts whether she wanted that, or if she wouldn't rather continue running to the nearest lunchroom. I should've done it anyway, but instead I waited for the moment to pass and think "better luck next time I guess". There never came a next time. Moments like these happened all the time, yet I rarely acted on it. I wish I'd just lived in the moment instead of making perfect plans for the future that never came. What do you have to lose is the question you should be asking. Unless someone can get hurt, just do it. Dance with her, kiss her, hold her hand and play hide and seek in the woods. There's nothing to be scared of. The worst that could happen is a no or some awkwardness, but does that really outweigh the potential for great memories? I don't think so

[@mikeyseo]

.........sadly this guy sinek seems a bit psychopathic to me. He doesnt understand what love is. and has enamoured his listeners with seemingly logical speech. what he can say is that he cares about the people he does know. but what he can not say is that he does love his wife. neither can he say that the other guy loved his wife. why? he doesnt know what love is. love is not a skill. LOVE is the resulting fruit that comes from sacrifice. its not when your dick gets hard. and its not when you can make a girl laugh. ill say it again, maybe you'll get it ... maybe you wont... LOVE is the RESULT that comes from SACRIFICE. if you figure this secret it out,., no girl in her right mind would ever leave you.

[@laurenthomas9574]

This was so powerful, and I loved every minute of it. The most powerful truths all in one speech. Thank you! ❤️🌈✨

[@samsheppard8957]

Only commenting so I get recommended more videos like this 👏

[@10uRization]

Cool

[@jayteaw]

Sam Sheppard good idea

[@HoaPham-zs1mh]

Wait is that how it works!?

[@boomafoo9]

Hoa Pham engaging with videos will tell the KZbin algorithm that you likely would watch similar videos if they where recommended

[@joshuaray04]

I need to start commenting then...

[@saltedllama2759]

Love is an action. An active and ongoing thing that requires work. You can't promise to love someone if you just a random compilation of firing chemicals and can fall in and out of it without a choice.

[@hisgheespot]

I love when People like Simon ..with 0 actual experience tell other people how to be successful

[@modestlakhnavi5637]

yeah these are conmam

[@bredanyambura8072]

I never thought of love that way. That was so deep. Thank you

[@niceguysayshi5765]

Im going to work out now

[@farhankutub6564]

Just keep doing it day in n out,otherwise it's nth😄

[@RubyXIII]

random stuff I did more than what I could handle woke up next day and could barely stand haven’t gone out since 🤣

[@ShawVishal]

Don't quit bro

[@olasunkanmijojolola1101]

Still holding up bro😂😂😂😂?

[@itsukiyuuto3509]

I wanna get a little bit fat first

[@lamiaasoufi2623]

He scared the hell out of him when he put the question “ do u love ur wife !? “ out of nowhere 😂😂😂

[@shampiresr7684]

Same and then he replied "yes" suddenly, for the fact he had no other option

[@gagespoon1570]

Hahahahahahaha

[@b.viewer]

This mr simon was incredible, he is truely convincing speaker. He has perfect ideas, speech, so motivating

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Whoever reading this, God knows what you are facing through, He heard your cry, He is going to deliver you Just trust in him. Amen.💕

[@robertthomas4063]

I love that you took the time to pen this. Thank you! ❤️

[@r.t.dominguez1717]

I wish I bumped into this video seven months ago, I would've been able to save my failed relationship!😢 i am grateful now that I bumped into it, coz this will save my future one!😔

[@r.t.dominguez1717]

Finrod... thank you!

[@blackbeard108th5]

I wish I watch this

[@DivineProphetessCoral]

That doesn't make sense because if you love someone you show them. You don't love them? Let them go then.

[@hun73rentertainment76]

Move on.....

[@kindnesshappiness9715]

Dnt...worry hate gona do great 🤗💪

[@Ryan-zt1lu]

It’s not about the events, it’s not about the intensity, it’s about the consistency

[@sarikasikand6645]

Totally love it! So uplifting and empowering! I love you!!

[@alishavorster4325]

Wow. I wish every man understood the depth of relationships and life, the way this great guy does. Love you're great soul

[@arturotorres6437]

First time I saw Thomas Bilyeu, was him interviewing Jay Shetty and now this fella, Simon Sinek. I'm digging this style and format. Thomas Bilyeu is a great interviewer, he knows how to keep quiet, express himself in the right moments, and smile or keep a straight face when active listening. I really dislike interviewers who keep jabbering on about, like "right...right, uh-huh, okay, yeah"

[@danielwilliams3378]

The problem is love sometimes doesn't work like an exercise. Why would you waste your effort, time and money for someone who doesn't even care about you? If from the very beginning you know that she is not into you, just leave her, don't let yourself hurt by someone who doesn't deserve you. Don't chase love, love will chase you when the time has come.

[@raifonthecomeup8458]

If that's your advice then everyone is gonna wait for love to chase them...

[@carycaruso]

@@raifonthecomeup8458 He means figuratively. Not literally. Too many people chase love hoping for it to work out, but love isn't that simple. It happens naturally. You can't create superficial love. Technically you can, but it won't necessarily last.

[@mattr85]

Love is selfless and does not do so for reward.

[@mbakisisibanda6191]

the most mature, wel thought reply

[@danielwilliams3378]

@@mbakisisibanda6191 *based on experience lol. Kinda hurts but I gotta learn from it and share with others.

[@jillfuller8086]

WONDERFUL, INSIGHTFUL, Simon you are an amazing speaker. I cannot get enough:)

[@larisasirbu4991]

The relationships part is the most real part. We cannot do hard things alone. When we are brave we are the sum of all the people that gave us the support and love and confidence that we will continue to be so even if we fail. Courage is being willing to be wrong or to fail for something you belive in. This is how I see it.