How To Find Your Personal Style 👗 Confidence In Clothing

[@lucretiaberke5247]

I love the tip about "downgrading" your clothes. There's no reason you can't wear your "nice" clothes on the daily, especially since we're not leaving the house a lot due to covid. If it makes you feel good, wear it!

[@clairemarusin5635]

Any day where I'm not going anywhere (meaning to the grocery store because, well, covid) and I am not wearing exercise leggings and a tshirt, someone in my household inevitably asks if I'm going somewhere or if I'm doing laundry (the tables have turned). I'm so "over" wearing leggings and a tshirt all the time, so "dressing nicely" is now downgraded for my everyday wear.

[@InThisEssayIWill...]

Ugh, I'm working from home due to the pandemic now and I miss my nice office clothes so much, but I have 4 cats so I can't wear them on the daily because: claws. Don't get me wrong I love my babies and having a cat on my lap 95% of the time is nice but I miss feeling fancy! 😭

[@elenalenaiva]

@@clairemarusin5635 I don't get how leggins got to be the default comfy clothes in the first place! It's... so strange to me! It's a tight synthetic garment, how can it be more comfortable than baggy pants or a skirt?

[@raraavis7782]

@@elenalenaiva Well...sports leggins are synthetic, that's true (although good ones are also breathable and moisture 'transporting', if not absorbing, so they don't actually have the downsides, usually associated with synthetic fiber clothing), but there are also plain cotton ones available. My 'everyday wear' outfit are black cotton leggins (94%cotton, 6% elasthan) and cotton t-shirts/sweaters...not because I'm lazy, but because I need practical clothing, I can freely move in and that dry quickly and don't require ironing or other upkeep. They're also inexpensive and last very long. Unironed, much worn/washed baggy pants, would look even worse, imo and skirts aren't an option, when playing with kids. Too much hassle, making sure, you're always decent during physical play and you can't just slip on a second pair of warm trousers for outdoor activities, either. So, you know, 'live and let live'. The same garment will never fit everyone's lifetyle and taste.

[@elenalenaiva]

@@raraavis7782 thanks for giving me a different perspective! I see your point and I guess in your case leggins really are the best option. I personally don't like leggings, they are too tight, too loose or too short and, tbh, too revealing for my taste. So it's hard for me to understand how whole countries start wearing them everywhere all the time and proclaims them the default comfy clothes. Utilitarian? Yes. Comfy? Oh, I disagree. But to each their own, I guess :)

[@darthfiende1]

When I was in college, I dressed very ostentatiously and loved it. Bohemian/vintage with bright colors, chunky costume jewelry, and flowers in my hair. Then I started working from home full time and had no reason to dress up or go out. I started living in knit maxi dresses because I didn't like how my body looked anymore. Fast forward 10 years, and maxi dresses are my signature look. I get custom tailored ones with pockets from eShakti in jewel tones or black and pair them with duster cardigans in the winter. I've even started accessorizing a little bit again, even just at home. My fashion icon is an 80-year-old lady I once met who wore head to toe black, grey hair in a bun, and stunning jewelry. She looked like a queen. She said she had dressed this way since she was in her 20s, and I found that so inspirational. My style feels timeless and personal to me now. Even if I look out of place, I feel like me again.

[@P0nyl0ve]

Extra tip: your style doesn't have to be cohesive! or the same as existing styles

[@SaurabhYadav-hl3hn]

Yaa really no body rejected this type of feeling..best.. better than. I hope u understand...🙏🏻

[@foxxielane2196]

I am in my late twenties and I still dress the same as I was in my late teen, early twenties, and a lot of people told me that I dress too young for my age, I was like WHAT??? All my clothes still fit me, are in good condition and I feel comfortable in them, so I don't understand why do I need to change my entire wardrobe to "dress" my age. It is just so silly.

[@iampagliacci8923]

30 here, mom keeps telling me to "grow up" and "dress your age". It's depressing, really. Had to buy a new wardrobe though (in the same style), since I'm 6+ sizes smaller now, lol.

[@foxxielane2196]

@@iampagliacci8923 Since your clothes don't really fit you properly anymore, thus buying a whole new wardrobe is practical. And we just feel the most at ease in the style we like the most. I don't see there is any necessity to "dress your age". What we dressed then are considered old fashion or out of style now. So I also don't understand the definition of "dress your age". LOL

[@taraa4281]

With you right there I’m 25 and have clothes from when I was 13, I even have a cardigan from when I was 6 and I like them they still fit, why would I get rid of them??? It would just be a waste

[@foxxielane2196]

@@taraa4281 Agree. It is a shame that many don't view it this way.

[@clairemarusin5635]

My response to any comments like that is to ask if they're paying for it. I'll be more than happy to be completely frivolous (i.e., dressing my age when the clothes I have fit and I enjoy wearing them) on /their/ dime. I've gotten comments on my car (it's older than me), phone, etc.. and after asking if they are getting me a new one, thd person never made that comment again. Gotta love how people are willing to spend your hard earned money for you 🙄

[@pineappleupsidedowngirl3124]

Another tip for the initial wardrobe evaluation that I just read about in Elizabeth Cline's "The Conscious Closet" is to take note of the fabric content of your favorite pieces of clothing (in addition to cut, style, color, etc). Your clothes should *feel* nice and wear well, and knowing the fabrics you like will help a lot with making mindful clothing choices in the future.

[@katherinemorelle7115]

I’m currently building my wardrobe, pretty much from scratch. I’m sewing my own Historybounding wardrobe. And while I sos have a few items that I liked the cut of, I am slowly replacing those with natural fibres, because I think polyester is the devil. Especially as I live in the subtropics. Natural fibres are what I recommend for everyone. Polyester might be cheap, but it’s not comfortable, and it’s awful for the environment. Within those fibres, preferences vary. Cotton is breathable, relatively cheap, and can have some lovely prints. Silk is the best insulator, pound for pound, and can look very luxurious. Wool is so variable in hand- from super thick coats, to summer weight and very drapey. And wool has tartan and tweed! Linen is the best fibre for me, as it’s the most breathable, has some antibacterial properties, and will keep you cool and dry, and even cleaner- very important when you live in a humid soup! If I lived in a different climate, wool would likely be my favourite, if only because tweed. I live the look of a nice, big wool skirt. But because I do live in the depths of hell, it’s linen for me. Natural fibres are more expensive (though cotton can be very cheap), and that’s why I’m *slowly* replacing all my polyester, but they’re worth it. I’ve only replaced a few items, but they’re the ones I go for all the time now.

[@Keapix]

This is a great tip! I did this a little while ago, and it became very clear that I was always reaching for the viscose and modal items. I’d never noticed the pattern.

[@strawberry1025]

I think that's a very good point. I thought I liked cotton as it's so breathable meant to be good for sensitive skin, but in fact it makes for clunky looking clothing on me, is prone to shrink which I don't need with my very long legs and arms. It is also rough on my skin. My favourite fabric is viscose, all versions including heavy jersey. It hangs beautifully, doesn't shrink, is warm yet light and I love it.

[@dianakakis]

When this quarantine started i realized that if I kept only wearing my "nice" clothes for social events, they were going to stay in the closet for months, and started wearing them in my daily life and I've been feeling so happy with my style since I made that decision.

[@sapphirecamui6447]

Fantastic! good for you! I decided the same related to the "nice china" LOL I decided this about 2 years back that the only special occasions fiance and i have, are the christian holidays that we don't even care much about. This meant that i had these nice plates stashed away, hidden, while we were eating from mismatched plates. Some people can do wonders with mismatched plates - i'm not one of them. i found my old plates ugly and depressing. I use some of them for the cats as i want to try and reduce the amount of plastic in this house, and the old plates the cats were eating from were plastic. i didn't want to spend money on new plates since the ones i already had could do the job just fine. Now we eat from prettier plates and i couldn't be happier. :)

[@theresamarie6258]

I am definitely that person that wears a different style almost every day. I have never really been able to pinpoint a certain style. The only thing that is consistent in my style is that I only wear skirts and dresses. I have had to get over feeling odd being way more dressed up than everyone else. When I get together with my friends, they are all in jeans and t-shirts, while I'm in a nice dressy/casual dress or skirt and top. I don't mind anymore because I love to express myself through my clothing! Thanks for the video!

[@joannevroon3607]

That is precisely how I feel! Only skirts and dresses for me :) That is just what I feel comfortable in and then getting million comments that I look so dressy, but after years and years of that I've let go of feeling weird about it and accept that that is just being me. I like that I am not the only one! :D

[@JB-is4pm]

Same. I started in school but did not feel overdressed at all. Dresses and skirts became so much more comfortable to me than pants and I feel like it flatters my silhouette way better too. Now, whenever I wear jeans from time to time, I am so glad to take them off at the end of the day. 😪

[@MelodyLovelace]

Watching this as I sew a corset so I can live my 1890's Victorian England dreams ❤️

[@lc7894]

"You should wear the stuff that you want to wear most in the situations that you are in most, because that is going to be the majority of your life. There won't be enough special occasions." YES!

[@UnsortedSeeds]

My style is something I'll call comfortable-contemporary-vintage-androgenous-feminine-witch. Or whatever I feel like wearing from day to day. I honestly don't really care what others think. I frequently "over dress" for where I live, and I'm often stared at by people unironically walking around in public wearing literal pajamas or extremely I'll-fitting clothing.

[@LolasTBs]

That style description is almost exactly how I dress as well! So happy to see I'm not the only one :p I do get those stares as well for my swooshy coat and witch hat 😂 I regret nothing ;p

[@UnsortedSeeds]

@@LolasTBs Exactly! That's the way to be. People are going to judge no matter what you wear, so just attire yourself in things that make you feel happy. Others don't matter when it comes to this at all

[@chezamoonangelaiemma497]

I love vintage clothing especially around the 30's to 50's mixed with professional/comfortable items. I mostly wear black pants and long maxi skirts with pop of color of tops. I also love wearing hats wide brim or tea parties hat. Love it😍💓💕 most of my vintage clothing I get in thrift shops. Yes I highly agree that I always save my favorite clothing because it is to much but why do I do that? It's been a year since covid-19 they I stopped caring about my appearance and it has a negative effect on my self-esteem. But my mom kicked me back to my senses and I am working out, started a hair growth journey/recovery and I am so much better now. Support system people it helps.😍😊👍

[@melima_]

The Lockdown actually helped me find my style more, bc I only wore my new-ish outfits at home so I got used to them and got very comfortable in, so now I'm confident to wear them to 'the outside'

[@nutkja]

This was by far the BEST video on finding your personal style. I really like the recommendation to look at your favorite and least favorite items and really think about why you like/don’t like them. Also about going through and looking for similarities in your pinterest board. As a sidenote, I really love your content. It’s kind of a weird thing to say but you and I look somewhat similar. (My father’s side of the family was Dutch so maybe that’s why). I feel like there aren’t many people who look like me. We both have round faces, smaller foreheads, dark brown hair, hip dips, etc. To see someone who celebrates those features has made it easier for me to love my own body and features. Thank you so much for being such a great positive force. 😊

[@hazeleyeartist]

Love this video idea! A few years ago I decided I wanted to dress like an elven/witchy fairy. I am known to wear full on Arwen waterfall bell sleeve dresses and a flower crown, to pickup my take-out. People who know me expect it and strangers look curious and then usually compliment me. I also wear jeans, t-shirts, and converse when I feel like it.

[@katherinemorelle7115]

My current style is Historybounding. And not all the same eras. I do love me some late Victorian/Edwardian, but I’m also currently working on an 18th cnsntury working class outfit for daily wear (think outlander season 1 but a bit more neutral). And there’s an 1860s skirt and Garibaldi blouse in my future (though with petticoats, no crinoline). Basically, any era that appeals, from late medieval, through to Edwardian. That’s about a 500 year span, so I have plenty to choose from. It’s not one cohesive style, but it makes me happy.

[@Keapix]

That sounds very cool. Edwardian dresses feature heavily in my pins, along with Grecian goddesses and LOTR elves.

[@j.totheworld]

I agree that special occasion clothing tends to sit in the closet for too long, but i find there’s value in not wearing my favourite clothes very often, because it makes the days when i do wear my favourites extra special!

[@riseabovehate44]

Thank you so much! I love all the tips and will definitely be using them. Another tip which relates to the ones you said is don't let people pressure you to wear something you don't like or don't feel comfortable wearing. When I was growing up I had my mom, my sister, and my grandmother telling me what I looked good in and what I should wear. I felt uncomfortable and not myself anytime I wore what they told me too. Now that I'm older and out on my own I'm finally starting to find what I like and what feels like me.

[@Loepsie]

Definitely!!

[@modernintrovert9905]

Oh, my word, you are so right, you know I have been buying and hoarding fabric for all of the garments I want to make and have been too afraid to make and wear for fear of being judged. I feel foolish that I have not been honest to myself and others for not representing myself accurately in my style. I also now intend to make these garments and wear them on the daily, as I also have very few special occasions to wear them- so, why can't I feel lovely and confident all of the time. I also have different styles that I love, one of which is boho; so sometimes Im a slave to my moods.Great tips Loepsie; many thanks and I watch you avidly.

[@isabellapattinson1437]

These tips are actually doable. Thank you so much for sharing these tips❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love your hair in this video 🤩🤩🤩

[@hannahr9177]

Needed this. Chronic illnesses and lockdown have decimated my personal style as I am now mainly in PJ's and lounge wear. Looking forward to getting back into my faves 🙌🏼💕

[@mayg9933]

Love the video. You always so kind in your explanations. For me personally I just get more goth over the years. Turns out it wasn’t just a teenage phase

[@lolaevergreen9077]

This was super helpful! Very excited to make a pinterest board and organize my closet tomorrow :D I also really liked the tip about altering existing garments to better fit your style if possible. In the past I might have donated or sold something with nice fabric that I could have made into something else instead. And I'm always looking for new sewing projects these days!

[@nicolestewart]

Wow! This video is Gold! These are excellent tips. I think when you mentioned about downgrading your favorite items is an amazing idea. I have many outfits that just remain in my wardrobe looking pretty instead of actually wearing them. I'm always wearing the same same all the time. That's it! I'm gonna try all of your tips. Thanks so much . I will save this video for years so I can refer to it often. 😁🥰🤗❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍

[@HeidiTurnitsa]

This is the best finding your personal style video I’ve seen! It was so doable and the right combination of general and specific advice

[@valentinarampa5189]

This video is so helpful! I'm going to pinterest right now and look at outfits 😊

[@jeng1395]

I love all things 70s, I’ll do 70s Western boho one day, Gloia Steinem 70s journalist the next, sweet Gunne Sax skirt with a turtleneck and boots another day. It all makes me happy and I get excited every day to get dressed for work (middle school Spanish teacher.)

[@emma55584]

Thank you this is great ! Also made me realize that all of my favorite clothes are green 😂

[@piratelvr35]

Green, cream, and grey/taupe for me... guess I like neutrals. Lol

[@P0nyl0ve]

Same!

[@Kasiarzynka]

Me, who is just getting into sewing my own clothes: oh, so Loepsie has a video on finding your personal style, thanks, youtube, this is just what I need **clicks** The video: **was uploaded an hour ago** Me: **surprised Pikachu face**

[@warrenpeace7903]

Love you and your channel Loepsie 🖤

[@lizZLupin]

Thank you so much. You've inspired me to clean out my wardrobe! ❤

[@bethlekas4994]

I've been on a journey to refine my style lately so this is super helpful! It also inspired me to look at my clothing Pinterest boards from when I was in high school to see how much my style has changed and it's crazy how many things on there made me go "why would I have ever pinned THAT"

[@violetstarla]

I love your advise on super nice clothes I always wait for special occasions which hardly come and have such beautiful dresses and clothes just hanging out perfectly untouched in my wardrobe. I dream of wearing them and get sad not knowing when the right time will come. I have to to put your advise to good practice, Thanks for the tip I literally never had anyone say that to me. I just try to keep everything immaculate but in the end it really is a waste of time unless your clothes are loved.

[@Verdi.and.violet]

Love this step by step process! I literally just sat down to re-evaluate my wardrobe the other day, so this is super helpful! Can you talk more about curating? I feel like it’s hard to just go out and buy a ton of new pieces.

[@MyLoVeLyMaN]

My fave combo is long skirt, boots, blazer

[@Geneselli]

I love ur style ur outfits are beautiful! 🧡🧡🧡

[@Loepsie]

Thank you so much!

[@annaradcliffe]

I'd add that you don't need to worry about choosing a pre-existing style category (boho, goth, preppy, etc.) because your personal preferences are probably more unique than that, and might include elements of different styles. For me it's worked well to focus on what items I like (cowboy boots, cropped blazers, racerback tops, and so on) and how they work together. That way you end up with a personal style that's really personal!

[@MeMe-Moi]

Just a suggestion, but consider whether your personal style is appropriate for your work environment. It may be necessary to have a separate work wardrobe that is more in line with the requirements of your job. For example, if your style is very casual but you work in a very formal office, you will need to maintain the formal clothes for the office and save your more personally appealing styles for your time outside of work. Likewise, a vintage inspired tailored suit or dress might be a good fit in a formal office, but it would not work so well for a preschool teacher. I like to plan my wardrobe around my activities, and use my personal style to guide the styles of the garments I need to participate in my daily life.

[@shachardl5360]

Sometimes a person's style don't completely match their lifestyle/job. I work in a hospital, wearing a white coat, a plastic face cover and comfy shoes, and twice a week in a kindergarten, wearing clothes I'm not afraid to get dirty by food, colors etc. However, my dream style actually turned to be more elegant then that, so I compromise with my outfits almost every day...

[@Martina_E]

Great and realistic tips! At the start of the lockdown I did not wear any of my 'nice' clothes then this year I started being intentional and started wearing my 'nice' clothes. It made me realize what I really like. Plus I'm used to getting I look so dressed up and have to deal with that. By the way I like your sweater. Where did you get it?

[@Lily_and_River]

I have been really interested in Japanese fashion (fairy kei, Lolita, larme) for years and I've tried to transform my wardrobe into these styles. I started to add a lot of pastels and get rid of dark blues, greys and earthy tones. I also still liked black but that was easy to combine with pastel for a pastel goth or Japanese look aswell. But I do feel that I still don't really have enough items to be serious enough with the fairy kei look sometimes. Like you say, it's hard to overdress especially with an alternative style. I bought a lot of accesoires but find it hard to go all out. Also I'm a couple years later and I like a more vintage look lately. I still prefer pastels but also would love to wear more earth tones, ocre yellow, brown, green. But I'm feeling quite lost what to do at the moment. Do I let go of the Japanese thing while feeling I never really got there and did it right? Or do I go for both styles, what I would love but that would mean a lot of clothes in different colours which don't really mix together. More like two separate wardrobes. Does anyone else have this dilemma?

[@jliA7]

I've also liked two different styles for awhile now. Other is very romantic, girly & feminine style (lots of florals, dresses and skirts, pink etc) and other is quite modern, casual, just basic style I guess (like some cute earthy toned sweaters, jeans). I don't know why I like these two very different styles and it is hard to try to build a wardrobe around it. Lately I've been feeling a bit overwhelmed with the whole what is my style-thing and I think I'll just take a break from it. I don't feel like using so much energy and also money because of it anymore. I'm thinking of going for a very simple capsule wardrobe and just doing more cute and feminine makeup and hairstyles lol. Anyway just wanted to reply because I can understand you. I hope you'll figure out what you like. Also maybe think what works for your life. For example, where I live (Finland) affects my style, because most of the year it is not ideal for floral dresses.. And maybe if you need, take a little break from the whole style/fashion dilemma and maybe the answer what style you prefer will become clearer then :)

[@Lily_and_River]

@@jliA7 thank you for your reply! It helps to know that I'm not alone in this! Yes it costs money aswell, it's not always possible to keep buying new clothes. Your two styles sound cute even though one is more casual. I still kinda hope it's possible for us to do both styles, but maybe you're right and it helps to let go a bit. A person also could be happy and look good when he/she wears something different every day. I also would love to buy more quality and sustainable clothes in the future. I don't really have the money right now.

[@jliA7]

@@Lily_and_River I think it is totally possible to do two different styles! It is possible to also keep the other one more like your everyday style and use the other one more like going out style, if that works. I also want to go for more sustainable clothes. There are some very nice sustainable clothing brands in my country that make so pretty sweaters, that I think I will just buy some of those and then wear them on repeat with my jeans for now haha. To be honest, I'm a bit tired of thinking about what to wear so much, I feel like I've used so much money because of it in the past few years.. I want to focus on other things for now on. My style has gone through too many stages. I've always loved different Japanese styles, especially Mori style. Good luck to you with your personal style journey! :)

[@Lily_and_River]

@@jliA7 yes if you feel that way, maybe you should take a break from it for a while and just wear what makes you comfortable. Good luck to you aswell!

[@eunicebugaian1397]

I always love styling videos and this one even more because is from Lucy!🤍😄

[@hundredandahalf1708]

Thank you for the advice. Love the glasses

[@scrapupsewist]

These are some amazing tips, thank you so much!

[@Firestream96]

So helpful thank you!! I've been going through this "find your style journey" lately and it's not been easy. I'm having some problems finding clothes that I actually like in stores, I used to buy clothes in fast fashion stops (Zara, H&M and such) but I'm trying to go for a more vintage style and I can't find those type of clothing there, not even long dresses and such! I can't afford expensive and I can't seem to find environmental friendly shops that sell vintage/cottagecore clothes and are cheap, thrift stores simply don't exist where I live 😓 would love some tips on this

[@jodywarren54]

Why don't you try learning to make your own clothes. I started learning to sew about a year ago and absolutely love it.

[@shwetashukla2871]

Mam your channel is just awesome 👌👌

[@elizabethdalloway]

I have a friend who owns an online clothes store. When she puts out certain pieces and I pick them, she always tells me: as soon as I saw that, I thought of you, it screamed your name! It’s the same kind of piece I was wearing when we met in high school 😄 my problem with looking at Pinterest is that the images I find are of lovely ladies who are super thin and I’m quite a curvy, chubby girl. Love the look, but I’ll never look good in that

[@jennifergrove2368]

I totally dress in "fancy" clothing *most* days. There are some days where I dress down. But I dress like how I eat. I try to be mindful of what I want to eat in the moment and don't worry too much about things like calories, carbs, fat, or whatever is deemed "bad". That's too much stress. (When I grocery shop is when I'm more future oriented.) Btw, what lipstick are you wearing in this? Beautiful shade!

[@AmeliaUnleashed]

Great tips! Thank you!! 👍🏻

[@eydie57]

Your hair looks amazing!

[@agimagi2158]

Look at what you have is a very good tip, especially if you do not feel like changing your entire wardrobe

[@russianvalkyrie2358]

OMG I love your glasses!! What brand are those?!?!

[@labhrais6957]

My style is comfort and modesty. Mostly just comfort. After having a baby my body changed and so did my style. I don't feel comfortable in dresses or tight clothing anymore 😑

[@pamiranashimkhanjada1206]

Hey! I love your all videos. You're looking very beautiful.

[@Loepsie]

Thank you so much 😊

[@greata80]

THANK YOU Much needed ♥👚

[@julieselden7932]

Darn, I have been subbed to you for a long time. I had it on all notifications, but I noticed you weren't putting anything on. I decided it was time to go looking for you since youtube is great and deleting me from people I sub to. Well, they didn't delete you instead they put me from all notifications to personal. Not sure what is up with that, but I was really mad. I'm so looking forward to seeing your wedding dress.

[@Loepsie]

Oh no! Glad to have you back 😄

[@elli3352]

I love your sweatshirt, where did you get it from? 😍

[@misspenguin1839]

I want to wear skirts and dresses for now a longer time but i for some reason do not feel comfortable in them as i am used to only wearing jeans i kinda wanna go into more cottagecore /historically inspired but i am broke any tips to feel comfortable in skirts or how to alter modern clothes into more vintage/historical

[@dingalingdongly]

Wearing something like bike shorts underneath! It helps while you're getting used to both the feel and how you might move a little differently in a skirt 🙂. Enjoy playing with your style and good luck finding new things you love!

[@alexiswhite4891]

Definetly layering skirts and dresses with leggings and bike shorts. Also you could use slips. I mostly wear dresses and skirts. I don’t like pants.

[@kirstenpaff8946]

One of the biggest reasons why I do not wear "nice" clothes is that nicer clothes look weird if you don't put some effort into the rest of your appearance (styled hair, nice shoes, possibly makeup) and that is just way too much effort (and in the case of the shoes discomfort) for me, especially considering most of my time is spent sitting alone at a desk, staring at a computer screen. If I am wearing something other than sneakers or hiking shoes, it had better be for a very good reason.

[@ChanyeolsHaneul]

Plaid/tartan and gingham is all I would wear if I could.

[@Loepsie]

You can 😏

[@sparrow6368]

Same

[@AshleySimpkins666]

I feel I have a style, I just wish I could make sense of it more if I could wear what i want more often (work gets in my way)

[@TheWoollyBat]

*Immediate save*

[@carysjones1925]

YES on the wearing your ‘nice’ clothes casually! When I started doing that a few years ago it really changed how much fun I had with my clothing - and my friends said I came across as confident because ‘yeah fuck you I WILL go out in public dressed like a hobbit and you CANT STOP ME’ 😂

[@payalsharma4036]

Which filters r u using to edit ur insta picture.....?

[@foodayskitchen7675]

Informative video😍

[@grozmeistere7504]

I know what my style is. But I have so much trouble finding clothes I like. Never feel the spark somehow. But what is really weird is that I really cannot handle broken clothes because I find it nearly impossible to replace them even if the item seesms so basic. I had a black jersey T-Shirt dress once and it was my go to item for almost everything. After it got two huge holes into it I had to replace it. But I wouldn't find something. Because I hate it when the Details are wrong. It needed to have a short regular t-shirt sleeve but not cut in an angle, no v-shape collar, no pockets on the bust, it had to be high waist and fitted on the bust and flared under the waist. I should stop above my knees, maybe higher. Impossible! There are a lot of similar dresses after all it's a basic dress. But not a single one had the details I liked. Now I have two similar dresses so I can replace it. And I hate both of them because I don't Like how they look and how they feel. Am I crazy or do other people have the same problem?

[@ishachayil820]

I know how you feel! I always have this vision in my head and then can't find the exact item. So I am so glad I learned to sew, because now I can make my dream item. Perhaps you can try taking up sewing? A dress like you decribe should not be difficult to make

[@dingalingdongly]

If you still have the worn out dress, you may be able to take it to a tailor who can make a pattern from it and sew up a new one! It may cost more than the original dress, but it will save you time and heartache not having to buy versions that aren't what you actually want.

[@grozmeistere7504]

@@ishachayil820 thanks for the answer. I thought about it too. Have to think about it more. I tried hand sewing a bit and it works for shitty costumes for Halloween and stuff. That really is not so much for me. I guess if a have to try with a sewing machine

[@grozmeistere7504]

@@dingalingdongly thanks for the answer. I think I don't have it anymore. But it's a general thing for me. The dress was Just an example out a lot of clothes. At the end it might be too expensive for clothes that might cost just about 5-15 Euros in a shop. But maybe it's an idea for when I start to have a disposable income.

[@clueless_cutie]

I feel a bit like an ugly duckling because my style is basically sweatshirts, jeans and graphic t-shirts mixed with yoga pants and sneakers. I've attempted to expand into dresses and "nicer" more feminine casual clothes but I just can't seem to find what I like or what feels right. I think my struggles with weight have ruined my attempts to form a style, or elevate my style, because I'm just trying to scrounge up what still fits. Which is just depressing all things considered.

[@annakilifa331]

If you don't want to wear dresses and feminine clothing in general and just don't feel comfortable in them, there is nothing wrong with that and it doesn't make you an ugly duckling. If you feel comfortable in your sweaters and jeans and all that and if those clothes make you happy then there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and you should just keep wearing those things. It sounds like they don't exactly make you happy though and like you might have self-esteem and self image issues that might stem from some weight issues and that is a bit harder to give advice on. Firstly those things often go hand in hand with some other mental health problems or personal challenges and it might help you to get therapy. That doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you, just that it might help you to get to a happier place in life if you have someone professional to talk to about those things, both the self-esteem issues and any possible other things related to them, if they exist. Of course that greatly depends on your specific situation and how available therapy is to you and I don't know your actual mental situation so I guess I might be overstepping a bit here, in the end you have to decide for yourself whether that is something that applies to you. Other than that, when this whole pandemic situation is over, you could go to stores and just try on anything that you think looks remotely interesting. You don't have to buy anything, just try everything on, even if you think that you wouldn't actually wear it, just try on everything that looks interesting to you, no matter if you think it would suit you or if you would ever feel comfortable in it. Try on all those things, look at yourself in the mirror and try to determine why you thought it looked interesting, what about it looks interesting and how you feel about wearing it and what aspects of it make you feel good or bad about wearing it. That might give you a much better idea of what you like than your favourite and least favourite clothes that you already own, especially if you aren't all that happy with the current content of your wardrobe. It also helps you to keep an open mind about what you might like and what might suit you and you might discover things that you would have never thought about otherwise. That said, it is hard to replicate that effect without physical stores to go to, because the internet doesn't show you what clothes would look like on you specifically and how you would feel when wearing them.

[@crowfaerymori]

The downgrading is a great idea!

[@mcwjes]

I'm aiming for "Secret mermaid, Donna Reed going on a picnic in a field of wild flowers" but mostly end up in "theme park tourist only brought one pair of pants" territory.

[@okcampmerricat]

This is wonderful.

[@natalieo7539]

How do you overcome laziness when it comes to fashion, i wanna look cute, or nice but then when it comes to makeup or hair I give up, if I have to use more than 1 bobby pin I give up. I don't want to have a really nice outfit and have my hair and makeup clash with my nice clothing.

[@kotadawndragon]

For hair, if you truly don't want to put in much effort, try finding a haircut that has minimal styling requirements and always work WITH your hair texture instead of against it. It's amazing how much effort this saves. For makeup, if you don't want to wear any, don't! However, if you do, try finding a pretty but minimal makeup look that maybe takes 5 minutes to do. If you want some variety, try a different hair accessory or different lipstick/eyeshadow. As long as you're well-groomed and neat when wearing your nice clothing, then it shouldn't clash.

[@Loepsie]

I have a very simple, basic "go-to routine" I do to look put together when I can't be bothered to do my hair and makeup (which is most days). I pull the top half of my hair back with a claw clip, which takes two seconds but makes it look like I did something with my hair. My makeup routine is just concealer, eyeliner and mascara, but I often go without as well. No makeup doesn't necessarily clash with "nice" clothing, it has more to do with how you carry yourself. It's another mindset shift :)

[@LolasTBs]

For me I stopped feeling bad for just wearing my hair down when I started colouring it! Now I feel like it has enough "interest" in its own :)

[@newchapterasmr]

That pink dress from the thumbnail looks gorgeous, did you make it?

[@Loepsie]

No, it's a Son de Flor dress 😊

[@newchapterasmr]

@@Loepsie I just quickly looked at their stuff and it is just beautiful. Too bad it's way out of my price range

[@ContemporaryMeepsie]

I'd love to see your personal style journey.

[@Loepsie]

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[@ContemporaryMeepsie]

@@Loepsie Thank you!

[@latoletole18]

I used to be dressed always in black with a rocker style since high school and now that I'm 31 I got tired of only black in my life and I started dressing in colours. Problem is I'm still figuring out what colours I like and which one fits well with my skin... as a result, I change all the time my style. I feel that idk what I like anymore or what is my style for real as a grown woman 😓

[@bowenarrows7819]

Kind of in the same boat. I like getting things secondhand at the moment, because if I try a new style or color, and eventually decide it's not for me, I don't feel as bad donating it back. There are some things I like that I don't realize have traits in common, then suddenly it dawns on me "oh, look at all this green or grey, I guess that means I like those colors", "these all have embellishments, I guess that means I like embellishments". We have so many years ahead of us, I think it's ok for us to be experimenting throughout our lives. Who we are is ever changing, why shouldn't our likes and dislikes be a part of that process? :)

[@غفرانمحمود-غ7ظ]

الجمال 😍❤️

[@shwetashukla2871]

Love you mam 😘😘

[@jjackie26]

I love vintage clothing... I just don’t feel like it would look right on me. As of late I’ve just been wearing leggings and t-shirts.

[@Lily_and_River]

Maybe you can try to wear a circle skirt or dress once in a while... I think you're probably just not used to it yet but that doesn't mean it doesn't look good on you. Ask a friend who knows you well and will be honest what she thinks.

[@LixiaWinter]

Vintage is not only full skirts and matching gloves and hats. It has many laid back casual styles

[@Lily_and_River]

@@LixiaWinter that's true aswell, you could also start with high waist pants and tuck your shirt in for example

[@qb5257]

I want to dress vintage I’m just scared 😅

[@warrenpeace7903]

First 🖤

[@КошкаМур-х3и]

❤️

[@shwetashukla2871]

Mam please give me one reply i m really really like your channel ❤️❤️

[@Loepsie]

Thank you so much 😀

[@caterichards1841]

Style in the U.S. is just so casual it makes me sad 😢

[@zwatwashdc]

Uhm, sweats, when I change out of my jammies, that is.

[@munawariftkhar1620]

I don't have what I want to wear

[@SaurabhYadav-hl3hn]

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[@SaurabhYadav-hl3hn]

My Instagram account is now these days log out by me but he is on my Instagram family friends 😘😘😘😂😂

[@jmcprotech9670]

Sorry but I feel cheated I was really looking forward to seeing you in them two outfits on the front of the cover of your video the two Dresses however you do look great in that vintage pink jumper

[@SemekiIzuio]

Plain colored t shirt/top, jeans and sneakers. That is all I wear ever worn, cheapest clothing ever. Apparently that's not feminine enough? People want me to wear less clothing, show more skin or wear dresses and skirts for "fancy" girly image. I dont want to be looked at.

[@dogsforever5707]

My style is homosexual which means any clothing that will get a girl to complement me

[@danhurl1349]

My style appears to be confused historybounding/fantasy adventurer